A lot of people (mostly men, from what I've noticed) in the redpill/manosphere community seem to believe that women are completely turned off by adult men who are inexperienced or virgins. Do women in the real world actually believe this?

Sometimes, I can kind of see why you might be hesitant to date a guy who's inexperienced. But honestly, I've come to realize that having relationship is really nothing to be proud of, and doesn't make you a better person. There are tons of degenerate, broke drug addicted loser bums, cheaters, abusers, and criminals who've all been in relationships. If you look at the worst people in history (be it dictators, serial killers, etc), chances are they still had success with women. Were Adolf Hitler and Ted Bundy better people because they had girlfriends?

I also think that women should be sympathetic to the male experience when it comes to dating. As women, you take the passive role, you basically just sit back and wait for a guy to approach you. As men, we have to actually put in effort and try if we want a relationship. So I don't think women should be criticizing men for not being in relationships when they themselves have never had to put in any effort to get one. It's sort of like a rich kid who's born into a wealthy family making fun of the poor kid.

If an adult man is an otherwise good person, but just hasn't been in a relationship for one reason or another, is it always a huge red flag?