Daily Community Chat Megathread

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-18T21:59:03+00:00

As a woman, you don't have to work hard in your career. You're guaranteed a man making an upper middle class income. You can take sabbaticals, go backpacking, take a job for enjoyment instead of income, prioritize partying and social life in your 20s and early 30s and still come out good, stable and secure in your late 30s and 40s. As long as you can do the basic of having a healthy (19-21) BMI and not being crazy/mean, you easily can marry an upper middle class man making twice you are making.

At my job, there's a girl who's making as much as me (which is solidly upper middle class) who brags about her boyfriend who makes 600k+ (and will increase cause he's still young), his boss making mid 7 figures and his friends and coworkers making like 800k - 1.5mil, and it's not a lie cause I know his company pays that much. We work a very similar job, spent similar amounts of effort, and she's set for life and doesn't have to worry about anything just because she's a woman while I have to worry about working for a long time. Women only date down in income, so at best I'll only be able to date someone at my income, or more likely like 1/2 my income, so I'll have like 30-40% of her household income even though we put in similar amounts of effort working in almost the job/position.

I can't take long sabbaticals because the job markets can go to crap at any minute. I have to study on the side to get a better job. I can't relax with this financial insecurity. She can just relax and take it easy and be carefree with her financial security.

Women won the lottery by being born female.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-18T21:46:08+00:00

Regarding the whole “what do you even have in common” argument. I’d argue there’s far more difference between girls within a age group than there are between age groups. Like there’s far more variance between different 20 year old girls than between the average 20 year old girl and the average 25 year old girl.

Shakturi101 · 2023-09-18T21:34:42+00:00

In modern times, human females are earth’s apex predator.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-18T21:33:58+00:00

Weight classes at the Olympics is absolutely bs. The Olympics should be about being the very best and except the top weight class you aren’t actually the best in the World.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-18T21:33:55+00:00

thinking about shaving my head for a change or at least buzz cut. Hair can be pretty annoying and high maintenance. And there's no point in having it either

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-18T21:31:17+00:00

Name something better than a bulking day.

Pro tip: You can't, bulking is so fucking nice.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-18T21:30:54+00:00

I feel like impulsively adopting a cat. I've never owned a cat before but I want one

potoricco · 2023-09-18T21:23:25+00:00

Ok bye

potoricco · 2023-09-18T21:23:18+00:00

can I be his food

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-18T21:20:40+00:00

So if a guy is a bit delayed in his mental development shouldn’t he date down in age?

potoricco · 2023-09-18T21:19:55+00:00

Ok I said I wasn’t coming back here for a few days and it’s true but I just have to say this

I wanted to go to the store with my mom to order a cake and I’m at school. My expectation was that I would go home and we would go together…. But no she’s asking me to meet her there and it’s making me sad. She’s treating me like an adult and I don’t like it. Now that I think about it I haven’t been in her car in months. I wanted to go WITH her not separately doing it together is what makes it special

And I’m also going to ask her if she can take off work on my birthday

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-18T21:19:38+00:00

https://youtu.be/OOhdx1TLutw?si=dIPnm-JYN7aFfLwP

Mike Tyson in front of a TV or behind a microphone is undefeated 😭

Maffioze · 2023-09-18T20:58:34+00:00

I will never understand why "women are helping other women, men should help other men" is somehow an acceptable argument when used by leftwing individuals.

How is it not just a gendered version of nationalism, basically "my kind comes first and is superior" kind of thinking?

Then you have these people accusing men of not helping other men as if there are no ethical issues with women selectively helping other women. If any other group did this they would be accused of all kinds of isms.

How about humans helping other humans, men helping women and women helping men?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-09-18T20:53:49+00:00

I've been hearing disgusting claims about women's toilets. Shit splattered on the walls? Why? How?

DerayRevan · 2023-09-18T20:46:24+00:00

So recently Shannon sharp has been fired from undisputed and am personally very upset since he was always the most entertaining person on that show, and just the best Lebron fan l've witnessed

Speaking of King James, his about to enter his 21st season were he'll become the first player to average more than 25pts and potentially make an first nba all-star team selection

But yea am really gonna miss Shannon because l've been getting the best entertainment from him

odd_cloud · 2023-09-18T20:28:00+00:00

Q4W

What would you say to your younger brother of college age who’d say that he has no luck with girls? Let’s say he tried approaching some girls, but was rejected every time.

gigrabbit · 2023-09-18T20:24:40+00:00

one take i see on here a lot that doesn't parallel real life is the idea that; when in a relationship, women tend to drive off men's friends and that adds to the male loneliness epidemic.

in my experience, me having any kind of friendship was a + 1. i actually believe women would rather me be friends with klan members than having no friends at all.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-18T20:05:10+00:00

One common argument against all this red pill stuff is people just say “well there’s about as many women and men and most people end up in relationships so all of this male dating anger is overblown.”

What people don’t understand is the pairing up in LTR among men and women is decreasing in the modern age, so a lot of these single women with ridiculous standards are just gonna stay single or maybe drop them as they age.

You can find these sad women all over places like twox, FDS, LSA, vindicta. There are very sad women all over the place as well

meteorness123 · 2023-09-18T19:42:58+00:00

Competence, game, demographics, charisma, vibe - all these things are far more important as long as you're not below average looking. The thing is that the manosphere (respectively the blacpill sphere) might be a concentration of people who are below average so they zone in and consider looks to be the holy grail. This creates a discrepancy between opinions on the internet and opinions in day-to-day life.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-18T19:39:30+00:00

I started my first community college class today and I think half of my classmates are high schoolers in an accelerated program. Most of the men an appropriate age for me are not very appealing. I’m making a profile on a conservative dating website tonight.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-18T19:27:42+00:00

men still don't understand that being afraid is arousing for women. Men are so solipsistic that they never stop to think about physiology of sex and what it sex from pov of women and that it's only for men sex is tied to power, because they are the ones in power due to having thing that goes inside the vulnerable body of someone smaller and weaker than them.

For women sex is deeply interwined with fear — someone bigger and way stronger than them puts something inside their vulnerable body for their own pleasure and gets to control the whole process. Sex is for men is inherently aggressive action, pussy gets wet to not get damaged when confronted with it.

Fear, anxiety, nervousness — horny feelings.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-18T19:14:54+00:00

I like having female friends. The only problem is when they fall in love with you.

KevinDurantsDurag · 2023-09-18T19:11:37+00:00

I’m interested, for the people who are naturally loners or homebodies, and are struggling or have nothing in the sex/dating area , what would push you to go out more (or if you’re a loner who does go out, what would push you to try to meet more people?)? Or are you satisfied with your lifestyle even if it isn’t favorable to getting dates or casual sex?

odd_cloud · 2023-09-18T19:07:11+00:00

There are only several reasons why a woman may have an unsatisfactory dating life:

1) unlucky with looks 2) autism 3) unreasonable standards 4) passion for abusive morons.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-18T19:05:30+00:00

Modern dating is honestly GG for dudes if you didn’t meet a girl in school or don’t have a social group with many single attractive and looking women.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-18T18:38:46+00:00

I like big butts and I cannot fib

Peacesquad · 2023-09-18T18:38:23+00:00

Biggest fear in life is being a monotonous zombie. I’m literally in the parking lot of Walmart watching people walk in like zombies.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-18T18:02:54+00:00

What are your preferences that are not deal breakers. Like little bonus things that make someone more appealing but you can live without it.

Mine:

owns an AK-47

is into Korean horror movies

black hair

looks dead inside

be that guy that just seems to know everyone

owns an interesting older car (doesn't have to be expensive)

angels-fanatic · 2023-09-18T18:02:25+00:00

I'm hoping someone can help me find a hike that is eluding me.

My wife and I are staying at an Airbnb for the month in Oregon.
Before we came, my wife and I were looking up hikes. We found one hike that looked like the trail crossed over several streams/rivers that sort looked like fingers. I'm pretty sure there was a waterfall somewhere too.
We cannot find what hike that was. Anybody have any ideas on what it might be?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-18T17:52:32+00:00

Sometimes I wonder how much internalized misogyny I probably have. Mostly because I tend to prefer male teachers. I rarely like teachers, but when I do, they are usually men. It has been like this as long as I can remember, and seems like I haven’t been able to outgrow it. I really like my woodworking teacher, he actually makes me want to go to a class even when I would prefer to stay home. I don’t get along with my ceramics teacher, even though I recognize that she is extremely talented and I have so much to learn from her.

towerofcheeeeza · 2023-09-18T17:45:42+00:00

Was able to get tickets this weekend for a concert I knew my bf would want to go to. We didn't previously know about it, but I suddenly came across an email saying tickets were on sale. It took almost an hour but I was able to successfully snag them and seeing him so excited when I told him about it was worth every second.

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-18T17:42:27+00:00

CMV: Modern-day feminism (toxic feminism) is an ideology of hatred.

If you had asked me 5-10 years ago, I would have called myself a feminist. I am no longer a fan of the current feminist talking points. I think the whole feminist ideology is sliding toward fascist ideas that look a lot like Nazism to me.

Take, for example, the reluctance to acknowledge the existence of misandry. For a long time, feminists rejected the idea that misandry exists. Now, however, the narrative has shifted...and if you ask feminists they'll say "oh, yes, misandry is real, but it's caused by the patriarchy! and misandry is actually misogyny!". As a man, this is complete nonsense to me.

There are lots of feminist ideas that make good sense. Women should have the right to choose what they do with their bodies, everyone should have access to birth control and we should all be allowed to abort every fetus if we feel like it (both men and women). These aren't really women's rights, these are human rights.

In fact, if you ask a feminist to tell you what rights a man has that a woman does not (in the West at least), they can't tell you because the answer is that men and women have the exact same rights, at least on paper. In real terms, women actually have many more rights than men. For example, the bar for hiring women is much lower in corporate America, there are many women-only welfare programs, housing programs, scholarships, investment opportunities, so and and so forth. Men are at a huge disadvantage in modern society in nearly every way, perhaps except for the fact that we continue to dominate the extremes due to variability (i.e., men tend to be the highest and lowest IQ people, highest and lowest performers in various trades, activities, sports, etc), and of course men are physically stronger than women and typically larger.

So what then, is feminism about these days? What is the fight about? When I dig deep, the only thing I can come up with is that feminists hate men, they want men to disappear, and they actually take pleasure in the suffering of men. In other words, modern feminism is an ideology of hatred.

Or am I wrong?

(I thought about posting this to /r/AskFeminists but it would be an instaban, obv. PPD is really one of the only places on the internet we can discuss these things anymore.)

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-18T17:33:15+00:00

proposing after nutting is the most romantic thing a guy can do because in his state of asexual PNC, he decided he wants to spend the rest of his life with you

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-18T17:20:17+00:00

Did you hit your set of respect women rows to failure this morning you little bitch?

phosphophyllitekun · 2023-09-18T17:19:06+00:00

I wish scientists would figure out how to keep the male brain in a permanent state of PNC

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-18T16:54:31+00:00

Q4M (and women too tbh):

Should your social life be a factor when picking a career?

Conventional wisdom says that's a dumb thing to consider. But honestly, in post-covid society a lot of your friends are work colleagues. This is especially true in big companies/firms that are more tech-oriented.

You're going to have a better time socially and dating as say a lawyer in Atlanta than as a software engineer in Man Jose.

baiser_vole · 2023-09-18T16:48:45+00:00

My boyfriend has started to smile a lot more, and I've found out that he is CRAZY attractive when he smiles. Apparently, he has gotten told to smile more by multiple women when they saw him smile. Last night, I told him whenever he smiles, I question whether I'm dating him mainly for his looks, cause he is so good looking when he smiles.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-18T16:37:30+00:00

Women claim they hate men with controlling behaviour yet they overwhelmingly fall for them.

Makes you wonder, do most women like men who control most aspects of the relationship?

Why do they friendzone passive betas if they hate controlling men?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-18T16:28:09+00:00

I think the most controversial thing I like in men are guys who own guns. Specifically guys who own AR-style rifles and are strapped at all times in public.

One of my exes and my current bf have a gun collection. Ever since I went shooting for the first time, I'm like you know what? Guns are pretty awesome.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-18T16:21:48+00:00

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4PointTakedown · 2023-09-18T16:16:41+00:00

Alright I'm about to change my flair to RP because for the first time in my life I think I hate women because of one word:

Ozempic

Holy fucking shit. The Health At Every Size movement has broken these women's brains. And I (was) a supporter at HAES (for women, men stop being losers and fucking lift). Like actually broken it irrevocably. And it's literally going to kill people.

So we have this amazing new drug, Ozempic and what it does is that it crushes your appetite. Basically this is the drug, the golden grail of public health. It could literally solve the obesity crisis. It could save us not billions but trillions over the course of a few years in healthcare costs. This is the holy fucking grail of weightloss drugs. It could create new paradigm in healthcare truly transforming the world more than anything since the fucking antibiotic/penicillin. Alexander Fleming eat your heart out, or rather don't.

So what's the issue? Well now the people who were part of the HAES are going "I spent so much time not worrying about the number on the scale and instead just focusing on being healthy, now I feel like I have to worry about the number on the scale again and that makes me feel bad :( :( :( :(. Obesity isn't a moral failing :( :( :( :( . And this medication makes me feel like this is a disease that needs to be treated with medication :( . I worked so hard mentally to not feel like that :( :( :( . WE NEED TO BAN IT BECAUSE IT'S HURTING US CULTURALLY AND IT'S GONIG TO CREATE A CULTURAL STIGMA AGAINST BEING FAT"

Oh my god. It is unfathomable to me. My anger is unbounded.

And the doctors aren't making it better either. The dumbfucks are like "Well we don't know what it looks like in 50 years if you've been on these drugs for a long time." Even though we do know what these people will look like in 50 years if they don't take the drug, fucking dead from a massive fucking heart attack.

If this causes these medications to become unapproved I'm going to have a full ass joker moment where I say we live in a society.

This is mindblowing and mindnumbing. Nothing about this is okay.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-18T16:15:23+00:00

Over the weekend I've decided that Richard Patrick from Filter has entered my pantheon of rock daddies. 🥵💦

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-18T16:01:50+00:00

I keep seeing it repeated they women are happier single, but i would love to see the date they shows that. Everything I have read points to married people being happier

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-18T15:38:27+00:00

Q4M would you prefer

A. Girlfriend who fucks u enthusiasticly once a week/sometimes once every 2 weeks. The sex is very good and she is very enthusiastic.

B. Girlfriend who is always DTF. If u want it she will give it. But she treats it like a chore or starfishes a lot. But u still get pussy whenever u want

assume they both love u and r still affectionate outside of sex

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-18T15:35:10+00:00

Researchers estimated that 68 percent of romantic relationships start from friendship.

The super great part of dating within social circle, is... you don't have to be as careful.

When you date complete strangers... people can be deceitful and malicious as fuck! And one has to be careful, vet, know red flags, match commitment, etc.

But when you date within your social circle... you and your friends know them. If they are an asshole and hiding it, you are almost guaranteed to have a friend tell you about it.

So you can lose the anxiousness, relax, show self confidence.

AspiringMogger · 2023-09-18T15:16:12+00:00

I am 100% sure I have way too high standards for LTR dating. The women I want got better options lookswise, personality-wise, money wise. No woman I’ll ever be in a LTR or have been in a long term relationship with has ever been my first choice. It’s truly brutal to realise that the future that awaits me is betabuxxing. Only women I’ve been able to sleep with through dating apps and irl this past year have been women I’ve been unattracted to. Life truly isn’t what it was promised.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-18T15:15:16+00:00

Bro, get your fat ass in the gym and stop eating garbage. Going to therapy won't improve your SMV.

Stop coping, start lifting.

NJFlowerchild · 2023-09-18T15:08:22+00:00

Sprained ankles are so annoying

Peacesquad · 2023-09-18T14:59:22+00:00

Same shit here every day lmao

Peacesquad · 2023-09-18T14:59:14+00:00

But what did I miss

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-09-18T14:31:16+00:00

The ability to cross post threads on other subreddits worked effectively as a fact check.

And Reddit got rid of the feature.

Reddit needs to bring community guidelines because the amount of inaccurate information is rampant.

SentientNose · 2023-09-18T12:22:59+00:00

Very impressed with how bad the discussions have become on ppds posts, I don't think I've seen a single correct idea!

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100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-18T07:14:57+00:00

The reasons that you should be meditating every day:

- It centres you

- Increases how calm you feel

- Allows you to focus for much longer

- Clinically proven to help you read people better and generally improves your social skills

- You feel better and happier on days you meditate

There's no reason not to meditate every day, even if it's just for 5 minutes, you all have 5 minutes in a day.

Shazamo333 · 2023-09-18T07:50:10+00:00

Does anyone have a shitty skill that girls somehow like?

So I picked up singing like 4 months ago and I'm not good I know it.

My friends and family make it clear lol but I've gone out with like 6 different girls in the last couple months and as we get to know eachother I would eventually share that I'm taking up singing, and not a single one has said anything bad! They're literally like "I actually really like your voice, it's nice! Sing more for me don't stop"

And it's such a mood booster, getting your efforts recognised. Meanwhile friends and family still think I sound terrible so idk girls, do you know I'm getting politely gaslit and they actually want me to stop singing? Or should I keep this up?

abaxeron · 2023-09-18T07:51:55+00:00

Apparently condoms with spikes work as well on normally orgasming partners as a treatment would on a person who does not have the condition. At best, unimpressive and no effect.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-18T07:56:09+00:00

I’m a long time amateur mycologist and I can’t believe I discovered a couple of indoor mushrooms in my apartment today. For the first time since the early 90’s I’m really happy I don’t own my own dwelling. Rainy season but holy crap, it’s gonna be a hard talk with my landlord who likely won’t understand the implications of having mushrooms growing outta a wooden cabinet near the balcony door. Mycelium underneath. He’s a lunkhead who will mistake me for a hysterical earth witch.

abaxeron · 2023-09-18T08:43:08+00:00

https://youtu.be/LBzcBLBZZCU?si=Ln9TpPOlIKbFDbHq That's how you do it. Close your eyes and think of the Roman empire!!!

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-09-18T08:44:39+00:00

If men collaborated, they could kill off Onlyfans today.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-18T08:47:03+00:00

babies on tiktok are giving me baby fever

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-18T08:50:10+00:00

Motherfuckers will see you counting your calories, eating a clean diet, avoiding fast food and sugary stuff and say you have an eating disorder.

Just because you don't have any discipline doesn't mean you have to drag the rest of us down.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-18T08:56:49+00:00

Confess

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-18T08:58:27+00:00

Why a man having sex with a drunk woman is considered molestation even though he himself is drunk? Why its believed that women are more affected by alcohol.

By the way I condemn molestation and drinking, I myself was never drunk before.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-18T09:33:19+00:00

Possible date with a guy later

Sillysheila · 2023-09-18T10:04:10+00:00

I just got a more high end blender called a Kleva/Mealio that can blend and cook hot soup. Tried potato leek tonight, wow, it was so delicious and I barely had to any work. The blender mostly cooked it for me. Highly recommend.

That’s the future folks; what a genius way to cut some corners and have a tasty fresh meal after work and the gym.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-18T10:17:29+00:00

Q4All: how do you think the percentage of abusive men in the world of celebrities, compares to the peecentage of abusive men in real life?

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-09-18T10:37:50+00:00

I’ve read male dating advice that putting up workout pics or videos is cringey and might make women think you’re obsessed with the gym. But I’ve been coming across tons of gym pics/videos along with mirror selfies and bikini pics from women’s accounts. Is the advice just gendered? Are guys putting up gym pics in Hinge/Bumble as well?

dbz__f · 2023-09-18T10:44:57+00:00

Which country is the most romantic to go on a trip to with your partner?

dbz__f · 2023-09-18T10:52:00+00:00

Question for women: under which circumstances would you INITIATE sex with your partner? If your partner tries to initiate and you’re not receptive, what’s the reason??

nexkell · 2023-09-18T11:15:04+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16l65sf/noticing_a_lot_of_single_men_seemingly_over_value/

While I dislike the 80/20 rule hard not to point out how women are no different. But of course the women there totally go for guys at their own level.

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-18T11:35:46+00:00

If women are afraid when they go out on dates, why don’t they go with short wimpy men?.

Willow-girl · 2023-09-18T12:06:51+00:00

I have a doctor's appointment today for the first time in years! I'm going to a new doc, too, as I decided to switch to one closer to where I live now. It's my boyfriend's PCP, so he comes highly recommended. I'm still a little nervous that I'll get a big lecture about not taking better care of myself (in which case, I probably won't go back for another dozen years, lol). I'm also scared to find out what might be wrong with me! Most people don't make it to this age unscathed. I would hate to be put on some kind of medication that I'd have to take every day like an old person. I guess we'll see what the tests say, eh?

Cjaylyle · 2023-09-18T12:28:14+00:00

Redpill, or at least what I know it to be up until the pandemic was pretty cynical and brutal. That was the point. That’s why it’s named after the idea in the matrix, you know, the mind blowing truth that causes you to vomit, scream I don’t believe it and in some cases if you’re not ready or too indoctrinated into the established reality, die.

It’s a hard cold wake up. Red pill (hell maybe it’s changed in the past year and softened right up) was basically the following.

She’s not yours it’s just your turn. Eventually the attraction will end. She’ll branch swing or leave you or you’ll both remain locked in a miserable dead bedroomed relationship. The only way to counter this is leave her first eventually or treat her as an option, or be much more attracted to her.

Too much love will push her away. Love between romantic partners is not unconditional. You are of worth to her for real tangible reasons or you’re not. If you’re not of much value, you’re affection will kill the attraction. She does not want to be with a man just because he loves her. She wants to be picked by a man better than her. The better than her bit always applies, and a man who demonstrates to her that her value is higher with tool much affection defaults this dynamic.

Women would rather be alone than with a man they’re not attracted to. It’s all or bust. They’d rather share a high value man, knowingly or unknowingly.

They are aroused by very attractive men. They want to reproduce almost exclusively with this man. A provider is there to provide, a father is there to raise a kid, a hot guy is there for seed. If they can get all three, great, if not they will consciously or subconsciously try and get all this from separate men.

These are very very basic red pill ideas that made up the core of it. They were never considered extreme for red pillers, that’s the standard stuff. Lift and work on game was the mantra for improving your attractiveness, with the recommendation you use this to spin plates not find a life partner as it was accepted that that was almost impossible, especially for average men.

A lot of male posters here are not red pill. They are romantics or frustrated low value men arguing with women about why they can’t get any. Some people here recommend increasing attractiveness but still do so with the goal of finding a partner. Red pill men, myself, know this is so unlikely to work out it’s a wasted goal. So I’d argue most men here are nowhere near redpilled, they’re just people trying to argue the world into giving them a lifelong love that isn’t even possible.

dbz__f · 2023-09-18T12:40:45+00:00

About to share TMI but whatever none of you know me irl

My gf and I used to live sorta far apart (3 hours). When we met we used to fuck like animals, like 3 or 4 times a day.

She moved much closer recently, only 20 minutes away and she’s over most nights. My sex love has disappeared. Now 2 times a week is probably average. What the fuck happened??? Is she losing attraction to me?

After we get married and have kids is it gonna be literally no sex???

I’m not selfish for wanting sex within a relationship? It’s not like I’m forcing her but it’s reasonable to expect

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-18T12:43:14+00:00

If you got rich right now, there are certain family members who for various reasons would NEVER see a dime from you. It’s funny because people would look at that family member and be like

“Hey ain’t your cousin/sister/brother in law/grandpa(insert person here)? Why you still living in the projects/trailer park?”

“Because she/he doesn’t like me”-You

There’s an assumption that one guy in the family is rich, so EVERYONE is taken care of and that’s not always true. Remember “Family” is bigger than one or two individual households.

Forget even rich, just regular middle or upper middle class. For example Uncle Mike is a dentist, Aunt Sarah is a prosecutor. They bringing in 300,000 combined a year, the kids in THEIR household are good but not you. It’s not like uncle Mike buying you a brand new Range Rover for your 16th birthday 😂. Your cousins college funds are taken care of, but you’re gonna have to take out loans. But but we have the same last name😝

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-18T12:45:19+00:00

Q4M: how often are you concerned you'll seem like you're trying to make a move on a friend?

My friend and I have been getting closer I think, I wanna ask her to hangout because it's been a while since we've seen each other but I feel like she or her boyfriend will think I'm trying to make a move. I'm probably being irrational though.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-18T12:46:04+00:00

There are people who move out early simply because there was no real room for them. For example one of my good friends left home at 19 because he was forced to share a room with his 12 year old brother and it was like hell nah. It was a 4 bedroom house but his grandma/grandpa and aunt/uncle also lived there permanently. I luckily never had to deal with that. I had 3 siblings but we all had our own rooms, so I didn’t move out until I could buy my own house, same thing with my older brother and older sister. My little sister moved out last year to live in a condo with her man tho

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-18T13:06:26+00:00

It doesn't matter what slant the news has in regard to a political party (if you believe that left and right wing shit exists to begin with, it's bullshit) what matters is who decides what news is broadcast in the first place, people are going to make their political decisions based on the issues that are placed at the forefront of the media. If it's abortion, they'll decide based on that, if it's foreign policy, they'll vote based on that.

Don't get sucked into believing that politics is as simple as left and right, that's politics at a less than beginner level, propaganda is far more in depth and complicated than just "durr leftists are wrong" or "durr right wingers are destroying the country bruz"

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-18T14:07:44+00:00

"I want a vulnerable, man".

" I want a man in touch with his feminine side"

Bro, don't fall for that garbage. Your role is to be a masculine alpha and not to be one of her girl friends.

Become a stoic masculine alpha.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-18T14:20:52+00:00

"I want a nice guy" = Red flag

"I want a guy that's nice" = Neutral flag

Also this song will forever be classic,

https://youtu.be/xfeys7Jfnx8?si=dO-6MpJDHLgWZYTi

AspiringMogger · 2023-09-18T14:29:47+00:00

Its so funny seeing men give up on dating after seeing Reddit posts like this

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-18T22:06:45+00:00

Remember, just because someone got bullied doesn’t mean they are a good person automatically. A bad guy can bully another bad guy the same way a bad guy can kill another bad guy

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-18T22:11:18+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/16m6eps/campfires_are_the_worst/

Lol co-sign. It’s garbage

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-18T22:16:21+00:00

Bruh why all y'all hate single people 💀

No_Weather6880 · 2023-09-18T22:17:37+00:00

Women get pretty nasty in DM's but I always be nice.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-18T22:19:19+00:00

Are people further south in Europe just fucking ugly, or is it just the students that come north. I don’t get it, every foreign student I meet (especially the women) are fucking hideous compared to our natives.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-18T22:22:05+00:00

If you know enough things you simply don't have to work that hard. That's why college is so important.

My job literally consists of me showing up to meetings and saying "I am the lord your god, I shall either approve or deny this design because I know what I'm talking about". That's literally my entire job. I barely write code. I barely write any designs at this point. I just give my thumbs up or thumbs down and then at the end of the quarter people go "Thank you 4PointTakedown for your valueable contributions on this project without which we couldn't have finished it".

Which is true, they couldn't have finished it without me because they are all fucking stupid and I will notice their mistakes.

But it's not exactly hard work.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-18T22:31:16+00:00

I’m really starting to lean towards the kin selection pill. Northern Norwegian girls are so fine to me for some reason, I never really feel like they have much of a reputation for being more beautiful than other norwegians so the actual reason that makes sense to me is that I’m just slightly genetically closer to them than other Norwegians due to both my parents being northern norwegian.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-18T22:44:26+00:00

I am absolutely certain Ainsleygz would fucking break all of the dudes who are like "Nooooo I don't want anyone with a high body count" . She'd turn them into simps who gave literally no shits about body count so fucking fast it would make your head spin.

I'd bet money on it.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-18T23:07:10+00:00

My dream job is to own a home with about 5 - 10 acres of land and do the following with that land:

Start a goat farm where I can make and sell goat milk, goat cheese, and goat soap to sell at farmers markets, craft fairs, and roadside stands.

Have a few chickens to sell eggs at farmers markets, craft fairs, and roadside stands.

Have a few greenhouses where I can sell produce at farmers markets, craft fairs, and roadside stands.

Have some bees where I can sell honey and use the honey to in the soap products or for other things to sell at farmers markets, craft fairs, and roadside stands.

Have a wedding venue on the property to rent out.

Have a haunted house/pumpkin patch/corn maze in the fall.

This seems so ideal.

saraimarsena · 2023-09-18T23:18:09+00:00

i hit a wall w my recent string of paintings, my latest one i was working on i would just look at it and avoid making major progress. i j felt so stuck. i’d been working on building a small collection so i could post a few on my alt acc and see if anyone wanted one for a tiny price, but i think the pressure of making it perfect caused me to shut down completely.

my need for perfectionism has always been my rate limiting step. i get in my head and tell myself that if I can’t execute it perfectly I won’t continue it at all.

so i pivoted and started something totally new. something just for me and my home. and for the first time in awhile i feel excited to paint again.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-18T23:34:23+00:00

rate me before come to my senses and delete everything

sorry for the image quality

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-18T23:36:07+00:00

rAinsleygz you’re just a tease. Start putting your money where your mouth is rn

meteorness123 · 2023-09-18T23:41:01+00:00

Will Smith's nightmare :

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/JyNGaGloUeU

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-18T23:47:30+00:00

Partner and I are getting back into DbD again and it's actually loads of fun.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-18T23:49:45+00:00

guys it's fucking over for me I thought I was hot 😭

meteorness123 · 2023-09-19T00:14:05+00:00

Agree or disagree with this ?

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/tX30I_-E21s

potoricco · 2023-09-19T00:23:23+00:00

Lmao if my fiance got me a $100 ring. Divorce on sight

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-19T00:46:02+00:00

allpilldebate is a case study into why rule 9 exists here.

odd_cloud · 2023-09-19T00:53:57+00:00

Guys, let’s explain some male experiences to women. I’ll begin. Women often wonder why men won’t just ask for help. I’d say it’s because when I need someone’s help, I always assume that another person will think something like “haha, you little momma boy cannot do it on your own”.

Continue with something similar.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-19T00:59:35+00:00

Grifters and influencers ruined the Red Pill, what went from an outlet for men to get better at dating and getting laid, turned into an outlet for

"Oi bruz you know what would be fuckin mad? If we had four wives brah!"

baiser_vole · 2023-09-19T00:59:44+00:00

So um I have been styling my boyfriend, and his mom is considering going to the salon I sent my boyfriend to, and his lil bro is asking me for a hairstyle recommendation. Uhh... Oh dear.

potoricco · 2023-09-19T01:14:28+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/f2vn7mq554pb1.jpeg?width=629&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d15ea5e3356d07d1bda08474bbbc8be4b9a99c5c

NOOOOOOOO

afk_row · 2023-09-19T01:21:53+00:00

I just discovered audio porn and ngl some women really do have nice voices, nutted 3 times audio alone. I recommend it to fellow coomers.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-19T01:37:01+00:00

This is one of Tupacs hardest songs

https://youtu.be/OSgkBF6LjH4?t=25

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-19T02:23:29+00:00

Question for people with siblings: How did having siblings affected (negatively or positively) your dating life?

Question for people without siblings: How did not having siblings affected (negatively or positively) your dating life?

SianOiseau · 2023-09-19T03:03:11+00:00

It's Norwegian fish soup today. It's good to return home to a hot meal and you have much higher motivation when you're feeding someone, not just yourself.

What are you cooking today?

saraimarsena · 2023-09-19T03:20:24+00:00

jim and pam have zero chemistry at all

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-19T03:28:53+00:00

Caught up with a high school female friend of mine. We always got along well because we would help out each other out with our respective SO's back in high school. Naturally we got to talking about dating, ex's etc.

Height came up and she said it's a 'must' for him to be taller and could never be with someone shorter. Surprised me because she has always been very mature and open-minded, even if she's on the taller side herself.

Brutal. Even worse is that we come from a South American country so I always thought skin/hair/eye color was more important than height. Maybe American dating culture is infiltrating abroad?

Now, she did date a really short guy long-term in high school. I pointed this out but she said he was her height. She also estimated I was way taller than I am when I asked her how tall she thinks I was.

So many not too bad of a blackpill? Idk, I would totally date a woman taller than me.

md8716 · 2023-09-19T03:37:02+00:00

It never fails to amuse me when women get mad at men for not dating or being attracted to a woman they deem to be beautiful and deserving of a good man.

Unless you plan on being a lesbian, yall don't get a say in who gets pursued, so take a damn seat, lol.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-19T03:44:22+00:00

For some reason I can't see anything lol what's going on

Willow-girl · 2023-09-19T04:00:28+00:00

I love my new doctor! He was so nice that I actually ended up being glad I went. He thinks my bad foot has a stress fracture, although he said he can't be sure without imaging, and thought it best to refer me to a podiatrist. He also encouraged me to get my carpel claws fixed as I have nerve damage in my right hand. I also need a mammogram, Pap test, and I get to poop in a box for Cologuard. Fun times! The nurse took several vials of blood and I can hardly wait to find out the results. Not! But I guess I'm getting too old to just go hard without taking care of my body. To think, I worked 70 hours a week all winter on what was probably a broken foot. No wonder it sucked, lol.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-19T04:01:05+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxTa0X_oczS/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Modern day philosopher

saraimarsena · 2023-09-19T04:34:12+00:00

trash ass app

huhwhatokok · 2023-09-19T04:34:55+00:00

A lot of people get on me because I’m very anti-loan forgiveness because it’s just a massacred for what is mainly a woman problem that they want the government to get involved with like every mistake women make they want someone to come fix it. This video breaks down nicely why student debt is mainly women with main character syndrome and no accountability.

https://youtu.be/MtruQeLR3bA?si=oUs3vMJj4zXyn-yq

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-19T04:53:21+00:00

Bro wtf. I hope this isn’t real

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxIqNEUONDh/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-19T05:37:14+00:00

Man. Sobriety is like being in hell.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-19T07:29:29+00:00

Emergency time…I’m flying to Bangkok tomorrow instead of two weeks from now to consult with a bio identical hormone specialist. My aggro behavior is getting outta control!

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-09-19T19:53:52+00:00

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