Daily Community Chat Megathread

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-26T16:34:08+00:00

Hot take:

Men get very high n counts from punching down

Women get very high n counts from punching up

throwinout · 2022-05-26T22:31:21+00:00

Girls at the gym now predominantly wearing those shorts that go in between their buttcheeks so you can see the entirety of their posterior. I have seen no less than 3 girls digging in their butts and near their underbun due to these shorts this hour. Im so glad they dress so comfortably. I wonder why women have such a hard time admitting that they dress slutty even if it is uncomfortable in the gym for attention. In think it is because they hate admitting men are right about some stuff.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-27T13:01:29+00:00

Woke people, stop trying to make latinx a thing. It will never be a thing. You’re just butchering the Spanish language.

Context: A baseball team made a tweet trying to virtue signal and it didnt work because they called the victims “Latinx”.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-05-27T05:03:46+00:00

Oh wait is Livs back??

Sweet.

Ppdstillmental · 2022-05-27T04:02:19+00:00

How will the coming ban on abortion and contraceptives in conservative states impact the dating market? I think very positively.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-27T03:39:55+00:00

Stacy's Mum really convinced a whole generation older women are the move

scwizard · 2022-05-27T02:44:32+00:00

I sometimes feel like I'm the only person who doesn't give a shit about the Johnny Depp trial.

GridReXX · 2022-05-26T19:18:00+00:00

Wasn't school stricter in the past?

I never understand the "boys aren't allowed to be unruly nowadays!" takes.

Boys used to be beaten into behaving in 1930 lol.

And they did better in school and life because of it.

I'm not advocating for corporal punishment again, but maybe boys actually need more discipline, not less? We can't help that human male psychology seems to only respond to "fear of physical harm" as a means to focus and goal-set.

For much of human history, your beloved Patriarchs funneled boys into military-style academies starting young. I think they knew boys needed to be molded because left to their own devices it wasn't going to end in success.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-05-26T04:54:25+00:00

How delusional do you have to be to think that a woman past the age of 29 is not good enough for you because you deserve women in their prime years when you can barely attract any women to begin with

Slipthe · 2022-05-26T17:06:21+00:00

Yo the fact that new born horses pop out of their mom and then just stand up and start walking is mind blowing.

Human babies are losers lmao.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-26T18:27:51+00:00

Seriously, I hate when non-Americans talk shit about the USA but they talk like the average Tiktoker.
“America is a third country because they have crime!”
“You stupid Americans don’t even have gun control!”

huhwhatokok · 2022-05-26T04:39:22+00:00

Ngl I’ve become pretty numb to a lot of things in the dating world. Like I never assume I woman is into me, I don’t crush on anyone, and I don’t really think “wow she’s beautiful” just “yea I would smash”.

hightailed · 2022-05-26T16:36:14+00:00

Does everyone here understand that most of RP isn’t speaking in absolutes? Like yes, that one very hot girl from you HS who dated the fat loser exists, but it’s not the norm. Anytime someone has a personal anecdote they feel it disproves everything about RP. There are people who smoke all their lives and don’t get cancer but I’m sure you wouldn’t advocate smoking.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-26T16:41:02+00:00

CMV: The women here come up with unrealistic and petty takes

stats135 · 2022-05-26T05:17:19+00:00

I'm still bothered by the question of where are all the single women are since men make up a greater percentage of dating apps? Have they just decided to not date?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-05-26T12:43:37+00:00

Today's workout

Bench press: 205 lbs 3 sets 6 reps

Incline bench press: 175, 185, 190 lbs 6 reps each

Dumbell bench press: 85, 90 lbs 6 reps each; 95 lbs 5 reps

Triceps pulldown: 100, 105, 105 lbs 6 reps each

Standing calf raise: 315, 325, 330 lbs 6 reps each

Seated calf raise: 315 lbs 6 reps each

Elliptical cardio: 45 mins + 5 min cooldown, incline 13, resistance 10, 4.78 miles, 705 cals, max heart rate 178

Total time: 2 hrs 15 mins

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-26T18:53:47+00:00

I think the biggest misconception guys have about looksmatches is that he deserves his looksmatch just because he is her looksmatch.

You still have to be better than her overall whether it is through personality, money, status etc .

Saying certain guys are struggling because they don’t go for their looksmatch is only half of the story

miyawkt · 2022-05-26T11:23:23+00:00

I noticed that men get so angry at women who like tall and muscular men, but if you like thin prettyboys, they also bitch about it, if muscular men and thin men are both bad to them what are women supposed to find attractive?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-26T15:57:06+00:00

One of my pet peeves when I used to live at home is when I would get ready to go out shopping I would ask everyone who lived there(parents/siblings) yo does anyone want any food? If you pizza or sandwich or anything I got you. They would be like nah(with the exception of my bro usually).

Then when I would come back with my food everyone wanna piece of my shit.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T21:29:39+00:00

Hot take of the day, women don't actually visualize what it will look like when they say they'd rather end up alone.

It's usually just some bravado claim to defend being picky. Almost all that say this don't see themselves alone but things eventually working out, just taking time to find the right Chad.

Most will get smacked in the face when they feel and see what winding up alone looks like at 35.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T21:45:49+00:00

My theory : Some women aren't that much interested in the looks of a man but rather the status it brings. That's why "beckies" lust for chad as bagging him is a reflection of her worth. "Look what I did. I did this. I was able to seduce this handsome man. He chose me"

Same like when older women (mid,late thirties) go for younger men. It's a validation of and proof that they are still able to "do this shit". As in be desirable. Somewhat applies to older men as well.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T22:56:44+00:00

Most women are super fucking vain.

scwizard · 2022-05-26T16:36:18+00:00

Very lucky that I'm not gonna be impacted by the mass layoffs going around.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-26T18:27:11+00:00

When it comes to the topic of guns, I mention how alot of these mass shootings were preventable but the authorities did nothing…. Seems like the most recent US shooting is no exception, unfortunately.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T19:08:56+00:00

Manosphere guys be like

" I only date virgins, I'm not gonna marry you, thank you"

https://img.freepik.com/free-photo/close-up-fat-man-looking-ugly-while-he-drinks-beer\_8353-5509.jpg

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T22:08:53+00:00

hot take : Acting masculine or like a silverback gorilla isn't actually necessary to be attractive.

Being calm, collected, playful and non-reactive is though.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-27T02:10:21+00:00

Q4W Yes or no to getting your head stepped on during doggy style?

meteorness123 · 2022-05-27T02:08:46+00:00

I don't think muscles increase a man's attractiveness nearly as much redpillers like to think. Going from fat to lean, yes. From lean to muscluar, not really. I believe the idea of gaining muscles as a way to increase your attractiveness is so popular because it's in line with men's way of (logical) thinking. Do x to get result y. But it doesn't really work like that.

For health reasons though, it's awesome.

throwinout · 2022-05-26T04:03:30+00:00

Isn't it weird how evolution didn't take care of rape. Like how men ended up being the ones who get erect and penetrate. Imagine the reverse, where sex was where men got penetrated (and the sperm like diffused into the femdick or was sucked into it) or women had to get their penis receptacle erect before sex could take place. It would like eliminate rape and be more concordant with women's supposed role of being the sexual selectors. Even if men were still stronger. I guess stronger men could still force women to penetrate, but if they couldn't get erect because it was rape nothing would happen. At that point, the man would have to arouse the woman. Brute force couldn't necessarily force rape. Yes, I know technically men can get forcibly aroused to force penetration. But I am talking about how women don't necessarily get aroused just by physical stimulation. Like imagine if rape required the mental arousal aspect as well that women claim to need.

chalkandapples · 2022-05-26T07:44:08+00:00

The odds of a Man and a Woman maintaining a close friendship that isn't work related over a long period of time, is very low. Usually friends will plant seeds in their minds and it'll grow in one person's and all the interactions that were friendly before now becomes flirting in their head. Either that or they begin to distance themselves once they get into a relationship.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-26T09:15:43+00:00

I've been seeing less resistance to the whole I gotta DNA test my kids thing when I frame it as my own pregnancy. I talk about all the bonding and forming that a mother gets to do with her kid, she literally grows it inside of her.

That creates an unshakable bond. I have none of that.

A DNA test that says 99.999999999% you are the father is my way of simulating that creating that bond to my son/daughter.

Paint it as you gain a fully committed parent/partner.

Human beings don't like things where there's nothing to gain and everything to lose, so just point out that she's gaining security and trust from it.

You want these kinda reflexes from me you're more likely to get them with 100% certainty vs 98%.

TheJim66 · 2022-05-26T12:04:43+00:00

What happened to the discord?

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T13:36:23+00:00

Unpopular opinion: Some people have good reason to be on the Bpill. (Let's hope mods don't ban this)

I mean, what would you say to a 5ft4 guy with autism and a speaky voice? I knew a woman who told this guy to be like ''Prince'' in order to get women. But you don't have to be cool or interesting to be in relationships. You just have to be average. The problem is that some of these men are running significantly below the average. What are they do? I get why would you be angry and resentful if you happen to be in a situation like that.

I'd love to hear thoughts. We need honest conversations.

80_20 · 2022-05-26T13:58:41+00:00

How to tell if you are looksmatched with your so.

You are thought to be brother and sister.

IveGotIssues9918 · 2022-05-26T15:07:09+00:00

So I know I definitely shouldn't be using this as a support subreddit, but rather than asking for advice or pity, this is more of a message to other late-in-life virgins that it isn't the scarlet letter you think it is:

Yesterday was the birthday of one of the guys in my social anxiety meetup group, and on our birthdays we always get together over Zoom to watch movies and play party games. One of the games is this rap battle thing with robots (I think it's called Mad Verse City), where each player writes a partially autogenerated rap (the game asks for a fill-in-the-blank word, writes a line with that word, and then you write a line that rhymes with that word) and then the players' robot avatars 1 vs. 1 each other.

Anyway, in the first round, the game asked me for a positive adjective. I put "sexy", and the game wrote the line "My breath's so foul but my flow is so sexy". To rhyme with that, I wrote, "And once guys get a taste of this pie they never next me."

My low self-esteem was cringing as I wrote it, and for the entire round I was nervous- like, actually nervous- for my avatar's turn. I was sure that someone was going to say "lol aren't you a virgin and a loner? what are these lies?" Let me remind you: this is a fucking party game. The raps are not meant to be taken personally or seriously at all. (Sometimes context makes it funnier, like the guy who wrote an "I fucked your mom" line and turned out to be versing his brother, but most people aren't thinking about the lines that deeply because most of the time people just write random nonsense anyway.) Not only that, but these people don't even know that about me in the first place- it's a social anxiety group, but it's mostly awkward extroverts, and they're almost certainly not all virgins (two of them are dating, and I'm the youngest one by a few years so it would be odd to have such a high concentration of 25+ yo virgins in one place).

Anyway, I won the round, no one said shit, and I had been nervous over literally nothing, and that was when I remembered why I'm in therapy. Anxiety's a bitch yo.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-26T15:29:35+00:00

I knew a very short nerdy Asian guy who dated a cute skinny black chick is that anti red pill or does it not count since it wasn’t a white lady?

The rules say we are allowed to discuss race in the context of relationships so this is fine to talk about correct?

FizzleMateriel · 2022-05-26T15:39:34+00:00

I don’t see this story ending well.

Thoughts?

Traditional_Drive722 · 2022-05-26T19:43:35+00:00

yoo. Time to finally experience my 20's. Might be going to a bar tonight for the first time in my life 🤣🤣

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-26T20:56:03+00:00

I just about something, if women are emotional people and respond to emotional stimulation then how come they use so much logic when looking for a partner?

“He needs to make as much as me or more cause I’m not trying to downgrade my lifestyle and he needs to be able to hold us up if I get pregnant “

“He has to be of similar background/values/interests so we can be compatible “

This is ALL LOGICAL REASONING. Where is the emotional component at ?

If anything men might be more emotional

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T21:00:17+00:00

Call me superficial but I'm really not attracted to super thin women that are build like a stick. I need a little junk in the trunk. I just do.

Maybe this desire will go away in my thirties or forties ?

Habil13 · 2022-05-26T22:37:14+00:00

Reddit has genuinely destroyed itself as a website. Sad state of affairs.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-26T22:46:08+00:00

My boy really couldn’t get his looksmatch

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T23:03:41+00:00

How much of a pathetic are loser are you if you start university at 32 while others are dropping kids right and left ?

asking for a friend

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-05-26T05:17:52+00:00

I feel ever since I started meditating a couple of years ago I can probably count on one hand the amount of times I've been angry. I've started associating anger with weakness because of it, I see someone getting angry and I'll assume they're weak minded, can't control themselves, sometimes even pathetic, all because I'm zen enough to control all of my emotions and not let them get the better of me.

I get frustrated sure, but I'll never let anyone outwardly see that, I'll always make sure I portray myself as calm and collected, makes me look good and like the rational one in most situations. I've had people tell me they can't understand how calm and relaxed I am 99% of the time.

I no longer see any reason to be angry, it doesn't solve anything.

FilmStew · 2022-05-26T05:28:58+00:00

So my friend is a total misandrist. She'll literally say "ew" when we're out together and see a guy just existing (obv not within ear range, she had at least that decency). She also wants me to break up with my bf for no apparent reason.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-26T06:10:53+00:00

There was this post Instagram where a woman said “I don’t want to be the first bad bitch you have ever dated. You can usually tell”

I thought that was funny and there’s elements of truth to it

Lysa_Bell · 2022-05-26T09:20:10+00:00

There is this comedy book called "qualityland" which is about a almost apocalyptic future scenario where people get ranks from 0-100 based on their job, social status, money, looks etc. Then you get suggested a partner based on your rank. The protagonist gets dumped by his gf when he drops a couple of points. The story then goes on about how he gets delivered a dildo because an algorithm decided he wants that but he refuses it and tries to give it back.

It's a hilarious book and at the same time very believable and disturbing. I think there is a TV show made out of it.

I wonder if that is actually going to be our future and how other works of fiction describe future dating.

ThisBoringLife · 2022-05-26T10:11:10+00:00

A co-worker a while back mentioned this to me:

"Women are gatekeepers of sex. Men are gatekeepers of relationships."

Of course, I'm biased as hell due to my own dating experiences, but I am curious. What do you think of the quote?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-26T10:21:29+00:00

Q4Men Have you ever rejected a Woman? Either she wanted sex or wanted a relationship

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-26T11:03:54+00:00

Am I being dumb here guys? u/Fine_Ad5151 thinks I'm being dumb but I don't see how.

Pls explain oh great council.

doshkhaleesi · 2022-05-26T11:17:01+00:00

Bunny ears update: he was still around as of 9 pm Pacific time last night. I heard briefly from him; his wording has a sliver less finality in it but I’m not sure. He wrote a little to one or two others last night. We will see.

Edit: he’s still alive right now.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-26T11:53:22+00:00

I kinda wanna try martial arts for like health, physically and mentally, but I feel like it’s weird to start as an adult? Most people start as children right?

ThisBoringLife · 2022-05-26T12:39:30+00:00

man, it's really the little things that make leaving a place sad. Yesterday was my last day at my favorite gym...

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T14:17:47+00:00

The Western Cape of South Africa has serene, otherworldly beauty. Too bad the country is a basketcase. I still want to visit regardless.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-05-26T14:56:15+00:00

Sick AGAIN dammit. The second time in two months, no less

The thing that sucks most about being sick is that it takes away all my copes and distractions that make life worth living

Even laying in bed isn't all that fun when you've got a gnarly sinus headache or having coughing fits every few minutes

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T14:58:38+00:00

Do you guys know anybody is a true loser? As in low income, does nothing all day etc

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-26T16:59:34+00:00

The dudes who claim they get no matches online are lying like a motherfucker. At the very least you’ll get 10 bots and 10 transgender matches

River_Archer_32 · 2022-05-26T17:11:59+00:00

I'm pretty good looking but insecure about the fact that I can't get a close shave. I always have a minor shadow. How much of a negative is this?

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-05-26T17:50:23+00:00

Day 42 of music sharing. Luc Arbogast - Ad Mortem Festinamus

Ppdstillmental · 2022-05-26T18:33:03+00:00

I got my first Reddit cares…..After 5 years and 6 user names, I’ve finally arrived 🥰

smegma_enthusiast · 2022-05-26T19:56:42+00:00

Lmao me and my coworker made a bet and are both taking the full SAT tomorrow to see who scores better

Totally pointless and a waste of time but we are petty

Edit: yes he is a man

Traditional_Drive722 · 2022-05-26T20:12:43+00:00

It’s pretty appalling how little care people have for the time of others. Just a little courtesy is all I’m asking for here.

Aviadcool111 · 2022-05-26T21:30:20+00:00

What is everyone's favorite breakfast/first meal of the day to make? Mine is oatmeal with butter, honey, and lemon fish oil.

scwizard · 2022-05-26T22:48:17+00:00

I've seen some really sexy black dresses out here but I don't get the black part of them.

It's way too darn hot to be wearing black. Why not try the same dress in a lighter color.

scwizard · 2022-05-26T23:03:19+00:00

Q4M: if you had to pick one would you pick:

Girl in a black dress
Girl in a white dress
Girl in a pink dress
Girl in a red dress

crimson_juniper · 2022-05-27T01:48:33+00:00

/u/purplish_possum

Just how bad are Amber Heards lawyers?

They seem REALLY bad from the laymans perspective.

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2022-05-27T01:35:46+00:00

I’ve been joking about emigrating to Asia for years, but it’s feeling less and less like a joke these days. I feel like none of my friends would take me seriously if I was actually ready to go 🙃

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-05-27T01:30:19+00:00

UK girls best friend from the US who is also in her exchange program is defo confused, shitty, and needs therapy.

So around the time UK girl and I met, or a few weeks before, UKgirl2 who we'll call Lana met a boy on hinge. We'll call him Alan. They went on a date and liked eachother and started doing things together. Lana just like UK girl is leaving in September so serious dating is out of the question. But Lana began to fall for Alan and become scared of that. So she decided she wanted to stay single and enjoy her hot girl summer. Alan is good looking but Lana is knockout gorgeous, for reference.

UKgirl and Lana and I go to a sporting event and Lana is talking about how she wants to be single but also wants to keep seeing Alan. Apparently she isn't going to tell him she's seeing other people. I told her she should as did UKGirl but she's not.

Then UKgirl and Lana met at work one day and talked about it more, and UKgirl said Lana would be upset if Alan saw other people.

So in summary, she wants like a one sided open relationship, but refuses to be honest about it. The worst part is that she canceled plans on Alan to go on a hinge date (not that it matters but she's bi and it was a girl) yesterday and said she was going to drinks with a friend... and Alan offered to drive her to her "drinks with a friend" 😬😭😭😭😭

I'm trying to figure out how to drop a hint to Alan if I see him again without being obvious

dotnetguy32 · 2022-05-27T01:26:12+00:00

I, for one, am THRILLED that we are finally achieving equality!

Men have never had a "get out of parenthood free" card. Now women are losing theirs!

Equality rocks!!

When you're used to privilege, equality feels like oppression. Funny how many women are screaming oppression about this, isn't it?

scwizard · 2022-05-27T01:15:28+00:00

https://i.imgur.com/Wy55KJL.jpg

Damn do you think it's true?

Maybe it's just all downhill since the 90s.

sleuthoftrades2 · 2022-05-27T01:15:06+00:00

Welp, it is the end of the year and the culling of the class has happened. I heard we lost something like 10% of the class (above average compared to pre-Covid), some will be allowed to redo the year. Anyway the reason I am bringing this up is that one of the girls I know was already redoing her year and just found out she failed again. She seems really sad, and for good reason - imagine not only losing your dream of being a doc, but losing two years of working and also having 2 years of debt you will have to pay back with a normal job. The morbid part of me thought, dang she'll probably be easy for a while and a lot of dudes will get laid just cuz she feels so bad about herself and she'll use sex to make herself feel better. She's probably not the only one. I remember that being a thing in undergrad when orgo exam grades used to come out. Something I need to keep in mind for next year.

purplish_possum · 2022-05-27T01:13:51+00:00

Pulled into a parking lot just as three 400 pound women were squeezing themselves into a BMW X1. It was interesting.

Funny_Bedroom_3661 · 2022-05-27T01:11:48+00:00

So when the sexbots finally arrive, are we thinking it’ll be a Westworld resort/hotel scenario or more like buying a high tech blow up doll? Or something else entirely

scwizard · 2022-05-27T01:07:18+00:00

I grew up in the US and moved to Norway at 21. It opened my eyes to how balanced life could be, and what a society is like when equality is taken seriously.

One of the first things that struck me was no ogling.. I could walk around without unwanted stares or comments that used to happen to me daily in America. Men are much more professional at work, I am no longer constantly questioning their motives.

University here is free, and there are a better mix of women in STEM fields compared to many other countries. For example, there are more female physicians in Norway than male physicians.

Lol the comments section are like "you bitch I'm too poor to do this."

Although idk why girls like figuring are still in the us, and Texas at that.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-27T01:05:41+00:00

I was accused of being “hypergamous” because I only like thick big booty cuties despite being short and bald. Am I?

scwizard · 2022-05-27T01:04:06+00:00

Lol my friends are married but like separate all the time and fuck other people (ask me how I know) and yet when it’s their anniversary they still use their original wedding date and are like “happy 10th wedding anniversary sweetie” even tho they’ve been seperated and living separate, dating other people exc, at least 3 years of that. It’s so strange

meteorness123 · 2022-05-27T01:00:35+00:00

would ed sheeran be a betabux according to trp ? What about kanye west

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-05-27T00:53:34+00:00

Yayyyyy my best mba friend got a job!!!! Time to celebrate and get plastered even tho I have a 9am class

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-27T00:51:09+00:00

If some people are 7/8/9s, some people have to be the 1/2/3s. Who fits in the latter? Who are the truly hopeless cases? Show pictures if you can because we need to establish a baseline.

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MrMushySauce · 2022-05-26T05:31:24+00:00

@menofppd if you could have sex with 20,000 women like wilt chamberlain did who would they be list them all

@womenofppd i dont wanna leave you out so you get a question too. if you had to fuck me in an orgy with 10 other PPD girls who would they all be tag them all

januaryphilosopher · 2022-05-26T08:16:05+00:00

Online dating is going to become the defacto standard for developing relationships in the future regardless of what people think.

Technology has essentially broken down the need for in person interaction and it will continue to accelerate as time goes by.

Women are going to need to 1. Use it more often, 2. Adjust their swipe standards to reflect a more realistic matching.

AvoidPinkHairHippos · 2022-05-26T10:00:05+00:00

Looking for a subreddit that is like this one, except less focused on sex and relationships, and much more on general gender and sexual issues from a sociological perspective. Some examples

career issues within the sociology of gender
health issues within sociology of gender
body autonomy issues for both genders
and especially, debate over the parameters of gender equality and double standards

This sub should be dominated by neither feminist nor masculinists, but somewhere neutral. However, I do wish to engage with feminists without threat of the usual censorship that you see in most gender subreddits (I'm not referring to this one)

Any rec?

smarmycheesesandwich · 2022-05-26T10:39:45+00:00

People say social circles and friends are a good opportunity to meet people to date but I beg to differ: I feel like I didn’t get anything but shit from my friends whenever I tried to connect with people.

Whereas when I finally broke off, starting using apps and rolling solo, I had success. College especially.

Without the shackles of a bunch of socially awkward doofuses, I actually got somewhere. If your friends are weird and awkward, they will do you more harm than good in a lot of cases. Anyone else have an experience like this?

lulll · 2022-05-26T14:14:03+00:00

awww poor eowyn

AquaChip · 2022-05-26T14:44:58+00:00

What kind of music do y’all like? (Be specific)

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T14:47:57+00:00

https://www.google.com/search?q=great+ocean+road+australia&tbm=isch&ved=2ahUKEwjQzq38r_33AhWWs3IEHbCYAIMQ2-cCegQIABAA&oq=great+&gs_lcp=CgNpbWcQARgAMgQIIxAnMgQIABBDMgQIABBDMgcIABCxAxBDMggIABCABBCxAzIICAAQgAQQsQMyBwgAELEDEEMyBAgAEEMyBwgAELEDEEMyBAgAEEM6BQgAEIAEOggIABCxAxCDAToKCAAQsQMQgwEQQ1C-D1jzFWDbHWgAcAB4AIABSogBxAOSAQE3mAEAoAEBqgELZ3dzLXdpei1pbWfAAQE&sclient=img&ei=do6PYtC7DZbnytMPsLGCmAg&bih=1062&biw=2240&client=firefox-b-1-d

Australia is so gorgeous. I really want to visit one day. I think I will.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-05-26T14:47:58+00:00

Would you consider a collection of 4TBs of porn "addiction"

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T15:15:47+00:00

https://www.alamy.com/jennifer-aniston-winner-favorite-female-movie-star-9-january-2007-los-angeles-california-the-33rd-annual-peoples-choice-awards-press-room-photo-credit-giulio-marcocchisipa-press-copyright-2007-by-giulio-marcocchipeople-press-gm0410701100714-image413560008.html

Simp alert incoming. Man, I don't know how any man (or woman for that matter) doesn't find her beautiful.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T15:20:00+00:00

Anybody noticed how validation doesn't really lead to contentment ? You walk into a room and realize "Jesus, I'm better looking than all of these motherfuckers". Short moment of hubris that feels good in the moment but wears off faster than a Fast and the furious movie because you realize your well-being wasn't really increased. You didn't earn more money. You didn't get better job opportunities. There was no benefit to anybody. You just looked better.

FizzleMateriel · 2022-05-26T15:37:32+00:00

I don't understand people having friends or doing things together unless it's a particular interest you work on cooperatively.

Same with the social circles thing, I truly don't understand people.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T16:04:46+00:00

So here's a question for you guys

A) Would you rather be good-looking but almost no sex until 30-35 but still carry the societal benefits of looks before and after.

Or

B) Average looks and constantly having sex from the time you're a youngster

And the same question with A) and below average but constantly having sex from when you were young.

Let's hear why you chose your pick.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-05-26T16:28:05+00:00

Women I find attractive, Day 3: This girl I found on Youtube

Today's is someone not famous, you're welcome u/SKY_ACTIV3

Traditional_Drive722 · 2022-05-26T17:16:21+00:00

You know as much as I don’t agree with a lot of the men on here I do think it’s fair to ask weight on dating apps if they ask height.

It would probably end up being the same as height is , most people lie just enough to make it believable and not jarring and in the end it doesn’t really matter if you click

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-26T17:26:30+00:00

This the only way I’m getting married

Ainsleygz · 2022-05-26T17:29:31+00:00

Does anyone remember Keys to the VIP? Bring back cheesy PUAs loool

MrMushySauce · 2022-05-26T18:02:40+00:00

OLD tip of the day:

I've been doing this on Hinge but you can probably do it other places too. You'd get best results if you were in an area exactly the size of mine but you could do this to some degree anywhere.

Spend whatever the minimum is to get unlimited swipes for a limited time. Use this to swipe to the end of the pile. Never spend money again once you do this you don't need it. Now, every morning when you wake up, check who's "popped up" and swipe on all the brand new accounts from girls who've yet to be inundated by the legions of thirsty dudes that await them! Congratulations, you officially have first dibs.

MalePsychopath · 2022-05-26T18:25:23+00:00

NSFW-Q4M: Pink pussy or brown pussy?

River_Archer_32 · 2022-05-26T18:36:55+00:00

Lexington style BBQ is the best BBQ style.

annabeelongx · 2022-05-26T19:09:07+00:00

Ever look at old helpless people getting their diapers changed in the nursing home and think how that’ll be you one day?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-26T19:10:44+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/6fcfNps

Found some old pics from a few years ago at my fattest. Curious, would you say it’s too fat or was it fine?

baresquad · 2022-05-26T20:08:59+00:00

The thread asking women about tattoos is hilarious.

cuckedalt · 2022-05-26T20:19:01+00:00

Another reddit cares referral

Slipthe · 2022-05-26T20:28:39+00:00

I'm bout to impulsively get laser hair removal lmao.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T20:56:01+00:00

It's amazing to me how some of my friends don't give a shit about their appearance. One friend just doesn't care about balding. He doesn't care about being physically attracted to his girl (Or I guess he settled). But he seems fine with it. I admire that.

Meanwhile I worry about my hairline and dropping out of chad territory. And I do care a lot about having a partner that I find attractive. I couldn't imagine kissing someone I don't find cute.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T21:17:06+00:00

If y'all can live anywhere, where would it be and why?

Although I don't mind where I currently live, I would live in Missoula, Idaho, Rapid City, Colorado, and coastal California.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T21:36:16+00:00

https://imgur.com/gallery/rmBoZPi

Rank this woman from 1-10? (Don't respond if don't like it)

biggestuzifanea · 2022-05-26T21:36:40+00:00

Do you think the lesbian master doc changing sexuality is a real thing?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-26T22:00:27+00:00

Not sure if we are allowed to share porn here so look up Superbootynikki. Would you say she’s fat or even obese? I personally wouldn’t have a problem with her body type

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T22:17:13+00:00

I love Pavement.

thegamescentrifugal · 2022-05-26T22:20:07+00:00

Q4W: Do you find a male gymnast’s physique to be more attractive than a swimmer’s ?

hightailed · 2022-05-26T22:31:13+00:00

She ghosted/flaked fellas. Went to the gym, but what else do y’all do when women flake?

scwizard · 2022-05-26T22:41:03+00:00

Group of like 16 year old kids hanging by a thrift store and the girls think a miniskirt and bikini top is a normal thing people wear.

Umm no it isn't y'all look weird and immature.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T22:42:40+00:00

If 5ft3 to 5ft66s Asian/white guys walked at 13 percent body fat, had intellectual interests, and had jawline implants, how much would their success improve relative to the average guy? Let's say every *you know the word* was like this? Do you think they remain *the word*?

meteorness123 · 2022-05-26T22:54:50+00:00

AOE here rub their balls and then smell their finger ? I know others do it but I wonder why this seems to be a well-established practice.

Ppdstillmental · 2022-05-27T00:48:09+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if people realize that everyone can read their post history.

scwizard · 2022-05-27T00:39:02+00:00

FDS is back lol.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-27T00:28:57+00:00

Libertarians are just edgy conservatives

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-27T00:28:39+00:00

Can I get a hair transplant for some right temporal balding?

thegamescentrifugal · 2022-05-27T00:28:32+00:00

Q4W: If a guy checked every box for you but would only do a courthouse marriage, no wedding party/celebration, would it be a dealbreaker?

throwaway213091345 · 2022-05-27T00:16:47+00:00

Does anyone remember that one dude who posted an older, overweight Latina or Indian woman like 10x over? Pretty sure that's /u/SantarpiosPizza. He blocked me when I asked him if that was him.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-27T00:07:22+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/kassydillon/

Rank this woman from 1-10

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-26T23:54:29+00:00

Men, would you rather have sex with Gisele Bundchen or some 21 year old college brunette hottie with a slim figure and nice ass?

tired_hillbilly · 2022-05-26T23:44:08+00:00

I'm drunk rn, ama

luliloo · 2022-05-26T23:43:43+00:00

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SKY_ACTIV3 · 2022-05-26T23:34:47+00:00

Q4M

Do butts and thighs that are pure muscle (aka, if the girl didn't go to the gym, she wouldn't have any thickness there) have a different appeal from naturally large butt and thighs (girl has them without working out)?

If so, which one do you prefer or both equally as good?

Or... do you prefer the girl that is naturally large there AND works out a lot at the gym?

Barneysparky · 2022-05-26T23:30:10+00:00

I just got completely creeped out for the first time on Reddit. Not the first time following pills, but its been at least a decade since I thought "find him and lock him up".

baresquad · 2022-05-26T23:27:07+00:00

I’ve learned that people overthink casual sex way too much.

lulll · 2022-05-26T23:12:23+00:00

when you realize you are not flamingcoochies

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-26T23:11:57+00:00

NSFW Porn Warning

https://xhamster.com/videos/superbootynikki-aka-bossbootynikki-6154058

Is she too fat/obese or fine? I think she’s hot

doshkhaleesi · 2022-05-26T04:01:58+00:00

Hodor

FilmStew · 2022-05-26T05:53:38+00:00

not me making tik toks I'm never gonna actually post cuz it makes me feel pretty 🙈🙈🙈

AquaChip · 2022-05-26T17:10:51+00:00

A big focus of a lot of songs for most modern females singers is literally just complaining about Chad. Whether it's treating them bad or leaving them and it's absolutely obsurd.

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