Once you’ve worked your ass off in the gym, groomed yourself, dressed yourself, socialised the hell out of yourself, gotten to a place of as high a confidence and character and charm as you realistically can, and STILL nobody finds you attractive, then my friend it is a massive shame and you do deserve sympathy IF you’re feeling sad about it, but fundamentally you’re just one of those who “lost” the game as it were.

We can point the finger and blame and discuss theories and stats and psychology and argue with each other until we are blue in the face, but the ONLY person who has any responsibility as to whether you find any success with the opposite sex is yourself. Thats it, that’s where the buck ends.

So you have a choice, bust your ass, drop out, or accept your fate.

Wasting your time blaming attractive men and picky women and dating apps really is futile. Nothing will change. All you can do is the best for yourself and if that fails then find fulfilment elsewhere as love and sex simply are not on the cards for you and thats nobody else’s fault and there’s nobody really to blame, as it takes two to tango and nobody can be demonised for NOT wanting to fuck or love somebody