Daily Community Chat Megathread

DarayRaven · 2023-12-23T23:25:48+00:00

I honestly need her so bad 😫😫

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cn5FpjYyVft/

meteorness123 · 2023-12-23T23:22:16+00:00

They are putting things into the water to turn the frigging frogs gay !

dbz__f · 2023-12-23T23:19:44+00:00

Looked in the mirror this morning. I’m honestly handsome and sexy when I let my stubble grow out. I can see what my gf sees in me

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-23T23:09:15+00:00

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Do men truly consider this to be alpha?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-12-23T23:06:07+00:00

Q4A: If you found yourself dissatisfied in a relationship, how much time would you spend attempting to improve the situation before ending things?

Edit: By “dissatisfaction”, I mean things like not enough quality time, quality/frequency of sex, unequal effort, feeling unsupported emotionally, etc. Not automatic dealbreakers like cheating or abuse.

DarayRaven · 2023-12-23T22:54:52+00:00

This meme is legendary 😂😂😂

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Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-23T22:46:26+00:00

https://youtu.be/h8VLIC2dTqY?si=hGdceFiAV5rAgrNA

Why don’t women propose?

Why don’t women pursue men?

Look how disrespectful this man is when describing his wife, SIMONE BILES. He brags that he’s the catch, men are the catch, and that he was afraid of commiting to her.

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T22:44:46+00:00

WHY does mass have so many boros every other town ends in boro why

Inside-Gur5568 · 2023-12-23T22:34:51+00:00

10+ year age gap

omg that's pedophilia she's a little girl you sick FUCK!!

1+ foot height gap

omg omg omg sexy tall big man fuck my little cunny make me feel like a little girl crush the manlet's skull kill the genetically inferior manlet incel <3 breed my wet pussy hehe so big like my daddy :33

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-23T22:26:30+00:00

So, it finally happened

the time has come

I opened an anonymous Twitter account to argue with dumb people about politics. Until this point I was just a simple Twitter lurker.

I think this sub gave me the necessary tools to do this.

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T22:17:56+00:00

The first time I ever truly felt like I was old was when my brother was watching kung fu panda and then I asked him if hed ever seen legends of awesomeness then he genuinely had no idea what that was… and he’s only 5 years younger than me

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-23T22:11:59+00:00

whenever I fall asleep on airplanes I end up just falling over on any neighboring passengers if I have the middle seat which is why planes should always give me the window seat smh. it's female privilege that I haven't gotten staff called on me yet tbh it's that bad

dishonouronmycow · 2023-12-23T21:57:02+00:00

If you’re marriage minded, how long would you wait before proposing/ for being proposed to

adelaidemonkie · 2023-12-23T21:35:09+00:00

It’s crazy how a guy can be into bodybuilding (to make himself more attractive) for his own personal enjoyment, but when a woman wears a nice, attractive outfit, it’s because she’s doing it all for male attention and not possibly just because she likes it. Not everything we do is for male attention.

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2023-12-23T21:29:16+00:00

Why does this sub always become men vs women or red vs blue pill

Like I can't even say anything without being bullied by the women and the blue pill guys

hungrychick404 · 2023-12-23T21:14:20+00:00

Any opinions on Simone Biles’s husband thinking he’s out of her league?

happy_discus · 2023-12-23T21:04:19+00:00

I need advice from reddit again.

There is this cute girl I keep on meeting, since we take the same classes, we often just smile, double wink or wave at each other. This has been going on for a while. I've talked to her two times. On Tuesday she suddenly came to me and asked for my name, so we exchanged names and she left. I met her Thursday on the train again, she was sleeping, so I didn't want to wake her and only noticed me as we were arriving at the station. She asked me jokingly " you again?" and I answered "yes"

Is there any evidence she likes me at all and if so do you think she wants to be friends or anything further?

I would be okay with both, since she is kind of cool and I like cool people.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-23T20:50:34+00:00

So, life is a buffet and the scrambled egg keeps ignoring me

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-23T20:49:26+00:00

Maybe it’s how I was raised, but I don’t understand how people are surprised by their total by the time they get to the register in a store. Like, why would you not check the price of each item and add up the total in your head to make sure you don’t get too much?

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2023-12-23T20:15:22+00:00

So, what are the xmas traditions in your household?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-23T20:14:55+00:00

If you want people to be nicer to you, wear a silly Christmas outfit.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-23T19:51:24+00:00

Do you like drugs, do you like drugs

Yeah, well me too, me too, me too, me too

Do you like love, do you like love?

Yeah well me too, me too

It’s what we gonna do

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T19:25:24+00:00

I Still dont understand the point of lip plumping gloss like first of all it doesn’t even make your lips that much bigger and the effects are super super temporary like less than an hour so it’s like. Why would you want your lips to burn every time you wear it and you’re not even getting results

scwizard · 2023-12-23T19:24:16+00:00

After dinner, ALL of the men retreated to the living room to watch football or some such sport. The women all leapt up to clear their place settings & do all the cleanup together. As a clueless guest, I offered to help in the already tight space and the women told me to relax, so I went into the living room. ALL the men were totally silent for what seemed like an eternity, and my [ex]boyfriend asked to speak to me in the hall. He asked me what I thought I was doing, and made it abundantly clear in words that the expectation in their family was that the women were in the kitchen, and the men were… not. I was like, “ok well, that’s not how it works in MY family, kthxbye.” and I went home.

Every major holiday with every boyfriend I’ve ever had in the past 30 years has involved some special kind of drama, now that I think of it. The common denominator in every instance has been me. Apparently, as I’m discovering, I have a pattern of allowing men I’m in a relationship with to disrespect me, my feelings, my time. Something to work through with my therapist in 2024.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-12-23T19:23:36+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/I04HXtG

You shouldn't be giving birth, if this is how your braids looks. Don't pass your thin hair genes to your son.

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T19:21:57+00:00

I hate When ppl give me gifts before Christmas it just ruins the surprise like

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-23T19:17:23+00:00

I hate when boomers say "I'm X and have no problem dating" "I know a guy who was X and had no problem dating" "it's all confidence bro". And then you find out they're 35+ and talking about dating 5-15 years ago.

Everything changed after app dating and covid.

If you're not talking about dating experiences in the last 2 years, it's outdated information. Women are a lot less open to talking or meeting men irl and especially at bars and clubs. Outside of school, a vast majority of dates are set up through dating apps or IG. The majority of couples meet through the apps. Your app dating success more than likely reflects your real dating success.

Gladboys · 2023-12-23T19:14:54+00:00

Nice I have the Long Covid cough. I’m going to enjoy ripping my esophagus out

scwizard · 2023-12-23T19:05:01+00:00

I stayed up all night every Christmas Eve and spent all of Christmas cooking and serving my husband’s family. I told him I wanted a divorce on Christmas Eve after he said you wouldn’t need my help setting up the presents if you didn’t take so long making cookies with the kids. I was exhausted and had to set the stage for Christmas morning (can’t start until the kids are well asleep).

The look on his face when he realized I was serious. He would use shame to make me feel like I always owed him. Weaponizing the Christmas cookies was the last straw.

Merry Christmas I guess.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-12-23T19:01:07+00:00

Thoughts on Boogie2988’s 20-year-old girlfriend?

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Consistent-Gur6932 · 2023-12-23T18:45:52+00:00

I got downvoted because I refuted the statement that men would fuck anything and anyone

I explained that men have standards

scwizard · 2023-12-23T18:32:28+00:00

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2023/12/23/upshot/hallmark-lifetime-christmas.html

Nytimes deconstructing hallmark movies lol

throwawaydeletealt · 2023-12-23T18:29:16+00:00

I'm around 5'11½ - 5'11¾ how disappointing

DarayRaven · 2023-12-23T18:29:05+00:00

Arsenal should of scored that open chance

Also Liverpool deserved a penalty, because that was definitely a hand-ball

Congrats to salah for moving to 10th place on the all-time scoring list with that good goal

Inside-Gur5568 · 2023-12-23T18:11:53+00:00

Look at these women shaming him for dating a 27 year old woman!

She is 27 not 17 and still women are upset about it. You cannot win with these jealous old bags.

https://i.imgur.com/jD5vO7K.png

meteorness123 · 2023-12-23T17:43:00+00:00

Truth : Lust is not love

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-23T17:39:42+00:00

I think I might make a new burner account to test out the "I used to do scat porn do I tell my bf" or "my bf discovered videos of me shitting online" idea and see how ppl react.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-23T17:38:26+00:00

I can't sympathize with the women who sleep around because of emotional trauma or a bad family life or daddy issues.

There are the same or more number of men who had bad childhoods and emotional trauma, but most of these men don't have the luxury of using their dating life or sex to assuage their trauma or to make themselves feel better. Men just suffer alone and silently.

These 'traumatized' women are privileged. This is female privilege.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-23T17:33:42+00:00

Why is EVERY girl who writes posts on reddit about either not knowing if they should tell their bf they did gang bang porn, or getting outed via their bf getting a random message with a link to her fucking multiple guys? Why is it always women who get gang banged?

Why no fisting, why no scat, why no facial abuse, why no water sports, why no huge insertions, why no hardcore femdom, why no puke, why no other disgusting thing? I feel like this would be horrifying to discover too, but there's just something about gangbangs.

Theres more than one way to be a degenerate. But it seems reddit really likes telling off women who did gangbangs for some reason

DarayRaven · 2023-12-23T17:26:06+00:00

Hot women who wear loop earrings 😫😫😫

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-23T17:14:45+00:00

Female thought: If he's attractive, but doesn't have the guts to approach a girl... What's wrong with him?

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T17:08:16+00:00

Its gen heartbreaking when a guy says or does something to remind you theyre a guy

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T17:04:53+00:00

Guys ama im bored

Maractop · 2023-12-23T16:52:36+00:00

Why is saying that you are looking for a serious relationship seen as a red flag or unattractive? I hear women say alot they want guys to be intentional but if you tell them you are it comes off as offputting to them. It seems like not taking anything serious and going with the flow is the best approach

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-23T16:50:22+00:00

I know a lot of people think it is cheesy, but do you have any new years resolutions? Mine is to write a budget each month and track my expenses as well as keep a planner, a journal, and write to do lists every night. These are all tied under the umbrella of using pen and paper to organize different areas of my life. Last year I made a resolution to use the internet less and I was actually quite successful at it.

okaybear2point0 · 2023-12-23T16:42:59+00:00

what is your ideal amount of socialization per week?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-23T16:41:15+00:00

https://youtu.be/OxDFyn7FMgQ?si=mtnIEvHWcaRwT6QV This is honestly the most relatable line I've ever seen in a movie. When I first heard it I felt understood.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-23T16:32:46+00:00

Great guy syndrome = Nice guy with low SMV.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18op6gj/anyone_else_annoyed_by_the_great_guy_syndrome/

Get your ass in the gym and make lots of money

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-23T16:30:36+00:00

Manchester United is currently in watchable, we need Mason Greenwood back

saulbasedman · 2023-12-23T16:30:00+00:00

When using a fragrance, do I still wear deodorant or not? If not, I'm essentially hoping that the smell of the fragrance is stronger than that of my armpits, right? That seems like a risky bet for me.

Reasonable-Watch857 · 2023-12-23T16:27:44+00:00

I don't think I can love women after the abuse from them and seeing the hypocritical dating strategies of them, then wanting a bailout. I'm still sexually attracted to them but have been burned by them and see other guys burned by them too often.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-23T16:26:50+00:00

Feminists will be like "98% of sexual assaults are men, that means men are dangerous."

But that statistic doesn't really tell us anything about how dangerous men are. When women use that statistic, the only possible resolution would be to make it 50/50 between men and women. Right, like if there was only 10 rapes that ever happened in the history of humanity, and 9 of those were men, then 90% of rapes would still be by men even though it's such a small percent of the population. You can scale the number of rapists up or down, but it doesn't tell us anything about the people comitting rape.

I don't want to look up all the numbers again, but I calculated something like less than 0.45% of the male population commits violent crimes. That can tell us more about how dangerous men are. This was using how many men are in prison and how many men are in the USA and then finding the difference and what percent. And even that number is all crimes, so once you filtered for just violent crimes it would be even less, and then when you filter out for violent crimes against women it would be even less. The statistic I used is being generous, and it is still already very low.

adamjamal2AD · 2023-12-23T16:07:51+00:00

who is hurting these IncelTear women lol, some deranged man-hating behavior this

https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/s/gkEtRxrzpK

DarayRaven · 2023-12-23T16:00:39+00:00

Date went great, great food and environment

Problem is l'm so fuckin full, l really over did myself today

Best part l didn't pay for any of it

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-23T15:55:18+00:00

This is your life if you get married to a feminist

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18one8q/we_arent_doing_this_anymore/

hungrychick404 · 2023-12-23T15:37:50+00:00

Q4All: would you rather get with someone above or below your league?

BackToTheMoon_ · 2023-12-23T15:33:59+00:00

This person’s overrall point is not a problem to me but I find it hilarious how these women are so quick to fuck a bum, call him a bum then get said bum for child support

(Speaking broadly/generally) So you think hes a lying, cheating, bum but not bum enough to not give up your womb to him. You think hes a bum but not bum enough to chase get him for child support. Like you think hes worthless yet you will try to ring him dry for financial help for the child

You cant fix this without a societal collapse

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hungrychick404 · 2023-12-23T15:15:18+00:00

Why is it always “choose better” instead of “be better”?

hungrychick404 · 2023-12-24T02:50:40+00:00

I’m not dating another porn watcher at this point

saraimarsena · 2023-12-24T01:43:20+00:00

lately i’ve been finding it incredibly annoying to see stupid questions on my feed from r/relationshipadvice

“i found out my boyfriend is a molester and is in love with his sister, is this relationship salvageable?”

“my girlfriend cheated on me 26 times over our 3 month relationship, what should i do?”

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-23T09:34:29+00:00

Do you guys ever get randomly overwhelmed with love for your pets when you look at them? Lately I’ve been thinking about what a constant presence my snake has been since I was a kid— possibly my most loyal companion. We’ve been through so much together and he’s the gentlest, sweetest little buddy I could ask for.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-23T23:59:31+00:00

Are Passport Bros concerned that the popularity of their movement will replicate the problems they have with women at home? Women abroad will have more and more options from developed, Western countries, and then they can afford to be pickier too.

okaybear2point0 · 2023-12-23T07:32:14+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/@crespomemes/video/7315291512714169633?lang=en

Men like the video maker and the commenters are romanticizing working 9 hour shifts for women who sit around watching true crime all day doing nothing but laundry (which apparently takes 4 hours of labor time every day)

https://preview.redd.it/3vp7iadbxz7c1.png?width=639&format=png&auto=webp&s=bd03ef84ea25964a4f05a9bce99d0df071f30016

It's so jarring to me how there's a whole demographic of women that I never get to interact with that are like this.

Growing up, all my female classmates and friends were ambitious career woman types and my friends' mothers were all engineers and IT workers and such. But on the other hand the vid is at 700k likes so it must be somewhat a significant portion of Gen Z women who have this mindset.

But above it all, I think I'm slowly but surely turning into a misandrist, because the dating problems that men complain about are not due to women, but rather due to the sheer spinelessness and patheticness of the other men that enable them. Women are allowed to be 'entitled' or whatever because they're right: there will always be a man that has the disposition of a human doormat that is willing to capitulate to your demands while asking for the bare minimum in return.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-24T03:52:08+00:00

Tposts on TwoX Chromosomes and what men call “misandry”:

“My husband got a haircut today and spent 6 hours at the barber shop and running easy errands that shouldn’t take 6 hours while I was in the kitchen all day cooking food for his family. Men don’t do enough housework”

“A guy in my plane bought me drinks and carried my suitcase without permission. He insisted I go with him to his hotel with him and I got scared”

“Men don’t seem to ask us questions or want to get to know us”

“I feel like doctors who are women are ignored more on Reddit”

“Another post about housework”

“My boyfriend gave me chlamydia and he’s the only man I have slept with in 5 years, and I got tested before and was always negative”

Meanwhile on The RedPill website, which men insist isn’t misogyny:

“How to tell she’s a slut: she has brothers, she likes Taylor swift or the kardashians, she’s an athlete, she laughs loud, she has a big mouth, she takes birth control, she’s a 6”

“Don’t date women with male friends”

“Women need to be restrained legally, morally, or religiously”

“Women want men who don’t want them”

“Men should marry their third cousins”

“My wife is in good shape now but she hasn’t been going to the gym enough since our kid died and she found out that I had a porn stash. I am worried in a few years she’ll get old and unattractive what do I do???” Answers include things like “get her Botox” “never put leaving or cheating off the table” “you shouldn’t have married a woman the same age as you” “you should leave her”

“Tradcon women are postwall chameleons”

“Indian women are too modern nowdays”

“Women who want commitment are manipulative and bad!”

“Women want to marry their dads!!!!”

“I train my frifeiend like Pavlov’s dogs!!!”

TRP forum is much worse. Like dramatically much worse. Complaining about how your husband doesn’t cook enough is in no way at all comparable to complaining about how your wife who is skinny and just had a kid die and found your porn stash isn’t exercising enough and will age in a few years.

SlashCo80 · 2023-12-23T08:23:28+00:00

Which gender do you think empathizes more with the other? I personally find it funny how places like TrollX are constantly having woe-is-me parties about how "men hate us" yet in my experience it's far more common for women to not give a shit about the trials and difficulties of men they aren't attracted to.

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2023-12-24T04:35:34+00:00

I think I’m going to start blatantly lying on my resume while I have a job and apply to things I’m not even closed to qualified for. What’s the worst that happens? They find out I lied and don’t hire me? Boo hoo

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-12-23T12:34:33+00:00

Whenever a woman shows me genuine love or affection I quickly turn away because the scared little boy I side me is so scared of being abandoned that it's almost like I believe with my whole heart it's going to happen that I need to leave the situation on my own terms. It doesn't make any sense at all but that's how my base lizard brain and the pit of my stomach thinks. How to end this and be normal

hungrychick404 · 2023-12-24T00:03:51+00:00

I should leave this subreddit because I honestly am starting to find a lot of men to be disgusting, but also I like to know what to look out for

saraimarsena · 2023-12-24T02:32:23+00:00

i gotta be honest, as uncharitable as it kinda is, i love teaching in a high income area. i’m super lucky that damn near all of the parents are awesome (perhaps a little high strung in a few cases)

christmas and teacher appreciation day they sure do go all out for us. which i’m incredibly thankful for because i really do this because i genuinely enjoy it

i get $50, $100 gift cards for doing something i already like to do

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-12-23T04:08:53+00:00

First...its been a while PPD fam

Interesting_Show_962 · 2023-12-23T06:07:52+00:00

Maybe I’ll have more luck with the ladies if I look more sophisticated and classy by wearing a fedora

EulenWatcher · 2023-12-23T14:48:46+00:00

Q4E, if you have/had a SO, how often do/did you have dates?

Husband and I usually have a date once a week on my only day-off and we spent a whole day together. I really don't like when we miss this day - it's my only day-off and I want to spend time together and unwind outside of apartment as I work from home. But I guess going out once a week isn't very realistic with kids...I wonder how we'll cope with it.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-24T00:12:09+00:00

My mom's bestie (she's 55) has started dating after 10 years staying single. The guy is 63, but pretty clearly chad tier for his age (6'3, in shape and nice face, looks younger than his age). They been dating for 6 months so far and things are going well. I always enjoy hearing about normies dating life so that was a cool update

saulbasedman · 2023-12-24T00:22:51+00:00

Just tried to watch Jim Carrey's The Grinch. Man was it unfunny. I guess it's fun if you're a kid?

Gonna sound like the Grinch myself but I did not care for Whoville. Also Jim Carrey's acting was good but very over the top and it kept becoming more extreme and it bugged me out.

Would've been cooler had they put The Grinch in a real city such as New York City like in Elf. I really don't give a shit about Whoville.

Maybe it's more for Americans who grew up reading Dr Seuss or something.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-24T01:47:31+00:00

I don't speak reddit debate lord

what does ad hoc mean?

Steakman1 · 2023-12-24T01:49:15+00:00

Fellas I hate to break it to you, but even ai girlfriends will end up rejecting you in the end.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-12-24T02:06:30+00:00

Whenever a woman shows me genuine love or affection I quickly turn away because the scared little boy in the darkest dark corners of my mind is so scared of being abandoned that it's almost like I believe with my whole heart it's going to happen that I need to leave the situation on my own terms. It doesn't make any sense at all but that's how my base lizard brain and the pit of my stomach thinks. How to end this and be normal

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-24T02:46:28+00:00

My dream scenario would be if I had just started dating a guy, and then he became very ill and I had to stay with him for a few days making him tea and chicken soup, rubbing his back when he coughs at night, and watching movies together. Then he’s like, ‘I could get used to this 🤔’ and realizes I should be his girlfriend.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-23T04:16:48+00:00

Anyone else feeling abnormally thirsty? As in dehydrated

MikeArrow · 2023-12-23T04:28:14+00:00

My top five movies are:

1) Star Wars (1977)

2) The Matrix (1999)

3) Terminator 2: Judgment Day (1991)

4) The Avengers (2012)

5) Pulp Fiction (1994)

Based on this list, what mental image comes to mind?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-23T05:30:40+00:00

I'm drunk rn. Ngl, I say that all a woman needs a healthy (19-21 BMI) I'm slightly lying. There was a stacy I saw 2 months ago and I can't imagine having a relationship with a girl that's not her

but she's not a traditional stacy. she was probably a 6.5/10 on the universal scale but she's my type of stacy

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-12-23T05:52:00+00:00

I just got done watching The Emoji Movie with my 9 yr old daughter. I feel like I just lost a few brain cells now lmao.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-23T05:53:29+00:00

last year I visited grandma she said I got fat but this year she says I'm too skinny and that I better not be dieting like omg pick a struggle...I'm either chonker or skinny legend with no inbetween

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-23T06:02:11+00:00

Why do men get so butthurt by income requirements when they have weight and age requirements?

I want to do things like own a home, not be one paycheck away from homelessness, be able to afford car repairs and to go to the dentist and shit like have a vacation once a year, buying Christmas presents without going into debt, get a reliable car every 10-15 years, live in a nice suburb, retire comfortably, have good health insurance, etc. Ideally I would love to be a homemaker.

These things don’t happen for free. I’ve always worked hard. I worked full time and went to school. I am hoping to advance in my career and go to school again. I wake up at 5 am every day and I don’t get home until 6-7 pm. I’ve worked 60 hour workweeks while studying.

I really don’t have sympathy for men who don’t work hard. Hell, undocumented migrant workers work 80 hour weeks doing backbreaking labor and yet we have men who are US citizens complaining how impossible it is to go to school for something like nursing.

Warehouse workers where I work can make $33 an hour. At least work in a warehouse or something.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-12-23T06:18:00+00:00

Had interesting conversation with a woman today. In a gender discussion, we talked about the double bind men find themselves in when it comes to conflict in a relationship. If he wins the fight or seems more dominant, OK. Just one fight. But if he loses and seems less dominant in the process, he also diminishes his long term attractiveness. Same for showing emotion or losing frame, etc.

Her argument is that there is no double bind. There is just men trying to manipulate women and end-run women's innate right to truly know and judge their partners, and walk if he is not sufficiently dominant or attractive. Men need to just be themselves and let the chips fall where they may. Yeah, if he loses too many fights that may make him unattractive to her. But then THAT is who he is and always was, and she should rightly be able to find out and leave if that guy is not attractive to her.

tl;dr Stop worrying about female evaluation mechanics. Be yourself and let women exercise their godgiven right to test and evaluate men. Accept the judgment gracefully and try to find a woman who, when she finds out who you truly are, is attracted him.

___Cesar · 2023-12-23T08:08:27+00:00

I h*** women of this subreddit. I truly do.

LaloTwinsDa2nd · 2023-12-23T08:24:00+00:00

CMV feminists exist cause girls are bad at maths

saulbasedman · 2023-12-23T13:59:36+00:00

It's a shame I know how to minmax building a good social life while young but I'm too old now to have done it.

Here's the guide for your sons:

8-12: go on any teamsport. Ideally find one there's passion for. Become friends with people in your team.
12-14: chill a bit. Make friends in school if possible.
14-18: get a job at a place where many young people work. In my country this is typically a large supermarket or a large retail chain.
18-mid 20s: either join a frat or atleast 2 student clubs. You must do all of this in the beginning. While doing this you could continue working or get another job at a restaurant. Force yourself to do meet with your new friends.

While doing all of this it's important to regularly meet up with your old buds.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-24T00:09:28+00:00

I remember telling a girl once that I was doing no fap and the look on her face when I told her that.. it stays with me to this day I must say lmfao.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-24T00:24:58+00:00

Q4W: What do you assume about or traits you think a man would have if he doesn't dress well or is unkempt?

purplish_possum · 2023-12-24T01:28:04+00:00

House is full of people. Found myself a corner where I can chill and just occasionally smile and nod.

monster_lily · 2023-12-24T03:40:22+00:00

You guys should try sleeping in pitch black darkness i usually have blue led strip lights in my room but here it’s just 100% dark like it looks the same whether your eyes are open or closed and it feels Soooooo cozy idek

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-24T03:58:24+00:00

Guys I'm back in my film analysis youtube phase.

WAKE ME UP INSIDE ((CANT WAKE UP))

WAKE ME UP INSIDE

WAKE ME UP AND SAVE ME FROM THE DAAAAAARK

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-24T04:42:03+00:00

I'm gonna quit my job to make the Sopranos AMVs on YouTube

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Steakman1 · 2023-12-23T04:17:03+00:00

Cmv: this was the best duel in the Star Wars franchise.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-23T04:19:20+00:00

Lowkey I wanna watch revenge of the sith again

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-12-23T05:35:23+00:00

If a farang in Thailand gets thrown off a balcony today, that’ll be me and it’s not going to be a suicide

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-23T06:56:58+00:00

One of my life goals is to give someone a makeover. I see so many girls who have the right foundation to start with and they could be breathtaking with a proper self-care routine and better styling.

Gladboys · 2023-12-23T06:57:06+00:00

the masculine urge to pop an adderall at 11 pm and completely fuck my sleep schedule up for weeks. still have a ton of shit to do and i woke up hella late so maybe i just go for the shift clock forward strat till im fixed again

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-23T07:01:02+00:00

I would actually love it if someone tried to bait me into a saddest childhood competition because I could blow them out of the water, unless they were like a child soldier or child prostitute.

Inside-Gur5568 · 2023-12-23T07:07:12+00:00

Woman thinks she was dating Chad. Just because that he masturbated in to her. Then she went off to date another Chad and everyone gives her pats on the back.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ogbyh/he_denied_my_request_to_be_exclusive_after_three/

Her looksmatched is not getting any dates.

FutureBannedAccount2 · 2023-12-23T07:14:23+00:00

I think my gf is a redditor. She said :

I resent that statement

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-12-23T07:21:13+00:00

Is Andrew Callaghan guilty or innocent?

blebbyroo · 2023-12-23T07:55:55+00:00

How much have you spent on Xmas dinner groceries + how many people you feeding?

9 adults, 1 child probably spent about $330 😭

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-23T08:28:27+00:00

Watching this dude rare breakfasts around the world and being like "maybe I should incorporate beans into breakfast" knowing full well I'm too lazy and will just keep drinking a protein shake instead

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-23T08:41:22+00:00

Why was I as a high schooler fantasizing about being married to SCOTUS Chief Justice John G. Roberts Jr? I imagined our disagreements and matching pajama sets and everything.

Gladboys · 2023-12-23T08:45:47+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C1I7pmXsnBl/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

alpha widowed by the brother is nuts jesus christ this dude is yoked as fuck

dbz__f · 2023-12-23T08:55:04+00:00

Korean all-female remake of the first two Godfather films

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-23T09:23:39+00:00

Influencer girlfriend or girlfriend who sells her own bath water?

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-12-23T09:33:29+00:00

At what point did you realise you were no longer "the ugly duckling."?

dbz__f · 2023-12-23T10:16:27+00:00

Is rebel moon good or bad?

You cucks have less than 5 minutes to convince me one way or another

RicePresident_ · 2023-12-23T10:22:11+00:00

Is there anything more over rated than those kpop girls

Have not seen a single good looking one

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-12-23T11:12:46+00:00

Thousands of miles from the nest

https://open.spotify.com/track/2HtNcQ35XSvqBBYbVEOqD8?si=SeaD2_JgRBOluI2qgq0eTA

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-23T12:05:31+00:00

Most young men would ideally want a mommy as their girlfriend: someone that cook for them, someone that clean for them, someone that baby them and someone that let them play video games. Only difference with an actual mom is they also want their dick sucked

Accurate or not?

dbz__f · 2023-12-23T13:24:19+00:00

Rebel moon was ok

It wasn’t as shit as the critics make it out to be. A shameless rip off of Star Wars but bit worth a second watch

saulbasedman · 2023-12-23T13:56:51+00:00

It's a shame I know how to minmax building a good social life while you're young but I'm too old now to have done it.

Here's the guide for your kids:

8-12: go on any teamsport. Ideally find one there's passion for. Become friends with people in your team.
12-14: chill a bit. Make friends in school if possible.
14-18: get a job at a place where many young people work. In my country this is typically a large supermarket or a large retail chain.
18-mid 20s: either join a frat or atleast 2 student clubs. You must do all of this in the beginning. While doing this you could continue working or get another job at a restaurant.

While doing all of this it's important to regularly meet up with your old buds.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-23T14:29:53+00:00

How do I change this new piece of shit lay-out ?

BackToTheMoon_ · 2023-12-23T14:37:50+00:00

Dumb girl gets knocked up by guy shes known since she was 18, 5 months into being with him. He already is a baby daddy to 2 other kids and…….you guessed it….walked out on her cause “hes not ready for a relationship. Of course the comments coddle her. Women will continue to walk into the depths of hell as long as their decisions excused

JDWhiz96 · 2023-12-23T15:02:27+00:00

Q4A: since there's a large contingent of anime fans here, what was the first anime you recall seeing? For me, Sailor Moon was the first. I wasn't allowed to watch Pokémon as a kid because it was "of the devil," but apparently Sailor Moon, DragonBall and DBZ, and Digimon were all fair game according to my mom lol.

DarayRaven · 2023-12-23T22:46:45+00:00

This meme is legendary 😂😂

https://images.app.goo.gl/5rP9UT1siKm9Jd5g7

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T23:48:48+00:00

Mannn people here are so desperate to make me look dumb Lmao

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-24T00:44:31+00:00

Would you rather marry Emily Ratajkowski or Pearl Davis?

monster_lily · 2023-12-24T00:47:33+00:00

Should i get sol de janeiro

RicePresident_ · 2023-12-24T00:49:19+00:00

What the fuck is witch hunting?

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-24T01:37:58+00:00

why she need so many pink weapons when she can use those nails?

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/bdpEoh2mza8

missionglowup · 2023-12-24T02:13:14+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/wkj82l81j58c1.png?width=1278&format=png&auto=webp&s=a3680b44564d11478fdeddde351f415f81fff09f

i want to give this man the world😩

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-12-24T03:58:02+00:00

i was sitting by myself with headphones w/ my head down staring at my phone on my lap in the mall and this girl out of nowhere walked up to me and asked for a friend if i was single, i said yes and then she asked for my age, i said 23, apparently i was too old for her 18 year old friend

Gladboys · 2023-12-24T04:13:38+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0-5JlTLSaq/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

how uncommon is this?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-24T04:28:57+00:00

My fiance kind of looks like a taller, more built Jesse pinkman with longer hair. So basically perfect

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-24T04:44:35+00:00

ok no girls who actually did gangbangs but what if she's just really into gangbang/cuck porn. whether she is an aspirational gangbanger is up for interpretation.

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T23:55:57+00:00

When i become a mod im removing the no blocking rule

RicePresident_ · 2023-12-23T14:01:29+00:00

Got banned by my cities subreddit

Throwing cold water on a homeless guy sleeping outside your house is the perfect way to get rid of them. I don't know what the problem is

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