Daily Community Chat Megathread

NockerJoe · 2022-05-17T20:48:18+00:00

You know every time women complain about men it always seems like they're just picking dudes that don't even like them and then complaining about it.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-17T21:42:45+00:00

Is it weird that I’d want my gf to be into other shit than what I’m into ? Like the whole common interests thing, to a certain level it’s necessary but I need contrast between us type shit

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-05-17T21:53:35+00:00

Made a catfish woman account on okcupid as a joke and I've accepted that women are totally justified in swiping right on 5% of men and yes this sounds very ghey.

So many guys look like axe murderers. That and the stupid look away from the camera pose is everywhere.

FilmStew · 2022-05-18T22:25:23+00:00

Anyone else noticing that teenagers are becoming a lot more opinionated before having real life experience? I think we all experienced this to some degree, but I wasn't nearly as sure of my opinions or held as many when I was younger. These kids talk like they've been around the block for a while lol.

Dangerous IMO, spending your time developing opinions before any and all experience will result in you wanting to protect those opinions even if you experience negative outcomes repetitively due to them, or rather, it's much harder to correct opinions that were influenced by anyone or anything as opposed to having less convicting opinions that were drilled up on your own.

E-2-butene · 2022-05-18T20:24:09+00:00

I always find the take that “you can’t possibly tell how two people feel about each other” an odd one. It’s like there’s this weird idea that watching how people confers no information about their feelings.

But how do you decide if people like you? The only difference is that you’re there the whole time, but that should only impact your confidence, not the principle.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-18T20:19:12+00:00

My Gen X mom just said millenials are lazy because we don't work 80 hours while going to college while raising kids. Jfc the delusion.

These people walked out of high school and could buy a house in 2 years.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-05-17T20:10:54+00:00

idk if anyone else is following the Elon Musk Buys Twitter story, but there's a funny tidbit I think PPD will appreciate.

Apparently, when determining what percentage of accounts were bots, Twitter only sampled 100 accounts. Reminds me of some of the garbage studies that get passed off here, except it's a multi-billion dollar global megacorp trying to pass it off instead of a bored loser on reddit.

purplish_possum · 2022-05-18T02:34:53+00:00

Case of the day: Husband convinces wife to open their relationship and have a threesome with wife's bestie. Wife decides this isn't for her and leaves. Husband keeps the bestie. Wife gets a new BF. Husband gets jealous and starts a fight with the new BF outside a local bar. The new BF bites the Husband's earlobe off.

Once again -- I love my job.

spunkystoic · 2022-05-18T12:31:52+00:00

Lol forget "purple pill debate".

This sub has now become "blue pillers desperately trying to reconcile harsh life truths" 😂😂

Bandit174 · 2022-05-17T20:56:19+00:00

Doesn't the greater variability in male N-counts kinda prove what people are saying about how some mean clean up while many struggle?

Bandit174 · 2022-05-18T04:57:56+00:00

Damn, I am loving these clips of Camille Vasquez ripping into Anber Heard.🤣

meteorness123 · 2022-05-17T20:26:45+00:00

Mark Zuckerberg amazes me. Could get a hot wife but he doesn't. Which is why the marriage works. Maybe dudes here need to follow his example. If you don't want to be divorced, choose a woman who's at a similar level as you. Not higher. You don't want to ?. Be prepared for a divorce.

Barneysparky · 2022-05-17T23:21:02+00:00

Jordon Peterson announced his departure from Twitter 11hrs ago and has since tweeted 27 times.

He looks absolutely terrible an I genuinely feel sorry for him. Haggard face and a depressed disposition.

Maybe someone should recommend him a self help book, preferably by someone who is in the field of psychology.

scwizard · 2022-05-17T23:02:40+00:00

So of every 10,000 musicians that are "about to make it", 10 of them will "make it."

And of those 10 that make it, 9 will leave their girlfriend for a higher tier of girl, and 1 will stay.

But how can you ever convince a girl that her musician boyfriend isn't that 1 in 10,000?

scwizard · 2022-05-17T23:50:11+00:00

I made these when the Roe v Wade vote draft was released, but now I’m afraid to put one on my car.

Sticker says:

I don't want to live in a man's world anymore

Comment:

I wouldn’t.

Honestly it’s a volatile topic with a long violent history of 2 groups that will NEVER see eye to eye. There is no compromise on the topic. I’d be afraid of a whack jobs coming at me from left field with words, fists or weapons while driving or parking my car/getting into my parked car.

I'll admit it, I'm sexist.

Cause I read something like this and just think "wow they're hysterical."

YourMomGarglesMyCum2 · 2022-05-18T02:28:09+00:00

This abortion situation has really got me in an existential crisis.

An abortion only takes 5-10 minutes. A 5-10 minute procedure all those years ago, and I would’ve never had to deal with the bullshit I’m dealing with right now.

It’s depressing.

YourMomGarglesMyCum2 · 2022-05-18T03:51:20+00:00

If I was a girl, I’d hop on tinder and just get ran through by a bunch of dudes to get through the heartbreak I’m going through.

Sadly, I’m a guy and i don’t have any good pics of myself 😢

biggestuzifanea · 2022-05-17T20:03:22+00:00

Amber heard probably regrets not staying a lesbian

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-17T21:59:30+00:00

Hypothetical Q4A

Let's say that there is a hormone test which splits people into "likely cheater" and "likely faithful" groups. And it is 90% precise, meaning that cheaters have a 90% chance to cheat on you and faithful people have 10% chance to cheat on you.

Would you ask for it before dating or marriage?

Would you be willing to submit to it if asked?

E-2-butene · 2022-05-17T22:10:31+00:00

would you rather:

find and marry your 95% perfect match woman/man when you're both 32yo

or

find and marry an 65% perfect match woman/man when you're both 22yo?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-17T22:11:37+00:00

Only like 7-8 lbs to go I hope this baked ziti I’m having later doesn’t set me back 😬

YourMomGarglesMyCum2 · 2022-05-18T03:46:44+00:00

I love marijuana

golden_bear25 · 2022-05-18T05:06:16+00:00

I’ve realized the people who put most emphasis on validation from women are other men. I was once free from the desire for female validation but then my immature friends pulled me back into it. It’s like a race to the bottom. Who can seduce and fuck the most women. Even if they have gf’s. Nothing matters. Party after party with nothing to show for it except the occasional ONS or woman grinding on you. They do it all for the ego boost. You can’t even reason with these types then they wonder why I’m distancing myself from them. Does it matter how good I am with women? I either am or I’m not. Why keep harping on about it. A large part of this is letting go of the desire for validation from your peers.

luliloo · 2022-05-18T05:19:59+00:00

I just spent a week straight at my guy’s place and I was so self conscious for him to catch me posting on ppd so I barely came on. Home now 😊

dysonRing · 2022-05-18T05:52:26+00:00

10 years on reddit GD. And some people still think I am a bot or larping lol.

20+ years on forums too driving people crazy

FenaPugi · 2022-05-18T12:15:26+00:00

Unsolicited advice:

Never take unsolicited advice from unsolicited sources.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-18T13:57:09+00:00

Q4W - why won't you poop in the bathroom while we're in the shower? Don't you know we've gazed directly into your buttholes at some point?

PS: why is peeing ok but pooping not ok?

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-05-17T20:12:32+00:00

Day 34 of music sharing. Ugniavijas - Oi Šermukšnio. Older lithuaninan language/dialect.

Hymen_Opening · 2022-05-17T20:54:33+00:00

I want a virgin gf so bad

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-17T21:00:39+00:00

Guys here who think that your girl will most likely cheat on/leave you if she gets a hotter body show most of you either do not touch grass or that you can only attract low quality women 🤭

John_Oakman · 2022-05-18T02:16:33+00:00

The uncompromising pursuit of moral virtue is what's causing the decline of society/civilization/what have you.

YourMomGarglesMyCum2 · 2022-05-18T04:05:27+00:00

What is the appeal of cuckoldry?

I’d love some insight from any cucks here, I’d bet this sub is full of them.

houstongradengineer · 2022-05-18T04:11:00+00:00

As cute as it is that my dog pesters me to sit nearby him to watch him eat, it is a little annoying when I’m trying to eat at the same time

verycoolguySmash · 2022-05-18T05:34:43+00:00

My Heat just embarrassed those inceltics tonight

YourMomGarglesMyCum2 · 2022-05-18T05:44:45+00:00

You ever have a crush on a girl, then realize she’s actually kinda ugly, and you have no idea why you ever thought she was attractive at all?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-18T13:24:57+00:00

I laugh at celebs who Claim to be addicted to sex

Bitch who wouldn’t be if they could fuck IG models all day lmao

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-05-18T14:15:04+00:00

Just had a shower thought...

Risk aversion in men is one of the least attractive traits to women, however even worse than that is a man who takes risks yet none of them pay off.

Q4W: that sound about right?

Edit - as it's caused lots of confusion, I'll be clear and say this is predominantly around risk aversion in social settings.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-05-18T20:12:30+00:00

With all of this "body positivity" going on these days, I will say this:

There are fat women that CAN be attractive, if you put in the effort to look attractive. That means keep your hair done, nails painted, maintain good hygiene, perfume, etc. Nothing worse than a fat woman who puts in minimum effort to look good and smells like a farm animal and has the nerve to be offended why men don't see her attractive because she is fat.

Its like us men who are not tall but don't hit the gym and don't put in effort to make ourselves look more attractive. Ijs

-TheInevitable- · 2022-05-18T20:02:04+00:00

I know this might sound obvious but goddamn, being born into money is truly a cheat code. I went to school with some trust fund kids and following their lives on social media really makes me understand they live completely different lives than the rest. Never studied at school, went to college only for the chicks and parties, always travelling, hot chicks always around them. I swear I haven't seen the dudes work a day in their lives.

Substantial_Wasabi · 2022-05-18T19:54:12+00:00

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SockInCloset · 2022-05-18T19:53:23+00:00

I stopped being a feminist once I realized that most women don’t want to be accountable or independent for themselves just like children are. And they’ll complain when some men see them as lesser than.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-17T20:06:41+00:00

There was this girl who said she saw pictures of herself in an online dating profile under a different name that she never set up. Basically romance scammers take pictures of attractive people on other sites and set up these accounts to lure people. That’s why when u do a reverse image search the pics be popping up.

The crazy thing is Some dude who got finessed out of a 1,000 dollars would see this girl in the street and wanna kick her ass lol.

The question I would have is , wouldn’t there have to be a limit to how hot the pictures of the person is to make it believable? Like what dudes are buying the drop dead 10 gorgeous women being interested in them online. It’s like Onlyfans, a lot of the successful women who make bread aren’t necessarily the bombshells. It’s the cute girl next door types.

golden_bear25 · 2022-05-17T20:13:09+00:00

You know how it feels wet and warm when having raw sex? I’d like to ask my fellow men if they’ve felt a big difference in temperature depending on the woman. What informed it? We it body type? Also with regards to tightness.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-17T20:40:05+00:00

Bilal is my homie, my new favorite on 90 day

slickle13 · 2022-05-17T22:34:47+00:00

Do you think the west is in decline? Will conditions get better without them having to get significantly worse first?

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-17T22:50:14+00:00

Q4A - You meet a person which is your soulmate, 9/10 attractive, amazing in bed, likes to cuddle, shares common interests, respects you, praises you, emotionally supports you, gives surprise oral, loves you and is also low maintenance. Makes you feel great at all times.

And...

Is incredibly lazy! Doesn't have a job, refuses to get a job. Doesn't do chores, will keep you company while you do them. And is not going to change.

What do you do?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-05-18T00:03:54+00:00

Doing extra hardcore NoFap. Extra hardcore means not even looking at fully clothed pictures of women.

Goal is to create extra incentive to go out and get it.

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-05-18T04:08:24+00:00

For a youtube content creator, do you pretty much have to show your face in order to get a lot of views and subscribers? I notice any videos I watch from big content creators, they almost always show their face to the camera. It's like just seeing their face talking and showing expressions gets millions more views.

hdksndiisn · 2022-05-18T06:55:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Soulnexus/comments/urn9np/taoism_in_perfection_by_alan_watts/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Alan Watts on Taoism, solid as always.

Summary: a man who uses a row boat exerts effort, but an intelligent man uses a sail & lets nature do the work - that’s Taoism explained to perfection.

peteypete78 · 2022-05-18T11:48:43+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/usa2zk/mindaltering_parasite_may_make_infected_people/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Might explain some of the behaviors we talk about here.

Beenixwinterberry · 2022-05-18T11:52:14+00:00

Is there any page who discusses this or just evolutionary psychology which is not full of political ideology and sexually frustrated men projecting that onto it?

luliloo · 2022-05-18T13:40:59+00:00

I get notifications that someone replied to my comment but then it doesn’t appear in my notifications page or under the actual comment.

I had to turn on my notification centre for Reddit just to see who it was and what they said. Does this mean they are shadow banned?

FYI /u/novemberheretic2 /u/THERAPY-is-dead

cx456f · 2022-05-18T13:44:05+00:00

CMV: all women are shallow hooers who will do nott have sex with me

lulll · 2022-05-18T14:02:03+00:00

women please explain why we should take you on a date when we can become an mma knight instead

doshkhaleesi · 2022-05-18T15:19:09+00:00

Q4W

Let's say there was a weird case of "maternity fraud" where you ended up with a baby that wasn't yours because your husband purposely switched the babies at the hospital (his motives are unclear). However, you only find out after several years.

I assume everyone would divorce the lying husband. The question is, would you continue raising this child as your own? Or would you leave the child with your divorced husband and go start a new life?

Let's say your real child now lives in another country and wants nothing to do with you.

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Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-17T20:04:12+00:00

I have this plan on how to get the perfect gf for me. My ideal is into shit like anime,video games,lifting weights, and is low n count BUT who has a very fat ass and knows how to twerk well. Now these things kinda conflict with each other. So my plan is

Find a girl who chubby, with wide hips and a big butt even if she’s out of shape who is shy and doesn’t show any signs of thot behavior. It’s important that she has wide hips so that you know in the future she can pack on quality mass back there
Establish a strong bond with her but encourage her to diet for health reasons. I’m big into lifting so she may feel somewhat pressured to do this so this step may be easier
Once she’s lost a bunch of the fat you can get her to properly bulk up. Get her doing squats,RDLs, and hip thrusts 2x a week while eating in a calorie surplus. She’ll eventually turn into a thick lifting chick with a huge ass and thick thighs
Her confidence in her new hot body will have her wearing sexier clothes and she’ll probably learn how to twerk but she’ll(most likely) be loyal to you

There you go. Simple plan to get a big booty lifting chick who can shake that ass,who’s low n count, and into anime + video games. What do you think of it? Am I an idiot or genius or both perhaps?

chilikettlechips · 2022-05-17T20:38:58+00:00

rawr rawr rawr meow meow meow hssssssssssssk HSSSSSSSKKKKK MREOWWWWWW

SockInCloset · 2022-05-17T22:33:12+00:00

Unpopular opinion: There’s no such thing as a 10, the scale of attractiveness is 1-9 since everyone has flaws, and most people that are attractive are either a 6 or a 7

link

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-17T23:50:03+00:00

My previous Q4A, that partner was made to describe the feeling of love and laziness is the lack of transitional relationship.

Some people want transitional relationship.

Some people don't care as long as love is involved.

And some only care about it when children get involved.

My sample size is ridiculously small though :P

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-05-17T23:56:44+00:00

I sometimes do park in disabled bays, I know a lot of people see that as unpopular and as a horrible thing to do. You know why I do it? It's because I'm quick, if I'm going into the servo or a little shop, I'll be 45 seconds max or if I'm going into a shopping centre I'll be 5 minutes. I'm not one of those morons who dilly saddles for half an hour, I'm in and out.

I don't see it as so bad because I'm genuinely quick and don't take long at all, but I get why others would see it as horrible.

siempreloco31 · 2022-05-18T01:17:32+00:00

Elon Musks picture in Bloomberg has him looking busted. Bill Gates physique.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-18T01:38:44+00:00

Who are your top 5 favorite wrestlers ever?

YourMomGarglesMyCum2 · 2022-05-18T01:58:15+00:00

PPD, what is the sexiest sex you have ever sexually sexed?

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-05-18T02:18:02+00:00

Q4M:

Feelings about your woman using a dildo that's bigger than ur dick?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-05-18T03:12:43+00:00

Q4A: What's the actual worst/cringiest/most embarrassing flirting attempt to flirt that you've seen?

YourMomGarglesMyCum2 · 2022-05-18T04:28:27+00:00

This might sound stupid, but you think there will be new races in the future?

Like, there never used to be white people or East Asian people in the very beginning, right?

The world is eminently globalized and more people are having interracial babies nowadays. You think thousands of years from now, there could be new races of people that would look completely out of place today?

Orange_Paisley · 2022-05-18T05:00:10+00:00

I have parties scheduled for tomorrow night and Friday so naturally my husband has a cold or flu today. I was hoping it was allergies but antihistamines did not work. I’m going to end up sick for these parties, I just know it.

HeldNeeded117 · 2022-05-18T06:35:05+00:00

Who has it worse a bald early 20s guy or a fat early 20s woman?

bludkraze · 2022-05-18T07:29:18+00:00

Are megathreads now disappearing from the list in the sub? wth

Prestigious698 · 2022-05-18T11:30:01+00:00

I spend most of my time around older people who are either in LTRs, and dating with kids or a baby on the way. Somehow I feel extremely left out and lonely despite just turning 20.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-18T12:20:14+00:00

Hypothetical q4m: Let's say you're with the love of your life and you've been together for 5+ years already. You have a kid or two (or the max number of kids that you want). How would you feel if your spouse went off birth control and semi-baby trapped you to have another kid without your consent? Would you consider divorce/leaving?

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-18T12:34:41+00:00

Something like this can help us understand what living standards correspond to these numbers called wealth or income

https://www.gapminder.org/dollar-street?topic=kitchens

decoy88 · 2022-05-18T13:37:29+00:00

Can we have a Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard defamation trial Megathread?

There's been a bunch of new developments so there is much more to talk about now.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-18T19:38:42+00:00

What do you think the average person (man and woman)is supposed to weight if they were a normal bf% but didn’t really lift weights or anything like that?

DivineDaedra · 2022-05-18T19:37:42+00:00

YOOOOOOO MY TUBAL LIGATION IS OFFICIALLY SCHEDULED LES GOOOOOOOO

WestsideMoonWalker · 2022-05-18T00:05:01+00:00

Financial abortion: arguing for this position on the basis of ethics is idiotic, as the norms, values and rules of society are not determined by the ideas we possess but by the needs of our material circumstances, so unless you're going to work to create something to replace child support, to address the social need to not have a bunch of starving kids getting about, you're never going to see financial abortion.

Do not engage in idealism, our minds are shaped by reality.

HurrDurrGrr · 2022-05-18T19:30:09+00:00

There's shit tests, then there's Amber Heard's shit tests

E-2-butene · 2022-05-18T19:29:16+00:00

I just saw the thread that starts with “I don’t know if this place was inspired by Myron Gaines.”

I don’t know about you guys, but I’m deeply offended.

cuckedalt · 2022-05-18T19:09:15+00:00

More than a third of single white-collar workers think returning to the office will help their sex lives, according to a new survey.

Warm_Philosopher · 2022-05-18T19:04:47+00:00

How the hell can anyone still give a f.. about Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, it is not like one of them is a saint both of them are horrible people move on already damn...

chilikettlechips · 2022-05-18T18:55:20+00:00

Some women who are not all women pay on the first date

RahLyt · 2022-05-18T18:47:01+00:00

So I bartend on the weekends. There's this guy at work who basically does everything everyone tells him to do and go the extra mile to do help everyone else and barely asks for help, people still complain about him all the time. Last Sunday I had a conversation with him and told him it's ok for him to say no.

People take space whenever they can and then get offended when someone who always say yes says no for the first time.

My point is why would I be considered sexist if I had the same conversation with him but was advising him about his dating life? I don't hate the people at my work but I understand human nature. But if the same advice would be targeted at his behaviour about woman, I'd be called out for teaching him how to manipulate and called out for hating women. I seriously don't get it.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-05-18T18:42:01+00:00

On the way back from physical therapy today, I stopped to get gas.

$4.72

WHAT

THE

FUCK

None0fYour8usiness · 2022-05-18T18:39:51+00:00

If we were to categorize people into the following options, which one would you be? Which one would your partner be?

the catch: high resources (top 10%), uncommonly attractive [7-9]

the safe: high resources (top 10%), average to commonly attractive [5-7)

the trophy: lower-med resources (bottom 90%), uncommonly attractive [7-9]

the normie: lower-med resources (bottom 90%), average to commonly attractive [5-7)

the struggle: lower-med resources (bottom 90%), unattractive [3-5)

the sugar-daddy: high resources (top 10%), unattractive [3-5)

geometersbane · 2022-05-18T18:32:24+00:00

Been on no fap for about a week in preparation for the upcoming fuck marathon. Excited for the inevitable Vesuvius level eruption.

baresquad · 2022-05-18T18:20:18+00:00

Got back on dating apps this week after a year break and it’s insane that nearly every feature requires a premium subscription. You can’t even set bumble search filters or send super likes on tinder for free anymore, shits insane

I miss 2015 tinder

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-18T18:01:06+00:00

Ah this sucks. A close friend of mine told me how her ex boyfriend is being really rude to her and being inconsiderate of her feelings.

That was one relationship where I didn't think she "went for the jerk". It sounds like the dude isn't that nice either.

I hope I can keep searching and collect more examples of relationships where the guy is a reaaally nice dude.

throwaway213091345 · 2022-05-18T17:50:18+00:00

Q4ALL: Is dinner at a man's place as a second date a red flag?

I'm in an all-girls group chat with random people in my city, and a girl asked this because she ran into this situation. The responses were very FDS and 80% of girls said it was a red flag. A 30-something year old said she had a 90 day rule for sex. One even joked about how he was likely a serial killer. The other 20% of responses I agreed with, which was advising her to do what she is most comfortable with.

Suspicious-Ad3004 · 2022-05-18T17:46:33+00:00

Q4M

If you have a gf or wife, would you prefer if they complimented you more on your looks and appearance, or on your character qualities.

I realize both are probably acceptable, but which would you like more of assuming you enjoy receiving compliments.

QuenchlessGato · 2022-05-18T17:42:08+00:00

Reminder that media spent much much more time and focus on the Depp/Amber trial than the Ghislaine Maxwell trial.

StacksFifthAve · 2022-05-18T17:26:13+00:00

opinions on such events?

Edit: Just to clear something up:

This has nothing to do with Future.

His face was photoshopped to the tweet because the photoeditor is saying the guy she rejected who proceeded to fuck all her friends was a Toxic King, like Future.

MrMushySauce · 2022-05-18T17:22:19+00:00

Y'all fr gotta chill on all the "men can't have standards because X" posts

Like:

"Men can't play video games bc women don't like it they'll break up with you!"
"Men can't decide on anything other than she can't be fat it's tough as it is!"
"Men can't decide if their LTR has no morals otherwise he'd be alone!"

You're literally describing how not to date as a guy. This mindset is: A) a turn-off to women B) you don't mean 'men' you mean you C) victimhood mentality D) not going to help you get a girl who isn't these things

Like, just from these 3 examples alone (and there's countless others)... you can find girls who are okay with, or perhaps even participate in, any hobby. If you're gaming 24/7 idk why you'd be surprised that's unattractive--I had a friend who would literally just inv his GF over to watch him play games and I was always like wtf is that. Why is she with this dude rn. For the other two... not having standards is going to come across to women, and scare ones who are "worth it." Nobody wants to date someone without standards because they fear they'll boost your confidence and become your "starter gf" on the way to what you actually want. Which, let's be honest, would be the fate of many girls if they dated low-confidence guys aiming below their league. Ask my dad's ex-fiancé who got chucked and replaced with my mom like a year later lol.

DonQOnIce · 2022-05-18T17:20:53+00:00

I can’t believe Doctor fucking Oz really might be our Republican Senate candidate. I hate everything.

chilikettlechips · 2022-05-18T17:18:15+00:00

Remember reddit is full of the Most common denominator

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-18T17:10:40+00:00

I’m not sure who are the most annoying users here the incels who complain all the time or the women here who act like dickheads to every guy here and talk about how perfect their lives are 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Play_Muted · 2022-05-18T16:56:16+00:00

I cooked a fish and I tried to give its left overs to stray cats but one of them scratched me, fucking bastard, I know where you live, you will never get left overs ever again.

throwaway213091345 · 2022-05-18T16:49:04+00:00

/r/relationship_advice announced they won't allow partner count posts.

Where will people practice their creative writing now?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-05-18T16:46:56+00:00

Don't incel online forums prove that being a psycho misogynist won't get you any bitches lmao

meteorness123 · 2022-05-18T16:41:29+00:00

Looks are realy a double-edged sword. The better I look, the more vapid I become and the less I take care of my internal qualities. And the more I do that, the less I have access to women I'm really into. Women who have great personalities themselves. Sense of humor, not superficial. Because they themselves are looking for man with similar great personality qualities.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-18T16:40:18+00:00

I don’t watch anime nor play video games, do I get any attractiveness points based on that ?

Slipthe · 2022-05-18T16:22:19+00:00

Do you think there is more stigma for a mother who gives the father full custody or for a father who gives the mother full custody?

meteorness123 · 2022-05-18T16:11:14+00:00

I think I'd rather be a fat, creative fuck like Louis CK (without the allegations) than Brad Pitt.

Explain this, atheists.

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-05-18T16:09:25+00:00

There are different types of Chad I think it’s been agreed here numerous times. Rocker Chad, artistic Chad, jock Chad.

Is there a nerd Chad archetype and if so what does that look like? The guy who wouldn’t do well outside of the geeky sci if loving anime girls but cleans up at comic con. What’s his appearance/personality? Or is he not a thing.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-05-18T16:01:34+00:00

There should be more options for limited term marriages that you have the ability to renew.

Wedleases they're called apparently.

It does seem strange that the two options for relationship are bf/gf and "lifelong partner".

Q4ALL: Would your opinion on marriage change if marriages needed renewal every 5 years?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-05-18T15:25:04+00:00

Why is that blackpillers think LVW should lower their standards but a LVM should just go his own instead of becoming someone's beta buxx

E-2-butene · 2022-05-18T15:19:37+00:00

It’s often occurred to me that as much as we like to talk about divorce statistics as a measure of relationship failure, it’s actually a pretty imprecise way of measuring it. There are loads of “successful” relationships that I’d still personally consider a failure. For example, being in a totally affectionless marriage and staying together for the kids or to keep up appearances.

With that in mind, what proportion of couples in your life would you estimate are genuinely happy at the 5, 10, and 20+ year marks? Do you think that this varies by gender, or is it pretty consistent?

And before someone comes at me with the “you can’t possible know their thoughts!!!” feel free to go kick rocks. It’s not hard to gauge how a couple feels about one another by their interactions, and this isn’t a scientific endeavor anyway.

QuenchlessGato · 2022-05-17T21:10:20+00:00

Q4 Pro Abortion people

Do you support death penalty? I do.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-05-17T21:13:45+00:00

Pretty sure the apartment I signed a lease for is a scam.. glad I checked up on kt before paying the deposit. Back to the search I go

bussy_decimator · 2022-05-17T22:19:06+00:00

There is a female friend of mine. She is texting me specifically in certain period of months (close to the middle days) I couldn't understand why? She become very eager to talk to me, yet she obviously don't care about me rest of the months; responding my texts late or never responding at all...

Maybe she is truly a NPC, programmed to text me only in certain periods of every month.

As a sidenote: she only had one BF who would normally be an inkel if he didn't meet her. Which means she is not veru popular wtih guys, only reason i talk to her because i feel sad for her and don't want her to become suicidal.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-05-18T01:38:52+00:00

Can someone psychoanalyze me? What does my MILF fetish say about me? And now that I'm in my 40s MILFS have become my own age so I have to move up a tier. What's the next tier?

YourMomGarglesMyCum2 · 2022-05-18T02:48:08+00:00

I have a theory that the more feminist a woman is, the uglier she probably is.

There’s a reason the feminist stereotype is that of a blue-haired overweight woman wearing ugly overalls.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2022-05-18T02:58:58+00:00

Q4A- what religion are you?

I guess I would place myself as an agnostic nowadays, because I think it would be more convenient to believe but I fell out of religion at a really young age because I just didn’t feel any kind of spiritual… anything.

I have a friend who, in all aspects, it is hard to pin down what he believes because he is both quiet and also mixes a lot of jokes in with what he actually believes. A few weeks ago while we were drinking, he turned to me and started asking me about what I believe etc. and then finally told me his agnostic viewpoint, which I think is a good one.

In my experience it’s rarer to find agnostics IRL than it is atheists, Christians, hell, even pagans and witches or whatever new age shit you want to call it, but the agnostics I do meet tend to be the best people to be around. I think it’s due to them being very open minded and positive, without being stuck in certain beliefs and angry at other people for disagreeing

hdksndiisn · 2022-05-18T03:46:47+00:00

Since feminism is supposedly about equality, shouldn’t any women’s issue have its men’s issue equivalent that is equally as important and therefore be discussable under the umbrella of feminism or by using feminist rhetoric?

If so, can TRP rephrase their observations/criticisms/advice somehow to fit within a feminist narrative and kinda trick feminists into coming to the same conclusion or a least openly discussing topics?

Traditional_Drive722 · 2022-05-18T04:23:11+00:00

Q4A- for those of you that are stoners, what is your favorite song/album to listen to while high?

For songs, off the top of my head I’d say “The New Sensation” by IDLES, “Frogstrap” by Viagra Boys, and “Amanda” by Boston are some of my favorites.

Queens of the Stone Age self-titled is my favorite album in general, so I think I’d go with that one

Traditional_Drive722 · 2022-05-18T06:28:47+00:00

You know what's just the worst? Having a pile of cash burning a hole in your pocket that you can't find a way to spend.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-18T10:14:38+00:00

I have to wonder if someone secretly pro-life wrote this article:

https://www.latimes.com/politics/story/2022-04-08/red-states-eliminate-rape-exceptions-from-abortion-bans

“Goodwin says she became pregnant by her father when she was 12 years old after two years of abuse. Her father took her to a healthcare provider in New York, lied about her age, and got her an abortion. She didn’t need an exception. But as she watches states enact early abortion bans without exceptions, including Texas’ six-week abortion ban, she worries about girls who would have to somehow find abortion access in another state or carry a pregnancy if impregnated by an abuser.”

I’m baffled by this segment. Is it supposed to make me sympathetic to the pro-choice movement? Rapist gets away with getting his victim an abortion so he can go back to raping her without detection and this is apparently a good thing?

This is also something I noticed with mainstream feminist too. They seem more concerned about victims getting abortions than they are about victims still going back to the abuser to be abused more.

Also, this article thinks 15 weeks isn’t enough for women to figure out whether or not they want abortion, even though 90% of abortions happen within those 15 weeks.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-05-18T11:09:47+00:00

Question for men over 30: Has your dating life gotten any better as you've gotten older?

Question for men under 30: Do you think your dating life is gonna get any better after 30?

In my opinion, I'm in a position where things will most definitely get better for me (especially considering things aren't so bad now), it's a damn near certainty because of how the factors line up, but I'm also of the opinion that for most guys this doesn't actually happen and it's more or less wishful thinking

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-18T11:22:16+00:00

I can't imagine someone being so stupid, they think only America has homeless people and violence. Apparently, thinking every other country is a utopia!

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-18T11:38:25+00:00

Mainstream Feminists: Rape is a special kind of evil.

Also Mainstream Feminists: Don’t encourage victims to report it. You’ll make them feel bad. Just like the rapist did.

Inspired by my campus forcing me to take an online anti-rape class. I was told I gave the “wrong answer” for saying I would encourage my friend to report what happened to her. What happened to “Rapists dont stop raping until theyre caught and sent away”? I feel like it was a precursor to the Soft On Crime policies Im seeing now.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-05-18T11:46:01+00:00

Fuck it I seriously wish we brought back capital punishment. For example, anyone who was caught stabbing someone in public would be hung publicly in the city centre and left there for a week so people could walk past and see the absolute scum that they were.

You want this shit to die down, instill fear into these criminals that they'll be executed publicly. Show their dead bodies off for all to see and that you'll be next if you follow a similar path.

golden_bear25 · 2022-05-18T11:56:21+00:00

Great people of PPD! If you can help me with this issue you would have put me head and shoulders above most men. So I have oneitis for this girl. The reason I have oneitis for her is that she has arguably one of if not he greatest ass I’ve ever seen accompanied with a banging body. The way she dresses doesn’t help either (she has these nice dresses that show off her body). Even the Instagram models and pornstars I’ve seen don’t compare. She’s also short so I can only imagine how big my sick would’ve looked going into her. I sort’ve had a chance with her at one point but I messed it up. This isn’t about getting her back. It’s about putting things in perspective and being ok with my loss or just getting over her completely. Some assumptions you can make in helping me get over her are

I will never see a better ass for as long as I live. This may not necessarily be true but it would assist for now as I want to conquer not just her but other women going forward with my new found mindsets
sex with her would’ve been phenomenal.

You may ask for additional information or questions that I can pose to her to make her seem more human.

lordofcin_2 · 2022-05-18T12:52:34+00:00

why do so many women say that men should dress very simply with very strict outfits? I never understood it dressing up with fashionable clothes is so fun I don't understand why we should gatekeep it.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-18T12:57:29+00:00

So any tips on turning 30 and looking for a collegde educated single girl who is only 4/5 years max younger than you. Contrary to a lot of people here, I'm not into big age gaps

chilikettlechips · 2022-05-18T13:06:43+00:00

Daily is pretty tame. So what's the spiciest gossip in your family or friends circle atm?

Infammo · 2022-05-18T13:11:13+00:00

I get weird uncanny vibes from the bottom picture and I can't tell if it's because seeing a grown man being carried like that is creepy or the terrible cgi causes me to be unnerved by how off it looks.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-18T13:28:42+00:00

When does the male libido begin to noticably go down in us guys ? 35 seems to be where it begins, right ? I feel like even 30 marks the first change in horny levels

golden_bear25 · 2022-05-18T01:23:33+00:00

Some women believe that sex isn’t that important. If that’s the case then why can’t I scratch my itch elsewhere? I wouldn’t get in that much trouble for being close to (see emotionally cheating) with a female friend but simply intimately cuddling with her would be a possible relationship ender. To a great degree you could probably get away with talking to another woman the same way you talk to your gf or ltr minus the flirting or innuendo.

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