I’ve posted before about how I discovered the “redpill” world: it started when I found my dad’s social media accounts and saw that he follows a lot of redpill pages and shares their talking points. My dad is also what some would call a “passport bro.” Out of curiosity, I’ve spent some time lurking in those circles online. I’m familiar with their criticisms of Western women—they often say they sleep with too many men, are too masculine, not traditional, etc.

However, there’s a contradiction I’ve noticed. These same men will praise women from places like the Philippines and Thailand for being “feminine” while also celebrating how easy it is to get sex from them on Tinder. I’ve come across forums dedicated to men sharing their sexual exploits in these countries, even here on Reddit. They boast about how many Tinder likes they get as Western men and how these women will come home with them on the first night and then wake up to cook breakfast the next day.

For many of these men, this experience feels therapeutic. It’s the first time they feel truly desired—having a woman immediately sleep with them is seen as undeniable proof of attraction. Additionally, when these women cook for them or act affectionately, it makes them feel like “real men" and wanted. Which I don't think is a bad thing to want to feel.

They also argue that this kind of treatment is impossible to get from women in Western countries, claiming it’s only reserved for “Chads” due to female hypergamy.

So, my question today is this: do you truly want a “traditional wife,” or are you just looking for the kind of treatment you imagine Chads receive?