Daily Community Chat Megathread

poppy_blu · 2022-09-18T23:25:45+00:00

It is so sad to see so many men here trying to make themselves feel relevant and like they matter in the world by constructing strawman arguments about how “everyone”’is shaming them for their preferences, for their lack of experience, etc.

“Why dOeZ wImMinZ shame me for wanting a virgin?” Just stop. No one here cares who you date. No one here even knows who you are.

It’s natural to want someone to care about you and take an interest in your life. But inserting yourself into disingenuously constituted narratives to prop yourself up as some kind of victimIzed martyr-hero does not mean you matter. What makes you matter is developing real connections with real people who will grow to care about you if you just give them a chance and stop preoccupying yourself with all of your perceived flaws.

Sorry but that’s the truth.

poppy_blu · 2022-09-19T11:49:01+00:00

So if you guys really believe that women have the upper hand in sex and dating, enabled by society, and that is an unacceptable injustice, what are you doing to fight that injustice?

You bitch about women monetizing male thirst but have you canceled your OF account and stopped watching porn?

You bitch about women having privilege on OLD but are you canceling tinder account?

You bitch about women expecting men to pay for dates but are you telling women you want to split the bill?

You bitch about women making you wait but do you cut those women loose and move on when you’re not getting what you want?

You bitch about feminism and policies that favor women but how many of you even vote?

You can’t complain about a system you are actively propping up because you don’t have the willpower to change yourself.

gastongang · 2022-09-19T04:15:54+00:00

people who say they don't want to do emotional labor should not be in relationships

MOTHERFUCKER THAT IS THE WHOLE POINT

Infinite_Signal90 · 2022-09-19T11:04:29+00:00

Just found out the guy I have a crush on is also autistic, and I’ve never been more relieved in my life lmao. I’ve been terrified thinking about all the stuff I’ve read on here, wondering how to be flirty and do all the subtle feminine shit I’m bad at…and now it’s like “oh never mind, you’re weird as fuck too, let’s just infodump together.”

poppy_blu · 2022-09-19T11:20:18+00:00

/u/cocobabeinnyc123 hit the nail on the head and come up with the slogan that clearly defines the male POV here — and I quote, “a man’s sex life is a woman’s responsibility.”

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-19T00:38:03+00:00

Personally, I've never seen a 30+ yr old guy dating a 19-22 yr old woman but there's a lot of 24+ yr olds dating guys in their 30s.

17milestoempty · 2022-09-19T11:32:32+00:00

I interestingly noticed that a lot of the married men on PPD describe themselves as being pretty average looking, most of them aren’t 6-figure earners, they seem like totally normal men with a realistic view of themselves.

A lot of the neurotic single men cry about how they’re average but make well over 6-figures, some have said they’re very fit and above average and still can’t find a woman etc.

So if you’re struggling, are you being dishonest about being below average? Are you lying/LARPING out of insecurity? How are these totally normal dudes who aren’t GigaChad happily married and you can’t even get a single swipe on Tinder?

Some if you really do need to take a look at your personality being a huge deterrent because I don’t even have to see what some of you look like to be like uhh yeah that’s not attractive.

poppy_blu · 2022-09-19T03:33:59+00:00

I love when men on PPD confirm in their own words they think men are basically weak and can’t succeed, with women or in life, without affirmative action.

Who are the real misandrists again. Rhetorical question.

seeet97 · 2022-09-19T09:52:23+00:00

You’re more likely to be left by your gf for being boring/nice than for cheating. Lol

urbangoth · 2022-09-18T22:16:24+00:00

I feel like a lot of men here project their preferred options rejecting them onto women; like the n-count convo. Men who care about n-count wouldn't even be a viable option for me; how am I supposed to be "rejected" by someone who's not even a real option, from my perspective?

Seems like they want it to be a bigger obstacle than it is. No woman I know has ever had an issue getting into a relationship due to her body count, a lot of men don't even ask. Relationships are overall easy for most women to find; doubly so if you're under 35. This is all anecdote, of course, but I'm not about to be concerned over the n-count boogeyman when it's not even something people can accurately assess.

AbuSharmootah · 2022-09-18T23:18:14+00:00

Lol imagine you worked your ass off in college, went to a cheap school to cut costs down, applied for hella scholarships, just for Uncle Sam to give your tax money to help pay Becky’s student loans, who graduated with her gender studies degree.

At least she’ll be able to teach Americans gender pronouns.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-09-19T07:06:07+00:00

The amount of people that thing this is a relationship advice sub is astounding.

Libah05 · 2022-09-19T10:39:13+00:00

Most messed up post I’ve read today. The responses are fucked as well.

1Here4Bach · 2022-09-19T12:23:59+00:00

Steps PPD males take to prove “women bad” using a study.

Step 1: choose what you want to accuse women of.

Step 2: Google what you want to accuse women and find a study. Briefly read the title and extract to see if it will benefit your argument.

Step 3: Make a detailed post on PPD about how woman bad and how the study you found but didn’t actually read or understand proves you right.

Step 4: Get absolutely destroyed in the comments of your post by people who actually read the study and used the study you posted against you.

Step 5: Find out the study actually proves you wrong.

Step 6: Realize you’re wrong but instead of admitting you’re wrong Double down and move the goal posts. Gaslight everyone and Say what you posted wasn’t actually what you meant.

Step 7: Realize no one is buying it.

Step 8: Delete post and pretend it never happen.

Step 9: repeat.

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-09-19T13:49:15+00:00

This week's PPD topic: justifying things

PuppyDontCare · 2022-09-20T00:04:28+00:00

The Chad guy isn't hot

The Chad guy is what men here think is what women want

DaoMark · 2022-09-19T21:05:09+00:00

Women raging against preferences and concerns men might have about sexual history, while at the same time refusing to date bisexual men who have gotten fucked by men, because they got fucked by men ( which is a concern for sexual history ), is one of the more hilarious things that I have seen recently.

It is some sort of meta-hypocrisy about what preferences are person is allowed to hold, or what preferences are legitimate

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-19T19:17:24+00:00

Jake Peralta is so hot

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-19T19:11:58+00:00

People who meet their spouses in college or between 18-21 are so lucky. You are probably very bluepilled if that happened to you.

DiligentProgresses · 2022-09-18T19:00:54+00:00

First

Leg lengthening surgery

It can take months to slowly lengthen the bones and for the legs to heal. Debiparshad told GQ: "There's a mental discipline that you have to have. It's like training for the marathon."

The doctor revealed that many of his patients are tech workers from big firms like Google, Amazon, Microsoft, and Meta.

Like fuck why not just pay a hooker at that point

Playful_Art_5364 · 2022-09-18T23:37:46+00:00

For Online Daters, Women Peak at 18 While Men Peak at 50, Study Finds.

Checkmate feminists.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-19T03:05:13+00:00

Here's a hot take : I don't think sex is the most important element in a long-term relationship and especially marriage . Not even close

AbuSharmootah · 2022-09-19T03:54:20+00:00

I lol’d when I saw a post on FDS or twoXX, I forgot which one it was, but it was about Cleopatra. Went something like this:

“Akshully, Cleopatra wasn’t beautiful, she was ugly as shit, but men couldn’t handle an ugly successful women so they painted her as good looking to overshadow her accomplishments.”

daniiiuiiil · 2022-09-19T05:15:23+00:00

Woman sitting on Reddit all day while hateposting about men and incels and personally attacking every commenter that disagrees with her, only joins communities of other toxic woman :

why do you even care, she’s not hurting anyone

Man sitting on Reddit all day while hateposting about woman and chads and personally attacking every commenter that disagrees with him, only joining communities of other toxic men :

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You've been permanently banned for violating Reddit's rule against promoting hate in the following content.

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DiligentProgresses · 2022-09-19T07:27:59+00:00

Men overestate n-count in surveys

Corollary: sexless is higher than the 1/3 reported

Libah05 · 2022-09-19T09:03:50+00:00

I date women, even though I’m not a woman myself. I’m essential looking for a quality which I don’t posses myself. Is that hypocrisy? Is that a double standard?

smallstarseeker · 2022-09-19T12:32:53+00:00

When women say they want a man to show more emotions, they express a need. They are not asking to be our psychotherapist, what they are asking is for us to comfort them.

Women are on average higher on neuroticism, anxiety. So when men act emotionally distant and closed because something is bothering them... like a car related problem. Women tend to think, "does he love me, did he found someone else, is he cheating on me?".

And she want's comfort. However she can't ask these things directly because it would make her look insecure, needy, neurotic... so she asks men to open up his feelings.

Everything would be much easier if women were able to properly communicate their emotional needs.

InfoVariety-8842 · 2022-09-19T13:43:21+00:00

This place is utterly saturated with people who ragequit OLD after getting no likes ever, I feel like that affects the tone of every discussion, and I don’t find it relatable at all. Are there any other men who do ok with OLD? I feel like I must be having some anomalous experience after reading this sub. I meet people whenever I have time. The people themselves are a mixed bag but that’s part of the game. I feel like it’s fine for what it is: a facilitator for meeting other single people.

Throwaway2165x · 2022-09-19T14:07:40+00:00

For men - Its really easy to find out a girls n count. Pretend to be cool and liberal about it, say stuff like "the past is the past" etc etc

Then get them drunk and ask.

It's called tequila lads, let's start using it to our advantage.

Willow-girl · 2022-09-18T21:13:50+00:00

Yinz keep a good thought for me! I have to venture back out into the yard to retrieve the mower I abandoned when I made a mad dash to the house screaming like a little girl. LOL

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-09-18T21:27:59+00:00

My friend came up with a good point asking me if its even feasible to find a good relationship off of an app. And I am not sure. I have seen it happen but feel like those people are compromising something.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-18T21:53:03+00:00

A really hot girl told me that she hasn't had sex in over a year. When asking her why as she could have sex whenever she wanted obviously, she responded that she doesn't see the necessity to sleep with every guy she finds hot.

Kind of cool tbh

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-18T23:20:49+00:00

Why is there no such thing as toxic femininity? Why only target masculinity? 🤔

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-19T02:07:55+00:00

I think your attractiveness peak has to do with the type of look you got going for yourself. Femboys peak late teens to early twenties. A more masculine man such as I (😎) I feel peaks mid thirties

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-09-19T04:58:22+00:00

Been sick both physically and mentally the last few days, but today I received Madonna's debut album on vinyl today in the mail. Little things like this give me a glimpse of hope in life.

seeet97 · 2022-09-19T05:46:13+00:00

A great way to filter for decent women is to check if she’s ever used online dating.

I’ve noticed that online dating seems to attract the shittiest of women. I get that they’re overwhelmed with male attention on the platform but it also does select for a certain character type.

I once went on a date with a woman (below average looking) I met in real life. I asked her if she’s ever been on tinder. She said yes because she wanted attention and to boost her self esteem. Whilst she was being introspective and honest she was also telling on herself. This same girl proceeded to disappear and appear in my life through “I was thinking of you” texts. I’ve never replied so I think she’s gotten the hint now.

I have many more anecdotes but a decent woman will never make a tinder profile. She’s probably dating someone she knows from her social group or class who spotted her potential. Only ugly/insane women use OLD.

seeet97 · 2022-09-19T09:53:39+00:00

Has anyone noticed how even women don’t seem to understand women. They lie to men, they lie to each other and they lie to themselves about what attracts them.

seeet97 · 2022-09-19T10:36:46+00:00

Why does it seem like everyone on reddit is poor, middle class, underemployed or an academic underachiever whilst simultaneously earning an average of $150-500k salary, staying in San Fran/New York and is really smart.

1Here4Bach · 2022-09-19T12:08:20+00:00

Now I see why South Korean women are abandoning the males.

chattanoogacat · 2022-09-19T13:15:28+00:00

At the supermarket, I overheard a woman say that a 35 year old man without children is a red flag.

Thoughts? I would go further into this but i don’t want this to be deleted for race talk.

seeet97 · 2022-09-19T14:04:11+00:00

CMV

Job hunting and dating are just as bad as each other

dealing with ghosting, shitty recruiters/prospects, saturated market, low ball salary offers, limited good jobs, often lame advice, needing experience to get experience, lunatics, loyalty is not rewarded etc

VirgoGoonfold · 2022-09-19T14:09:48+00:00

Do age gaps matter when it comes to casual sex? Fwb arrangements? If it's nothing serious, does it still matter that they are not on the same maturity level? I don't see why it would, but I'm curious what others think.

purplish_possum · 2022-09-19T14:15:04+00:00

Woke up this morning to discover last night's storm blew down a big old pine tree right across our driveway. It's chainsaw time again (at least if I want to go to work).

bzl33 · 2022-09-19T14:18:30+00:00

I can't believe the # of people who actually use the new Reddit interface. Every link should be old.reddit.com

LaloTwins · 2022-09-19T14:32:38+00:00

CMV Old reddit is hot garbage

Can't even do night mode

EulenWatcher · 2022-09-19T14:52:03+00:00

Do you have any relatives who you keep in touch with just in order not to stir the shit and cause some family drama? I really want to cut some people off, but I know they will go and complain to my mother about it and I don't want to upset her.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-18T19:12:31+00:00

Is it even possible to completely lose former friends out of sight like it used to be before social media and technology ? It's pretty easy to find someone today compared to the time of our parents and grandparents

Thus, another question arises : Do you think we will lose most of our former friendships as we get older like our parents and grandparents did ? (death aside).

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-09-18T19:49:31+00:00

What can a 21 yo guy who’s never kissed anyone before do to at least be somewhat decent at kissing when the first time comes?

Afraid she’ll notice how inexperienced I am.

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-18T20:09:54+00:00

Wanted to try on a dress and my head didn't fit through, I'm gonna join r/bigheadproblems

AbuSharmootah · 2022-09-18T20:32:18+00:00

My best friend (25m) had 2 18 year old women come on to him in the past couple of months and they both admitted they were virgins to him. I’d put them both at 5.5-6/10 TRM scale so it really does look like this new generation is having less sex. Unfortunately my friend will probably start their spiral on the CC since he’s a notorious pump and dumper.

LaloTwins · 2022-09-18T22:01:45+00:00

What rubs me wrong about women claiming that men can't open up about their feelings and that everything would be better if they just did is that women collectively (practically 100% of you yes) categorise men's feelings that don't serve them as simply male ego.

Every time.

Like they don't have quite obvious egos.

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-18T22:10:50+00:00

Long hair isn't more work than short hair. Yes, it takes longer to brush and you need to spend more money on shampoo, but you also rarely need to worry about cutting it and/or spend money to have it cut. Meanwhile, the shorter the hair, the more routine cutting is needed.

AbuSharmootah · 2022-09-18T22:45:48+00:00

Q4W: Do you think your man would still accept you if a video of you getting gangbanged in college leaked on the internet?

lostwanderer28 · 2022-09-18T23:29:09+00:00

I AM FREE

lulll · 2022-09-18T23:40:02+00:00

i love steve

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-09-18T23:55:20+00:00

You can be a good looking older guy but the best you can potentially look is in your 20s.

If you take care of yourself your prime as a man is in your 20s.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-18T23:56:18+00:00

Sexuality is way more than just biology.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-09-19T01:30:56+00:00

The amount of anger in that body count thread from women was fucking hilarious.

"Umm if this is your opinion then I think your hypocrisy is driven by your own bigotry and sexism."

Bro when are you going to realise that neither of those things matter in the real world? Being either one of these things will not negatively impact you.

gastongang · 2022-09-19T03:09:20+00:00

I've noticed that I often flip-flop between red pill (love isn't real, it's all biological hypergamy, they'll just cut and run when things get hard, women are ruined, the west is dead, enjoy the decline, women are liabilities just fuck bitches get money and don't care about love or relationships because it is all bullshit)

or white pill (yeah things suck now, but love is still out there somewhere, you will find that rare gem who will actually give you love and support without just constantly leeching off of you, the rare woman who you actually be a teammate who has your back),

and then I'll switch back to red pill(don't be delusional it's all fake, those women in your imagination are lies, you'll never find somebody like that, they're all evil and sociopathic, they'll just use until they're bored and then take everything from you, don't fall for there schemes),

and then white pill again (what about true love, starting a family being happy, etc) on and on and on in an infinite fucking loop

basically, I am on that two-face shit

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-09-19T03:38:47+00:00

Question for the ladies here- if you go on a date with a guy and you aren’t feeling him, is your normal move to ghost or to send an explanation that you weren’t feeling it?

I ask because I’ve gotten ghosted after 3 of the last 4 first dates I’ve been on (met all these women through online dating over the past few weeks). After going over all three of the dates in question, I genuinely don’t think I did anything creepy/offensive; the chemistry just wasn’t there (though I am autistic, so there might have been something I didn’t pick up on). Is the ghosting normal, or do I need to do some more detailed self-reflection?

seeet97 · 2022-09-19T05:33:52+00:00

Relationships should be relatively easy and fun. If they are hard in any way(especially in the beginning) that means they’re failing. You should have very little to work on and it’s ideal to find a partner with whom you just click from the get go.

edit: I forgot to add “what’s your opinion on this statement?”

gastongang · 2022-09-19T06:46:06+00:00

The one thing the elites will never tell you is that all the best anime waifu are men

https://imgur.com/a/ZiPPfSQ

dysonRing · 2022-09-19T07:23:42+00:00

The gender equivalent of a high n count woman is a man that dumpster dives or frequents escorts. Men get ick(but not me) and women get the same ick as well.

It is about the ease of sex. A stud that beds random attractive women above his level gets respect. A woman that also beds attractive women gets a high five from me as well.

Also the women that claim they are upfront about their promiscuity on the first date, I really doubt it because civilian women are terrified of rejection. You would not risk a dude rejecting you. I don't think you have it in you.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2022-09-19T10:59:32+00:00

I heard Tate was being investigated for human trafficking. Is that true or did I pick it up wrong? I’m too lazy to fact check it myself so hoping someone here can let me know.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-19T11:16:13+00:00

The women who put time or date limits on sex(5 date rule/marriage etc) it’s almost never worth it for the guy. Chances are you can find a chick who looks just as good who will give you the ass early if that’s what you are looking for.

Dudes out here waiting 2 months to have sex with a strong 6. Get outta here lol. Every girl I have ever had sex with was relatively quick with the exception of one who turned me down initially and we reconnected like 2 years later.

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-09-19T11:46:16+00:00

How important is it for couples to consummate their marriage on the night of the wedding?

What if their day was “super long and exhausting”?

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-19T12:15:48+00:00

What if 80% of men are actually sexless? What if the “couples” you see irl are fake? Maybe the average guy pays the girl to pretend to be his gf. Maybe only 20% of men are having sex and in relationships.

kljcfg · 2022-09-19T12:57:14+00:00

Is going to therapy cheating? How is it different from emotional cheating? are therapists to women as hookers are to men?

Bandit174 · 2022-09-19T14:16:06+00:00

PPD Women basically admitting that they got it easier, get to have their cake and eat it too and that AF/BB is accurate

Liberated_Asexual · 2022-09-19T19:04:08+00:00

/u/summerlily06

The fact that you think anyone bringing up net worth couldn't have overcame external obstacles and pressures is very fitting and telling for your own victimhood complex, which you unironically paid tens of thousands of dollars to get indoctrinated into.

I'm actually very curious what you overcame. I brought it up because I overcame poverty.

LaloTwins · 2022-09-19T18:54:22+00:00

Lol way more RPers than I thought would are having a go at me over this post

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Final_Philosopher663 · 2022-09-18T19:13:49+00:00

I have been thinking this for the past days and I really have no idea.

Who can be more dangerous to a woman a "Player" or an "Orbiter" ?

I can think of reasons both populations might believe will validate their behavior but I cant wrap my mind around which is more dangerous.

gastongang · 2022-09-18T19:17:16+00:00

LIMB LENGTHENING SURGERY: Orthopedic Surgeon Explains The Jack Hanma In A Nutshell Story

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tbn_hVaNDKE

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-18T19:34:47+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/@bubbatheboss

Ladies, if this man asked you out, would you go out with him?

Rate from 1 to 10 too

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-18T19:37:58+00:00

The fact that women age so badly is one of the greatest misfortunes of the human race. It sucks for men when we’re the better looking ones in the relationship. Check out r/over40 for pics of men and women. The men have aged way better than the women. This is what I notice irl too.

lulll · 2022-09-18T20:03:49+00:00

yea that shit is very feminine. that furry thing in the pot is ridiculous

Slipthe · 2022-09-18T20:45:56+00:00

What is your least favorite color?

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-18T20:54:19+00:00

Macbooks are so close to being the perfect laptop if only their keyboards would be a little bit better.

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2022-09-18T21:22:46+00:00

bosnia

Bandit174 · 2022-09-18T22:10:37+00:00

Tiktok guys ==== vine guys

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-09-18T23:40:57+00:00

Got a temp fade look good af, shaved off my facial hair, now idk wtf to think cause I’ve had facial hair for years and I barely recognize who I am

Even my daughter looked at me funny 😭

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-09-19T02:31:42+00:00

You need a reality check if seriously think a man's peak is at 50 lol.

lulll · 2022-09-19T02:52:45+00:00

ser criston cole the stacy widow

bighuddi · 2022-09-19T03:34:45+00:00

if i assume the girls i see on tinder want their male equivalent i should be sitting on a car flexing ~~shirtless~~ in formal wear with the shirt fully unbuttoned with a blonde girl on my arm flipping off the camera

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-19T03:49:04+00:00

Cristina Cole is acting like a fucking woman in this episode, never let yourself act like this dude if you’re a man

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-19T04:08:50+00:00

Shout out to Cleveland and Baltimore for blowing those leads today, won me a little bit of money on the spread lol

SeasonPositive6771 · 2022-09-19T07:22:55+00:00

Edit: deleted my comment about a random person tagging me in some stuff, it turns out they are someone who's not doing well. No need to mention it again.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-09-19T07:26:39+00:00

What if everyone in this world had the same n-count, regardless of how they obtained it. Would it even things out, or nah?

dbz19_kai · 2022-09-19T08:47:18+00:00

Thoughts on GTA VI having a playable female protagonist? I don't know about you, but having a woman as a psychopathic gangster running around shooting people doesn't carry as much oomph, but I think the driving over people and crazy driving part could work well with a female protag.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-09-19T09:42:38+00:00

ain't no way

annabeelongx · 2022-09-19T10:49:35+00:00

Q4M: How long should it take for a guy to ask you to be his gf?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-09-19T12:17:52+00:00

I want to eat enough bananas to become radioactive

2022-09-19T12:52:52+00:00

She is the best song harry styles

ririsbaby · 2022-09-19T12:58:18+00:00

What games do you have on your phone? I’m looking for something to kill time

Libah05 · 2022-09-19T14:39:33+00:00

I’ll never understand the men here trying to make the women understand their struggle. They won’t, and even if they did why should they care?

The only real advice you can give to the unsuccessful men here who struggle is: Looksmax and be very sociable. It’s really that simple.

kljcfg · 2022-09-19T18:46:47+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/xifwgn/comment/ip2ud4o/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

The poster down below is mad her potential mate didn't compliment her on her physical attributes. The comment I linked the woman is mad he complimented her physical appearance. This is why a man shouldn't care about a woman's opinion what he should he care about is his happiness alone..

chilikettlechips · 2022-09-19T18:44:54+00:00

Notice how some women that are not all women complain about the lack of attention and becoming invisible to men as they get older or post wall? Gotta realize more people get married and couple up so dating pool gets smaller. Or do these want men to cheat on their lovers on them? tisk tisk.

-mixedsignals · 2022-09-19T18:42:29+00:00

https://metropolisjapan.com/why-does-84-percent-of-women-in-japan-think-cheating-is-healthy/

It’s over for “just Asianmaxx” bros

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-19T18:41:04+00:00

Opinion that will enrage some people here:

Grey hair doesn't look good on a woman. Dye it.

MagicGal55 · 2022-09-19T18:30:13+00:00

I (F20) rejected a guy (M22) and he wants to know why; what reason should I give?

So a friend (M22) of mine (F20) asked me out; I knew it was coming and tried very hard to avoid the topic but he presisted - he is quite determined I will say. And yeah I turned him down and yeah he broke his heart.

I felt I had to hear him out now that the convo started; as walking away would be rude. He said I was everything he ever wanted in a partner. He said that he wanted someone "like him"; someone who is smart, ambitious, pursuing higher education in a high ranked university, is of good moral character, doesn't drink, etc; doesn't believe in sleeping around, and also likes kids and has an affinity for them. He said how I met all those things and he felt he did as well (which he did). He said how we got along so well (we did) and had enough things in common but also complemented each other. He said that I was among the kindest people I ever met and he couldn't help but falling in love with me.

Honestly I am flattered and love the kind words. However unfortunately I have 0 attraction to him other than as a friend. I would love to have a partner who is smart and has good more values yes but I would also need to be physically attracted to him and I just aren't. What I find interesting is that I am quite physically attractive (avg height, dirty blonde hair, white, good looks, polish heritage) and he didn't mention my looks at all - he really focused on how I was smart, of good character, and good with kids. Maybe that is how attraction works for him but like I said whil the first two are important, I need physical attraction and while I am into tall guys (which he is) I like guys who are more athletically built (he is more of a Dad bod) and I have a preference for white guys (and he's brown). I also would like a guy to have higher social status than myself and his is lower, both school wise and economically.

Anyway he wanted to know why I didn't feel the same. I told him I need to gather my thoughts and get back to him. I don't want to come off as a shallow elitist racist; how should I approch this?

bunnakay · 2022-09-19T18:24:51+00:00

Q4W: How many deprived sex acts do you refuse to do for your husband but you freely did them for other men?

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-19T18:17:29+00:00

No responsibility taken, the typical "I was young, naive and manipulated" that alotta females do lol, as far as Adam cheating on his wife, shame shame , M5 sucks anyways tho so idc lol

https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/xifwgn/woman_admits_to_year_long_affair_with_adam_levine/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-09-19T18:04:06+00:00

u/Lift_and_Lurk

https://www.reddit.com/r/collapse/comments/xi7mj0/weekly_observations_what_signs_of_collapse_do_you/ip2rq1t/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

Is it really that bad in Philly? I’m considering UPenn for med school, but I’m not so sure anymore.

Although, I did read it on a doomer sub, so lots of fatalism and catastrophizing goes on there.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-09-19T18:03:42+00:00

Ok, based on the discussion my comment a few minutes ago has inspired, I have another question. Would you gentlemen all mind posting a woman you consider "average"? Women, would you mind doing the same for men?

I'm talking the exact middle of the road here; 50% are more attractive, 50% are less.

RegTextoffender · 2022-09-19T17:53:18+00:00

The only thing the dems are running on right now seems to be abortion.

Come on, talk about your fabulous foreign policy, how great the economy is, how secure our boarders are, how you've fixed inflation by raising taxes! Be proud!

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-19T17:50:58+00:00

I can't fault people for shipping Rhaenyra and Daemon.

I always shipped Ellie and Joel from The Last of Us 🤷

smegma_enthusiast · 2022-09-19T17:46:41+00:00

It's crazy to see a post from one of the meyers briggs subreddits about what characters/people they identify as and they mention psychopaths and supervillians.

OMG I relate to Jeffrey Dahmer too! I guess all INTJs are alike.

Idk I'm more like the Joker LoL.

(Hyperbole but you get my point)

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-19T17:40:46+00:00

Are men who crave attention and validation from women low T? It’s definitely feminine behaviour. I’m not talking about wanting to be desired from a woman you like but he tiny attention from women writ large.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-19T17:28:17+00:00

The most insufferable people in society are woke people who excorciate others for racism despite living/socializing in majority non diverse areas.

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-19T17:26:13+00:00

Q4W Have you ever Stacey Widowed a guy?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-09-19T17:18:18+00:00

I was discussing this with some friends earlier, and I'm curious about you all's thoughts. In your view, do women who aren't conventionally attractive seem to have more sexual partners than women who are "higher value"?

meteorness123 · 2022-09-19T17:16:15+00:00

Dating is easy for over 80% of men.

Come at me.

Prestigious698 · 2022-09-19T17:14:23+00:00

I fucking hate how the man I was deeply obsessed with is finally giving excess attention now that I’m starting to move on and date another man. Life is so weird man. He doesn’t know I’m dating, or that I had a crush on him by the way—which makes it even weirder.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-09-18T19:27:09+00:00

I'm curious- do you all think a person who is cheating (or is considering cheating) is more likely to do it with a random stranger, or with someone they know?

seeet97 · 2022-09-19T09:55:55+00:00

I had a woman recently who couldn’t understand why I didn’t want to give her emotional support, always be there for her etc whilst she was fucking her emotionally distant boyfriend. I even tried to use the analogy of what if I just used her for sex and took another woman out on dates and supported her emotionally instead. She couldn’t understand how those were similar things. I told her she should be relying on her bf for all that shit and not me. Are all women this disingenuous?

Infinite_Signal90 · 2022-09-19T12:05:36+00:00

Why do you care if some people don’t agree with your preferences? What actual difference does it make?

Willow-girl · 2022-09-19T13:22:10+00:00

Hilarious (albeit sad) posts on the local forum here: https://www.reddit.com/r/pittsburgh/comments/xhi64d/introverted_40something_single/

Followup: https://www.reddit.com/r/pittsburgh/comments/xht8lv/so_did_uevening_attention_45_and_her_top_comment/

TL;DR: A 40-something woman (who frankly doesn't sound as if she has much of a personality) laments the fact she can't just meet interesting guys in the bar like she did in her 20s.

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-09-19T17:12:03+00:00

There’s a guy whose been a simp for me for years. Literally haven’t seen him since 2018. It’s flattering but I also think he should have more pride.

eye_fuck · 2022-09-19T17:10:46+00:00

Confess.

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-09-19T17:09:50+00:00

I’ve reported the same person who blocked me (coughlillithcough) for weeks now and nothing has happened smh

ririsbaby · 2022-09-19T17:09:06+00:00

Has this sub ever established what is considered a high and low n count? I feel like everyone here has its own definition of that

lulll · 2022-09-19T17:01:47+00:00

just twox things

kljcfg · 2022-09-19T16:53:51+00:00

Q4regulars: Is eulenwatcher alt of narniafox?

I_took_both_pill · 2022-09-19T16:50:10+00:00

How popular actually was Andrew Tate before the press focussed on him.

Just wondering as I had never heard of him until a week or so ago.

But I do generally find that if people are complaining about somebody, there must be some truth to what they say, otherwise why would they care.

I mean nobody complains about flat earthers?

How many of you had heard about him, before his free publicity?

FireCaesar23 · 2022-09-19T16:45:37+00:00

When a girl approaches a guy, is he most probably more attractive than her? Or probably looksmatched?

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-19T16:41:26+00:00

Look at the actor Frank Grillo. He’s 57 and looks great. That’s how I’ll age. He can date any woman in her 20s or 30s easily

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-19T16:36:23+00:00

It feels nice knowing that I have over 20 years left before I hit my peak as a man. I’ll be 50 and be at my peak. Nothing beats that. We men have all the time in the world.

TheRedDeadPill · 2022-09-19T16:16:43+00:00

Q4W: Now that he’s killed a woman how many of you still get your panties wet Matt Smith’s character on Game of Thrones?

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-09-19T16:15:39+00:00

It still baffles me when people think taking kids to strip clubs is normal.

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-09-19T16:08:20+00:00

Anybody else see their life as larger then themselves? Like if you don’t personally reproduce, you’ll be the only person in your direct lineage spanning back THOUSANDS of years to fail to do so.

Might as well suck it up and have babies with someone you’re lukewarm about. 60 or so years of discomfort is a drop in the bucket when compared to your DNA’s entire history.

teball3 · 2022-09-19T16:07:50+00:00

Man, why does the first leg day in a while hit so different? It’s been 3 days and I’m STILL sore.

-mixedsignals · 2022-09-19T16:05:54+00:00

Why does everyone assume women don't want or like casual sex?

I have so many female friends who are simply hooking up and get stressed if the guy sleeps over or shows feelings

dbz19_kai · 2022-09-19T16:05:08+00:00

Women say they can fuck a hundred guys and still marry a HVM who doesn’t care about N count but like, you look at the men that porn stars marry, and I’m not entirely convinced. Are these the HVM that don’t care about N count?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-09-19T15:53:24+00:00

I think being rich or famous literally excuses any male behavior or situation that women would have perceived as a red flag otherwise.

Regular 35 year old guy lives at home / red flag

Rich or Famous 35 year old lives at home/ perfectly fine

Regular approaches at a gym / creepy

Rich or famous guy approaches at the gym/ perfectly fine

Regular 35 year old never been married or doesn’t have kids / red flag

Rich or famous guy Doing the same / normal

LaloTwins · 2022-09-19T15:47:02+00:00

Wouldn't PPD women say this is being deceptive or something

kljcfg · 2022-09-19T15:44:11+00:00

I told an ugly girl one time that I was interested in personality and looks don't do it for me, after she accused me of hitting on her friend.

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-19T15:41:37+00:00

If you get your bitch stolen you should legally be allowed to force said bitch stealer to a gladiator fight between the two of you

totes-not-angels-fan · 2022-09-19T15:26:40+00:00

Strong empowered grown ass woman here

This is the most cringe thing I've read in a while!

LaloTwins · 2022-09-19T15:18:05+00:00

Q4W can you guys feel the inside of your vagina expand when you get aroused?

lewdakuma · 2022-09-18T19:00:47+00:00

first! :3c

gastongang · 2022-09-18T20:12:26+00:00

I have 15 spanish assignments due tonight, this shit is pissing me off

AbuSharmootah · 2022-09-18T21:53:17+00:00

Holy shit this guys Reddit account is a wild ride. From questioning if he should break up with his gf bc he wasn’t her first and he was a virgin, to HIV positive (check his later posts). Seems she probably lied about not being promiscuous. Tough.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/hruboh/how_to_get_over_the_fact_that_i_20m_wasnt_her_25f/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-18T22:31:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/CrazyFuckingVideos/comments/xgcdkl/man_brings_hatchet_to_a_fight_in_mcdonalds/

That guy’s girl is never getting wet for him again 😭. He just sat there and let that crazy mfer slap him around and then didn’t do nothing when that guy was scaring his girl. He got emasculated for life he’s gonna need to learn how to fight and then beat the fuck outta someone to regain some sense of masculinity

-mixedsignals · 2022-09-19T00:21:55+00:00

What does the RP think of Jordan Peterson crying so much all the time?

Do you see him as less manly?

meteorness123 · 2022-09-19T02:20:43+00:00

Rate this guy's sex appeal

https://i.ibb.co/C2X7ftN/say.jpg

Blame_the_Muse · 2022-09-19T03:16:06+00:00

The women here are brutal bitches but more honest than your average Western female

gastongang · 2022-09-19T03:54:12+00:00

woman who go around dumping dudes and hooking up with toxic exes, because there boyfriend is too "nice" and "boring" are fucking toddlers, your ass throws a strong healthy relationship for a quick fucking dopamine hit are you kidding me

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-19T04:12:32+00:00

And just a reminder gentleman, most female complaints to us should be what most attention is to women, ABUNDANT and MEANINGLESS , thank you for coming to the TED Talk

seeet97 · 2022-09-19T05:51:32+00:00

Don’t believe what the women in this sub tell you. In practicality low-n count/virgin women don’t mind a man with a high n-count. I know many players who have claimed multiple virginities. The women on this sub are an anomaly. Either that or what women say and what they do are 2 completely different thing (would you look at that). Feel free to keep the double standard my fellow men. You can have your cake and eat it.

Throwaway2165x · 2022-09-19T14:47:04+00:00

Women complain about not being safe and domestic violence and shit.

But I don't think we've ever been safer as a society.

I went out for dinner on Friday and saw a woman (Average height and skinny) covered in diamonds and expensive shit. I (or any man) could've knocked her out easily and made 20k minimum, but none of us did, not even the homeless guys that were around.

That's actually amazing to me, she was like the human equivalent of a gazelle and no lions attacked her. We've actually got a decent life when you think about it.

kljcfg · 2022-09-19T15:05:48+00:00

Hit on every woman you get , and when you get rejected come up with a creative reply that you know she is insecure of. She may have a big nose, be obese, have no ass or boobs. There are a lot of ways to be creative. your ego may be bruised but it is compensated by obliterating hers.

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