CMV: Every single man can immediately significantly increase his desirability to women by rescuing cats and kittens.

shadowrangerfs · 2024-06-29T15:34:36+00:00

This sounds like something that is only attractive in people that you already find attractive. If you're an attractive guy who rescues cats, then you're all those nice qualities that you mentioned. If you're an unattractive guy who rescues cats, then you're just "The Weird Cat Guy".

It will never be.

I don't want to date him.
Oh he rescues cats.
Now I want to date him.

ComfortableJeans · 2024-06-29T13:43:10+00:00

I do animal rescue. I've been helping animals ever since I was little and my dad showed me how. I'm 30 now and I've been doing it since... Well, I was able to start forming memories.

I've got two rescue cats and a rescue dog right now, which I had to punch a man to get, because he was hurting him very badly as a puppy. On top of that, also another dog and another cat. So I'm very much an animal rescue person. I've put TONS of strays into new homes and healed a few animals that can't be kept as pets so I could release them later on.

All my relationships have come from girls getting to know me through my animal work.

But there's negatives too. There's some stuff I've noticed from interacting with people doing unpaid animal rescue, which goes for me as much as them.

To do this in a meaningful sense requires a LOT of dedication, time and forsaking other relationships. It's so time consuming that you'll be giving up more parts of your life than you think you would.

Whether it's staying up all night to take care of kittens, or needing to be within arms reach to clean a wound, nurse with good or give medicine ect. ect. ect.

Also, expect to be dealing with cleaning a lot of shit and piss off of fur. It's not really something you can be half way into.

It's really hard to do a little bit of animal rescue, because any one thing is going to be quite a lot, even by itself.

People who tend to turn to spending all their time with animals instead of people like this, tend to be quite hurt themselves. I don't like people because of all the stuff that I've experienced with them. At particularly low points, really hating myself while doing volenteer construction at a school for disabled kids, I've had to go as far as asking girls to leave me alone because I was worried that they'd just end up doing something fucked up towards me later on and I can't handle it anymore.

The only "normal" people I meet doing a lot of charity work are elderly that've gotten bored and lonely with nothing else to do.

Girls have found me, and been willing to do the chore of getting me to ease up and relax so we can get closer, but the more life goes on, the less I seem to want to get closer to anyone. Which I know isn't fair on them, it's not their fault that I can be shitty for things that I haven't done.

On top of that, this takes up so much of my time that I'm never going to be making lots of money. This takes up more time for me than a full time job. I can't buy us a big house, take us places, get you expensive things, or shiny stuff you can show off. I can't do it. I'm 30, and sometimes I don't have enough money to get things I need, never mind extras for my partner. I've gone without food, so I can buy more (What an animal would consider) intensely high value food items, so that I can expedite the trust gaining process of injured strays, meaning I can more quickly catch them and get them treatment. This is what I do, and what I do doesn't pay. I'd like to think I make up for it in other ways, but if money is important, you're going to have to be the one getting it.

I can take care of you, but I can't pay for you. Infact, most of the time, I'm going out of pocket myself. I'm losing money, not making it. I know I'm an amazing partner for a particular type of girl. I've had girls sobbing on my chest telling me they've never felt as safe and loved as they do. But I'm also sick, and my health is getting worse and worse. Lets be real. No one wants to lug around dead weight, no matter how good they are with animals, or how kind, patient and loving they can be.

People should ask themselves honestly, without worry for my feelings, is what I can provide really worth the constant ball and chain someone like me would be around your neck? I've ran the numbers a million times in my head. It is what it is. I am, most likely, a detriment in comparison to most boys and what most girls want.

That archetype of mentally healthy, well off, well put together man doing charity work with puppies and kittens... Well, I'm not saying they're a myth, but in all my years, I've never seen one.

You want someone deeply involved in rescue, odds are, you're going be doing a little bit of a rescue yourself.

But, yeah. People who tend to be deeply involved in helping broken things tend to be not quite whole themselves, sadly.

On the plus side through, for boys at least. Charity work tends to be like, 95% girls. And those girls tend to be quite dominant and assertive. So if you're a shy, withdrawn weirdo like me, they'll be the one to grab your hand first.

I'm sure being the only guy there, while being 6'3 and big also helps a bit too.

Edit: Sorry this is so scattered and I keep altering things. I kept thinking of things I felt were at least somewhat relevant, while also having to fix my atrocious spelling and grammar.

gunkinthewine · 2024-06-29T16:21:51+00:00

The OP says that because she’s a woman, she has authority on this matter and is more justified than male commenters. However, some women in the comments have written “hell no!” to her advice. One even shared a study showing that photos of men holding cats are liked less by women. Honestly, giving general advice on these topics doesn’t seem very accurate to me. Also, (heterosexual) men might be more experienced in trying to impress women from birth, so saying “I’m a woman, so my opinion is more valuable” is a fallacy.

When it comes to the topic, being compassionate and helpful is of course a green flag, and these qualities should already be green flags for the benefit of society. But the formula “green flag equals attractiveness” isn’t correct. We don’t really care about the flags of people we don’t like or find attractive.

I don’t think that being helpful or adopting a cat alone will increase dating success. (But for sure it leads to meet new people, so better than nothing?) Charity work shouldn’t be done with this intention anyway. But of course, I wish more people would actively participate in these activities…

Doo__Dah · 2024-06-29T15:10:23+00:00

Meh. Caring about animals is nice, but I have two dogs; I don't want a man with cats (or a man with his own dogs for that matter - two is plenty). Then there's all the women who are allergic or just don't like cats. Finding a man more desirable because he rescues cats is a SUPER individual thing.

John_Oakman · 2024-06-29T15:30:37+00:00

Isn't that just a form of long term ulterior motives and emotional manipulation? especially with the implication that said males only does this thing for a specific result that has little to do with the act itself.

Exciting-Parfait-776 · 2024-06-29T13:58:54+00:00

No. That doesn’t do anything. And I do have a cat.

Dense-Tell-6147 · 2024-06-29T13:26:14+00:00

I don’t buy it. If the guy is not attractive or is a creep he could extract an entire litter of the cutest kitten from lava with his bare hands and would still be deemed a creep.

I used to know several guys who did volunteering (even more serious stuff than fluffy kittens) as a simping technique and didn’t increase their desirability of a hundredth of a notch.

Volunteering done for its sake, not to show off can certainly tell a lot of one person, to the right people.

Doing it for further motives shows soon.

DBEternal · 2024-06-29T14:46:03+00:00

I once was on the subway and some woman with kids and her husby right next to her was eyeing me like she fucked me last night and wanted to do it again.

she knew nothing about me, literally nothing about me. i dont keep cats.

Pathosgrim · 2024-06-29T20:40:10+00:00

Virtue signaling bullshit 🤣 The man has to be attractive in some kind of physical way. A professional rescuer/social worker with animals doesn't tend to have an amazing income. Those materialistic traits trumps morality in the eyes of you women.

I love all kinds of animals tho, my avatar is an Opossum for crying out loud. This thread is yet another attempt of gaslighting simpletons

UpbeatInsurance5358 · 2024-06-29T13:29:27+00:00

Perhaps don't take on an animal you don't want purely because you think it might get you laid? It's still a responsibility.

Particular_Soft_6006 · 2024-06-29T14:59:29+00:00

What happens when the men do what you say and still see no success? I'm tired of all the meaningless advice, some men aren't going to ever succed and if they want to be bitter and hateful, they have every right to do that.

KayRay1994 · 2024-06-29T14:58:33+00:00

I mean I would but my cat is the most possessive and anxious fuck you’ll ever meet and he isn’t okay with me being around other people (but usually does nothing, cause other people are bigger than him) - he’d prob fight any other cat I bring home lol

That all being said, I disagree with this advice. Not cause it doesn’t work, but moreso cause if you are rescuing cats, it has to come from a genuine place. Like don’t do it to seem attractive and don’t do it for approval, only do it if you love cats and actually have the means to foster them. It’s also bad dating advice because it strongly parallels a lot of the redpill “be chad” advice in that it doesn’t account for a very important factor - ie. being yourself and being true to your own values. Like you can say “I think men who foster and take care of cats are more attractive” then explain why and i’d probably agree, but the agreement ends when it becomes “single men: foster cats to become more attractive”

cuteTroublexo · 2024-06-29T20:39:35+00:00

If he says he rescued cats and kittens, I would be inclined to think that his home smells like horrid cat litter, ammonia, and shit. His home has cat hair on everything. Cats on countertops, tables, everywhere. I have also met quite a few people that "rescue" cats but they don't spay/neuter them, and they let them roam outside, which harms native wildlife btw. I don't like cat nutters as a woman. Toxoplasmosis is real, and as a pregnant woman, it can severely harm my baby. Toxoplasmosis makes cat people crazy, literally.

It's one thing if he works at a cat rescue FACILITY, but his own home? No fucking thank you.

philseven12 · 2024-06-29T21:14:17+00:00

Doing good things don't make you good in the eyes of women. Being good looking makes you "good" in the eyes of women

KarmaCameleonian · 2024-06-29T13:31:38+00:00

Men holding cats were viewed as less masculine; more neurotic, agreeable, and open; and less dateable. These results varied slightly depending whether the women self-identified as a 'dog person' or a 'cat person.

https://www.southbendtribune.com/story/entertainment/2021/03/14/men-with-cats-womens-perception-of-masculinity/116620456/

For any men reading this, you don't ask fish how to catch fish.

purplish_possum · 2024-06-29T13:43:20+00:00

You're being sarcastic I hope.

Women like decent caring guys as friend/orbiters.

Women like to fuck hot guys regardless of whether they're decent human beings or not.

PiastriPs3 · 2024-06-29T13:50:29+00:00

Im one level better though. I rescue humans by being a social worker to drug addicts and rescue children in broken homes as my role as a Child protection officer. Yet for some reason, that doesn't help when I date because all women hear when I tell them what I do is that I have a mid salary.

UglyDude1987 · 2024-06-29T15:43:28+00:00

I literally spent weekends and evenings volunteering helping sick children and their family. Nobody cared.

Zealousideal_Bar_749 · 2024-06-29T13:26:04+00:00

Why do women have such an impossible time separating men they already like from the men they ignore. Do they learn this aristocratic indifference as children or is it just a habit they pick up from one another?

These are all things that boost a man that a woman is already talking to. Most men are turned away at the door.

ImpossibleJaguar2727 · 2024-06-29T16:29:41+00:00

It shows that you're caring, compassionate, empathetic, patient, dedicated, and you get personal fulfillment out of helping creatures in distress and changing their lives around.

The fundamental flaw in your perspective is that woman are not actually attracted to those qualities you listed out, and I would even say there's an argument to be made women are are actually UNATTRACTED to those traits.

So does rescuing cats and helping cats demonstrate those qualities? Yeah, but they're nowhere near as helpful in attracting women as many people say.

Maractop · 2024-06-29T13:20:34+00:00

caring, compassionate, empathetic, patient, dedicated, and you get personal fulfillment out of helping creatures in distress and changing their lives around

None of these things are making a man more attractive. They are just bonuses that boost it for men who already are attractive. Those traits by themselves mean nothing.

DrunkOnRamen · 2024-06-29T13:18:24+00:00

I have, in fact my current cat I rescued him off an active battlefield in Donbass, Ukraine in 2017. This has not helped me at all.

SurelyWoo · 2024-06-29T13:25:18+00:00

I had a stray dog for 15 years that I loved like a daughter. She was cute and gentle, so I at first expected to enjoy a side-benefit of increased attention from women. However, it was not a huge effect and was offset by all the time I needed to spend at home with my dog. Being kind to animals is its own reward. Don't expect more pu--y because you take care of pussies.

Bewpadewp · 2024-06-29T16:55:37+00:00

I've done animal rescue since before i could spell my own name, and i promise if i get a female cashier at a has station, she is going to treat me like im filth, simply because I'm not attractive enough to dare interact with her (aka her job).

Yet again, this "just be a good person" advice exclusively applies to people that are already attractive. Women treat ugly men as subhuman, and there is no changing it, because it's not the fault of the man for being ugly, and the women that do it are completely allergic to accountability.

Illustrious_Wish_383 · 2024-06-29T17:14:32+00:00

Fostering animals is only practical if you can afford home ownership.

In my area, good luck with that as a single man unless you have a very good job or are lucky enough to inherit property.

Werevulvi · 2024-06-30T08:20:34+00:00

Yes. A very mediocre man who loves cats is instantly more attractive to me, because I love cats, and that's a mutual interest, and having things in common makes me like people. However, it won't solve any actual issues a man may have in regards to dating. It's absolutely helpful, but I wouldn't consider it an actual solution to a trainwreck of a man.

Just like... for ex I notice I generally gain more respect from men nowadays since I dropped my former feminist label and started advocating more for men's rights and listening to their perspective... but it didn't fix my dating issues because I'm still a trainwreck of a woman with the energy levels of an old, swelling Motorola phone battery, no sense of a circadian rhythm and the same level of independence as a 10 year old. Not to mention missing body parts important for male sexual attraction in women.

So let's be realistic about how much superficial things like for ex a passion for cat care can really do for a guy struggling with dating.

FlameGoats · 2024-06-29T14:02:01+00:00

Out of all the things that can make a man more attractive this ranks pretty low for me tbh. Owning a cat is way easier and pretty much has the same effect.

spacekiller69 · 2024-06-29T13:51:12+00:00

Humans are a sexually dimorphic species like most mammals. Where the males are bigger and stronger than females on average. If women didn't prefer taller muscular men the genders would be the same height and strength on average like foxes.

RubyDiscus · 2024-06-29T16:24:35+00:00

Wtf is this, stop.

Don't encourage men to rescue cats to try and appear more attractive to women.

It's reckless and shitty advice.

This doesn't belong in this sub

one_ball_policy · 2024-06-29T14:24:12+00:00

I would, but then I wouldn’t be “just being yourself” and for that reason I’m out

siempreloco31 · 2024-06-29T15:23:10+00:00

Tbh I took in a stray about 2 months before I met my fiancee. So maybe

Ultramega39 · 2024-06-29T15:33:51+00:00

This is such a weird opinion to have....especially considering I have 2 cats. (The older one is 4 years and i believe that she was rescued. the younger one is 11 months old)

I don't talk about my cats with women that I'm interested in because of the negative stigma associated with straight men owning cats....cough cough.... "he's probably gay"... cough....cough...

Visual-Community-743 · 2024-06-29T16:35:35+00:00

I vomit when men use animals as props to attract women and show their “gentleness”. Don’t know why woman don’t see it as the charade it is.

Few_Advertising3430 · 2024-06-29T16:55:14+00:00

If one actually likes animals, cats or dogs it can be a wonderful way to meet people and women. The key is to actually care for the animals, it will not fly if you just pretend.

Evening_Invite_922 · 2024-06-29T20:59:29+00:00

explain the last sentence

do-the-thugshaker · 2024-06-29T21:18:55+00:00

Some men hate cats though

They could rescue dogs then.

Realistic-Ad-1023 · 2024-07-01T01:54:06+00:00

No hate to OP at all - I actually think it would do these guys a world of good to have a goal, a hobby, a priority, a heart of service, and to interact with women on a regular basis.

However - I think we as women need to stop offering prescriptive advice to the men here. Because they want “I do X, I get women.” And life is never that simple. They want video game stats and a fetch quest to get a girlfriend. They want a foolproof “I go to the gym, I can get women.” Otherwise, they don’t want to hear it. They will always have a reason why it won’t work, why women are terrible and why you’re not actually attracted to them. It’s not that he’s angry and hateful - he’s short and he can fix short! It’s not that he’s super selfish and can’t read social cues - no! He just wasn’t blessed with the appropriate genes. It’s not that he had almost no social life or ability to meet women outside of his few male friends - no way, it’s the women only want money and status in a man!

So it doesn’t matter what useful advice we offer up about improving their lives, living a life of joy and contentment, and ways to meet women - we can’t guarantee success - so we are all just a bunch of dirty liars who lie. We can’t get their dick wet so we must have ulterior motives. They tried for three whole weeks and aren’t absolutely swimming in pussy - it must be women’s fault.

Quirky-Personality33 · 2024-07-01T11:44:47+00:00

AND DOGS

gusGus86_ · 2024-06-29T13:39:42+00:00

Eh, a man with cats… haven’t met many that I liked.

Also, why wouldn’t rescuing dogs and puppies be just as good.

And should you be doing that just so you can get some pussy? Pun intended…. Lol.

People like cats because they require very little attention and work, compared to dogs. I would not say women require little attention and work…

Dogs require much more attention and work. Much like the women you claim men hate.

Wouldn’t dogs show that you care more and possess more of those qualities?

It’s not that I don’t like cats. It’s just that dogs are 100x better.

Electric_Death_1349 · 2024-06-29T13:43:12+00:00

I love cats. I had two rescue cats (they grew old (15 and 18) so I no longer have them). I can’t say that’s ever made a difference in the eyes of women.

Willow-girl · 2024-06-29T13:56:14+00:00

The secret cheat code!

It's true my man was a crazy cat guy long before we met ...

DoubleFistBishh · 2024-06-29T14:16:53+00:00

Yep I will always have a thing for men who love animals especially cats. It's like the biggest green flag lol

Expensive-Tea455 · 2024-06-29T14:29:53+00:00

lol no 😂

MisterFunnyShoes · 2024-06-29T15:20:52+00:00

This is a perfect example of why men should never take dating advice from women. Rescuing cats is cool. It won’t get you laid. Women saying otherwise are imagining men they already would fuck or date rescuing cats.

CraftyCooler · 2024-06-29T17:28:28+00:00

I like cats very much - but I like women that are deep into helping animals much less. They are usually crazy left wing feminists - the type that should be rather eliminated from the genepool if we want humanity to survive.

TheDuellist100 · 2024-06-29T18:09:04+00:00

That's the biggest load of bullshit I have ever heard in my entire life, and I am a cat lover. You can easily flip the genders in this post and it would mean jack shit. Can't believe this tripe is upvoted.

KarmaCameleonian · 2024-06-29T13:30:27+00:00

Female privilege is having the option of running around all day "rescuing kittens" while men have to work full-time jobs

blarginfajiblenochib · 2024-06-29T14:41:26+00:00

If you’re a man who likes cats, maybe this could work but nah, this is stupid, just like the guys who post pictures of their dogs on their online profiles in hopes some dog loving women will sleep with them.

More effective advice would be to expand your hobbies and interests, ideally to causes greater than yourself that will also allow you to socialize with others, and to learn to connect with strangers (not just women) in a meaningful and honest way.

Some men hate cats though, for similar reasons they hate women, so they don't want to do it.

Of course we had to have at least one “man bad” comment lol

InteriorInsights99 · 2024-06-30T09:02:53+00:00

I’ve been a cat rescue volunteer for over 5y now. This means that I care for abandoned/mistreated cats before they’re placed with other people. I personally have 5 cats but no dogs.

I also volunteer for a local women’s charity/ refuge and help women who’ve been victims of different forms of abuse or who’ve experienced lots of other trauma. I also use my culinary skills to prepare special meals to celebrate specific events. It helps that I used to work for a non profit.

I don’t do the above to make myself more attractive to women. In fact every woman I’ve either met has found it very unattractive for a man to prefer cats over dogs. Here in Europe men who have cats as pets or ‘foster’ abandoned cats are viewed as ‘feminine’ whereas men who have a dog are viewed as ‘masculine.’ Multiple women rejected me the moment I mentioned the above details. Women don’t find men attractive who have a cat.

In fact I’ve experienced so much negativity from women concerning my cat activities that I no longer mention it if I meet a woman. I’ve received so much toxic /abusive messages from women in the past on dating apps about my cat activities that I won’t mention them again.

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Ppdebatesomental · 2024-06-29T14:54:42+00:00

🤬

🐶 > 🐱

Fight me!

escape12345 · 2024-06-29T15:56:08+00:00

God what kind of advice is this ?

If you are considered attractive to a woman. Rescuing cats wouldn't make any difference.

If she is not attracted, cats won't change her mind. Might even make you mentally depressed if you put all that effort knowing your intention was to try and get a date along and still did not work.

Most_Read_1330 · 2024-06-29T15:56:42+00:00

This will only work if you're brad pitt.

plannotgoingtoplan · 2024-06-29T16:52:08+00:00

I don't hate cats but I do think they are not noble creatures and only gather my curiousity, not my attention

Enzi42 · 2024-06-29T17:18:36+00:00

"Some men hate cats though for similar reasons as they hate women"

I'm sorry but what was that? Everything else about this post aside, that jumped out at me. I've heard this before, that men who don't like cats either hate women or are red flags since it shows they have borderline misogynistic tendencies.

The only explanations I've ever heard for this declaration are as ridiculous as the assumption itself. I'm curious, what would make you say/believe something like that?

lle-ell · 2024-06-29T18:13:08+00:00

It would make him more attractive, but it would also be a dealbreaker since I’m super allergic to cats.

abnabatchan · 2024-06-29T18:16:56+00:00

as someone who'd never marry a guy who isn't an obsessive cat lover I think this isn't very realistic. compassion and empathy for animals are qualities you either have or don't have, a person who doesn't have them would never go down the path you're talking about. however I do appreciate the effort to help our feline masters because if this post inspires even one guy to rescue and help a cat for any reason, I’d call it a huge win.

figosnypes · 2024-06-29T18:43:24+00:00

Depends how you define desirability. Social desirability and sexual desirability are two different things. Social desirability does not translate to sexual desirability.

Bro_with_passport · 2024-06-29T19:01:48+00:00

I’ve rescued two kittens in my lifetime, both were great experiences. If you have a more active lifestyle, consider a dog as well. I’m adopting a sporting breed (still narrowing down the list), to have someone to join me when I go out and about.

Ok_Landscape_592 · 2024-06-29T19:16:24+00:00

altho, lying about it would actually work as well to an extent

ChadderUppercut · 2024-06-29T19:28:15+00:00

I volunteer for five different helping phones. I'm still a virgin at 39.

Intrepid-Rip-2280 · 2024-06-29T19:42:22+00:00

Real life does not work like in Sims videogames or Eva AI sexting bot. The same inputs may cause various outputs in real life

bifewova234 · 2024-06-29T19:53:12+00:00

Cats are bad for babies because of toxoplasmosis

Trouvette · 2024-06-30T00:23:58+00:00

You know what? Yes. This might be some of the best advice given to men on this sub. Men, do this!

lostnumber08 · 2024-06-30T01:08:27+00:00

Op lives in a version of reality where people don’t have allergies, no one minds their house/apartment stinking of animals, and everyone enjoys having hair on their cloths at all times.

giveuporfindaway · 2024-06-30T01:49:34+00:00

Sounds like friend zone instead of fuck zone advice.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2024-06-30T03:17:44+00:00

I have two cats. One stray I domesticated. Does that count?

ExternalBarracuda292 · 2024-06-30T04:29:12+00:00

To some women for sure. The OP probably loves cats, so seeing a man who is good with cats has a lot of appeal to her, but to a woman who's allergic to cats it's probably a big turnoff!

I think the idea behind this post though is more about the subconscious effect that seeing a man who's good with animals has on women, with the idea being that this suggests to them that they would make a good father and thus are a more desirable partner. This idea has been around forever (this is where the idea of getting a dog to meet women comes from), though how well it actually works is up for debate. Anecdotally, I have definitely met women who were susceptible to it, but they were women who loved animals (and in some cases didn't have any interest in children). I doubt it works particularly well with women who are indifferent to or actively dislike animals, so it's probably more of a shared interest thing. It's also something you can't effectively fake, you have to actually be an animal lover yourself. It also probably works for women trying to get men as well, but again, only on specific men.

cherrybby802 · 2024-06-30T06:14:14+00:00

I love cats more than I love anything on earth and even that wouldn’t change his attractiveness. Would it make me like him as a person more? Yes. But that doesn’t automatically mean I’m more interested in dating him.

qunamax · 2024-06-30T13:12:09+00:00

This is a joke, right?

nofaplove-it · 2024-06-30T15:43:41+00:00

This just boils down to the fact that every activity you do is just unconsciously a way to attract a partner. It’s pathetic but human biology

However doing this solely to get laid, is low

ThrowawayHomesch · 2024-06-30T17:28:44+00:00

Will this advice work for a 5’2 balding Indian guy who looks like this? https://imgur.com/a/qFGwt03

If so, how much will it change his dating life? If no women find him sexually attractive before, how many would find him sexually attractive after he starts rescuing kittens?

Jello_Vivid · 2024-06-30T20:09:28+00:00

This I feel is cringe it should come from a place of wanting to do the right thing instead of doing it to get girls it promotes the wrong message as your essential saying to be a slave to what women want so they like you. It should come from an authentic self instead if that's what you're about. Trying to force things you may not be interested in to get girls won't probably get you the connection you want.

DoinIt989 · 2024-07-01T03:45:38+00:00

A lot of women think cat guys are "gay, too feminine". I see you've never experienced Real America before.

mcgiggles121 · 2024-07-01T15:33:25+00:00

No, men should go to the gym and workout. That’s number 1.

New-Relationship1772 · 2024-07-01T15:58:47+00:00

What if your rescuing involves playing rabies chicken with a stray Belgian Malinois?

Am I both proper manly and fostering and caring?

anna_alabama · 2024-06-29T17:37:24+00:00

My husband is the best cat dad and it 100% makes him hotter

Spiritual_Hamster945 · 2024-06-30T00:11:27+00:00

It's true!

I just told my 5'5 balding ethnic friend to do this and now he has 10 girls lined up on tinder it's crazy thanks bro! great advice!

Ainsleygz · 2024-06-29T13:57:24+00:00

Dogs make it way harder to have casual sex or date. What do you mean we can’t have a flirty night out and sex at my place because you have to take Sparkie on his nighttime walkies? At least cats can stay home alone over night just fine. I was only interested in men with cats bc of this

literaryhogwartian · 2024-06-29T14:27:37+00:00

One of the sexiest things my husband does is care about cats. A man cuddling a tiny kitten is amazing

Long-Manufacturer990 · 2024-06-29T14:38:44+00:00

Yeah I can see this working. But if you really want success nothing like being a high earner, high achiever with sociopathic tendencies, no empathy and a complete lack of morals.

But yeah if that doesnt work out the kittys are worth a try.

IIscoopsII · 2024-06-29T14:00:58+00:00

...or just be over 6'1"

GH0STRIDER579 · 2024-06-29T16:18:02+00:00

I'm in Armenia right now and holy shit there are so many stray cats all over Yerevan. I really badly want to take one home, but my parents have allergies and there's unfortunately no way I can bring one on the plane. They're really nice to pet though.

NewOCLibraryReddit · 2024-06-29T16:24:57+00:00

Yes, men. Put down your goals of changing the world, forget about that new application you are working on, forget about building houses, etc. and go rescue cats. /s

Guys, don't take advice from fish on how to drive a fishing boat.

krayon_kylie · 2024-06-29T14:06:49+00:00

absolute fact

bluehorserunning · 2024-06-29T19:01:53+00:00

This is true.

One of the things that made me want a first date with my now-husband was a profile picture of him with his cat.

CMV: Every single man can immediately significantly increase his desirability to women by rescuing cats and kittens.

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