Daily Community Chat Megathread

DerayRevan · 2023-05-20T06:14:08+00:00

When a woman your trying to smash ends up calling you "bro" or "dude"

Wrap it up

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-20T04:05:30+00:00

https://www.thedailybeast.com/senate-candidate-ryan-dark-white-aka-jon-mcgreevey-admits-to-fabricating-sex-trafficking-story

Bruh men should be better than this don’t stoop to lying about grape

good_at_math_2 · 2023-05-20T04:04:40+00:00

Getting a relationship with a girl is 1000 times harder than getting a job. I don’t understand how people are posting on here without making at least 300k a year. Do that first then come back and post it is truly impossible to get a gf.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-20T03:51:11+00:00

One of my girls decided to surprise me and her roommate with dinner earlier tonight. Any haters got something like that?

MisterJose · 2023-05-20T03:08:17+00:00

I was just getting takeout from a local dessert place that's been there for years. The owner, a middle aged dude, never fails surround himself with basically the prettiest girls who apply for the job. You see the photos on the wall, year after year, of this dude and a dozen cute young women working on their summer break.

Having talked to several, some are/were in college, and some are still in high school. You couldn't tell which is which just by sight, and all of them are conventionally attractive. And it just makes me think...are we now down to calling this dude a pedophile for so obviously liking having cute girls under the age of 18 around him? Or does this situation not demonstrate the obvious: That it's perfectly normal and natural for a typical heterosexual guy to find all these girls conventionally attractive.

I have no evidence the owner does anything untoward, and I would be against it if he did, but if he just finds it nice to go about his day with cute girls to soft flirt with around him, is this a capital case? None of the girls seem like they hate the job, many seem to enjoy their fun and interaction with the owner and each other, and it's not likely this is their only work option.

I know I'm ranting, but seeing it in action earlier, it just struck me as such a natural, normal, and basically obvious piece of life and human existence that most everyone should intuitively understand...and yet there's the social justice stuff going around that wants to declare things about evil power differentials and predation and pedophilia onto it, and it's one of many life experiences that exposes how clearly stupid all that is.

basteandpilled · 2023-05-20T02:58:22+00:00

Imagine working a twelve hour shift delivering babies while six months pregnant yourself, then as you try to cycle home some cunt steals your ride. Then his cunt friends tape part of the interaction to make it look like you’re the thief. Then all the shitstains of the internet believe it because ~~woman bad~~ racisms!!! Then it turns out to be bullshit but most of aforementioned shitstains will never read the real story and if they do, they’ll never understand they believed it so easily because they hate women.

I hope she sues the absolute shit out of everyone involved.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-05-20T01:24:26+00:00

TRP: Attractive men are evil rapists

Feminism: All men are evil rapists

Normal people: Rapists are rapists

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-20T01:23:28+00:00

Fattie women should be shamed until they get to a healthy (19-21) BMI because they are causing global warming.

They carry unnecessary extra weight. This means they use more fossil fuels to transport themselves around. Elevators, cars, escalators, etc all use up more energy to move her unhealthy body around, emitting toxic molecules into the atmosphere.

Fatties also unnecessarily eat extra food. Creating the end product of food (the manufacturing, processing and transportation) again emits toxic molecules into the atmosphere.

Fattie women are harming the environment. Shame fatties to save the environment.

gat15 · 2023-05-20T01:14:45+00:00

Would you say it's okay for me to feel romantically repulsed by men who are actively attracted to ugly women or men that crush on girls too different to me?

I get normal people rationalizing this over and over and saying no one can have what they want 🙄, they are just "famous people"🙄. No way would I take someone that would choose someone else had they got a chance. The repulsion I feel over this is instantaneous.

potoricco · 2023-05-20T00:33:36+00:00

Why do you dislike Christian men?

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-20T00:22:29+00:00

Watching your coparent be silly and play with your children has to be one of the greatest experiences in life

scwizard · 2023-05-20T00:06:26+00:00

This rage bait piece is really something...

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-12095299/The-day-realised-husband-changed-locks-affair.html

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-20T00:03:56+00:00

One thing I learned so far from NoFap (collapse this now if you don't want to hear it) is that masturbation is kinda like keeping an unruly Grizzly Bear in your home but you pump it with enough sedatives to kinda endure its presence. It's super obnoxious when it's up and about, but you'll always have sedatives on hand

This exercise is teaching me that it's preferable to work on taming the Grizzly Bear and using it for your advantage. To no longer suffer at the hands of an unruly beast, but to conquer it and enrich your own life because of it.

Then again I'm just in day 4 so maybe this is a little dramatic

JiifuhTV · 2023-05-19T23:43:27+00:00

the dumbest online take of all time is

women’s sexuality is different to men’s

every women knows who they would/wouldn’t fuck in a room full of guys

BirdMedication · 2023-05-19T23:34:41+00:00

Actual insane takes from 2XC claiming the "bike Karen" was simply using her skin privilege to weaponize her tears, and that she somehow irresponsibly expressed a fear for her well-being because the men who were confronting her could have ended up like Emmett Till

Even a sub for women can't stand up for women smh

webernicke · 2023-05-19T23:22:00+00:00

The bartender looks like she's about to ask me out. Help.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-19T23:06:10+00:00

Ugly women don't exist. Just fat women.

Most women who self identify as "ugly" are just fat. If they weren't fat and were actually ugly, they would be gatekeeping ugliness away from fatties like "you're not ugly though. you're just fat. you can easily change that but us real uglies can't change being ugly". The fact that "ugly" women don't gatekeep means that most of them are fat themselves.

False_Cod_4747 · 2023-05-19T22:43:01+00:00

Obscure things you'd find attractive in the opposite sex:

Attractive females that coupon. Likely good with money and not afraid of being judged for it.

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-19T22:37:13+00:00

Dinner time!

Pork chops seasoned with garlic, sage, lemon, sea salt and black pepper, an arugula, sautéed mushroom, and grilled Lima bean salad, and baked sweet potato with cinnamon for me,

Same pork chops with crispy onion and potato pierogis, and cinnamon apple fries for Husband

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-19T22:25:51+00:00

Women should just avoid relationships with attractive men and ugly men, they’re all trash

Misandrist but inclusive? Are women turning against Chad?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-05-19T22:21:07+00:00

There are women who will tell you straight up it’s pay for play lol. Like there’s no blurred lines no innuendo etc.

You want me for the night? give me 200

Pay my car note/rent? You have me anytime you want

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-05-19T22:04:17+00:00

Wanted to get the opinion of the ladies here about a conversation I had recently. I was getting drinks with a couple female friends, and was describing a past hookup. This is a paraphrased portion of our talk:

Me: "So we get back to mine, we start watching a movie. It seemed like she was feeling me, so I asked if it was cool if I kissed her-

Girl 1: Wait, really? You do that?

Me: ...yes?

Girl 2: I would literally throw up if a guy did that on a date (this is a verbatim quote; Girl 1 seemed to agree with her sentiment).

So, my question for the gals here- is this viewpoint common, or are my friends just weird? Personally, I try to err on the side of caution (if you try to engage physically and she's not feeling it, you run the risk of being labeled "that guy" or worse), but I had never really thought that that sort of thing would be a turn-off.

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-05-19T22:01:37+00:00

CMV:

I’ll play along with the idea that men were lied to about looks mattering to women.

Let’s say that’s true and they found the truth.

What’s the anger about?

I think there’s 2 reasons -

Being nice for pussy is an easy ass threshold to meet, anyone can do that. They’re mad it takes more than that.

They still feels women shouldn’t desire attractive partners. Like we should be above that.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-19T21:42:22+00:00

Most constantly frustrating part for many men is a woman will show interest and bail last moment

She will say yes on Friday and no the next day

Or yes coming to your house for smashing but refuse last moment

This is why it's important to have more than one available for situations like this

GridReXX · 2023-05-19T21:38:04+00:00

I’m watching the Stalker docu-series on Netflix.

Very first episode the stalker (interviewing from jail) explains he was diagnosed with Pervasive Developmental Disorder as a young child. He said it’s part of the autism spectrum.

Interesting series. It’s sort of duh but everyone in these docs has a disorder or was raised terribly. Add testosterone to that mix and yeah fuckshit.

Edit: I don’t think being neurodivergent equals violence. I think lots of factors lead to lots of things.

potoricco · 2023-05-19T21:03:12+00:00

Question for all: is it weird to ask my mom to be my fitness coach this summer? Not fitness coach but I need to learn some new tumbling skills, especially a back handspring. As I would rather not break my neck, I need someone to spot me, but I have no one so is it weird if I ask my mom??? Reply

scwizard · 2023-05-19T21:02:56+00:00

That emotional affair I asked a million questions about? That we agreed to work past, on the condition of absolute honest transparency? That “just a friend” he cut ties with for the sake of saving our relationship years before we got engaged, that he only ever kissed once in a drunken night of her venting about her own divorce? That he chose to stop including in his life along with all the hidden screens and deleted texts and changed passcodes? That he honestly never texted again, and wholeheartedly devoted his attention to the emotional labor of making right and rebuilding trust?

Yeah so that was a fucking lie… they’d slept together multiple times, dated for something like 6-8 months, and he cheated on me, and then on her, and then on us both.

It's so crazy how guys will have pretty wives who are crazy about them and willing to forgive them for so much, and will still piss it all away.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-19T20:49:36+00:00

Q4F: Why y’all so mean to the men here?

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-05-19T20:49:31+00:00

Any stories of paternity fraud?

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-05-19T20:39:05+00:00

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False_Cod_4747 · 2023-05-19T20:26:21+00:00

Why do these types of stories (ex bullshit) seem to overwhelmingly skew to one gender ie. Females:

https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/13lv2zl/tifu_being_willing_to_do_anything_to_make_my_gf/

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-19T20:15:04+00:00

Fellas, where do you buy your t shirts from?

I'm looking for something that fits my form a bit better in the upper body area.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-05-19T20:05:57+00:00

Congrats to all the blackpillers, now the blackpill is basically main stream. I just seent a argument about women like nerdy guys, just not the ugly ones. I never heard of this discourse. They were saying how women like attractive nerdy guys

Congrats

Peacesquad · 2023-05-19T19:56:26+00:00

Women don’t owe you seggs!!

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-05-19T19:46:44+00:00

women's automatic in-group bias is remarkably stronger than men's

jobbo321 · 2023-05-19T19:40:48+00:00

The facial bone structure of Daniel Dae Kim (the boss in the I'M A SURGEON meme) is unreal. Best I've ever seen. Up there with Tom Cruise, Pierce Brosnan and Mad Mikkelsen

potoricco · 2023-05-19T19:03:56+00:00

So there was this very conventionally attractive guy in my PE class that left our school 3 months ago. He’s friends with another guy in class so today he FaceTimed him in class and our gym teacher saw and she went up and she was like “Awww come back 🥺 (his name)” “I really miss you 😢” and shit

It was incredibly weird to say the least … what’s with female teachers and boys these days man

teball3 · 2023-05-19T19:03:12+00:00

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AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-19T18:51:14+00:00

I don't get people who say a poor woman would have trouble marrying an upper middle class man.

As long as she's not fat and doesn't act trashy/ghetto (both things she has to actively do), she's easily above her competition. Just have a modest, pleasant personality. It's not hard to dress or do your makeup like an upper middle class women with all the content on the internet now. App dating provides her with thousands of matches and the men will stay for her.

The woman with no college degree who works a minimum wage job but is not fat, has a modest, pleasant personality and dresses decently well with the minimal makeup look would have absolutely no problem marrying a man who makes 6 figures.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-19T18:49:31+00:00

What did I miss

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-05-19T18:46:42+00:00

There's a direct correlation between the household income of the house a girl grew up in and the amount of times she says she's experienced 'harsh trauma'.

For all the talks of mental health and therapy, why do girls never seem to learn gratitude? Because for all the talks surrounding 'privilege', it definitely seems like some of the most privileged women lack even the slightest inkling of gratitude.

My estimation? It's just female nature to be in a perpetual state of bitching and moaning as long as the men in her respective community permit it.

potoricco · 2023-05-19T18:46:18+00:00

Hypothetical social experiment

What if there were 2 babies , a boy and a girl and raised them in a separated area like females only vs males only, and never inform them about the existence of the opposite gender

Then when they turn 18 expose them to the real world. I wonder how they would react, would they see the opposite gender as deformed men/women or is gender recognition innate in humans? Would they pursue relationships? Would they be gay or straight, how much of sexuality is determined by upbringing? nteresting but really messed up

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-19T18:38:08+00:00

idk but most of the women here are mean or just cold like most of what’s we say is just banter and y’all talk about like we’re dog shit or smt like we ain’t human beings

DerayRevan · 2023-05-19T18:33:44+00:00

"Why do you expect women to think like men"

I personally don't

Which is why l tend to have intellectual/interesting conversations with men

And sexual/romantic conversations with the women am attracted too

potoricco · 2023-05-19T18:24:17+00:00

A certain group: find a good man early, marry him, have kids young and don’t let yourself go and it doesn’t matter if you hit the wall

Also a certain group: Lmao 🤣 look at this married pregnant woman she hit the wall lmaooo women amirite

Men are the biggest advocates for feminism

potoricco · 2023-05-19T18:20:26+00:00

So I have been watching Indian and Jewish matchmaker and there are several obviously closeted gay men looking for female partners and I’m like why,, even if it’s against your culture it’s just not fair to you or your wife

DerayRevan · 2023-05-19T18:19:40+00:00

"Do you believe game works"

Yes especially for guys who don't have the physically attractiveness or money/status

DerayRevan · 2023-05-19T18:15:24+00:00

"Does it bother you when you see a 30+ women settle with a HVM"

How do we know his high value ?

Is he respected by his peers ?

Is he a valuable member of society ?

Can he generate enough resources ?

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-19T18:04:36+00:00

The women are too rude here

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-19T18:04:18+00:00

Is this woman too fat for casual sex? What about for dating?

https://youtube.com/shorts/a7wQyasfnPU?feature=share

Purplishpossum, you’re not allowed to answer

Comfortable-Box-19 · 2023-05-19T17:58:06+00:00

Children are economic burdens and resource black holes, avoiding family creation in your 20s is very good advice.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-19T12:05:33+00:00

Notice how pretty much all women refused to date men younger than them in the "your age range thread".

When you personally enforce women dating older men, then you can't really say shit about age gaps.

ohdiddly · 2023-05-19T10:33:40+00:00

Labiaplasty is a cringe surgery and we should be reassuring women that having larger labia is normal and common so they don’t feel the need to permanently alter their bodies like that

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2023-05-19T13:25:49+00:00

The stats show that casual sex for young people is on a sharp decline over the last 2 decades. Just accept the fact that you’re not going to have a lot of casual sex and start dating intentionally for marriage.

Women (especially attractive ones) are not interested in casual sex these days.

scwizard · 2023-05-19T13:43:25+00:00

I told my husband that he could never repay me for what I went through to bring our kids into the world. The experience/sacrifice/trauma and complete transformation that our bodies go through is too much.

Nothing he can do could ever come close, so as long as he is alive I will never take the goddamn trash out or change a light bulb, or the batteries in the fire alarms etc.... I just keep adding to the list hahhaaha

At what point does equality mean the husband does 100% of the housework and earns 100% of the income and the wife makes a couple of babies and gets pampered.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-19T16:57:09+00:00

The idea men created society for the benefit of men is absolute brain rut, men do not see each other as a collective like women see each other. The reason feminism exists is because women see their identity through their gender, men do not.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-05-19T10:11:11+00:00

How can men argue that men are the providers, the protectors, the leaders of the family when so many men abandon their pregnant wife’s/gfs and deny all responsibility

dishonouronmycow · 2023-05-19T12:58:58+00:00

I love going shopping and seeing all of the guys absolutely hating walking around every shop their girlfriend drags them to but doing it anyway because they love her.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-19T15:33:52+00:00

You know, maybe there's a difference between attempting to resolve your problems and letting your self destructive tendencies pick at old emotional scabs until it starts to bleed and hurt just enough to trick you into thinking you're making progress.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-05-19T11:58:00+00:00

Is it unrealistic to expect your FWB or Bootycall to be sexually exclusive to you? I only ask this cause there are so many people who claim to have this arrangement but their situation apparently has this agreement to not sleep with anyone else. Um ok lol. Like most people date while having their thing on the side. They then cut that person off once they become exclusive. I never had a FWB but I had a Bootycall in the past that was being courted by a guy while sleeping with me. She had him drop her off at my parents house when I was still living with them and told him it was to care for her sick grandma😆

After a month of that I get a “hey we gotta stop what we’re doing he’s a nice guy and wants me to be his GF”. I had to respect that, but I also can’t be mad at her for dating other people if I’m not gonna lock her down.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-19T12:43:18+00:00

I have come to realized that most guys here are sheltered suburban boys:

They have no clue about low income high crime neighborhoods.
They seem to think all men are perfect fathers and it's only women’s fault when the men are not.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-19T15:40:30+00:00

Being a member of some car related subreddits that usually lean mostly male, most of the time people just post their cars without them in the frame. Then the ladies post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/projectcar/comments/13lk43l/i_did_it_got_my_first_project_dont_know_where_to/

https://www.reddit.com/r/Miata/comments/xvxhes/bought_this_purple_mx5_na_from_the_wreckers_and/

DerayRevan · 2023-05-19T10:24:08+00:00

Most popular argument l see about younger women is that they are naive therefore easy to manipulate

If a young woman chooses to be with an older guy like myself and many other guys, how can that be manipulative ?

Generally l think many people forget about this part, this women are capable of choosing who they want to date or be in a relationship with them

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-19T14:23:51+00:00

Nobody talks about male sexual shame and it's so bizarre. Both men and women engage in shaming tactics, and for a gender that's expected to take the lead all the time, it can be very crippling.

I'd wager most incls have quite a lot of it.

Coolbreeze613 · 2023-05-19T13:04:17+00:00

A question for women.

What are some subtle non-verbal actions that you do to your man/partner for them to clue in, that your feeling frisky?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-19T13:30:19+00:00

The 2nd biggest reason the Manosphere will never be accepted in mainstream: The clear gender bias.

Unless the guy already has a sexist self-centered world view, it's easy to pick up on the manosphere’s views of “Women bad, men good”.

This is especially clear when talking about male criminals, deadbeat dads, and single moms.

Hence, this leads into reason number 3: Lack of personal responsibility.

Ironically, while whining about women never taking responsibility, they don’t ever want to acknowledge when men are just the problem. Male criminals? Just blame all their actions on single moms. Men not wanting to care for their own kids? Just blame it on society and women. Single moms who had to be single because the father was a danger to her and/or the kids? Berate her and yell that “Children need fathers” bullshit at her.

It doesn't work on guys who have been victimized by other guys, dealt with toxic fathers, and/or can just simply not have a gender bias.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-19T14:52:57+00:00

Next time one of these "something something opposite sex/gender" threads come up I got a good one.

As a guy the idea of wearing skin tight clothing as an outfit is fucking weird. As a base layer it make more sense but skin tight pants that go up your ass and a tight, form fitting shirt with a deep vneck? Nuh.

And women wear this on the regular and then complain about people staring.

potoricco · 2023-05-19T11:33:33+00:00

Has anyone seen the video of the pregnant woman allegedly stealing a bike? The response has been super fucked up. Witch hunts still exist

DerayRevan · 2023-05-19T13:26:14+00:00

I remember back in high-school, talking about how much sex should be involved in a relationship with my friend group

The introverted guys wanted it over 50% so 3-4x a week

While Shockley the more extroverted guys wanted it around 40% so 2x a week

Then my best friend said 95% and everyone was shocked, one of them said "what if she ain't in the mood" and he said he either gets multiple girls or tries putting her in the mood to have it that much with him

But to me it was surprising about the extroverted guys percentage since they usually interact/talk to women more than introverted guys expect my best friend he was more extroverted than pretty much all of us so least he knew what he talking about

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-05-19T15:12:59+00:00

So when is the actual red pill going to be debated rather then the black one and men’s rights activists.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-19T15:36:55+00:00

It's always funny watching this sub act like radical feminists. Lol

“You’re so privileged!”

“In so oppressed!”

“You don't know what its like!”

“We’re a reaction to sexism!”

“If one M&M was poisoned, would you eat it?!”

It's cute when they think I'm gonna take their “woe-is-me” talking points seriously. Lol

potoricco · 2023-05-19T16:33:18+00:00

I feel like if ah guy is skinny if he has body hair it looks so unhealthy

Cuz I read that when people have anorexia they start to grow more hair all over the body as their body’s last resort to keep them war

So if a skinny guy has body hair… it just looks sickly somehow

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Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-19T10:01:50+00:00

Phirst

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-05-19T12:28:25+00:00

Just a reminder women can break PPD rules while men get their post and comments removed for the smallest things.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-05-20T10:52:12+00:00

Why don't women stick to giving advices to women?

Men should be giving advices to men.

After all women cannot relate with male related issues as much as men can.

Men cannot relate with female related issues as a much as women can.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-19T16:29:59+00:00

I'm gonna get real bored of this place again if moderators are gonna keep acting like snowflakes and quietly remove comments. If you’re gonna go in a more boring approach, just have the fucking balls to say it. Damn.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-19T17:18:41+00:00

"Have you been to a bar before"

The female are acting weird and they just want you to leave them alone, even though l see them smash dudes behind bathrooms and outside

Chill place in general

samtheaccountant · 2023-05-19T17:38:51+00:00

So women say they highly value personality, emotional intelligence in a man they want. Fair enough, I get that. But then why are women on OLD ultra selective and the men who they swipe on happen to have the most handsome faces? Do women know something we don't? Are handsome faces correlated with high emotional intelligence and a good personality?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-19T10:28:48+00:00

If you’re single in middle age (man or woman) then there is something wrong with you that has gone too far to be fixable.

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