Daily Community Chat Megathread

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-01-30T15:04:36+00:00

Feminists will simultaneously say being a man is easier than being a woman while also saying that being a woman is better than being a man

Any_Championship_654 · 2022-01-30T11:50:42+00:00

I'm looking to conduct a survey on PPD about self improvement. I want to sort it by male, female, ideology-pill, and various self improvement methods they've undertaken such as fitness related, personality related, and different actions such as changing location.

Anyone want to suggest a good data gathering website, preferably free, where this can be set up? It would be good if it can relate the data points to each other too, or if there's a way for the user to do that. I'd like to also be able to share the raw data once it's done.

Also if anyone wants to suggest any questions that might be included in the survey fee free to let me know.

DaphneDK42 · 2022-01-30T11:18:50+00:00

The Guardian is lamenting the sorry state of dating for women. Mostly due to online dating.

Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men?

gimpgirl555 · 2022-01-30T11:17:57+00:00

Today I'll be posting a backlog of videos. Check them out if you crave new content, https://youtu.be/kUSuiDtmS2g

funlightmandarin · 2022-01-30T10:37:36+00:00

I've had three Moderna-shots now, no side effects at all beside the sore arm. Does this mean my immune system is completely wack? D:

dontassumemygender1 · 2022-01-30T10:10:38+00:00

Women over 30 wouldn’t be so demonized as post wall if they actually took care of their bodies. Look at American obesity statistics. The average woman over 30 is significantly overweight. This isn’t the patriarchy oppressing you, or unrealistic beauty standards, it’s you being fat and unattractive to most men

Truth_Sellah_Seekah · 2022-01-30T07:30:23+00:00

Being a 5'7 black guy in Italy is hard mode level, thank god I don't really feel much urge to start stepping into the dating game (although I'm 20, maybe it's time to change idk) but I recognize my position of utter disadvantage. Also, I can't even act upon any kind of warm approach since I'm basically a shut in that during his high school days decided not to create any kind of meaningful interpersonal relationships with his peers because of ill-concealed haughtiness. And I'm not even a bad looking guy.

Over.

jk.

huhwhatokok · 2022-01-30T07:19:41+00:00

Lmao just saw a comment on here where the woman said one of her requirements is her man be white/Asian. Then she had to clarify she meant East Asian. Look at how easy it is to market to the female mind in all aspects of life from shopping to even dating.

bigmonsterbitch · 2022-01-30T07:13:57+00:00

My daddy issues make me cream my pants when men act fatherly to me. Man I wish my dad loved me.

2022-01-30T07:07:08+00:00

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DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-01-30T06:56:08+00:00

The masculine urge to invest money in crypto, build a business, stay away from dating, make millions and then just fuck expensive hookers for the rest of my life while also taking care of my family and friends.

gimpgirl555 · 2022-01-30T06:52:28+00:00

New redpill for post-wallers:

53% of women born in 1991 were childless by their 30th birthday last year

Amanda Sharfman, an ONS statistician, said: 'We continue to see a delay in childbearing, with women born in 1990 becoming the first cohort where half of the women remain childless by their 30th birthday.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-10447507/Half-women-childless-thirty-time-ever.html

huhwhatokok · 2022-01-30T06:07:20+00:00

Every week there’s a dumb bitch on Twitter talking about “The biggest lie is that eating at home is cheaper.” The problem is women want to eat fancy and try a recipe every day where they buy a bunch of groceries for that specific recipe. I swear every time I go grocery shopping with a woman they start grabbing these obscure ingredients. Meanwhile, when I was in college, I went grocery shopping every other week. Bulk salmon/tilapia, chicken, ground beef, bread, frozen veggies, and some snacks and alternate between the 3. Go out to eat once a week.

chilikettlechips · 2022-01-30T04:51:09+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/sffmal/your_male_friends_will_masturbate_to_you_and_its/

Ppd discuss men wanking it to your instathot-friend's thirst trap pictures.

throwaway213091345 · 2022-01-30T03:21:33+00:00

Went shopping aiming for shoes and makeup, and came home with a crockpot instead. I’m accidentally domesticating myself. 😔

Sorry for letting down those who suggested the instapot. The friend I was with told me some scary story about someone dying from an instapot exploding on them, so I was convinced. Also the crockpot was so much cheaper.

madsskayyy · 2022-01-30T03:01:13+00:00

This post about a woman finding out her husband posts her nudes on Reddit on a throwaway which is linked in her update blew up on the r/Marriage sub got me thinking.

Q4Married Women: If you found this out, would you divorce over it? It just feels like a step too far for me. A big break of trust and I don’t believe couple’s therapy can fix that

KickAss2021 · 2022-01-30T02:47:51+00:00

All over Reddit, the argument and statement that you shouldn't even dare ask about partner count, but you can know about her medical history. What makes any one think that if she's being dishonest about her past, that she'll about her STD/veneral diseases?

IcarusKiki · 2022-01-30T01:55:58+00:00

have they permabanned atlas?

RegTextoffender · 2022-01-30T01:48:30+00:00

I sincerely hope /u/poppy_blu is ok. We didn't agree on a lot of things but I know how shitty she must feel right now.

HinduProphet · 2022-01-30T01:43:40+00:00

There is a hypothesis regarding why women like physically attractive men. It's called "The sexy son hypothesis". They want these men to impregnate them so that they can get a sexy son too and can then very easily spread their genes far and wide compared to women having unattractive sons or daughters (because daughters have limits to fertility).

This hypothesis makes, sense but "The sexy daughter" hypothesis actually makes even more sense. The hypothesis states that women chase attractive men because they want to give them sexy daughters who can easily bear children and survive childbirth. Since most men can easily impregnate women it doesn't actually make much difference if your son is ugly if he is successful enough. Whereas your daughter may die in childbirth despite being successful if she doesn't really have the genes to make it easier to have children (Broad Hips for example). This is also one of the explanations given by the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis. Less variation in women exist because their biology doesn't want them to be bad at childbirth, which just requires few changes in genes and traits. Another reason is the actual purpose why males exist in the first place and partheogenesis is not very common. Males exist to provide fitness against diseases and it would be actually daughters not sons who would make the most optimum utilization of the fitness genes given to her by her father since pregnancy requires more immunity and they pass off their antibodies to their children, which men cannot. Women also have better immunity anyways.

Also, considering the fact that attractive people are more likely to have daughters than sons, on average and attractive men have more daughters whereas wealthy men have more sons. This seems like a far more plausible hypothesis.

LalaTheSecond · 2022-01-30T01:23:57+00:00

What genre of movie should I watch?

bigmonsterbitch · 2022-01-30T00:19:38+00:00

Thoughts on being left on read

7SovarN · 2022-01-30T00:11:51+00:00

I felt red dead redemption 2 was the game I wanted to scratch that "open world western" game, but it had one flaw that broke immersion for me and made me stop playing (and it wasn't rockstars political commentary...). The day-night cycle was simply way too quick, they have a 1:1 irl second to in-game minute ratio, which means 60 seconds in real life is 60 minutes of in-game time. This would constantly break immersion: Ride to town from camp that takes 5 minutes irl? 5 hours have passed in-game. Go into a store and browse for 7 minutes irl? 7 hours passed in-game. Want to climb those rocks over there to catch the sunset? Took you 2 and a half minutes, so sunset is long gone and it's now middle of the night. Play a poker game for 20 minutes? That's your character sitting and playing a poker game for 20 hours straight.

In an open world game, especially a western where you want to really soak in the environment and "trot slowly into the sunset", this is pretty brutal on the immersion breaking, even kingdom come has a day-night cycle where 24 hours in-game is atleast 96 minutes irl, and even that is kinda quick.

The point of all this rambling is that I've actually found out you can mod rdr2, and there is a mod for adjusting the in-game time ratio! So I'm gonna try it and see if I can't get back to being a frontiersman/cowboy again.

Edit: Looked into it, I was wrong, it's actually 2 seconds per minute, so one hour i 120 seconds.

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-01-29T23:57:09+00:00

Update: I am drunk and gambling. And still have two hours until dinner 😭

madsskayyy · 2022-01-29T23:50:54+00:00

Update on my Bumbke BFF excursion: 15-16 matches, messaged all of them first because I am extroverted and women would let our match expire. 9 replied, 4 gave me their number and the rest are in the first few chats so haven’t asked for number yet. Looks like the only one I have texted so far on her cell wants to meet up tomorrow night😀

I kinda feel like a man with so few matches but I am pretty happy all of my matches are with other Swifties/engaged/taken women and we seem to have a lot in common.

I feel way more cautious about unmatching even though I can tell 2 of them aren’t a good fit for me as a friend so I am considering adding them on social media and seeing if we ever wanna hangout irl. I don’t wanna be mean and unmatch (I would do that to men tho lol).

Due-Rhubarb-2691 · 2022-01-29T23:42:22+00:00

It's so hard to share my crippling sense of romantic loneliness with close friends... The discussion very quickly devolves into "The right one will come along" "Once you stop looking-" "Everyone is lonely" and proceed to kiss their SO that they take for granted infront of me. Not a single person I've met who preaches the "Love yourself first" cliché has ever had to love themselves as a requirement to enter a relationship. Entering your late 20s with career success, money, being fit, really investing myself in my crafts like a monk in between expanding my friend group - Still being this utterly alone one begins to wonder if there's something wrong with them.

I've spent years really focusing on myself, meeting people, doing what I love etc. But after a while... You stop feeling real. You stop feeling like you can really share these things in a truly intimate way with anyone. As your friends around, the rich, the poor, alcoholics even, fall in love and come into intimacy with ease really starts to weigh on you psychologically. I've tried dating apps as well with even less success despite some female friends (Who supposedly are surprised I am perpetually rejected) to sort through my photos and edit my bio etc. I've been ghosted and or stood up over 15 times this year - Feeling now that I'm really not worthy of love and will never find it.

I can't bear seeing my friends cuddling anymore, it's too much of a mirror as to what I don't have and I can't take it anymore.

TheJim66 · 2022-01-29T22:58:16+00:00

My romantic heart is gonna be my downfall.

livs4dietdrpepper · 2022-01-29T22:49:16+00:00

Men really fucking amaze me

so this guy at work asked me out a few days ago, he’s notorious for being a misogynist and is just plain mean. He’s one of those guys that “high intelligence” means he can be a dick to everyone

Anyway I said no, and told him pretty much that in a nicer way, that I didn’t like the way he’s treated me and other women in the past

He sent me a novel long text about how it was all an act because he was insecure and that he loved how kind and sweet I was and I offered to text with him and see how it goes

Anyway I walk into work yesterday and see our boss (his good friend and mine as well) and he says this coworker told me you’re interested in him….I explained the situation and he says “wow that’s not what he told me, he said youre sexy, you were exactly his type physically but too dumb to ever make it work”

So yeah……he proceeds to text me last night all lovey dovey….I can’t deal with these men

Should I call him out?

SpicyRamenAddict · 2022-01-29T22:45:58+00:00

kinda wanna see naked and afraid with obese people. You think they could survive just not eating anything?

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-01-29T22:32:13+00:00

Does TRP have an aversion to alt girls?

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