Daily Community Chat Megathread

janedoebreakin · 2023-10-09T17:50:54+00:00

Does anyone still have a normal job these days? I think everyone who has moved onto my road the past three years is some sort of tech bro with an engineer or attorney wife. They all build huge bardominiums but I’m thankful I can’t see them through all the trees. None of them share values with the people who have lived here forever. My husband fixes tractors and I’m a nurse’s assistant. We’re just normal people trying to get by. I’m tired of people with tons of money complaining about not having enough.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-09T17:50:49+00:00

One meme I keep seeing on IG that makes me laugh is about parents finally having “McDonalds money” with their grandkids lol. All of a sudden Ice cream for dinner is also ok

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-09T17:50:13+00:00

The wedding I went to yesterday was pretty cool. Apparently the photographer came mad late, like 45 mins or so. He was supposed to come and take pics of them starting in the hotel but he didn’t show up until like 15 mins after they arrived and right before the ceremony started. They were furious but they looked nice.

I don’t like church so generally if I’m not in the bridal party I don’t go to that part I just show up to the reception but it’s my GF’s homegirl so I kinda had to go

Peacesquad · 2023-10-09T17:47:38+00:00

Q4Women: is it insecure for a man to workout and try to make more money to attract better quality women?

Peacesquad · 2023-10-09T17:47:14+00:00

Q4Men: is it insecure for a woman to wear makeup? Why or why not?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-09T17:44:08+00:00

I have been friend zoned in the past. I made it a point never to become close friends with a woman unless I seek a relationship with her. And if she doesn't I don't talk to her again.

Never been happier

Peacesquad · 2023-10-09T17:33:50+00:00

80/20. NAWALT. AWALT. NAMALT. AMALT. TINDER. DMs. Haircut? Showering? Patriarchy. Hypergamy. Men bad. Women good. N count. Z count. @ count. Tongue count. Kiss count. Women date up. Men are suffering. Taylor swift. Travis Kelce. War in the Middle East. Mahomes. Dildos. Batman. Toyota. iPhone 18 Pro Plus. Sex drive. Women don’t cheat. Men are dogs. Nike. Adidas. Cialis. Divorce. Men suck

What did I miss?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-09T17:17:19+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/172wowm/how_to_politely_tell_him_i_am_not_interested_in/?sort=confidence

I used to be the guy OP is describing, I thought I could make women fall in love with me because of my personality, treating to greetings every day and putting them on a pedestal. I had low SMV.

Thank God for TRP

Falling_fruit_234 · 2023-10-09T17:12:23+00:00

i know the 0.01% have their own clubs and stuff, but what about the top 5% of society. we need to band together and create our social groups rather than be grouped with the poors.

I'm talking people like me whose parents paid for college, gave them their first car or two, and gave at least 100k for the first house. I'm not designer clothes only and 100 million dollar multiple estates wealthy (my parents have 3 home totaling around 3 million), but I can afford nice things regularly.

like I can drop 30-50k/year to socialize with other richer people no problem (average yearly salary for someone in my city). 100k/year is a bit too high. I'm also in a MCOL city. there's just no clubs for the 5%ers.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-09T16:49:04+00:00

The New York Giants bring me depression and pain

DerayRevan · 2023-10-09T16:47:49+00:00

I love when guys say "Redpill didn't me get laid so it's useless"

When they forget that beta bluepill guys get laid all the time with attractive women

Why?

Because getting laid is not based on whatever pill you align with, getting laid is the typical money,looks,social skills requirement that a man must meet to gain opportunities with women from a certain age,class,race

You don't have to be redpilled for a woman to suck your dick, so when guys say this nonsense l already know they are full of shit and it's their autism that doesn't make them realize common sense

md8716 · 2023-10-09T16:45:25+00:00

So I have about 5 deal-breakers for dating a woman, if i were ever to be single again:

N > 7
any tattoos, visible or not
piercings other than ears
any history of abuse or mental health issues
kids

Having any of these means I'd never take you seriously. Like we can drink and fuck, but I'm not taking you along with me to go party in Ibiza or anything.

And without fail, the most controversial one was the no tats. Like people legitimately flip out when they hear that one, and I still don't know why.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-09T16:34:38+00:00

Finally gave in and cut my hair, im no longer all split ends. Its making me consider getting a hinge or bumble account to meet people.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-09T16:32:57+00:00

Most the RP advice is so fucking pathetic. I'd laugh my ass off at some guy who spent his 20s doing nothing but maxxing this that or the other.

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-09T16:27:30+00:00

When a meat eater goes out eating with their vegetarian friend, obviously the meat eater has to adapt to a degree to the other person's needs, and be considerate of them.

This is how women-men relationships work too, by and large, it's all about women's needs. The way men actually work, they need to forget about that, not only that, but pretend that they don't work the way they do, because women dislike that and they prefer to believe that's not actually real, only irrational evilness. Nah, men totally don't see women as the physical manifestation of beauty and bliss and one of the most motivating force on the planet, naaah.

I genuinely think that at this point, literally the only thing that could meaningfully help us advance is women caring a little bit more about this, like at least they should be able to let men know that they are aware that this is happening beneath the surface, men adapting to their ways. That's my goal in life, it's literally what I find most worthwhile and motivating, it's my biggest passion to find a way to communicate my experience to women in a way that would make them understand as much as possible, it's legit more important to me than actually finding someone or having sex, it makes me feel like I have a mission in life. Weird, isn't it?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-09T16:08:40+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/ChatGPT/comments/173nzyh/according_to_chatgpt_it_is_best_to_ask_people_for/

Haha ngl that was pretty funny

Willow-girl · 2023-10-09T16:03:12+00:00

I just loaded up a bunch of plants (a fern, huge coleus and a potted tree) to smuggle in to work this afternoon. I have more plants to bring in than I have room in this trailer so,,,,,,. I took some in last year and no one complained so I'm hoping I can pull it off again. Better to ask forgiveness than permission, right?!

I'll slip them in among the peace lilies and schleffleras in the lobby and hope no one notices.

crash-8-ball · 2023-10-09T15:39:45+00:00

I find the lives of feminist men so funny at times.

Getting married to a woman who is "The Breadwinner" saying how even if she has kids he will be the SAHD so his career isn't as important. Anyway she has a kid, and now she wants a year off to bond and is demanding he gets a new job/pay rise.

Like sorry bro, what was it you said last year?

Ots not actually funny, but having to listen to this garbage is annoying. Laughter is my cope, otherwise I would justwant to beat him round the head with a shovel for being such a chode.

onion_rings_addict · 2023-10-09T15:39:23+00:00

I'm glad I didn't die during my anxiety night

the sleeping pill knocked me off

woke up and cleaned my appartment

SlashCo80 · 2023-10-09T15:33:36+00:00

Women are always complaining about dudes being creepy and hitting on them, but the creepy dudes sometimes get results. The polite ones who wait for clear signals / back off when told no, will sleep alone comforted by the knowledge that they're the "good ones"; while the smirking bad boys who don't give a shit will be getting laid.

old_new_age · 2023-10-09T15:29:18+00:00

I don't know if it's ever a good idea to come to reddit for relationship advice. You're asking strangers with their own biases and hangups to evaluate the morality of yourself or your S/O based on a 10-paragraph or less blurb with a TL;DR at the end, and half the commenters are probably only reading the latter. Some people may have never had a bad encounter with a woman in their life and by default think the man is always the issue, others just got out of an abusive relationship with a woman and think your girlfriend communicating her needs is her being a bitch. Most people on this website don't step out of their comfortable solipsistic bubble. Just ask close family and friends for advice, they're truly the only opinions who matter

paper-skallion · 2023-10-09T15:25:27+00:00

It's surreal and humbling to see all of your friends who you knew as teenagers grow into themselves.

sine120 · 2023-10-09T15:20:57+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h9SufXfHPbg

This sub in a nutshell

afk_row · 2023-10-09T15:17:14+00:00

I used chatgpt to do my coding homework 😑 it’s actually really good at writing simple things

potoricco · 2023-10-09T14:42:01+00:00

Guys dbz_f got suspended I’m so sad

potoricco · 2023-10-09T14:40:27+00:00

Probably the worst combination in a guy are those straight rectangular glasses + thin mustache + acne + short hair

Ewww you look smart and not in a good way

keebydee · 2023-10-09T14:32:46+00:00

I find it funny that people tell men all the time "A girlfriend isn't gonna solve your problems. I'm sick of men wanting a mommy." But though some stories I see from women about their love lives are about men swooping in helping/fixing whatever troubles they got going on. Whether if it's a eating disorder, social anxiety, financial problems, abusive household, etc. Some dude is there to fix it. He doesn't even have to be in a relationship with her too! Haha, can't say the same about me though. Maybe dudes are looking at women and are wanting the same thing. Lol.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-09T14:16:59+00:00

Question for men with women friends: Your gf demands you stop talking to your women friends because she is afraid you'll cheat. She says you either do that or she leaves you. What do you do?

keebydee · 2023-10-09T14:16:26+00:00

Men, have you ever been approached by a woman before for a date/number/relationship, etc? 👁👁

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-09T14:11:16+00:00

Its not that women would rather be single than settle

They would rather be single, have casual sex than be in a relationship with bullshit

See, ladies. I understand

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-09T13:59:46+00:00

Hes not super attractive but hes a good looking guy. Always surprises me when guys like this struggle on apps

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-09T13:17:13+00:00

The belief that women are essentially children in adult bodies that are ruled by their emotions, whereas men are mature and logical. This is why men are the leaders in the relationships - because women cannot lead themselves.

based

Strong aversion to government programs, especially those that allegedly incentivize women to divorce men and break up the family unit

based

It’s pretty much impossible for a woman to be a “good woman” if she’s not religious or has slept with more than 5 men

cringe

Belief that women shouldn’t vote and that giving them this right was one of the worst things to ever happen to American society

based

Belief that birth control has been terrible for society

cringe

Frequently make fun of transgenders

based

Hatred of people with leftist politics (Biden, Trudeau, AOC, Beyoncé, almost every Hollywood actor) and love of strong, traditional, conservative men (Tate, Trump, Putin, Walsh, Kanye, Fuentes). Basically: Leftist = weak, conservative = strong

based

Frequent comments expressing hope for a second American civil war so we can get back to “the way things should be”

cringe

Women’s primary value comes from their ability to have children and take care of the home

cringe

Belief that society has gone downhill because we aren’t religious enough

cringe

crash-8-ball · 2023-10-09T13:15:10+00:00

I love the "men need to police each other" and "Men start wars".

Yes a war is normally duue to some men. However it comes across like we are all in some grand conspiracy and do it for shits and giggles.

All I can take from this, is we should of let Hitler kill more Jes so that WW2 could of been avvoided.

That way the toxic masculinity of WW2 could of been avoided.

Liek I say, wars are not men in a conspiracy. Its normally men priotecting their country, wiomen and children so that they can live.

Should the Ukraine of not fought back?

If men were not "Policing" or "Disagreeing" with what these men did, then they wouldn't goto war, they would just hand over the women and children and let themselves be killed.

Also "Women, don't need no man", "Women are not weak and don't need protecting", "Women can do anything a man can do but better". Well why havn't women won the fyucking WAR IN UKRAINE.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-09T13:14:18+00:00

I hate men like this. hes a social media grifter whos core audience is most likely women who have been jaded by ‘disappointing men’. This guy claims in this video that women being independent and taking care of themselves is a defense mechanism because current men today suck which keeps women in their “masculine energy”. The guy even talks like a woman, mentioning “masculine energy”. Im sure this guy gets tons of engagement on his social media posts since his content is cat nip for jaded women

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-09T13:09:38+00:00

Little throwback from the past.

I was 25 and in my last year of college (I was NEET from age 18 to 23 hence why I finished college late) and I was eating lunch at McDonald's with 4 classmates.

We were seating in front of the window, on those elevated chairs. As we were finishing eating, a couple in their early twenties pass by. Don't really remember how they looked, probably average looking. Anyway, the girl had a nice ass and ngl I was kinda starring.

Well the bf saw that I was starring and he instantly went into the McDonald's and confronted me. Something like "were you checking my gf ass?" (translated from my language).

Before I even had time to answer two of my classmates instantly got up and asked the guy if there was a problem. The dude didn't realize I wasn't eating alone and retrated REAL quickly lmao. My mates followed him outside a little bit as the guy was rushing out with his gf and then they let him go.

Anyway, that was an hilarious moment, but who knows what that moron would have done if I had been alone.

potoricco · 2023-10-09T13:09:06+00:00

We have to take the psat next week

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-09T12:57:38+00:00

So im at costco and I'm standing there with my friend eating the taquitos

Swear to god this random fat woman who doesnt work there comes up to us and says "you know you're only supposed to have one"

We immediately get more and eat them in front of her face

She then goes to her husband and is like nagging him and pointing at us like go do something lol

Why do you care about how much free costco shit we eat??

Willow-girl · 2023-10-09T12:51:34+00:00

Every winter I rediscover how much I hate being cold, lol.

nexkell · 2023-10-09T12:37:42+00:00

Men are the ones who need to regulate their emotions and make sure their emotions don't burden let alone upset women.

After all men should risk themselves to protect women as women are so weak and fragile, but women totally don't need men.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-09T12:24:18+00:00

Great video that explain why the results on dating app are so much different between men and women.

Of course for PPD users this is common knowledge, but you wouldn't believe the number of normies (mostly women let's be real) that have no idea about the reality of online dating.

When I was alone, my mom was unironically telling me to sign up to a website online to find a gf haha. That's the kind of video that is really good at explaining why it's almost pointless to do so for a below average or even average man without taking any side, just pure data.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-09T12:12:13+00:00

My favorite dounble standard that exist between men and women:

Women want men to be empathetic to women related problems and issues.

Yet women are NOT empatheticc to men for men related issue and problems.

"I'm not crazy, I'm just ahead of the curb".

crash-8-ball · 2023-10-09T12:12:00+00:00

Reddit closing down the Incel subs has definatley made Reddit better. Now instead of them being intheir own echo chamber which you could easily not enter they have infiltrated everywhere, polluting ALL the waters, being insufferable. The whole of Reddit is full of "Chad does not need to do that", constant "But the average man never gets a date" and "But that would mean leaving the basement Bro".

I hope those who wanted the Incel subs shutdown are celebrating their success and victory and how it has made Reddit such a better place.

WestCombSplit · 2023-10-09T12:05:56+00:00

The number of Men that think women and men can't be friends = to the number of Women that think men and women can't be friends

Plenty of women say they're okay with it and then somehow always want to be around when you're with the female friend

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-09T12:03:40+00:00

I feel like a n count around 2-5 at my age of 23 + and - 2 years is my cutoff for a potential relationship. Any women that has a body count high enough to have a starting lineup in any masculine team sport is going to be a no from me at this age. I think when I am 26 I will add +2 to those numbers and so on.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-09T11:51:17+00:00

It's crazy the number of men on reddit (and probably irl too) who either struggle a lot with dating or never even gave it a try. It really is an absurd number.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-09T11:42:43+00:00

I think women are horrible, horrible, HORRIBLE judges of character when it comes to people both in relationships and freindships. A woman is willing to overlook a lot of red flags for a guy she is reall yinto, and then will act surpised when he beats tf out of her after he had put 4 holes in the wall in a span of 2 months. IME i've known women to be friends with other women they absoloutely despise. Makes no sense.

I think men are better judges of character but are more likely to KNOWINGLY make bad deciisons while accepting the consequences. A good example would be having sex with a crazy chick or LizzoLite (TM) because horny and them dealing with the consequences after.

potoricco · 2023-10-09T11:39:30+00:00

It is 46 degrees outside

Novel-Tip-7570 · 2023-10-09T11:09:41+00:00

Have you guys noticed how they always use the women victims to showcase the violence of Hamas? It's because if they showed male victims nobody would care.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-09T10:57:39+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/chiangmai/s/i81JdGWbOW

Obvious trolling but 🤭 Loi Kroh road is legendary.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-09T10:42:22+00:00

Sorting through Amazon packages is actually mind numbing lol. Extremely repetitive. Better than customer service tho ngl

night-time_coffee · 2023-10-09T10:24:02+00:00

So there is considerable amount of posts on reddit about girls finding out that their bf’s are into red pill by checking their phones

Somehow the relationship is fine but when these women figure out this thing they tend to leave and dump their partners !! , like no offering any help or trying to understand why , just leave asap

I assume this is due the fact that they consider the pills consumers to be a big losers and they don’t want to be stuck with a one ….. not because these dudes are misogynistic ( i wonder if they really hate women ) cause they are capable of handling and keep the relationship healthy

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-09T03:08:12+00:00

Thirst

keebydee · 2023-10-09T03:09:20+00:00

Second 👁👁

okaybear2point0 · 2023-10-09T03:12:44+00:00

anyone watching worlds 👀

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-09T03:13:26+00:00

I’m thinking of adding a flair…

House Mom of misfit passport bros? Susie the hippie toe sucker’s friend? Retired high n count woman?

Any suggestions?

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-09T03:13:47+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/liazion/

wtf i love israel now ✡️✡️✡️

2023-10-09T03:23:01+00:00

why do people in reddit have a superiority complex?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-09T03:28:53+00:00

Anybody here know how to dance?

keebydee · 2023-10-09T03:40:34+00:00

I love how in the beginning of the daily thread everyone's all nice and friendly but then it goes to 0 - 100 with the arguments, depression rants and misandry/misogyny talk

HolidayWhile · 2023-10-09T03:40:56+00:00

Please make a compelling argument why dating is any better in cities full of avoidant city people than rural areas with a few people who are also avoidant.

inb4 numbers game

baiser_vole · 2023-10-09T03:54:08+00:00

I think I’m dating my boyfriend’s family. His mom gave me a necklace the last time we saw each other, and she gave me roses tonight. His brother gifted me a cat stuffed toy tonight.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-09T04:07:05+00:00

A pretty face makes an annoying woman in a movie or tv show so much more tolerable. A lot of the teen characters (usually played by legal aged early to mid 20s women pretending to be younger) who are meant to be annoying are tolerable.

But that Gravity movie was just too much. If they are going to have an annoying woman moping around and being in a vegetative state the entire time, she has to have a pretty face. I could not make it through the movie.

Slipthe · 2023-10-09T04:12:05+00:00

Every time there's a sex scene in Baldur's Gate, F12, F12, F12, F12.

old_new_age · 2023-10-09T04:24:38+00:00

my personality seems to be much more well-received by foreign women. is it still passport bro'ing if I'm not looking to take advantage of foreign women, but I just hate americans?

keebydee · 2023-10-09T04:26:04+00:00

Brother had mother's ex-boyfriend come by the house to pick him up to work out at the gym. Mother noticed his car from the Ring camera outside and now she's spiraling, ranting and texting me about all of the bad stuff he's done when she's on vacation right now specifically to heal from that stuff. God damn it, my fucking brother 😒

Puzzleheaded_Sign_46 · 2023-10-09T04:52:31+00:00

my boyfriend often says things that implies he thinks i don’t really like him/am not truly attracted to him. i think this is because i initially wasn’t interested in him, but then after a year i pursued him and we got together.

is there any way to shake him out of this feeling, i already compliment him and pursue him a lot still

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-10-09T05:39:42+00:00

CMV: If sex was truly a need, just as important as food and water, they how come you never see homeless men holding up signs asking for sex over food and water? Why are there no coochie banks but plenty of food banks?

onion_rings_addict · 2023-10-09T06:37:04+00:00

I'm probably the only person anxious about taking an anti anxiety pill

I've had the sensation that I'm about to have a stroke for a few hours now. It's like a restless sensation, I don't know how to describe it, nothing hurts, it's just a perception, like a filter, high heartrate, sweat

If I die someone will see all the BS I write here

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-09T08:01:47+00:00

honestly i have very little sympathy for women whose nudes get shared.

like if you share a photo with someone it's no longer yours, is it? you have no right to tell them what to do with it. if you don't want people sharing a photo then you shouldn't be sending it to them.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-09T08:53:41+00:00

Now that I've been hanging out on incel spaces. Do other people catch themselves thinking "oh yeah that guy might be a Chadlite or a high tier normie" in their head? Wtf lol

eye_fuck · 2023-10-09T09:09:51+00:00

one of THE dumbest takes on ppd, place known for dumb takes, is arguing with a straight face that needs can only be physical, necessary for bare survival. Like I actually think no one else in world thinks that beside certain ppd lunatics that try to argue more often than they try to think.

Its so bad that a single 3 sec google search and second paragraph of wiki page should be enough to shut this """discussion""" down, yet it still exist. This is a perfect example how bad the state of 'debate' and 'debaters' here.

Dusttyy · 2023-10-09T14:52:10+00:00

WFH today with the GF over, and I overheard the gossip on a call with her friends/coworkers. Normally I tune this stuff out, but I know too much background of what was discussed and couldn't help myself. We went out with most of them on Saturday night for a couples outing thing. One of her habitually single coworkers brought a guy, and he was the main topic.

They were absolutely gushing about him. From how good looking he is, to saying how he "kept staring at you, so he must really care and love you." This is definitely not the impression my GF and I had, confirmed by the faces we made at each other during said call. Yes, the guy is extremely good looking, but that's about all he had going for him. He was extremely quiet, but not in a shy/introverted/nervous way... he acted uninterested and very awkward. He refused to participate in conversations, even when asked questions directly. At first it was just one word responses, but eventually he became dismissive and rude. Nobody said anything about this.

To make matters worse, GF had told me some backstory. They have been sleeping together for a few months. She wants something more serious and longterm, but he refuses to go official for personal reasons. H says depression and a major career change, which ok, understandable... except he also agreed to be exclusive. She eventually found out he wasn't though, when he gave her an STD recently. GF speculates that's why he's started coming around recently and doing more relationship type stuff with her--trying to make it up to her and maybe she's giving him ultimatums about it too.

I know it's their lives, and I don't care how they choose to live... but they're clearly both looking for two completely different things and wasting each other's time. This isn't the first time she's brought a situationship out, and I've seen it go the other way too. I know looks and attraction are important, so I'm not necessarily bashing women here (because men definitely have their own double standards related to it)... but it's crazy to hear her friends punching this dude up while I've heard them ridicule far better dudes.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-09T18:11:48+00:00

Now, Q4A, our male standards/preferences in women shamed/ridiculed? Why or why not?

Peacesquad · 2023-10-09T18:12:18+00:00

Q4A, do most women know what men want/qualify for the man they want/know how to keep a man?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-09T18:18:52+00:00

BREAKING: Hamas says it is open to truce talks with Israel

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-10-09T18:20:32+00:00

I'm sad, I fucked up my romance with Astarion and now he's icing me out. I think its because I boned Gale in Act 2....but the internet said Astarion is poly! Turns out he's only poly for bear-man Halsin. 🤷‍♀

Oh well, at least I still have Minthara and her angry Minthussy.

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-09T18:25:44+00:00

Sometimes I leave no upper limit on dating apps to see what the weird ass old dudes who date women in their 20s are up to. It’s so funny to me when they waste their super likes or roses on me, cause I only match with men in my 20s

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-09T18:35:14+00:00

You know the saying "be your best self"?

I support women and want women to be their best self.

Unfortunately, fattie women don't prescribe to this philosophy. Being your best self means being healthy. Women being their best self would mean having a healthy (19-21 BMI) body. That is what women should be aiming for when trying to be their best self.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-09T18:41:04+00:00

How to be more personable and overall likeable from a first impression and onwards? I just can't figure it out.

cactusbeam777 · 2023-10-09T18:54:47+00:00

Part of the point of teaching young men that dating can get easier as they get older is like the "It Gets Better" campaign for lgbtq kids. It's crazy for guys who are struggling in their late teens or early 20s to be suicidal over being virgins. This is an example of men actually trying to help other men and give them advice and it's really cruel for women to call it a "cope" or an old man's fantasy and to try to keep these young guys trapped in a spiral of hopelessness. Labeling, othering, and deplatforming these guys just leads more of them to lose all hope and give up.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-10-09T19:01:43+00:00

What do you think about this situation?

So several years back I visited family in a different state and I was pretty involved in the local religious community. We went to the place of worship and played basketball and sports for a few hours at night. After we finished, a group of about 12 people went to Denny's to grab some food before we ended the day. This group was mostly made up of teens and young adults who are all men, except for one person who was in his 40's who has an established life. When we got our checks everyone basically payed for themselves. I lost respect for the elder in our party when he didn't step up to pay for the bill. In our culture it is his responsibility to step in and pay for everyone.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-09T19:03:42+00:00

The black p-ll unfortunately makes sense. Notice how almost every rich actor & singer is low body fat, with a defined jaw line and never bald. Its never about the talent in a lot of professions.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-09T19:11:05+00:00

I did yoga for 90 minutes today. Exercising is so fun. One thing I’m scared about growing old is losing my ability to move properly and long/hard enough to truly enjoy it. My godmother has serious problems with mobility, I seriously don’t understand how she’s able to survive through the day without being able to move her body well. She’s definitely a stronger person than I am.

onion_rings_addict · 2023-10-09T19:11:24+00:00

a few days ago there were 2 posts titled something like....

-male virgins are increasing

-most men are red pill

did none make the connection between the 2?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-09T19:16:29+00:00

"Amber Heard is asking for global humiliation"

-Johnny Depp.

Legend.

Gladboys · 2023-10-09T19:21:02+00:00

Sometimes the discussion on dating and relationships makes me want to rope but it’s definitely lit a fire under my ass in terms of my lifestyle.

There’s a 97% chance I die alone as a khhv but accepting that has shifted my focus onto trying to project all the love I have in my body onto my friends, family, and community while also cementing my decision to pursue a phd in hopes of contributing to research in fields of medical science so that one day peoples lives aren’t fucking rng

Kinda sucks that I couldn’t be happy and will die alone but if I’m lucky I’ll make the world a bit less cruel and have people at my funeral

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-10-09T19:23:06+00:00

Can someone explain what “everyone dies alone” means when it’s so obviously not true in the literal sense, and many people die in their sleep in their own home, or in a hospital not long after being visited by family?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-09T19:27:32+00:00

Isn't being a passport bro the ultimate bro move? Like you get your gf / wife from another country, making it easier for every other men in your country.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-09T19:41:38+00:00

Seggs

Peacesquad · 2023-10-09T19:42:05+00:00

What do you think happens after death? I’m 28 now and feel less mortal

dela_man14 · 2023-10-09T20:06:24+00:00

I’ve noticed the guys who rate women the harshest tend to be blackpill guys. I get that female entitlement is high but if these women are 5s and 6s then what rating does that make the average man? This is coming from a man mind you.

JumboJetz · 2023-10-09T20:43:07+00:00

Men are more forgiving about women’s shortcomings and seemingly desperate for women as I don’t think most put marriage front and centre. However, as a thought experiment if more men did evaluate a woman on wife standards you’ll quickly learn there hardly are any, anymore that measure up. So many women that are overweight and would be embarrassing to introduce to family, or who have severely flawed and annoying personalities.

However society seems to be doing the opposite with women in terms of “love yourself as you are and don’t change anything about yourself whatsoever” messages so this will basically not get better in our current climate.

Maffioze · 2023-10-09T20:44:58+00:00

I don't understand why men on this sub keep talking about overweight women. It'd such a boring topic honestly.

potoricco · 2023-10-09T20:47:09+00:00

Swifties really looked at her and said thats my queen

NoVisual1552 · 2023-10-09T20:52:03+00:00

Question for all of the insecure men: how do you like to be "comforted" by a partner, dating prospect etc? as in, what behaviours could help make it a better situation for everyone?

potoricco · 2023-10-09T20:52:27+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/lvwkogjjp8tb1.jpeg?width=2787&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ea456a5fd2a53494e8ca832735069bfb1a0775b1

I write in cursive now Bitchessss

potoricco · 2023-10-09T20:55:08+00:00

Capital-Passenger-82 · 2023-10-09T21:06:02+00:00

Most men do take "no" for an answer. It's completely overblown that women have this weird fear most guys will attack them over some rejection. It's on the same level as people believing women lying about rape is extremely common, touch grass people.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-09T21:13:54+00:00

Bitch, pleeeease. You must have a mental disease !

What I say if a woman gets out of control.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-09T21:16:10+00:00

my mom is gonna wring my neck if I don't get a boyfriend this year 😐😐😐 does anyone else get parent pressured to get a partner never see anyone complain about it

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-09T21:24:09+00:00

Yeah, bitch, I said what I said

grillopie · 2023-10-09T21:32:05+00:00

How much of a chad do you have to be to pull of pillow talk like this?

https://youtu.be/i9_f7RKQnDg?si=haP5piric_wiWh9N

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-09T21:37:27+00:00

Im considering creating something to donate to a free filmmaking related assets site, but I feel weird telling people about it. I get kinda embarrassed explaining the passion behind wanting to make it easier for people to create what they want. Is getting embarrassed over passions a common thing or is this another one of my unique neuroticisms?

Standard-Friend9770 · 2023-10-09T21:39:19+00:00

Nothing makes me more angry than irrational pricing on Facebook market place. Seeing a used speaker sell for as much as a brand new one, a used 6 year old phone for the price of a refurbished 3 year old phone, etc. Makes my blood boil, I don’t even want the items I just want to tell them they are dumb.

okaybear2point0 · 2023-10-09T21:45:31+00:00

How is alpha widow not a legitimate concern and classified as RP insecurity? I've been alpha widowed by my first gf. I've experienced it firsthand. Every girl I end up with from now on WILL be lesser.

potoricco · 2023-10-09T21:49:11+00:00

How do i get into music production I don’t know anything about music stuff but I want to make songs

scwizard · 2023-10-09T21:51:32+00:00

I've been casually dating a man who I thought was awesome. He drives for Uber on the weekends as his part-time job so we usually hang out during the week after I get off work. This past Saturday, he asked me if I wanted to come over. We had a great time cooking, watching movies, having sex, listening to music, and discussing possibly getting more serious.

Early Sunday morning as I got ready to go home, he asked me to Venmo him $100. I was puzzled and asked why. He replied "I didn't get to drive for Uber yesterday because you were here all day so you prevented me from making money. You need to make that up to me." I thought he was joking but he was dead serious!!

I told him I only had $120 to last me until my next payday at the end of the month, he completely switched up and started yelling at me, calling me names, and making me very uncomfortable. He was standing over me, crowding my space, and blocking me from leaving. Honestly, I was afraid that he would get violent so I decided to just give send the money and leave.

Oh lawdy the audacity to fuck a woman then demand she pay you. These guys live in an entirely different universe compared to virgins like me.

potoricco · 2023-10-09T21:51:34+00:00

Today is such a good day. I didn’t have practice today i for to be home by 3:00 did all my work now i have the rest of the day to slack off and not feel guilty/stressed. Is this how it feels

potoricco · 2023-10-09T21:52:04+00:00

Grrr are anyone else’s comments getting blocked say something if you can see thus

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-09T22:05:40+00:00

Go hit some high intensity shower training

business_explained · 2023-10-09T22:33:32+00:00

How do I make a new tinder account? I've upgraded all of my pics and I need the new account boost.

potoricco · 2023-10-09T22:35:35+00:00

WHY is my dad watching Facebook reels

business_explained · 2023-10-09T22:36:45+00:00

Guys I can do 6 push ups am I chad?

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-09T22:44:57+00:00

I might be evil. I love giving my kids a small piece of chocolate like a Hershey's kiss. I get to sit back and watch the dentist in their father silently panic as he watches it coating their little teeth. 🤣

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-09T22:48:08+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/173ugx9/blind_date/

Hahahahaha.

Capital-Passenger-82 · 2023-10-09T22:59:30+00:00

I seen a very interesting post about people saying sex is a need for humans like water or food. One of their arguments was, "you technically don't need to live" and I agree that's not a bad argument. If all men were stripped of their ability to have sex or didn't receive any sex ever again, or sexual pleasure there would be some serious issues. Technically people don't have to live. They simply live because they "want to" just as how people who "want to have sex". If we could strip way a person's ability to have sex they would 100% be against it.

scwizard · 2023-10-09T23:05:37+00:00

Oh man, I don't know what to tell you. A while ago I got into an argument with some guy on Reddit about needing to ask for consent to do things like choking. He told me that it's mainstream now and if a woman doesn't want it she needs to say so. That's terrifying. I feel awful for the people that are out there dating right now.

If I was a girl I'd probably be a virgin too lol

Dats scary.

business_explained · 2023-10-09T23:10:12+00:00

Jesus christ I saw some photos of me at an event and my hair is recessing so fucking much it's not even funny. My chin is also so bad. Need a sliding genio stat.

scwizard · 2023-10-09T23:14:33+00:00

Geeky/"uncool" men (who aren't incels) tend to be very feminist, in my experience.

This is true. It always makes me happy when guys like this find gfs.

scwizard · 2023-10-09T23:26:23+00:00

I don't really like sex. At best, it is boring, at worst, so painful I feel like dying. I still do it, because I feel like I got myself into a situation, and sex is what is expected of me. So I pretend I want it, I pretend I'm enjoying it, I pretend I'm able to have an orgasm, and not only one, multiple of them! I recently told my bf I didn't really feel comfortable having sex after the pregnancy scare (he does not know about the abortion. The abortion is only mine, no one else's), and he respects it, but he tell me I'm so lucky he still likes me. "You're so lucky to have me" he says. "No one else would put up with this" is what I hear.

I'd rather be someone who likes sex and doesn't get to have any, than someone who hates having sex but still does it out of a sense of obligation.

WestCombSplit · 2023-10-09T23:34:35+00:00

https://youtu.be/wSar7j_1MtM?si=8OM0RYVoPrL0W8Fj

The new Trans Conservative Vs Trans Liberals jubilee video is the cattiest middle ground video I've seen so far lol

potoricco · 2023-10-09T23:37:27+00:00

As a woman what is stopping you from dressing like this

The early 2010s were really peak omg

potoricco · 2023-10-09T23:38:58+00:00

Who remembers him though

potoricco · 2023-10-09T23:44:04+00:00

Damn why is asap rocky kinda cute though I don’t really like rappers but him omg

potoricco · 2023-10-09T23:45:50+00:00

Me vs ppd members though

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-09T23:49:48+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CyBRUKaLh0n/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Holy shit the nostalgia

scwizard · 2023-10-09T23:54:32+00:00

Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old men

Having talked to college aged women, what they want is to realize their dreams. If you're not gonna help them realize their dreams you're not important.

Although... Sometimes they get horny and weird about it. But that doesn't have anything to do with relationships usually.

potoricco · 2023-10-10T00:16:07+00:00

Which do you like more my tiktok or twitter posts

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-10-10T00:36:27+00:00

A lot of men here don’t understand that a relationship is more than sex and going to dinner and stuff. Attraction is only a small, small part of dating someone. Those that focus solely on that tend to be unhappy and jaded

onion_rings_addict · 2023-10-10T00:56:36+00:00

I'm in love

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/2TsUa2EQtw0

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-10T01:19:24+00:00

It's amazing how much my weight can vary depending on the phase of my cycle.

I can swing up to 10 lbs depending on the phase. Wild.

I haven't decided if I want to actually lose weight or not. I've just been tracking for data purposes.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-10T01:27:05+00:00

Nothing screams "slut" more than a tongue piercing.

md8716 · 2023-10-10T01:38:04+00:00

It's wild how people on the internet will get damn near personally offended if you express a completely benign dating preference that doesn't include them or the type of women they like.

Like you're not going to die alone if you narrow your pool from 2 million to 1 million. Jfc, people.

potoricco · 2023-10-10T01:44:40+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/science/s/k91UOIN5vh

America is so fucked, why not be like me and live life raw no drugs nothing

okaybear2point0 · 2023-10-10T01:50:26+00:00

A thing that makes honest debates here impossible is that lot of people have 0 backbone and will support a comment whose conclusion they agree with, even if the reasoning is wholly incorrect. When I see comments whose conclusions I agree with, I look at the reasoning and if I think it's a flawed argument, they don't get an argument.

The sides to this sub aren't RP vs BP. or Men vs Women. It's reason vs irrationality.

lolmastr13 · 2023-10-10T01:56:41+00:00

Simps ruin it for everyone

ThisBoringLife · 2023-10-10T02:19:05+00:00

Talked with an old dude today. Interesting thing he told me:

"I regret nothing that I've done, but I do regret the things I didn't do."

We talked nothing in regards to standard PPD topics, but I felt it does apply, especially to those who find themselves a bit stuck in place by doubts or fears.

potoricco · 2023-10-10T02:37:06+00:00

Is it just me or like. Whenever ppd has a specific female user they absolutely hate. I just know she’s a total genius

meteorness123 · 2023-10-10T02:44:07+00:00

A tender demeanor and a little shyness are extremely attractive traits in women.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-10T03:03:25+00:00

Some people be deleting your match because you didn't respond for two days. Im not ghosting you, I just got shit to do.

Old_Speed_7861 · 2023-10-10T18:53:49+00:00

Humor me this.

Women say that society should be changed so that women can become leaders in business and society and biology should change as always having men as default leaders.

Women on wanting taller they say it’s biology and evolution. You can’t change biology.

Capital-Passenger-82 · 2023-10-10T19:10:08+00:00

Who overestimates their physical attractiveness more? Men or women? If that 80/20 stat is true then most women must be very arrogant.

Capital-Passenger-82 · 2023-10-11T00:59:34+00:00

Racial dating preferences are racist. Just making that clear to everyone.

Iris38RhythO38 · 2023-10-21T20:53:42+00:00

IDK bout the 80/20 stat, but it's not fair to label it as arrogance. Everyone's got diff views of themselves. Maybe peeps just need more self-love and less comparison? Just IMO though.

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