Daily Community Chat Megathread

Suitable_Valuable_71 · 2023-07-09T00:44:09+00:00

this is what I see when I see women here complain about men: https://old.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/14uaz4d/this_is_how_all_alpha_male_podcasts_sound/

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-09T00:38:11+00:00

I actually don’t get the huge hate on strip clubs or prostitution, it’s a solid place for a guy to get some sexual attention and young women to make some money

With the way the dating market is headed, many men are going to need that sexual outlet

potoricco · 2023-07-09T00:01:09+00:00

NOOOOOOO I JUST SAW A GUY FROM MY MIDDLE SCHOOL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-08T23:42:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/14pi601/life_time_alimony/jqjifkk/?context=3

Pretty funny exchange on the askfeminists sub that illustrates what most subs that discuss dating or gender are: echo chambers. Immediately fold and resort to personal attacks when you ask them to form a coherent argument or respond to evidence, and yell "thE pATRiARCHY!!!" like Mr. Crocker yelling about fairy god parents.

This is also why I have respect for women that post here, despite the fact that they may see ideas they disagree with/find offensive.

Also lol at the "I have a cultural studies degree" comment.

DoinIt989 · 2023-07-08T23:15:19+00:00

Love when people who've never even been to the United States and can barely speak English try to pontificate about the dating scene in NYC vs rural Iowa.

Protip for the foreign/ESL crowd - Americans don't use the word "village" unless it's about history, say "small town" whenever you mentally translate. And the TV is rarely correct unless you're watching trashy reality shows.

potoricco · 2023-07-08T22:18:12+00:00

Destroy strip clubs

EulenWatcher · 2023-07-08T22:13:21+00:00

So you're a Russian woman looking for a job. It took quite some time, but you got an offer, you took it and then the first thing your new boss tells you is "you're old! (you're middle 20s), were you looking for an official employment, because you want to take a maternity leave? Well, you should hurry up, you're gonna be a geriatric mother already"

And that's...that's not out of the ordinary really. Easy mode my ass.

potoricco · 2023-07-08T22:06:28+00:00

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She was my only friend here

potoricco · 2023-07-08T22:04:21+00:00

I love her so much why can’t I be her ughhh

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-08T21:31:42+00:00

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I hopped on the ai rating trend and this is what I got. I do think this site overrates people, the distribution graph has 6 as the average with no score below 2 returned. Imo this means it gives out at least point higher than it should, and 5 should be the average/median.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-08T21:07:20+00:00

Why did my remaining wisdom tooth suddenly decide to erupt 26 years into my life

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-08T21:01:59+00:00

q4bluepill

How can you be bluepill after seeing chadfishes?

Maffioze · 2023-07-08T20:35:14+00:00

Q4W: Do you enjoy your partner sending you dickpics?

potoricco · 2023-07-08T20:34:46+00:00

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THE AI RATED ME 7.24/10

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-08T20:24:03+00:00

When my gf leaves sometime she will use the waze app to send a text to my phone of her eta and a link to show where she is on a map real time. I'm just thinking I were to cheat that would be a perfect way of knowing how much time I got left. I don't cheat tho that is bad.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-08T20:15:46+00:00

I love when I can feel the strength gains from the gym on the bball court. Being able to absorb and finish through much more contact feels amazing.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-08T20:11:51+00:00

Opinions on best gym to go to?

I've been wanting to get back into working out but I don't know what gym would be the best for me. I want to be able to lift weight but also focus on functional fitness too. There are plenty of regular gyms around my area but also cross-fit gyms and combat gyms that practice MMA or Muay Thai, but the latter utilizes mostly cardio and HIIT with no weightrooms or traditional gym equipment.

potoricco · 2023-07-08T19:53:04+00:00

Fuck Philosophy

All the discoveries philosophers had, millions of girls had figured out by the age of 13

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-08T19:40:35+00:00

Men need sex to feel loved. True or false?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-08T19:38:57+00:00

Talked to a few gym bunnies. All good conversations. Hit a language barrier with 1. I think learning Spanish would help open up more opportunities - especially in bigger cities.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-08T19:38:25+00:00

Went to the local art museum today. It was nice, but the bulk of their works were avant garde and abstract stuff. At least the stuff I toured through, I got a voucher for a free visit so I figured I'd split up the trip

Art tier list goes

S: Landscapes

A: Dynamic portraits with people doing shit

B: Regular portraits

C: Avant Garde/High Concept

D: Abstract shit

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-08T19:31:36+00:00

Thoughts on the whole usher/keke palmer thing?

Where her boyfriend went wrong is calling her out in public, that should've been a private conversation. But I don't see any issue with expressing that you don't want your gf/wife to wear clothes where her ass is literally out. As usual the sjws on social media are calling him insecure, controlling, don't tell a woman what to wear ect... and she literally has a child with this man and is basically grinding on usher, streets behavior.

This is also a good look into what the (rare) dynamic is like when the women has higher status and wealth than the man, she wont respect him.

redguard_crime_stats · 2023-07-08T19:22:06+00:00

If a girl bitches about how guys are fuckboys and won't commit she's almost certainly chadsexual. Most guys don't have that many options, and would be happy to have a committed relationship because they wouldn't be giving up all that much.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-08T19:21:48+00:00

Deano, Gaz, Smithy, and me.

Which one, girls?

(this is not really me, it's just some lads)

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Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-08T19:20:35+00:00

Today hubby and I were driving home from the gym, and he had me read the email his daughter had excitedly forwarded him. It was instructions from the museum she had been trying to volunteer at, since she thinks she’d like to work in archeological museums some day. I flippantly remarked that she’d better marry a rich man.

Hubby gave me a sideways look and said I was being “mercenary.” I tried to explain that like, if you want a certain QOL and a low-paying job that you actually like, that’s what’s gotta happen, and that if you can fall in love with anyone on the spectrum of socioeconomic statuses, why would you not just pick a life partner that’s UMC?

‘Course, that made him uncomfortable because that’s exactly what I did, and I had to backtrack and explain that obviously I love him for him as well, and that I wouldn’t have had a kid with him if I couldn’t love him through thick and thin, and how much I appreciate everything he does for our family, etc… Super awk.

BUT I think I got back in his good graces, cuz I helped him make a funny drawing that his daughter had done backs when she was like 5 into a really cool cake for her 17th birthday, and he was pleased and very grateful. He kept remarking how kind it was of me to still want to put the effort in for a stepchild that’s always been… well, less than polite and welcoming to me. It was honestly a lot of fun though. I was periodically giggling at this dumb cake throughout the entire 4 hours I was decorating it.

Now bio daughter and I are getting ready to go to the pool. It’s been a pretty good day so far, overall.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-08T19:14:59+00:00

Being a dude the bar alone = 🤮

Being a girl at the bar alone = 😇

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-08T18:45:39+00:00

Out of interest what percentage of men vs women go to the gym? Someone’s claimed that only 2% of men go to the gym but I can’t really find reputable stats on it.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-08T18:38:25+00:00

Guys poverty isn't real. Everyone is travelling and partying and flying on private jets 24/7

but fearless_method look at these statistics...

Nah, I see it on Instagram all the time.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-07-08T18:26:42+00:00

So women are earning as much or even outearning men either up to age 29, or as long as both are childless, etc. Depends on the study. Thus the gender pay gap is a motherhood pay gap.
But in an abstracted way, children, i.e. the next generation, are a public economic asset that benefits both gender equally but that women are paying disproportionately for. So is true economic fairness only achieved when somehow women do not take more of an economic hit than men for having had kids?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-07-08T18:18:51+00:00

AI rates my face from a 7.2-7.9

And my boyfriend’s a 6.02 or 6.51

I think he’s a 10/10

potoricco · 2023-07-08T17:52:04+00:00

Awww man there was a carnival (not a carnival, a carnival like carribeans/latinos) in my area I wish I could have gone

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-08T17:41:57+00:00

White knights do more damage to society today than feminists ever could

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-08T17:28:43+00:00

Anyone posting dating experiences should be obliged to run their face through a rating AI.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-08T17:16:46+00:00

I always seem to go for attractive yet emotionally unavailable men. No single partner can ever fulfil all of one’s relationship needs and desires- something I’ve come to learn- but I still can’t shake my superficial and hedonistic penchant for men who look good, often prioritising that above many other things. Of course that’s not all I look for, but I’ve met so many who were ideal in almost every way, except that I didn’t feel intense sexual chemistry with them, so I ultimately turned them down. It frustrates me to have these inclinations. Anyone else here have similar experiences? Any advice?

Okay enough.Askwomenover30 MGTOW pilled me.

anonymous375555 · 2023-07-08T17:12:15+00:00

Why some are disgusted by older men with younger women and also some women claim that they go for older guys because men their age are “not as mature as them”? Because I think that is a combination of stupidity and hypo-criticality.

potoricco · 2023-07-08T17:10:00+00:00

Who else only puts sunscreen on their face

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-08T17:08:08+00:00

I'm one of those people who seems to feel undeniable physical/sexual chemistry with exactly the wrong kind of partner for me: stoic, emotionally disconnected, and more than a little commitment-phobic. (Doesn't help that they are also usually 6'2 with nice arms and well-connected beards.) It's almost like I don't want him if he isn't hard to get. And I don't mean to glorify all two-parent families at all, but I do think it's significant that I've never dated someone whose parents were both present growing up.

I have worked on myself in therapy enough to stop intentionally going after this kind of guy, but the more engaged/available men I've been recently dating just don't set me off physically or sexually. I really want to change my patterns. Has anyone had success in rewiring their attraction radar, and if so, how?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-08T17:00:12+00:00

I've learned in my 38 years on this planet, that I was associating mind blowing sex with toxic chemistry. Of course it was mind blowing - I was sleeping with men who were unavailable, they'd pick me up and put me down and I'd do anything and everything to try and seek their love/acceptance, whatever you want to call it. When I met my now husband I spent a long time being utterly confused about where that feeling was - was there something wrong? Am I not sexually attracted to him? ([it just so happens] he's 6ft 8 and looks like the love child of Chris Hemsworth and Chris Pratt [tee hee] - I'm definitely attracted to him), then I realised I wasn't having to fight for his love.

potoricco · 2023-07-08T16:59:14+00:00

I love going to people’s houses and seeing that their rooms are messier than mine

Willow-girl · 2023-07-08T16:25:20+00:00

Sad morning on the farm. Last night, a predator killed our big boy duck, Raider (so named for his proclivity for sneaking onto the patio and gobbling up barncat chow). My man suspects owl. Another grave we dug together for one of our beloved animals. They say a grief shared is a grief halved ...

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-08T16:14:34+00:00

For Men who have dealt with it with a woman and women who do it:

What is it about accountability that women want to avoid it completely? Why is the feeling of guilt so difficult for women to deal with

HeartCatchHana · 2023-07-08T16:12:08+00:00

Women rejecting men shorter than 6 ft is sooooooooo over exaggerated.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-08T10:52:44+00:00

Studies have shown that people with higher IQs tend to be more single, solitary, have less sex, and have trouble connecting and/or finding significant others.

I have all of the above except the IQ part, damn missed it.

happy_discus · 2023-07-08T12:03:49+00:00

Imagine thinking women are real. It's all a cover up by the government trying to stop men from forming a true free and fair world.

In other news this weeks patriarchy meeting is at Steves place. Don't forget your membership card and bring water his AC broke.

mummydontknow · 2023-07-08T12:48:57+00:00

This week's highlight has been running into women who say they want someone that knows how to communicate and is emotionally mature, but then act passive aggressive at the slightest mistake he makes.

🤡🤡🤡

LaloTwins · 2023-07-08T11:13:12+00:00

Women say they want honest niggas but will swipe left on a G just cuz he’s 5’11

That man’s the most honest man on that app

Saying he’s 5’11? When he can easily heightflate?

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-08T11:56:21+00:00

This sub is unbelievably biased against posts/comments from men its insane

Safe-Plane-2400 · 2023-07-09T09:23:36+00:00

Q4W Since women like to say they want men with experience, virgin men after 30 must have something wrong with them, wome don't want to teach and he won't be good st sex l. Why would any virgin man want to try to date an experienced women when they have these views about them?

SadEtherealNoob69420 · 2023-07-08T13:32:32+00:00

Is there a way to see the top 20% ( HVM ) men in dating apps? Any ways to see guy profiles that a decent amount of matches??

I want to see what I am lacking compared to those guys. Obviously , their genetics will be better but I just want to see the kind of photos that they take.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-08T14:32:42+00:00

Has anyone ever dealt with feelings of not belonging anywhere in the world?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-08T10:18:31+00:00

Imagine thinking that the love of your life is the guy who took you home from the clubs, next level delusion.

baiser_vole · 2023-07-08T11:14:53+00:00

So. My boyfriend and I have slowly been making our relationship public. The reactions have been rather funny.

My best friend: Okay. So I’ve been saying, … (Doesn’t think I finally managed to find someone meaningful, and goes back to the topic at hand)

His brother: About time.

His close friends: She must be imaginary. There’s help for that. (He did not date for a very very long time)

We think our parents would faint when we tell them in September. Fun stuff.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-08T11:18:20+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/14tnyui/those_who_thought_theyll_be_single_throughout/

I thought I would be a big career women, but then I met him and felt so much happier being together and building a little cozy space of happiness that I never looked back.

I never wanted to be married or cared much about it at all. When I met my person, I wanted to be married to him. It wasn’t about marriage. It was about being married to him quite specifically.

If your mere presence doesn't mind control her into wanting to marry you...

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-07-08T15:12:18+00:00

Oh, dear. I never thought I'd be one of those women who resorted to AmIUgly or TrueRateMe but I'm simultaneously tempted and not -- because I know the answer is "3/10, you're just a cum dumpster".

If you wonder whether women ever feel real pain at being leftovers, let me assure you that we do, but I am doing my best not to take it out on men. I still love men. I still have oddly conservative beliefs for an otherwise liberal woman. There's just a bit of an adjustment finding that the wall has caught up with you.

potoricco · 2023-07-08T15:34:01+00:00

I love my mom so much LMAOO

Like my brother got on this zip line thing yesterday and he was really scared and my mom took a video of him

She now posted the video on WhatsApp with the caption “fear not my son”

Idk why but that sent me. She is suchhh a mom

lehibu38 · 2023-07-09T04:30:20+00:00

Im shocked by how many women are supporting Jonah Hill's ex, I think Jonah Hill did a pretty fair and reasonable proposal to set a boundary, albeit I think his boundaries are a little extra and can convey a sense of insecurity and scarcity, but the man is atleast respectful and offers the woman an out if she cant abide by them.

This to me is a very good example of a healthy boundary-setting example, the problem is with the boundary itself, also very shady for the woman to release private dm's on blast 2 years after the relationship that is very toxic behaviour

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-07-09T06:47:20+00:00

The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage."

This get upvoted but when so called incel parrot the same narrative with opposite gender all they get shit on face.

Amazing-Key-1575 · 2023-07-10T06:30:16+00:00

I just got back from Mexico

I see why American sex tourism is wrong.

I’m a male.

My friend was trying to get women.

I saw all these businessmen at these establishments.

It’s because men who aren’t love - find ways to pay for it.

I see why escorts and stuff my arguments for it, were wrong.

I see the problem but I don’t see a fix.

What do you do as society with the unloved.

The man who no one chooses to love.

There are many lonely men, and something takes over them.

potoricco · 2023-07-08T14:08:03+00:00

The problem I have with people who consider North + And South America to be one continent (and thus believe there are 5 continents)

Where do we draw the line? There is no physical barrier between Europe and Asia. Why isn’t Europe and Asia just one continent? In fact lets throw africa into the mix because Spain and Morocco are basically connected. Why not just say there are only 3 continents, America, Afro-Eurasia and Oceania

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-08T15:23:28+00:00

It's crazy that men are not able to see women as humans. Like they only think that their wife and daughters and mother a deserving of basic kindness and others are not their problem so kick them in the dirt.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-08T15:34:26+00:00

Looking over askwomenover30, and datingover40 is just... so sad. Women being lukewarm with regular guys and the guy's kill what little attraction these women have for them by... physically escalating from kissing to more. It's just so pathetic...

A friend of mine shared that she's dating a couple (m+f). She goes on and on about how hot the girl is. This dude is just the most normal looking motherfucker on the planet. There really is a bifurcation with women, either they are so wound up tight and are uncomfortable/hate sex for some reason (religion, upbringing,shame,disinterest, trauma, etc),

OR there are the super sex positive girls, and the bad that comes with it (BPD, narcissist, low self esteem, shallow, etc)

What an ugly, awful search for the normal guy. So many fucking factors actively working against you. It's rainy days like this that makes you take a step back and wonder... is this it? Is this all there is? It's basically impossible to find a fun girl who actually likes you and likes to fuck you passionately.

Things are just not right. Not right at all.

EulenWatcher · 2023-07-09T05:50:10+00:00

I’ve got so many comments for explaining the logic behind the Nordic system. Some men do feel offended when they can’t buy sex, don’t they?

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-09T06:54:05+00:00

Q4M who think each new sexual partner lowers a woman’s RMV: if this is true, why should any woman sleep with you?

AverageLuckyGuy · 2023-07-08T10:16:50+00:00

I've spent months reading other forums such as dating, askmen, etc. Yet I stumbled upon this place by accident & feel like it speaks to me 10x more than anywhere else on reddit when it comes to dating/relationship dynamics. Where have I been all this time?

QuenchlessGato · 2023-07-08T10:48:51+00:00

Finally watched Drive with Ryan Gosling after hearing it being praised for the portrayal of the Sigma Male mindset.

Was disappointed to see him simping for a woman with a child, whose husband is a bad boy criminal who stays in prison.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-08T12:00:43+00:00

I have been watching a lot of Kevin Samuels videos lately. The black (matriarchy) community is too far gone from being saved

Slavery and segregation wishes it could do to the black community, what feminism did

Some of the delusion that American black women and to lesser degree, black men, have is impossible to come back from

potoricco · 2023-07-08T12:15:28+00:00

I want to be a waitress

youresoshy · 2023-07-08T12:57:27+00:00

Women see a thin and pretty actress: I hate beauty standards!

Men see a fit and handsome actor: I wanna be like him!

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-08T13:14:23+00:00

Do men not like lean women anymore? Is that falling out of fashion again? :(

MyLastBestChance · 2023-07-08T14:58:08+00:00

It’s amazing to me that men here think that a woman having sex quickly definitely means that she feels some kind of deep animal lust for the man (and somehow believe that this lust will prevent a dead bedroom) 🤣

Maybe she’s had a string of bad dates and just randomly says “fuck it” and goes for it.

Maybe she had too much to drink.

Maybe she was depressed or feeling insecure or angry about something totally unrelated and needed a distraction.

Maybe she saw a picture of her ex and his new gf.

Maybe she got tired of doing everything right and decided to try doing something wrong to see what it feels like.

Maybe she just felt like it was easier to just get it over with than to argue about it.

Maybe she hates herself and does it as a self punishment.

The list goes on and on…

There are so many reasons that are arguably more likely than that she’s dickmatized by your superior sex appeal.

SadEtherealNoob69420 · 2023-07-08T15:49:45+00:00

Lol this actually sucks.

I have so many problems with myself.

I don't use tiktok , no posts on my instagram and no twitter. Basically no social media life. I am from Gen Z.
I have poor social skills with women. But not men for some reason. ( I think )
My looks is the main factor holding me back.
I am a boring person for some reason

Literally all 4 of these are red flags.

Women just aren't attracted to me which is fucking sad. But its a canon event and I can't change that.

Even if I somehow find a woman attracted to me , point 1 , 2 and 4 is just gonna drive her away. 😑

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-09T03:25:53+00:00

Oh look, the internet is calling Jonah Hill an abuser now for his completely fair boundaries with his ex.

God forbid a man have boundaries, can't have that can we?

EulenWatcher · 2023-07-09T05:58:00+00:00

That screams “someone who is lonely and poor enough not to leave me”

luliloo · 2023-07-09T07:08:39+00:00

I recently hooked up with a guy and I realized he’s into feet. Has this been normalized now?

It was surprisingly cute tbh. He gave me a foot rub.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-07-09T09:49:19+00:00

Fuck me. How do you avoid shitpost filter? Too long. Filter. Too short. Filter. Medium. Still fucking filter.

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-07-08T10:45:13+00:00

What is love…

CliffPR · 2023-07-08T12:00:01+00:00

I was house shopping the other day and I went on a walk-through of a newly built house near my work. It was everything I wanted. Right size, right price, style and flow I could easily live in for a long time, near work as previously mentioned. But... there was no kitchen.

When I pointed this out, the realtor got this kind of annoyed look and informed me that a kitchen would be installed at some point in the future. I just needed to buy the house first, then the process toward eventually installing the kitchen could start.

I politely told the realtor that I didn't think that would work for me and I would have to pass on this one. At which point the realtor got pissed and said "If the only thing you wanted was a kitchen you should have just said so!" before escorting me out, locking up, and driving off in a huff.

AITA?

Khanluka · 2023-07-08T12:07:18+00:00

Quistion for woman.

Last week i got dumb again. Getting sick of this happing i text the last 3 woman i dated. And asked them what i dit wrong and what made them lose attraction.

All them said the same thing.

No you dindt do anything wrong and you suide stay the way you are and your really sweet. And your just super unlucky when it comes to the woman you date.

I thanked them for answering and wish them a good day.

But in my head its kinda strange that they all gave the same answer. Make me feel like it not the real answer. Could somone any of the girl help me out here in what might be the real answer.

All of these woman where woman that i sleept with. And date for 2/3 months activly.

Secure1Ad1991 · 2023-07-08T12:59:11+00:00

I'm at the gym now. Give me a good pick-up line. There's a hot girl with tattoos in front of me. Please, not something that may get me thrown out.

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-08T13:10:41+00:00

Do you guys feel comfortable about your woman sharing all details about the relationship with her friends ?

I myself don’t share basic stuff about my daily life let alone private things , i think this attitude without consent is disrespectful to your partner on general

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-08T15:31:15+00:00

You know what’s better than sex , pooping after having a constipation

potoricco · 2023-07-09T01:29:48+00:00

Kylian Mbappe youre my king, my rock, I love you

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-09T01:54:44+00:00

I been done touched grass going to bars and clubs and it only reconfirmed my beliefs.

Women are incapable of being lonely. There is not a single girl alone or not engaged socially while there are a good number of men who are. Every single girl is talking to someone. I know this because I'm specifically looking for girls who are alone to approach. Any woman who is alone gets snapped up by another guy in literally seconds like piranhas. "Just be confident and have basic social skills" they said, when the skill floor is being able to pull a girl's attention away from her friend group and having her friends eye code their judgment of you while you try to get her attention and convince her to talk or dance with you for more than a minute.
Women are a hivemind. I quite literally watch women discuss me with their friends in my face (because the music is loud and I can't hear what they're talking about) and then she decides to stop talking to me or keep talking to me based on what her friends say.

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2023-07-09T04:31:51+00:00

The more women become selective in their mate choices, the harder it is for most men to have sex and produce offspring. As a result, men try to limit women's discretion through various means, such as religion, culturally enforced monogamy, and social programming. On this forum, many men express a desire to get rid of online dating and revert back to the social norms of the 1950s, and some even shame certain behaviors. These reactions reflect the desperate nature of men in dealing with women's sexual strategies. Women either seek the best mate they can find or engage in sexual relations with multiple partners and then find someone else to help raise the children.

In nature, men pursue women, and in all of nature, males must demonstrate their worth and prove themselves to womens. Humans are no different when it comes to mate selection between genders. Men must pursue and compete to attract mates and have sex.

Although many men on this forum express anger towards women, they should be angry at the fact that their fathers were able to pass on their undesirable genes, not women.

SadEtherealNoob69420 · 2023-07-09T07:10:25+00:00

Anyone knows any subreddit where you are allowed to post your own physique so that other people can give comments on?

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Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-08T10:02:10+00:00

I'm back home after /u/Sure-Vermicelli4369 suggested I go out and talk to the "fattie whose leftover at the bar" (honestly, kind of disgusting language. I would never refer to a non autistic person so awfully)

I have new opinions.

I will express them in meme format.

ME WHEN I TALK ABOUT EVERDAY PEOPLE AND SOCIETY AND HOW WE SHOULD BE INLUSIVE AND ACCEPTING TO EVERYONE

vs

ME WHEN I SAY OR THINK ANYTHING ABOUT AUTISTIC '''''''''''''"""""""PEOPLE''''''"""""""""""""""

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-08T10:02:22+00:00

first

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-08T10:03:20+00:00

I'm back home after /u/Sure-Vermicelli4369 suggested I go out and talk to the "fattie whose leftover at the bar" (honestly, kind of disgusting language. I would never refer to a non autistic person so awfully)

I have new opinions.

I will express them in meme format.

ME WHEN I TALK ABOUT EVERDAY PEOPLE AND SOCIETY AND HOW WE SHOULD BE INLUSIVE AND ACCEPTING TO EVERYONE

vs

ME WHEN I SAY OR THINK ANYTHING ABOUT AUTISTIC '''''''''''''"""""""PEOPLE''''''"""""""""""""""

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-08T12:42:37+00:00

There’s a guy at my gym with a little Chris Bumstead mustache thing going on and i think im really into it ?

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-08T13:10:24+00:00

Do you guys feel comfortable about your women sharing all details about the relationship with her friends ?

I myself don’t share basic stuff about my daily life let alone private things , i think this attitude without consent is disrespectful to your partner on general

Peacesquad · 2023-07-08T14:53:28+00:00

What did I miss

Ok_Tomorrow_3963 · 2023-07-08T14:56:16+00:00

Reminder that /r/askwomenover30 is the truth, way better than arguing with stubborn women here

Peacesquad · 2023-07-08T15:07:58+00:00

Give me Liberty, give me Seggs or give me death!

potoricco · 2023-07-08T19:58:42+00:00

Why is it that the skinniest people have the biggest stomachs

We didn’t go to the zoo, but I went out to a buffet with my sister figure and her friends family. And it’s basically it’s one of those families where legit everybody is built the exact same. And in this case they were all tall and extremely lanky

They all easily consumed 3+ FULL PLATES while I was full after just 1

potoricco · 2023-07-08T22:34:12+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/5cw14x5titab1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=c29f1e0c41c1bbf17db5e4ac731e781065d54ee0

This shit smells soooo fucking good

Smells like vapo rub but 100x stronger and like…herbal

Also feels good too, I put it under my nose one time my whole face was burning and eyes watering

BLKSKNHED · 2023-07-08T23:26:42+00:00

[I just can't take male "grooming" survivors seriously sorry] (https://www.theguardian.com/books/2023/jul/08/joe-gibson-affair-with-teacher-seventeen-book-extract-nfbntw)

dbz__f · 2023-07-09T01:41:15+00:00

My gf: “You look like Harry Potter”

Me: “Can I put my magic wand inside you?”

Her: 😐

Come on, it was funny

dbz__f · 2023-07-09T01:42:05+00:00

Apparently trump will release all the jfk files if he gets elected

I hope he wins just for that

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-07-09T02:06:13+00:00

I am going to cut my own hair from now on.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-07-09T02:17:32+00:00

Okay, so I have been chatting with this girl from an online dating app for the last four hours. I am 6'8". She just sent the "I just realized how tall you are" text.

So tell me blackpillers, what's the over under on her genuinely not noticing vs. pretending to not notice so she could bring it up later?

Imo, you guys emphasize on height too much.

ThisBoringLife · 2023-07-09T02:55:21+00:00

Q4W: Did you, or do you currently have a role model for femininity?

ThisBoringLife · 2023-07-09T02:56:14+00:00

Always good to see a psychologist speak on the topic, so here's a podcast episode on it.

Watch if you care, give opinions regardless:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8g0rMB6quiQ

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-09T04:00:16+00:00

One things I've realized is negative emotions are so addictive. Sometimes great things will happen to me and ill just brush it off as luck. But when bad things happen, I'll be like this is probably what I deserve.

Terrible mindset. Its honestly cuased me to Sabatoge friendships, relationships, crushed all becuase sometimes I just feel like I deserve to be alone.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-09T04:27:25+00:00

Lately I’ve been feeling the urge to get another tattoo, but I’m worried I’ll get it and then not live up to it’s meaning… maybe I should order temporary ones just to soothe the impulse

md8716 · 2023-07-09T07:29:25+00:00

I find it disturbing how privileged educated middle class+ women believe men shouldn't talk to a poorer woman at all. Because of the mere potential of financial abuse.

Like "her broke ass should stay in the gutter with her people where she belongs, rather than ever enter a transactional relationship with a wealthier man she's not attracted to."

Idk it just seems horribly tone deaf.

Edit: and by tone deaf I mean it's probably good ol fashioned western colonizer racist attitudes.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-09T08:54:29+00:00

Is there an overlap of men who have an issue with women having a body count over 10 and also having an issue if a woman doesn’t sleep with him within the first two weeks of dating?

Strikes me as quite naive to think that a woman should never engage in casual sex, unless it’s with you.

4SSh01e · 2023-07-09T10:04:41+00:00

Man after reading all these discussions surrounding promiscuity, Jonah Hill, men having to chase women, women dumping men because he yawned the wrong way etc. I wonder despite all of this why do you even want to date/have relationships with them?

You have to decide for yourself what’s more important to you. Does the thought of her having sucked 50 dicks before you is more distressing than the love and affection she provides? Then be the 51st dick being sucked and fuck off.

If you can exercise discipline and self restraint then you hold all the power. There are obviously give and takes. You will probably live and die alone but if that sounds better than raising children with/of a former hoe then that’s your personal choice. I think having plenty of money, friends, and shagging a girl here and there going through her hoe phase isn’t so bad than deal with all the drama that comes with dealing with them long term.

Also get snipped if that’s the lifestyle you want.

Birth-control freed women from the burden of pregnancy while exploring their sexuality. Your burden is the dreams and desires you have of a life. When you were growing up, you probably dreamed of having a loving, loyal wife and a couple of kids, living in a nice neighbourhood. And now you are fighting to keep that dream alive. To turn the clock back. But the cat is out of the bag. Give up on the dream. Embrace the reality with no reservations and be VERY okay with being alone for stretches of time.

Women are breaking yesterday’s societal norms today and creating new ones. You can break the new ones being created; today and tomorrow. If yesterday’s societal norm was to expect some level of chastity (again, I have never said virgin, I don’t have virgin preference at all) from your woman and that norm is being broken today by telling men that they should be okay with marrying someone with colourful past then you can break the norm and not marry/partner up anyone at all. Just be alone and shag here and there.

When you are on your deathbed, you might be alone but how the fuck does that matter? Once you are dead you are dead and none of this matters. Do you want to compromise for your whole life to have a chance at a grand exit? Or do you want to live life on your terms and have a shitty exit?

Honestly, you don’t even need your own children or a wife to have someone on your deathbed. I have sisters/cousins who love me very much. Some day they will have kids. I can love their kids as my own and be their cool uncle who flies them in every summer vacation and they have tons of fun.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-09T10:59:12+00:00

Damn jonah hill was based.

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-09T15:02:43+00:00

1 rose or 3 roses

Infammo · 2023-07-09T15:27:58+00:00

Saw this on my feed.

Content wise I think it's hilarious that the bottom 1% of women who live the standard male experience are treated with sympathy instead of being called entitled and told it's actually their negativity that's responsible for the lack of success.

But mostly it's about the title. She's doing the thing women here do where they make a post in response to a fake "thing ~~incels~~ men here say" so they can make a rebuttal. Literally no woman needs to be lectured about how being unattractive is worse than being attractive, because literally no woman "wishes she was uglier." Women know full well that the benefits of being attractive, and being the more attractive sex, drowns out negative aspects a thousandfold. OP wants to say "you guys sounds like assholes for pretending your privilege is a handicap" but knows the thread would sink so she has to pretend she's refuting some commonly stated opinion.

The hugbox nature of the sub is working in her favor but a few women are pointing it out.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-10T00:00:42+00:00

How many people here don’t plan on having children? There seems to be more backlash for women who don’t want children than there is for men who don’t want children. I think whatever your choice is is great for you, nobody should feel shamed for that choice but I don’t get why the shaming is mainly reserved for women.

LaloTwins · 2023-07-10T07:45:19+00:00

I think the world would be a far better place if women told men they don’t want to be disrespected rather than telling them they want to be respected

Downtown_Werewolf_44 · 2023-07-10T08:35:02+00:00

Saw a lot of mention of Jonah Hill and it looks like the news didn't really reach France, maybee I missed it. Can somebody explain me What's all about?

avoiding_a_stalker · 2023-07-10T23:04:38+00:00

I don’t see why they would or why this is a problem. Why would anyone want to date someone who doesn’t want to date them?

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