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SierraMistSoda · 2023-04-29T20:03:21+00:00

What should I wear on a first date that any guy would love?

4SSh01e · 2023-04-29T14:58:37+00:00

Let me chronicle the changes in me I have witnessed going out to clubs every week for about 18 months.

First 6 months or so, just straight up afraid of talking to women. I would grab a drink or two, occasionally dance or just hang around in morose mood.

Then gradually I started interacting with more and more women, so or the next 9-10 months, I would go out and talk to tons of women, I became really good at it and had a few hookups, some makeouts but it wasn't like I was slaying left and right. I presented as this confident, social, party guy persona. But it was a brutal grind.

Despite talking to 100s of women, I never truly felt a connection with any of them. Then one day I spoke to this one girl and for the first time I felt like I connected with someone. We exchanged numbers and next day I texted her. But just like dozens before her, straight up ghosted! I was easily able to shrug all other off but this one came as a gut punch because I figured that I have finally tried it all, gave it all. Nothing I do actually matters, it is always the girl selecting me and me having to say yes or no to it. Heck, last night I turned a girl down who I am 100% sure was DTF, but I am not attracted to her and we live in the same building.

For the last two months or so I have noticed myself receding into my shell again. I was never really an extrovert, but had good social skills so I forced myself to interact with people as much as possible. But now I have just grown sick and tired of it. All these conversations are so repetitive and meaningless, just a waste of time and energy. I have proved it to myself that I have guts and skills to talk to anyone but I have also found that most people aren't interested in me. So what's the point anymore?

I still go out because in principle I am still open to meeting people but I rarely take any initiative to talk to anyone. I just hang around in a corner on the dance floor by myself, looking down or eyes closed and just focus on tuning to the music and bringing out the sickest dance moves I can muster. And I am having more fun than I have ever had when my head used to be on swivel to look for someone who might be interested.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-28T15:57:48+00:00

Sometimes it helps to think how women do

With orbiters, women will constantly tell ya, dude didn’t try hard enough, never communicated his intentions properly and ultimately it’s his fault he decided to be an orbiter, nobody made him do this and if he had a spine he wouldn’t had let it happen

As a man it helps to apply these same standards to women that think they’ll get commitment out of sex. Tough luck for her, but if she wanted commitment she should’ve made sure of that before sex. That’s on her

It’s an amoral game, you earn no points from moralizing it

odd_cloud · 2023-04-28T16:35:24+00:00

Does anyone else think that ppd is kind of bipolar? One day I open the sub and see posts with debatable but reasonable statistics, some relatable anecdotes, and mostly civil discussions. But the next day there are posts about sex bots on hormonal birth control and everyone just throws shit at each other in comments?

scwizard · 2023-04-28T16:45:52+00:00

The women who have their panties showing on the bus are usually not the women who's panties you wanna see...

ultronic · 2023-04-28T16:54:31+00:00

32m Never had a gf and only been laid 4 times. Just saw a psych and got prescribed SSRIs, hopefully this finally sorts my head out.

1Here4Bach · 2023-04-29T14:55:11+00:00

I think having a wife who doesn’t nag is terrible for a marriage. A moderate amount of nagging is healthy. When a woman shows complete loyalty to a male, she’s completely subservient that signals in his brain that he can literally do anything and she’s going to stay. He can go out and cheat and she’ll pretend that every thing is alright.

Nagging and dreading your husband from time to time keeps his on his toes and on his A game. The myth that doormats have the best and most thoughtful husbands because those type of women are selfless so naturally their husbands are going to reciprocate is a bullshit.

When a male sees a chink in a woman’s armor like unwavering loyalty he will take advantage. Do you know what the majority of males will do if they knew you wouldn’t leave them for cheat? THEY WILL CHEAT.

If a male knows you won’t leave him if he doesn’t take you on dates, Guess what? He’s not going to take you on dates. I’ve met males who had the nerve to say “har har, I didn’t know my wife wanted to go on dates because she didn’t tell me.” This is what we call willful ignorance.

Sure their wife didn’t TELL them she wanted to go on a date but they know through observation that women feel love through acts (like dates). Can you imagine what the reaction would be if a wife never cooked dinner and used the excuse “well he never told me he wanted me to cook dinner.” She would be crucified. So why do males get to make this kind of excuse?

Males constantly need to be reminded and trained (via nagging) on what their role is in a relationship because their natural default state is to use women. If you don’t tell a male what you want and how you need to be treated and what you won’t tolerate, they’re going to naturally default to selfishness.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-04-29T14:41:23+00:00

I hate this idea that all attractive guys are like assholes and becuase they are attractive they go around treating people like shit.

This is a horrible over-generlized take. Do attractive assholes exist, absolutely. Are all attractive guys assholes, not by a mile.

I could only speak from personal expierence. I've known alot of attractive guys that are the coolest dudes, and some of them be down to earth asf

Lovers691 · 2023-04-28T14:54:54+00:00

Just saw the Steven Crowder abuse video, can’t believe I felt bad for him that he was getting a divorce.

baresquad · 2023-04-28T17:00:51+00:00

The misconception that women will always want more than causal is so strange. When 2 people start fucking, realistically intent is communicated extremely early on.

If a man say that he doesn’t want a relationship, women don’t typically take that to mean that she can convince him otherwise through sex and hopes that a relationship eventually happens. She wants sex just as much as he does and is willing to sacrifice the promise of commitment in exchange to fuck him.

Sure they might be sad when the sex eventually ends but if you’ve been regularly having sex with somebody for a few months or longer, emotions are naturally a response to losing such a connection. It doesn’t mean that she was secretly hoping to change his mind, it’s a natural response to losing someone.

There are some women who secretly hope that they can convince commitment through sex but they’re dumb and delusional. They aren’t representative of reality so it’s pointless to always view casual sex through their lens.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-28T17:16:12+00:00

Instead of doing all this revisionist history bullshit, why can’t people just do more fantasy stories based on African culture? Black Panther did well.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-28T19:22:14+00:00

"If she was pressured in having sex"

Listen she's a grown adult with a mind

So connect the dots here

jobbo321 · 2023-04-28T18:21:43+00:00

What do I do if I literally never get "indication of interest", "fuck you eyes", "her staring at you" or whatever you call a woman looking you in the eyes because she considers you attractive?

If I go somewhere no one really bats an eye at me. Even when I try to catch any women staring, nothing.

Early 20s m

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-28T15:06:21+00:00

Most confusing shit in the world is when women say “he just used me for my body” or an adjacent of that.

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-28T15:10:05+00:00

FYI The average person is so fucking ugly, and going to the gym is the bare fucking minimum.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-04-28T16:41:46+00:00

Have a good weekend!

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-04-28T16:56:36+00:00

Dating apps in Ohio are pretty bad. A solid 40% of the college-aged women aren't in college and more than half are overweight. I need to go back to southwest Michigan cus all the Michigan and Chicago girls are on the apps there.

Edit: Or they're Ohio State sluts

dishonouronmycow · 2023-04-28T18:49:06+00:00

Shout out to the Hello Kitty girls

Preme2 · 2023-04-28T19:19:02+00:00

Science

Oral Sex Is a Leading Factor in the Throat Cancer 'Epidemic' in the United States, Doctor Says. For oropharyngeal cancer, the main risk factor is the number of lifetime sexual partners, especially oral sex," Mehanna wrote for The Conversation. "Those with six or more lifetime oral-sex partners are 8.5 times more likely to develop oropharyngeal cancer than those who do not practice oral sex.”

Chad chasing is killing women. Harming them mentally and physically. Will they stop? Unlikely.

meteorness123 · 2023-04-28T20:08:21+00:00

What do you think of this suggestion

Who doesn't like to see their friends fail now and then ?

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DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-28T14:04:10+00:00

"There are plenty of other avenues to improve yourself that are less toxic than taking the Red Pill."

It doesn't really matter how you get there, as long as you get to your goal. If someone makes genuine improvements in their life who cares if they got it from TRP?

hdjdjr3 · 2023-04-28T15:34:25+00:00

Update : She ghosted me.

I followed the advice of a user and i wrote her that night sending her a funny meme and she replied with a "sorry i am doing something now, i will answer you later". I was like "ok don't worry"

After that she responded me half an hour later with a sticker. We sent more or less 20 messages and then she ghosted me.

Probably dumb to say for someone who I have known for just a week but i really clicked well with her (and though she felt the same). Hope that now she can find someone who she likes i guess

Feels bad man

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-28T16:21:30+00:00

/poll

Do you have a good looking face?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-28T16:40:00+00:00

People who say “I don't care” are annoying, because those people typically care more than other people.

People who don’t care actually don't try to be an Attention-Whore about it. They just shrug and move on.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-28T16:44:46+00:00

Q4Men who see escorts: would you commit to or marry an escort?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-28T18:17:46+00:00

Women don't understand what social skills and confidence non-Chad men actually need.

Women have it easy. There are a lot of people who will want to talk to and be around a woman with basic hygiene (i.e. not fat). When women are thinking about social skills and confidence, they have the assumption that the other person wants to talk to them and associate with them, or they will just find someone who does. Their "social skills" are basically just be pleasant to the people who do want to talk to them and their confidence is based on the assumption that they can always find someone who likes them and wants be around them just because they are a woman with basic hygiene.

As a non-Chad man, if you sit around waiting to find someone who will randomly take an interest in you, you'll end up alone. The social skills you need are completely different from what women need (and what women assume you need). You need to provide value to people and be able to convince people who are lukewarm or not at all interested in talking to you, to be interested in you in some way, which is much much harder than just being pleasant to people who were already very open to talking to you like what women assume. And you need to be able to have confidence, knowing that there are few to no people who are interested in you if you stop performing.

Socializing and dating is on easy mode for women.

meteorness123 · 2023-04-28T18:58:39+00:00

Ladies, do you find this guy attractive ?

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/2d/94/15/2d9415e213846167836ba35e0740a6a2.jpg

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-04-28T18:59:27+00:00

Just saw a guy(36M now) reddit profile. His life's goes like this

He is 6'6"tall. Got his first date at the age of 21 and second date at 32 (still virgin). Inexperienced in dating bcz he was fatass. But turned his life around by losing weight from 480lb to 228lb. Dude literally turned from Danny Devito to Dwayne Johnson and with a good beard.

Got his first girlfriend but she is poly. They are engaged now and practice ENM.

Catch is he is introvert likes baking, video games, sci fi ,etc and is submissive (his own word).He come from normal two parent household and she come from divorced parent household and her dad used constantly bring girlfriends home (maybe the reason she is poly).

All I can think of he can do better than this and get a more normal girl with better job(she works at bridal shop) who will/can support him just because he is tall and attractive (like in NYC) by acting more aggressive and changing personality/hobby little bit.

I bet he will get abused later😭.

Want to share his username but not feeling like doing it.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-04-28T20:05:48+00:00

I just found out Jerry Springer died. Hes the reason why I started liking transwomen back in middle school and why my wife is the only cis-woman I've ever been with.🤦🏽‍♂️

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-04-29T14:17:51+00:00

It is crazy how some women claim to want be in sexy outfits when they are in public yet when you suggest them to wear revealing clothes they suddenly get offended and feel harassed.

md8716 · 2023-04-29T14:11:46+00:00

It's interesting when I see advice to men on how to get women... it's usually a whole laundry list of things to do in order to be more broadly appealing and exciting to women so that they'll want to date them.

You take a genuinely good, above average looking, balanced dude who's happy being who he is, but isn't successful in dating, and the recommendation I see is always for him to jump through hoops to be this man with broad dating appeal.

Given the choice of having to change myself and be someone I'm not in order to get what i want in life, and the choice of changing my dating environment to one where my natural self is far more appreciated, I'd choose the latter 10 times out of 10.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-29T14:09:59+00:00

Some woman on PPD: Old women have no issues getting married. I know old, fat, high bodycount women who have 0 issues getting married.

Same woman: My husband would rather jerk off to porn than fuck me

You can't make this shit up

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-29T13:32:37+00:00

try to debunk the whole redpill thing, not just Tate.

educate him that they're a bunch of scam artists who are taking taking advantage of weak, vulnerable guys; the majority of guys who are dumb enough to actually try their "methods" in real-life on women, will fail, miserably. and they'll end up in a worse position both psychologically and socially.

Some life advice for everyone here. Fear mongering is a very shit tactic to try an convince someone to change their mind or actions. Convincing someone their choices are bad isn’t going to do much, you need to convince them that their choices are bad AND that your alternative is better

This goes with most anything you do in life. Many people are fine doing what they do daily and won’t change. This is why Tate is so popular, he offered an alternative that people saw was better than just struggling and being told to be confident

Or don’t. Nobody really cares for the shitty salesman though

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-04-29T12:50:55+00:00

From an evolutionary perspective women cheat to change their mate, while men cheat to get an extra mate. This is easily observable today as women typically cheat because they’re “unhappy” with the relationship while men cheat for sexual variety.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-29T12:46:45+00:00

Fuck my parents

They could’ve gotten me a boat and my life would be so much better. Just easy hall pass to pussy

Now I gotta go out work on my own then maybe get a boat later on in life but by then I’m old so now the boat bitches are married or still in school. Fuck them for setting me up fr

Also if your a virgin and have a boat, you seriously need to reevaluate your life, no joke

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Am i the only one who got banned from r/dating for posting on here?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-04-29T12:13:12+00:00

Women: “I get dressed for myself”

Also women: “Men should pay because of all the time and money women spend on getting dressed”

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-29T12:04:05+00:00

Parroting libleft feminist talking points doesn't make a man attractive. I've seen this happen too often, men think that if they act like Hasan that they'll start magically getting pussy.

If women are attracted to you, they'll sway their own political leanings.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-29T11:52:01+00:00

I don't understand how people can go to the clubs week after week and not get bored as hell, it's the same thing every week, same people, same music, same terrible clubs. Yeah you can throw some different drugs in every so often but even that would become monotonous.

I go out more often with my friends now but every single time we go out I just want to be literally anywhere else, but I suck it up because I enjoy spending time with them. However I'll usually be the first to leave at around 12:30-1am unless either there's edibles or I know for a fact there's a good chance I'll get with someone in the group that night.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-29T11:28:37+00:00

i want to explore the world and the navy seems the best option for that. 2 problems: no wifi or vagina aboard ships

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-29T11:19:41+00:00

Simple guide to why most women don't take the manosphere seriously:

When women have low standards.

Manosphere: Ew! Men dont want women who have been with everyone. That’s disgusting. Whore!

When women have high standards.

Manosphere: Ew! You’re making men jump through hoops to be with you? That’s manipulative! How dare you not have sex immediately!? Prude!

What they actually want to say but won't for some reason:

Manosphere: I want women to be prudes that instantly become horny sluts in my presence because I think I'm a special snowflake.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-28T15:22:34+00:00

BRB, heading to PPD to get my 'Men are terrible' fix

FineDevelopment00 · 2023-04-28T16:04:47+00:00

Find Jesus, you Darwinian cucks!

<sup>I stole this gem from another PPDer.</sup>

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-28T16:17:49+00:00

Personality wise, what is so different from manosphere guys and the assholes they berate women for allegedly dating?
When looking at their views on family, it looks the same: Seeing children as social and financial burdens.
Why would a relationship-minded family oriented person want a partner who thinks like that?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-28T18:11:12+00:00

Why do people use not having children as an insult?

Like, not having children was the whole plan.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-29T11:18:44+00:00

tips for meeting rural girls? I live in the big city fyi

dbz__f · 2023-04-29T10:56:39+00:00

Female Gendered Person: "I hate having to adhere to modern beauty standards to make myself look beautiful" puts on 10 kilos of make up

Incel: "but you look beautiful without make up!"

Female gendered person: "Fuck off incel, I wear make up for myself, not for you"

dbz__f · 2023-04-29T10:54:55+00:00

Jordan Peterson: "Clean your room, bucko"

Me: "Fuck off, right wing incel"

Gf: "clean your room or no sex"

Me: "yes ma'am"

SlashCo80 · 2023-04-29T10:22:47+00:00

Everyone seems to be going crazy over the new Hogwarts game. I don't get Harry Potter mania myself. My impression of it is some poncy twit in a robe going "My name is Blippy Blippington the Fourth, and I'm going to cast a spell by waving my little wand around and going 'Averus Blaverus Buttocks!' And now I'm off to have tea and cakes, toodles!"

y2kjanelle · 2023-04-29T08:39:51+00:00

I find it so entertaining that the same guys who constantly bitch about women chasing chads are the ones who prove why chad is the better option.

Like okay so I shouldn’t date chad because he sleeps around or sees multiple women yada yada, but the guy with no social skills, obsessed with Reddit, hating women, and trying to BECOME chad by trying to use and abuse me is a better option?….

No thanks.

Anyways, I used to get so much anxiety bc of the dumb commenters on here that no man would want me because I liked to have casual sex when I was single.

and now because im a good person and girlfriend, i get princess treatment. im loved by a guy who’s feminist (so mf hot), respectful of women, physically attractive, so so kind and caring, smart and supports himself.

it’s just nice to know that just because i like sex and had lots of it in the past, it doesn’t automatically mean my value as a partner or person goes down.

I rly like to be living proof of my own points. Big slay.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-29T08:03:43+00:00

A lot of people don't realise that the people they consider their friends aren't actually their friends, they're friends with the drug or activity you have in common.

You just have to think, if you guys didn't get together every weekend to get high or go out and get drunk, would you be hanging out? Would you still be friends?

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-04-29T06:18:24+00:00

Best way to use money to sleep with attractive women, that does not involve sex work and/or sugar babies?

THHBHStT · 2023-04-29T05:45:13+00:00

Got a woman driving a couple hours to see me and a lot of old friends now hitting me up again on the dating apps

I THINK I GOT MY SWAGGER BACK

scwizard · 2023-04-29T05:19:35+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/antiwork/comments/132btjy/never_happening_in_america/

Bruh lmao.

30 an hour is like median income. That would imply 50% of people aren't making a "living wage"

betterevery · 2023-04-29T05:06:56+00:00

I have this sexuality where I am very much attracted to men but I only like to kiss them and be fingered. I would love to go my whole life without having to touch a dick. I also would like it if them men were sexually attracted to me too.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-29T04:20:36+00:00

I told my partner he's a "Chad" today.

He laughed.

JumpyMishka · 2023-04-29T04:07:15+00:00

half of women will be single and childless.

honestly who cares...

i've grew up neglected and fat haha

severe emotional abuse

my basic physical and financial needs weren't met and i'm trying to get a job and i guess the top % of men suck and don't really appeal to me anyways

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-29T04:04:50+00:00

Tinder misandrist is still talking to me after the stunt I pulled lmao

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-28T15:34:28+00:00

God women with low number of Instagram followers are so fucking sexy, especially if they’re good looking. Just saw the finest girl with like 100 followers. Thought I was getting catfished, but she’s just European

If she got over 1k it’s a no go, I’ll give a chance if it’s over 700, 500 or less is preferred. Yes, I’m a hypocrite in this case

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-04-28T18:13:20+00:00

Instagram is more of a dating app/hook up than Tinder, Bumble and Hinge because you do not need to match to DM (unless their DMs are private)

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-29T03:50:22+00:00

Imagine being a female streamer.

Just don't be fat and show your face on cam. Boom, you now have a career making at least a few thousand a month playing video games for fun. You don't need to grind the games to become good at all or show your tits. There are thousands of male streamers who dreamed about being a streamer their entire life, grinded the games 10 hours a day and are way better than you and who barely get any viewers while you casually just decided to become a streamer because it's better than having a job and get hundreds/thousands of viewers by existing on cam.

Female privilege as a career.

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-04-29T03:25:22+00:00

GymPill - bitches claim they wouldn’t date/fuck with a dude on steroids but they can’t tell. They just line up. A local Tryone at the gym I go to looks like he doubled in mass over night and the girls are just rolling over for him. Really makes you consider hoppin on the sauce but of course I wanna be natty 🤪

Fuckin clown.

AngeCruelle · 2023-04-29T03:23:05+00:00

Perks of Dating Adult Male Virgins: The Series

Part 7: All the right mistakes

The things you should tell a girl. The things you shouldn't. How to impress her. How to disgust her.

As we get to know each other, it becomes very apparent to me that either he's never heard of such rules or he cheerfully disregards most of them. He's all politeness, kindness, and vulnerability. He's always thinking of others first, to the point where it can be worrying. I don't want him to be hurt or taken advantage of. How can I delight in his trust while warning him not to give it so easily?

We've told each other secrets no one else knows. Comforted each other on tough days. Celebrated good ones. Seen each other strong, weak, and everything in between. If these are mistakes then I will call his mistakes perfection.

^Disclaimer: ^I ^can ^only ^account ^for ^the ^experiences ^of ^myself ^and ^others ⁱⁿ ^my ^social ^circle. ^I ^am ⁱⁿ ^no ^way ^claiming ^that ^all ^dating ^experiences ^with ^adult ^male ^virgins ^are ^like ^this ^or ^that ^men ^who ^aren't ^virgins ^do ^not ^do ^any ^of ^this. ^Any ^concerns, ^{counterarguments,} ^or ^complaints ^can ^be ^directed ^to ^the ^air ^around ^you ^because ^I'm ^probably ^not ^interested.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-29T03:14:14+00:00

Is anybody else a sucker for really bad 2000s comedy movies? I just watched That's My Boy last night, the one where the bride gets revealed to be fucking her brother, wasn't a great film but was funny enough to kill a couple of hours with.

Plus Andy Samberg, Adam Sandler and Vanilla Ice.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-29T03:12:26+00:00

I've seen a few Red Pill guys lately talking about trying to convert men in their lives to take it, worst thing you could do.

Nobody is going to take the Red Pill if you try and force it on them, you're making yourself and the ideas behind it look stupid by trying that. You have to discover it on your own, when they're ready they'll find it.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-04-29T03:07:42+00:00

If you can’t make it in society then survival of the fittest takes you out. Get good.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-04-29T02:08:50+00:00

Yesterday this 6ft Chad at my job told us that he would be on dating apps talking to 10 different girls at once and can remember every single detail about them and never get them mixed up. What a skill that is because I couldn't remeber most of the girls names I would be talking to.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-04-29T01:48:31+00:00

Betas turning women is a good thing. Less competition.

WestCombSplit · 2023-04-29T01:47:19+00:00

It's ironic when you realise that most of these movements would be far more successful at achieving what they're trying to achieve if they focused more on their base and not on their opposition. Feminism could pass any law it wanted to if they could convince enough women. RedPill could change "modern day woman" behaviour instantly if they could convince enough Men

WestCombSplit · 2023-04-29T01:44:44+00:00

Lilith is right about a lot of the virgin/terrible with women guys actually just wanting to be whores. Makes sense when reading some of their comments. If you boil down most of their complaints, it's really just about not having the ability to date hoards of women and fuck all of them

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-04-29T01:39:39+00:00

Anime women still have my heart.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-29T01:23:02+00:00

Are you a woman with dating issues? Go through these simple steps to troubleshoot them!

Do you have basic hygiene (e.g. not fat, healthy BMI 19-21, basic natural makeup)? Men like women with basic hygiene .
Are you existing outside of your home and/or on dating apps? Existing more helps.
Are you chasing after men above your level or men who are dating multiple women and have a lot of options? Try dating men at your level.
If you still have dating issues, start from the beginning again because there is no way you can have dating issues if you've completed 1-3.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-04-29T00:58:17+00:00

Introduced a plate of mine to the idea of being in a harem and she’s receptive and open to the idea. Welcome to the future lads!

SierraMistSoda · 2023-04-29T00:14:51+00:00

Ive started canceling dates because of this sub...ive gone to far into delusion.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-28T23:59:36+00:00

I'm learning about the body.

The body is fascinating and so interesting.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-04-28T23:43:14+00:00

Women, I am terribly sorry, but the award for the "women of courage" went to a man. The award was given by the president's wife Jill Biden.

Yet another time men were better at being women than women.

Women, you have my condolences and I wish you better luck next time.

PS: Woke reddit will likely put on the ban hammer for this, because... freedom of speech, I guess.

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-04-28T23:19:42+00:00

I don't want to sound sexist but my level of humour is beyond any woman ever existed can possibly reach. There comes times when it is practically impossible to communicate what kind of hilariousity just happened.

That's why I am lonely, I am not just mediocre.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-28T23:17:07+00:00

I have 48 tabs of porn open that looked promising from the thumbnail and I'm too lazy to spend the time evaluating which ones are good but my computer is lagging from the memory usage.

Is this what it feels like to be on dating apps as a woman?

MinosBoudria · 2023-04-28T22:59:57+00:00

Is r/truerateme the best way to judge your attractiveness? Since I know this subreddit, I want to do surgeries (eyelid and nose) to improve my appearance and be good-looking.

2023-04-28T22:58:31+00:00

Man, if there’s any proof that sexual strategy is amoral it’s how people respond to the scenario of “should a man continue raising a child that’s not his after finding out years later”

I have never seen the man whose the actual father be asked to step up in this sub or in general. Mandatory testing, cuckold, etc nope. It’s always the man who was lied to and cheated on that’s expected to step up and be a real man, since he’s already been there doing the job that someone else was supposed to do. The other guy who’s the rea father can continue to live his life as he pleases with zero fucks given towards his child, until he wants to of course. Even worse, the mother is nearly invisible in the discussion, like she isn’t even a part of the equation

You either win or lose, try not to lose

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-28T22:50:31+00:00

You should always pay as a guy since it's always you asking out the girl

But same time go for something cheap and don't spend more than 50 dollars

If you do this then most first dates will be a success

nsfw4throwaway · 2023-04-28T22:03:02+00:00

I've come to the realization, in my mid 20s, that I have absolutely 0 interest in hooking up with women anymore. This is despite two failed short term exclusive relationships recently. I'm trying to find a life partner.

I do pretty well on apps, I'm tall enough to avoid the filters, but have a pretty average/skinny body, so I'm presuming my success is almost entirely due to an above average face, a prestigious college in my profile (which unfortunately matters a lot where I live), and frankly a decent bio.

Other than selecting "looking for a long term relationship", anyone have tips on how to maximize potential in attracting good looking women interested in long term relationships?

I've lucked my way into hookups and short term things with women I'd consider far more attractive than me, and my most recent relationship was with one who was arguably a Stacy by this subs standards. The only caveat is that I'm a pretty quiet guy, and seem to attract good looking women who might be considered "odd" by some people, so the stereotypical basic looking girls are usually off the table.

By virtue of even knowing this sub exists, I'm equally odd, so I don't mind, but it seems the numbers are not in my favor.

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-04-28T22:00:59+00:00

I am 7/10 adult male ask me anything

meteorness123 · 2023-04-28T21:54:17+00:00

How fulfilling do you think it is to be a financially succesful and also otherwise respected musician ?

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-28T21:37:29+00:00

You know l don't think people take to consideration when asking/shaming men for wanting a traditional wife

Because a lot of men here mostly likely came from traditional backgrounds so it makes sense why they want such relationships

Again not every country applies the 50/50 rule or both parents working

Like myself, l grew in the streets of London from a religious background and my mother never worked

So seeing that, l wanted my future wife to be a stay-at-home mom

Also l don't think many people take into consideration that some man just want their woman having an easy life of not working

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-28T21:29:11+00:00

You know l don't understand this notions again

We always say men need to raise their standards

Yet simultaneously some women here say men have higher standards

So which is it ?

tired_hillbilly · 2023-04-28T21:19:39+00:00

I always laugh a little inside when I see someone saying that increasing sexlessness among men is just a return to the norm, that only 30% of men reproduced in the past.

Never mind for a minute the validity of the data (which is nowhere near clear-cut).

They're implying that this is morally fine since hey, it's how things were always done! But somehow, if someone were to suggest that sexual liberation might be bad, and maybe should be reverted, suddenly most of human history is bad and we shouldn't even consider going back at all.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-28T20:55:40+00:00

Sluts are cool, I’m friends with plenty and Ik many of them that have been, from what I’ve seen, fine partners

Lying sluts are terrible people. Nobody likes a fucking liar. Unsurprisingly the people I know who’ve lied about their body count on occasions, typically have turned out to be terrible partners. Not because they’re sluts, because they’re liars

The only thing worse than a loser is a loser who lies about their lives to try and please people. Now you’re just a lying loser as well

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-04-28T20:48:24+00:00

"um men are evil when they frustrate our attempts to cuckold them sweaty"

If biology didn't matter then there wouldn't be a fertility industry worth tens of billions of dollars or multimillion dollar lawsuits for swapped babies.

Women are simply incapable of empathizing with men when it comes to cuckolding.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-04-28T15:44:50+00:00

“I don’t understand why men are so obsessed about paternity”

-Gender that can always knows which child is theirs

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-28T14:05:29+00:00

Guys who struggle with dating typically have other problems in their lives that’s going ignored and unaddressed. The biggest ones going unaddressed are socializing and mental health.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-28T14:47:07+00:00

This is obvious but I might as well say it: The manosphere is mainly mad at feminism giving women freedoms to not rely on a man.
Alimony, duty sex, and women marrying for money, things the manosphere complains about, happened way more in the past. It's just women were discouraged to leave a bad marriage.
When they say “Marriage is a bad deal for men”, they mean “Marriage is a bad deal because women are not forced to stay with me”.

Peacesquad · 2023-04-28T20:48:24+00:00

What did I miss?

Peacesquad · 2023-04-28T20:48:18+00:00

I just want to be loved 🥲

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-04-28T20:39:18+00:00

Some of the people here that tell others to go touch grass, are on here surprising alot.

Prestigious698 · 2023-04-28T20:19:32+00:00

“If you let your friend enter the house I will never forgive you and will never trust you again”— my mom to my boyfriend who she has met a million times.

I’ll be home alone while my parents aren’t there and they don’t want my bf over. That’s fine. But I hate how she keeps referring to him as “my friend” than the title of bf. She doesn’t even like saying his name. Mind you, my bf is wonderful. He’s intelligent, respectful, and caring. He’s really hurt (even if he doesn’t show it), that my parents are completely denying his existence as my lover.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-28T20:18:58+00:00

I don't know where this false notion of women wanting sex more in relationships comes from

Because we always hear marriage stories about the wife withholding sex from her husband for weeks/months and divorce shortly arriving

We always hear about the man switching to porn as a form of c*pe from the lack of sex especially once the kids arrive

So whoever is spreading this false propaganda, pls stop

Since lying is never beneficial

NeveruseTren · 2023-04-28T18:52:12+00:00

Men- women can’t force you to do anything you don’t want to. All of their power lies in being able to manipulate you to get a certain outcome they want. If they all want relationships and you never give them one, they can’t do anything about it. If you would just learn to ignore them when they whine and complain, men as a whole would be in a much better position. Shaming language doesn’t have any effect if you don’t want it to.

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