Insert "but I'm not like that' useless comment here.

Most women that I know have a strong aversion/disgust to homosexual behavior or past actions in their romantic partners. It doesn't even really need to be proven, it can just be an assumption and that is enough for women to look at men differently. I asked multiple women if they would take a man seriously if he had photos of himself cross-dressing online, or pictures of himself at gay clubs dancing and they also said this would immediately disqualify him as boyfriend material.

Yet most women I know also have no problem doing homo erotic things with their girlfriends, including kissing, grinding/dancing, spanking and teasing, etc. There are even full out songs like 'I Kissed a Girl' that are literally a bi anthem, and when it comes on in clubs are the girls sing it. These are the SAME women who will unequivocally judge men harshly for doing similar behavior once. A man dancing sexually with other men would get no pussy.

This is enormously hypocritical, yet happens all the time. Why is this hypocrisy not called out more?