Daily Community Chat Megathread

purpledaggers · 2023-10-13T17:41:19+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fd993au2q5vtb1.jpg

Y'all women can't even handle this much dick, admit it.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-13T17:30:34+00:00

Milkshake > coffee

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-10-13T17:28:42+00:00

Petition to add “coffee date” to the list of revolving topics on PPD. Move over anal-week and N-count: you have a new neighbor!

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-13T17:26:31+00:00

I can get why some women find a coffee date low effort. “The let me vet you as cheaply and conveniently impossible before I decide you’re worth my time” can be a turn off.

Totally also get guys who don’t want to shell out tk wine and dine someone on a first date.

Imma take the cheap yet fun/interesting first date pill.

purplish_possum · 2023-10-13T17:24:48+00:00

Just got banned from r/politics for a week. Apparently baiting Trumper trolls is verboten. Might have to find some new places to waste time.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-13T17:22:49+00:00

What's all this about coffee dates? Like every second comment is about it lmao

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-13T17:19:29+00:00

BiPolar step daughter got a black lab/pit bull mix a couple of years ago that is "the sweetest little thing".

Except that the sweet thing has aggressively charged 2 different people walking their dogs on the other side of the street.

Luckily she hasn't gone full attack yet, but it's only a matter of time.

This dog is spoiled rotten, so I don't want to hear any of this "iT's NoT tHe DoG, iT's ThE oWnEr" bullshit. It's the fucking dog!!!

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-13T17:18:21+00:00

Your mood, what’s going on in your life, how well you know yourself, and who you’re on a date with are far more important than what you’re doing. I’ve been on dates that had it all, but it didn’t actually go anywhere because there was no chemistry and compatibility. And I’ve been on dates that were nothing more than meeting on a train back home, but it lead to more dates.

janedoebreakin · 2023-10-13T17:12:45+00:00

I actually hate the nurses I work with. They’ve treated me like garbage since day one. My job is nurse’s ASSISTANT. I’m there to make their lives easier and they just shit on me all the time. Some are younger than me and have bachelor’s degrees and boss me around like I’m a slave. They think I’m dumb and that’s why I’m not a nurse. One of them even told me the brand of scrubs I bought are for “real” nurses. The only people who are nice to me there are the surgeons, and I don’t interact with them much.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-13T16:59:59+00:00

"I think the best first date would be a modest dinner at a decent restaurant and maybe a walk in a public area. Not too extremely fancy but also not too unromantic"

Too expensive

Too energetic

Too boring

And l don't reward women with restaurant dates until our 4th interaction

Also hello it's 2023, so let the gender roles swarp and let her pay, l want free food so thank you modern society

business_explained · 2023-10-13T16:58:52+00:00

Whenever I see a good pair of tits, I always wonder how many times a dick has been between them.

old_new_age · 2023-10-13T16:55:15+00:00

I think fitting into a certain niche or archetype is an underrated aspect of being attractive, at least in the initial stages of dating. There's goth men and women, druggie men and women, lumberjack men, country girls, giga nerds, etc. You need an aesthetic about you that somebody else just likes by default, crafted by how you dress, talk, and act, even if it's undesirable to the majority of people. The only woman who's liked me, my ex, had a string of ex-boyfriends or love interests who looked like me and acted like me, but I'm usually nobody's type. Find a girl and stalk her to see if her exes look like you

eye_fuck · 2023-10-13T16:54:49+00:00

eye_fuck · 2023-10-13T16:42:28+00:00

How often do you cum per week

sticksmcgee47 · 2023-10-13T16:41:51+00:00

I use to think cheaters were so common because people are just naturally shitty. But this thread showed me that it's also because there are so many cheater apologists. Of course, people in the comments acting like someone in their 20s is incapable of rational decisions. They're also shocked that someone would dare call a cheater a mean word. Cheaters get off too easy man.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-13T16:33:01+00:00

do some men expect women to have sex even when she doesn’t want to?? i would never be in a relationship with someone who expected duty sex

purpledaggers · 2023-10-13T16:26:28+00:00

I'm a core millennial (mid 30s) and I've never known another millennial where the mom even put in half the work the dad did. This idea of the mom doing cooking or cleaning is completely foreign. My dad would drive to work, work all day, get the groceries, then make the dinner. My mom wouldn't do shit. Most couples are like that.

This seems completely alien to me for the most part. I did have one or two 'super dad' couples that I was friends with and saw that their dads went above and beyond in that era(80s-90s-00s), but for the most part most dads around me were fairly lazy about household chores. Most dads took care of the lawn or any major project inside the house, but daily life stuff was left to most moms. Dad would occasionally take off for a doctors appointment but this was rare enough to be a 'treat' and something fun than the usual of mom taking you places.

I'm sure lazy mom trope is a thing out there somewhere in some homes, but it definitely ain't the norm.

There are probably more 'super dads' today than at any other time in recent human history. I'd say this is a good thing.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-13T15:57:09+00:00

Just saw a post that mentioned something I had been forgetting to mention! You have to do something that released dopamine or serotonin. See, spending time with someone you like releases similar chemicals to heroin. Sitting in a coffeeshop brings back memories of throwing together a powerpoint for a college project or a business meeting. It brings back memories of meeting with a client for a freelance gig or maybe even doing a job interview. It doesn't make you feel excited. It is a nice place to get some work done and get out of the house, but it isn't necessarily fun.

printerpal · 2023-10-13T15:46:24+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/VdJHCzRJUo

https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/myyyfkjwm1

Lol obvious gender swapped post and the results are predictable.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-10-13T15:45:30+00:00

The coffee date B8 is funny as hell to me cause it’s like some dudes don’t understand keeping things casual especially since a lot wouldn’t mind “casual sex”.

Like, let’s just chill and see if we even vibe.

sine120 · 2023-10-13T15:45:22+00:00

For us non-coffee drinkers, what's an actual good first date?

Maybe it's my awkwardness showing but I'm garbage in situations where I have to sit still and talk face to face for our very first interaction. I'm subscribed to the idea of doing something a little physical to remove awkwardness from bouts of silence while I think up a next topic, and then after going and doing a sitdown thing. I used minigolf followed by dinner in another comment.

keebydee · 2023-10-13T15:39:44+00:00

You know life is brutal when the only sexual validation you've ever gotten was from a gay dude. My cousin sent a pic of me to her gay friend and he said that he wouldn't mind if I ever kissed him 😅😅 Flattering but if only women thought the same thing. Why is my life such a joke? Lol.

le_paso · 2023-10-13T15:26:16+00:00

By coffee date I mean like boba date

Ainsleygz · 2023-10-13T15:24:09+00:00

I don’t like coffee (or tea)

potoricco · 2023-10-13T15:22:37+00:00

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Need this movie stat

potoricco · 2023-10-13T15:11:00+00:00

Basically a few months ago I had super long natural nails, I was getting tired of it so I got a gel manicure that lasted a few weeks and then cut all my nails off and kept them short until like early September. After almost a month one of my nails just broke now I have to cut everything when I get home I’m sad

WestCombSplit · 2023-10-13T15:07:45+00:00

The first date is meant for figuring out if you can have fun together. Having a long sit down conversation with someone you barely know sounds dreadful. Loosen up, have some fun and do the sit down thing afterwards or on the second date

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-13T15:07:24+00:00

Eggs, grilled chicken and coffee.

A masculine man's breakfast meal.

Gladboys · 2023-10-13T15:07:20+00:00

Starbucks shaking in their boots rn at all this anti coffee date propaganda

Rainbowdark96 · 2023-10-13T15:05:58+00:00

I hate coffee dates and i hate coffee too. 🤷

gremvinros · 2023-10-13T15:05:18+00:00

Really enjoyed the international coffee day date this year.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-13T15:04:02+00:00

Forget coffee dates. Go on a date to a hotel where you both do drugs and fuck. I did this and now I am getting married to that guy. Poor life choices are a natural aphrodisiac

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-13T15:03:13+00:00

I'm completely fine with fast food and good conversation for a first date.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-13T15:01:11+00:00

Coffee dates are awesome, y'all are just to boomery to like them 🤷

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-13T15:01:09+00:00

Coffee dates are boring and something I would never actually choose to do but they're a good filter for money hungry hoes

le_paso · 2023-10-13T14:58:53+00:00

Wait what's wrong with a coffee date? I feel like dinner for first date is so much pressure, and it's worse because it's the first time I'm meeting someone. Plus if you found that you don't really vibe, a dinner is much longer than a coffee, and you have to stay there for the duration

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-13T14:57:58+00:00

Coffee dates are trash. I refused coffee dates when I was actively dating.

Idk if it's disrespectful exactly. But it definitely isn't for me.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-10-13T14:57:43+00:00

Bad news!

Wot?

The writers strike! They're still fighting!

Oh no! Anyway

keebydee · 2023-10-13T14:48:26+00:00

My dream first date is also at a roller rink. That is a good place for a date. Especially since I know how to rollerblade. Too bad it'll never happen though 😑

potoricco · 2023-10-13T14:45:32+00:00

My dream first date is at a skate rink or just anywhere that’s not a restaurant

keebydee · 2023-10-13T14:30:38+00:00

Yo, what the hell did I wake up to? What's this $20 coffee date post doing here? 😂 Get outta here with that

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-13T14:22:42+00:00

Q4All: You know what it’s time for…

Did you workout this week?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-13T14:19:47+00:00

It was nice meeting you today! I look forward to seeing you again if you'd like

Hey! Yeah, it was nice meeting you too. Thanks for the coffee, but I don't think we're a good match. Good luck though!

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-13T14:19:46+00:00

We already knew that you don't understand how men end up lonely, don't care about lonely men, and don't understand the male experience in general

actually kind of interested how do men end up lonely (not just romantically) and understanding the male experience (how is society making men lonely)

text-redacted · 2023-10-13T14:04:30+00:00

I think the best first date would be a modest dinner at a decent restaurant and maybe a walk in a public area. Not too extremely fancy but also not too unromantic.

Granted this is coming from someone who has never rlly experienced traditional dating, but I think this is what I would like if I had.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-13T14:02:22+00:00

GETTING COFFEE IS NOT A FIRST DATE, IT IS A JOB INTERVIEW. AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-13T13:58:51+00:00

Dating someone from a traditional culture and being surprised they want to be traditional https://reddit.com/r/dating/s/ghOx06fwSo

rosesonthefloor · 2023-10-13T13:33:10+00:00

My boyfriend and I both have ADHD. A few months back, he took one of my 30mg Vyvanse (2nd-lowest dose) to see if it would help him at all, and he was basically coked out and super wired for like 8-10 hours.

This morning I took a 50mg Vyvanse (2nd-highest dose), took the dog out, and then went back to sleep. Granted, I’m sick right now, but still.

Body chemistry is wild.

Gladboys · 2023-10-13T13:12:24+00:00

Decided to make a conscious effort to invite a friend to hangout at least 2-3 times a week around 2 weeks ago to take my mind off my lack of romance and its been going well so far. Only hang up so far has been when one invited his girlfriend along without asking.

Call your bros, even if they don't know it they probably miss you. Being the "initiator" is so much better than being lonely.

LoFiPanda14 · 2023-10-13T13:11:34+00:00

Q4W: $20 coffee date or cheesecake factory

potoricco · 2023-10-13T13:10:11+00:00

I love Troy Sivan now

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-10-13T12:30:12+00:00

Anybody see that TikTok story about the woman that went on a date and ate 48 oysters by herself. The date was total $200, they went to a happy hour or something. I’m not mad at her for getting oysters but eating 4 dozen of them BY YOURSELF is excessive. Like it would be different if they were chatting, having a good time and they ate four dozen together.

Willow-girl · 2023-10-13T12:20:40+00:00

This morning I realized I did the math wrong last night (I was tired) and my man and I are actually turning 57, not 59 this month! Oops.

I feel like I've been given an extra two years here, lol.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-13T11:57:04+00:00

I’m so glad I built my own gym in my house, i procrastinated for 2 years because I was lazy, didn’t want to spend the money and I had a relatively nice gym 6 mins from my house. But during the brief month of lockdowns in my state(and then when the one I did go instituted a masks policy) where I couldn’t go had me saying F it, a perfect time to start. No more dudes hogging 3 machines at once, trying to start small talk giving you unnecessary advice, gross people using the same machines etc

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-13T11:54:45+00:00

I used to laugh at these girls OLD profiles and IG accounts that was filled with them just having pics of them with their middle fingers out

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-13T10:49:45+00:00

I have smoked myself into hedonistic bliss 💨💨💨

account892 · 2023-10-13T10:46:28+00:00

Got my ass chewed out at work today :( BRB imagining sisyphus happy

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-10-13T09:53:51+00:00

https://youtu.be/wh8ij9NnLIQ?feature=shared&t=401

Looks matched, she's hotter, or he's hotter?

Virtan · 2023-10-13T09:21:54+00:00

Found out that I can get 5 free therapy sessions via my job today. Probably going to book one session when I get off.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-13T08:21:01+00:00

Working from home is such a godsend. I just woke up at 10 when my working hours are 9-18. I really got so lucky to enter the workforce when WFH became a thing in my country.

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keebydee · 2023-10-13T07:01:49+00:00

First 👁👁

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-13T07:02:09+00:00

First 😎

eye_fuck · 2023-10-13T07:07:22+00:00

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-13T07:31:52+00:00

I’m worried about my monk neighbor. He’s not chanting, he’s not occasionally screaming, he’s silent mostly. Just him and his pet snake. His regular routine has changed over the last week or so. He sent me a message after I invited him to dinner recently saying “he’s going through a hard time”. I answered saying if he needs anything, lemme know 😔

Relevant-Crew946 · 2023-10-13T17:47:58+00:00

Women are shaming a 38 year old for being a pedophile. Why? He thinks that his 29 year old single mother gf is getting too fat. You can't make this up! Men are predators if they have standards.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/176xqw0/my_boyfriend_38m_told_me_i_was_not_fit_and_that/

Individual-Trash-452 · 2023-10-13T17:48:09+00:00

I've never been on a date in my life and I hate coffee (team organic cashew milk matcha latte sweetened with stevia) but I'd even pay for the fucking coffees myself if somebody would ask me out

AidsVictim · 2023-10-13T17:53:18+00:00

Interesting that (married) womens labour rates have essentially been a giant U curve over the last 200 years https://twitter.com/NobelPrize/status/1711317803267948617

text-redacted · 2023-10-13T17:55:31+00:00

If a woman orders a shitton of food and drinks and the date didn't even go well, what's stopping a guy from telling the server they're splitting the bill at the end?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-13T18:03:22+00:00

There's absolutely no reason for a masculine man to have TikTok installed on their phone.

Leave that app to the betas and women

keebydee · 2023-10-13T18:29:05+00:00

It's been nearly a year since I worked a job. And I'm embarrassed to say that I only worked like less than 5 shifts for this job. I feel like such a failure. Working with people I've never met before, didn't know and didn't really seem like to be around my age just made me feel uneasy and overwhelmed. I legit felt like going to the bathroom to wait there until my shift was done on my 1st day because it just made me that uncomfortable.

And my position in this job was unstructured. When I walked in, I had no clue what they were gonna have me do that day which I absolutely hate. I hate having to ask someone what to do next after I finished a task. I wanna know exactly what I'm doing for the entire shift. Idk, it just really made me want to not go anymore so I simply stopped showing up until I was obviously fired after about a month.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-13T18:31:07+00:00

Does anyone have advice for saving money and getting a good interest rate? I have no idea what I'm doing.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-13T18:47:06+00:00

My husband is always so kind to my mother. Today he complimented her, made her laugh and encouraged her to get better. His voice is so soft when he speaks to her. I’m so lucky. His dad did the same thing for his mother-in-law, even when he was already divorced.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-13T18:49:12+00:00

You know the saying

A woman who keeps her options open belongs to the streets/community and not you

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-13T18:49:25+00:00

I want to have a baby so bad 🥺 I need a boyfriend first. Our first date should be picking out baby clothes and blankets at Target.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-13T19:03:26+00:00

Ambatakum

tinasnow-poty · 2023-10-13T19:07:47+00:00

Drinks -> activity -> grab a bite to eat -> end up at the club together (optional) is the best kind of date

md8716 · 2023-10-13T19:08:50+00:00

I was doing some financial housekeeping today, and idk, sometimes I look at my own life and wonder what I did to deserve so much success and love when so many others don't have it.

PrecisionHat · 2023-10-13T19:12:00+00:00

I don't understand what people mean by "objectifying women" anymore. I used to think it meant disregarding their feelings and thoughts, just focussing on their looks or sex appeal, but I see people complaining about men doing this to women who they don't even know and will never know. Like, if I pass a hot woman on the street and I check her out, I've technically objectified her, but what am I supposed to do? Develop an entire relationship with her before I justify being sexually attracted to her? Or, is objectification only when men act on these thoughts, like catcalling?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-10-13T19:14:50+00:00

I've also never been on date (as traditionally defined).

But not for lack of asking, I just think that shit is weird as fuck. Whatever guy I was entertaining, I was just happy to hang out at his house smoking weed + playing vidya, and ordering a pizza.

I wouldn't even know what to do on a date.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-13T19:23:51+00:00

Since we're talking about dates, I'd love to have a proper date one day, bonus point if the girl is speaking my mother tongue

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-13T19:49:21+00:00

Did you or someone you know get a glow-up mid-relationship? How did the relationship turn out?

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-13T19:49:43+00:00

I spent $500 shopping for baby clothes today. They're so cute. I finally get to buy pink!!!!

Sillysheila · 2023-10-13T19:51:19+00:00

Is it weird to think there’s benefits of your neuroticism, so much so that you don’t know if you should give it up entirely? I have anxiety that’s currently a lot more well managed than it used to be. I’m anxious (lol) about letting it go though in a way because it means I really give a shit, and it makes me do better in certain areas?

For example I have anxiety about losing my job or doing bad at it. This is because I hate when I’m unemployed, I need to be doing SOMETHING with my days or I notice myself becoming kind of loopy. This often causes me to over perform at work and do things faster than I need to. Which is obviously a benefit. I’ve never been fired from a job. I’ve only had contracts run out or I quit.

Another thing is planning far ahead into the future and delaying gratitude a lot more than others do…I know this is a benefit of my anxiety because I think about things far into the future.

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-10-13T19:52:49+00:00

Q4W: Let's say you've been dating a guy for a few months, it's going great, and then you come to find out (let's assume it somehow naturally comes up) that he has paid prostitutes for sex in the past. How would your feelings about him change knowing that he used prostitutes? Let's also assume that it was long enough ago, and he's been tested, that STI's aren't a realistic concern. Let's also say that the kind of prostitution he used was not what you'd think of as the exploitive kind.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-13T19:54:49+00:00

Have a baby by me, baby. Be a millionaire.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-13T20:04:16+00:00

From my personal observations I feel like there’s a level of bitterness with failed stand up comedians that is on another level from failed people in other walks of life, even among just the entertainment industry lol. I’ve been around failed rappers, singers, actors, models, podcasters and it’s not close man. Even many of the ones who blow up and become the legends will tell you that they started out at these local clubs with a clique of other broke comics and form a bond. Once they got the big Netflix or HBO special or the sitcom those guys and gals start hating on them lol.

purpledaggers · 2023-10-13T20:06:19+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/176yvtz/tifu_by_not_to_cleaning_my_penis_for_16_years/

I kept going further and larger chunks became visible, it was like an iceberg, where initially only the tip is showing but there is ALOT hidden underneath. I noticed the each chunk was painful and tender to take off, I got further and further down the head. Where eventually one shower, it slipped all the way down.

Revealing to my horror the most ‘smega’ of all, all built up under the head of my penis and on top of the head.

It was BURNING, my penis head had never been exposed properly and with the shower water on it it was so painful. But I kept pushing through to get all the smega off of the head. It was like it had formed its own map onto my penis, with indents on the head I still have today

Confirmed men are way more gross than women.

potoricco · 2023-10-13T20:08:20+00:00

S T O P T A L K I N G A B O U T Y O U R D A T E S

4SSh01e · 2023-10-13T20:26:42+00:00

I think I am becoming more and more dependent on the gym for my mental health, so much so that I am spending in excess of 2 hrs there 5 days a week and the 2 days I don't go for the sake of recovery, I don't feel so good.

Both my shoulders are hurt, so is my left knee and right elbow, yet instead of going light and/or taking some time off, I manage them day to day and keep going heavy as usual and just riding out the pain. The only time I relent is when the injury is at the point when pushing the matter would make it worse.

And I feel chronically sore and fatigued considering that I go balls to the walls almost every time but if I don't push then I don't get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction and hence it feels like a waste.

I have also almost completely checked out of dating, have sworn off all dating apps and very strongly considering quitting nightclubs as well. When I think about it, it all just feels inordinate amount of investment in terms of time, money, and mental energy and the return is order of magnitude smaller. Therefore I have decided to prioritize my mental health and peace in my life. All the time and money I have been wasting there just to put myself out there and have some semblance of a chance; I will instead use it to treat myself by doing things I actually enjoy doing (working out hehehe), or buying stuff for myself.

keebydee · 2023-10-13T20:27:56+00:00

Hey, u/FunEducation1434 I got that L-Theanine you were talking today. Though I'm sure if it's working on me. Idk, I don't really feel a change and I got 400mg. 😅

DerayRevan · 2023-10-13T20:31:55+00:00

"First dates should be getting to know each other"

I ain't got time for that, either she wants me or not

business_explained · 2023-10-13T20:50:06+00:00

66% of young men are single.

42% of young women have a mental illness.

The universe always creates balance.

le_paso · 2023-10-13T20:56:43+00:00

What income (personal/household) would you be happy with? As in, you wouldn't spend more time to make more?
Mine is 500k/650k

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-13T21:07:14+00:00

Women don't know the torture of having to entertain, create a connection with and do emotional labor for someone for hours on dates when all you can think about is banging them.

potoricco · 2023-10-13T21:17:03+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/cmcp3uald1ub1.jpeg?width=842&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cd55a3ae8e134a6b00d7c78e2a62093cba12bae9

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-13T21:19:41+00:00

Does anyone else hate having some other person who fucked you over's "intentions" explained to you? As if their "intentions" matter? They still did something that fucked me over, why the fuck should I give a shit about their ""intentions"".

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-13T21:24:32+00:00

Since we're on the topic of dates, I try to have mine towards the evening either near/on a weekend as much as possible. I don't really do coffee at all if I can help it. I just like to grab a drink & see where things go.

I love creating as much sexual tension as I possibly can. It gives both of us time to look & smell good. Harder to do that when you have a list of appointments you gotta get to. There's something sexy/alluring about nights/evenings that mornings/afternoons can't beat.

PBtoast707 · 2023-10-13T21:44:52+00:00

Having a very interesting childhood is cool when I want to tell a story. Sometimes it’s really annoying having to explain to people I’m not actually British, I just lived there when I was young and learning to talk. Maybe driving a Land Rover and eating Digestives doesn’t help my case for not being a Brit.

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-10-13T21:46:20+00:00

Q4A: I have settle this with ppd votes, is it “gay” for a man to do the side splits and gymnastic flares

eye_fuck · 2023-10-13T21:57:37+00:00

You should never date a woman who is not THAT all over you

DerayRevan · 2023-10-13T22:06:40+00:00

"Women don't know the torture of having to entertain, create a connection with, pretending you care, do emotional labor for someone for hours on dates when you can't think coherently or concentrate on anything because all you can think about is banging them"

I never had to none of things

Because am just always direct about sex

saraimarsena · 2023-10-13T22:10:54+00:00

i need a break from some people’s incessant posting sometimes, gonna have to risk mod wrath w a block

business_explained · 2023-10-13T22:38:34+00:00

https://x.com/PstafarianPrice/status/1712466032751968704?s=20

Hah, the things women will say to keep men coping.

If any of you wonder why so many men genuinely think that women don't care about a guy's attractiveness, it's because our mothers said a variance of that tweet to us.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-13T22:44:09+00:00

Most attractive ethnicities, highest to lowest

White
Hispanic
Middle Eastern
Indian
African
Asian (they look like aliens)

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-13T22:47:00+00:00

Just wanted to say this one thing that’s been bugging me: Stop demanding DNA tests to be mandatory. It’s PATHETIC. Why should society pay for the fact these men fuck whores and blindly believe them? Pay for your own DNA test, pussies.

potoricco · 2023-10-13T23:00:19+00:00

One movie I can’t bring myself to watch is get out. Like I absolutely can’t

Maffioze · 2023-10-13T23:01:22+00:00

The justice system in my country is so fucking broken. Literal rapists and pedophiles are released with no jail time but a dude who drove without a drivers license because he thought his girlfriend was pregnant (she wasn't, she lied) gets 4 years in jail. How does any of this make sense?

potoricco · 2023-10-13T23:06:08+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/jy0pb7b1x1ub1.jpeg?width=900&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=618ef1e10fefd2a3893f8d026cdf321195e28250

Said you want a girl that’s gon please you

keebydee · 2023-10-13T23:08:40+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/j9ausrcix1ub1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2d3f70d181984d2829d3362ae31d29904764e63f

Seeing Instagram reels of people talking about their love lives when they were young is soul crushing. This is THE ultimate depression fuel. I never even had a sleepover or been invited to someone's house to hang out until I was like 16/17 and at the time that seemed like a big step for me meanwhile everyone else been had dating experience and more?. Why did I have to be so behind in life?

le_paso · 2023-10-13T23:15:17+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/s/ZyvbPbpya9

Dam, the cope is insane

potoricco · 2023-10-13T23:15:59+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8hdMmm8/

She really said no

This is CRACKING me up

potoricco · 2023-10-13T23:22:15+00:00

There are guys movies and girls movies. I tried watching gladiator on Netflix but it’s SO FUCKING BORING I removed it. This is how men feel about bridgerton and barbie

potoricco · 2023-10-13T23:34:12+00:00

I want to dress 70s

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-13T23:35:05+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/therewasanattempt/s/0zisc8ckvl

Relationship goal

DerayRevan · 2023-10-13T23:46:13+00:00

You know what you can do with your money ?

Donations to my new grift

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-13T23:54:17+00:00

People on TV who have too perfect teeth are dentures/implants?

meaning people go and remove all of their teeth and replace them for a whole new set of teeth?

I can understand it in old people, but young?

So there's a instance during the whole process where they have no teeth and probably wear dentures while healing from extractions so they can't chew?

Maffioze · 2023-10-14T00:11:34+00:00

I'm watching the first season of love is blind on Netflix.

Why do all the guys seem fairly good guys while like half of the women are extremely toxic?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-14T00:13:03+00:00

Sunny days wouldn't be special if it wasn't for rain,
Joy wouldn't feel so good if it wasn't for pain

No-Regular1667 · 2023-10-14T00:14:43+00:00

Social advice like “just talk to women like one of the guys” and “interact with women without romantic intentions” is overrated since women will never reciprocate those same feelings.

Women will never view a man talking to her like she would view another woman talking to her. Women will almost always assume a guy talking to her has ulterior romantic intentions regardless.

potoricco · 2023-10-14T00:16:04+00:00

I GET THE HYPE WITH ADAM DRIVER

keebydee · 2023-10-14T00:32:15+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/aspergers/comments/177br81/why_do_girls_treat_me_like_a_pet_or_a_kid/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

This is also how girls always treated me. Not all but a good amount. Very strange, I don't get why they do this. Still happens too. Not too long ago, a cashier at a store that I shop at frequently called me her bestie to another one of her coworkers but we don't even each others name. 🤨 I never seen other guys get treated this way either. I don't understand what this behavior is.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-14T00:40:48+00:00

Do you keep any kind of journal?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-14T01:25:55+00:00

How "redpilled would you say these lyrics are ?

"Don't get me wrong, I love these hoes
It's no secret, everybody knows
Yeah, we fucked—bitch, so what?
That's about as far as your buddy goes
We'll be friends, I'll call you again
I'll chase you around every bar you attend
Never know what kinda car I'll be in
We'll see how much you'll be partyin' then
You don't want that ? Neither do I
I don't wanna flip when I see you with guys.
Too much pride, between you and I
Not a jealous man ? but females lie
But I guess that's just what sluts do
How could it ever be just us two?
I'd never love you enough to trust you
We just met and I just fucked you"

potoricco · 2023-10-14T01:38:52+00:00

I Wish I Was Alive in The 70s

scwizard · 2023-10-14T02:07:25+00:00

Had a great date last night. I felt like we really hit it off. We agreed to hang out at my place, no sex. I told him he had to leave in an hour since I had to wake up early. After an hour, I told him I had to go to bed, and he just sat there and kept talking. I told him again, same thing. After the third time, I got so scared

Why do girls do "let's go back to my place but no sex." It seems like it ends awkwardly at best and frighteningly at worst.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-14T02:22:51+00:00

are there specific moments in life where you longed for a partner. what was/is the reason?

definitely had it today when I couldn't open a jar for a while. sometimes when I'm cold at night I think itd be nice to sleep next to someone. things like that

keebydee · 2023-10-14T02:24:44+00:00

Mother is spiraling right now about her ex and father. I don't mind ranting but I get a little pissy when she takes it out on me and when I call her out, she insists that she's only talking about me. Fuck man, why could've I have been born in a normal family instead of dealing with the bullshit of the men she chose to date all my life? 🙄🙄

HolidayWhile · 2023-10-14T02:37:16+00:00

Considered for a moment loading up Bumble again. So I went to the play store and read the reviews to talk myself out of it. 3.9 stars can't be that bad, right?

Every single positive review is from, uh, Microsoft technical support. Trending topics include "pay wall" and "worst dating app".

Reviews for other apps are even worse. How can anyone fall for this scam in this day and age?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-14T02:42:37+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cv0MJh_sH7_/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

AngeCruelle · 2023-10-14T03:16:18+00:00

Yes I know I'm months behind on this but oh my gosh Reddit got rid of awards

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-14T03:49:19+00:00

I realized today that almost all of my clothes are like Garanimals…pick a top, pick a bottom - they coordinate!

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-14T04:07:24+00:00

Rate him, and what advice would you give him?

https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/7eaWSNf26q

scwizard · 2023-10-14T04:22:21+00:00

How come some girls tell guys "let's go back to my place but no sex ok" and the guy respects her boundaries and they make out and have a good time

And some girls have really shitty experiences.

Is it pure luck or is it picking wrong?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-14T04:38:29+00:00

Do you think Obama bangs women on the side or has banged ?

Also respect to him for not being obsessed with the appearance of his spouse. Intelligent people do not tend to pick their spouses primarily based on looks.

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-10-14T05:02:41+00:00

Women legitimately have no idea how picky they are

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-10-14T05:07:34+00:00

Women really want you to. Be some bend over bitch that chased regardless

le_paso · 2023-10-14T05:25:51+00:00

Q4W do you exfoliate

Gundam_net · 2023-10-14T06:31:45+00:00

To set the record straight, I wasn't lying about the orgasming strippers.

Here's what actually happened: First of all, I don't lie for Karma. Believe it or not... I am telling the truth.

Girl 1: Her nipples started throbbing and got errect right in the palm of my hands. I'd never experienced that before. In both cases (Girl 1 and Girl 2), both girls' cliterouses got errect.

My opinion, the errect nipples girl (Girl 1) was just super horny and was 18. I wad 25 at the time. She had her hand inside my pants giving me a hand job with her face on my pants sniffing through the fabric. lmao. After it happened she was sitting there grinding her errect clit on my penis through my shorts in her own world until she realized I was looking at her like 'hello... what are you doing down there? lol' as the bed was flat she was sitting on my crotch like a few feet away from my face, so like a decen5 distance. She had a pretty big clit too. Like the size of a thumb.

Her nipples were also like more developed than other girls like they looked long and round with flat tips like the plastic covers on thermostats that go in your ear to check your temperature -- like fully developed breasts of an older woman, but she was younger than 25 and honestly looked 18. I learned later she was a single mom so she probably got pregnant at 16ish and was maybe in dry spells taking care of her kid, working graveyard shifts, not doing a prestigous job that rich guys would like etc etc. So I think she was just horny and young and in dry spells. That said, I didn't look bad. I was working out and eating right, sleeping long, using skin care (retinol + vit c + spf 30 daily) and I had a good haircut with not bad clothes so I wasn't ugly by any means. In fact, she thought I was 18. She even mentioned that she was turned on that I was nervous because she was super hot... like c-cup perky boobs and a slim waist, good face etc. Like she was the girl who gets pregnant at 16 with the hottest guy in town hot, which is exactly what happened. Then she was just a single mom stripper... I just happened to show up randomly one night and the stars aligned Idk.

Other time (Girl 2) I built up tension with the girl by teasing her with cash bills, like gently rubbing them along her vulva on stage. And I was using a mix of 1's, 5's 10's and 20's so she paid attention to the biggs larger than 1s (lol). I was also with a girl from work so she started playing with her and thought she was cute so she already started to like me more than the other guys around just because of that. While she was on stage, she put my face between her thighs and I tried to push my head to her vagina (obviously) but she was actually strong enough in her legs to stop my actual honest effort, like I seriously tried, and I was lifting weights at the time too so that was actually impressive.

The girl I was with actually bought me the lap dance with her as a surprise as well, which also shocked me. While there eventually she sat on my lap back to back and began grinding but, the angles were bad and her pubic bone was blocking good contact. I was slouching in the sofa, so I slid myself back into backrest to sit up straight and in doing so I also slid her back with me readjusting the angles. She was now leaning for forward and her arms were holding my thighs for support to not fall over. Now, her vulva was perfectly aligned. I could literally feel the shape of her through my shorts and through her bikini bottom. She she started grinding again, but this time the angles were perfect. Her skin would slide with my foreskin, and she would go all the way up to the edge of my penis and slide all the way back down to the base and push into my core. It honestly was the best feeling sexual encounter I've had so far, my skin was stretching and sliding just to the point of feeling really good but not hurting. I assume it was the same for her. I could feel her entire vulva slide backwards when she got to the end of my penis going away from me and then it would slide back the other way until she was all the way at the base and then she would rotate her hips so that her vulva slid forward in fron of her pelvis and she did this in real time at the speed of humping someone seriously and after like a short while of this she grabbed my thighs really tight and then her body started convulsing. Her hed went down and her abs tightend up and her whole abdomen would contract and shake like in a rolling motion, like squeezing your abs super tight. There was about 3 of these in like half a second.

Afterwards she turned around and was suddenly nicer to me. I didn't pay for 'touching' so she got mad at the beginning when I accidentally instinctually put my hands on her hips/waist, just resting there. I wasn't being rude or anything I was just like 'oops, sorry' but after the whole shaking thing she let me lick her nipples without complaining at all. Then she started putting her clit inside my belly button which was... her unique quirk. I can't say I've ever experienced anything like that except with her. Nobody else has ever done that. It was wierd, but not overly weird. She was also hot. She was also taller than me (she was 5'11"). Girl 1 was like (5'6").

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-14T06:49:31+00:00

Enjoy

https://reddit.com/r/stories/s/BaXWM1aTDg

Blocksplain · 2023-10-14T06:49:40+00:00

Me want she express desire

EdithUlUGInspire3 · 2023-10-19T23:24:09+00:00

LOL, so U weren't BSing abt the exotic dancers. Ain't hunting karma, rn. U had a wild encounter - it's all facts, no fiction. Girl 1 got super turnt on and u guys had an unforgettable adventure. Srsly, what a story!

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