Daily Community Chat Megathread

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-01-03T06:00:50+00:00

Why do men on here have such a problem with being called an incels when 90% of post here are about how hard it is to get some pussy

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-01-03T13:00:32+00:00

It's funny watching RedPillers try to act normal and reasonable after spewing the most unhinged bullshit throughout the purge 😅

EulenWatcher · 2023-01-03T18:06:52+00:00

So the purge is over, but we’re stuck with more incels here. Great way to start 2023 (it is not).

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-03T13:09:08+00:00

I think this sub over exaggerates how transactional relationships are.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-03T02:27:01+00:00

I saw the typical cope of "men get better with age". The average height of an american male is 5'9. In their 20s the average man weighs 188lbs. In their 30s the average man weighs 208lbs. A 20lb gain.

Let's just keep it a buck, men just get fat as fuck when they get older. They are fatter, have less hair on their head, more wrinkles. They literally only have more money that is it.

Can we as men just stop the bullshit? Thank you for your time.

https://www.verywellfit.com/average-weight-for-a-man-statistics-2632139

bossman146 · 2023-01-03T02:47:58+00:00

IPAs suck

Katatonicsnake · 2023-01-03T15:54:58+00:00

My dad and his friend changed a bulb for my car’s headlight. The friend in question was a regular retired blue collar dude, didn’t talk much. On our way back, dad told me that his friend had originally started renting the garage to fix an old car for his wife. He had gotten the car ready, but then his wife caught cancer. Now the car in question is parked at the back of the garage, hidden under a big patchwork quilt his wife made for it, because he can’t look at it nor sell it.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-04T02:33:27+00:00

So I thought the purge would last a whole week and I had a bunch of video edit ideas earmarked that I was planning on doing. Oh well.

I was close to finishing this matilda edit before the purge ended. The texts were originally supposed to be purge topics like race pill and fembots but I switched it to regular ppd topics. Hope yall enjoy:

https://www.kapwing.com/videos/63b4e2ed6b9f33001e7e02ba

Slipthe · 2023-01-03T02:30:40+00:00

Lmao my 10 year old niece got a phone for the first time and she's just texting me at 9 pm going like

"Hi. Look at this hive on my face."

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2023-01-03T02:59:42+00:00

someone should make a subreddit named PPD purge which is basically PPD purge content 24/7 all year round

PatrickAizen · 2023-01-03T03:00:04+00:00

Women get pleasure and satisfaction out of pleasing their Men, let me tell you guys that

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-01-03T03:03:38+00:00

The ideal partner does not exist.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-01-03T03:26:27+00:00

pre-selection say what? 😂😂😂

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-03T04:34:22+00:00

Why are women so obsessed with therapy?

tired_hillbilly · 2023-01-03T04:44:29+00:00

Anybody watch the Bills game? Pretty fucked up.

_chasing_daylight · 2023-01-03T06:47:35+00:00

The purge may have ended for some, might just be beginning for me. 😈

Sofia_sticated91 · 2023-01-03T13:57:11+00:00

Regarding the "calling husband stable" issue, I believe that the great compliment a man can get is a woman "thinking with her pussy". Conversely, women view a man loving her for her personality, her qualities and not sex, essentially the opposite of "thinking with his dick" as a compliment

This is why I believe that being called stable is not a compliment.

All of my teens and early twenties were spent wanting that kind of attention and all my efforts went towards securing that kind of attention. It's one of those things that never disappoints.

VampireChaser · 2023-01-03T14:08:55+00:00

God I just love tradcon women so much.

technical_brownie · 2023-01-03T14:28:07+00:00

I am genuinely interested, don’t be modest please. Is there a man in this sub that is successful with women?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-01-03T15:45:03+00:00

Happy new year peoples!

I did it. I didn't even have to pay for it. I did what I think was statistically most improbable ! !! I was happy for all of 5 mins until I went into the bathroom to freshen up, then I felt bad and demoralized.

What helped pass the time after was watching White Lotus season 2. Has anyone else seen it? I can't believe how awesome redpill concepts and reality were integrated perfectly into a fun and intriguing show!! It is fucking A+, strong recommend for all here.

For those who have seen it, in terms of any pill, what do you guys think? There was one aspect that I was left dissatisfied with.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-03T17:03:49+00:00

Married women really brag about how much sex they don't have with their husband

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-01-03T18:22:54+00:00

About the whole desire to establish and change social norms...

Back in the middle ages you could set up whatever norms you fucking wanted, and you could just say "God said so".

Population was composed mostly of uneducated peasants so you could manipulate the fuck out of them.

Today you can't just cherrypick whatever the fuck suits you and make people follow it, because... fuck you.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-01-03T19:03:35+00:00

How do you like my new idea for a light novel.

Scientist builds a time machine, and decides that travelling back into time to record Jesus teachings would be the best way to present his invention to the world.

He travels back into time and finds out that Jesus actually created a sex cult...

All that preaching about love... he was thinking about that kind of "love".

meteorness123 · 2023-01-04T02:31:02+00:00

https://img.ltwebstatic.com/images3\_pi/2021/07/01/16251061558ba1d3f75b2a0c6e6b364001e5e24b11\_thumbnail\_600x.webp

these kind of ripped jeans = certified sl00t.

Dolphin_Moon · 2023-01-04T02:21:18+00:00

Its been 3 years

I finally got covid

Im fucking delirious rn

Thotlesswhisper · 2023-01-04T02:15:30+00:00

If you believe yourself capable of unconditional love for anybody, you’re a whole idiot

Willow-girl · 2023-01-03T02:18:52+00:00

Political correctness run amok? I just posted in /r/houseplants posing a question about repotting a plant at work. I made reference to another species common known as "wandering jew" -- honestly, that's all I've ever heard it called -- and had my post promptly deleted as a result. The automod suggests using an alternative term such as "wandering dude"! That struck me as funny for some reason.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-03T02:49:53+00:00

My wife described me cooking today as an "emotional rollercoaster".

She said I was yelling for utensils, getting excited when something tasted good, mad when I run out of stuff, and making weird noises when something is too spicy.

Preme2 · 2023-01-03T03:34:49+00:00

I saw a video of Lebron’s wife displeased that he was playing video games. You can be the best NBA player in history. A billionaire and women will still find something to complain about.

scwizard · 2023-01-03T06:10:35+00:00

I would recommend dating a nice guy who “gives you the ick” and stay with him past that initial “ick”. I had to get used to this great feeling of “let down” when I first started dating my husband.

I later realize that the “let down” was the absence of the dopamine rush of unstable men. I now can’t FATHOM dating a guy that had those traits. My husband and I are deliriously happy and stable and he’s grown into an amazing man and father.

If you want to be with a good guy, you’re going to have to make yourself uncomfortable in a way that defies your past trauma. You’re going to have to deal with the normalcy and, perhaps boringness of a decent person.

Do you think this is good advice for girls?

Funny-Ant8077 · 2023-01-03T09:25:58+00:00

What I learned during this purge period on ppd is how many people openly admitted to taking the trans pill at some point in life or are willing to take it. Nothing wrong with experimenting but know its not for everyone.

I have a friend who is dating a girl for a while now and its obvious shes been with a lot of guys before. Long story short he finally admitted to having sex with transwomen in the past (maybe a total of 5) and she nearly freaked out and called him all sorts of names.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-01-03T10:26:47+00:00

I think guys fail in “real life” dating, try the internet(dating sites/ Social media) as their last resort, fail there too and then give up. I don’t really agree with this idea that dudes are just skipping IRL altogether, going straight to the internet first, and that’s their problem though. I think it’s a minority of cats who just never hit on girls in school, club, parties and all their efforts have been on let’s say Hinge. My younger cousin(23) says he’s never hit on a girl or asked one out IRL, all his dates/relationships have been from the internet but I think he’s an outlier.

Creation_Soul · 2023-01-03T10:50:51+00:00

Actual champagne is overrated as opposed to buying sparkling wine. I am not saying I didn't feel the difference in taste (the champagne was better), but it was marginal and not worth the extra money (5 times more expensive where I live).

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2023-01-03T11:16:55+00:00

women complain that men just want to fuck them but no one ever mentions how as a guy a similar phenomenon occurs where women just want ur attention.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-03T13:44:12+00:00

in 2023 if she didn't want you at your worst, she doesn't deserve you (for marriage) at your best

Keep stringing them along, my friends

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-03T15:27:24+00:00

This is my bitter women tier list

Most bitter > Divorced single women with kids > Divorced single women > Old single women never married > Young radfems > women who's had boyfriends before but single now > woman with a boyfriend > married women > married women with kids > Least bitter

Thoughts?

Peacesquad · 2023-01-03T16:51:06+00:00

Bruh I just want some püssy. I don’t want to take a chick out on 18 dates and make her feel special when lord knows she’s just like the rest of these chicks

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-03T18:45:24+00:00

I'm still toxic from purge, someone gimme some RadAway

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-03T19:02:39+00:00

No more N Count discussions in 2023, it should be common sense at this point why sexually liberal people don't make good long time partners

stjohnswyrt · 2023-01-04T02:11:25+00:00

men don't like the concept of women being able to clone themselves lol

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-03T04:05:52+00:00

The guy posting about going to the Philippines to manipulate poor women to be with him is 18 and bisexual. This is just ridiculous, as if he can’t just go to a gay hookup spot to have sex

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-01-03T04:16:10+00:00

Question for the ladies: What advice would you give a female friend who was having trouble getting dates with guys she was interested in?

For the sake of this post, let's assume your friend is entirely average; at the 50th percentile for pretty much every benchmark.

6negative4 · 2023-01-03T04:25:10+00:00

Big red flag in a man is if he says he actually likes women. Like can’t you see you just like fuckin em. Come on man.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-03T05:38:29+00:00

I’ve decided to go against the grain and be a black woman that only simps for white men

Preme2 · 2023-01-03T06:23:01+00:00

Entergalatic is a pretty good movie on Netflix. I’m now a man of culture.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-01-03T07:06:23+00:00

The man knows he fucked up getting engaged to a feminist, pray for him

Sofia_sticated91 · 2023-01-03T07:45:47+00:00

Why would a man marry a woman who describes him as stable

AreOut · 2023-01-03T15:43:44+00:00

the amount of girls lately that think I should appreciate the fact that they would leave their boyfriend for me...we really don't understand each other, also why the hell am I doing much better with taken girls than with those single even if I am not trying at all

Peacesquad · 2023-01-03T16:51:14+00:00

But what about N count!!

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-03T17:00:03+00:00

I just gave real heart felt advice on PPD. I don't know who I am anymore.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-03T17:49:46+00:00

In light of recent events,I must remind everyone unless you want to be Eskimo brothers with Fido "dog mom" is a 🚩

lulll · 2023-01-03T18:52:13+00:00

so do you think the male bear who defended the female bear was her simp?

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-03T19:00:51+00:00

Ok the weird emasculating shit my coworker keeps saying to me is slowly getting to me. She makes fun of my color choices (i said i liked the color magenta) for being supposedly girly, she says she doesn't see me as a someone who could fight and stuff like "i need a mans opinion so obviously not you lol"

Just today she said something along the line of: "me and "other coworker" talked about it an we think you're cute" (We don't speak english so the actual word is the german word "niedlich" which technically translates to "cute" but in the same way a baby or a dog is cute).

I know i reacted kinda weak by reacting kinda insulted, but seriously in what world is comparing me to a baby or dog a compliment?

I know i have myself to blame mostly for talking too much and opening up to my "friend" but still, this is just disrespectful to me as a guy.

EDIT: "adorable" is a much better translation for "niedlich" so she said i'm adorable.

VampireChaser · 2023-01-03T19:36:48+00:00

Why are you guys shitting on Jesus so comfortably? Making fun of any religion is disgusting behavior. I guess this is normal on reddit since most of you are atheists.

zastale · 2023-01-04T02:09:08+00:00

Aside from all the obvious reasons to avoid dating apps, this is perhaps the biggest one.

NeoclassicShredBanjo · 2023-01-04T02:02:40+00:00

So older guys, late-20s and beyond, do you really not feel scummy trying to enter relationships with barely legals? Is there good conversation to be had? You know they aren't well mentally if they are dating you in the first place, so is sex all there is to it?

bzl33 · 2023-01-04T01:41:11+00:00

recommend me a tv show to watch that I can talk to women about. comedy, drama, whatever, just no true crime documentaries.

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2023-01-04T01:29:33+00:00

The submissiveness post only shows men pick women who are incompatible with their life. If a women is constantly disagreeing, nitpicking or has deferring beliefs regarding what you want. That indicates incompatibility not submissiveness.

scwizard · 2023-01-03T06:06:09+00:00

I am ashamed that I am so attracted to emotionally unavailable, immature, and hyper-sexual men.

Imagine being aware you're like this and not being able to change.

If they don’t want to date me - they are instantly on a pedestal. If they want to date me - I get the ick. I know that this isn’t a them problem, it’s a me problem. But even after being in therapy for so many years, I can’t shake the attraction, and I’m concerned that I am just stuck like this.

That must suck.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2023-01-03T09:07:52+00:00

A close male friend of mine finally has a girlfriend after 10 years of trying. Our friend group was helping him and giving advice. He ignored some advice like weight lifting (though he occasionally played soccer). But he did take some other advice like stop wearing oversized shirts lol. We even tried to introduce him to our female friends. But nothing worked for a long time.

But then, during June last year, he and his mom opened a bakery shop. A cute girl was one of the first customers who visited the shop. He approached her, had some small talks, and asked for her number. One thing led to another, and they are now official.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-01-03T14:39:15+00:00

Inc3ls - In the past every man was guaranteed a wife!

Our ancestors - *THROWS HIS KID ON THE PYRE* Dear Gods I return this son to you, because he is retarded.

FjbhBoy · 2023-01-03T14:43:18+00:00

The incels who say”Hehe you might have a gf but she’s prob cucking you” are a special kind of dumb

saraimarsena · 2023-01-03T14:51:23+00:00

i know this sub looks down on personal anecdotes but i just don’t care enough to go searching down rabbit hole after rabbit hole for perfectly designed studies to refute points that just don’t play out in real life.

studies have value, but for people to act as if “if it wasn’t google scholar verified it’s not real and it’s useless” makes this sub out to be way more serious than it has to be. i look around, i see what I see. my personal experiences are just as real as anybody else’s

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-01-03T13:05:35+00:00

Watched Glass Onion over the holidays, never have I seen a film go from "I'm loving this" to "this is fucking garbage" so quickly

meteorness123 · 2023-01-04T01:25:52+00:00

Preselection and social proof are massively powerful tools/mechanisms and attraction triggers as well.

haroldshipman_MD · 2023-01-04T00:55:54+00:00

Just clashed with a feminist friend who despises me.

She knows that I believe women behave transactionally in relationships. However, what irritates her is that I simultaneously hold this belief while maintaining a happy monogamous relationship with my fiance.

I unashamedly treat the woman like a goddess on earth, and everyone knows it. But because of my acknowledgement of hypergamy, aforementioned friend believes it is immoral for me not to remain single.

Now, I know a lot of women on here will agree with her. Some men too - many will say "if you know the nature of women, why pursue relationships which will ultimately not be to your benefit?"

The way I explain it is as follows: I have cats, and I love them with every fibre of my being. However, I know that if someone broke into my house with the intent to bludgeon me to death, my cats would abandon me to save their own lives. If I died, they would eat me. I know this, and I love them anyway.

Moreover, my cats aren't going to live forever. I hope for 20-25 years, but even still I know that the day will eventually come when I'm here and they're not. I love them anyway.

It's the same with women. I have the love of a good woman because at the moment I am attractive, successful, and in good physical and mental health. But some day, one or more of those things will fail. Probably physical health.

I am fully aware that my partner will then leave me, and I'll be alone. I know this, and I still continue down this path because my attitude to life is: use the good towels, don't save the fancy candles, eat the last chocolate, go for the upgrade.

I know it's finite, but I wish to enjoy it while I can. Some don't even get that luxury.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-01-04T00:27:23+00:00

I don’t think Redditors autistically commenting “death by snu snu” on every pic of a tall woman is indicative of tall women being fetishized. Not that it doesn’t happen, but I would not take the Morons on this site that seriously.

liefelijk · 2023-01-03T23:52:28+00:00

I just whined at my husband to do a stereotypically masculine task for me and told him I couldn’t do it because I was a stupid woman.

That’s what I’m supposed to do, right? Gender roles, ftw?

Thotlesswhisper · 2023-01-03T23:29:29+00:00

lifting workout of the day - Upper body

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-01-03T02:09:13+00:00

I’ve seen Adults think they can talk to people they knew as kids(who are now adults) any type of way and it’s crazy.

PatrickAizen · 2023-01-03T02:15:12+00:00

The 8-10 in appearance but also Low n-count/Virgin Women who can cook,clean,be submissive and agreeable

Has personalities of being Friendly,Feminine,Kind,Nurturing

Is the Ideal Women who High STATUS Men want to commit to. I will even say she's the Female version of Andrew Tate

Why is she the Ideal Women ? Because no one knows who she is, let me tell you that

empresa_josefina · 2023-01-03T03:41:34+00:00

Megathread auto-sorts by new again…

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-03T03:43:29+00:00

Honestly might go into psychology so I can get paid to listen to people's problems all day.

Do I hate therapists? Yep.

Would I still do it purely for the money? Hell yes.

Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-03T04:16:40+00:00

My gf has the most adorable little nephew. I spent last video chatting with him and my gf’s older sister. He’s four years old but smarter than all of you. I want nothing more than to give him a little cousin to play with.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-01-03T04:17:48+00:00

And question for the guys (thought it'd be better to do this as two posts): What advice would you give a male friend who was having trouble getting dates with girls he was interested in?

For the sake of this post, let's assume your friend is entirely average; at the 50th percentile for pretty much every benchmark.

psych1111111 · 2023-01-03T05:11:34+00:00

All men should be allowed financial abortion paid for by the state

Jewish men are the most attractive

Red pill women want a man with a phd and a lisp

Guys who work with their hands are gay

Dating is all about ethics.

Women never stay loyal to their man

A girlfriend is the same as a wife

Friends are more important than spouses

I know every realtor in Philly

Confession - I'm pretty high and I've looked for atlas's newest handle for days now and I'm tired of trying so this is atlas bait

scwizard · 2023-01-03T06:34:57+00:00

Ultimately, they don’t need sex. They need rehabilitation.

What if you force an incel to go to therapy and it turns out it's not effective at rehabilitating them? Then what?

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-03T07:41:44+00:00

Thoughts on my locationmaxxing?

White guys should not Midwest or Northeast.
Black guys should go to the south (Especially Miami)
Latinos should go to NYC, Cali or Texas and Florida.
East Asians should KPOPmaxx and go to South America or Indonesia

bulbous_24 · 2023-01-03T11:53:25+00:00

I finally found someone whom I’m attracted to who’s attracted back to. I just really want to fuck her. We’ve done it once. I should just have her stay over. Despite this I’m already looking to cheat lol. I guess us men are rarely satisfied.

2023-01-03T14:40:29+00:00

Q4W: why should any man care about your wellbeing when you are not only unconcerned about the wellbeing of men, but actively despise them?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2023-01-03T15:41:19+00:00

the problem with dating women is they say they want a relationship but they actually just want casual sex and u have to pretend flawlessly the whole time that u do in fact want to date them which is kinda too much work for some vagina. dating only works as a guy if ur like not aware or if ur like a perfect actor. rip

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-03T15:54:18+00:00

Acknowledging the beauty of most women makes me wish I was perfect, anyone got any tips for how to become perfect?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-01-03T16:23:05+00:00

CMV: Modern "romantic" movies for women, are not about romance at all. But movies about success, about achieving status, wealth by marrying up... that's why so many women find them to be cringe.

Want a romantic movie... watch "The English Patient".

One thing I do like about woke movies is that they show women achieving success on their own, not by chasing the most popular jock in the school.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-03T16:59:32+00:00

Trying to figure out if I’m on the incel shit list. Not attractive but have no interest in dating average dudes. Not a Chad chaser either.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-03T17:12:55+00:00

Your dad banged your mom (and she liked it)

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-03T17:33:36+00:00

Ok this week the new diet starts for my wife and I. We assess the holiday and vacation damage on Friday (lose travel water weight by then).

We're doing daily weigh ins, with a weekly goal of just 1lb a week (I have it easier as a guy metabolism wise being bigger but eh she didn't complain).

So we start Friday, if next Friday not down 1lb the penalty for both of us is no gaming for three days which is the weekend so yea, (she does a bazillion phone games like words with friends). It could have been no reddit for me too but I love you all too much to not post.

If I fail a second time its is continued gaming free, if she does I have some exhibitionist things shes gotta do but if she recovers the next week it resets to gaming.

We have some bonus in there if you lose more one week you get that difference for the second but its gotta average 1 lb a week, if you are not there on Friday but were over all 1 down for the week that counts too.

So either I'll get that old six pack back or I'll be near gaming free, so win win there. Same applies to her minus the six pack.

For those of you who are American or not used to weight loss in general, once you are past the fat stage, 2lbs a week is about the maximum you should do if you want to try to maintain lean mass (you need to work out too which we are doing). No point in losing a lot of weight if 30% is muscle. I should probably be 1.5 to be fair, but she knows that and didn't object so we're off.

lulll · 2023-01-03T17:50:59+00:00

women hate the things that turn them on

scwizard · 2023-01-03T18:10:57+00:00

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/jan/03/eleanor-williams-lied-grooming-gang-guilty-perverting-justice

Oof... Crazy how much damage false allegations like this can do.

bulbous_24 · 2023-01-03T19:00:59+00:00

You can cheat as long as I don’t find out. Are the women in anyone else’s country like this? This is what a lot of women have said to me. They tell me that o can cheat but I should respect them enough for them not to find out.

purginggastonist · 2023-01-03T19:53:39+00:00

I think purge week might have blackpilled me a little

I have noticed that my misogyny is slowly transitioning from "lol women dumb naked muscular men are better" to something a bit darker

Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-03T19:53:40+00:00

Q4W - which is preferable:

Partner A: Incapable of feeling real love for you, but able to mask it to such an extent that you'll never find out. Basically a high functioning sociopath. But because of his sociopathy, he's great at acting incredibly empathetic, and always knows how to make you feel romanced and supported. However, as stated - he has no genuine emotions. He sees you as his ideal partner, will treat you amazingly, always keeps things romantic, and you will never know otherwise. But inside he is dead.

Partner B: Feels true, genuine love for you, but is an "average" partner in the sense that he's not very romantic. You can't really rely on him for empathy and support. You have to mother him a bit. He can't anticipate your needs very well. Perfume and chocolates for Christmas - every Christmas - kinda guy. Not a terrible partner, but nothing outstanding either. Low-middling emotional intelligence; but his love for you is real and deep.

For the sake of the hypothetical, both men are equal in attractiveness, income, height, wealth, education etc. Both are "good" men and neither will ever hurt or betray you.

Which is your preference? Is the presence of "real" love more important than how you are treated?

zastale · 2023-01-03T23:22:13+00:00

This is a prime example of a woman describing a man she already finds attractive.

Since attractive men are not in abundance and attractive women are, it’s unlikely she will find a man to commit to her that fits that entire description.

Her IG is interesting. Even a 10/10 man wouldn’t have 11k+ followers with such little substance.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-03T22:57:44+00:00

I spam right swap to save time and matched with a girl that was literally a caricature of every far left liberal/feminist thing people meme about. ACAB, check. "I'm fat and perfect", check. "Revolutionist feminist liberal" check.

And this girl was, and I'm not exaggerating, at the bare minimum 400 lbs. It's not a bother to take 2 seconds to unmatch but god damn. Why has society made it acceptable to glorify obesity? Some of these girls would be drop dead gorgeous at normal weight. And i'm far from a fan of police but bro, who the hell do you call when you're in trouble? Another feminist?

lulll · 2023-01-03T22:50:44+00:00

we need this in america asap

2023-01-03T22:48:02+00:00

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zastale · 2023-01-03T22:45:41+00:00

Is anyone even surprised? Can anyone show me the equivalent of this vitriol against women while working for NYT/alike?

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gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-03T22:41:24+00:00

so after lurking the forever alone women subreddit for 20 minutes i've determined being an ugly chick is probably the worse existence you can get, mostly from fucking themselves up.

me, i'll be alone a lot and be fine with it. nut in a towel get some clarity... no gf today whatever no big deal. play some god of war, make some music, and try again tomorrow.

but women who are alone... man they just can't cope with that shit. its their own thinking that their life is meaningless without other humans liking them thats hurting themselves the most

Blame_the_Muse · 2023-01-03T22:21:05+00:00

How many times can you listen to a song before you ruin it for yourself?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2023-01-03T22:11:27+00:00

why are like virtually women irredeemably delusional when it comes to the redpill like i genuinely don't totally understand. like whats the big deal? why do they fight tooth and nail about this topic. like men will fight about it but nothing how much women will deny this stuff.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2023-01-03T22:09:21+00:00

shouldnt feminists be against women dating men much taller than them because of the potential power imbalance?

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-03T21:36:29+00:00

If men don’t want to be accused of fetishising tall women the first step would be to stop commenting disgusting things like “death by snu snu” and “step on me mommy” on every post of a tall woman

Ok-Divide4621 · 2023-01-03T21:26:31+00:00

Is playing hard to get largely a myth or largely something most western women do?

meteorness123 · 2023-01-03T21:14:50+00:00

Im really tired of how poorly "evolution" is used in these manosphere debates to explain relationships.

2023-01-03T21:03:43+00:00

Having the thread not default to new in the days running up to the purge was a psyop.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-03T21:01:36+00:00

the real red pill is the only reason this sub isn't banned or quarantined is because it has women in it

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-01-03T20:58:44+00:00

I think this sub exaggerates how much men and women settle. I think the vast majority of people believe their partner is really “the one” when they get married. Now, that could change as the marriage goes on but I do think at the time that’s what they really believe.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-01-03T20:58:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/101kh2j/boys_be_honest_what_makes_a_girl_instantly/

Even if you sort by controversial, most of the obvious answers you would expect were deleted by the mods.

People are censored from saying the obvious things that most men would care about. I feel like I'm living in a communist world with the propaganda whenever dating is discussed in normie spaces.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-03T20:57:10+00:00

PPD listen to me : Jesus was a simp for a whore literally. What makes you think you are superior to jesus? You should live by his example and wife up every single OF thot.

meteorness123 · 2023-01-03T20:51:07+00:00

self selection bias, assortment effect and projecting run strong on this forum.

Thotlesswhisper · 2023-01-03T20:44:28+00:00

Women need to overall accept that attention from men aka male validation is worth as much as a pile of junk mail. They give it away to anyone and everyone. It comes in waves and is easily lost when a prettier or more interesting woman comes along.

And having a man want to marry you isn’t that much of a win either. They’re either tired of being alone or locking you down bc their glory days are coming to an end..or they believe it’s the right thing to do.

Men, on the other hand know that when a woman chooses them then they must be above the rest. Whether they’re chosen for casual or ltr; they’re still being selected above many others as men here know and regularly discuss how all of us have so many options.

Women can never really feel special the way we make them feel special. Even married women who claim to be happy find themselves guarding their SO throughout their relationship out of fear of their SO straying. We are always replaceable to men and it gets worse as we age.

I find it funny when men moan about being disposable because that context is only applicable within capitalism…and that disposability applies to everyone.

Women are the ones disposable to men and if it weren’t for saving face we would already be conscripted in war.

Thotlesswhisper · 2023-01-03T20:17:14+00:00

Update on the Botox/Filler Chronicle:

Today I went to a consultation in secret. It was difficult to not mention it to my husband, who uh… would strongly prefer, let’s say, that I not put anything in my face. His primary reasoning is that, given our large age gap, he thinks I’m attempting to preserve my youth and looks for my next husband. (He’s not entirely wrong; I do expect to be widowed at some point. I don’t know if I’ll ever get over him, but I definitely would like to have options even into old age if I do decide to remarry.) Secondary reasons include actually wanting me to age because he feels guilty about and judged by others for our age gap. (I didn’t tell him “fuck that,” but that’s basically how I feel about it. I don’t actually think he wants to be married to an older looking woman, given that he married me when I was young, and he still expresses attraction to adult teens and early 20s women. So in my mind, preservation of my youthful looks is a gift to both of us.)

Anyway, my aesthetician is about 4’8 with platform converse on. The combination of the filler in her cheeks, the deeply-tanned tone of her foundation, pinkish-mauve lip gloss, and the thick, rounded, winged liner applied above her evergreen eyes reminded me a lot of a tigress. She basically took one look at me and said I didn’t need any injectables, but that early prevention never hurts. Apparently my tear trough lines are a result of bone structure and not aging. She seemed to understand my desire for the effect to be very conservative, discreet, and natural looking, and recommended one syringe or less of the filler, and a relatively small amount of xeomin. I joked to her that, just to be safe, I should dye my hair the same day I get work done, so my husband focuses on that instead of the change in my face.

It came out to around $1000, and I paid in advance to make my next appointment more time efficient, just in case. The frugal part of me is internally screaming, but I’ve thought about this for many months now, so I’m satisfied it’s not an impulse purchase. It’ll be worth it, I think.

I have one PRP session scheduled at the other medspa that I’ll get done before I schedule the appointment to place the Botox/fillers. Will update here again with results (not that anyone here probably cares, but oh well.)

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-03T20:17:01+00:00

Men, if you want to show your woman who wears the pants: aggressively shush her whenever she talks.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-03T20:05:31+00:00

I drink iced americanos and diet coke all day. Yes I shit like a monster but it's a small price to pay to live a high performance lifestyle.

AquaChip · 2023-01-03T20:01:21+00:00

sigh Might fuck around a restart my hoe phase 🥺

Barneysparky · 2023-01-03T20:00:13+00:00

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-01-03T19:58:14+00:00

The most overrated alcoholic beverage is?

Peacesquad · 2023-01-03T19:56:25+00:00

The level of trigger you can get from just speaking biological facts is insane man😂🤣😂😂

propyl21 · 2023-01-03T02:03:12+00:00

OMG first again!

WTFLOLROFLASAP or something

Am I doing it right?

I should get off the internet... Been here far too often

On a serious note, if there's one thing that the purge has taught me, it's that so many men here need therapy... Discuss

Edit: Spellings

PatrickAizen · 2023-01-03T03:04:54+00:00

Women expect Loyalty from Men they don't respect ENOUGH, keep your heads out of the sand Fellas

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-01-03T05:47:10+00:00

Women be saying they want a real man and then start dating a soccer player

kokokimoo · 2023-01-03T05:56:55+00:00

Q4W

6'4 guy with a small cock, but not a micro or 5'4 guy with a large cock

Everything else is the same.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-01-03T08:19:45+00:00

Mannn…it sucks knowing that there’s available pussy but it’s just not for you.

Like these girls are getting pulled by my dudes and not me…I mean I’m happy for my friends when they get some but I’m definitely jealous too. I will use this as fuel to improve myself

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