Daily Community Chat Megathread

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2022-04-19T17:38:24+00:00

The most emotionally messy men I’ve met claimed to be hyper rational and non-emotional. Their emotions came leaking out in passive aggressive and indirect ways, all while they claim they aren’t upset or hurt. I’m reminded of them whenever some dude insists that all women are bad and stupid while simultaneously insisting men are the rational gender

HateBeingAMan2 · 2022-04-19T19:31:23+00:00

Women are so out of touch it's insane.

I (M26) was venting to a friend (F23) a while back about being unable to find love and she was like : «just go on Tinder / Bumble, look at your likes and messages, and start there. Even if they are not your type or meet your standards, just go out with them. All it does it costs you one extra meal»

So yeah. Wow!

I tried to explain to her that Men do not get offers like that unless they are super hot but she just did not seem to get it. It is telling how she pretty much also is entitled to getting a free outing because she is lucky enough to get to be a woman. I keep telling her to pretend to be a guy online and try to get a date but she refuses to. Just wants to live in her bubble I guess

Also while Women may not like most of their offers, they have a huge pool to start with. Even 1% of that is a lot of people. Men barely get any offers and will not like 99% of them either...

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-04-19T18:46:54+00:00

Comments from the other thread describing how it’s only worth it to have casual sex with really hot guys lol I swear women drop the biggest pills

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/u76qkc/a_man_who_is_above_average_looking_say_79_should/i5dhmk2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/u76qkc/a_man_who_is_above_average_looking_say_79_should/i5d1bc4/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-04-19T19:59:56+00:00

Why are half the discussions on marriage about SAHMs when the majority of couples who have kids both work full time jobs? Like. It’s really not common and I doubt the majority of people here are earning enough for a full family anyway so what’s the point in discussing it?

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-19T18:30:19+00:00

There is one thing I've realized about what makes a man successful with women. It comes down to (majorly) how you feel about yourself. While guys assume that they feel bad about who they are because they are not Chad, I propose that they are not a Chad because they don't feel good about themselves.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-19T22:26:26+00:00

I’ve been noticing this funny trend here .

Some male users will straight up dick ride women to prove to other users they are having sex lol.

My friend…it’s okay to say chicks be stupid, annoying and they be getting on your nerves, we will still believe you be fucking bro….It’s okay

xpinkrainbowsx · 2022-04-20T02:01:35+00:00

i was on the train today and was on my phone when some old man sat down next to me. he started a conversation and we chatted for a bit then he asked for my age. i told him my age (20) and then asked for his, and he told me he was 36. we continue the conversation and this man goes on to tell me his life story about how in his 20s he spent a lot of time with undergrad/ grad school and spent a lot of time “having fun”, and how he’s been looking to settle down and start a family but couldn’t find anyone. he said he was looking for a woman to “treat like a queen.” i pressed the button so i could get off at my stop and he asked me for my number. i declined and explained i had a bf, then told him have a good day.

this man was not attractive whatsoever. typical old guy beer belly, thin hair, and forehead wrinkle combo who probably thinks he’s in his prime at 36 and that his sperm is still top quality lol. just made me think of all you awesome guys at PPD who think men don’t hit a wall and think you’ll have your pick of the litter the older you get. just thought that was funny.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-21T02:44:06+00:00

Music just makes everything better. Life is good.

Slipthe · 2022-04-20T17:43:48+00:00

Real talk, I argue against TRP's 'women are the oldest teenager in the house', but after a lot of reflection, I do use my gender roles as a shield against personal responsibility.

That doesn't apply to all women, but it does apply to the women who are like... putzing around in jobs, with no career goals, just waiting to become a housewife or something so that they don't have to try anymore.

GridReXX · 2022-04-19T17:02:51+00:00

Manically deleting comments is unhinged behavior. It makes me uncomfortable

CMV.

About the first sentence, not the second sentence. That view isn’t changing lol.

GridReXX · 2022-04-19T17:33:58+00:00

Women’s attraction to men is based on more than looks.

A man with the capacity to look physically attractive who shrouds himself in whack clothes, whack hairstyle, whack disposition, and literally doesn’t interact with women outside of asking them out will not be arousing. Hell, he won’t even be noticed.

Furthermore, men with the capacity to look physically attractive who have a good sense of style, good hairstyle, normie disposition, and interacts with women in his day to day don’t have the issues you’re talking about.

TLDR: Don’t be a hobbit NPC and maybe the man you describe would get “looks matched” bitches too.

/u/hoosker-doos I notice you don’t reply in your OPs to counter opinions, so maybe you can help me understand your CMV?

What would change your view? This song is heavy on your heart.

QuenchlessGato · 2022-04-19T17:44:08+00:00

/u/GridReXX I got an official reddit "Warning for Promoting Hate" for my yesterdays's spaghetti comment on our Black American discussion.

I am feeling a range of emotions right now.

scwizard · 2022-04-19T18:30:24+00:00

Porn sickness causes permanent damage of the frontal lobe. Much like drug abuse, the damage can never be repaired.

The frontal lobe is involved with decision making, will power and empathy. The more they use porn, the more grey matter they destroy, the more unlikely it is they will quit.

It is why even ex addicts are basically a no go.

Having 50 ex girlfriends is fine but if you watch porn you're irreparably damaged.

thetruthishere_ · 2022-04-19T18:56:12+00:00

Dating in the early 1900's.

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2022-04-20T00:50:37+00:00

Really cute girl at my gym but I'm too shy to talk to her.

Women like being hit on by short, awkward, sweaty guys at the gym right?

YouBanAway · 2022-04-20T03:26:04+00:00

It's very interesting seeing so many married women with kids on Instagram, but maybe 1 out of 20 posts actually includes a photo of their husband (with 80 percent being selfies or reels of themselves doing some retarded, uncoordinated dance).

Yeah, they "love" you

scwizard · 2022-04-20T04:46:35+00:00

The main contradiction is "there's a man out there for every woman, but there's not a woman out there for guys like you."

You can't cut out swaths of the male population as low value scrotes while also rejecting the idea that any woman could possibly end up alone.

The unmatched women go hand in hand with unmatched men if you believe in monogamy.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-19T19:10:07+00:00

I think on average women do a better job of accepting their role as women then men do it accepting their role as men. Women dress up and pay attention to their appearance, they smell nice, are nice to look at, shave their pussies, do their nails, etc. It's hard work but they do it with joy because they enjoy being women.

Men? Men want to concede all the responsibilities of being a man. They don't want to take action, make moves, protect. They just want to sit at home in their dirty underwear until a hot naked woman materializes in their living room.

rosesonthefloor · 2022-04-19T19:44:09+00:00

The Bachelorette is definitely the biggest Cuck show. These Men have no self respect and this is definitely the fakest reality show I've seen; and I only watched 1 episode

trombompoline · 2022-04-19T23:23:52+00:00

White girls and asian girls are so pretty...

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-20T01:38:29+00:00

Ngl if you wanna learn a sport to get chicks, don’t learn fighting, go to a dance studio and be the most masculine-ish guy there

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-20T02:32:21+00:00

Ppd is gay

scwizard · 2022-04-20T03:42:27+00:00

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BRUH :(

hairy_bamboo · 2022-04-19T17:01:03+00:00

Omg am I first?

HateBeingAMan2 · 2022-04-19T19:34:34+00:00

Example number 2 of Women being out of touch.

Had a co-worker (F36) of mine (M26) say that people who cannot find dates are those who don't really wnat them. I told her that it is BS - I've been looking for a GF for 6 years and couldn't find one. She had trouble accepting that as a reality, and I am not sure she completely accepted it. A woman in a fucking suicide hotline had the same remarks. She could not comprehend the idea of not being able to find a significant other. She was like «I don't understand; were you like too busy with school and work to find a partner». No idiot; Men who are not Chads can't just get dates. GEt out of your bubble of privilege

lulll · 2022-04-19T21:28:40+00:00

lmao ezra miller got arrested again. this is like 3 times in the past 2 months

The_Mastermind_ · 2022-04-19T22:16:31+00:00

Lol. I was at an event that was happening at a bar. There was a woman there and towards the end of the event me, my friend and her were talking about dating, relationships, etc.

She was complaining about how she is 33 and there were no men who were interested in her and the ones that were interested were bums and only interested in sex. My friend who is very redpill was giving her advice. He asked her age and when she told him he directly told her "It's going to be difficult for you because your eggs are drying up. So you don't have time to wait or play games. You might have to even make some approaches."

She got very upset at that fact. She was like " how dare you tell me I'm old. How dare you tell me what to do? " Lol, what? You're the one who asked for advice. She got visibly angry and upset and started saying that "you should take care of your own life and not throw shade on others lives". My friend tried to console her but she was in so much denial. Seeing that she was angry at the truth he finally got fed up and said "Good luck with your cats", and then got up and left. I followed suit.

Lol. The whole thing was hilarious. It's so funny how these women are so delusional.

Orange_Paisley · 2022-04-19T22:47:37+00:00

Well, I made it to the jury box but I didn’t survive the first cut at jury duty. Now I’ll never get that “12 Angry Men” experience. Or at least not for 18 more months.

scwizard · 2022-04-19T23:02:08+00:00

Some of the woman in the thread I made are like "you're missing several key alternatives, this is such a dumb thread"

I'm open to reasonable suggestions.

If happily ever after with "the one" isn't an option what's second best? Or are you going to tell me with a straight place that everyone who dreams of a 6'4 guy who owns a house can have that.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-04-20T02:28:05+00:00

PSA: The most attractive "hobby" you can have to women is being a stoner.

Provided you meet these requirements:

Don't be completely repulsive
Have at least enough social skills to have casual conversation
Obviously, provided if you can afford to be a stoner in both the monetary sense and in several other ways too.
Not a requirement, but having a crib you can smoke weed at is incredibly helpful, but not entirely necessary

YMMV, but I gotta say that literally every stoner dude I've known has never had a problem getting laid (even if they were complete losers and dusty looking), and most of the dudes I know who have problems getting laid also are sober of all substances.

There are very obvious risks, but if you're smart, those risks should be negligible

Also it should go without saying that this isn't going to get you a quality girlfriend, but if you're just looking for some play, it does you good

lulll · 2022-04-20T02:38:17+00:00

knock knock

scwizard · 2022-04-20T03:44:35+00:00

This was my thread that got filtered:

50% of american guys are 5'9 or shorter. Would you ever be willing to marry and have children with a guy shorter than 5'9?

63% of american guys have not completed college. Would you ever be willing to marry and have children with a guy who didn't graduate from college?

The median salary for american guys is 57,456 USD. Would you be willing to marry and have children with a guy who made less than 57,456 USD?

80% of american guys have watched porn within the past week. Would you be willing to marry and have children with a guy who watches porn at least weekly?

50% of guys have below average looks. Would you be willing to marry and have children with a guy who had below average looks?

45% of guys lean republican. Would you be willing to marry and have children with a guy who's voted republican?

40% of american guys are uncircumcised. Would you be willing to marry and have children with a guy who's uncircumcised?

Only 22% of american guys consider themselves to be a feminist. Would you be willing to marry and have children with a guy who doesn't consider himself to be a feminist?

I couldn't find a percentage, but a minority of single men own homes. would you be willing to marry and have children with a guy who doesn't own a home?

On an average day, 19 percent of men did housework–such as cleaning or doing laundry–compared with 49 percent of women. Would you be willing to marry and have children with a guy who does less than half the the housework?

houstongradengineer · 2022-04-20T04:37:26+00:00

Listen up you straight cis males, I'm barely gonna post on here anymore, so listen good. Why is it always "I literally hate fat women" but it's never "let me give you a wake-up call and some meal prep and then spot you at the gym." Mind ya business, if you're not gonna fix it just don't say anything at all lmfao

scwizard · 2022-04-20T04:57:29+00:00

i do competitive cheerleading, same here. the amount of men who sexualize it is astonishing. like no, i don't want to "show you how flexible i am" you disgusting pervert.

Uh oh it's the fun police.

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DerekMorganBAU · 2022-04-19T17:42:44+00:00

I’m 37 hours into a dry fast. I’m at work feeling tired as hell but I’m just tryna detox.

Who else here has fasted before

lulll · 2022-04-19T18:03:39+00:00

you may not like it but this is what peak performance actually looks like. get those fucking abs out of my face

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-04-19T18:03:40+00:00

Q4All: Has anyone in any context ever told you your own standards are too high/low or that they're just wrong/bad in some other way

If so, what was the context?

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-04-19T19:29:47+00:00

U guys know that crazy preacher lady who goes to college campuses? I once got famous on my undergrad Old Row page for heckling her. I just remembered that bc UK girl and I were discussing her and thought PPD would laugh at the story

bighuddi · 2022-04-19T19:41:24+00:00

some of these dudes in here got lucky so they're really blind to the dystopia. they're here going reeee invalidating peoples personal experience for magical brownie points in the F S M. you'll never change their mind cause they never been in your shoes and you are in their brain urinating on an effigy of their idol. nobody wants to be told they have privilege. nobody wants to give up any privilege. (waiting for one of them to repport me)

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-19T22:06:57+00:00

You guys want more cum powers?

FuuraKafu · 2022-04-19T23:06:34+00:00

Which one would you rather have if you had to chose one, a female body with a penis, or a male body with a vagina?

Barely-moral · 2022-04-20T00:19:54+00:00

approximately what percentage of male problems would be solved if men formed close knit, highly self-validating and vocal groups like women do?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-04-20T01:00:03+00:00

Is there any evidence that a woman putting “not interested in hookups” on a online dating profile actually deters men who want casuals sex from trying?

If anything I would argue it makes guys more persistent.

“Like who the hell does this chick think she is talking about she not on tinder to fuck”

TheJim66 · 2022-04-20T01:09:19+00:00

If you lose a fight in front of your woman or look afraid of getting into one, you are sexually dead to her. Just leaving this here to clear any misunderstanding.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-04-20T01:16:06+00:00

Q4M: would you date/marry a modern feminist?

And don't come on here with the "if you mean the "equality" feminist versus the feminazi bullshit", if they were really about equality they would be fine with "egalitarian" , so the question stands

And I remember how a lot of you women responded a few months ago with the "would you date a red pill guy" post , so don't try to act slick with any nonsense here🤣

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-04-20T02:04:42+00:00

Wow. I had a trash day at work with some struggle bus items and I was on the treadmill at the gym and my boss/ my VP just called me and entrusted me to try and toughen up a co worker who almost started crying when he yelled at him (he's 23 and just graduated mech-e)/ in contrast to me when i got yelled at for a similar thing (like i said it was a tough day). Tbh that was the best compliment he possibly could have given me and shit, dude knows how to motivate his employees because I'm gonna do my absolute best

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-20T02:32:57+00:00

Q4ALL: Have you ever seen or heard a woman say she likes tall men because she likes to feel protected?

scwizard · 2022-04-20T02:59:42+00:00

I did a social life thing and now I have 47 orange reds.

lol

sosayeth · 2022-04-20T17:34:46+00:00

People who are unmarried and not in long-term relationships stay trying to convince everyone else how happy and satisfied, which goes to show they're not actually that.

They wake up, look in the mirror, grit their teeth and smack themselves in the face every morning and think, "You are happy! You are happier than them! All those different dicks/vaginas you need bring you more happiness than just one dick/vagina could ever bring! You are the happiest!"

UpperScientist5158 · 2022-04-20T17:22:46+00:00

has anyone tried a dating coach? what exactly do they do? from what i can tell, they're all just a scam.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-20T17:15:38+00:00

Being alpha widowed must suck… I feel for those girls. Maybe it’s better to not know at that level what you can’t have.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-19T17:03:29+00:00

The dreaded younger, prettier woman

scwizard · 2022-04-19T17:18:25+00:00

One way my standards are too high is I don't want a wife who's on psychiatric medication.

caption291 · 2022-04-19T17:21:25+00:00

The idea that women are "good" at social interactions is bullshit. It's not that they are good, it's that they set the rules of social interactions so they always "win" by just behaving how they want while female.

geometersbane · 2022-04-19T17:28:03+00:00

Why do women care more about the tone of the message than the message itself?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-19T17:57:14+00:00

To this day i don’t know what y’all be meaning by NPC

scwizard · 2022-04-19T18:26:08+00:00

I had a relationshit with an alcoholic cokehead who started shooting up meth, and even his awful behaviour hasn't left me as traumatised as that of porn addicts. Tbh while I'm glad the movement is gaining traction, I'm sick to death of hearing men whine about their addiction and how it's "compulsive" and they have to reset their "streak" every 2 days. I know addiction, I know compulsive disorders. You're not trying. You want to watch woman being sexually tortured and are justifying it to yourself by avoiding accountability.

Damn...

HateBeingAMan2 · 2022-04-19T18:29:35+00:00

Anyone have experience with Chad's and what their lives are like?

I am acquainted with many Stacies and I can tell you right now they pretty much live in heaven, as long as they are upper middle class or higher as well (which most of them are from my experience). Don't know any Chad's though

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-04-19T18:48:15+00:00

Day 7 of music sharing Devil's carnival - After the fall

scwizard · 2022-04-19T18:51:57+00:00

How much wealth and income do I need for a woman to want to beta bux off me these days?

What if I'm unwilling to accept women who have children.

What if I come across as a bit off?

High n women are fine.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-19T19:27:19+00:00

Does anybody have no issue getting laid but just doesn’t have any luck getting the type they like? I don’t get no cute shy ladies into anime 😞 How come they don’t want me, ppd? 😢

Could it be because I’m (gulps).......bald???? 😮

scwizard · 2022-04-19T19:43:28+00:00

I don't actually look at porn in the traditional pornhub sense. I'm way further gone than that and I just pretend like I do as a smokescreen lol

scwizard · 2022-04-19T20:00:33+00:00

I feel like I need to have a funeral for the lifetime I wasted giving my attention to LVMs. I’m 43 and I’ve literally never had a relationship with someone who loved me and pulled their own weight in the relationship. I’m grieving so much lost time.

Is it even possible to reproduce without being a pickme that's content with mediocre guys who don't pull their own weight?

I know some women do find men that are genuinely high value but if only let's say 10% of men are, the only hope 90% of women have for passing on their genes is be a pickme that lets some gross scrote impregnate her cause she doesn't have any respect for herself.

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2022-04-19T20:07:54+00:00

CMV: Being born to a single mother is better than being born to average married couples.

It is simple you get to inherit chad's genes and have all the toxic traits that get women wet.

scwizard · 2022-04-19T21:06:17+00:00

Maybe I should have added a sixth option where you get to be married to a HVM for 6 months but then after that time you die in a tragic and completely unavoidable accident.

Just to see how many women rate being a pickme as literally worse than death.

CrabMaster- · 2022-04-19T21:11:45+00:00

My gym buddy cancelled on me. Now I'm laying in bed all horny for weights.

Is this what alpha widows feel like?

scwizard · 2022-04-19T21:14:04+00:00

/u/CatoftheBanals is going with the option that involves her HVM boyfriend's wife, the sweet loving mother of four young children, being murdered in cold blood in a "botched robbery"

I wonder if she'd try and be a mother to those children knowing she's the one who ordered their real mother killed.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-19T21:42:55+00:00

Ok, your superpowers are

You're immortal but every time you cum, you lose a day off of your life. If you reach a certain number of cums you just die. You literally just drop dead when you hit the number (You don't know what the number is)

Or

You're like superhuman strength but every time you cum you get weaker and weaker until you shrivel up and die.

jk272 · 2022-04-19T21:56:52+00:00

I’m 6’2”, decent looking (rated by women on this four as a 7) and I barely get any matched or girls interested in my that are somewhat attractive. Online dating is ridiculous and is taking a toll on my mental health :/

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-19T22:09:30+00:00

Ah, someone I was not expecting blocked me. Anyways, I've had my reddit fill.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-19T22:35:52+00:00

Got one of my girls coming over today, got the house to ourselves as well.

Would be an understatement to say I'm looking forward to it.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-19T22:39:25+00:00

There’s a post asking if women are attracted to fighters.

Maybe not specifically combat sports athletes but pretty much all women like a guy who can fight. The ones who don’t are lying. Let’s see if they are still attracted to their man if they find out he throws punches like a girl and looks like a complete pussy when fighting even the average guy lol

Past_Course_5130 · 2022-04-20T00:04:08+00:00

Q4All: On a scale of 1/10 how beautiful are you?

Reoblivion · 2022-04-20T01:11:29+00:00

Are landlords supposed to replace burn out light bulbs?

luliloo · 2022-04-20T01:54:15+00:00

My guy just stopped by to say hi. He was on his way home from buying a motorcycle and I got to see him ride away on it for the first time. Hot 😍😍

edgyny · 2022-04-20T03:34:30+00:00

Since Lillth is quitting PPD, I replaced her with this https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdXhHJX3/

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-04-20T03:40:50+00:00

Bullying people for being lightweights is outdated. I am absolutely smashed off two buzz balls and I spent $5. Y’all are just jealous

huhwhatokok · 2022-04-20T03:47:11+00:00

Girl I wanted to smash hit my boy up and now I’m wingmanning bc her fat friend is going out with them. Flair aint going away sadly but hopefully I get some head.

scifiipie · 2022-04-20T04:59:58+00:00

Q4M: Would you LTR a girl who got some plastic surgery done (ex. a nose job) knowing she was still avg or cute before not hideous?

scwizard · 2022-04-20T17:10:29+00:00

I'm gonna lol if women say 99% of single men are losers, but the idea that the only way to get married is to settle for a loser is ridiculous.

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-20T16:56:25+00:00

Lmao look at all the women defending the ghoster

Discussion: whenever I've given a flakey person a 2nd Chance it never works out. I've probably only gotten laid once in my life from giving them more attention. It's just not worth the effort. If she wanted to, she would. This is why I stand by "fuck yes or no".

Also she probably looks down on him for making less and found a richer guy to shoot her shot with.

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2022-04-20T16:40:28+00:00

I'll never understand the one-word-response women on Tinder.

Like if you don't find me attractive then why match with me in the first place?

If you don't want to talk or don't enjoy the conversation then either shift it in a direction that you like or don't reply at all.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-20T16:19:57+00:00

Q4W: How would you feel if you wrestled your man and he was legitimately going at 100% and you still beat him?

Edit: I don't care if you're 100 lbs and it would be 'impossible', honor the question!

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-20T16:14:06+00:00

Anyone here watch kdrama? Give me some recommendations…. I am in the mood to cry.

Stuff like

hotel king secret garden (rewatched May 20') Healer love from another star Pinocchio She Was Pretty Sky castle Fight my way Strong-Woman-Do-Bong-Soon (comedy) Uncontrollably-Fond My-Golden-Life/ High Society (my dude - Sung Joon is all logical) Because this is my first time Still 17 Waikiki 2 (comedy top) The good manager. Strongest delivery man

Slipthe · 2022-04-20T15:57:24+00:00

If you have/had a partner, do they brag about you? Or what would they brag about?

Virtual-Visual7609 · 2022-04-20T15:56:39+00:00

Ladies what do u think of man driving a classic car like a Jaguar or Aston Martin?

AquaChip · 2022-04-20T15:52:56+00:00

In a marketing department with only one other person when there’s suppose to be six people in marketing 🤪🔫

I’m doing three other people’s job responsibilities and they’re “snail slow” to give me a raise. 🙂

DonQOnIce · 2022-04-20T15:34:11+00:00

Johnny Depp stans are something else. Saw some saying that Amber Heard is the reason he’s an addict.

That man was definitely snorting lines while Heard was in the womb.

Fine_Ad5151 · 2022-04-20T15:19:39+00:00

This has been a fun community for a couple months. Gonna peace out and nuke my account in a bit here.

IllustriousCloud961 · 2022-04-20T15:14:28+00:00

r/IncelTear seems like a sub full of jilted spinsters or something.

Idk why they care so much about incels.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-04-20T15:09:01+00:00

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chilikettlechips · 2022-04-20T14:49:51+00:00

Yall ever notice how when women are talking about the horrible things men have done to them, they’re met with support and told “men can be trash/men are horrible,” yet when a woman treats a man horribly, all he gets told is “well women are people too.” Not once are women as a group blamed for the actions of other women, yet society can paint men as potential rapists and abusers and everyone just agrees. How is it not just as invalidating to say “not all women” when women get so defensive when men say “not all men”?

Slipthe · 2022-04-20T14:47:43+00:00

What do you think your mental weaknesses are?

dbz19 · 2022-04-20T14:43:03+00:00

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hornyjailer1 · 2022-04-20T14:41:21+00:00

Are there any SW developers that feel like blowing their brains out due to their job? Not because its difficult but because of the fucking bullshit around it.

This field is just horse shit. Shit constantly changing requirements, shit conversations with clients, shit SW infrastructure, shit documentation, shit testing infrastructure, absolutely horrid delivery process. My job is like 10 percent development 90 percent bullshit.

edgyny · 2022-04-20T14:33:00+00:00

In our wide-ranging conversation, I mentioned a study indicating that compared with men who have bachelor’s degrees, men with master’s degrees get about twice as many “likes” on Tinder.

Aaron (bright dude who I attended undergrad with) joked that he’d rather get jacked in the gym than pursue a “midwit” master’s degree. I replied that getting jacked would indeed be a better strategy to improve romantic prospects.

Muscularity is the strongest predictor of mating success for men.

A study on males aged 18 to 59 found that muscularity is significantly positively associated with the number of total sexual partners and partners in the last year.

Handgrip strength is correlated with self-assessed happiness, health, social confidence, overall physical attractiveness, and overall number of sexual partners.

Researchers recorded short videos of 157 different men. Next, they had a group of male viewers watch videos of the men and asked, “How likely is it that this man would win a physical fight with another man?” Then the researchers had a group of female viewers watch the same videos and asked, “How sexually attractive is this man?” Eighteen months later, the men in the videos completed a questionnaire asking about their sexual history of the previous 18 months. How tough a guy looked to men was a much stronger predictor of mating success than how attractive he looked to women.

In this study, researchers asked two different groups of women to look at photos of different men and rate how strong the men looked. Results showed that the rated strength of a male body accounts for 70 percent of the variance in attractiveness (this is a massive effect size). From the paper: “None of the women produced a preference for weaker men…in both samples, the strongest men were the most attractive, the weakest men were the least attractive.”

via https://robkhenderson.substack.com/p/marriage-markets-and-muscularity

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-20T14:03:03+00:00

Q4A What is your height and weight?

Bandit174 · 2022-04-20T13:51:11+00:00

So my work from home streak is broken, I actually have to go into the office today. I know I am still lucky to be remote most of the time but it just irritates me because there no real reason that this meeting to needs to be in person. He's just going to be doing a PowerPoint presentation which is perfect for online. I swear upper management types get off on hearing themselves talk and having a crowd in front of them. Is it not enough that they get to make rediculous amounts of money 🙄

YouBanAway · 2022-04-20T13:42:25+00:00

I see flaws in both capitalism and socialism. The problem with my cousin is she's an extremely hard socialist (and is stuck in very progressive echochambers) and thinks anything capitalistic is bad. She complains about exploitation, but exploitation is literally intrinsic to human nature. I won't point it out to her, but her bullshit government job is more or less exploiting tax prayers.

Pretty much everyone commenting on this subreddit benefits from the exploitation of Chinese sweatshop workers. Did you see what happened when AOC made a sweatshirt that was made by Americans on a living wage? It ended up costing nearly $60.

The only way I see exploitation ending while human existence continues is at least one ofthe following holds true:

We have a nearly fully automated society
people become completely independent for all of their needs — e.g. they grow their own food, and they find an energy source to power their own home
everyone becomes extremely minimalistic and largely only buys what they need and only non-essentials which truly add value

I don't see any of the above happening anytime soon.

Prestigious698 · 2022-04-20T13:35:46+00:00

I’m going to make a broad assumption that’s probably objective. Almost all Latin women are attractive. I don’t know what it is, but I don’t meet a lot of plain/ugly looking Hispanic women at all.

Slipthe · 2022-04-20T13:32:42+00:00

/u/GridReXX I tried my first pilates yesterday, it was pretty good.

Obviously super simple flow, but it just felt like it hits all the points of a HIIT workout but with less intensity and impact. But like... how expensive is it for you? I kind of committed to like $199 a month. And I might just be stuck in a frugal mentality, but I've never spent that much on a service before. And I'm doing Club Pilates, which has mixed reviews from people who are really serious about the craft lol.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-20T13:30:28+00:00

More men need to develop a killer instinct and become a ruthless cunt in life, too many men are pushovers and don't know how to say no in life, they say yes to things because they feel they have to.

Start being SELFISH!!! If things don't fit your life than give them the boot, if people don't fit your life or future give them the boot. Start taking action and doing what you want for once instead of what others want you to do. Other people's view of you is irrelevant, the only person in your life that matters is you.

scwizard · 2022-04-20T13:28:48+00:00

HVM BEHAVIOR

-On Friday, a particularly stressed day, I came home to fresh flowers propped in the doorway for me.

-This weekend he took me to a nice Saturday dinner out (not a casual place) with entertainment afterwards.

-On Sunday he took me to a casual place we both like for brunch, then upgraded it by taking me to a cocktail experience and fancy Easter afternoon party. I had talked about going to the event for days and he secured tickets as a surprise.

-I was talking to someone out of obligation at the party, but he could tell I wasn’t feeling well. He firmly entered the conversation and got me out of there.

-I was feeling especially poorly on the way home but running out of gas. He jumped out to pump it for me, insisting.

-I saw a recipe on Pinterest we were both talking about offhandedly - just something you see scrolling. I texted him later asking if I should pick up dinner and he said nah, he’s got it. Turns out, he had snuck out to the store to make me my Pinterest food as a surprise.

I could never. Particularly the butting into conversation at a party. That's because I would make the (apparently incorrect assumption) that my girlfriend was an adult and could get herself out of a conversation that made her uncomfortable on her own.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-20T13:26:31+00:00

Q4W

How old r u and what’s the oldest you’d date ?

scwizard · 2022-04-20T13:19:17+00:00

What percentage of women would you describe as a pickme?

lulll · 2022-04-20T13:13:06+00:00

douching is bad for the vagina and messes with ph level

sounds like something a dirty vagina would say

dbz19 · 2022-04-20T13:01:21+00:00

Half of unmarried millenials in Japan are virgins

https://edition.cnn.com/2016/09/20/asia/japanese-millennials-virgins/

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-20T12:38:07+00:00

Driving behind a truck hauling logs got me like final destination vibes

AquaChip · 2022-04-20T12:04:47+00:00

I don’t know why most men here seemed shocked by the fact that everyone will not get to participate in the casual sex scene. That’s common sense to the rest of us.

lulll · 2022-04-19T23:27:13+00:00

there is nothing wrong with anime body pillows

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-20T01:26:12+00:00

When a woman puts “ no hookup “ in her bio , all she means is “ don’t just come straight at me talking about how you want to fuck but things can organically lead there sure “

DonQOnIce · 2022-04-20T01:30:51+00:00

Some dudes really be liked: Only men’s perspective matter, women are too dumb to understand anything. I am very smart and objective

The dumbassery is off the charts

Novadina · 2022-04-19T20:59:48+00:00

When kid is significantly overweight and it's not a result of some sort of condition, then it's child abuse and the result of bad parenting. I feel sympathy for adults that have been fat their whole life including their childhood

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-19T23:17:52+00:00

One of my lady friends was venting to me about how guys never want her for anything but sex, and of course up front I'm telling her it's gonna be okay, she just hasn't found the right guy, she's just had a run of shitty men and in the back of my mind I'm thinking

"If all these men are seeing the same thing you're clearly giving off a vibe that you're sex only. With all of these men there's one common denominator."

She's also like 22 and her body count is over 20, I'm not fucking surprised she's only getting men who want sex.

rosesonthefloor · 2022-04-20T04:22:52+00:00

“These girls have sexy pics on their profiles but when I message them the equivalent of “wanna fuck?” they unmatch or stop responding to me :(((((“

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-19T19:11:21+00:00

"As happy as a lot of the women claim to be in their real lives, the vigor with which they argue tells a different tale."

I appreciate this sub gives me the funniest quotes to show my friends.

Me: *Gives statistics.*

"God, you're so unhappy! Stop debunking shit! Women who give facts are miserable."

Great-Beyond9147 · 2022-04-19T21:09:13+00:00

Whatever happened to all the posts that were like "Q4W would you rather be executed by lethal injection by an ugly guy or by a firing squad of hot guys"? Life feels empty without them tbh

bighuddi · 2022-04-20T00:58:55+00:00

I wonder how many guys giving advice on how to make friends as a single male adult outside of work have actually had to put their own advice to the test in a new city (in this decade)💀 (leaving women out of this one)

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-20T11:54:16+00:00

I’m not a guy who hates my country…. But confiscating my expensive sex toys is really tempting me to rage. It took me so much trouble to import them.

Is it really so much to ask for to be allowed to masturbate in peace? Fucking prudish laws… I have to pay a fine? Who wrote these retarded laws? Who am I hurting when I buy a cock sleeve?

Lol any country we can’t own sex toys is a country we aren’t free in. This is a hill I’m willing to die on. Time to hire a lawyer and appeal till the Supreme Court if I have to.

https://www.hindustantimes.com/mumbai/2-months-on-customs-still-guarding-nri-s-sex-toys/story-cDCfELLT6gjmVcnUvzQzvN.html

SCRATCH THAT

I met the customers officer for this zone and he asked me why I got such things….

once he saw I was an engineering student and single. He could relate to my sorrow so he let the items through without much charges.

It’s nice to meet actual humans and have the laws be flexible. These things need to be seen contextually.

There was a moment when he talked about his life in a male dominated college and I asked him if he managed to get a girl after leaving that desert….

Then he said no with such sadness, his body gesture, turn of his head etc conveyed so much pain. I looked at his ugly mug with empathy.

In that moment we were two incels truly connecting with our shared pain. It was splendid.

So yayyy got it in, I love my country again and all is well.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-04-20T11:38:25+00:00

I will die on the hill with the idea that going to concerts is one of life’s most overrated experiences. Not just concerts, live music performance in general.

edgyny · 2022-04-20T11:13:54+00:00

u/poppy_blu is this a pickme https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdXB8fQp/ ?

ManGoneNoWay · 2022-04-20T10:53:22+00:00

So much LVM stolen valor in this sub smh. Being low value means lacking in successes in most/all areas of life and/or having serious (unresolved) issues and hangups with regards to mental health and your personality. It’s not about being 5’9 with a dadbod or “only” making around median income. That’s just called being average.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-20T09:35:07+00:00

Q4W how many of you let the guy you are dating grab your hair during sex?

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-04-20T08:58:06+00:00

So much for chill bros celebration we got ficking trashed lmaooo glad I don't have work tomorrow just class in the pm

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-04-20T08:10:05+00:00

Q4M who think being an asshole gets you a girl: you see a girl from your class/work in a bar and you’ve been wanting to hit that for ages. What sort of thing to do you say/do when talking to her to exhibit your asshole behaviour? Negging? Or something else?

Zavier221 · 2022-04-20T07:59:03+00:00

Q4W

If your boyfriend got into a fight and lost what would you feel ?

Like he got his shit rocked badly...

bighuddi · 2022-04-20T07:44:46+00:00

the sub you're satirizing is long gone because you were too fragile but you're still around "satirizing" it ages later is literally this meme

Mountain-Ad1160 · 2022-04-20T07:01:41+00:00

Apparently Joe has Ligma.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-20T06:37:41+00:00

The girl I had over just left, my head game is still on fucking point.

huhwhatokok · 2022-04-20T05:58:27+00:00

One thing I feel like that sucks about being an Arab man in the west is liberal Arab women tend to be white worshippers and conservative Arab women are obviously religious and want marriage. Dating within your culture is the easiest way to date up/date at your level but we don’t get that benefit unless it’s marriage and if it’s marriage you better have a six figure job with a degree just for you to pop some kids out of her and be in a dead bedroom lol.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-04-19T17:04:56+00:00

I think I’ve come to peace with the fact I’m never gonna have a threesome. I’ve had sex with 2 girls in a 24 hour period but never at the same time.

jax006 · 2022-04-19T19:09:30+00:00

Although it's by far the most efficient to basically just auto-swipe right on OLD apps, sometimes it bites you in the ass

At the climbing bouldering on my lunch break and this girl I matched with over the weekend but am totally not attracted to is here and I'm really trying hard to not make eye contact lol

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-19T20:49:21+00:00

Q4All: Would you rather cum from anything that touches you or anyone you touch instantly cums themselves?

scwizard · 2022-04-19T21:17:26+00:00

I think you’re under the impression that sharing sperm is a big deal

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhh

What do I even reply to this?

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-04-19T21:22:11+00:00

Tinder chad pick up line “ l wanna get you naked” works like a charm. Dating is only worth it when you are way better than her, imagine a regular dude using these lines.

Most of these young women are hot too which can’t be said about the bs from the older married hens

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/u7elk1/pickup_lines_that_should_not_work_part_2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-19T22:26:08+00:00

Alright yall are not entertaining at all

Your superpower choices are

You are a Chad/Stacy, but you cum instantly from any sexual contact and you're so sensitive afterwards that you can't do anything else, and have a 24 hour refractory period. You can't even help finish your partner off with hands/oral/whatever.

Or

You're a LVM/LVW

poppy_blu · 2022-04-19T23:26:56+00:00

Men of PPD, how many of you have played organized competitive sports?

Video games don’t count.

empresa_josefina · 2022-04-19T18:06:54+00:00

Women need to learn better OLD and IRL approaches. The number of “heys” I get in bumble…

It’s 2022, Chad has so many options that you ladies will need to make a move at some point. OLD chatting is mind-numbing so being an engaging texter is a great way to stand out.

This is especially true for women 30+ who don’t have the luxury of limitless simping like the 20-something Stacies.

Edit: downvote all you like, it’s 2022 and the HVM know they hold all the cards. Chicks are getting ghosted/unmatched/pumped-and-dumped for absolute trivialities, I’m trying to help the ladies here

hornyjailer1 · 2022-04-19T17:10:02+00:00

Women attempt suicide more but only fail due to them being concerned for others. I call fucking bullshit. Provide the study

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