Daily Community Chat Megathread

wtknight · 2021-10-28T22:21:59+00:00

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TheBookOfSeil · 2021-10-27T21:43:41+00:00

We should change IOIs (Indicators of Interest) to SVHs (Stupid/Shitty Vague Hints).

CMV

aquamanouttawater · 2021-10-27T21:11:18+00:00

After being back on Tinder for a few weeks, I see what most men are talking about. Even when getting matches, most of them never engage or reply and when they do its usually short or only lasts a short amount of time before they stop replying. Meanwhile the majority of the women I see on Tinder have absolutely nothing of value to offer outside of their hole, and it shows. But lets all maxx ourselves out for these holes, guys, totatlly worth it! Lmao

WahmenH8ter · 2021-10-27T23:24:54+00:00

Anyone hate people who love to dampen the holiday mood? It usually goes like this:

“I don’t celebrate Halloween, it’s too demonic”

“I don’t celebrate Thanksgiving because it celebrates colonialism”

“I don’t celebrate Christmas because it’s a pagan/Christian/ consumerism holiday

“I don’t celebrate Valentines because you can love anyone at any time of the day”

God I hate buzzkills

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-10-27T20:05:38+00:00

"Well, muh anecdote beats your generally factual statement, so there."

~ PPD

huhwhatokok · 2021-10-28T04:41:17+00:00

One thing I’ve learned and seen irl and in studies is women assign personalities to dudes based on how they look. This is actually really evident in the Jubilee video where women were asked to rank 5 men from attractive to least attractive, and they referred to the man that looked like a kid as “sweet little Roy (the guys name)” and said he looked like the dude to bring flowers to a date. They ranked him least attractive, but refused to actually put him as least attractive, because of the “sweet fragile” personality they assigned him thinking he couldn’t take being voted the “least attractive” (the guys ranked themselves and put him last). One of the girls literally saying “Roy can’t be the last one” and so they just flipped Roy and the 4th guy in the ranking.

This kind of makes me understand why male baldness sucks so much. Because you’re basically confided to two “assumed” personalities if you’re bald, the macho masculine ripped dude or the wimpy skinny bald dude. This is evident when people bring up celebrities that are good looking and bald, usually dudes with very masculine looking faces and are buff (The Rock, Jason Staham, vin Diesel). I can see why a “pretty boy” with feminine features can find balding to have an effect on his mental health.

harold_shipman_gp · 2021-10-28T19:36:39+00:00

Just reading an old thread on toxic masculinity. Personally I feel that my masculinity has been policed a lot more by women than it ever has by men.

Thinking back to a relationship I was in at the start of the Panny D. She used to get really annoyed and turned off whenever I sneezed, because according to her sneezing was "feminine". I was fucking holding in sneezes for this bitch. In retrospect I should have ended that one way before I did, but hey ho.

On the converse, no other dude has ever told me to "man up".

Anyone else noticed this? Women being the instigators of toxic masculinity.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-10-27T19:06:26+00:00

I had a life changing discovery, dudes.

I found out how to have a full-body orgasm, which AFAIK are a bit more difficult for men to achieve

As you're about to orgasm, breathe in deeply and "draw" the breath in and up your body

If done right, the pleasure should wash through your entire body and make you tingle all over.

It helps if you also clench your pelvis

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-10-27T19:45:44+00:00

Would you rather be a star athlete or a billionaire

Edit: ofc this question was for men, go bake some cookies ladies

catsinbananahats · 2021-10-28T01:45:24+00:00

I used to hang out with this woman in her 30s. She was in good shape and while I did ask her for her number initially because of sexual attraction, it quickly dissipated as I got to know her neediness and insecurities. So I kept her around mostly because she was convenient for company occasionally. As time passed she confessed to me that she liked me, chiefly because I was different from the other guys who just wanted to have sex with her. This made her even more repulsive to me and I started avoiding her entirely.

catsinbananahats · 2021-10-28T03:59:59+00:00

CMV Toxic masculinity is real and so is toxic femininity

I've seen with my own eyes how men are told to man up. I've seen with my own eyes how men are told there's only one type of man they can be.

Eastuss · 2021-10-28T07:56:15+00:00

CMV: Big shapeless boobs are a post-wall/low fertility trait and preferring them over small/avg good looking boobs is abnormal. You got mommy issues.

Edit: Since yall have roasted brains, I call shapeless the boobs that are saggy, flat (as opposed to perky), with big aerola or nipple pointing downward. Which are alteration of boob shape that usually occur due to pregnancy and breastfeeding, but can also be just the natural girl's boob shape especially if they're big.

atomicstomper · 2021-10-28T19:14:50+00:00

If someone out of your league is dating you, they are most likely doing so for the validation and will probably ghost you for days on end and play games because they are having a power trip.

EDIT: it seems like people are not learning from history. For instance gender power imbalances, we had times of actual patriarchy and men abused their power which sort of gave way to feminism and now women are abusing their power. Obviously when it comes to leagues, power can be in either person's favor, its just that now mostly women and top tier men have almosr all of the power.

Prestigious698 · 2021-10-28T19:01:03+00:00

I’ll probably start dating older men (35+) now. They’re more mature and usually know what they’re doing (not even sexually). Life has been a little tough on me and bagging someone with experience and resources is a safe plan.

HOLYREGIME · 2021-10-27T19:02:23+00:00

This sub smells like a retirement home… fawk baby.

Throughmylense20 · 2021-10-27T20:34:52+00:00

https://twitter.com/siphebravo/status/1451834110700363780?s=21

A man made this viral tweet thread and many men agreed and men still wonder why women don’t want to have patience building with them or tolerating them when they don’t have their finances together this is another example of it never being appreciated.

GridReXX · 2021-10-27T23:23:42+00:00

What’s an insult to a woman that cuts as deeply as “incel” seems to for men?

“Slut”? “Ugly”?

SouthernGrass3 · 2021-10-28T02:59:52+00:00

Is a lesbian transphobic if she does not want to have sex with trans women? Some lesbians say they are increasingly being pressured and coerced into accepting trans women as partners - then shunned and even threatened for speaking out. Several have spoken to the BBC, along with trans women who are concerned about the issue too.

🎪

nessaea-blue · 2021-10-28T03:18:20+00:00

From a new Russian survey:

Men do not always understand when women reject them: even if a woman actively resists when he's trying to touch her, uses force or tries to hit him, only three quarters of the respondents consider this as an unequivocal refusal. Others are ready to perceive it as an element of flirting, a meaningless action, or even a sign of consent.

Also, 47% of the men surveyed do not consider a "no" as a rejection. If the word “no” was not heard, even with active resistance from a woman, 39% of men consider it flirting, and 7% - consent to sexual contact.

The researchers also asked questions about the line between flirting and harassment when it comes to touching. According to the respondents, it was at the level below and above the waist. Two-thirds of the respondents (68%) believe that if their hands move into these zones even over clothes, then this can be perceived as harassment, although a quarter (26%) still insist that this can be just flirting, and much more often this opinion is held by men (37%). Almost half of the men surveyed (44%) are sure that even touching under clothes may not be harassment.

https://www.rbc.ru/society/27/10/2021/61792e059a79470149371ebf?fromtg=1

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-10-28T04:21:02+00:00

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-57853385.amp

“ One woman reported being targeted in an online group. "I was told that homosexuality doesn't exist and I owed it to my trans sisters to unlearn my 'genital confusion' so I can enjoy letting them penetrate me," she wrote”

The Sub superstraight before it was banned talked about this concept in length. I remember one chick said that she wonders what percentage of these guys were sexual losers with women, who now identify as “trans” as a way to backdoor finesse sex out of lesbians through guilt(“Suck my dick you bigot”)and if they can’t get it that way use physical violence.

Truth_Sellah_Seekah · 2021-10-28T18:51:43+00:00

Probably the best video from a Red Piller I have seen in long time

PussyEatingManiac757 · 2021-10-28T18:34:07+00:00

I give as little attention as possible to women with boyfriends, husbands, fwbs etc (essentially all women). Why would I give my time and attention to someone who is getting fucked by another man?

harold_shipman_gp · 2021-10-28T17:36:04+00:00

Genuinely addicted to the Aussie version of Married at First Sight. I've got an alarm set on my phone to remind me to turn the TV on at half seven to watch it. What have I become.

Allblackallamerican · 2021-10-28T17:34:03+00:00

Guys with that, ‘Well, Jerry is kind of ugly but he always has a good looking girl’…. Stop.

Are you attracted to men? Do you suck dick? You like to let men fold you into a pretzel and bring you home to Jamaica?

Unless Jerry has an obscene amount of money, he’s not ugly. Those girls aren’t fucking him because he’s funny, completely in spite of his looks.

TheJim66 · 2021-10-27T22:30:48+00:00

Whores!

madsskayyy · 2021-10-28T04:02:44+00:00

I just saw a Tiktok of a woman packing food to send to her man in prison. Why do women post their Ls on social media🥴

catsinbananahats · 2021-10-28T17:30:37+00:00

MensRights is more pathetic than TwoX.

I once saw a post on Men's Rights that was a picture of the sign to women&children's department of the hospital (aka the maternity ward) and these manbabies were asking "but what about the men's department, don't men deserve a sign too?"

At least TwoX cares about the real issues. You can laugh at us all you want but we're just trying to deal with issues in our lives whether it's sexual assault, harassment at work, vaginismus, PCOS, endometritis, homophobia, or just the general bullshit that society throws at us women.

Not like the men's rights subreddits which call getting angry at a post made by a troll on Twitter "activism".

passepar2t · 2021-10-28T17:30:10+00:00

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yoooooooooooodaddy · 2021-10-27T19:40:48+00:00

I wonder how many patrons of PPD smoke weed. Any other dab lovers out here?

YoMamaz_azz · 2021-10-27T20:15:15+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/qgc7s7/nyc_man_punches_woman_on_the_train_in_front_of/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

This is what gender equality looks like.

If a man was in the same position as the woman, he wouldve been punched as well.

Also, its okay her husband didnt step up for her. If the genders were reversed and a man got punched almost no one would be expecting the woman to jump in and attack that guy.

nessaea-blue · 2021-10-27T20:25:15+00:00

Convert yourself to the opposite gender.

Height: +5in ftm, -5in mtf

Weight: +30lbs ftm, -30lbs ftm

same attractiveness of face

similar personality

same earnings/career and education

Would you date yourself?

catsinbananahats · 2021-10-27T21:40:34+00:00

Welp it's almost halloween where I'm from and I don't have a costume. I guess I'm going as myself this year.

ChadThundagaCock · 2021-10-28T00:27:43+00:00

Black and white thinking…is it ever good? Or is it ok to throw some grey in there? Men and women are different, yes- but we are also very alike. The argument is, should we focus on our differences or our similarities? I think a mixture of both would suffice. It’s important not to ignore the differences. Hyper Lefties do want to ignore the differences, which is a mistake I think.

Pickup lines…this is an interesting one. As a guy, if I found a woman appealing, she could just say hello to me and that would suffice. I think it should be the same when talking to a new woman. If she finds you appealing in the slightest, a simple hello is all you should need. No corny pickup lines. I don’t require a corny pickup line from her, so why should she?

Sometimes simply asking how you would feel in her shoes is ok, despite us having differences. To actually keep her in your life, that is when you really need to focus on what is different.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-10-28T03:29:02+00:00

After a while people always tell their kids that certain things just aren't real , the Easter Bunny, professional wrestling, the tooth fairy, maybe if you're an atheist you would say religion etc., what would you say is the appropriate age to tell this new generation of kids that toxic masculinity is also fake? Because it is

passepar2t · 2021-10-28T05:53:06+00:00

After downloading Tinder again at the beginning of summer, I had a pretty okay time of it although it did take a great deal of effort.

However, once it got towards the end of summer, I was regularly seeing one woman, who's nothing special but she's enthusiastic enough, reasonable and not crazy.

But more importantly, I found a drug connection and spent almost every saturday doing acid and frankly, tripping balls is so much better than going out and trying to game women, it's not even close.

Now, I've decided that I've had my fun with the drugs and it's time to take another long break. Plus, winter's coming and there's just not as much to look at anymore.

So now I'm thinking I should probably intensify my dating and Tinder usage again to fill up the free time that opens up and the prospect feels like waking up and having to go to school. Or work. Just miserable.

simeneta_two · 2021-10-28T17:16:18+00:00

Does anyone else not like kittens or puppies that much? I don't mind fostering them for a few weeks but god are they smelly and annoying. When it comes to actually having my own animal I much prefer a well adjusted adult dog or cat.

And_Rue · 2021-10-28T17:13:29+00:00

Anyone a fan of keshi and similar music?

Keshi - Drunk (Live Acoustic)

92914 - Okinawa

zyramain69 · 2021-10-28T17:00:58+00:00

https://nypost.com/2021/10/28/small-dong-march-aims-to-end-shaming-of-tiny-penises/?utm_medium=browser_notifications&utm_source=pushly&utm_campaign=1548618

Seeing the full article on this makes it even worse than I thought. Women really try to compare small tits or a small ass to this

Danielcraigboston1 · 2021-10-28T16:25:16+00:00

TwoXChromosomes is full of losers. Imagine if men behaved like them. What would they be called?

chilikettlechips · 2021-10-28T16:15:32+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/qhcezb/woman_melt_down_after_spying_on_passenger_next_to/

discuss

catsinbananahats · 2021-10-28T16:12:39+00:00

I think mental illness is actually the norm for modern society. I don't know a single person without a trauma or mental disorder.

And that's why I get mad at people who say they will only date people without any kind of mental issues. They're looking for a unicorn.

madsskayyy · 2021-10-28T15:59:38+00:00

How on this subreddit of all places it’s surprising that people don’t want to deal with your mental health issues is beyond me.

People with Depression, PTSD, childhood trauma, and debilitating anxiety should just date each other. Nothing controversial or weird that Neurotypical folks don’t want to date someone that has those issues.

As we say to PPD men, you’re not entitled to sex and relationships 🙃

KarmaChameleonian · 2021-10-28T15:18:05+00:00

One of the things I’ve noticed is that people who smoke weed tend to be some of the biggest, incompetent nuisances on the planet that also have no future career prospects. When I say this people always get defensive and bring up Paul McCartney or something but c’mon most weed smokers will never amount to that and celebrities tend to be the exception, not the rule.

nessaea-blue · 2021-10-28T15:10:20+00:00

Q4 RP men

do you actually care that some women are getting used by hot guys or are you just upset that those women aren't choosing you and/or wife material?

rosesonthefloor · 2021-10-28T15:10:03+00:00

I love escape rooms as a date with someone new. Like can we work together as a team or will you give up halfway through?

It’s a good barometer to see how people react. I wonder how the new guy will fare tonight.

Slipthe · 2021-10-28T15:01:05+00:00

Anyone else get spooked by coat racks or black towels hanging on the wall at night?

Ever since I moved into a new neighborhood with higher crime I have this extra paranoia of home invasion. So now when I wake in the middle of the night and see shadowy figures, my adrenalin pumps and I force myself awake to figure out what they are. Pretty reasonable right? To not go back to bed until you know a towel is just a towel?

Mimoxs · 2021-10-27T19:46:34+00:00

Someone asked the askwomen sub the "what's something you did with a previous partner you won't let the current one do" question

A major portion of answers were along the lines of "physically abuse me" or rape or tolerating cheating which kinda lines up with the vibes from the kind of men who get mad over the whole "did this for him and not for me" concept to begin with

Edit here it is

Habil13 · 2021-10-27T23:47:08+00:00

I live in a very “progressive” part of the world, and I also work as a cashier at a fast food joint. The amount of times couples have come in and the guy has paid have been staggering. I thought the distribution of who pays would be more equal, but I guess not.

catsinbananahats · 2021-10-28T02:41:48+00:00

People saying "don't date a girl with mental issues or trauma" as if they don't have mental issues or trauma of their own.

passepar2t · 2021-10-28T09:38:04+00:00

I miss having a cat. I want a kitty cat to get me through what I expect to be hard times. Dogs are cool too but I don't have the time to give one the attention it would need or be able to walk it sufficiently.

Completely separately: I wonder what percent of women will come to outearn what percent of men and what kind of new upheavals this will cause.

Truth_Sellah_Seekah · 2021-10-28T14:28:54+00:00

I got permabanned from r/AgainstHateSubreddits for this: Pic

My first comment on that sub. I have no words.

redditthrowaway1478 · 2021-10-28T14:28:25+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/qh6f8n/what_is_the_most_ridiculous_thing_a_partner_has/hiavkoo?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3

On one hand, I respect when someone takes ownership of their mental health, on the other...it's becoming a serious red flag what with how common casual mental illness is becoming.

If a girl seems to be leaning into her mental illness, like a crutch, move on fellas and don't even look back. She's either got serious issues and you can't do anything about that, or you're enabling her bad habits.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-10-28T14:22:12+00:00

Goals?

zyramain69 · 2021-10-28T13:52:31+00:00

https://youtu.be/wONEiJ_5It4

Single mom with 2 kids that live with the babies father wants a HVM. You can't make this up

DaphneDK42 · 2021-10-28T13:46:27+00:00

Poor guy 😢 Having two wives is very stressful 👨‍👧‍👧 He took two for the team, what a guy.

abaxeron · 2021-10-28T13:16:07+00:00

Apparently folks at RoastMe figured the game earlier than I did and now just ignore and downvote women on sight.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-10-28T01:09:09+00:00

Jesus. Fucking christ. I think my rule of not dating any woman with severe trauma or PTSD means I'm gonna be single forever. Just had another one of the girls im talking to tell me about wild shit. Fucks sake.

PussyEatingManiac757 · 2021-10-28T12:57:48+00:00

So, what exactly is the benefit of a relationship with a modern woman besides access to the same ol' pussy (all pussy gets boring eventually)?
Ive compiled a list of things the modern woman offers in a relationship:

Wasting your time with netflix, disney etc watching
Wasting your time and money with "travelling" so she has pics for her social media
Wasting your time and money at restaurants because shes a "foodie"
Wasting your time and money taking care of her dog because shes a "dogmom"
Not giving you kids because that would cut into her netflix/travelling/foodie/dogmotherhood experiences
Demanding that you keep her happy at all times or she'll cheat/divorce you/take your shit

KJ1017 · 2021-10-28T12:15:59+00:00

Just got a GOOD new grad offer in Tokyo.

Amazon Seattle can suck my whole entire big black dick their offer is dead me to niggas finna be in Tokyo bro.

I am so excited

KJ1017 · 2021-10-28T04:46:17+00:00

People on the internet are dumb as FUCK.

Get a load of this shit right here.

Dudes been in a relationship for 6 years and miraculously contracts Chlamydia. Asks his girlfriend if she’s cheated, she breaks down crying swearing she’s been faithful and saying he has to trust her because, well she’s never betrayed his trust before.

This dumb ass trusts her. Says she’s a terrible liar so she wouldn’t lie to him. Despite him going for what is obviously a blatant, horrendous lie.

And people in the comments are like yea totally bro she didn’t cheat!

My brain cells are dropping dead.

Artistic_Guest4386 · 2021-10-27T20:12:48+00:00

If you have never had sex and are constantly rejected by women, do you subconciously feel like you are being rejected by the human species as not good enough to exist, and therefore reproduce? From a natural standpoint, not a intellectual or character standpoint

rivetcitymayor · 2021-10-28T11:24:37+00:00

If there is a group of women who don’t care about a man’s height, it’s definitely Hispanic women, you’ll get rejected for everything else but your height

CFinCanada · 2021-10-28T11:55:41+00:00

Men: would you date a 15-years-older woman if she was paying you $15k a month?

You have to do stuff around the house and garden too though, you wouldn't just be paid for your D.

There is a man in this real-life scenario, and the chick isn't even ugly wtf: https://nypost.com/2021/10/27/im-a-sugar-mama-pay-my-man-15000-a-month-to-do-whatever-i-want/

Zealousideal-Wait286 · 2021-10-28T11:33:07+00:00

My friend is a 21 yo CS student, so he doesn't have a lot of close friends and he wants a girlfriend. I don't think he has a lot of experience because he grew up kind of religious. Last week he downloaded tinder and started talking about how to game women. Today he told me he found an online course(for 200 $) which is basically negging, how to get women to chase you, realy classic stuff . I give it two weeks before he starts talking about "this really interesting red pill studd i found online." So i guess this redpill stuff does appeal to STEM guys

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Chaddamhusein · 2021-10-27T19:04:18+00:00

Whatever happened to that lilith fangirl? Did she get banned or what

djblackmith · 2021-10-27T19:31:57+00:00

https://www.irishtimes.com/news/health/waterford-city-district-has-state-s-highest-rate-of-covid-19-infections-1.4707344

Sad_Top1743 · 2021-10-28T01:25:48+00:00

Another example of toxic femininity

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CU3JoyvPMT9/?utm_medium=copy_link

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CSKtYH8IPPw/?utm_medium=copy_link

Her profile is full of these gems. At least she realizes she's the one in the wrong

Its funny to see who your ho friends follow lol

FizzleMateriel · 2021-10-28T01:33:36+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TQmUxU11kqQ

Interesting video.

chilikettlechips · 2021-10-28T04:32:26+00:00

Q4M degenerates, who's your favoite JAV star?

Q4M what do you think of the choices?

Truth_Sellah_Seekah · 2021-10-28T11:18:49+00:00

One of the most brutal posts I've ever read

Deranged_Loner · 2021-10-28T04:17:30+00:00

how you getting no pussy bro just be funny

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-10-28T01:12:38+00:00

Anybody hear that Florida has the lowest COVID rate despite only being ~60% fully vaccinated and no strict COVID protocols.

The most heavily vaccinated states and countries are seeing COVID surges but the lesser vaccinated ones are declining.

Bit of a head scratcher, ain't it?

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