Daily Community Chat Megathread

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-23T22:40:11+00:00

I'm on some discord servers where women talk about dating. Some women complain about men putting in no effort basically seeming uninterested on dates. They also post their pics, and of course guess what they look like.

They are fatties.<

They talk about all their strategies and rules to deal with these types of uninterested men when they could just

get a healthy (19-21) BMI. This is why fattie women need to be told that being fat is unattractive. They don't understand their problems. It is for their own good to be told they are unattractive.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-23T22:35:55+00:00

Older Women who talk shit about older guys dating younger women are the equivalent of short guys talking shit about Women dating 6ft+ guys

Bitterness is the root of both those groups of people

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-09-23T22:30:35+00:00

Bloops: "Looks literally don't matter! It's your personality!"

Also Bloops: "You're obviously shooting outside your range. Lower your standards!"

.... which is it? If looks don't matter, then a 4 that showers and treats women with respect should be fucking 9's and 10's non-stop, right? There should be no such thing as "shooting outside his range".

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-23T22:20:36+00:00

Hello my fellow incels just want you all to know that I love you ❤️❤️❤️

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-23T22:20:10+00:00

My bf has convinced me to get a blood test to determine the sex of this baby months before we could find out by ultrasound. I am not ready to give up my dream of this one being a girl. 😭

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-09-23T21:59:51+00:00

Rate this guy

demedermidimi · 2023-09-23T21:55:52+00:00

i love rating people give me more people to rate

Appropriate_Ask1282 · 2023-09-23T21:54:12+00:00

I noticed something in the sub, women just love to talk about themselves more and interject with anecdotes and although men do the same thing it's not nearly at the same rate. Why is that?

John_Oakman · 2023-09-23T21:51:37+00:00

Find a man as loyal as this man.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-23T21:29:21+00:00

Halo effect is like white or female privilege. The people who benefit the most will deny it because they don’t even notice it. It’s just their lived experience. Male privilege exists too but it has more to do with feeling more safer (no one wants to rape you) and being more assured that you can defend yourself from a reasonable amount of threats. Women are borderline helpless.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-23T21:27:26+00:00

rate this guy

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-angels-fanatic- · 2023-09-23T21:24:21+00:00

The saying "women gatekeep sex, men gatekeep relationships" is apex fallacy bullshit.

The top 10% of men gatekeep relationships. The bottom 90% would LOOOOOVE to have a relationship, but the women are gatekeeping both sex and relationships from them.

And, let's be real... women aren't gatekeeping sex from top 10% men either. They are throwing themselves at these men.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-23T21:05:38+00:00

Of the people who responded to my question about their personal pros and cons, nearly all were women. I wonder why not many men replied?

potoricco · 2023-09-23T20:56:56+00:00

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Weeeee

lolmastr13 · 2023-09-23T20:56:22+00:00

Watched the Barbie movie, pretty good, although I feel like it was made to be most relatable to 30-40 year old women

meteorness123 · 2023-09-23T20:45:25+00:00

Jay-Z is such a legend. Has the baddest bitch in the game on lock, cheated on her and she still still stayed with him.

Status > looks

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/0c/57/5f/0c575f6cb40563ef191015beec3be49e--epic-photos-photos-of.jpg

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HOV

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-09-23T20:16:56+00:00

I think the hardcore Pill guys here should try to pick up women on /r/theotherwoman, now here me out on this one, ok fellas? The women there don't ask too many questions, some might be a bit slow though, so much so that you can string them along for decades or more thinking you're going to be with her and marry her and have kids with her. Hell, you can HAVE kids with her and barely acknowledge them and she'll still remain loyal to a fault. They will believe anything you say to them, they'll do anything you ask of them you can ask them to get a face tattoo that says, "Property of (Insert name or nickname here)" and they'll do it with a smile on their face and no fuss. They will be extremely loyal to you with no loyalty returned to them, they won't even question it unless this is one that has at the bare minimum three functioning brain cells. Afraid you're gonna lose her? Just tell her you'll be together soon even when you've moved across the country or left the country with another woman and your kids and change your number.

Guilt free relationship, less requirements, loyalty to a fault, will follow you to Hell even if you plan to leave them there. Downside is they might be a bit hysterical but as the saying here goes, you need to vet better to avoid this.

scwizard · 2023-09-23T19:59:48+00:00

Years ago I needed the valve stems replaced in all four tires of my car because they were leaking. I called the repair shop close to my bf’s house. They told me $50 per tire, so $200 total.

I thought that was a lot, and I was used to car places trying to rip me off, so I asked my dad to call later that same day.

They told my dad $12 per tire.

How is it legal for mechanics to do this?

abaxeron · 2023-09-23T19:55:43+00:00

I finally found a Youtuber that gave me satisfactory explanation why in Star Wars universe, bringing two sides (of the Force) to balance means one side gathering its forces and destroying the other side with no survivors.

Because this universe was envisioned by a boomer.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-09-23T19:53:25+00:00

As a side note, yes, if you are interested in breeding I would be open to it with you if that’s what you are implying.

Scratch my previous reply to this, I'd rather be doused in gasoline and set on fire.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-23T19:50:06+00:00

how come more men don’t date/fuck with trannies?? all the benefits of a woman - none of the repercussions.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-23T19:34:52+00:00

This has been a long time coming.

Q4W: Rate Pete Davidson

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potoricco · 2023-09-23T19:28:14+00:00

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-23T19:25:47+00:00

I personally don't find it offensive when my male friends suggest something more intimate.

I think most women are this way when single but maybe I am way off base.

It just feels like single men should proposition single women?

You need to shoot your shot at some point, that is all I'm saying.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-23T19:24:08+00:00

I really wanna get on no fap again,at least for a week or two.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-23T19:21:27+00:00

Q4A: What are your pros and cons as a partner?

For me:

Pros:

Kind and generous
Prestigious, high paying job and a wealthy family
Good listener and open communicator
Open minded about new experiences and ideas
Excellent chef and mixologist
Muscular, well endowed
Eager to please and receive feedback
Creative and well-read; I like to think I have interesting things to say.
Generally laidback; very slow to anger

Could be pro or con, depending on your perspective:

Extremely ambitious
Unique sense of humor (not everyone understands my jokes, but the ones that do think I’m really funny)
Highly experienced in the bedroom (I’ve had plenty of practice at pleasing women, but I’ve also had girls turn me down because I slept around too much)
Extremely social

Cons:

Some of the quirks my autism gives me can be off putting if you aren’t used to them
Deep-seated trust issues (I’m working on it, and I do my best to not externalize those)
Some mental health problems; can be prone to self-destructive behavior (stress eating, not sleeping, excessive drinking) in times of great stress or depression. Again, working on it.
Bad with time management
Can be messy
Very conflict avoidant
Get extremely agitated when plans change at the last second (see the autism bit)

scwizard · 2023-09-23T19:05:22+00:00

If tinder vip costs 500 a month are they just paying girls to go on dates with tinder vips?

meteorness123 · 2023-09-23T19:05:07+00:00

I've heard someone say that men pretend to want virtuous women but they fall in love with the slutty types. Would you say this is accurate ?

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-23T19:03:17+00:00

i’m fucking bored. im gonna go read a book and flirt with boys. thanks for nothing ppd. be more entertaining please.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-23T19:00:24+00:00

Some advice for some adhdcels that has helped me, maybe you'll get something out of it : Don't focus on completing a task. Buy a physical timer and then just work on the task during that time, doesn't matter if you finish it or not. This way, you'll get something done as opposed to nothing

meteorness123 · 2023-09-23T18:52:17+00:00

Some people complain about a black person stealing your purse but ...a white person will enter your country and genocide you. Getting your purse stole is one thing. But if that white guy in class get really quiet for a couple of days, you better get ready to evacuate the whole place because shit's about to go down. When a white boy goes gangsta, it's serious. Forget about all the so called predators like lions or tigers you've heard about in documentaries. Make some noise for the most dangerous predator the planet has ever seen : The caucasian male.

https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/1446815430958538758/IrdvEmA6_400x400.jpg

!Relax, I'm joking!<

Anti_Thing · 2023-09-23T18:27:24+00:00

I just want a woman who I have mutual physical attraction with, who shares my devout, born-again Christian religiosity, & who is ready to get married & have multiple children soon.

Serious question: is that too much to ask for? AMA about myself & my experiences with women if you want.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-09-23T18:23:16+00:00

This dude showcases a major difference between men and women.

women are attracted to status/clout, they change their behavior based on their perception of how other ppl are you

This doesn’t exist the other way around, means nothing to men

meteorness123 · 2023-09-23T18:20:42+00:00

Although being a man is harder, we get to live the hero journey, overcome adversity and immortalize ourselves in the cosmos by putting a dent in the universe. There's something noble about that. Yes, women have it easier but as a man you get to overcome your difficulties and transcend to the other realm like Hercules did. That's kind of cool.

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-23T18:05:56+00:00

It is the male imperative to keep women’s expectations dirt low because males who aren’t reciprocal are the males who use women for sex. The longer she expects little from a male the longer he’ll be able to drag the “relationship” out by promising her he’ll be ready for commitment “some day”.

The male sexual agenda is at odds with the female romantic agenda which is why when males come online and complain about women’s “high standards” they should be ignored. A woman with low standards is a woman who is easy to take advantage of and males know that. That’s why they want you to lower them.

happy_discus · 2023-09-23T18:05:53+00:00

Why do others insist I should try OLD. I already told you it doesn't work for me. Why do you keep on insisting on it.

janedoebreakin · 2023-09-23T17:59:02+00:00

My fiancé really liked the babydoll lingerie set I bought yesterday. I think now he’ll start buying me cute underwear rather than socks. God, that man loves to see me in socks. I used to think foot fetishes were weird, but having a man who loves to rub your feet is so fucking nice.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-23T17:55:08+00:00

As a man, you can't act silly, be overly friendly and assume people like you or think you're funny unless you are masculine or have some social status or has a very good personality and are very naturally confident. Life beats you down as a man and you learn that you need social status, established rapport and be providing value to people in order to make jokes and have them land or to have people welcome you socially. If you aren't more stoic at the beginning but act silly and assume people will just like you, then people will think you're weird and will make fun of you.

It's a female privilege to be able to act silly and carefree and just assume everyone will like you without having social status or established rapport. Men have to work for it to be socially accepted but women are treated better. Women have the privilege of not getting the innocence and carefree nature beaten out of them as they grow up.

It's not fair that women can be carefree and assume people will just like that while men can't. But I'll give women with a healthy (19-21) BMI a pass. At least they provide some value.

But fattie women provide little relationship and sexual value. Fattie women shouldn't get this female privilege. Fattie women should have gotten beaten down when they were growing up like men did and be subject to the same social rules that men are. Fattie women shouldn't be able to assume everyone likes them and to be carefree like other women. Fattie women should have to be stoic until they've established rapport and social status like men have to.

Fattie women do not deserve female privilege.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-23T17:50:16+00:00

if all men want unicorns but all men aren’t unicorns (666, with a great personality) themselves - why aren’t more men in this sub open to just settling? why not go after the fat girl? or the single mom? or the slut? if you’re complaining so hard and you can barely date anyone - why aren’t your standards determined to be too high but women’s standards are high? why do you get to determine your value but women dont? especially if you want things most women don’t care for/dont care to do. if women would rather be single and sexless than date/fuck you - isn’t that a red flag?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-23T17:45:18+00:00

Kinda considering volunteering for some sort of women's rights kinda group, I'm not sure they'd take guys, I know women's shelters don't because it'd cause distress to the victims of abuse.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-23T17:41:08+00:00

Would you say you're more or less attractive than this confident, young man ?usreporter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/2.png

meteorness123 · 2023-09-23T17:22:39+00:00

Turn yourself into an ogre. Ogres have niche appeal. Very beautiful, slavic women really enjoy the ogre look for some reason.

potoricco · 2023-09-23T17:14:47+00:00

Is it just me or Pentecostal is one of the most cringe types of Christianity? Like at least with catholics and other types like they’re traditional but pentecostals and orotestants in general are just so cringe mann

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Maffioze · 2023-09-23T12:08:07+00:00

First!

Maffioze · 2023-09-23T12:14:09+00:00

The post about men being insecure and controlling has such clown responses. It basically comes down to "if men don't want to be shamed they should just not express themselves". This comes from the same people who claim our issues are all caused by toxic masculinity and that men need to express their emotions more. You can't make this up.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-23T12:14:29+00:00

The average man should be attracted to the average woman and vice versa. I find it weird the amount we compare people to those pushing the extremes of "beauty" as if one must be exceptional to be dateable.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-23T12:15:34+00:00

Anyone else hate it when people say stuff like "seek God", "go to the gym" or "just be normal/happy" whenever you mention you have depression? Like bro the chemicals in my brain aren't doing the alchemy they're supposed to do I can't just bench press that away-

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-23T12:29:28+00:00

Sitting around waiting for Chad

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-23T12:31:34+00:00

90% of people would be happiest in a regular family (father, mother and some children). Even if there exist a small minority that wouldn’t be, we shouldn’t expect to bend over backwards for these people.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-23T12:33:32+00:00

So many girls on dating apps, usually 30 and under always love to travel

I can’t imagine the credit card debt that they are in to be able to afford most trips because some of their occupations definitely aint covering it

Maffioze · 2023-09-23T12:43:40+00:00

The reader may like to consider how well concepts like "patriarchy hurts men too", or "male privilege" or "traditional or hegemonic or toxic masculinity" perform as explanations of the disadvantages discussed, especially when confronted with the specific examples of how these inequalities are neglected. As observed above, all these ideas reduce to variants of "it's men's own fault". Consider, then, whether "it's men's own fault" is itself a sentiment essentially based on the empathy gap. The dismissal of material disadvantage based on the victim-blaming stance that "he brought it on himself" is intrinsically lacking in empathy. This class of proffered explanations for the empathy gap is therefore a manifestation of the empathy gap. And it is logically invalid as an explanation of the empathy gap to appeal to ideas which implicitly assume the empathy gap. If there is an empathy gap, blaming men will not cut it as an explanation. Blaming men is the empathy gap.

Willow-girl · 2023-09-23T12:44:43+00:00

My man's sister invited me to be her "plus one" at her employer's wine-tasting event last night. She's excellent at her job but not at all the type who likes small talk and schmoozing. I accepted without a second thought -- I excel at being vivacious when the need arises -- but as I was getting ready last night, I started getting nervous. Sis just got a big promotion (the kind that requires her to do this stuff now) and I didn't want to reflect badly on her. I used to have corporate jobs but it's been years since I ran with the big dogs and I didn't want to be an embarrassment. I'd selected a nice outfit and rolled up my hair, but still ...

I expressed my doubts to my boyfriend and he grabbed me by the shoulders and said earnestly, "You look BEAUTIFUL!" His utter faith in me gave me confidence and I ended up going and having a great time! Met lots of people and received a good reminder as to how utterly superficial and insincere everyone is in that world. (The CEO, who is on the verge of being fired after a company-wide unanimous no-confidence vote, showed up acting like nothing is wrong and everyone fawned over this person as if they were best buddies, which I found hilarious.)

Today I'm back on the farm where I belong, whew.

THUNDER_SLAYER_777 · 2023-09-23T12:45:37+00:00

I miss V10 F1 cars

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-23T12:53:25+00:00

I find it annoying how black and white the discussion is about men being sexually abused. On one hand, lots of people don't take it seriously or don't even believe men can be raped, which is obviously horrible. On the other hand, males generally find the idea of lucking and "getting free sex" appealing, much more so than women, and imo that aspect of male sexuality is real, and it's silly to pretend that it isn't.

So no, we shouldn't dismiss male victims when they come out and especially when they express being hurt or feeling used. On the other hand, when a 16 years old boy has sex with his teacher and that's posted on a random site like reddit, and we literally know no other context, then guys asking "was she hot?" is not the end of the world, and it's kind of understandable. I guess it's insensitive to a degree, but yes, men can enjoy sex for the sake of it, and again, we get the appeal of "lucking out" in a way that the vast majority of women clearly don't. Men have stupid fantasies like being a pizza delivery guy and getting greeted by a sexy woman who invites you in and sucks your cock for literally no reason. Men ARE different, even horny teenage boys are. That should never be used to invalidate an individual's experience... but that goes both ways. I do believe that it is entirely possible for a teenage boy to have sex with an adult and enjoy it, even if power dynamics can still be iffy, and if that boy can still be affected by it. Again, it's just not the same, and there ARE men who have stories like that from their youth and think back on it fondly.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-23T12:54:10+00:00

Average people typically do end up with other average but dating issues can be boiled down to multiple factors making the average man appear to be “worse” than he is and the making the average woman appear to be “better” than she is

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-23T12:56:43+00:00

I don’t get this “capitalists only think quarterly” idea. The biggest companies today like Apple, Amazon or Microsoft didn’t get where they are by thinking quarterly. Hell look at hollywood strikes, Studios are perfectly fine with sacrificing a few quarters for long term gains. The ones actually thinking quarterly are your regular schmucks, who no matter their income somehow is living paycheck to paycheck.

The actual truth is that capitalists are the ones who are able to think long term, that’s how they gained an advantage over the rest.

pegthepatriarchy_ · 2023-09-23T13:01:23+00:00

People who say mental health issues do not make it harder for women when it comes to dating are wrong.

Maybe it's a bigger disadvantage for men but being a woman who struggles with mental disorders makes it really hard to get into a serious relationship.

rosesonthefloor · 2023-09-23T13:02:04+00:00

Q4 people who are morning people: how?

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-09-23T13:17:39+00:00

Visiting African countries and taking insta photos is always a fun thing because folks back in the US literally still think people live in huts.

Now there are some tribes that do but those are like our equivalent of Amish who just want to stay away from tech (and I don’t blame them).

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-23T13:26:02+00:00

Men: Physical intimacy with someone I'm attracted to would be nice.

Women: I had physical intimacy but it didn't make me quite literally permanently happy for the rest of my life, you insensitive, delusional asshole!!!

Ok then.

potoricco · 2023-09-23T13:30:09+00:00

potoricco · 2023-09-23T13:36:50+00:00

It is my birthday 😇

mindmountain · 2023-09-23T14:01:22+00:00

Can you guys provide the evidence for hypergamy. I can only find large cohort studies disproving it.

sosayeth · 2023-09-23T14:06:44+00:00

Women: "All men have raped at least one woman and want to kill us."
*universal support, agreement, yassssss queening and approval*

Men: "Most women are selfish whores with unrealistic expectations."
*ur so hateful!!! misogynist! off with his head!! patriarchal oppression*

SerpentCypher · 2023-09-23T14:09:15+00:00

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-23T14:29:17+00:00

If there's one thing I'm genuinely sexist about it's driving.

Women, on average (doubt many of you guys even understand what 'mean' or 'median' means), are worse drivers than men.

I feel bad for the curbs of our country.

BluePilledSimps · 2023-09-23T14:30:12+00:00

When women are physically attracted to males it basically negates everything we are taught and everything we do as a society. That's why a man who has women physically attracted to him lives on a different plane of existence from other men. We don't even think the same way.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-23T14:43:29+00:00

I often think about how my bipolar diagnosis is bullshit, then I have an episode of rage and I'm like oh yeah, I actually probably am bipolar. Normal people don't have screaming episodes lol.

But the meds for it are absolutely fucking awful. They make the screaming episodes more frequent. So I just don't take them.

I have like a 20% chance of dying by suicide with this diagnosis so it's very serious. I don't take it seriously though 😬😬😬

business_explained · 2023-09-23T14:45:49+00:00

My biggest discovery from exploring PPD topics is that women's preferences adapt to their environment and the supply of quality men.

In South American, Japan, India and Thailand, most men are short and ethnic. Yet most women are married to a man.

Now what if you turn back time, grab those women and raise them in a Western region that's primarily caucasian with a high average height? Their standards vastly change. Now they prefer tall caucasian men over anything they'd get in their home country.

Now go +200 years into the future. The average height for men changes to 6"4. The 6" men are considered short and rejected for their height. The cycle continues.

ButterflyFabrics · 2023-09-23T15:10:18+00:00

The ranting and back-and-forth about women's standards is the biggest red herring in this whole space. Literally every woman I know either is or has dated a dude who barely matched up to their standards, or someone they "didn't think they'd be attracted to".

In reality, women are impressionable and if you make a good impression they're easily swayed.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-23T15:11:38+00:00

Woman: is happy her husband brought her food although she said she didn't need it.

Certain men: unhinged.

A takeaway here is that whatever you, there are always people who will get angry and upset with you. It's life and social medias. You can't let them dictate how you live your life and it seems lots of people need a reminder about it.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-23T15:13:15+00:00

Most guys I know IRL are able to be considered attractive by at least some women. They pretty easily are able to have sex and they aren't worried about being virgins forever.

Is my IRL experience skewed or are the online guys claiming it's not that easy, are they just especially unskilled at getting women to desire them?

Sometimes I just don't understand to be honest.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-23T15:15:47+00:00

Men are angry at women's attraction because they refuse to accept that it works differently than theirs.

They see it as women lying instead of actually listening, they are just so obsessed with what their eyes see.

AspiringMogger · 2023-09-23T15:47:44+00:00

Good weekend to the men and the men only🕺🏾

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-23T16:05:28+00:00

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Peacesquad · 2023-09-23T16:09:31+00:00

What did I miss

potoricco · 2023-09-23T16:14:31+00:00

One thing I can’t stand is when people have no self awareness or sense of urgency

Like I have to go to a church conference with my grandma. It started at 11:00… it’s now almost 12:15. At 10:30 I asked her if she was ready and she told me she was going to go take a shower. Wtf???? Now we just got here at 12:15 and she is saying that we’re late and it’s going to be hard to find parking and I’m like yes and it’s YOUR fault

meteorness123 · 2023-09-23T16:29:00+00:00

How true or redpilled would you say these lyrics are ? :

"Don't get me wrong,
I love these hoes, its no secret, everybody knows.
Yeah we fucked, bitch so what ? That as far as your body goes
We'll be friends, I'll call you again. I chase you around every bar you attend.
You'll never know what kinda car I'll be in.
We'll see how much you'll be partying then.
You don’t want that ? Neither do I.
I don’t wanna flip when I see you with guys.
Too much pride, between you and I, not a jealous man but females lie.
But I guess that’s just what sluts do.
How could it ever be just us two?
I'd never love you enough to trust you, we just met and I just fucked you"

The funniest lines imo are :

"You'll never know what kinda car I'll be in.
We'll see how much you'll be partying then."

DerayRevan · 2023-09-23T16:30:13+00:00

"Is the only reason why you date is for sex ?"

Yesssssss and am not ashamed to admit it since am a guy

towerofcheeeeza · 2023-09-23T16:39:01+00:00

I love that it's no longer hotter than Hades where I live. Perfect in between weather where it's just cool enough to justify thigh highs but not cold enough where I need tights.

scwizard · 2023-09-23T16:43:14+00:00

recently saw one of a Mormon tradmom who was getting a divorce because it turns out, behind the scenes her husband had opened their relationship and started sleeping with other women (including women in her mom group/their church). She believed him when he said their relationship was mutually open and made out with a guy. He decided she was a cheater and her entire community abandoned her for disrespecting him, including all the wives he'd slept with and their husbands.

Mormons are fucking insane.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-23T16:48:04+00:00

Just had a woman threaten to accuse me of rape. The text messages on the night between us are friendly and even texted me a few hours after i dropped her off to say she got a bit of food poisoning from the takeaways I bought. Now she’s revising her whole story and saying the only reason she slept with me is because she was scared because I’m from a certain ethnic background and that she just gave me what I want because she sensed it was going to end badly and I took her somewhere far from home where she was scared about how she was going to get back. We traded a few insults because over text calling each other liars and now she’s threatening to open a case. I’ve blocked her for now. She looked like she was still typing but I blocked straight after that message. She has very little going for her. Just a broke single mother. The only thing is that she’s studying. I’m also studying but have a far higher earning potential than her. I don’t want her to think she scared me off but I feel like I have more to lose even if I win in court.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-23T16:54:16+00:00

Masculine hack #1

Don't talk about your fitness journey with women. No woman outside the gym cares about how much you dead lift or curl.

sine120 · 2023-09-23T16:58:58+00:00

Background drama: Back in HS I accidentally broke up my (now) wife and her former best friend's friendship by dating her. Turns out they both were crushing on me and jealousy ensues and our friend group broke in half.

My today drama: I'm at an event with my wife and friends, she's off doing something for a few more hours without me so I'm killing time. I just spotted the former friend, but she hasn't seen me yet. What do? Do I say hi and carry on?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-23T17:03:55+00:00

It only takes a few false allegations for a man to lose his entire livelihood

LIFE ON ENHANCED HARD MODE

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-23T17:04:58+00:00

I hate sofia copola

Not only she was the worst part of godfather 3,her Marie Antoinette movie is one of the worst whitewashings in history and created a bunch of fucktards trying to say how "Marie Antoinette didn't deserve it waaaah waahhh".

(Spoiler alert: she deserved it)

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-23T17:08:00+00:00

If my father's side of my family has a disproportionate number of people with bipolar. Should I accept my diagnosis?

I dont think I've ever had a manic episode. But the brain scan said I do have it. I have also had periods of my life where I was extremely reckless for basically no reason.

Do I have bipolar disorder?

DerayRevan · 2023-09-23T17:10:39+00:00

Porn would be much better if guys just stop licking the vagina, because l've never been a fan of it and many guys had that same experience with porn

I honestly don't the point since porn is centered around male fantasies, so l fail to see how that's a fantasy for any man

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-23T22:51:28+00:00

Some men here have no concept on what 170 lbs looks like on women.

They throw the number around like it's My 600 Pound Life.

It's so wild. I'm beginning to think that some of them are just afraid of any number greater than zero.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-23T23:03:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/16q15js/is_it_possible_that_men_are_actually_less/

They ALWAYS have to be the victim don't they?

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-23T23:06:19+00:00

Believe all Women

This is at the core of why so many women have been with assholes. Rarely do people retell a story unbiased. Mostly they're doing it for sympathy, validation of some sort, vindication etc. So they're going to conveniently leave out information that doesn't support their goals

So when Women gather around and retell their accounts of meeting an "asshole" or sit down crying about how badly they were treated, I'm willing to guess that a significant chunk of those encounters were equal levels of assholery. But the way Women socialise will mean she'll get comforted and their ideas of "Men are trash" will get affirmed even more

Long_Consequence3461 · 2023-09-23T23:10:21+00:00

I'm extremely distressed because I can't do the things I enjoy, which basically means having a girlfriend. I just can't make it happen. I've looked into all the options. This is simply not acceptable any more. I can't get the things I need. My life is being destroyed one day at a time and there's nothing I can do about it. What can I do?

It seems there's nothing I can do but be extremely distressed and lacking of enjoyment for the rest of my life. It's only a question of how much longer my life is. So, the logical thing is to end my life as soon as possible. I see no other option.

So, where's the part that I got wrong? Or, do you agree that ending my life as soon as possible is the best thing for me? If you say ending my life is not the best thing for me, then provide me a better option. Prove it. I've been waiting a long time and have asked a lot of people. No one will give me an option better than immediate death.

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-09-23T23:15:08+00:00

Gimli asking for 3 hairs from Galadrial's head is fucking psycho killer creepy!

Euphemia006 · 2023-09-23T23:18:03+00:00

Where is u/cimzim? Miss her so much

potoricco · 2023-09-23T23:19:10+00:00

Is this what awaits you 👇👇

https://preview.redd.it/j9boh8d493qb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1c073e21a05afee7022a4d352aebe0fbdae4a941

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-09-23T23:30:00+00:00

Hill I'm happily dying on: No one is exempt from criticism, not men, not women, not anyone. Someone somewhere out there is gonna dislike you or your preferences, someone somewhere isn't going to want to date you, someone somewhere is only gonna see you as a fun time instead of a long-term option, instead of acting like a victim, take the sting and then brush that shit off. The only promise that's kept in life is that one day you're going to die, not finding love, not having kids, or marriage, or a successful career the only thing guaranteed is that one day you're going to die.

Long_Consequence3461 · 2023-09-23T23:30:58+00:00

Why are all the women on this sub bitter, fat, and hat sex?

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-23T23:39:47+00:00

I think for guys that look younger, going for younger girls is basically the only viable option. Because girls their age almost certainly want someone that looks more mature.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-23T23:43:39+00:00

https://i.redd.it/c6k8e1bid3qb1.gif

HazyMemory7 · 2023-09-23T23:45:36+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/daozqgevd3qb1.jpeg?width=861&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0addcefc54c634e3f591774df0db29a0df87cfd7

Got tired of politely asking girls to get dinner/drinks lmfaooo

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-23T23:51:03+00:00

The obesity crisis probably wouldn't be as bad if people didn't have this weird notion that they NEED to eat 3+ times a day.

You don't lmao. For the vast majority of hominin history, being hungry some or a lot of the time was normal. Moderate hunger isn't bad or dangerous. And to add on to that, it's not as bad if your diet isn't so starch-heavy so you're not reliant on a constant supply of glucose for energy.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-23T23:51:31+00:00

I took my lead climbing certification a couple of weeks ago. In our class was this hyper masculine woman with big muscles, but as soon as she went up the wall she turned into a little girl. Part of the test requires you to fall in a controlled fashion (about 3 meters before the rope catches you) and then continue climbing after that. It legit took her like 5 minutes to build the courage to jump off the wall lmao. The more feminine women and us guys off course had no issues with it.

It’s always those projecting masculinity that lacks it the most.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-24T00:01:36+00:00

Why should a man not date younger given the opportunity?

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-09-24T00:07:14+00:00

Q4Gymbros: Are you just constantly achy?

Every time I work out my muscles ache for a solid day after.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-24T00:12:18+00:00

So I’m in the process of joining my country’s biggest outdoor activities organizations as a hiking guide for young adults on a voluntary basis. They have a bunch of courses/licenses required depending on what types of hikes you’re going to hold. I already have the course needed to hold multi day trips within the organization as long as it’s not in dangerous terrain, but for some reason the person I talked to claim I need to have a different course to be able to hold short one day hikes even though I without a doubt am already allowed to hold multi day hikes. (The course to hold multi-day hikes does not build on the short hikes course) Shit makes no sense.

potoricco · 2023-09-24T00:12:19+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/80m004uki3qb1.jpeg?width=612&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f13bb304388486b10790f8a344ccfcc4a5183821

41% to 43% to 48%

They tried to keep me down 💪

eye_fuck · 2023-09-24T00:13:50+00:00

https://i.redd.it/5l6ydecwi3qb1.gif

potoricco · 2023-09-24T00:26:38+00:00

Me when my phone breaks when I’m actively trying to break it

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-24T00:26:49+00:00

An open relationship is a sign of apathy towards your partner. The reason you’re okay with them sleeping around is because you don’t really desire them that much anyway.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-24T00:44:11+00:00

The reason why men in the west don’t read/watch romance is because it’s all made for women. In Japan many romantic manga/anime/light novels are popular with men, cause guess what they’re actually made to appeal to that demographic. Like are people surprised that men don’t read chicklits?

potoricco · 2023-09-24T00:46:45+00:00

Ready for the crusade but <span class="md-spoiler-text">Post Malone is so hot</span>

demedermidimi · 2023-09-24T00:46:51+00:00

i know that fatty is an insult but when that one guy uses it as an adjective it just sounds so cute lol. fatty women ❤️

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-24T00:47:08+00:00

Women think that passport bros are only wanted for their money because they don't realize(or they actively deny) how much more physically desirable white men are compared to Asian men.

Like I would bet money that most of these American women have never had sex with or been in a relationship with a east or southeast Asian guy, when there are plenty of them in the US, especially in the urban and liberal areas they tend to live.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-24T00:57:44+00:00

u/eye_fuck why have you not been conscripted yet. why are you sitting on your couch posting here instead of magdumping a хохол like a chad

dbz__f · 2023-09-24T01:09:39+00:00

How do you stop being depressed in the morning and ruminating on life?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-24T01:09:56+00:00

I'm so tired of begging and trying to entertain women so that they will talk to me for even a few minutes at clubs/bars that I might start opening with "can I beg you to talk to me" for the lols

dbz__f · 2023-09-24T01:12:16+00:00

30 years old and I’ve been coming up with novel ideas for 20 years and never properly written one

macone235 · 2023-09-24T01:20:13+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/16q15js/is_it_possible_that_men_are_actually_less/

Is it possible that men are actually LESS punished for showing weakness than women?

Feminist delusion knows no bounds.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-09-24T01:39:52+00:00

Since the "Why don't you feel sorry for men who are misogynists? Don't you know they were hurt? Please feel bad for them, it's not their fault!" post got deleted I'll give my answer:

Same reason I don't feel sorry for women who hate men, I don't reward bad behavior, I don't excuse bad behavior and I sure as shit don't enable bad behavior just because someone was "hurt."

danielwastaken · 2023-09-24T01:46:58+00:00

Anybody else trying get over wasting their college years

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-24T02:06:32+00:00

Today is new sneaker buying day. What would you get? Suggestions?

I’m just going to be using them for walking around and going to the gym but I like fun colors/designs.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-24T02:16:04+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/rIdjiGpuWu

Yo what the fuck 🤣

baiser_vole · 2023-09-24T02:38:25+00:00

Woooow I don’t know what I’ve just heard. My mom wants a handsome secretary who is 10-20 younger than her to use as her eye candy. Strictly eye candy though. She said any older is not good looking enough. Damn.

baiser_vole · 2023-09-24T02:40:12+00:00

Tonight, I have learned that I really am my mom’s daughter.

potoricco · 2023-09-24T02:43:07+00:00

How does it feel to know that as a girl your brother can literally bomb a building but if YOU confront it you’re at fault

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-24T02:51:26+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxWvkaouHkb/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-24T03:05:37+00:00

Is being a high libido female a problem? Maybe he doesn't like my other traits but he likes having sex with me so that cancels it out. I just don't know where I stand objectively.

potoricco · 2023-09-24T03:27:01+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/len3yw80h4qb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5eee0d1967b7cd3475e27cb50f9a4ab940abc9d6

This though

Like how does someone get soooooo close to the point yet still so far

“Oppression causes women to be unhappy” straight to “Women being happy is bad for marriage”

Same people that whine about misandry btw

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-24T03:36:49+00:00

I am having a mental breakdown. I feel like my diagnosis is going to kill me one day. It hurts.

relish5k · 2023-09-24T03:50:42+00:00

Hey guys - is this a fair depiction of the experience that the average / slightly above average man has when approaching modern women?

https://youtu.be/fshwooKkKkk?si=XmZ1gjbHPaUR_X_M

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-24T05:00:23+00:00

When I go to the casino alone to bet on footy, it’s pathetic, but if I were to go with friends, it’s a social event. God I hate doing things alone. I feel like a weirdo.

DuetLearner · 2023-09-24T05:02:32+00:00

https://twitter.com/k7ixl/status/1696492523798028758

How stunning is this woman?

Blocksplain · 2023-09-24T05:03:11+00:00

I just want a cuddle I feel like I am going to explode

Ylduts · 2023-09-24T05:28:04+00:00

Women lose ~90% of their eggs by 30 and medically a pregnancy at 35+ is considered geriatric for the birthing parent. Why wouldn’t a man looking to start a family prefer the fertile option? It seems very logical to me.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-24T06:18:30+00:00

I am having a huge fight with my bf and he just proposed. what

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-24T07:50:34+00:00

I want to do something reckless. What should I do?

Ylduts · 2023-09-24T08:00:06+00:00

At what age should a woman be allowed to make decisions for herself?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-24T09:47:50+00:00

dude my voice sounds gruff and raspy when I'm sick (the good kind) I should do this more often

supremethrone · 2023-09-24T10:17:00+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/16qqd70/celeb_divorce_lawyer_links_barbie_beyonc%C3%A9_and/

Women are so easily manipulated by celebrities that they will divorce their husbands because of a Hollywood movie and a few nepobaby singers. I know understand why capitalism loves women so much - they're the perfect mindless consumers

hannahg000 · 2023-09-24T10:32:08+00:00

my period is a week late and i keep having this thought in the back of my head that i’m pregnant, despite the fact that it’s impossible 😅

Yuruyakatou · 2023-09-24T10:44:20+00:00

AspiringMogger · 2023-09-24T10:48:24+00:00

Never understood men who insists on paying. Food quite simply just tastes better when a woman is paying

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-24T12:07:24+00:00

There is nothing quite like a glass of milk when you are feeling ill

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-24T12:30:54+00:00

i’m tired of men caring so much that i’m pretty but im simultaneously trying to be so pretty so i can get the best man that treats me well and it’s so annoying how much work it is to be low maintenance pretty

Appropriate_Ask1282 · 2023-09-24T12:40:28+00:00

The lazy reader's paradox:

When you don't like reading books you know nothing about, but when you know some things about the book you no longer want to read it.

Is this an actual thing?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-24T12:52:22+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Thailand/s/cEPDb1I76E

Oh no, redneck American passport bros have staked out their beer drinking territory in the Issan region! 💀

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-09-24T12:52:29+00:00

If I started lightly making fun of a girl for having small hands do you think I could get her to put her hand up to mine and touch hands to compare

I'm brainstorming some new approach tactics

AspiringMogger · 2023-09-24T12:53:07+00:00

I wish red and blue pillers knew how much diversity in opinion there is within the blackpill.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-24T13:01:33+00:00

Intense desire is the most important factor of a relationship a woman can give to a man

Everything else is a distant 2nd

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