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WestCombSplit · 2023-10-29T22:06:15+00:00

There's an END in FRIEND

There's an OVER in LOVER

There's a HELL in HELLO

🤯

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-29T21:58:55+00:00

Q4All: Did you workout this week?

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-29T21:45:18+00:00

So sleeping with a man makes a woman tainted, yet men are confused why they are hesitant to “ruin” themselves? Way to make sex sound appealing, guys

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T21:38:21+00:00

Only in this subreddit do guys think single moms are a red flag but not women who date felons and drug addicts.

Bad judge of character and it makes sense they can't figure out how to find decent women.

Maffioze · 2023-10-29T21:31:34+00:00

I don't get why people want their partner to be a virgin.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-29T21:24:54+00:00

Listen honestly speaking stop with the dating apps, delete that shit immediately

Unless you is out here with a photographer and traveling around, you shouldn't be expecting more than two matches on any dating app

Also

The huge gender ratio is always gonna put you at a disadvantage, because for every one woman there's at least 4-5 guys hitting her up

So leave that nonsense behind because most guys can't win such a battle

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-29T21:15:28+00:00

I'm about to drop some wisdom. Y'all don't appreciate me enough for how much value I offer.

You want a virgin? You want some crazy sex stories to tell all your friends? Heres the secret, and this translates into other areas of life. Stop caring about it. Once you stop caring about it, and stop letting stress control your life, you can more readily enjoy things and let those things just happen. See, I've spent most of my life mentally ill, that is how I have all the wisdom I have today. I had this realization when I stressing about having lost my virginity later than most people in my generation. All those people having sex in the woods, or the back seats of cars, or sneaking around and all that, they were doing it because sex is enjoyable. That is it. Sex is enjoyable and the enjoyment of sex brought them to those experiences. It wasn't the desire for the experiences themselves that brought them to them.

afk_row · 2023-10-29T21:13:36+00:00

losing muscle mass is depressing af, I hate myself. Gonna start gymcelling again 😞

saulbasedman · 2023-10-29T20:42:03+00:00

Imagine being something like age 27 and losing your virginity to a woman who's had 3 past boyfriends. I think the post nut clarity would be overwhelming and utterly depressive. I guess it'll be ok if she has your children.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-29T20:26:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/STbuBSdufG

A lot of ppd content in this thread

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-29T20:25:40+00:00

Checo is so shit

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T20:12:16+00:00

Men find reasons to qualify women while women find reasont to disqualify men. If a guy worked hard to attract a girl and she cheats, he might be willing to forgive her because she has other qualities and because he wants to give her a second chance. Guys who automatically dump a girl when she strays are MEN WITH OPTIONS. Anyway, it's a classic case of victim blaming.

Only in this subreddit will guys be calling themselves victims for doing what they berate women for doing: dating shitty people and acting like it’s everyone else’s fault their standards are stupid.

EstouradorDeCereja · 2023-10-29T20:08:09+00:00

I need actual good advice on how to encounter a virgin girlfriend.

supremethrone · 2023-10-29T20:07:27+00:00

Failed to reach my goal weight so I'm not going to go to that concert next week as punishment. This is the second concert I've missed out on. Bought the tickets because I thought it would motivate me more, but interestingly enough, the moment I bought those tickets is the moment I started having these insane fucking stalls. It's almost like I'm not meant to go out. The nail that sticks out must be hammered down, etc.

EstouradorDeCereja · 2023-10-29T20:01:55+00:00

How to find a virgin gf?

scwizard · 2023-10-29T19:35:02+00:00

She's Sri Lankan...

5 days ago:

My boyfriend doesn't want to wait till marriage.. What do I do now?

4 days ago:

My bf watches a lot of porn and he shares with me and expects me to do certain acts when I'm not comfortable with. Advice on what to do

Today:

My boyfriend raped me and took my virginity last night

Like a slow motion train wreck :(

I simply cannot [report the assault]! My parents would kill me if they got to know. I was in the bath for 3 hours after I came back home

In my culture I am now a waste

This shit is why passport bros make me uneasy. Is this really the kinda sex you want?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-29T19:33:58+00:00

My cold approach story:

I approached this girl at a club who had a fattie friend. I tried to disarm the fattie friend by engaging her but she started making fun of me. I was trying to be nice to the fattie but that gave her the opportunity to be mean. The fattie wasn't very outgoing, so if I just ignored her she wouldn't have been able to chime in.

Fattie woman fattie personality

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T19:32:18+00:00

Guys Im home

SimpAndProud_ · 2023-10-29T19:02:05+00:00

How do you guys like to open with new matches on dating apps? I have started using apps and I match with lots of women but when I try to complement them they usually just call me sweet and then I don't know what to do. I am not really good with girls. Do pickup lines work or should I keep trying to complement them?

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-29T18:52:12+00:00

anecdotal but im high functioning (i mean not really lol) autistic, very chameleon like, spent my whole life learning how to mask. didn't figure it out until mid 20s and even then, im both great and terrible at it. before coming out i dated exclusively women (still mostly do) my "body count" was over 30 pre hormones, i mean i stopped counting at 30 (neurotic of me to even still count until 30 tbh). i was never tough or masculine, didn't develop "tough hobbies" until after i was out and able to be comfortable enough with myself to do that. i'm 5 foot 5. poor, trashy parents, weird living situations, shitty jobs. i live in a big city tho. just try, stop telling yourself it's a failing game and get out there and try, learn and adapt. use your autism stop running from it. if you can study something and learn its in and outs and apply it, why can you not apply that same logic to life and socialzing? yes you are going to fuck up and it's going to hurt. as with most things that aren't on the computer. still, try stop not believing in yourselves.

no pill trans woman

Q4M Here: What the fuck is your excuse?

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-29T18:46:49+00:00

Hit by winter loneliness already 👁️👄👁️

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-29T18:41:08+00:00

When betas married to leftover women try to flex it’s quite funny especially when they strut around like a pigeon that shit on a chessboard.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-29T18:39:02+00:00

Just finished work, came home, got groceries, cleaned the kitchen, cleaned the bathroom, dyed my hair now I need something else to do or I'll lose my momentum

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-10-29T18:35:32+00:00

Just had a red pill guy block me because he didn't like getting called out.

Not very alpha!

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-29T18:17:54+00:00

Does cold approaching count if you're in a club with a bunch of people? Asking for a friend.

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T18:15:17+00:00

WTF i think i lost my airpod😔 And it was my last one too DAMN well i guess i know what im asking for for christmas. Ive had them since 2020 anyways

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-29T18:13:18+00:00

Moderation is for losers.

Push it to the damn LIMIT!!

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-29T18:11:58+00:00

Did anyone else hear the term “King Baby” recently to describe men?

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T18:03:11+00:00

Any one elses parents listen to boney m

DerayRevan · 2023-10-29T18:00:36+00:00

"I think men hate women who can have one night stands or flings without involving emotion because it reminds them they aren’t special and she probably would have fucked 50 other men at that party, you were just the one in her line of sight when it was time to go"

That's basically what porn is, sex without emotions

And guys love porn, so wrong idea of male sexuality

Also l don't mind smashing on one night stands but that's about it, am not giving her that girlfriend title with 50 other guys available to her, most guys would agree on this

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-29T17:48:26+00:00

When I was a kid, bananas would give me terrible cramps and a stomach ache. In my twenties I was able to eat banana, but only if I had it with another food like in oatmeal or something.

I am trying to eat more fruit and vegetables, so right now I am raw dogging a banana for the first time in 2 decades. Pray for me, please 🙏🏻

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-29T17:47:11+00:00

I will see guys that legitimately look at a girl like this online or in their college class thinking "shes got glasses and isn't dressed like a stacy, she is a wholesome nerdy girl and totally my looksmatch" meanwhile their looksmatch is actually this girl.

Furthermore, "Chad" will totally hook up with the second girl, in which case these guys will be like "hypergamy!"

My brother in christ, you could have dated that girl and taken her off of the dating market. You refused to date her then get upset when "Chad" realizes she is still pretty attractive.

Get off of the internet and stop Stacy chasing, it is warping your concept of what is attractive and what isn't.

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-29T17:36:40+00:00

CMV: Trying to force men and women to date or fuck ugly women is never going to work.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-29T17:36:12+00:00

Some time back, I was about 4km away from an explosion by a terrorist group. People died unfortunately.

Terrorists are never heroes, no matter the motives or the justifications

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-10-29T17:35:38+00:00

I often wonder how many guys problems here are simply because of low testosterone levels that are impacting their unattractive behaviors.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-29T17:33:37+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/comments/17j3xk1/i_offered_to_pay_for_myself_on_the_date_which/

Amazing the balls Jason has. I love it.

antisplatter · 2023-10-29T17:30:34+00:00

is this weird? https://youtube.com/shorts/8ABZJaNZyLI?si=a872ioMqb-cyeROt

WestCombSplit · 2023-10-29T17:30:21+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/s/aDZNHQJpFX

What's your excuse?

saulbasedman · 2023-10-29T17:26:35+00:00

My cold approach story: I've never cold approached because not a single human has ever had the thought: "Man, I wish a random man I've never noticed before would approach me!"

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T17:25:11+00:00

“Women make decisions when choosing a sexual partner that are unfair and illogical. They should not do that. I’m a good guy and I should have a pretty girlfriend. Feminism is to blame for my lack of success with the opposite sex.” That pretty much sums it up, right?

How is it illogical and unfair that these guys don’t have girlfriends?

They are whining about not having their good morals rewarded with pussy and claiming women are too stupid and mean to realize how much of a catch he is. Blaming a movement primarily focused on women’s rights on why you can’t get laid is peak misogyny.

It’s very logical and extremely fair to not want to be with a sexist narcissist, who thinks being a good person, entitles him to pussy.

Just because a person cries about being lonely, doesn’t mean they don’t deserve it. And before someone bitches about sexism, I learnt this from befriending “lonely” women too. The only difference between “lonely” men and women I have seen is that the men keep thinking they're better.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-29T17:21:11+00:00

Cold approach story:

My mom in her forties at the exit or entree of the metro station being approached by a dude litteraly offering her flowers and telling her he saw her a couple times and found her so beautiful he couldn't resist offering her flowers and asking her on a date.

My mom was flattered and if she was single that might have worked on her though looking back at it I'm pretty sure this was just that dude cold approach strategy on every woman he found attractive haha

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T17:19:49+00:00

israel is an evil occupying blood-sucking, satan worshipping, demon-summoning force and i hope the innocent vulnerable hamas freedom fighters finally burn enough babies and go on enough suicide bombings to finally free themselves of the occupiers who have already agreed to a two state solution.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-29T17:17:20+00:00

Time for my bi- monthly F-boy hair cut

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-29T17:12:49+00:00

Bro, the worst thing a man can be called is not narcissist, grapist or even sassy.

To be called "boring" by a woman will truly nuke your SMV

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-29T17:10:36+00:00

Cold approach story:

I was at the train station, walking towards the pier. There was a guy who was collecting donations for the military. He asked me out. We went out on the following weekend.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-29T17:06:05+00:00

I have 1/10 social skills and I really think the 6/10+ social skills version of myself would be at minimum average tier normie.

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T16:54:50+00:00

if women arent turned on by their equals then in order for society to function correctly the female orgasm is in fact kinda a myth right? women arent really interested in sex with their equals for pleasure.

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hungrychick404 · 2023-10-28T22:02:01+00:00

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-28T22:04:20+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cy6fA6KNlym/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Luciansleep · 2023-10-28T22:06:40+00:00

The amount of women that think approaching is so easy is crazy.

If it’s so easy why don’t they do it?

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-10-28T22:08:02+00:00

Promiscuous women are statistically more likely to cheat. And since men don't have 100% parental certainty, a man marrying a promiscuous woman could end up raising a kid that isn't even his. Women are also more susceptible to catching STIs than men are, due to anatomy. Those are just a few reasons why female cheating (and female promiscuity in general) is worse than male cheating.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-28T22:13:39+00:00

If you can’t get laid people here assume you probably act like this in public lol

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cy4G6sIutLw/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

DerayRevan · 2023-10-28T22:15:23+00:00

Am gonna make a point of the bluepill which most people don't seem to understand

The bluepill is a social conditioning to appeal to the feminine thinking, usually guys who think their right about the nature of men/women because that's what their mothers,sisters,female friends/teachers would agree with them

It's always putting the woman's happiness and priorities over yourself

kochIndustriesRussia · 2023-10-28T22:18:25+00:00

Question friends: Is the very nature of the human family dysfunctional?

Many people (not all) will comfortably admit they grew up in a dysfunctional home.

Almost all people (that I've met/talked to/interviewed) can roll their eyes about "family"... whether it's their narcissistic mother... absent father... handsy uncle... drunk brother.... aunt.... whatever.

So...I've come to believe that all families are just a little fucked up... at a minimum.

That being said... anyone else ever considered that the only animals on this planet trying to do this is us? One species.... out of hundreds of millions or billions even? And that maybe...just maybe... we're doing it wrong?

Like... I totally understand how we got here....but for a growing majority of people... married life/partnered life with kids... sucks. So why.... generation after generation... why the fuck do people still want it?

Why does any thinking... happy... free... fantastically evolved human still pursue it?

I'd like to hear what others think... my suspicion is that its all just due to social pressures from the previous generation (and I'm not jist talking about wanting to have sex... you don't need to live with someone and create new humans to enjoy sex).

Your thoughts!

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-10-28T22:25:02+00:00

I want to be a kinder person but i fail every time.

scwizard · 2023-10-28T22:48:52+00:00

When the first "Bachelor" aired in 2002 (I googled, 21 years ago!!!), I first was horrified at the thought of a show with multiples of women parading around like in some awful version of a cattle call in heels, all for the sake of one, ONE man to sample and choose as he see fits. "This will never be accepted!" I thought. "It will be widely panned and protested!" I believed. I have yet to watch a single episode.

Little did I know that we were at the beginning of a long backward slide in women's status, rights and just plain old dignity.

Middle aged feminists must be having a hard time having seen things backslide so much.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-28T22:54:53+00:00

There should more people holding men accountable for what type of women they’re surrounding themselves with.

If most women you know are trashy, YOU are the problem. Time to realize you’ve been in the dumpster, boys.

monster_lily · 2023-10-28T22:57:48+00:00

Men above 50 have absolutely HUGE bellies

meteorness123 · 2023-10-28T22:58:40+00:00

Ngannou just knocked down Fury. If an mma fighter manages to beat a boxer in a boxing match, this would be one of the biggest boxing upsets of the last few years.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-28T23:34:49+00:00

She rejects you

Then hit on her hot friend instead

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-28T23:45:42+00:00

my personal experience has that ive only gotten more attractive to 18 yr old women the older ive gotten or at least ive stayed the same level of attractiveness to them. has anyone else had a similar experience?

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-28T23:48:29+00:00

whats the best under rated exercise for building muscle?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-28T23:50:43+00:00

I understand why child free people get a bad rep because so many of them act like vegans:

Can't respect other people’s choices.
Have a holier-than-thou attitude.
Clearly has some trauma they need resolved and won't do it.

This also applies to Reddit Atheists, but vegans are more well known in their infamy.

baiser_vole · 2023-10-28T23:57:59+00:00

This sub has way too much naturalistic fallacy.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-29T00:00:21+00:00

I'm going out today and the guy I like is going to be there

I'm pmsing so bad I hate everyone specially myself

We'll see how it goes

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-29T00:11:34+00:00

What are everyone's favorite style of female panties?

I like T Back G Strings. Very aerodynamic design

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-29T00:14:18+00:00

Finally weighed myself yesterday and I'm down 11 pounds since 2 months ago. Which is really good progress for a short female

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-10-29T00:20:44+00:00

Would you be roommates with someone of the opposite gender?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T00:24:06+00:00

PPD Nice Guys: I can excuse dating jobless drug addicts, but I draw the line at not dating good men like me!

Sensible people: You excuse dating jobless drug addicts?!

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-10-29T00:28:05+00:00

Kim K is coming out with a Skims bra that has nipples. A nipple bra. Under what circumstances is it appropriate, even suggested that you wear a nipple bra.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-29T00:33:55+00:00

How would Tom Brady’s life be if he was 5’10?

Luciansleep · 2023-10-29T00:51:22+00:00

Lately I haven’t been able to even think about going on another date after the last few incidents with the women I’ve dated.

I’m starting to wonder if I just gave up. I just don’t have any trust that it’ll go well dating or I just keep remembering what happened.

Not to mention I haven’t felt like I had actually cared too much about the other girls I’ve dated except for one that I really cared for that went to shit.

Trying to figure out where to go from here.

leosandlattes · 2023-10-29T00:57:33+00:00

What’s your most specific criteria for a partner? I’m not talking about “He’s gotta be above 6ft” or “She can’t be fat” — I’m talking about the uncommon ones that are more or less just kind of silly but you can’t give them up.

Mine was “Has to like big dogs,” and my fiancé’s was “Can’t be picky with food.”

ratboi34 · 2023-10-29T00:59:57+00:00

I wonder who the hottest person in here is.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-29T01:06:09+00:00

I was out last night and realized why women love to spend hours getting ready and dressing up when going out.

It's because women have the privilege of being the main character when they're going out at night. Everyone is trying to talk to them and get their attention. They are getting special treatment and feeling desired everywhere they go. Venues are giving them free drink tickets or letting them into VIP places for free.

As a man, you're the side character at bars/clubs/parties. You're the NPC begging for players (women) to even spend time talking to you so they can help complete your useless side quest.

Women love to dress up because it's congruent with their main character experience. It's a fun ritual to them. They are getting ready, putting on their main character costume to transition to feeling like the main character and getting ready to be adored, desired and loved by everyone for the night.

Female privilege

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-29T01:07:11+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/1ewpyawbk1xb1.png?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1b569243995c8b87713e3c0760377757493c30f0

feel like a lot of guys here are left sided. choose a side and maybe say why?

MalandiBastos · 2023-10-29T01:17:28+00:00

SEA update:

Just sent my main girl home after spending the last 48 hours with her.

Things have been going quite well. Yesterday we were out all day. Started with a coffee date, then to the spa, a little bit of shopping, then to a nice date at a spanish resturant.

Spas here are quite cheap. An hour long massage for one person was only 11 dollars.

I got a massage for both, a facial for both, and mani + pedi + polish for her, and including tip it only came out to 60 bucks total.

Side note, the blackhead scrape part of a facial hurts like a bitch lol.

Gunna get her a wax next weekend, only about 30 total bucks for a full body wax + facial wax.

She was telling me during the massage that the masseuse was quite interested about me and her relationship and our sex life lmao. They were both from the same island and so were speaking in their local dialect with each other. Its quite common for people from all throughout the phillipines to come to manila for work.

After spa we went to the mall and I picked out a couple dresses and some new shoes for her. She doesnt have many clothes, and I dont really like the style of what she wears currently, so I decided to get her some new stuff. She has been quite good to me so I decided to treat her, although it was all discount stuff, she was so greatful, being that she only makes 85 dollars a month from her job. You shouldve seen the way her eyes lit up when I bought her 15 dollar shoes from payless 🤣. She was so estatic. Was only 40 bucks for shoes, 2 new dresses and some accessories.

After that we came home and she put on her new clothes and we headed out to the resturant. Food was actually quite amazing especially considering the quality of food in the phillipines is quite low. She had definitely never been to a resturant this nice before, she was shocked to see some of the items on the menu being over 20 dollars lol.

We had a couple different tapas and some sangria which she loved and got super drunk on from 3 glasses because she never really drank before and only weighs 95 pounds lol. Was quite cute watching her stumbling on the way home.

She has been really amazing so I wanted to treat her. She does anything I ask not only without complaint, but with a smile on her face. Today after she spent the morning cleaning my apartment, and cooking breakfast, I thanked her, and she said "Of course love. Its my duty".

I actually feel a little bad im "cheating" on her. I never technically told her we are in a relationship but I know she would cry her eyes out if she knew I was fucking other girls. When she cleans she sweeps up the hairs of other girls, but I told her its just from the girlfriend's of my friends who come to visit me. Lol.

Anyways, heres some pics. I know ppl will think im fat and dressed poorly, but just goes to show you a fat and poorly dressed western dude can pull 18 year olds way out of their league lmao.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-10-29T01:36:20+00:00

Wow, Matthew Perry just died out of nowhere. Didn't see that one coming.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-29T01:54:46+00:00

How do I change my location on tinder?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T02:10:16+00:00

So I was scrolling through some child free stuff to prove the point that a lot of them are as fucking crazy as vegans...... I didn’t know how fucking accurate I was.

Just looking at damn Youtube at these titles:

This is how you avoid breeders on Dating Apps.
My sister’s BASHEE TODDLER ruined my vacation.
Child free teen tells off breeder family.

The one that pissed me off the most was:

Stay Childfree, I'm Trapped In Parenthood & A Lifeless Marriage.

Like..... Imagine siding with a deadbeat who dislikes their own family just to make yourself feel superior to parents, holy shit!

saraimarsena · 2023-10-29T02:21:03+00:00

my favorite part about being a preschool teacher is showering these kids with so much love. i feel like im living in the purest extension of myself caring them. gosh i cannot wait to be a mom.

like i still absolutely love coming home to child free evenings but when i’m 28 and past my partying phase i think i’ll really really want to have a kid. gotta get married first tho !

butagoodpersonality · 2023-10-29T02:29:42+00:00

Went out for Halloween last night after a rough breakup. I met a guy that was into me and we exchanged numbers. However I found out he’s devout Jewish and I’m (semi🤪my family mostly) devout catholic.

This would be a disaster right?

TheCounsellingGamer · 2023-10-29T02:31:43+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/rxkzojpez1xb1.jpeg?width=3000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c43892d43ae5476514adfaa142094c5a7e24cda6

Here's a picture of my kittens cuddling. The brown one is called Misty and she's a Bengal. The grey one is Heidi and she is just A Cat. Their favourite activies are currently eating, sleeping, and renanacting that one scene from the Lion King on the kitchen chairs.

romantic-rose · 2023-10-29T02:32:02+00:00

If humans evolved from monogamous animals then there wouldn't be dating problems

huhwhatokok · 2023-10-29T02:42:14+00:00

Halloween season is probably one of the only times I envy people in relationships. I fk with coordinated couple costumes.

Luciansleep · 2023-10-29T03:17:03+00:00

Q4W: Do you think approaching as a man is hard? Why or why not.

Willow-girl · 2023-10-29T03:31:43+00:00

Geez, I just had a comment deleted because (according to the mods) I don't have the word 'woman' in my flair. Guess they didn't notice my name is Willow- GIRL! I mean how much more do they need?

I'll probably just stick to posting in this thread from now on. Grr.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T03:33:45+00:00

I still can’t believe someone actually had the audacity to try to blame Zoomers being on medication and having depression solely on dysfunctional families. 😂😂😂😂

“Oh, Tommy, you were on meds because you have ADHD and autism? Clearly your mother was a sociopath and how your dad always hated you!”

“Oh Tammy! Your PCOS is causing mood swings and might be worsening your bipolar disorder? Why didn't you tell us your family was full of crackheads?!”

scwizard · 2023-10-29T03:39:19+00:00

This tinkerbell had to pull up her top cause her nipple tape was starting to show lol

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-29T03:41:14+00:00

Yooo. This shit got me in tears lmao

https://www.reddit.com/r/Weird/s/EvefwBARQY

Willow-girl · 2023-10-29T03:46:54+00:00

The GoFundMe for the dairy farmers here whose barn burned down has topped $123,000, and several businesses are also holding fund-raisers for them as well. I'm so proud to be part of a community that comes together to take care of its own this way.

See, everyone thinks conservatives are heartless, but we're not; we just don't think government intervention is automatically the best way of doing things. Neighbor helping neighbor -- that's what it's all about. I love the thought that when things settle down for them, that farm family will be able to sit down and scroll through the long list of donor names and messages of encouragement, and know that they are loved by the community they have served for decades.

EulenWatcher · 2023-10-29T03:53:32+00:00

Good for them and bad for anyone who doesn’t get enough help from their community I guess.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-29T04:02:04+00:00

Things have been going great with the hot Kiwi electrician, but I think he wants to make me chubbier than I already am. He’s taken me out for ice cream and breakfast at a pancake place. Today he brought me a sandwich during my lunch break. I haven’t eaten this bad in a long time.

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T04:30:55+00:00

it seems like the only dating advice that actually works for men is either to lower your standards or make yourself more attractive. but for a significant portion of men their standards cannot be lowered. sometimes it feels like dating as a man is just a big competition for who can be the biggest pushover for women.

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T05:28:57+00:00

In ny today i saw a guy with huge beautiful curly long hair i think thats definitely my type

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T05:30:45+00:00

Anyone else not really get crushes anymore? Like before id literally fall for someone but now I just think about how pretty they are without actually wanting to form a relationship with them. But then again 99% of boys i know are ugly affff

macone235 · 2023-10-29T05:40:36+00:00

Blue-pill: Women want to wait to have sex, because they only want to know if you're a good guy who will commit to them for real!

Women in real life:

I find myself second guessing sometimes if this is enough - should I be like dropping-my-panties attracted to this person right from the jump? I can't help but have that temptation to run back to some fuckboys from my past that I would sometimes link up with or get attention from.

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingadvice/comments/17hwfwq/how_to_give_the_good_guys_a_chance/?sort=controversial

This is what the average blue pill has to suffer through behind closed doors, and the sad part is he doesn't even realize it.

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T05:56:42+00:00

making yourself as attractive as possible is a double edged sword because women self-admittedly too are more inclined to make you wait if they like u more. women are more likely to have casual sex with hot guys they dont actually want to date versus hot guys they do actually want to date i think

Gladboys · 2023-10-29T07:08:02+00:00

all my components of the beginning of my home gym has arrived, had to get rid of my TV and couch but not like i was using it anyways lol

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-10-29T07:31:10+00:00

According to this sub, being a heterosexual male is perhaps one of the most masochistic predicaments you can find yourself in. You feel an intense attraction towards beings that at best you know are wary of you....

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-29T07:33:43+00:00

Just woke up. Got a pounding headache and my voice is definitely gone. From what I can remember is talking to and dancing with some on a table. A girl from Australia asked me if I had a friend for her friend Unfortunately I didn't bcz I usually travel alone. I know there is more to what happened if I can try to remember exactly. Last night was....fun.

Just remember that its not too late to make up for lost time in life for things you weren't able to do socially.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-29T08:09:11+00:00

Another night of goyslop and adderall fueled productivity

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-10-29T08:10:07+00:00

Another holiday where everyone else is having fun 😀🔫

scwizard · 2023-10-29T08:24:59+00:00

/u/Many_Dragonfly4154 and /u/macone235 why are you saying girls don't see guys as fully human? Is it just cause they won't fuck you on Halloween?

Curious_Attention719 · 2023-10-29T09:10:20+00:00

Legit, I am frustrated at dealing with women and curse being a straight guy sometimes. If it's not trying to string me along or screw me over, I get stood up like tonight. Ladies, I know just because I pay for an outing, I'm not entitled to sex. Just stop pretending you want to get to know each other and a relationship if all you want is a foodie call, I'm autistic, not stupid.

princedune · 2023-10-29T09:13:36+00:00

i hate waking up in the middle of the night because its basically impossible for me to fall back to sleep. guess I just gotta start my day now

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-29T09:15:39+00:00

I'm drunk and ashamed I was staring at a chubby girl's tits. They were just out there and hard not to notice. She had a cute face but she had a >30 BMI.

I cleansed myself by creeping on a healthy (19-21) BMI girl though. She was hot enough to marry.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-29T09:27:01+00:00

https://www.reuters.com/world/europe/spains-acting-pm-sanchez-backs-catalan-amnesty-deal-bid-form-government-2023-10-28/

Fucking finally

supremethrone · 2023-10-29T09:28:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17iq48j/single_guys_whats_the_worst_dating_advice_youve/

bluepillers rising up!

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-29T10:13:11+00:00

There's like a production crew at my gym lmao

They have like stage lighting and a professional camera

But they guy they're recording looks average and he's like doing quad extensions and preacher curls

This is the most cringe thing I've ever seen at the gym

saulbasedman · 2023-10-29T10:58:45+00:00

Matthew Perry died. Apparently he was the voice actor for Benny in Fallout New Vegas. And for that, he gains my respect.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-29T11:16:08+00:00

the “women can’t struggle with dating” crowd is so annoying. the struggles may look different and it can be argued back and forth which struggles are more difficult. but it doesn’t change the fact that women can struggle with dating

it’s difficult to have empathy for people who don’t want to return the favor

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-29T11:24:14+00:00

I'll be honest, u/MalandiBastos SEA updates are the most entertaining thing on PPD daily thread :D

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T12:02:16+00:00

These ugly ahh spotted lanternflies have literally invaded the us like i see them EVERYWHERE and i dont get why ppl think theyre beautiful they are sooo uglyy

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-29T12:02:54+00:00

Someone explain this to me. Blackpillers aren't welcome on this sub because mods claim this sub to be an RP vs BP debate board.

Why are there pink pill flairs?

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T12:03:23+00:00

No matter how many gramatical errors i make i will never mess with youre and your or their theyre and there. Because thats the easiest way for someone to discredit you

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T12:12:38+00:00

Ngl one thing i feel bad for men for is going bald, i cant think of anything more emasculating and humiliating that involuntarily losing all your hair as a man. As a man why cant you just command your hair to grow. Or are you a beta to your own body

saulbasedman · 2023-10-29T12:12:43+00:00

Honestly I regret taking the vaccine. There is no way they could've known that there aren't any long term effects. Only reason I took it was because I have naturally weak lungs.

Willow-girl · 2023-10-29T12:16:55+00:00

On Wednesday, I'm getting both hands operated on for carpal tunnel! It's a day I've been awaiting for more than 30 years, lol.

Sadly the docs have told me that the procedure won't fix my "carpal claw" -- there is already too much nerve damage -- but it will at least keep it from getting any worse. Sounds good to me!

If only I had gotten a union job with benefits a couple of decades ago. Sigh

ratboi34 · 2023-10-29T12:17:05+00:00

This is so lovely.

https://www.tiktok.com/@esoteric_nymph/video/7227809501460647194?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=7295351781717788192

I guess there is hope for excentric, bitter, chain smoking, old musicianscels.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T12:27:22+00:00

If you can easily find non-trashy men but struggle finding non-trashy women...

Fellas, if this is your situation, you and your friends DEFINITELY want to fuck trashy women. 😂 Straight up the gender flipped version of “good girls” chasing bad boys. Yeah sure, YOU are the “decent” one, it's just everyone else that’s you’re around is indecent?! 😂

Men of PPD, do y’all truly not see the similarities?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-29T12:44:09+00:00

Is it weird that I can actually feel time going by faster and I distinctly remember it going slower a few years ago. Oh my God, eventually what feels like an hour now will feel like half an hour when I am 2x as old. I HATE IT

purplish_possum · 2023-10-29T12:44:26+00:00

In honor of Halloween:

https://i.pinimg.com/564x/63/a6/9b/63a69ba42d1922de071102af6c8d5772.jpg

butagoodpersonality · 2023-10-29T12:46:27+00:00

being cute and friendly > being smoking hot At least in a getting approached sense

ratboi34 · 2023-10-29T12:49:24+00:00

Men will never truly succeed in dating unless they understand that women have some kind of third eye observing themselves and the relationship. When a man is on a date he mainly thinks "How do I make her feel". A woman thinks two things. "How does he make me feel" and most importantly "How does this look from the outside". Women want a cute narrative, they want it to be aesthetic. That's one of the reasons why women dislike dating apps more than men, despite having it so easy on there. I wish men had more of an understanding of aesthetics. If you give her a cute story to tell to her best friends you can take her soul.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-29T13:07:34+00:00

u/willow-girl

Why did you trans your catte?

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-10-29T13:14:23+00:00

I think men hate women who can have one night stands or flings without involving emotion because it reminds them they aren’t special and she probably would have fucked 50 other men at that party, you were just the one in her line of sight when it was time to go.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-29T13:37:34+00:00

Mathew Perry 💔💔💔💔

I didn't know he was about to die so many times

I also didn't know he was Canadian

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T13:44:29+00:00

I know that parents not being able to operate technology/social media and not being able to keep up with the "kids" is kind of a joke now but my parents jut take it to an extreme level to where its just annoying and irritating. Theyre in their 40s and 50s so pretty young but act like total boomers, they literally need help with the most basic tasks imaginable like opening a waffle maker or changing their profile picture. And the worst part is that its not even because theyre dumb or something. They literally just dont even try like they just look at something and assume its too difficukt and immediaeely need help

hannahg000 · 2023-10-29T13:45:17+00:00

when i finally get a boyfriend, i’m going to make him think for me. i’m tired of thinking. i seen some videos on tiktok of girls saying when they are with their boyfriend they don’t have to think about what to eat, if it’s safe to cross the street, etc. that sounds great to me

itzReborn · 2023-10-29T13:46:36+00:00

Wonder if there’s a reason why feelings of loneliness increase x50 on Saturdays (for me anyway). Like damn was I down about being alone doing nothing (like usual) wishing I had a partner to do literally anything with.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-29T13:50:30+00:00

https://twitter.com/CarlWinsHigh/status/1718431329325346983

Threads like these must be so foreign to people on reddit.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T14:12:41+00:00

If women are responsible for having awful baby daddies, then men are responsible for having awful baby mamas. It’s not the fault of ”gynocentricism” that he got screwed over.

It’s funny watching guys make excuses when held just as accountable for their actions as they want women to be held for theirs.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/oebloq/if_women_are_responsible_for_having_awful_baby/

tritter211 · 2023-10-29T14:13:51+00:00

Have anybody found the reasons why women face a credibility crisis in the field of medicine and medical research?

Why is it so universal that women are not taken seriously by doctors (male and female) nurses (male AND female) in hospitals?

There must be reasons other than the standard reasons feminists give.

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T14:17:48+00:00

I need jude bellingham so much i love him hes the love of my life hes so regal Judee 😍 Like id risk it all to meet him

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T14:49:11+00:00

A lot of guys are insecure and paranoid about being cheated on because they know they’re not good judge of character. They’re always paranoid about women because they don’t know how to spot a good one..

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T14:51:20+00:00

i stopped liking slutty women when i realized that they dont actually just like sex like men do and only actually have sex with men in order to try and manipulate men and now i dont like sluts as people.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-29T14:57:41+00:00

https://twitter.com/whotfisjovana/status/1718412685807690077

Posts like this must also confuse guys who weren't exposed to a lot of women or never had a bunch of sisters. For all the bellyaching out there one common thing I found was girls were way more into horror movies than guys were. I never knew why. I now understand why and its the same reason girls think serial killers are hot. Low grade hybristophilia. Which to me isn't even a disorder if it's purely a fantasy. That's actually totally normal or else 50 shades wouldn't have been a massive best seller. Being kind of evil but deep down you're misunderstood and can be changed into good for her because she's so wonderful and beautiful and her love is so powerful.

The "I was a loser with no power then I became powerful and got the girl who used to think I was a loser because I used my power to save her and I was a good guy the whole time just too weak" is a male fantasy a la Spiderman.

dbz__f · 2023-10-29T15:03:54+00:00

The best part about my gf sleeping is I can just stare at her face without being judged or feeling like a creep

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T15:06:27+00:00

TIL that preaching personal responsibility is now femcel content. Apparently guys here really don't like hearing they can choose to be single over dating trashy women who might cheat on them.

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T15:08:26+00:00

guys dont even come to this group u know the answer to all this crap simply engaging with the blue pill clowns. u already know ur right and u already know ur talking to a brick wall so dont even try. just spend ur trying to change the real world so this toxic feminist sexist bs doesnt spread and goes away.

princedune · 2023-10-29T15:15:04+00:00

im trying so hard to like weed but it feels like it just drops my iq down to 80 and thats it

dbz__f · 2023-10-29T15:20:04+00:00

Have you noticed like a lot of shows geared towards women try really hard to be porny rather than wholesome? Like lots of dating shows try hard to give off sexual and porny vibes rather than cute and romantic vibes. What does this say about our society?

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-29T15:29:40+00:00

Short men aren’t sexy? How do you explain Levi Ackerman then?

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-29T15:30:54+00:00

As a kid the guy that played young Voldemort in the second movie was my biggest crush. I’ve always had a thing for hot villains

Maffioze · 2023-10-29T15:31:59+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/xau6okamu5xb1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=22e999ceb8b5a2fda68c5fac9ece7b7cc8b011d6

Lmao

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T15:48:49+00:00

sl*ts aren't per se hotter they r just easier thats a distinction most people dont seem to understand. lots of men don't have options for women who are not sl*ts. its not that they want slutty woman

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T15:49:48+00:00

nearly all incels are really volcels. just about anyone can get laid if they really wanted to thaaaaat badly

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-10-29T15:59:17+00:00

So many people misinterpret "bad boy" or "dark triad" personality research in dating.

It isn't the anti-social behaviors that make these guys attractive but the positive byproducts of these behaviors.

For all the negatives they will be more confident, focus intently on looks/fitness (we see this all the time with Narcissism), and be extremely risk averse (approach more women). Also a lot of pyscho/sociopaths aren't actually anti-social in real life. Deep down they are but the are extremely attune how to get people to like them on the outside.

Red Pill types who quote this research miss this point and just adopt all the shitty behaviors without the other stuff. Also Dark Triad research shows these men have terrible relationship quality.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-29T16:01:30+00:00

As a guy you do realize not having a high sex drive (SEX DRIVE, not jerking off drive) is a reason you don't want to expend lots of energy to meet women in real life to have sex with. Never met a dude who really wanted to fuck who judt gave up.

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T16:14:29+00:00

ok but have any of u ever tried Taking a shower and approaching women?

Opening_Shine8680 · 2023-10-29T16:24:39+00:00

women only seem to want a man and not like not a boy. and there r even phrases about it. thats fine and all but women need to wait around until men become men and not just sleep around in the meantime. u don't like immature boys? well ok i don't like old high bodycount women, but i don't think i'm gonna get what i want

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-29T16:27:36+00:00

Fwiw I lost my virginity to a girl I cold approached. However, I cold approached a lot before that and all I got was some numbers that didn't go anywhere.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-29T16:29:41+00:00

Can I have some opinions on my dating app idea?

Men can only have 1 active match, women can have up to 5. This solves the women to men ratio problem and the top 10% of men monopolising matches.
After you've exceeded your match limit, you are removed from the match pool.
Users are encouraged to actively unmatch.
Hidden elo for women that lowers their amount of max matches if they ghost too much.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-29T16:33:22+00:00

I've been cold approaching since about 15. I was cringy af, but I think it did teach me how to be more comfortable around women and it got the whole trial and error phase out of the way. I would walk around my high school using pick up lines on random girls. I always portrayed it as me being goofy to show off to my friends. I think that is part of it too, is you shouldn't take the approaching too seriously. You can attract some women into your space by being goofy and welcoming.

Like, in the movie I Love You, Man when Jason Segel's character would ask girls what their name is and he'd be like "oh wow, that's my mom's name!" but say it kind of flirty. I would do stuff like that to be silly. I remember one time I was with my friends and a mom and daughter bumped into me or I bumped into them and they apologized and I was like "That's ok, I enjoyed it" I was able to get away with saying stuff like that because I was goofy.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-29T16:36:05+00:00

I remember one time cold approaching a girl with a Say Anything t shirt (the band, not the movie) but she was on a date with another guy. I just kind of talked to both of them and was asking how they met and she said his football landed in her back yard and then he asked her out and I told them that was cute and I hope I get invited to their wedding.

I would do goofy stuff even when I was like 12, I remember being at the skatepark and there was a couple in their early 20s and I was hitting on his girlfriend and being like "so is this your brother?"

I don't know, what I'm trying to say is don't look at cold approaching with the end goal in mind, just be silly and have a little fun with it.

afk_row · 2023-10-29T16:42:14+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/qtl80zon66xb1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=803ef68e22169fe14c56ff13dc244cac540971fa

TIL MJ was ugly because she was a self insert 🤣

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-29T16:45:31+00:00

Are we doing cold approach stories today.

Once me and my bud approached two friends. My friend starts talking to the one girl, and I open my mouth to speak to the other. I let out a "H..." followed immediately by her saying "Yeah no thanks 😒🙄" and her whipping out her phone while we just stood their awkwardly while our friends hit on each other. My friend and her friend exchanged phone numbers and I pissed the friend with the phone off by saying "You suck as a wingwoman idk what she sees in you". Her friend laughed though. All in good fun.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-29T16:48:31+00:00

My Cold Approach story:

THE END

AceOfSpadesGymBro · 2023-10-29T16:52:21+00:00

I was in the icebox for 7 days. Glad to see this sub has made as much progress in getting its perpetually sexless male members get more pussy as the Israelis and Palestinians in coming up with a peaceful solution.

romantic-rose · 2023-10-29T16:53:56+00:00

Arguing with liberals here is pointless their minds are made ineffective to their pathetic ideology. Imagine if science was liberalistic. The explanation of why ant eaters evolved claws and long tongue would be because they had the capacity to do so. The other thing is that they are hypocrites. The criticize conservatives for using the appeal to nature arguments as a fallacy. They defend hook up culture as natural phenomena so therefore this is the how humans are supposed to be. They cite shit like sex at dawn. The other thing is that they believe their rule is eternal. They believe hookup culture will always exist because it's so hegomonic and normal. But they don't realize tides can turn. Where are the non avian dinosaurs? They existed for 140 million years and were super dominant.

So my solution is stop arguing with these brain dead sex positive liberals and be the change you want to see. This subreddit is meant to stunt your growth. I know work on yourself is stupid advice so try helping others out and provide support for your brothers and sisters. These liberals aren't going to give you empathy or try to understand you they lack the cognitive power to do so. Seek support and empathy from your brothers, we are here for you.

JDWhiz96 · 2023-10-29T16:54:39+00:00

A cold approach story:

Approached a woman outside a club (well, attempted, didn't utter a word). Without hesitation, she turned the other direction and grabbed the arm of another man who was with his girlfriend. They both shrugged and continued as they avoided me. This was right before new year's.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-29T21:22:40+00:00

Bruh if I was a virign at age 27 and lost it to a women who only had 3 boyfriends and (assuming no casual sex on the side) her n count was only 3 I would not feel ashamed at all. I would coom and the Final Fantasy level up music would start playing.

At 3 (now 4) bodies, that women is 100% wifeable still. I would definitley still date her and cherish the memories (sex) we make together. I would take her out to cheesecake factory and even eat her out if she wanted me too.

Now if I was a 27 year old virign and I lost it to a women with a n count of 10-15 or an escort than yeah I would feel really shameful. It would be hard to preform oral sex becasue thats a lot of willies that have slid in and out of there. But since women gatekeep sex and controll the dating market I would just shed my tears silently as I go down on her.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-30T01:09:01+00:00

Las comment here was 3 hours ago? what's going on?

are megathread people touching grass rn?

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