Daily Community Chat Megathread

OutdatedBoy104 · 2023-12-10T07:15:37+00:00

It's not wrong to want a virgin gf

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-10T07:05:15+00:00

Q4M: Would you date a woman who’s bigger than you? Not fat, but very tall and beefy with larger hands and feet, a thicker neck, and broader shoulders than yours.

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-12-10T07:04:44+00:00

The women on social media who always whine about how 50/50 men are "not real men" are usually the most unattractive, most traumatized, lowest vibrational women on the planet. These are the women that no decent man has ever considered spending money on, and thus they lash out at the entire male gender in order to briefly feel better about their miserable low-vibrational lives. They're basically the female equivalent of blackpilled incel men who hop into the DMs of random hot chicks to call them "ugly whores". Cheap dopamine hits, but zero actual self-reflection.

monster_lily · 2023-12-10T07:04:07+00:00

I wish i had An accent

monster_lily · 2023-12-10T06:54:07+00:00

Guys theres a tradition at a wedding where the groom would spray money at the bride until she smiles and you’re NOT supposed to smile Cuz its supposed to represent how like youre worth more than money and no amount of money can satisfy you except ur husband or whatever but im saying i would FAIL so hard and embarrass myself cuz i dead laugh at every single thing like im giggling rn typing this

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-10T06:47:47+00:00

pro tip for my starvation girlies miso soup is like 200 calories and really filling and I eated it too often and became anemic for a while 10/10 you won't even realize why you're tired

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-10T06:14:44+00:00

I just ate several table spoons of hot sauce.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-12-10T05:53:36+00:00

Why would you do this?🤦‍♂️

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dS2c4B_GKW8

OutdatedBoy104 · 2023-12-10T05:43:27+00:00

I was the third wheel with a friend and his gf yesterday. We went out to play board games together. Although i did not feel neglected since i got to interact with both of them, i felt like a cuck being there alone while he was with his gf.

To make matters worse, there were many couples there too, many girls accompanied by their bfs, many young couples while i am a virgin at 21. I mean, many of those couples must have lost their virginities to each other while i just can't fond a virgin gf. Perhaps if my friend wasn't such an inconsiderate piece of shit he'd find a virgin female friend of his or his gf's to introduce me to, but i think he likes to humiliate me like that.

I tried, alright, i really tried to keep a positive mindset, to keep my head upright and not lose hope, however i just can't anymore, i can't keep myself from becoming bitter. I am a good man. Although i struggled with depression and dropped out of college, i got a job and went back to (online) college, next year i am going to apply to a good college to study law. My only major flaw is being a bit overweight, but i've personally seen borderline obese men with girlfriends.

I put myself out there, i really do, i go out every weekend, i ask friends to set me up with virgin girls, i made social media accounts, but it doesn't "just happen" for me, it just doesn't.

I live in a crappy time on a crappy, promiscuous south-american hellhole in which girls lose their virginities at, like, 11, so finding a virgin gf at my age is like finding a needle in a haystack. Day after day i feel my life losing its meaning. Realistically, i ain't finding a virgin gf so my only actual goal is almost impossible, i stayed a virgin in a promiscuous, hypersexual world that hates me.

No matter what i do, how much i study, how much i work, how much money i make, in the end i am not entitled to a virgin gf, and it just hurts me. Day after day i fantasize about taking my own life, jumping off a skyscraper and spare myself of suffering.

Sometimes i just wish someone would just encourage me, you know? Like, "You can find a virgin gf, i believe in you" would be enough, it'd be enough for me to keep going, but no one else respects or believes in my dream. I wanted someone to put their trust in my dream, not even help me achieve it, but just believing would be enough.

The world isn't fair, i know that much, but men much worse than myself got to take several virginities while i, a decent man, am supposed to just not care about women's virginities? Hell, being decent leads fucking nowhere. A decent man is supposed to marry the bad men's leftovers and be happy about it. Is that shit fucking fair? Of course not, but who cares? Good men are supposed to jeopardize their self-respect just so that society can somewhat keep functioning, just barely.

I just want a virgin girlfriend, that's all. A girl who hasn't dated, kissed or fucked anyone, it shouldn't be that hard, but it is. I just can't fucking take it, i am at the verge of quitting my job because my depression is coming back, i just want to find a virgin gf, but it all feels so hopeless. I just want to be happy, damnit!

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-12-10T05:37:57+00:00

Feminism has no good answer for why women’s happiness has declined overall and relative to men.

md8716 · 2023-12-10T05:33:35+00:00

Shohei Ohtani signed with the Dodgers. They better get this man a fuckin chip now.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-12-10T05:31:09+00:00

Again it’s tourist season & the tourists have concerns (and judgements)

https://www.reddit.com/r/ThailandTourism/s/j6Df8Bfijw

sine120 · 2023-12-10T05:25:31+00:00

Is the cure to male loneliness just starting a private military company with your friends, or joining someone else's?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-10T04:39:44+00:00

😊 how detectable is chatgpt written code....

keebydee · 2023-12-10T04:36:11+00:00

Went to the mall today. Only guys complimented my outfit but I'll take what I can get. 😅

meteorness123 · 2023-12-10T03:42:44+00:00

baseball cap and a sweater look hot on women

saraimarsena · 2023-12-10T03:40:59+00:00

he’s FINALLY watching war for the planet of the apes with me !!!!!

this is my favorite fuckin movie. i’m so pumped

monster_lily · 2023-12-10T03:38:52+00:00

If My mom or anyone her age ever compliments my makeup or outfit it either means A my fits not hard and my makeup looks ugly or B i look good affff NO in betweens

missionglowup · 2023-12-10T03:31:48+00:00

i’m bored guys (and a little tipsy). talk to me :(

hannahg000 · 2023-12-10T03:23:54+00:00

does anyone else get random ass bruises?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-12-10T03:19:59+00:00

Q4A: Are you smarter than a 5th grader?

monster_lily · 2023-12-10T03:14:09+00:00

I honestly can notttt with nail polish sometimes like i hate when it gets all gummy and never dries no matter how thin AND the one i used is red so it aint coming off thats y im switching to gel soon

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-12-10T03:12:08+00:00

PPD women value anecdotal evidence only when it suits their agenda.

When a woman reports having negative experiences with men, her mistrust, or even outright hostility, towards men is validated and affirmed. It's used as evidence that there's something "wrong" with men and we need to "do better" in some way.

When a man reports having positive experiences with women it's used as a counterargument to manosphere talking points. An individual man's experience with a select few women is portrayed as debunking manosphere characterizations of women as a whole.

But when a man reports having negative experiences with women, the Female Internet Defense Force comes out in full swing. He is told that his experiences are an outlier, that most women are not like this, that he needs to interact with more women. His experiences are dismissed on the basis that he must be seeking out "bad women", and if he dares to express a smidge of mistrust towards women he is castigated as a misogynist.

TigerRude4 · 2023-12-10T02:57:53+00:00

I've always thought before that women are just as logical as men. Ppd women are trying really hard to convince me otherwise.

They lack basic reading comprehension, they always jump to conclusions, they often strawman your views and try to make them something disgusting and are often spreading demonstrably false stuff that could be checked very easily.

When debating, if possible I try to find some middle ground, with ppd women that's impossible.

(Not all, but pretty much all with whom I've debated)

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-12-10T02:53:52+00:00

I have to say, men getting dumped by their middle age wife for her best friend because they made the mistake of not being as homophobic as women are, is an even more ridiculous revenge fantasy than what some men here say the wall is like.

TigerRude4 · 2023-12-10T02:35:52+00:00

People don't want to be red pilled. Some red pilled guys really wish that the blue pill state is the truth. But they see it isn't. Being blue pill is the easiest thing in the world. It doesn't require any mental or physical struggle

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-10T02:35:23+00:00

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How are we supposed to have a positive outlook on men when they speak about women in this way? Nobody is forcing you to date women with high body counts or single mothers or anything on this list. Why announce if it’s not an attempt to humble and hurt women who have these characteristics?

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-12-10T02:34:06+00:00

Why are mustaches without beards not in style anymore? Saddam's mustache looked fly as hell(rest in power king).

TigerRude4 · 2023-12-10T02:34:06+00:00

I swear, almost every woman I debated with here lacks some reading comprehension. They just jump to conclusions and expect you to defend the point that they "think" you made.

saulbasedman · 2023-12-10T02:16:52+00:00

Just watched Oppenheimer. First 70% was great but after the bomb dropped (wow, big spoiler) the lawsuit and trial parts were reallyyy long and bored me out.

They easily could have halvened the trial part because no one finds it interesting to watch a boring court case. We're interested in the outcome and the dramatic parts.

Lastly, I would've liked to see more of Oppenheimer's internal struggle with his creation. In real life Oppenheimer fell into a deep depression yet that's barely explored in the movie.

In contrast to the title, the film is not really about Oppenheimer the man. It's more about the Manhattan project and its consequences.

monster_lily · 2023-12-10T02:03:45+00:00

Ok back to watching black swan

Guys do i have white swan or black swan energy like what would you cast me as

saulbasedman · 2023-12-10T01:55:10+00:00

God I hope that the girl I'll lose my virginity to has her pussy groomed. If I see a giant bush down there I'll be traumatised and instantly get soft.

Do women have this with men as well? I know they're scared about microdicks but what about bodyhair?

saraimarsena · 2023-12-10T01:32:19+00:00

are there any normie/successful/fairly happy young guys here ? like 21-28

most of the young guys seem to be super incelly

monster_lily · 2023-12-10T01:29:00+00:00

Man i hate when horror movies are just creepy for no reason my fucking dad put on a movie called leave the world behind and theres literally no plot its just a collection of weird/creepy scenes with. no point or message or plot now im PISSED

bluepvtstorm · 2023-12-10T01:23:15+00:00

This is going to sound so mean but I genuinely despise when men with kids try to date me. I don’t have kids on purpose. I don’t want my life or schedule or finances to be dictated by kids.

I hate it so much and they get so mad when I tell them no, thank you.

OutdatedBoy104 · 2023-12-10T01:21:45+00:00

I just want a virgin gf.

dbz__f · 2023-12-10T01:14:03+00:00

Put so much effort into writing a long and beautiful heartfelt message on the card and first thing she says when she reads it is “did you use chat gpt to write this?”

butagoodpersonality · 2023-12-10T00:46:46+00:00

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dbz__f · 2023-12-10T00:43:32+00:00

My gf is always coming down hard on my ass for blowing away money on stupid things like drinks and gambling and video games, so when I buy gifts for her, it’s like I have to select a price range which shows her my love but at the same time doesn’t show I’m careless with money.

dbz__f · 2023-12-10T00:42:23+00:00

Question for waaaahmen

If your birthday, anniversary, and Christmas all fall within the same two week period, do you expect a different gift for each of those? Or can it sorta be combined?

monster_lily · 2023-12-10T00:26:10+00:00

Guys i cant believe if you marry a guy you have to live with them forever and sleep next to them every day

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-10T00:12:25+00:00

Should I create a ragebait factory online website that posts curated stories meant to make people soil their undergarments with rage?

icedancer69 · 2023-12-10T00:08:58+00:00

If men avoided women in public and acted like they were invisible it would solve so many problems. I'm 23, my feminist friends told me about this so now I've been doing it for a year and it's been great. No weird misunderstood communication, zero awkwardness or times they think I'm hitting on them even though I was just being polite, yeah you know what I mean. I'm decent looking, so every once in a blue moon a girl will try to get my attention, and it's so funny when they realize it will never work and they get frustrated and leave

I get my dates only from the apps and I think it's spared me so many headaches

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-12-10T00:07:23+00:00

Tate Mcrae looks like she’s in her 30s

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-09T23:55:19+00:00

I'm buying scented candles and I'm looking into getting a massage package BECAUSE IM FUCKING DONE NOT HAVING LUXURIES

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-09T23:50:48+00:00

I've had lunches and dinners with different groups of friends for the last 3 days. I'm exhausted. There's one more birthday tonight. I'm grumpy but it's my one of my best friends. She didn't make reservations so I'm helping her find a place. God I want to be home sleeping. I hate finding a place. I love her but she makes me decide things and I hate it.

2_SD_left_of_mean · 2023-12-09T23:49:20+00:00

i miss the days of being ignorant. i always thought i was okay looking because my aunts would sometimes say i was handsome. then i got bored and spent one day on omegle, the next few days on tinder, and everything suddenly made sense.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-09T23:47:57+00:00

You think Elon Musk is compensating for something ? Is so, what ?

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T23:32:52+00:00

Zamnnnn vincent cassel is ugly afff if even ah guy that looks like quasimodo can cheat on a supermodel theres no hope No respect frfrrrr

ratboi34 · 2023-12-09T23:32:10+00:00

Would it be wrong for me to acquire a 20 yo cuddle buddy, if there is a high chance of her getting attached and me just wanting to use her for cuddles and watching animal documentaries?

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T23:28:35+00:00

Guys i wish i could be alive in 1960

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-12-09T23:25:02+00:00

If you enjoy a sexual activity together with another man (not to him, just with him), you’re kinda gay. Nothing wrong with it, but you’re gay.

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T23:24:27+00:00

Uu ever seen a movie where its like id love to watch this with my parents but then it has an EXPLICIT sex scene(s)

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T23:23:39+00:00

Watching black swan again thats my comfort movie i think. Ive seen it 3 times bc im just so ballet core

Did you know i actually did dance for 12 years even went on pointe for a few months then covid hit but it wasnt anything serious

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-12-09T23:21:04+00:00

Women compare their disgust with men to men not being attracted to to other men.

So homophobic.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-09T23:06:53+00:00

The husband of Jordan's Peterson's daughter is called...wait for it... Jordan.

Freud would have a fieldday with this

dishonouronmycow · 2023-12-09T23:05:24+00:00

Being a silly goose is a full time job

Fair_Use_9604 · 2023-12-09T22:48:22+00:00

Everyone always keeps throwing around the word therapy so I decided to actually check it out. A single 50 minute session with an experienced, qualified therapist would cost me anywhere between 90 to 130 GBP. That's my gas bill right there. Who are these people recommending therapy? Are they all rich?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-09T22:44:14+00:00

i actually dont think the "be friends first" advice works especially if its in a friend group cause i gained an orbiter and the main reason i would never date him is cause if shit fell apart it would just make things awkward for the rest of the group. nobody wants to shit where they eat

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-09T22:41:24+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/18ehit0/when_you_check_all_these_posts_about_people/

That's 820 swipes per day btw. Brother thought Tinder was a full time job

SlashCo80 · 2023-12-09T22:27:19+00:00

Personally never understood women who publicly say things like "If he doesn't make at least 250K, he ain't worth my time". Like if I made that kind of money, why would I spend it on your self-centered, gold digging ass?

macone235 · 2023-12-09T22:14:38+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/comments/18dp7qk/aita_for_telling_my_girlfriend_that_something_in/

Hypergamy, the cock carousel, and men continuing to be oblivious to why women act this way.

blebbyroo · 2023-12-09T22:11:25+00:00

Self care is so funny like it makes you feel so good but you have to be feeling good to want to do it consistently but the more consistent you are the better you feel/look. It’s a cycle. And you have to do it for you rather than for someone else.

I’m feeling great lost a few more kilos, moisturising and tinting my legs more, and doing lots more exercise. It’s like a switch flipped for me, baby is turning two time to get back to the lifestyle I had (exercising, clean eating, and looking hot)

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-09T22:00:44+00:00

I'm watching a normie TV programme about China economy. One of the person talking mentionned young Chinese out of college struggling to find a job and high unemployement for the youth in general. She mentioned how for men without a job and still living at home there is zero chance they can get married and in general will struggle a lot finding a gf. She specifically used the term "sexual misery" to describe their situation which I don't hear often on TV.

Anyway, this made me wonder if people in China talk about inceldom. If the the Red Pill and other pills exist etc. What about India too? Those countries are way bigger than the US or Europe (population wise I mean) so I'm assuming there is a place they discuss about this stuff and I wonder if they have a different perspective than western countries.

old_new_age · 2023-12-09T21:46:22+00:00

Q4W: say you're out getting groceries with your bf/husband, would you be embarrassed to split the grocery order at the checkout lane, like he pays for his stuff/some of the shared items, and you pay for your stuff/some of the shared items? asking 'cause my ex, even if she wanted to pay me back later, hated this; she preferred I pay for everything up front for the sake of social presentation. I didn't mind but I'm curious how common a preference like that is

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-09T21:27:24+00:00

* PPD men struggle with dating *

also PPD men

" it’s more about bothering to even being friends with women "

" I find it to be a little more healthy to have a close bond with other men than women. "

🌈

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T21:18:22+00:00

Guys my calc teacher is on paternity leave and i had a test 2 classes ago but i wasnt in class so i never took it and now i got marked a 0 so idkkk what to do cuz if i take it now i dont want it to seem ilike im cheating but then if i wait til tuesday which is next class then its like.... i waited too long 💔 And i dont like sending emails nooo

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T21:04:57+00:00

Honestly that parnera bread lemonade thats killed like 3 ppl needs to be illegal like it apparently has more caffeine than redbull like how can you serve that to people

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-09T21:01:47+00:00

French chad talking about his life :D

I think beauty privilege is very powerful. M31 here, I'm 6'6 tall, I've got a nice deep, steady voice that often gets me mistaken for a singer, and I'm apparently getting better and better looking (I've always been very successful with women, but it's become much more pronounced since I was about 26-27, and a lot of anecdotes and comments make me think it's my growing physical beauty that's to blame).

I've always had the impression that if I've got my nerve I can do almost anything, even in anecdotal situations, which will often be accepted and validated, and I can easily ask for absurd services. This is somewhat true with men, probably because of my voice and my size, my charisma and my 'aura' (if I believe women) ... but it's much more true if the person I'm talking to is a woman. Then I can do whatever I want. I quickly became aware of this and I try not to abuse it, but it's hypocritical to pretend to annihilate the potential of one's own privileges.

A stupid anecdote that I like to illustrate: I once bumped into a girl in the street without meaning to, she moaned like a toad, and when she turned round and saw me, she smiled at me with shining eyes and apologised stupidly, almost as if she were in love...

And speaking of women, the vast majority are seduced very easily. I'm either hit on, or I can make a simple offer to go out with them (without any flirting), and they'll hit on me straight away, or just give me a number. Sometimes people slip numbers on papers into my things without me realising. I get emotional glances from beautiful girls everywhere I go, even when they're out with their boyfriends. Gorgeous women have stopped me in the street just to tell me how beautiful I am. Many women have revealed their feelings and/or desires to me, even though they were in a relationship and I wasn't even flirting with them (very common!). There have been several occasions when I've done a really poor job of seducing a woman (using the wrong method, being clumsy or even timing things badly), and I've still managed to pick her up. In bed it's also a huge advantage if I believe what I've been told (it plays on the excitement).

Anyway, I could go on with the list, but I think we've got it.

Funfact: I'm relatively sporty, but not very much, and I haven't done any weight training for a long time. I'm not even "muscular", although I'm not very fat and I'm not too skinny either.

JDWhiz96 · 2023-12-09T20:51:35+00:00

https://youtu.be/LW4Gci3qics?t=253

Imagine being such a Chad that you can show your wife your old PUA vids, have her seethe with jealousy as she desperately tries to proclaim her love and admiration for you, but you shrug it off because women have thrown themselves at you for your whole life.

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