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AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-27T01:15:05+00:00

Imagine being a woman and not at the very minimum being a cute girl next door.

Any woman can be the girl next door that the average man dreams of dating. It's just basic personal hygiene. Have a healthy (19-21) BMI, dress minimally feminine, put on minimal natural makeup, don't wear anything gauchy or flashy, and don't be mean or annoying.

That's it. Now you are the woman that upper middle class men dream of wifing. You can just exist outside and bam, random men will have a crush on you. Men in your social circle. Men at work. Men at a party. Men at a class you're taking. Men at random meetup groups. The barista, cashier, bartender, front desk person, the bus driver.

Men will be captivated by you and lining up doing anything you want to win your heart.

Women can so easily become the woman of men's dreams just by becoming the cute next girl door with very little effort. Even many Chads dream of marrying the down to earth cute next door girl. You will have your pick of men. You will be guaranteed a nice man who makes $100k+ in low/medium cost of living places or $200k+ in expensive cities.

This is the dating floor for women. This is the minimum achievable dating value you can have that requires so little effort. You can be the Taylor Swift girl next door who is lamenting about Chad not noticing her but has armies of decent men who have a crush on her.

I just don't get why women choose not to have basic personal hygiene. Why do women choose to be chubby/fat, not do the bare minimum natural makeup or put on too much makeup, wear slutty/distasteful clothes or be loud and annoying? There is a drought of decent women that has lowered the bar so much that any woman can be wildly successful and have their pick with just a teeny weeny bit of effort.

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-27T01:13:39+00:00

Seeing my crush again tomorrow I hope she puts out

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-27T00:33:45+00:00

I was actually turning bluepill ngl, then some negative experiences are making me bitter again.

Not to be defeatist in any way, and I am not, but dating or seeking relationships sometimes seems like too much effort and too much disappointment to be worth it for me. Idk man

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T00:12:41+00:00

Praying that the reason that Mitch McConnel was led away from cameras is because he had a life altering stroke that will leave him wheelchair bound, non verbal, and completely immobile, in excruciating pain unable to express it while completely conscious and pissing himself until he dies 🙏

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T00:08:18+00:00

You know it's possible that if I wasn't such an asshole and I wasn't a low spectrum autistic person there might be one woman out there (really just one) who would be attracted to me post workout body.

As it is....

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T23:45:48+00:00

If you’re gonna ghost as least block my fucking number ffs

I hate having my hopes up like this

Although maybe she hasn’t ghosted at all and I’m just being neurotic, idk

dysonRing · 2023-07-26T23:29:21+00:00

/r/GirlGamers/comments/159nr0n/your_experience_is_literally_our_break/

I can't believe I agree with this they legit changed my mind. See PPD women this what happens when you use logic and reason. People admit mistakes and change their outlook.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-26T23:10:33+00:00

Aw.... the guy I'm dating just called me "babe" over text.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-07-26T22:57:42+00:00

study shows female orgasm/attraction is required for conception, sperm alone is not enough (thus high rates of failure of IVF):

https://www.accessdiagnostics.co.uk/pages/faq-pre-seed-lubricant

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-26T22:31:55+00:00

Every day I learn a new reason why some men here struggle with dating. Today's lesson: not paying for first dates means you won't get a 2nd date or sex or anything further.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-26T22:19:51+00:00

I'm still laughing at the "I don't see average men having sex personally, so I don't believe them" thread.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-26T22:11:34+00:00

My husband told me of this guy that sat next to him on the train: small, thin, hunched over, long scraggly hair, youngish, nice but very outdated clothing, from some sort of SEA country. He was very quiet and meek when he asked for a seat, but when he sat down he started scrolling through booty tiktoks and would occasional stop to take selfies of himself.

So my question is, y tho? Everything else I can ignore, but why the booty tiktoks in public?

Its like when old dudes go to the library to look at porn. I just don't get it.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-26T22:11:15+00:00

Are there genres of music that would be a red flag for girls to be into?

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T21:36:06+00:00

I am beyond sick and tired of men complaining about their race or ethnicity. It’s your looks, not your ethnicity.

If you assimilate well (no accent, familiar with pop culture, etc), and you are good looking enough to a woman, your ethnicity won’t matter.

A lot of white girls are into me and it was surprising to me at first because of all the crap I read online. The truth is that it only matters if you’re not attractive to a woman, otherwise she won’t care.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-07-26T21:26:29+00:00

https://twitter.com/pearlythingz/status/1684291958607429632?s=46&t=KT4n50z4guKAeHfOYurSTg just noncey things

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-26T21:15:20+00:00

Random relationship advice videos keep showing up in my feed by a guy called John Delony. Anybody watched him before? Thoughts?

TradThunderCat · 2023-07-26T21:02:36+00:00

I am a virgin man abstaining from sex until marriage, i am a christian and follow God's will. As i've saved my virginity for marriage i'll only date and commit to a woman who's done the same, a chaste, virgin woman, untouched and unspoiled by the World.

My point is that i am a conservative guy, proud and unashamed of wanting a virgin bride. That said, it's still wrong to slutshame. I mustn't use my personal preferences as an universal parameter to value or devalue someone. I am strictly against shaming women for their past.

Sure, you have no obligation to date her. Sure, she's not wife material. Still, she deserves as much respect as anyone else.

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-26T20:33:39+00:00

Males: All women have to do is get plastic surgery to look better, men’s features can never change. That’s why we get to judge women and they don’t get to judge us.

Women after they got the plastic surgery males told them would make them look better:

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aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-07-26T20:29:56+00:00

Men, friendly reminder that feminists hate you being happy on your terms. There is no point in having "reasonable discussions" with feminists, they don't know the meaning of those words. It's time that they stop being treated with kid gloves

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-26T20:16:04+00:00

Males: “Margot Robbie is mid😏”

Women: I like tall men

Males: WHY ARE WOMEN SO HARSH AND MEN’S PHYSICAL APPEARANCE?!? THEY’RE ALL SHALLOW HEARTLESS WENCHES!😭

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-07-26T20:09:31+00:00

Pussypassdenied is one of the most entertaining subreddits ever made

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-26T20:00:18+00:00

I hate my hair so god damn much. I wish it was socially acceptable to just wear a hijab because I have shitty fucking hair.

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T19:59:36+00:00

It’s really funny I’m hindsight, but when I was younger I wanted to wait until marriage to have sex.

Then I grew up and realized I was living in a quixotic fairytale. I still I wish I could but it’s not realistic.

I also wanted to get married before 25 yo (I still do), but that’s probably not gonna happen either. It’s rather depressing.

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T19:54:47+00:00

Why couldn’t I be born Chad

My mom said I almost died during childbirth and my birth was a miracle anyways 😒

God tried to warn her but she didn’t listen. Now I have to live life as an inferior, disposable male.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-26T19:52:38+00:00

Q4A: Why do the most promiscuous, sexually open and fun women usually speak with vocal fry? It's like become the biggest signal to me that she's usually DTF

Also, why are "Jen"'s the biggest sluts?

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T19:45:51+00:00

It seems that I can get girls interested in me, but it’s rarely the ones I want. Not even in terms of looks necessarily, just not the ones I want.

Anyone else relate?

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-07-26T19:39:47+00:00

I used to not care about age gap relationships at all, but after seeing how triggered feminists and old hags get by them I firmly support them. Whenever I see a guy in his 30s dating a college student, I think to myself "good!"

SianOiseau · 2023-07-26T19:30:01+00:00

"Women don't enjoy sex" is a rather self-owned statement. It would be more precise for them to say that "women don't enjoy sex with me".

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-26T19:21:53+00:00

Every time promiscuity is brought up here, I get to read the most unhinged thoughts, fantasies, and threats. The comments make my eyes water from laughing so hard.

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T19:15:43+00:00

I think she might have ghosted me. She didn’t text at all yesterday, I messaged her asking how her day was in the evening and she hasn’t responded yet, so I should drop any expectations.

We had a really nice conversation too, and we had actually set up a date for Thursday tomorrow.

I’m gonna ask her if we’re on for tomorrow and if she still hasn’t responded by tomorrow, I’m gonna assume she ghosted.

Really bummed because I liked her a lot ngl

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-26T19:05:17+00:00

Are human male/female dynamics more like that of bees and flowers or like that of the peacock species? Flowers are the pretty ones and the bees are drawn to select and pollinate, implying it's the women who are meant to be pretty and passively attract with their beauty or chemicals, ergo the flowers have to look good, the bees rely on behavior, which is analogous to our behavior.

On the other hand, male peacocks and other species are forced to impress females with their sexually dimorphic features and plumage as well as their behavior and movements, and the female selects the most impressive male, which also seems to reflect human mating dynamics. Which one is more accurate, or are both accurate to an extent, or are humans too complex to choose either?

Masculine characteristics tend to be "risky" in that even males start out as female and then become male later in the womb; as exaggerations of female or androgynous features they can work against the individual or work in their favor. So are men or women meant to be the visually aesthetic sex?

No_Break_102 · 2023-07-26T19:03:27+00:00

Hetero relationship - thoughts on woman proposing to man?

I'm considering it.

It would also not be coming out the left field, as we have talked about our future (stuff like kids and weddings).

I have what I want to say planned but I'm kinda chicken about it.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-26T19:02:38+00:00

I have made some interesting observations by just being around my friend (D1 college wrestler, UFC prospect, my current primary wrestling coach) who is currently crashing at my apartment when we went out yesterday for him to help pick out my clothes and other various items that will help my skin and stuff.

I've always advocated against cold approaching women in public because it's fucking weird (who picks up girls at target?). And it kind of blew my mind when people advocated for it.

But now I realize why some people do, it's because if you're actually attractive women will actually bore through the back of your skull with their eyes. Like hardcore staring, super hardcore. It's absolutely shameless.

And you can approach them.

We were at Zara picking out clothes and there were probably 4 women who were just boring holes through the back of my man's skull. He told me "once you get my physique it will happen to you to, but pay attention" and he gave me a signal to notify me when it's happening so that I can recognize it when I get a decent physique. Not that I necessarily believe that part but it was interesting.

So they would fucking stare at him making the biggest eyes in the universe, and he would just go up and start talking come back and boom, he's got the girl on instagram (apparently nobody uses phone numbers anymore? It's all DM's and shit).

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-26T18:39:52+00:00

I wish we can block one user without getting banned. That's all.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-07-26T18:37:37+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/159p04f/me_m33_and_my_wife_f30_were_robbed_while_we_were/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-26T18:32:28+00:00

Me_IRL on PPD

I'm a real unlikeable douchebag

No you're not

I'll fucking show you

Ok. Wow, guess you're right.

SorryEm · 2023-07-26T18:23:01+00:00

I'm gonna sound really spiteful but I kind of think both sexes deserve their present unhappiness with the current dating market.

The only reason men are against it is that they don't get to participate in the debauchery themselves and were originally supporters of the sexual revolution.

As for women, they deserve the unhappiness they get from it because of the disrespect they show to men.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-07-26T18:18:50+00:00

Just got a new standing desk and I ate while standing up for the first time. Interesting experience

jobbo321 · 2023-07-26T18:13:25+00:00

I hate the fuckin' reddit (this subreddit especially) advice of "Stop your woe-is-me thinking, it's the reason you're failing!" when someone makes an observation about their shitty situation. Let's treat poor people the exact same as romantically struggling men.

Unemployed person is mad because he can't get a job?

Uhm, sweety, the reason why employers deny you is because they FEEL your anger for you not having a job. Try going to therapy since you're obsessing so much about getting a job.

Homeless person is depressed because he doesn't have a home?

Actually, being homeless is not the end of the world. See, some men just can't have a home. It happened throughout history ya' know? Also, there are lots of people who have a home who are currently depressed as well. So learn to be happy with yourself first, teehee! My home (6 million dollar penthouse in Manhattan) is actually really tiring because the house is so big that I forget where I leave my phone!

This sounds stupid. Please, whenever you think about giving advice, try to really think whether it'll actually help someone or whether your advice is just dogshit verbal diarrhoea from your privileged situation.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-26T18:06:11+00:00

I wonder if an issue for dating apps for women is that men know the matches they get are below their level due to how skewed dating apps are towards women, so men don’t really put in a ton of effort for a serious relationship and just go for sex.

Slipthe · 2023-07-26T17:45:34+00:00

Can men sleep with women they they have contempt and disgust for?

And can women sleep with men who they have contempt and disgust for?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-26T17:42:06+00:00

Men who are against paying should just not invite to expensive dates. If it’s cheap enough then it doesn’t really matter if you pay or not and if she thinks those dates are too low class or whatever you can bet your ass she wasn’t gonna pay for her part of the more expensive date.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-26T17:42:00+00:00

I chatted with a friend recently who is struggling with her weight. Despite all her best efforts, she is still having a hard time. I shared with her my thoughts on how her ACE* results might be impacting her ability to lose. She just called to let me know, that she brought it up with her doctor and therapist, and they now have a whole new plan to address her issues that aren't rooted in repeatedly being told to eat and exercise.

I'm so happy for her! We talked about how trauma impacts various hormones and how our bodies adapt to protect us, even if the dangers are no longer there. Made me think of this sub because so much of the anger here is from unresolved traumas.

*ACE results = Adverse Childhood Experience

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-26T17:40:06+00:00

A perfect explanation of dating app ratios.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-26T17:33:08+00:00

Q4M: In what quantitative way has adopting the red pill improved your life? Let me hear your red pill stories and how being red pilled has resulted in more money and more sexual partners and what parts of the red pill you value the most. From my perspective, it seems like guys will get into the red pill, but there aren't any tangible improvements compared to before they were red pilled.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-26T17:28:52+00:00

Boomers shouldn’t blame millenials and gen z for the degenerate society they created. They didn’t become degenerate by themselves, they were taught to be that way by the generation prior. Modern day degeneracy is actually the fault of older folks, it’s just younger folks who end up being the victim of it.

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-07-26T17:15:40+00:00

I have seen a lot of threads about how the problem that men are not approaching as they did in the past. What people have not considering is that women are just not in public as much or when in public preoccupied with their phones or headphone.

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NothingOrAllLife · 2023-07-26T03:01:54+00:00

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-26T03:01:55+00:00

First?

Edit: or not.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-26T03:10:04+00:00

If I tell you off rip I want something just casual and then you decide in your head “my vagina is so amazing that hes gonna change his mind” based of this that’s on you lol

Willow-girl · 2023-07-26T03:21:43+00:00

Funny story: Today my boss walked into the men's room and took a leak while I was cleaning it. I was back in the stalls, and he hollered, "I don't mind if you don't!" but then proceeded to do his business without giving me the chance to go, "WTF, dude?!"

As I waited for him to finish, it occurred to me that I used to lunch with legislators. But that was then ... this is now, I guess. Back to work!

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-26T03:29:21+00:00

Jaw isn't broken, it just hurts like a derogatory term for women.

HolidayWhile · 2023-07-26T03:29:51+00:00

Places with high female:male ratios in the 20s age range outside of campus? Alternatively, where is it socially acceptable for non-students to hang out on campus? Women in their 20s are nonexistent here

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-07-26T03:35:33+00:00

Money will not make a woman respect you.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-26T04:02:56+00:00

Petition to have a pinned post with the most relevant statistics, updated regularly.

Want to know how many people are promiscuous? Check the stats.

Want to know how many people cheat? Check the stats.

Want to know what the opposite sex values most in a partner? Check the stats.

Want to know the most common reasons why people divorce? Check the stats.

Want to know how to increase sex in a relationship? Check the stats.

We should be using evidence to back up our claims.

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T04:05:42+00:00

After how long do you consider yourself ghosted?

houstongradengineer · 2023-07-26T04:10:07+00:00

felt like my comment wasn't getting due attention, so now I'm shamelessly promoting.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-26T04:18:23+00:00

To piggyback off my comment from yesterday on amusement/water parks I also remember some kids who clearly didn’t pass the 42 or 48 inch height requirement and the workers did not give a fuck lol.

Just let em all through

DerayRevan · 2023-07-26T04:24:31+00:00

"Attraction is subjective"

You know what, maybe for women sure

Because many of them will say it's all about the vibes and emotions etc

On some occasions they prefer this type of men and on other days, another type of men depending on their hormones too

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-26T04:34:20+00:00

I finally got accepted into my city's "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" Facebook group. Ohhhhhhh there's so much drama on there. So many cheaters

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T04:45:35+00:00

I think my roommate is having gay sex

It’s really weird. I have never heard gay moaning before.

Or maybe I’m just a degenerate who’s hearing things.

SianOiseau · 2023-07-26T05:02:51+00:00

Q4W, what's the last romantic thing you did for your partner? What is the most romantic thing you did?

red_hem · 2023-07-26T05:04:31+00:00

Are my comments visible?

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T05:07:13+00:00

Why aren’t the comments on my main visible?

I have like 32 karma and my account is two days old. Isn’t that enough?

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-26T05:13:52+00:00

I see the take about how the average women is more attractive then the average men. Idk how your judging this criteria but I dont remember men having makeup. Just a thought.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-07-26T05:14:19+00:00

I think one of the main reasons Leo dates younger chicks and breaks up with them after a few years is that he doesn't want to get married. Most women, especially older women, will start pushing for that after some time. I read somewhere that one of his exes, Bar Refaeli, was pressuring him for more commitment before they broke up.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-26T05:18:01+00:00

Yall gotta stop treating sex from women as a prize for something. That shit makes you look pathetic.

Ok_Individual · 2023-07-26T05:52:46+00:00

I work out every day, make 80k a year and am 5'11. What am I doing wrong yall

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-26T06:11:54+00:00

My favorite was the nude pic he sent to some poor hapless soul titled “I’m a real man”. 😝

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-26T06:21:52+00:00

How many of the profiles on OLD are inactive? I feel like a lot of the profiles I see just aren’t used that much

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-07-26T07:28:54+00:00

As part of trying to get over my rocky past with the female sex, I've recently been different approaches to flirting with women. I have tested 2 approaches;

Blunt flirting: This includes outright flattery, adoration and praise. I dish out compliments generously and make it clear that I think she's amazing.
Subtle flirting: Backhanded compliments, stealing glances, commments with double meanings. Basically alternating between interest and disinterest as has been recommended by the PUAs.

My results are that the first one doesn't seem to work as often as the second one. However, when the first one does work, the women are willing to go further with me than if I use the second one. They are more willing to initiate touch, hugs and the like.

Has this been anyone else's experience?

eye_fuck · 2023-07-26T07:29:00+00:00

Whats the science behind 90% of the posts on r/detrans being FtMtF especially considering how FtM is rare compared to MtF in the first place (and whats the science behind that too)?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-26T07:33:18+00:00

I'm not normally a violent person but losing streaks in chess make me want to turn a comic book supervillain to punish the people of this world, the universe and the gods above for making me so stupid

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-26T07:40:43+00:00

I wish Klaus Scwab was dictator of the world. God I pray for it every night to my shrine of Soros.

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T08:02:21+00:00

Do we need to abolish alimony?

https://preview.redd.it/cmu08rpsn9eb1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0dc31943e55e5a324e9d907a150ed288fe3a0549

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T08:05:12+00:00

These same women are the kind that would cry about sexism if the genders were reversed

https://preview.redd.it/m97tubfzn9eb1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e413e69804b20ab89462d2ac4facca740bfbd701

“You really think women have this level of complexity to their thoughts??? They just think that he makes their vagina feel good and go for it, zero long term thinking”

You would get called an incel.

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-26T08:06:38+00:00

Why are redditors so snarky?

This was in response to a question asking why curly hair isn’t liked or smth (or something along those lines)

https://preview.redd.it/stau03ako9eb1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=394241f8a1cbfd09591f0edc3d909e709b78a4b1

eye_fuck · 2023-07-26T08:10:45+00:00

How often do you NOT shower every day?

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-07-26T08:20:00+00:00

If women can fight for equality, then why can’t we fight for equal control of the dating market? It would also make life easier for the next generations, it’s very unselfish.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-07-26T09:09:03+00:00

It seems women make more post than men in r/adultery. Maybe those poly sub too.

And take notes guys. Don't be a dork LOL

https://www.reddit.com/r/adultery/comments/14py8up/whats_your_type/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-26T09:14:35+00:00

Guys who think 18 year olds are the most attractive, if it were legal/acceptable to date younger, would you?

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-26T10:33:22+00:00

So frustrating that seemingly the only women who can deploy 2 braincells and somewhat understand male struggles around dating are all borderline in favor of eugenics, like "whoops, unlike women, men are worthless by default and most of them SHOULD die a virgin muhaha!"

But nah, I gotta remind myself that I know that this isn't the only way women are capable of understanding men's grievance, it's rare, but there are some more compassionate ones. Still anan annoying trend though.

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-26T10:51:02+00:00

Comment I read:

struggling man: I've been told looks don't matter.

Blue pill: Nobody ever said looks don't matter

struggling man:So my dating problems could be due to bad looks?

Blue pill: No sweaty, it's your personality, women can smell misogyny a mile away

The last line is a bit hyperbolic, but you get the point.

Also interesting how redditors will never say the problem is looks to women neither, on r/amiugly I don't think the majority consensus was that the woman is ugly ever

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-26T10:53:45+00:00

I wonder if the guys in here would be interested in having sex with a fat woman with greasy hair, greasy skin, cystic acne, a dark moustache, and chin hair? Who smells like a mix of ashtray, tuna fish and blue cheese at all times? And has crooked, unbrushed, green teeth? Dark and curly armpit and leg hair? Very long, piss-brown toenails? Clothes that she wore 5 days in a row? And is messaging you constantly, wondering why you aren't responding within 2 minutes? Texts your friends when you haven't responded after 30 minutes? Calls your workplace if you haven't responded after 3 hours? Has an extremely high pitched, screechy voice that makes your ears bleed? Cries at least twice a day to you on the phone? Constantly accuses you of lying when you haven't? Has a secret fetish for 80 year old men who live alone and wants to know if you'd like to try threesomes with these men, and if you don't, that means you don't love her? Tells you if you don't clean her 7 litter boxes daily, that means you're a lazy pig? Tells you to get a nose job and fake ab implants if you want to look more attractive? Has 5 kids by 5 different men and they all hate you, including the baby daddies who show up at the house randomly? Hates every one of your family and posts about them on Facebook at least 3 times a day, tagging them in every post? And doesn't let you cum during sex?

If so, more power to you. If not, you should understand why others might feel like they don't have as many real options as you may think.

TradThunderCat · 2023-07-26T11:17:50+00:00

If dating only starts after 25 then why are most 18-25 women not virgins?

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-26T11:37:20+00:00

CMV: when it comes to looks, height is not #1 for women. It's your face. Men in my experience are bad at determining what women like in a face. Height might be #2 to a good amount of women, but I would argue that body type is really #2.

Also, male faces generally improve with age.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-26T11:40:46+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/159p04f/me_m33_and_my_wife_f30_were_robbed_while_we_were/

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-07-26T12:31:05+00:00

Countless women say things that RedPillers don't agree with

"Liar, you don't speak for women."

One woman says a thing that Redpillers agree with but the vast majority of women wouldn't

"Listen up fellas, this is the representative of women!"

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-26T12:34:45+00:00

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-26T13:12:07+00:00

"'Better to believe it's my fault; I'm bad', which lets you believe there's a chance that 'If I work hard and be good, I will be lovable'. Thus, even the belief in one's unworthiness begins as a coping mechanism."

Peacesquad · 2023-07-26T13:29:01+00:00

But what did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-26T13:29:22+00:00

Guys don’t show their faith/loyalty with their sexuality. Women do. One of the biggest lies of the modern era is thinking men and women are the same and show loyalty the same way. It’s all a lie

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-26T13:54:22+00:00

A huge chunk of content on this sub is about people expecting someone else to change.

eye_fuck · 2023-07-26T13:59:10+00:00

Lets talk about sexual liberation

How sexually liberated are you? Do you think it's okay to think and do anything as long its consensual and whatever people do in their bedrooms should be shamed and judged? Even the taboo stuff like woman pretending to be a 24/7 toiletslave for her abuser and falling in love with him or man pretending to be a father raping his 9yo daughter? Or do you have limits on what you consider ok?

Do you think society needs to move into direction of becoming more sexually liberated, accepting and sex-positive or its to sexual already and we should go back?

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-26T14:02:18+00:00

It seems like we have things turned upside down. Most of our ideas and opinions about several different topics come from our understanding of how the world actually is, but we don't really how the world actually and factually is because we also have several attachments to things that make us want to see the world in a specific way. Sometimes it's blowing things out of proportion to victimize ourselves and sometimes it's dismissing serious issues because we feel targeted or something. Going by the fact that a conclusion that is reached based on invalid and/or incomplete data is by default wrong then makes the majority of what goes on inside of our minds also wrong and that's the root cause of conflict.

How can there be any communion, peace, and understanding between two parties where one side sees that the other is very privileged whereas they have a lot of difficulties, and vice versa? How can you give someone who's already doing great more rights and privileges simply because they feel that they're victimized? And how can you make sure that by stripping someone of their privileges you're not taking away their rights?

Infammo · 2023-07-26T14:20:31+00:00

I miss the masks.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-26T14:25:05+00:00

Just heard about "Doe Eyes" and "Siren Eyes" the other day. Basically the female version of hunter eyes and prey eyes.

Interestingly, both doe eyes and siren eyes sound appealing when applied to women. They both have good qualities. So my question is this, is it that women are just more positive about how they view themselves, or is it that women's looks are generally more regarded as attractive than mens looks and men have a narrower and more strict set of criteria they have to meet to be attractive?

Personally, I think it is the latter, but women won't concede that beauty standards aren't as harsh for them. They bring up things men don't really care about and describe the ideal woman as being a caricature of what men are actually attracted to.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-07-26T14:36:25+00:00

It's hilarious when Blackpillers have to hate average guys in seemingly happy relationships (often with cute girls) because it doesn't align with their worldview.

https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTear/comments/159ztwq/imagine_having_this_much_resentment_over_a_normal/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1

"An average Joe in a relationship having a date night?? I must find a way to dismiss this 😡"

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-26T14:40:00+00:00

A couple of thoughts I had last night before going to sleep:

My fWbs txted me to swing by hers yesterday. I got by her place 30 mins early, so I spend time at a nearby dog park.

I'm not a dog person at all (prefer cats) but I couldnt help but think two things while I saw so many dogs, and their owners (some fucking hot, wearing skin tight lululemon gear), play in the sun.

How the majority of dogs are so poorly disciplined.
I noticed dogs of all shapes and sizes. Particularly how one, older looking golden lab? mix was slowly, but determinedly, in a straight line, was always heading towards a younger black dog. The black lab seemed to be popular with the other dogs, youthfully jumping around with the others. But when the older golden one got close, both the golden and the black would seclude themselves to the corner, away from the others and the golden would jump and start to fuck her.

The owners of course would yell their ignored commands, and they would physically separate the two. They would go off and play and do their own thing, but in a couple mins time they would be in some other secluded corner, trying to fuck again.

This happened a few times. I sat there watching this and thought, the golden was old, "out of shape" uglier to my eyes than some of the other dogs. The black lab was youthful, energetic, shiny coat. She couldve chose one of the other, younger, more athletic dogs.

But no. This old, ugly geezer was who she allowed vs some others that tried and she would shrug off.

It's interesting to think, men take it so personally. How could we not when a rejection is against a person? A women say no to you, and most men internalize "I'm not enough". "I am lacking" "There is something I need to possess or achieve".

And so most men march off to undertake their hero's journey. To search for answers, unaware that while they brave off into the world "learning", " acquiring" "being a success", that very same women that rejected them, giving them some sort of reason... that she picked up a partime hostess job at the local restaurant and, whatever reason she gave the rejected man went out the window as a few weeks into the job she fucks Jose the busboy because he was there at the right place, right time.

Rejected boy is out on a self improvement journey, taking a negative feedback loop and internalizing that he needs to become better while out of shape busboy Jose gets a positive feedback loop of "hey I got to smash this gorgeous girl by just asking/positioning myself in an environment to have a good time".

And so the dichotomy of the sexually/romantically successful and unsuccessful man is born, the divide increasing at an exponential rate as they age through life.

There is a lot that is distasteful in all this, all resulting from the men women reject to the ones they accept. Everything is borne out of those choices. And so it is annoying to listen to women browbeat the unsuccessful, not realizing that the majority of them started off... and i know this is a loaded word. We start off innocent and "naïve". Before the porn and media, before witnessing awful intersexual dynamics. Most boys are an earnest and curious bunch. Wanting fun and everything nice.

But then the rejections, and the reasons, both real and imagined. And it poisons all it touches...

There is a prevailing feeling that women are the same as men. If that were so, why do we care so much about the why, when women (and especially the sexually/romantically desirable ones), decidedly, DON'T care about the why, the questions, or topics and subjects, most men care about. Women DO NOT go into the weeds the way most men do. Men start to care infinitely more "truth" more than keeping the peace or having a good time.

And it is annoying to hear women, all grown up, at the end of the line, chastising the unsuccessful man. "Didn't you know, dummy?"

"You were never supposed to take what I say so seriously, just watch what I do."

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-26T14:59:41+00:00

My only motivation for attending this housewarming party I REALLY don't want to attend, is knowing I'll be the most attractive woman there.

My vanity is limitless.

betterevery · 2023-07-26T15:03:41+00:00

Am I just stupid? Why do I think people like me when they just want to use me for sex? Like they don’t actually care about me or anything but my feelings get hurt anyways

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-26T15:08:00+00:00

The biggest flex for a man is to have a successful and happy long term relationship. The majority of women who call men incels are ironically chronically single themselves. Of course these women will deflect and say that your partner is suffering taking care of you, but again that is clearly these women projecting their negative experiences with men and showing how low value they are as that is the best they can get.

The more I think about it, men could easily win in the dating arena if they had a mindset shift and stopped simping and holding on hope for women that don't respect them. Men need to learn the power of saying no, and quietly having their own standards rather than whining online about how disappointed they are in women. Men put up with too much toxic female behavior.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-26T15:17:06+00:00

Q4W: What percentage of men that you've slept with knew what they were doing?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-26T15:21:00+00:00

I think the biggest mistake a lot of men in Red Pill spaces make is comparing their progress and improvement to other men, they'll see a guy start getting women after three months of Red Pill (purely a hypothetical) and get jealous that it took him six months instead.

As long as you're progressing at your own pace in life and achieving the goals you set for yourself, who cares how quickly or slowly others are doing it? We all move and work differently, you could apply this to all facets of life, but it definitely comes down to that Red Pill rage factor where guys get jealous that others are doing better than him.

Workaholiconew · 2023-07-26T15:24:23+00:00

This became rant town... I know I am prone to making walls of text... but now I feel like one of the most concise guys in here.

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-07-26T15:46:17+00:00

It is amazing how many unremarkable women get attention from men, if she didn't have a pussy, i fail to see why would anyone be interested in her.

lolmastr13 · 2023-07-26T15:48:41+00:00

It’s odd to think that by being “myself” I’m not the object of women’s attention, except to maybe boost their ego. Women dress up and try to sell the best versions of themselves and yet it is not for me. If I want that to be for me I must go out of my way to meet women, I must initiate and I must escalate. However that wouldn’t be me.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-26T15:54:56+00:00

Sometimes I wonder what the heck I'm doing here, I'm so far off from everything that you guys are talking about it's nuts. I live in a very religious third-world country, in a very small town, in a poor neighborhood, and both my life and my world couldn't be any more different from yours, and yet here I am. Maybe that's exactly why I am here, all of these differences make me feel all kinds of ways, but mostly inferior, so it's good to explore that I guess.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-26T15:55:03+00:00

Are lips a underrated feature.

Slipthe · 2023-07-26T16:15:52+00:00

Slavoj Zizek's deviated septum/lisp sound is so bad I have to mute the videos he is in and put on closed captioning.

I feel my own sinus pressure just listening to him.

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-07-26T16:21:54+00:00

I have lurking mostly, notice most of the threads created here are mostly by the same people. lol

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-26T16:30:10+00:00

Kevin Spacey found not guilty. This is why I never believed the me too movement was only about women. It's about victims from both sexes. Powerful people get away with shit.

And many don't know that R. Kelly preyed on boys, too. Anyone that can be manipulated or is vulnerable in some way can be victims.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-26T16:37:46+00:00

Best part about retail lately has been calling customers out for leaving a mess or not putting stuff back properly. This is how a typical conversation like that will go

"Excuse me is that where you found that shirt?"

"No I found it over there"

"Well would you like to put it back properly over there please?'

"But that's your job"

"If you want to buy what you're planning to buy, you'll go and put that shirt back"

Either that or they'll get really nervous and stutter because I assume nobody has ever actually called them out for being a dick or not putting clothes back properly.

I'm already on my way out, so I've got no qualms calling customers out on shitty behaviour, the fuck are they gonna do? Fire me?

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-07-26T16:45:56+00:00

Can we finally agree that a man under 30 is not an average man?

The average man is almost 40, balding, over weight, and has more money then men under 30.

The average man has more money and social status then a young man. But a young man usually looks better and is more in touch with current trends.

-AvatarAang- · 2023-07-26T17:02:09+00:00

How do I deal with the fact that I only see really tall men being in relationships? Every time I step outside and see a couple, the guy is at least 5'11", but usually taller. It crushes me internally because I used to think the 6-foot thing was just an internet meme, but I actually see it confirmed in real-life. I never used to be this insecure about my height. How tall am I? I tell people I'm 5'8", but I'm so pathetic that I'm really only 5'7.5". I couldn't even be 5'8", that's how much of a joke my skeleton is. And now I feel like I don't deserve to be in any relationship at all, because clearly only the really tall men are qualified for that. And my height will only decrease as I get older, assuming I stick around that long rather than just get rid of myself like I might eventually resort to.

Most women on Reddit say things like "I just want a man taller than me", but if that were representative of most women in real-life than surely I'd see more couples with men who are shorter than 5'11"? Since most men where I live (Canada) are shorter than that. So if the only couples I see have such tall men in them, then that likely means the desire for men to "just be taller than me" is either a lie from those Redditors or is a preference only held by those Redditors and not one shared by the female population at large.

I've become uninterested in hearing people's opinions on dating preferences in public forums. I feel like they are virtue signalling and can't be trusted. My own observations, and sociological studies, are more reliable. Virtue signallers only care about themselves, they are willing to blatantly lie to other people about their honest feelings towards something so long as it lets them feel like they've "done a good deed". Yet by lying to others, they're actually hurting the very people they think they're helping.

Workaholiconew · 2023-07-26T17:06:20+00:00

If you gonna keep pressing refresh into daily community chat megathread.... it is better to just join the ppd discord. It is faster and better to have conversations than keep pressing f5 all the time here

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-27T02:20:36+00:00

Anybody else watch Congress’s UFO/UAP hearing today?

Phillysportsfan52 · 2023-07-27T02:30:22+00:00

The fact woman require dates even for a “hookup” is laughable af. So u want me to spend money on a date just to fuck your mid ass? These woman dont even want relationships either, so why tf would i invest MY money just to spend time with you. It’s literally just prostitution with extra steps. Always get some BS like “i wanna get to know you”. In reality ur not gonna get to know me in the hour date before i fuck u lol.

Idk just always rubbed me the wrong way. If just spending time with me isnt good enough, then i dont wanna meet u in the first place lol. I have no issue spending money on a woman im interested in and have spent time with irl already tho. Some woman just treat sex like a transaction and its weird af. Idk how u think ur owed me taking u out on a date when ur not committed to me and talking to hella other people most likely lol. Everytime u bring up 50/50 these woman dip to. Funny how a lot of feminists are all “equal rights” till it comes to splitting the bill.

Idk i just couldnt imagine requiring a woman to take me out and pay for the bill just to meet up with me LOL. If the genders are reversed it looks as stupid as it actually is

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-27T02:34:08+00:00

Whoever sent me a Redditcares message, please don’t.

If I wanted to kill myself, I wouldn’t let a Reddit bot stop me lmfao

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-27T02:49:28+00:00

Man I just had a horrible fight with my mom

I came home and was really drunk, she got mad because she really hates it when I drink and I’m apparently too young to be drinking anyways.

I told her she needs to butt out of it and she said some sentimental bs about how she’s my mother so she’s always gonna care abt me, etc. I told her she was being corny and that she should just leave me alone.

She got upset when I said that and said “I wish I could have killed you when it would have still been legal” (referring to abortion I think?). That upset me so I walked out and went back to my dorm.

She’s called me like 10 times but I don’t want to respond. Hopefully it’ll blow over tomorrow morning though.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T03:41:53+00:00

Here's something I don't get about RP'ers and my Chad friend who has been staying with me actually agrees with me

The hate towards women who enjoy sex (OMG PROMISCUOOUS) is really fucking weird. Just unfathomably fucking weird.

It feels like half the posters talking about promiscuity would be 100% completely fine with a virgin wife who literally didn't move at all in bed, at fucking all, like a statue. As long as she's not PROMISCUOUS EWWW it's fine. It's mind blowing to me.

Consider escorts, they're probably really fucking good at sex, because it's their goddamn job. And women who like sex are also probably pretty good at sex, women like it when men get off and women like it when men cum generally. Like if a woman likes sex, she's probably pretty good at it. And she's probably in tune enough with herself to get off herself, which sounds fun.

The only issue is that while it might be possible for me to one day have sex with...someone. There's absolutely no chance of me having sex with someone like this because they want someone who is actually an attractive well put together man who knows what he's doing. The opposite of me. 😞😞

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-27T03:53:13+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Grapplerbaki/comments/15akcv1/i_know_we_will_all_be_gushing_over_the_fights_and/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

You would think this comment section isn’t about a bad person. But anime fans proving once again they got no morals sometimes lol

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T04:00:25+00:00

One thing I find really weird is the hatred towards women actually enjoy sex. Like it genuinely feels like 90% of the men screaming about how virginity is so important would be willing to fuck a literal unmoving doll, as long as nobody else has stuck it's dick in it. It just doesn't sound fun at all.

On the other hand consider something like escorts. They're probably really fucking good at sex, it's their literal fucking job. Also women who like sex probably are pretty fucking good at it. Women like when men get off generally, they like it when dudes cum and all that, and they probably also know how to (help, it's the guys job to do it obviously, it's often a mental thing) get themselves off. Which is hot. It is mindblowing to me people dislike all this. Also it's generally pretty hot when a woman knows she's sexy and likes sex and is forward about that.

It is fucking weird when men dislike that stuff and I don't get it.

The only problem is that while it there is a minute, miniscule possibility that at least once in my lifetime I will find someone who will be willing to have sex with me there is NO fucking chance that I'd ever find the kind of woman I'd describing who would want to have sex with me. Because they generally want put together, very attractive (it's not like they're lacking for options), men who are actually competent and knowing what they're doing. The exact opposite of me. 😔

text-redacted · 2023-07-27T05:27:03+00:00

Relevent

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-27T14:21:23+00:00

Last day of two week PIV dry spell, thank god its almost over.

I don't understand wives who content to spend the rest of their lives like this. Don't they get pent up? There's dick right there for the taking and they're all like...nah, I rather sit this out and be in my feelings instead.

You truly don't know what you got until its gone.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-27T23:20:05+00:00

"Stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about!"

If your parents said this, you probably stifle your feelings

You learned that someone else's convenience is more important than your pain

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