Daily Community Chat Megathread

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-02T19:25:25+00:00

I know opinions are divided on porn. I personally think its a hyperstimulus that fries your dopamine cycle. But what do people here think about erotic stories such as stories found on literotica.com?

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-02-02T19:02:56+00:00

Kyle Rittenhouse is getting sued again...

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-02T19:02:51+00:00

What are your five favorite albums (not including “best of…” albums)? Mine aren’t necessarily the best albums I’ve ever heard, but they bring important memories.

purginggastonist · 2023-02-02T19:02:13+00:00

Lets all take a moment to remember one of the most legendary women moments of all time

https://twitter.com/womenpostingls/status/1621206030100094976?s=21

saraimarsena · 2023-02-02T18:25:45+00:00

have you guys ever gotten a bad feeling about a person?

like it’s hard to put your finger on it … something about their vibe, the way they speak, the way they carry themselves and look at you/interact with others … it comes off creepy or just like they have ill intentions in general

or do you think that in all instances that “bad feeling” is just because said person is unattractive/neurodivergent?

LeaveNCountAlone · 2023-02-02T18:24:28+00:00

Need good book recs so I don’t rot my brain or let social media reduce my attention span to that of a golden retriever.

lacuti3 · 2023-02-02T18:14:03+00:00

Q4M:

If guys are sexually attracted to most women but only romantically attracted to the women they think they can get (which is average or below average women) does that mean they’re romantically attracted to most women? I’m at Los Angeles international airport and basically everyone’s average looking 🤣 I always notice this when I’m here

Funny-Ant8077 · 2023-02-02T18:12:29+00:00

I don't think I consider myself a passport bro but I just booked a flight to Thailand for the first time using my friend's buddy pass since he works for an airline that flies out there. In about 3 weeks I will see if that shit is true or not.

Edit: My flair. Don't knock who you're attracted to lmao

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2023-02-02T17:54:39+00:00

Seeing deep fake even being used for pornographic reasons is showing how degenerate society has become and how much of a threat AI really will be in the future. Sooooo many men think their dick takes precedence over anything in the world it's ridiculous.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-02-02T17:47:07+00:00

Thoughts on Babylon (2022)? I enjoyed it, I can definitely see why people might not have.

Stingray2065 · 2023-02-02T17:20:10+00:00

Why is space so limited on OLD profiles now? I remember writing paragraphs about myself on OKCupid, finding guys who did the same, and it gave us enough fodder for a solid week's worth of conversation before we ever met up.

Now it seems like men (and I assume women as well) don't even bother to fill out the limited space profiles. How are people able to tell whether or not their matches have mutual interests, or interesting things to talk about?

LaloTwins · 2023-02-02T17:18:30+00:00

Q4A thoughts on Deepfake porn? There’s some internet drama about it rn and who better to ask than you degenerates

tired_hillbilly · 2023-02-02T16:59:54+00:00

Alright PPD, got a doosie of a situation to talk about.

At physical therapy yesterday, chatting with my therapist while she stretched my hands, she brought up how her sister sold her eggs for $10k. Then we talked about how it all worked, how you have to be healthy, educated, and young for the clinic to accept you, and I brought up how it's similar for guys who want to donate.

I feel like I missed a chance to flirt, I mean we were talking about sperm and eggs and I just seriously discussed it.

Thoughts?

empresa_josefina · 2023-02-02T16:57:44+00:00

I use OLD a lot, mostly Hinge, and I’m seeing a proliferation of what I call women “making demands.” In their profiles they will respond to prompts in this fashion:

“The way to win me over is” planning a perfect first date, ball in is your court
“My favorite words to hear are” dinner reservation is at 8, let me take care of that for you, I got you something
“The best way to ask me out is by” asking me out

It’s becoming every other profile that you see something like this. I find it incredibly offputting and a wasted opportunity. Sure if you want a guy to take you out and pay, that’s fine, but it’s a bit gauche to be so blunt about it? And why not use the limited space to share more about yourself? “The best way to ask me out is going to a concert, I love live music” or even “finding a new pasta place, Italian is my favorite food,” would be so much better.

Any theories why this is getting so widespread?

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-02T16:50:53+00:00

I’m actually impressed by how much men have been able to milk that one gym video. The amount of outrage you would think the woman stabbed him.

I think all of this comes down to men being sexually frustrated at the gym and lashing out at women because of it

Peacesquad · 2023-02-02T16:10:43+00:00

Q4A: has the word “misogynist” lost its meaning? It seems like a go-to shaming tactic for anyone who even remotely critiques anything a lady does or anything that teaches a man his value, that anything that makes you FEEL offended automatically equals the hatred of women

Peacesquad · 2023-02-02T16:09:31+00:00

Terminal List got renewed for season 2 thank the TV Gods!!!

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-02T16:08:11+00:00

Q4M

Would you rather date just pearly things (unattractive, stupid, obnoxious, shapeless but “submissive” and “traditional”) or a younger attractive women with an hourglass figure who regular feminist

dysonRing · 2023-02-02T16:03:20+00:00

Hot.

https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlGamers/comments/10qffbj/steffyevans_making_fragile_men_upset_by_giving/

I would fuck a woman that was trash talking to me during sex.

It would be like bitch there is nothing you could ever say that would emasculate me.

UnapolegeticPumper · 2023-02-02T15:47:19+00:00

Q4W: How much money does a man have to pay to have sex with you?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-02-02T15:43:41+00:00

Question for all, though primarily for the ladies- how often do you initiate things with guys you’re seeing?

I’ve been talking to this girl for about a month, and I’ve found myself doing most of the arranging dates and whatnot. She’s always receptive when I reach out to her, and we’ve had sex a few times, but me having to coordinate all the logistics makes me feel like she’s not that into me.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-02-02T15:12:19+00:00

Modern dating in a nutshell: https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10r0o9g/am_i_bad_for_making_a_joke/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-02T14:59:32+00:00

The “80/20” garbage is spreading like a cancer all over the internet. No wonder men are failing out of school, a lot of them seem to lack some basic reasoning skills. Whenever I point out that every single study disproves this, the #1 response is that “those men aren’t having sex as often as they want with attractive women”

So the 80\20 rule is actually 80% of men don’t have sex 5x a day with young Victoria secret model

divCal · 2023-02-02T14:44:05+00:00

My online persona might make me look like someone bitter who has a thing against men but IRL I am just a huge hopelessly romantic person who just wanted to have an optimistic view about relations and the world in general.

red__hulk · 2023-02-02T07:00:31+00:00

First. Let me take this opportunity to say that men are awesome and masculinity is beautiful!

dysonRing · 2023-02-03T00:05:10+00:00

If I was a person who was worried about not being the best in bed my current romantic partner has ever had, my solution would be to work really hard to make sure I was really good in bed.

It would not be to attempt to convince an inexperienced partner to stay with me and have potentially unsatisfactory sex for lack of them knowing any better or different. That sounds like a fast track to a deadbedroom

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-03T00:25:31+00:00

I’m willing to die on this hill, 80% of the dudes who not stop post about how disgusting fat women are are overweight themselves. Even saw one dude admit this

Lysa_Bell · 2023-02-02T07:37:25+00:00

I hate weightloss plateaus so much. 3 weeks of no weightloss and I'm like "am I not tracking my calories right? Do I need to put in more activities? Not enough water? Did my BMR go down this much? What's wrong". Then bam! Waking up randomly with 2 kilos less. I hate how inconsistent this shit is. Stupid biology.

SmootherWaterfalls · 2023-02-02T23:52:38+00:00

I'll see an interesting post title only to see someone typed up a whole CVS receipt.

Come on, man.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-02-03T00:00:45+00:00

One of the benefits of visiting Dubai for work is the men’s only gyms. No fear of some chick filming me glancing in the general direction.

chekhovs-gun2 · 2023-02-03T01:11:26+00:00

Q4A: Is a college student run app advertising classes with more women in them so men can attend and tutor women in those classes (for the purposes of pursuing said women) exploitative, creepy, or abusive?

Context: https://academia.stackexchange.com/questions/192977/need-help-with-students-whove-turned-my-class-into-a-dating-service

Louis Rossman's video opinion and breakdown: https://youtu.be/aX6Kb-4N1Ck

On the one hand, (and by the professor's own admission) no explicit creepy/pushy behavior is taking place. Male engineering students are offering tutoring services free of charge with the hope that they might be able to connect with some of the women. Women can always refuse or seek out other services.

On the other hand, the "less attractive" women seem to not be getting offered these services.

the_butter_lord · 2023-02-02T07:25:44+00:00

According to Pew polling, more than half of all of young, white, liberal, women reported that a healthcare provider has ever told them that they have a mental health condition: https://twitter.com/richardvreeves/status/1382818208084848653

meteorness123 · 2023-02-02T22:32:57+00:00

A lot of the stuff we talk about here is dumb as fuck and mental masturbation. If you have your health, you're doing well.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-02T23:45:41+00:00

If you're tolerant of everybody and everything, then you stand for nothing.

quaker5 · 2023-02-03T00:35:40+00:00

the word rizz sounds stupid as fuck. must be getting old.

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-02-03T03:23:21+00:00

I just wanna know where all the “black pill doesn’t post here” crowd is cause holy fuck you can cut the whining and desperation with a fucking butter knife. Y’all sit back and let this represent redpill then get butt hurt when we point it out. Cue pearl clutching. “Those men are rare!” Nah those men have been crying all up and through posts here for days.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-02-03T05:36:20+00:00

Lowkey the funniest shit I’ve seen in while:

https://academia.stackexchange.com/questions/192977/need-help-with-students-whove-turned-my-class-into-a-dating-service

tired_hillbilly · 2023-02-02T07:15:16+00:00

Check out the comet visible tonight, its cool, not as cool as the one in 2020, but it won't be back for 50,000 years.

BreezyBritt89 · 2023-02-02T07:18:34+00:00

I was 10 minutes late on being first are you kidding meeee. Anyways I’m using the hell out of this air fryer my in laws got us for Christmas. It’s actually worth the hype imo.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-02T22:25:57+00:00

PSA for the people who say they 'know' their partner is being faithful - say instead that you trust them not to cheat. You're not auditing their behaviors. You don't actually know if they're cheating on you.

quaker5 · 2023-02-02T22:40:26+00:00

ngl letting your wife keep her last name when you marry sounds pretty cucked

EventSea8621 · 2023-02-02T22:58:44+00:00

uninstalled tinder after 2 months of trying again, didn't get a single match lol.

huhwhatokok · 2023-02-02T23:53:37+00:00

On Muslim tinder, having a beard is like being at least 6ft to women. Lots of women have “prefer men with beards.”

mike-sonko · 2023-02-02T07:25:12+00:00

E-A-G-L-E-S. EAGLES!! 🦅🦅🦅

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-02T09:19:09+00:00

Does anyone else get annoyed when trolls block them? You see insane threads of triggered people but you can't see what the troll posted. It's like watching Maury, but the sound goes out every time he speaks. The struggle is real.

dbz_f · 2023-02-02T20:40:38+00:00

Q4all: is it creepy and invasive to demand to see your partners ID prior to the first time you have sex just to be sure they aren’t underage? Or is it kind of implying you don’t trust them?

WhiteRollins24 · 2023-02-02T22:59:42+00:00

I want women only to answer this question-How would you feel if your boyfriend/husband or spouse had fun earlier in their life before they met you and you’d felt like they choose to settle down with you instead of loving you and choosing to be passionate with you?

TLDR-Women, how would you feel if your spouse settled for you instead of desiring you?

pileofmulch · 2023-02-03T02:30:16+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/Cw0ldRg ppd dudes

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-03T04:00:15+00:00

Don’t forget to hit the personality gym.

Scarce12 · 2023-02-03T04:25:03+00:00

In a room full of 20 guys, one guy has had more sex partners than the sum for 10 other guys in the room.

Just really hard to get you'd head around...

https://mobile.twitter.com/DegenRolf/status/1618565662921850881

In 2002, the top 5% of guys had 38 sex partners, in 2012 it was 50.

Meanwhile the distribution of sex partners among women remained unchanged.

The amount of sex partners among the top 5% was more than the bottom 50%.

scwizard · 2023-02-02T07:49:12+00:00

Played roulette for the first time today, and wow I got to meet strangers who actually speak English.

They say the house always wins in roulette. Not true. The house has an edge but they need to pay people's wages and pay for a mortgage and similar.

The only one who always wins in roulette is the devil.

chilikettlechips · 2023-02-02T20:34:01+00:00

I think it's been long enough after ep3 of The Last of Us. Take the Bear Pill.

If it was a straight couple in ep3 there would be loads and loads of articles about "consent", and "power dynamics" of a woman in that scenario. Bear privilege is to get to ignore all that scrutiny.

So the question is, are Bears the only ones capable of true love? Can love bloom on the battlefield? Bear Pilled.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-02T22:59:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10rjhv2/comment/j6z76ne/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

I'm about to do some charity work for you women. My favorite move to pull is when I have the opportunity to say a white lie - I do a break in the middle of it, look down, smile and say, "I can't even lie to you with a straight face," and just tell the truth.

It's important that it's for something innocuous, that way when there's something important you need to lie about like where you've been she'll think that you're a terrible liar. But no, she's just dumb.

liefelijk · 2023-02-02T23:01:03+00:00

Steak salads are so goddamn delicious. 🌟

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-02-03T00:48:39+00:00

My bed is against the wall. That wall I share with my neighbor's bathroom. My neighbor has allergies and keeps doing this vomit sound to scratch his throat.

You know those noisy people who go around life making noises like he slams doors, blows his nose to the point I can hear him, speaks loudly

Now the vomit noises

I want to murder him seriously

I hate people like him, he's disgusting

The fucker is married btw. Think about that when your think you are not good enough. He's fat and horrible and has a wife that has no problems with his noises.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-02-03T02:16:26+00:00

I swear the NBA is rigged

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-02-03T02:45:03+00:00

This is the most bizarre thread.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10s0p5g/the_floor_matters_more_than_the_ceiling_when_it/

Did people upvote it because of how weird it is? Guy can't get laid because he isn't attracted to women.

dbz_f · 2023-02-03T03:15:54+00:00

CMV: women who don’t want sex with their partner don’t really love him. All those couples on the dead bedroom sun don’t love their partner.

My gf claims to be low libido, she says she’s literally never masturbate in her life and she’s 26, she never watches porn. She watched five seconds and found it disgusting

But with me, she INITIATES sex and wants it as often if not more than I do. Why? Because she loves me. This love creates sexual desire.

If there is no sexual desire it means there is no love

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-02-03T05:22:25+00:00

Is this a hot take?

Sex is mostly a very beautiful wholesome act between two people who typically are attracted to each other and desire mutual pleasure. While it should remain private, it should be seen as a wholesome ordinary part of our lives instead of a weird taboo dirty thing.

huhwhatokok · 2023-02-03T05:43:29+00:00

Lol, I’m sure y’all know the story of the lady who kept a chimpanzee that ripped her friends face apart. Apparently she was warned that the chimp would be aggressive once he hit sexual maturity bc chimps fuck everyday up to 50 days a week and keeping him from fucking will make him aggressive. We really are just apes at the end of the day.

2023-02-03T06:31:12+00:00

It's 1:30 AM. I'm exhausted, finally getting ready for bed. And I just heard a mouse running around my bedroom (basement apartment in an old house.)

I have traps down for moments like this...I kinda want to say fuck it and just go to sleep. It's not like I'd know what to do with it if I saw it run by, anyway

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-02-02T14:23:28+00:00

I think that one of the girls I’m talking to is using the slow-and-steady ghosting method on me. The good news is that I owe her $75, and if she does ghost, I don’t have to pay.

Slipthe · 2023-02-02T13:57:24+00:00

Lol in the last daily thread I said PPD men like to ride on the coattails of greater men, and then I open the "Why haven't women built their own independent, semi autonomous female utopia?" thread, and there they all are.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-02T13:34:38+00:00

Why can infatuation so easily turn to hate?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-02T13:22:28+00:00

Why is there two daily threads up?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-02T13:05:43+00:00

I just had one of the girls I'm seeing go on a big rant about how nobody cares about her birthday, how she usually gets nothing and is treated like a last priority etc.

Funny thing is I wish that was my life, I wish people didn't acknowledge my birthday because I don't care about it, I do everything I can to celebrate it as little as possible because it's just another day to me, and I can't stand people making a fuss over me.

AreOut · 2023-02-02T12:53:22+00:00

things have gotten so bad that I am becoming attracted to a girl only because I find out that she is actually not lying

TaxNegative161 · 2023-02-02T12:49:23+00:00

Requesting an account of someone being harmed in any way by feminism. This means harm of any sort, to any degree, that is unambiguously caused by the concept of feminism.

Some pathetic attempts include:

Feminism made my grades worse in school :(((((

You tell me when you think feminism started, and I'll find a quote from respected teachers / professors talking about girls tending to thrive in the education system and boys often needing to be coerced. I'm serious. Give me any decade. I dragged up one from the 1890s once. Is feminism time travelling?

They gave my job to less qualified woman because of quotas :(((((

No they didn't. And if they did, they wouldn't fucking tell you because that is illegal. Stop making up this story you dildos.

Life boats on the titanic! Divorce courts! The draft! :(((((

You'll be happy to know that in boat emergencies in the 2010s, no preference of any kind was given to women and children. I am very proud of my gender. Divorce and custody proceedings have gotten way, way, WAY more equal since feminism began. As for the draft, if you aren't Russian and in Ukraine right now or a hundred years old, this doesn't concern you. Don't steal valor.

Good luck!

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-02T12:14:54+00:00

Why do you think, when i open the app store and look up dating apps. Why are almost all reviews so bad? I mean people are still using the apps but apparently every reviewer hates the app itself and gives one star reviews?

Reasons they give may vary. Too many ads, filters don't work etc.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-02T11:31:12+00:00

If you wanna reel a girl in, send her voice messages instead of texts, they seem to love it.

Side note: This only works if you have a deep voice.

uno_21 · 2023-02-02T10:41:00+00:00

This sub has ruined my outlook on relationships. It doesn’t help that I’ve seen all these concepts in real life.

the_butter_lord · 2023-02-02T10:31:27+00:00

Why do women on PPD always like to appeal to our mothers when guys talk shit about women. It's so dumb.

Like get back to me after you have doctors cut open your belly to give birth to me and then raise me for 18+ years.

I certainly don't think my mom's a saint and many of the things I say about women could be applicable to her as well. People who view their family members as saints by virtue of their familial ties are delusional. That doesn't change the fact that I love her because of what she's done for me and because she's kin. Like even if she was a mass murderer I would still love her.

dbz_f · 2023-02-02T10:06:04+00:00

Question for people in happy loving relationships with someone they genuinely love: if your partner gave you a hall pass, would you ever use it?

Like, if you love your partner, but they told you it was okay to have meaningless sex with say, a really attractive male/female model, would you do it?

Answer completely honestly.

I would not.

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nothatyoucare · 2023-02-02T09:38:20+00:00

Its interesting to think of situations where Source A isn't ready to provide you resource just yet but then gets upset if they find out you have Source B to get that resource. Just thinking about it in the abstract and real terms.

For instance, if you were interviewing at a job and you were doing good in the interview process but then they decide not to hire you when they find out you already have a source of income, even if its not full time employment.

Or trying to rent an apartment or buying a house and the fact you already have a place to stay is somehow a negative. Or trying to buy a car and having a form of transportation already is somehow bad. I know people will want to concentrate on the specific examples but the abstract idea is also really interesting to me.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-02-02T21:14:08+00:00

What do you think of women wearing white nail polish? I just saw a color photo of Marilyn Monroe taken maybe around the 60's and she looked good with that white polish.

saraimarsena · 2023-02-02T23:34:01+00:00

a great beard can be like +2 on the attractiveness scale

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-02-02T23:37:00+00:00

Are we allowed to make AMA posts?

liefelijk · 2023-02-03T00:20:34+00:00

Q4All: What are your thoughts on the romantic comedy “You’ve Got Mail?” I have seen it a million times, perhaps due to the charm of pre-2001 NYC.

Lots of interesting pairings in it, plus early OLD and baby Dave Chappelle.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-03T01:42:04+00:00

My 2023 resolution is to stop apologizing even if I know I’m wrong. It’s a very feminine trait.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-02-03T04:01:16+00:00

Now that I think about it, I'm pretty sure I've only know one person named Chad in my life. How did that become the names for Chads

eye_fuck · 2023-02-03T06:59:16+00:00

who thinks about money more — men or women?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-02T07:30:38+00:00

Capitalism is beautiful, fuck out of here with this "But everybody deserves to be paid equally!!!" No they don't, some people absolutely deserve more than others.

If you're a lazy slacker you deserve all the bad things that happen to you until you decide to get off your arse and actually make a change.

UnapolegeticPumper · 2023-02-02T21:04:39+00:00

Good news for my club today. Greenwood has been cleared of rape/sexual assault charges.

md8716 · 2023-02-03T03:08:35+00:00

I have a question.

Let's say you've been roommates with an attractive younger girl with a bf for a few months, and then you get your own girlfriend a couple months later. Roommate is hotter and 10 years younger than your gf, you're in between their ages.

So you naturally bang the shit out of your gf regularly, roommate makes offhand remarks about how she's impressed, and complains that her bf is too passive.

And then one day you're laying in bed just hanging out one random evening, and she comes in your room and jumps in your bed and starts chatting, like pillow talk type stuff.

Did that girl want to smash? Asking for a friend.

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