Daily Community Chat Megathread

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-14T00:10:58+00:00

Seems like people are taking forever to become adults these days. Not moving out of their parents’ homes til late 20s, not getting married til their early 30s, not having kids til their late 30s… it doesn’t seem good.

scwizard · 2023-08-13T20:57:50+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/15q43sc/should_i_be_concerned_that_my_girlfriend_said_we/

How come I don't meet girls who want me to take them to nice restaurants. I love taking people to nice restaurants. I'll even happily take my guy friends to sushi or something.

It's probably cause Austin is high CoL and lots of girls can already afford that.

I've taken this 40 something female former coworker of mine out to oyters and such when she was between jobs. She probably would have slept with me if I wanted to but she has grey hair which isn't my thing.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-13T20:53:35+00:00

One the most common complaints about Redpill that l never seem to understand, is how people will think it's just spinning plates or having sex with a bunch of women

And that's the PUA side

The other side is inner sexual dynamics

How men and women are different on a psychological,biological,evolutionary lvl

And once you've consumed all this you've to finally ask yourself this questions

how it influence your daily life ?

Do you encounter more negative or positive interactions with women ?

scwizard · 2023-08-13T20:52:24+00:00

If you're 20 and single and you want your future wife to be a virgin good for you.

If you're in your 30s and single and you want your future wife to be a virgin I have to ask, how old do you imagine she would be?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-13T20:25:26+00:00

Women being egalitarian when it suits them.

High N-count woman: Our sexual history doesn't matter, we are all the same.

Low N-count woman: I'm a lady ;)

DerayRevan · 2023-08-13T20:12:03+00:00

"The nofap thing is so fucking dumb"

Been saying that since forever

But reason why l think it's so dumb is because your fighting your mammal instinct as a man by applying this moral rule

And reason why l say it's moral is because many guys think there's something wrong with them if they don't do this

Your Ideology telling you this is how you should be as a guy

Now l could honestly care less if you do no-fap or not, l never even attempted to do it since l can control how much porn l need to consume for my mental health

And many of this no-fap guys will do nothing from making sure they stay away from porn, they'll say am not watching it for a month and be in bed all day on social media where at any moment they encounter a beautiful chick to causes them to relapse

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-13T19:48:38+00:00

Some people are like, "I just feel so guilty because my reasons for losing weight are vain". Like bro that's a normal reason to lose weight. Looking good is the only reason I ever wanted to lose weight, I could give a crap about being healthy. Am I really supposed to feel bad about that?

mummydontknow · 2023-08-13T19:36:06+00:00

Does anyone still know how to spell multi-syllable words? At this point I type whatever is close enough and let my phone auto-correct it.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-13T19:28:40+00:00

Q4 the boys :

Do you identify more with the warrior archetype or the intellectual type ?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-13T19:16:53+00:00

I am glad watch “what thwy do not what they say” isn’t that popular here anymore because guys don’t believe that here when it comes to things that make guys look bad and women look good.

Allegedly women say they only tall hot guys, but who cares when stats show most guys get laid despite being below 6 feet and are ugly?

Also, guys whining that they’re considered asshole. Well, if you’re acting like an asshole and doing asshole things like whining about the friend zone and that your friendships mean nothing because your dick’s not wet, why are you shocked you’re being villainized?

scwizard · 2023-08-13T19:14:33+00:00

Jenny said Zack wanted to meet up in the hotel for some kisses

scwizard · 2023-08-13T19:07:36+00:00

"We didn't meet until after she was divorced"

"We met but we didn't talk"

"We talked but we didn't kiss"

"Ok maybe we kissed but it didn't go further than that"

Dude just shut the fuck up. How am I supposed to hang around you if you won't tell the fucking truth.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-13T19:05:24+00:00

Most RP grifters leave out the fact that you need both AF and BB to keep a woman. The AF side has to take a break for a bit when you have a newborn.

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-13T18:54:56+00:00

chicken francese with some linguine(with cheese) is such a great dish

NJFlowerchild · 2023-08-13T18:54:52+00:00

Sunday brunch dates are the best.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-13T18:42:35+00:00

Honestly a good starting point for men to attract women is knowing the fundamentals why they even interact with men in the first place which is

Attention+Fun

That's why they go to parties for fun and socializing if they are in groups they don't want guys around since they already have the attention provided by their friends

Attention is rejecting you while they simultaneously offer a friendship or making guys jump through hoops for the possibility of sex

And all this behavior starts from when they are underage

potoricco · 2023-08-13T18:39:53+00:00

One stereotype that actually is true about women is disgusting bathrooms

I was at a theme park yesterday and when I went to change. Omg. the bathroom was basically a sewer. It was humid, hot, everywhere was wet, it actually stank like shit(and there was shit), there were used baby diapers and menstrual products, hair, just fucking nasty

I even went home wearing a wet swim suit because I just absolutely refused to go in there again. then cleaned my bathroom thoroughly .

tendrils87 · 2023-08-13T18:39:25+00:00

The nofap thing is so fucking dumb. Imagine trying to navigate life with ZERO post nut clarity. This is how these losers get trapped. I’ve figured out that I didn’t actually like a woman only after having sex because I was subconsciously think with my dick. Those guys will never have that.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-08-13T18:30:21+00:00

How do women actually stand to settle for men they aren't even attracted to? Like can you imagine living with someone you don't wanna fuck constantly nag you for sex and throw temper tantrums when you don't give in?

Sounds exhausting I'd rather be single.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-13T18:23:20+00:00

One of the things they never warn you about age gap relationships is that there will be jockeying for position over control over the musical selection. My beloved is currently listening to Christopher Cross. Just why.

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WilliamWyattD · 2023-08-12T20:02:58+00:00

potoricco · 2023-08-12T20:03:07+00:00

First

potoricco · 2023-08-12T20:03:12+00:00

Who missed me

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-12T20:12:37+00:00

Some more 'harsh truths' pertaining to men to balance things out:

- Many men try to lock down women all the time after casual sex

- Many men get emotional when a woman won't settle down with him

- Many men get 'stacy widowed'

- Many men will upgrade their woman when/if the opportunity presents itself

- Many men monkey branch

- Many men want to settle down and don't want to spend years chasing casual sex

Life becomes a lot easier when we stop treating each other like foreign objects, and just realize that we all want the best we can get.

If we can do that, then I think we can begin to have some very productive conversations.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-12T20:15:23+00:00

PPD men: lol women have higher use of antidepressants and that's why they're not truly happy single and that's why they're crazier than men and that's why they're bad

Also PPD men: mUh MaLe SuIcIde RaTe!!! This is why men need help, this is why we're suffering, this is why we clearly have it worse than women!

So... we actually get help and treatment for our issues, and you hold that up as an example of why we're more mentally ill and not actually happy single

And then you guys actually kill yourselves over it instead of getting help and that's supposed to be better somehow but also worse depending on which argument you're making.

I mean, at least you're not using antidepressants 🙄 suicide is definitely the better choice there.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-12T20:31:14+00:00

I don't why everyone wants to make a big sympathetic issue of men not finding any success when instead we of acknowledging dating has always been a competition

Many men are gonna get laid and many won't

I have too many times l wanted a woman but instead got rejected because she was already taken and it happened constantly throughout my life since l was young

And that's normal since dude had his opportunity before me

And l also had many opportunities before other guys

Am not saying always think of it as a competition but to some extent you've if you want the best results

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-12T20:34:23+00:00

https://redd.it/15omv1x

How DARE her Dad mansplain empathy to her! She is a living definition of empathy and her comments show it!

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-12T20:35:02+00:00

The new hot topic amongst Reddit women is how calling grown women “girls” is belittling and I just… don’t see it that way. I call myself girl and woman interchangeably. I don’t think guys are trying to be condescending when they say that. I asked my friends how they felt and 4/6 said they call themselves girls too, the 2 that felt like women are mothers so didn’t feel girl was appropriate. Obviously at work or the doctors or something it’s not appropriate to refer to me as girl but generally girl is fine with me. I sometimes call guys my age boys too. It’s looking for something to be annoyed with tbh

Dapper_Level2915 · 2023-08-12T20:35:16+00:00

If men did the stuff women do, I could cut someone off in traffic, brake check them and get out of the car screaming, and call them a misandrist if they don't react positively LOL

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-12T20:36:40+00:00

Question for men:

What are your thoughts on self care? What is your favorite form of self care?

John_Oakman · 2023-08-12T20:45:24+00:00

The fear of being forced/resorting to eating bugs is still overly optimistic: chances are those bugs will end up becoming expensive delicacies much like the evolution of various shellfish (from prisoners' food so bad that they actually rioted over it to Red Lobster*).

*yes I know red Lobster is considered to be trashy by most of the socially middle class folks here but for most of the general population it's on the higher end of restaurants they'll ever visit in their lifetimes.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-12T20:45:52+00:00

The majority of men here and on APD are bitter against women and don’t like most women.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-12T20:48:57+00:00

Mojo Dojo Casa House

It’s wild that movie became a culture war battle ground.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-12T20:50:11+00:00

"Men's associations and organizations will begin to emerge and strengthen again. Male places, male activities. When men spend time together doing activities they enjoy and there are no women around, men don't miss romantic relationships so much. But as soon as women penetrate the male space, the energy of the space and the focus of the men simply change"

Thank you, this by been the best answer in that Q4M post

huhwhatokok · 2023-08-12T21:22:20+00:00

Idk every year I lean more and more right I can’t help it a lot of it makes sense. Oregon decriminalized all drugs now Portland is a hell hole with homeless and drug addicts. New York and Chicago just lets violent criminals out the same day because of their bond policy.

Even all the legal immigrants I’ve met living in South Florida from Cuba, Venezuela, and Colombia are hard core right and super smart guys.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-12T21:27:03+00:00

Child support is still infinitely more fair than people who didn’t stick their dick in crazy having to pay for it over taxes.

Gust-Of · 2023-08-12T21:27:50+00:00

When do we grow out of the colored pills phase?

I just want a stable relationship built on trust.

armpitpics · 2023-08-12T21:45:15+00:00

I feel bad for Scandinavian people. It's not only cold over there, but their people are forced to live in a penis-shaped peninsula with saggy balls.

houstongradengineer · 2023-08-12T21:49:29+00:00

this is why it's bad to string people along and to sleep with people you know you don't really care for.

This dude's ex would be a lot more willing to work with him if he didn't lie to her. If he actually took his time WITH THE RIGHT PERSON, OOP would not even be pregnant. If he took his time, he wouldn't have rushed into a proposal so soon in a way that would complicate things. But no, men can never be accountable.

And OOP is really nice not to hit this dude with child support to the max.

NotMattDamien · 2023-08-12T21:57:01+00:00

I think I find the answer for women when they say body Count dosen’t matter. What if the guy you like and are seeing had past consensual gay sex experiences or sucked dicks before getting together but claims the past doesn’t matter. Women would that bother you? If it does I think that’s the closest ick to when men learn about high body count past for women. Thought?

Justice-social555 · 2023-08-12T21:58:51+00:00

Women who are willing to do household work in this day and age are high quality women. I know this will offend a lot of people, but the truth has to be said. Too many women are looking for daddies who'd be fathering them instead of looking for a good man to be a teammate with.

scwizard · 2023-08-12T22:08:39+00:00

This one girl I've met during church stuff is pregnant her second baby with her second baby daddy at 19.

Last I chatted with her she was in between relationships and she was saying boys were literally the worst and she wouldn't do that again.

I asked her younger sister what happened and she shrugged and said "she's a teenage girl."

scwizard · 2023-08-12T22:14:31+00:00

I'm fine with a girl that has a "body count"

The question is what view she has of her past. Maybe she's like "yeah I did a lot of coke and fucked some drug dealers but I've been sober now for 3 years."

I think someone like that could still be wife material.

Justice-social555 · 2023-08-12T22:18:30+00:00

I feel like a lot of people use this sub to vent, as if to say "yes, I know what you're saying is an unfortunately fact of life, but I'll still deny it aggressively as this is the only place for me to do so."

scwizard · 2023-08-12T22:22:27+00:00

I don't get why so many of y'all want a virgin wife.

It's fine to want that when you're 20, and you're taking that gamble together that both of you won't grow up into different people. But once you're older, if you have someone with no experience like that, it's a huge risk that once they're married and such they're like "this sucks I wanna be single and free."

If someone's already been single and free and wants to get married now wouldn't you think they'd be more likely to stick with that?

xxxMisogenes · 2023-08-12T22:27:33+00:00

If they can't support the child then the other parent gets the child And thanks for its upcube, or the child should go up for adoption

xxxMisogenes · 2023-08-12T22:28:47+00:00

I have answered elsewhere but the custodial family should pay the child support Or you award the child to the parent that can afford it

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-12T22:37:30+00:00

Did anyone else notice how the weekend brings the more depressing posts here like

Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attention

I just feel lucky I'm able to understand the concept of friendship

Gust-Of · 2023-08-12T22:38:07+00:00

What is an opinion here that both men and women will crucify you for?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-12T22:40:16+00:00

"This is somewhat right, although I think that a good looking boring good guy, could get some interest from women. However, looks aren't the only thing that women can be attracted to, and if a man isn't high-quality in the looks department then he is going to have to be confident, charismatic or interesting in some way to trigger women's sense of hypergamy. Women don't usually get attracted to men just for existing, unlike men with women"

Ahhh l've been saying for over six months now and it should be common sense by now

Expect for the existing part because only high-status want to be fucked for just existing

blebbyroo · 2023-08-12T22:41:15+00:00

one of saddest thing I regularly hear from married men is that putting in the time to do forplay during sex takes too Long and they get disinterested in sex if they have to have forplay for 20 minutes before they can pound her for 1-3 minutes.

Then they have the audacity to Tell me “nah she’s fine with it” or “she says it’s ok”

Like dude if a woman says it’s ok it doesn’t mean it’s ok it means she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. And men wonder why their wives say “I’m tired/I have a headache” and why they only have sex once a month. I literally have to explain this to them. And explain that if the woman isn’t enjoying sex it’s like what is the point.

AngeCruelle · 2023-08-12T22:47:16+00:00

To no one in particular:

Thank you, I appreciate your sweet sentiments. As a general rule I don't answer DM's from men so I'll just express my gratitude here.

xxxMisogenes · 2023-08-12T22:49:49+00:00

Not getting pregnant or getting pregnant is the woman's prerogative

GoalPsychological719 · 2023-08-12T23:03:33+00:00

I think my episode is over now so no more deranged comments from me for a while👍

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-12T23:08:52+00:00

I am babysitting my granddog while Girlchild goes to Outside Lands. Gonna take him to the river, give him lots of treats, and send him home spoiled rotten just like a real grandchild.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-12T23:12:47+00:00

https://youtu.be/WyKhl4zSUSQ?si=ou6RlxfppPgcXcxt

Thank you my psychologist friend

Cannot get more reality-based than this

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-12T23:27:08+00:00

guys here be like "the horoscope is for low iq women, I know this because I'm a Sigma male"

potoricco · 2023-08-12T23:36:35+00:00

Touched grass today

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-12T23:37:56+00:00

Girl math will basically make our wedding free. 😆

It's insane how many little costs there are in the process. There are so many decisions and factors. Grateful for girl math to make it more bearable.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-08-12T23:56:42+00:00

Balles

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-08-12T23:57:14+00:00

I hate the question “what do you bring to the table”. It is flawed for a number of reasons, the main one being that it ignores the fact that in order for the table to be there, it already needs to have a foundation.

Meaning in order for there to be a even talk to bringing anything, we as a couple need to already have an idea of our compatibility. Me cooking and cleaning, or a lack of desire to do any of those things, are irrelevant early in a relationship.

I’m not cooking or cleaning up regularly after a guy I just met. Just like they man shouldn’t be funding my entire lifestyle right off the bat.

Additionally, the idea that a woman who cooks and cleans is valuable is outright wrong. It can’t be a valuable trait while being an expectation of female behavior. Plus, I firmly believe that men don’t actually care if a woman cooks or cleans: some men will go out an cheat with a woman that hasn’t even cooked, cleaned or anything for him. It’s an expectation put on men to have something to show off about their wife to other men.

Got a little sidetracked there but..TikTok fueled thoughts of the day

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-13T00:00:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/15p35rf/pornography_extreme_dehumanization_of_women/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

I don’t know why Reddit recommends these idiots to me.

Conservatives are going after porn with multiple laws country wide. It’s the feminist like them who have more or less tried their hardest to fight for porn by calling it some human right.
They can’t say “sex work is work” then get mad at the type of customers they make. It’s an evil industry that normalizes evil.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T00:05:28+00:00

girl math

Looked it up and yo this shit is fucking retarded.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-13T00:08:29+00:00

It’s pretty funny how upset some people get over astrology. It’s a silly little game that people engage with for fun, nothing less, nothing more.

purplish_possum · 2023-08-13T00:18:21+00:00

"Poncho met his match one day way down in Mexico"

The singer at the little cafe I'm at is doing a really good job singing some cool old songs

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-13T00:24:08+00:00

Today we attempted a hike up a very, very tall mountain. There wasn’t so much of a trail as there was a path leading to rapids crossings and a bouldering course.

We passed a woman who had fallen, broken her arm, and busted up her face. I offered her the sling, some bandages, and some bacitracin from my IFAK. She warned us that the rocks ahead were extremely slippery… I kept going up and up thinking, “This has to be the last literal climb like this… this has to be the last water crossing… this has to be close to the first peak… the way down on the other side has to be safer than coming back down the way we came…”

We stopped for lunch, and a guy who’d said he was intent on doing the whole trail loop reappeared and told us he’d been to one of the peaks, and it was about another 2 hours worth of climbing from where we were sitting, and that some folks who had done the whole loop said they’d been hiking for four hours when they were up there…We weren’t going to make it back before dark if we tried doing the whole thing. We had to turn around and descend the treacherous way we’d climbed up.

I’ve never moved more slowly, carefully, nor intentionally than the way I did on that descent. I knew one wrong foot placement could send me and my toddler skidding off the side of the mountain and into the rushing water beside us. I knew I could fall backwards on her, or even just sprain an ankle, and then we’d be fucked. I was berating myself for being so stupid and climbing up there in the first place.

Miraculously, we made it back to the car without any incidents or injuries (well, I have some scrapes on my knees and shins from literally crawling on my hands and knees at points, but they’re minor.) I didn’t even get blisters, as I was careful to dry my feet well every time I took off my boots to cross the water.

As stupid as it was, I’m sort of proud of how far up we made it. I know I could make the full loop if I wasn’t carrying 40-some pounds on my back. So I am not defeated. I’ll be back one day.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T00:27:51+00:00

”No one cares about body count”

-People who were single above 35.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-08-13T00:45:09+00:00

Removing that guy's thread for being about iNcLs was bullshit

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-13T00:52:38+00:00

to expand on the foreplay discussion: wonder how many couples have sex lives focused on mutual desire and not just his desire for her and doing things to her

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T00:53:25+00:00

“What do you bring to the table” is a totally legit question to ask, not on a date which would be extremely autistic, but to someone who’s constantly complaining about finding partners who’s up to their standards.

Everyone should reflect on what their standards are and why someone who meets those standards would actually want to date you.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T00:54:47+00:00

Q4A: What do you think is a long hike, what’s a tall mountain (to hike)?

Willow-girl · 2023-08-13T01:02:16+00:00

Today we made our annual pilgrimage to the National Pike Steam Show, to ogle antique farm equipment that is in many cases newer than the stuff we use every day, (A shout-out to my man for keeping it running!) We also ate funnel cakes, listened to a local cover band do its thang, and found a bench in the shade from which to watch the demonstration of earth-moving equipment. My man regaled me with tales from his boyhood, when the coal companies used a walking dragline to shear off the top of the ridge to the east of our trailer.

It's become a tradition for us to take an annual selfie together on steam show day, so we can assess our decrepitude from year to year. The 2023 edition: Imgur

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T01:02:48+00:00

If I ever get married I will do it as part of the honeymoon in some far away place at an embassy or something and anyone who wants to come will have to pay for their tickets themselves.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-13T01:04:33+00:00

Find it interesting one of the best thing you can do if you have a son, is put him in school where he is one of the older kids in his grade. Tends to have huge social and athletic advantage.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T01:08:06+00:00

If your sex life hasn’t progressed into some weird bdsm situation after 10 years together do you really desire each other?

hannahg000 · 2023-08-13T01:20:56+00:00

sometimes posting and commenting on here strokes my dark side’s superiority complex. i get told i’m rare and a special unicorn 🦄

physious · 2023-08-13T01:26:35+00:00

Anybody else here happily in a relationship or just happy about their dating outlook? How's that going for you?

potoricco · 2023-08-13T01:33:51+00:00

I actually can’t with my family 🤮😭

My dad just told me one of my uncles was a cultist and used to sacrifice animals (specifically dogs, chickens and snakes) and participated in fetish and now he randomly died

potoricco · 2023-08-13T01:50:50+00:00

Beautiful Jungkook😍😍😍

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-13T01:53:18+00:00

Literally stopped caring or worrying or discussing "body count" after high school.

By 25, everyone has had sex. (If you haven't, no biggie, you still can.)

If there's any history conversations, they tend to be about relationships. Ie my last relationship ended because he moved away or whatever.

The folks here who are obsessed, I can only imagine, are in high school. I can't picture a grown ass man giving a damn.

PBtoast707 · 2023-08-13T02:10:55+00:00

It’s so crazy watching men who refer to women as “females” wonder why they can’t get a girlfriend.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-13T02:17:54+00:00

"Young men should stop watching porn because it's bad for their mental health"

Great, now let's tell young women to get off social media like Instagram since it's also a danger to their mental health

baresquad · 2023-08-13T02:25:47+00:00

Thoughts?

I think people overreact to these situations. It would’ve been no hard feelings among my friends, she chose who she chose and closed mouths don’t get fed.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-08-13T02:27:33+00:00

Well looks like the high I got from being told a girl liked me is over, back to my usual self. It was fun while it lasted

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-13T02:37:08+00:00

I keep forgetting that average looking people exist and that not everyone looks like the photos on instagram

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T02:38:03+00:00

Kid on the right’s mom is a hairdresser and lets him look like that.

Should it be considered child abuse?

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-13T02:38:17+00:00

Has anyone been following or caring about the whole Elon Musk vs Mark Zuckerberg thing? I feel like Elon is the popular guy to hate because of probably a lot of reasons but I'm not buying that he's just some weak fat fuck who will be easy pickings for Zuckerberg. Genetically seems like Musk has natural height, size and frame.

Even being fat it wouldn't be that surprising that he also has a good amount of muscle underneath and has a higher bar for potential than Zuckerberg, who is naturally smaller and more ectomorphic even though he is currently more trained and skilled. If Musk set his mind to it I feel like the match would be even if not the other way around actually. The variables being how much training does Musk need and how much time he has to complete it.

Sillysheila · 2023-08-13T02:39:40+00:00

I’ve seen a lot of posts and content here about autism but I have noticed a ton of it is about men. I wonder why this is. Is it just that when people think of someone that’s autistic it’s automatically a man or a boy?

Or do people think it’s harder in society for autistic men so they ignore women on the spectrum for this reason?

Was anyone completely unaware too that women can have autism? Because I have met people like that IRL. Not even kidding. “You can’t have autism, you’re a girl!” is something I’ve actually heard before.

In real life news…I’ve gotten interview for three different jobs on a bulk recruitment for the government that pay double what I earn now, yet I’m shitting myself and no longer excited.

How do you deal with the two to three week wait before I know that I got the job? As well as autism I have really annoying intense bouts of anxiety.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T02:53:14+00:00

Passport bros three weeks after bringing their wife back home

potoricco · 2023-08-13T02:54:08+00:00

I have school in 2 weeks I will die

DerayRevan · 2023-08-13T02:58:57+00:00

I honestly gonna do a post explaining why only women are hypergamous with straight bullet points paragraphs

But honestly am just too lazy for that shit now

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-13T03:20:49+00:00

I have 2 jump through like 1,000,000 boots to get a new grad position. I've been studying seriously everyday since may 25th. Constantly re-doing my resume. Networking, although I enjoy the social interaction, it can be alot meeting new people all the time. Then there's the rejection that inevitably comes. And it hurts everytime. Hopefully its worth it once I get this bag

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-13T03:26:00+00:00

My partner folded our laundry. I love discovering how he folded my clothes.

Some he gets right. Other items tend to be a struggle. 🤣

He says they are clothes for an octopus. Straps and ties and racerbacks.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-13T03:58:31+00:00

Ennui is such a good word. Should be used more

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-13T04:02:41+00:00

What books should I read to learn about dating, love and relationships?

I want to learn about everything, such as:

how to approach a woman, how to have a great conversation with her, how to get her number, how to vet her as a suitable partner, how to distinguish love from infatuation or limerence, how to honor her needs, how to communicate smoothly with eachother, how to deepen our emotional bond with eachother, how to make her orgasm as intensely as possible for as many times in a row as possible, how to keep our romance alive as time goes by, how to know if she is secretly unhappy with me, how to deal with aging together, and so on.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-13T04:03:04+00:00

Reminder that out of 1000+ comments, no one has been able to provide a single convincing argument for why it's in women's best interests to date and fuck men we're not attracted to, nor explain how we need to settle but men shouldn't be settled for, nor why men who aren't Chad should expect to be treated like Chad.

As a pre-emption: regardless of what "league" you may think a woman belongs to, this doesn't change what we're attracted to, nor the fact that if we were attracted to a man then we'd already be considering him for a relationship and our standards wouldn't have to be "changed" or "lowered" to include him. We're already filtering based on what we're attracted to and changing that only means including men we aren't attracted to.

SianOiseau · 2023-08-13T04:06:22+00:00

Lol, someone has posted an old ppd post on nothowgirlswork sub.

Having a carrier isn't really a dating strategy for women, that's a life strategy. Women do it for various reasons, rarely their main/only goal is to meet and marry a wealthy guy in their field. This assumption that women do it as a dating strategy is probably projection from a man's point of view who chooses his career primarily for his dating.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-13T04:09:47+00:00

I love Sundays. Feel a bit bad for my partner as I always drag him out of bed earlier than he would like seeing as he doesn’t get to bed till about 2am. I drag him out though so we can enjoy the morning as a family since he’s back at the bar tonight. There’s always more work and hours to sleep, there are only a limited amount of Sundays to enjoy with a toddler.

Breakfast and coffee on the beach, kicking around a ball with the baby - surprisingly for 18m they are very proficient at playing soccer. Then a bit of time at the playground before dad starts work.

Me and baby are home now having lunch.

It’s the simple things in life that I love.

afk_row · 2023-08-13T04:43:46+00:00

Why do some women have extreme resistance towards cutting their body hair? “Natural” isn’t necessarily “ideal”.

scwizard · 2023-08-13T04:54:09+00:00

I know the Bible says judge not...

But y'all got your 4 year old and 7 year old daughters at the bar with you, and you're just leaving them glued to tiktok while you drink and hang out with your friends.

Yeah I know you own the bar... But come on it's not a good look. Do 4 year old girls really need to be hooked on tiktok?

scwizard · 2023-08-13T05:07:12+00:00

If every woman had sky high standards we'd barely reproduce.

You can make fun of women who have bad reproductive decision making but they at least reproduce.

Without single moms we'd be at less than a baby per woman. Way way below replacement.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-08-13T06:06:30+00:00

Why are women so repulsed by men that use the services of prostitutes?

dbz__f · 2023-08-13T07:07:07+00:00

Welp… I fucked up big league. I think my gf might actually be getting pregnant this time

Can’t wait to tell my kids the reason they exist is cause their mother decided to grab my ass cheeks while I was trying to pull out

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-08-13T09:41:00+00:00

Was reading some OP in another sub about a women found out her BF had a preference for porn that featured “barely legal teens”. All other nonsense aside, I found it interesting that women were basically saying porn use definitely reflects ones morality. If you jack off to barely legal teens, you’re probably low-key a pedo.

….yeah that train of thought is a very slippery slope. Especially when you consider that vast majority of violent/rape/gangbang/rough sex porn is consumed by women.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-08-13T09:53:45+00:00

Do you think video games promote simp culture? How many games out there, especially the ones created before 2000 had a guy saving some girl after getting herself caught? Also I find it funny that feminists claim Laura Croft is sexualized for a game that came out in the late 90s, while Samus from Metroid was ignored because she wears a suit. I think Nintendo saw this was coming back in the 80s for this exact reason imo.

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-13T11:35:46+00:00

men do more housework since female chores are split 50/50 and male chores (taking out the trash daily, gutter cleaning, car maintenance, mowing the lawn, shoveling snow) fall 100% on the men. in women's eyes this is fairness. what a a joke.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-13T12:46:30+00:00

Hottake time: the ultimate solution to men's pain IS women's forgiveness. Which absolutely does depend on how men act and present their issues and pain. But it's still the end goal, and the only way all these angsty men will mellow out (and I'm not just talking about sexless men, but all sorts of misogynist outbursts).

What men really need is women forgiving them for how sexy they see women, that's it. The biggest difficulty for that is that women still associate "men seeing us as sexy in ways that I cannot relate to" with sexism, because it's most visible through those aforementioned outbursts. So that needs to be worked on, and in a sense that really is mostly on men, but that doesn't mean that women' attitude and outlook isn't important, of course it is.

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-13T12:46:52+00:00

Just found this hilarious youtube short of a cute couple with 400 views

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-13T13:24:32+00:00

that thread on egalitarianism is interesting. Also funny is the number of women who claim to egalitarian when it comes to cooking/cleaning/childcare but when it comes to the shitty male chores, providing emotional support, paying for dates etc they are all about gender roles and unfairness and a complete lack of equality and equity.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-13T13:31:54+00:00

She looked at her body in the mirror, and, behold, it was very good.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-13T13:43:42+00:00

Why do the kids who still live at home have such a strong opinion on sharing chores?

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-13T13:46:29+00:00

Is this the feminist's wet dream when it comes to the whole pill debate? This

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-08-13T14:04:03+00:00

Where do women learn their OLD catchphrases?

“dating with intention”
“goal-oriented mindset”
“my love language is dinner reservations”

I know the last one is from tiktok but are the others also from social media? Because they are everywhere and totally meaningless platitudes. Is there a woman on the planet that had better dating outcomes once she started spamming these lines on her profile?

mummydontknow · 2023-08-13T14:18:16+00:00

I used to be very judgemental at the gym until I got injured.

Now I am understanding and judgemental.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T14:18:35+00:00

Be xqc

Get a girlfriend that acts like this while you’re together

After you break up she sends you a massive lawsuit claiming you were common law married trying to steal half your stuff

ShockedPikachu.jpg

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-13T14:21:06+00:00

In 1992 An MRA, PUA and Feminist Walk into NBC's talk show with a Female Audience

potoricco · 2023-08-13T14:31:06+00:00

You ever seen a guy with negative rizz

mummydontknow · 2023-08-13T14:53:25+00:00

My bitchless ass is sitring here wondering how the old white man rizzed up the young asian girl at the gym.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-08-13T15:01:15+00:00

Minor side issues aside, is 95%+ of what males and females on PPD argue about basically how sexually selective women have to be, can be, or should be?

Basically, men want a 50th ranked SMV woman to generally pair with a roughly 50th ranked SMV man. and so on up and down the line.

And women are like "I don't care about the big picture. I fuck who I like. I marry who I like. If that means only 10% of men get laid, so be it. Maybe men suck today. Maybe they always were shit. Who knows about the BIG picture theory, I just know what I like and do not."

mummydontknow · 2023-08-13T15:09:54+00:00

I think I gotta change gym now.

There was a cute girl who was wearing the same outfit as me, I took too long to approach her, and she basically thinks I'm a creep because it looks like she's just avoiding me now......

mummydontknow · 2023-08-13T15:10:11+00:00

I think I gotta change gym now.

There was a cute girl who was wearing the same outfit as me, I took too long to approach her, and she basically thinks I'm a creep because it looks like she's just avoiding me now......

lowiqtrader · 2023-08-31T17:14:54+00:00

I'm not really sure if this girl is into me and if I should continue pursuing her. Matched with a girl on Bumble and facetimed her. We talked for like 2 hours (she was working and just sitting at her desk so she had time). When I asked for a date she was kinda dodgy and gave me a tentative date like more than a week from now. She kept saying she was unsure of her schedule etc. I tried to laugh it off and tell her its cool if she's not into it or w/e but she said no no she's down to meet up.

Idk if she's really into me because 1) she's not giving me a strong date as to when to meet up and 2) we had talked about physical types/dating etc and in that conversation she kept talking about how "she's not shallow" and she talked about non-physical qualities in a guy a lot, and when she looked at my profile she didn't really mention my looks she just mentioned other non-physical stuff.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-08-13T18:07:49+00:00

Watching heterosexual porn as a single male is cucking yourself and is ruining your chances of getting a girlfriend. When men fappernick to other people having sex they live vicariously through the other guy. When you do this enough times you become so lazy that you don’t even want to put in effort to getting laid.

The better option would be to exclusively fappernick to just women whether it’s them solo leveling or just noods on Reddit. I believe this method would benefit many men because doing this in turn makes you very attracted and aware of the features of a women. It teaches you that women’s bodies are beautiful which in turn will be in the back of your mind 24/7 and will ultimately allow you to get over whatever excuse you are telling yourself that prohibits you from interacting with women.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-13T18:06:05+00:00

Honestly this whole "find a partner with similar traits"

Is completely stupid and why you should take advice around here seriously

If l want a feminine woman, do l need to be feminine myself ?

Or will she be attracted to a completely different trait such as my masculine side

Or she could want but that would be AF/BB

potoricco · 2023-08-13T17:53:51+00:00

Remote indication guy got suspended

According-Dinner-406 · 2023-08-13T17:50:15+00:00

There sure are a lot of insecure women out there but they're so secretive about it and only share their little stories with other women and their boyfriends.

Just the other day, I overheard my landlord (who's a fairly overweight woman) talking to her boyfriend about a mutual friend of theirs who had lost weight and finally gotten in shape. She said this woman looked too skinny now. I looked this woman up and she's quite attractive and in shape.

It quickly dawned on me that my landlord was just jealous of this woman. The landlords boyfriend is pretty skinny himself and doesn't work either.

If that one woman is too skinny then why isn't the landlords boyfriend too skinny? I on the other hand am just as big as her almost so I wonder if she actually thinks I'm more attractive than her boyfriend considering how she supposedly thinks.

Surely women aren't overlooking chubby guys who work a lot for rail-skinny bums or I'd be thinking like my landlord does and she's really awful.

purplish_possum · 2023-08-13T17:44:38+00:00

Looks like my GF's uncle is moving to Panama for at least a few years. Having run through all the available women in his large Midwestern city I guess it's time for him to move on. He's definitely not a stereotypical passport bro.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-13T17:43:16+00:00

To be a true gladiator means to embrace pain and suffering.

dysonRing · 2023-08-13T17:24:37+00:00

The difference beetween male standards for beauty and female standards is mutability almost all women can become sex goddesses to like 40% of men. But men are judged for things he can't change almost universally.

Age is the only exception for women but there are some fine ass women looking good in their 40s like the Ks and JLo is hitting 50.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-13T17:22:49+00:00

CMV: Men shouldn't frequent female spaces. They have nothing to gain from doing so and will just nuke their mental health instead.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-13T17:21:55+00:00

Honestly l'll never have a problem with women creating hoops and boundaries for men to cross just for the possibility of sex

Since that's basic Redpill 101

They create this boundaries because they perceive this men as unattractive or least a lower SMV than them

However since l know and aware of this, l don't tolerate it at all no matter her reasoning might be

luliloo · 2023-08-13T17:19:05+00:00

How should I respond to this douche on Tinder?

potoricco · 2023-08-13T17:03:28+00:00

How old were you when you when you realized blond people have to bleach their hair to stay blond when they get older, I always wondered why I would see little kids with platinum blond hair but no teens or adults with that hair (like it always has brown in it) turns out that like 0% of blond people actually stay that blond

Cool_Ranch_2511 · 2023-08-13T17:00:38+00:00

The mods are gay

that is all

potoricco · 2023-08-13T16:59:44+00:00

They slayyyed I can’t wait to join a sorority

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-13T16:52:55+00:00

Q4M: How often do you spend reading women oriented subreddits to actually analyze what they're saying and see how you can use that information to benefit yourself when interacting with other women?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-13T16:51:58+00:00

Ladies, please stop having sex with other men until you meet me. Then at that exact time is when I need you to be a complete freak for me only. You’re supposed to know all of this in advance by the way. Otherwise I’ll become a beta bux, and my life is over. Thx 😘

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-13T16:18:21+00:00

I’m so thankful that someone reminded me about the whole “No one told me girls cared about appearances” thing because it reminded how awful ‘Nice Guys’ were from the start. Rarely have I ever seen these guys say “I dont care what a woman looks like! I just want her to love me and that’s all that matters”. How narcissistic and self-absorbed do these fuckers have to be to whine about other people’s look standards while they themselves have an appearance standards too?

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-13T16:17:59+00:00

I have a few questions that are mainly for women, but men can also answer if they know the answer:

Does a woman's p*ssy actually "tingle" when they feel sexually attracted to someone? Or is that just a manosphere myth?
Does a woman become "wet" down there when she interacts with a man she finds attractive? Or is that just an exaggeration by men?
I have a theory about female attraction. I believe that women are most attracted to men who serve as a father-figure to them.

When heterosexual women were little girls, they viewed their father (if he was in their life) as being unbelievably strong, capable of beating anyone up with ease, never getting tired no matter how much physical work he did, and always able to protect, love and spoil their little girl.

This is an extremely formative experience for these little girls. Her father becomes the template of the ideal man, and this dynamic becomes her template of the ideal relationship between a man and woman. She then carries these templates into adulthood, and seeks to replicate them with another man.

Grown women want to feel like little girls again. That is when they feel the most happy: when they can embrace their inner child, and let go of the rest.

They want to view their man as an endlessly strong protector that never tires and always cares for her; that nothing bad can ever happen to her, because he will always be there to shield her from everything bad in life. They want to feel extremely petite next to their man (in terms of height, broadness and hand size), for him to be able to effortlessly pick them up and wave them through the air, and to be spoilt like a princess by him - just like how it was with their father when they were little.

Women don't want a man who appears as human and vulnerable as she herself is, she wants a man who appears to be greater than her - someone who possesses the otherworldly strength, invincibility, and heroism that she perceived her father to have back when she was a little girl.

For women who never had a father-figure, I think they still crave the same experience, but it's more of a subconscious yearning since they never had a concrete template for it.

How accurate do you think my theory is? If it's accurate, it certainly places a large burden on men to evolve, since most men don't live up to this ideal. And much of the burden can't be met in the first place, since men can't change our heights, frames, or hand size. But I feel like it explains a lot of female behavior.

I'm not placing a value-judgement on this by the way, I'm not saying women are "bad" for wanting this type of dynamic, I'm only trying to understand if they do indeed want this or not.

TL;DR: Women's ideal relationship is modelled after the one they had with their father when they were little girls.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-13T16:14:06+00:00

I officially accept that my workout progress is paying off. I’ve never seen this much separation in my shoulders/vascularity ever.

Hard work really does pay off.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-13T15:53:56+00:00

What men really need is a Red Pill which doesn't focus on fucking a bunch of women and spinning plates.

But a Red Pill which focuses on understanding ourselves and others, and focuses on self healing.

It has to be a Red Pill, because trying to be PC and not offend anyone is not going to accomplish anything. Harsh truths have to be said even if people feel offended about it.

potoricco · 2023-08-13T15:40:12+00:00

“If you are a woman, friendship is far more important than marriage.

Statistically, if you ever get murdered, the killer will be your husband, while if you ever experience difficulties or tragedies, the most supportive person will be your friend, not your husband.

If you ever get seriously ill, your husband is far more likely to abandon you than your friends.

Conversely, if you are a man, marriage is far more important than friendship.

Statistically, if you ever get murdered, the killer will be your male friend, while if you ever experience difficult or tragedies, the most supportive person will be your wife, not your friend.

If you ever get seriously ill, your friend is far more likely to abandon you than your wife.”

DerayRevan · 2023-08-13T15:26:41+00:00

"Women assume the worst whenever a man leaves a friendship after rejection"

This is why you can't negotiate being friends with women you find attractive 🤦

Better for them to reject you instead of entertaining the idea of a friendship

Again don't ever hide your dick with women you wanna fuck therefore don't entertaining being friends with them to begin with

Best option would be friends with women you would never imagine having sex with even if your drunk

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-13T15:19:48+00:00

I still can’t believe that there’s a bunch of guys who are upset that adults didnt give them adult dating advice when they were kids. Like….what the fuck do y’all expect adults to be telling 12 year olds?

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