Daily Community Chat Megathread

eye_fuck · 2023-04-12T23:20:12+00:00

Black women

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-12T23:01:39+00:00

Husband is out working and we didn't go for groceries yesterday, so between my lessons I've eaten pasta with fried onions, garlic and eggs. And vegan cheese. Not too bad, but I wouldn't give it to anyone else.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-12T22:55:31+00:00

Why date women when you hate them so much and think they are all the same?

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-04-12T22:49:24+00:00

Ai OF is out. These bitches will be out of a job soon 🥳

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T22:32:14+00:00

When one men has had bad experience with women sure that's just him

But when millions upon millions of men are struggling with similar things when coming to dating/relationships

Then universal patterns are created

This is why whenever women here claim "it's just in your experience" l know for fact they are lying since millions of men world-wide have a similar problem

meteorness123 · 2023-04-12T22:19:42+00:00

women who are homebodies are some of the biggest green flags ever

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-12T21:58:08+00:00

Your daily reminder that a straight woman's rating of other women means literally nothing

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T21:37:23+00:00

Yes if am working 8hrs a day then best believe it l ain't cooking or doing the dishes

Which is why my women will do it since that's her role/duty as a stay-at-home wife

scwizard · 2023-04-12T21:26:36+00:00

In case you haven’t heard, there’s a r/nationalwomensstrike but they seem very disorganized stuck on creating pamphlets, discussing colors for some reason, and unable to create social media pages.

Suffragists were a lot more competent than this.

scwizard · 2023-04-12T21:22:15+00:00

Like many of you here, I'm feeling indescribable anger about the mifepristone crisis and what to do with all of the anger

I texted my mom about it over the weekend. She and I are not particularly close, which is a whole other story, but we have had conversations in the past about abortion, and she is pro-choice. I don't know. I feel so angry at her right now. I opened up about how angry and scared I was (am) feeling. Anyway, my mom responded to my text with photos of her on vacation, completely failing to acknowledge my previous text about that degenerate, POS regressive who made this ruling.

Oh honey... She was acknowledging the text. Trust me. Maybe try reading between the lines. Bless your heart.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-12T21:11:16+00:00

The reason women don't like male rating systems 1-10 is because they don't like to know their SMV and they want to believe in some fairy tale where their man thinks they're a 10.

This is why dudes are always gassing women up and telling them they're 10s.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-12T20:58:46+00:00

It's really weird to demand and set a sex frequency expectation for relationships.

Maffioze · 2023-04-12T20:57:50+00:00

I love how Lillth calls everything we men say lies, virtue signalling or hypocrisy. Ironically while doing all three of those things herself.

I guess we men are just to dumb to understand what's going on in our own lives and that we need Lillth to tell us what our life is actually like.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T20:39:03+00:00

"We both agreed on having sex 4 times a week"

Dude she ain't doing crap especially after the kids

Which is why having a sidechick is the best solution for this situations

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-12T20:28:28+00:00

One of the biggest lies I have seen guys say even outside this subreddit is “I dont have a type”.

And yet, you can clearly see a pattern in their interests in women and where theyre trying to get a chick.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-04-12T20:24:53+00:00

So I read this book about attachment styles that was pretty good. It talked about how some people are anxious, some avoidant, and the majority secure. And how relationships collapse if an anxious person starts acting out (“protest behavior”) because they fear losing their partner.

The examples/anecdotes were all black pills. “Jen met Brad. He was funny, intelligent, and very good-looking. However he wouldn’t reciprocate affection like holding her hand etc etc.” and the entire time I was thinking, how many normies are gonna pick up this book and think they don’t have a girlfriend because they have been too avoidant? Esp when the book is about how good-looking people stumble into relationships over and over even though they have fked up interpersonal relationship styles and no ability to self-reflect?

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T20:08:40+00:00

"Have faith and just fall in love"

Easy for her to say since she's a women and obviously has nothing to loose in a relationship

But when it comes to my time,attention,resources,energy fuck faith

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-12T20:02:45+00:00

Q4W: would you stay with your man if he told you he was only staying in the relationship with you for the stability and income you provide?

meteorness123 · 2023-04-12T20:00:22+00:00

If all women rejecting you, the problem lies with the man, not the women. If all men have problems with you, the fault lies with the woman, not the men.

Do you agree or disagree with this ?

caobozo · 2023-04-12T19:53:38+00:00

the real misandrists are the men claiming that men are basically unintelligent sentient penises

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-12T19:50:58+00:00

I’ve scheduled a bunch of trial lessons and they’re short, but much more intense and stressful for me, because they’re all with new people I’m not used to and I don’t know their level. Got 2 trial lessons today (and three new students, so all good) and 4 more tomorrow. Wish me luck.

Also today gonna have three regular lessons, but I’m already tired. I’m really not sociable enough for this job.

scwizard · 2023-04-12T19:40:22+00:00

I had one therapy person tell me that I should fuck my way out of it. I tired, it worked for a bit and then I moved on, so maybe there where right...

Bro...

Professional therapists really telling SA survivors this???

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-12T19:38:30+00:00

My parents are so goals. They’re about to be married for 25 years and they’re only turning 43 and 46 this year. I’m so proud of them.

dysonRing · 2023-04-12T19:19:20+00:00

Snark, snark equals sarcasm (good) + emotion (bad) and is a deeply effeminate behavior that is literally the only way women know how to fight politically

"Who knew women would vote to keep their rights" paraphrased from HRC after the midterms is such a womanly response, and even when on her side it just pisses me off.

If there ever was a true gender war men would fight with action and women would fight with snark. Guess who would win? Not the real good guys that is for sure.

Peacesquad · 2023-04-12T19:01:13+00:00

Women want quality Men want quantity

questioningfeminist · 2023-04-12T18:57:00+00:00

Imagine my utter shock and surprise when my redneck facebook friend that always takes pics with his sunglasses and MAGA hat shows his new pitbull puppy.

Is there a single liberal that owns a pit or are they all these low IQ fucking MAGA assholes?

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-04-12T18:27:00+00:00

Suppose I post a unifying theory that explains all pill rhetoric's and socio-political dynamics without fail, would I get upvotes?

TigerRude4 · 2023-04-12T18:23:12+00:00

Should Stacysexuals be in LGBTQIA2SBBU?

caobozo · 2023-04-12T18:20:31+00:00

recently whenever i sweat the skin on my chest starts to itch a little and gets a little red, anyone know what that's about

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-12T18:19:20+00:00

Men dating younger women is predatory

But the young women dating older men for money isn't

Learn to spot modern day misandry

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-12T18:18:17+00:00

Why can't I look at potential hairstyles without them always being presented by NYC Chad

Ffs I just want an average ugly guy to compare to

purplish_possum · 2023-04-12T18:15:30+00:00

Guys in Chicago are significantly taller than guys in California. I've seen at least four guys taller than me.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T18:14:11+00:00

"What if she has her body on Instagram in the relationship"

Am not gonna tell her to delete it since am not her father but l am gonna make it clear I don't commit nor take those types of girls serious for relationships

purplish_possum · 2023-04-12T18:13:41+00:00

Waiting for my flight at Chicago Midway. Saw a fat dorky guy with a pretty woman. At first it seemed like they might be a couple. Then fat dorky guy's lean fit brother showed up.

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-12T12:16:33+00:00

My dating experiences: It has either been very easy or impossible. No in between. Women that likes you don’t make you jump through hoops.

jamal_dc · 2023-04-12T11:36:46+00:00

I’m starting to suspect that a large proportion of men are chasing women who aren’t into them and trying to convince them otherwise. Don’t do this. This in addition to just being plain boring and desperate. I got over my approach anxiety and improved my social life. My dating life also improved. There’s a woman I call every now and again. Sometimes she initiates. I called her yesterday and didn’t dwell too much on how her boring ass day went like some of you simps. I jumped straight into the latest gossip about a high profile serial killer who’s just been caught and his relationship with a prison warden. She ate it up. We discussed psychology, persuasion, murder. I teased her a bit etc Those are all the reasons she’s ghosting some of you chumps and I’ll be sucking on her big ol’ tiddies like they contain the cure for ageing.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-04-12T13:32:58+00:00

A lot of mens dating issues can be reduced to “Stacy chasing” behaviour and feeling entitled to attractive women. You can see that with how the men on male centric dating subs talk about average looking women

one_ball_policy · 2023-04-12T00:14:22+00:00

Men lost when they started caring about women’s opinions (the gender that considers pole dancing exercise). Go back to invalidating women’s opinions and you’ll be better off

one_ball_policy · 2023-04-12T01:50:41+00:00

Anyone else find it weird that the patriarchy existed for millennia and we had civilization, strong nuclear families, innovation, community and tradition.

Then after the advent of birth control / matriarchal societies and all we have to show for it is a destroyed dating market, higher depression rates and record high incarceration

I thought patriarchy was bad

dbz__f · 2023-04-12T08:44:34+00:00

There are some feminists who are unironically against Julian Assange because of le sexual assault charges meme

Shows they are ultra NPCs who lack critical awareness and can never be intersectional allies

MediumBaseball5339 · 2023-04-11T22:14:33+00:00

More and more, I am of the belief that anyone trying to give advice to these different coloured pilled guys is actually doing more damage than good. I say this because while we mean well and try to reason with logic, even if they hear a different point of view, they go straight back to their community enclosures and get refilled with the same talking points and rage.

The hive is alive.

Ok_Entrepreneur2931 · 2023-04-11T22:28:41+00:00

I don't get the raging hate boner some guys here have for sluts.

Yeah, they are more likely to cheat and less suited for serious relationships, but that doesn't make them bad people. It's not as if all or even most of them cheat. Just live your life and don't get in serious relationships with them.

If they're living rent free in your head I think you're probably just bitter that you're not getting any.

edit: on second thought you don't really know who is a slut and who isn't, and non-sluts can screw you over too, so maybe just avoid serious relationships(marriage definitely) in general instead of trying to hunt unicorns 💯

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-12T13:11:30+00:00

Apparently, pursuing women based on compatibility is a foreign concept amongst the guys in PPD.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-12T15:46:24+00:00

“Its not fair she fucked other guys earlier than me” wouldn’t even be an issue if guys just be upfront that they want to fuck around and nothing else. Instead, they want to play these dumbass games, pretend they want something deeper, and get mad these dumbass games dont work.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-12T16:43:17+00:00

It is so easy to be attractive as a woman. All a woman has to do is not be fat, not be mean/bitchy and put on minimal basic makeup and she's basically in the top 10-15% of women in attractiveness/desirability.

I bet thin women are secretly smug about how many fatties there are that make it so easy for them to be desirable in comparison to the majority of women who are fatties.

Demasii · 2023-04-11T22:06:37+00:00

Any type of questions or CMV you don't engage with? Mine is...

What do you bring to the table?
Advising a young woman to avoid significantly older men is treating her like a child.
Who would you pick between two terrible choices?

ThisBoringLife · 2023-04-11T22:27:52+00:00

Change My Motherfucking View: We never should’ve gone after abortion and we should stop going after childfree women. Baby trapping gonna skyrocket now because women can’t abort it and now they can take you down with them, if you don’t want it you’re now going to be forced to take care of it and for what? Because we were salty about a few girls rejecting us and out bipolar ex sucked some dick in an alley? Because we wanted to get back at women for fucking Chad? Now we’re gonna be the ones suffering from this shit, hope you assholes are happy. Men had it good, we fucking had it good and you just didn’t think we had it good. Now we got a bunch of religious fucks in charge and they’re going to heavily penalize casual sex soon because all you motherfuckers was too mad and too emotional. Shit I’m getting snipped before you soft asses make that illegal next too because you wanna punish Chad and everyone else for fucking when you can’t and for fucking who you can’t. And we never shoulda went hard on childfree women, that’s the cream of the crop right there. She ain’t gonna keep it she’s gonna abort it, or she ain’t gonna have a womb or she’s gonna be on pills or IUD. We could’ve had a casual sex renaissance for men but nope, we had to get all motherfucking salty and wanna go back to the olden days.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-12T00:00:10+00:00

Men that want kids watching themselves be called lazy, loser and dead beats because chad and Tyrone didn't want kids

liefelijk · 2023-04-12T00:33:31+00:00

This is the kind of thing that leads to educated women breaking up with their spouses:

https://reddit.com/r/povertyfinance/comments/12ijsv5/my_husband_lost_his_80k_a_year_job_wants_me_to/

I hope she finishes out that degree and reconsiders the relationship.

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-04-12T00:34:42+00:00

I just saw a tik tok about fgm and omg omg omg….what the heck. Lord, I thought circumcising was terrible…omg. I’m mortified. Why do we do things like this to children? Why?

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-12T03:08:49+00:00

Today we got 7 croissants for less than 5$ and walked 12 kilometers to the bakery and in the park nearby. Having a small picnic with cheap pastries kind of returns me to our first dates as students.

scwizard · 2023-04-12T04:48:49+00:00

Which would you prefer? Your 18 year old daughter getting drunk with her boss alone in his apartment at night, or your 8 year old daughter, among a group of other 8 year olds and their parents, being read the cat in the hat by a guy in a dress in a public library during the day?

Why is this being presented as an either or situation?

What on earth do these two situations have anything to do with each other???

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-12T05:34:41+00:00

Anti-gay politician is gay. Shocking.

UneastAji · 2023-04-12T07:56:00+00:00

I can't stress how these 2 statistics:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_the_United_States

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships

Are largely sufficient to explain the increased issues the newer generations of men are facing.

A dynamic in which women marry mostly men same age and older will only be fair to men if the population is increasing. If the population is stagnating or shrinking the sexual and relational market place is going to be indubitably in favor of women.

These other statistics shows the dynamic at play: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/

The generation of boys born during covid are going to be the ubber incels. And that cannot be good for society.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-04-12T09:26:05+00:00

It's so annoying how the proliferation of abuse terminology has given ammo to crazy girls to justify their delusions.

A guy gives you a few compliments, goes on a few dates with you then doesn't see things working? "He LOVEBOMBED me! 😭"

A guy tells a white lie because he knows the truth, no matter how minor it is, will cause her to have an emotional breakdown? "He GASLIT me! 😭"

A guy is constantly screamed at and berated and responds back angrily once or twice? "He EMOTIONALLY ABUSED me! 😭"

SingleChina · 2023-04-12T12:14:48+00:00

Women be like

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T16:08:34+00:00

Guys when she says yes, plan the date as soon as possible

Because women will change their mind in a microsecond

scwizard · 2023-04-12T16:40:17+00:00

Why is it so common for some guys to be really great guys up until they have a baby, and then suddenly they're no longer pulling their weight?

jamal_dc · 2023-04-12T16:49:29+00:00

Do men on this sub even want to be helped? Every time I give tips I get excuses as to why something won’t work. It’s like they want women (whom they are only attracted to because of her looks btw) to:

say “yes” to their approach without them having to flirt, be playful or anything that requires effort or confidence on their part.
like him for him and show sexual enthusiasm from the get go if he’s painfully average or below in every single possible way
go 50/50 on the date even though he’s the one who initiated and asked for her time and company
give him sex on the first date with the least amount of effort on his part to prove she’s not just using him. Because he isn’t.

Or alternatively they’ll concede that the advice would work but they don’t want to because Chad wouldn’t have to do that (even though there’s no conclusive evidence for the particular woman that they’re interested in OR they don’t want to put in effort because the woman is average/not worth it). The hypocrisy

TigerRude4 · 2023-04-12T18:04:38+00:00

Man, there are some heartbreaking stuff on mra subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/12j024c/how_is_using_the_best_interest_of_the_child_to/jfwl2kv?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

lulll · 2023-04-11T22:06:23+00:00

(.)(.)

jamal_dc · 2023-04-11T22:13:08+00:00

Ask me anything and I’ll try answer as a PPD woman

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-04-11T23:36:01+00:00

Unrelated but I hate these mandatory essay format employee feedback questionnaire things we have to do quarterly for my job. Like I have to highlight my successes, challenges, growth, goals, leadership etc. Really I just wanna show up, do job, collect pay, go home and if I have a problem I can speak with my about it lead directly. But noooo I gotta sit here and think of some shit to say smh.

scwizard · 2023-04-12T12:38:52+00:00

A girl on twox mentioned she did porn so I looked at her profile curious if she had any pictures.

She does but it was a huge mistake: https://imgur.io/1c28nNX

potoricco · 2023-04-12T14:31:10+00:00

3rd quarter grades

Spanish 4- B

Intermediate art- B

Chemistry- B

Precalculus- A

Gym- A

English- B

Networking- A

AP world- C

Yassss

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-12T14:47:46+00:00

People need two things, fun and comfort.

Trashy people will try to find one person to provide maximum of fun, and another person to be an emotional tampon.

Decent people will try to find a person which provides both.

I'm willing to provide meaningful resistance on this hill.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-04-12T15:04:38+00:00

"Women don't know what they want" has to be one of the dumbest cliché's men tell themselves.

Uh, knowing what you want and not being extremely vocal about it are two different things guys. You think the people most likely to get shamed for having sex with more than one guy are the most likely to be vocal about things that would make them look "slutty"? Then you have all these guys who think women don't want crazy monkey sex. They do. Just not with you.

It's called the beast with two backs. Not tea time at tiffanys.

A lot of dudes get rejected because she can tell you aren't gonna fuck her like an animal and you come off as a bitch.

meteorness123 · 2023-04-12T16:54:57+00:00

Nothing induces an "all for nothing" feeling more than taking a long, good shower and then having to take a giant shit 5 minutes after you're done.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T16:56:30+00:00

Women uses men for his money and attention

Society:

Men uses women for sex

Society: entire documentaries made about him

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-04-12T02:23:27+00:00

A lot of women here blame it on men’s insecurity for not wanting a high body count or promiscuous women. “You can’t satisfy her.”

To put it plainly, we just don’t want to commit to a cum bucket. I’ll contribute to the bucket…not anything beyond that.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-12T02:54:37+00:00

Man women with pets are weird and paranoid

scwizard · 2023-04-12T04:02:38+00:00

Women here need to touch grass, we’re not rapists or serial killers lol

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-12T04:54:22+00:00

For any dog lovers there's a webtoon about dogs that I really like.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T05:25:59+00:00

"What's the point of marriage if it only benefits women"

You tell me honestly

2023-04-12T05:27:58+00:00

TRP spitting’ fax today

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/12auzod/why_being_in_a_relationship_or_accidentally/

2023-04-12T05:58:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12j6447/why_do_women_needs_groups_to_discuss_terrible_men/jfxjhz1/?context=3

Plenty of happy people like to talk about the source of their happiness

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-12T06:06:31+00:00

~~>A survey by extra-marital dating site Gleeden, which quizzed more than 8,000 of its members, found that a whopping 62% of women have fantasised about cheating with one of their neighbours.~~

Per U of Montreal:

New research shows more men fantasise about cheating on their partners than women, with a scandalous 83.4 per cent confessing to getting off thinking about being unfaithful.

But some results are a bit more difficult to swallow. While more men fantasise about cheating, they are also joined by an outrageous 66.3 per cent of women.

We are not a monogamous species

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-12T07:29:52+00:00

Women aren't lying to you in their dating advice. It's just most women lack understanding their own sexual psychology so they just give you useless and often counterproductive advice. And men get mad when the advice inevitably fails.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-12T10:28:31+00:00

Got a call from my area manager today asking to meet with me tomorrow about an assistant manager role. I'd have to leave my current store but it's a promotion, that's all that matters to me.

Moving up, after this it's only a matter of time before I move up to a manager role.

Willow-girl · 2023-04-12T12:12:10+00:00

Heaven! Imgur

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-12T12:59:30+00:00

Downvotes without replies just feel like looking at your GF pouting in the corner because you said something insensitive but completely factually correct.

scwizard · 2023-04-12T13:00:29+00:00

From someone who went through this. For a lot of us it doesn’t start out this way. At first they seem like a normal well adjusted person. You go to their place and it seems clean. Then you move in or get married because nothing seems amiss. Or you write off small things saying “oh they were having a bad day”. Then after a few months suddenly they no longer know how to put dishes in the dish washer or even get them to the sink. They regularly start “missing” the laundry basket. They have a job Interview and they ask for help to iron a suit/shirt. Then it’s they aren’t sure how not shrink their favorite sports jersey. Or it has a “mystery” stain and they don’t know how to get it out. When they make dinner it’s over cooked/undercooked or premade box stuff when you both have discussed eating healthier. Then they ask hey can you drop this off at the post office for me. Hey can you grab deodorant for me when you go to the store. All these things seem innocuous at first because of course you want to help your partner out. But then you have to start making those thing happen all the time. Suddenly they don’t want to go to the grocery store because “babe they game’s on” or they don’t want to clean cause “I had a shit day at work”. “Can you just iron my shirt you do it much better than me.” After a while all of that stuff piles up. You add having children on top and then a full grown human is JEALOUS over an infant that needs your attention to survive. So now to get back at you they do less and less. And you are too tired to fight about it so you just sigh and do what ever it is because after having to try and having a calm and rational discussion they now start say “gawd you are such a nag!” Or “you always bring up the past why can’t you let stuff go!” And if they do even the lowest of effort things they now want huge over the top thank you’s and praise. Now add other life shit like death/illness of a parent. Loss of a job/changing jobs. Now you are fully physically and mentally drained to the point where you don’t know how you are going to make it another day. Suddenly you just snap. You lose you ever loving mind. Which of course makes you the overemotional one. One day you look at yourself and you don’t know who you are. One day you are just fucking done. Then you are an ungrateful bitch who is just trying to get their money. (As if they had any to begin with). You force them out and they have no freaking clue how to parent the children. And in the end you blame yourself. If the ex does start to change you are left asking why wouldn’t they change to keep the marriage together? What about yourself was not worthy enough for them to make small simple changes that a child could do? How do you move on and not feel you have done horrible by your children? How do you protect your children from shitty snide comments the ex keeps making about you? And you smile and pretend to get along, inside you are slowing dying.

Is there any way a girl can avoid this sorta situation from happening to her?

scwizard · 2023-04-12T13:41:34+00:00

We had jobs and a house like normal life stuff. Our son arrived and everything went to shit. At that time, I was battling post partum depression. I started noticing our child was struggling, not meeting milestones. I was told I was over reacting our child is “normal”. Now with my current partner they help out. If something is broken they fix it. Yard work? My partner does it. I cook dinner almost every night. Dishes? Partner does it. Trash always take care of. My partner does their own laundry. I rarely have to “ask” for help. Other than “hey can you help me move this heavy ass thing to clean under it.” It’s like night and day. But was I sure my new partner wasn’t going to be like my ex? I had no real way to tell.

Since there's no way to tell in advance what sorta partner you'll get, until you have kids, makes it seem like the biggest gamble...

jamal_dc · 2023-04-12T14:00:06+00:00

Tips for PPD men. Vet women for enthusiasm and openness before taking her out on the date. Schedule the date for some time in the future (this is so she knows that you have romantic interest and are intentional).

Call her at least twice before the date. Check up on her and flirt. The conversation should flow and be effortless. She should do most of the talking or at least be extremely receptive. You’re always free to cancel/postpone the date or even ghost her if you sense it’s going to be an uphill battle or that she’s not genuinely interested.

Honestly if a woman is open to dating you then she will put in effort or you’ll be able charm her without a single date. I’ve observed this first hand. Even for men who aren’t Chad.

The key or hack is to find the women that are already into or at least open to you. A way I’ve found to do this is to approach a lot of women and ask them on a proper date some time in the future. Then call in to check on them leading up to the date. I’ve found that this way I don’t waste money on taking out someone who was a time waster.

Social game is another good platform. First things first though. Self improve to increase chances of success!

Watch some men still complain about the flaws in my method. You can’t help everyone.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-12T14:33:07+00:00

I feel like the prerequisite for male dating advice is simple

Step 1: Be amazing. If you are not amazing, grind until you are.

After that, then you can take in particular dating advice

UneastAji · 2023-04-12T15:25:52+00:00

As obvious as it sounds this needs to be a PSA:

You can't be a sceptic and have an opinion on the matter being discussed.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-12T16:02:13+00:00

You know, I thought about it more and I think my earlier statement is even more true: Step 1 of being a dateable guy is to Be Amazing. And while I was being slightly snarky, if a guy asks himself if he's amazing and the answer is no, he's probably not ready to date.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T16:30:35+00:00

So l watch this clip of a dad bringing food only for his kid Now the mom says why didn't you bring the other kids food as well

And am like bruh the other children are not his kids

You can't make this up , avoid single mothers at all costs

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-04-12T16:41:54+00:00

I want Pedro Pascal to be my daddy. Not in a sexy way, I just want to goof around with him and do dad things.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cox5OzFAflK/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

How adorable is he though?!

eye_fuck · 2023-04-12T18:01:55+00:00

q4a is the opposite for looksmaxx — looksmin or uglymaxx?

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-11T22:08:54+00:00

I forget how much I love the Bay Area until I am here.

Popular_Accountant60 · 2023-04-11T22:10:26+00:00

Why do men and women on this side of Reddit have such a negative view of life and love? Must be draining to be so pessimistic all the time

lulll · 2023-04-11T22:39:15+00:00

the political discourse we truly need

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-11T23:51:59+00:00

So having a profile photo has drastically increased the number of men trying to get into my DMs. I should have expected this, but having no photos online had kind of relaxed me. But people tend to take your ads better if they can see your face.

boomcheese44 · 2023-04-12T00:07:40+00:00

Q4W: Do you like dark triad men?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-12T00:25:21+00:00

If you're concerned about someone's sexual past and your own sexual past is shady, you're bad in bed. Period.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-04-12T00:48:07+00:00

I like sex

HazyMemory7 · 2023-04-12T00:51:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12io0v5/are_we_dating_the_same_guy_nyc_why_is_this_page/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Creator of these groups should be rotting in a jail cell

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-12T03:05:50+00:00

What’s your thoughts on those anti smoking commercials with the people who got a hole in their throats

AngeCruelle · 2023-04-12T03:16:13+00:00

Question 4 Women: Women that have pets or like animals, do you like dark triad men or is there something wrong with them to you.

purplish_possum · 2023-04-12T04:04:39+00:00

Why don’t women just get that certain men are trash? It’s not difficult Damn.

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-04-12T06:00:12+00:00

I found that I consistently crave two things in life: information and security. Pill rhetoric is extremely good at playing those two things against me.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-12T15:58:21+00:00

The fact l still have to argue men have it harder in dating

Shows this place lacks a lot of common sense

Men having it harder is literally common sense, from Passport bros to RP strategies to statistics about men being sexless

I mean c'mon, saying men it harder is the equivalent of saying water is wet

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-04-12T17:20:19+00:00

Can somebody tell me why most bisexual women have the high fringe/bangs haircut? Is it a signal to other bisexual women?

I was discussing this with my lesbian roommate and her girlfriend and they both confirmed there is a specific bisexual aesthetic. We all agreed it was cringe, especially the dyed hair and tattoos.

edgyny · 2023-04-12T17:22:12+00:00

CMV if more women followed this woman's example, then they wouldn't wind up being dusty cat ladies

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR3AghSD/

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-11T22:11:22+00:00

I respect the entertainers who leave the industry on their own over the ones who stay but cry about being called ugly or their movie being panned

Steakman1 · 2023-04-11T22:16:46+00:00

If you tell a guy who eats ass that something tastes like shit, are you telling them it tastes good?

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-04-11T23:37:11+00:00

I’m getting a vasectomy in a week and I’m pumped. After my fling got pregnant she had an abortion, my family was devastated by this shit for some reason.

Ok_Entrepreneur2931 · 2023-04-11T23:54:55+00:00

We should stop shaming sluts, but hoes need to be shamed.

potoricco · 2023-04-12T01:09:28+00:00

I can’t see myself ever being in a relationship

Like what do you mean I actually have to talk to them alone

There is some validity to age gap relationships in that case

purplish_possum · 2023-04-12T01:20:18+00:00

Starting to think booking a 5:00 am flight out of an airport that's four hours away was a bad idea $98 coast to coast fare notwithstanding.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-04-12T01:43:21+00:00

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-04-12T03:35:56+00:00

I couldn’t resist the curiosity so I took another peak at the trp subreddit… another scar on my brain

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2023-04-12T04:11:48+00:00

Most IG influencers have an Onlyfans these days. This shit is so normalized now. The absolute state of women and simps 😂. How do women expect men to not objectify them? Even if you’re not one of the girls that has an OnlyFans, I cant help but wonder if you’d sell your butthole pics for 5.99/month….

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-12T05:17:00+00:00

Why do women like pets so much to the point they don’t trust men?

2023-04-12T05:47:08+00:00

Not how this works

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12j6447/why_do_women_needs_groups_to_discuss_terrible_men/jfxim05/?context=3

Play_Muted · 2023-04-12T08:54:06+00:00

wtf happened to gay milo, he is so unhinged now

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-12T12:38:07+00:00

Increasing Toxic Masculinity Like a Real Man

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-12T14:35:29+00:00

https://youtu.be/sJ7oiK_QeYk

Reminds me of the manosphere being upset when an attractive woman wont date someone like them.

Like, the salt and entitlement is palpable.

Peacesquad · 2023-04-12T15:27:47+00:00

What’s the haps

liefelijk · 2023-04-12T15:41:16+00:00

Yay! Got a second round interview request (first was a prerecorded video answering questions). Only problem is that it’s 4 hours away and mid-week.

There will be at least one more interview or lesson demonstration before an offer, so I’m thinking I’ll request a Zoom interview for this one.

How much do you think that will hurt my chances?

questioningfeminist · 2023-04-12T16:11:30+00:00

Q4W: Define foreplay

Ohmaygahh · 2023-04-12T16:16:24+00:00

I am rewatching Season 2 of "White Lotus" and couldn't help that a scene in episode 3 "Bull elephants" really encapsulates the meta zeitgeist of hetereosexual men/women wants.

It's a scene with the deplorable Portia and sweet Albie. At the core, this is our innocent selves, both men and women, are trying to express to each other. But it falls on deaf ears.

Men and women are complicit, but the truth is women bear more of the blame because they set the stage for their selfishness. Men just adjust and react to what women on the aggregate dictate.

chilikettlechips · 2023-04-12T16:18:01+00:00

Discussion: Why does this term, "hookup culture" exist? Trying to imagine these hookupites having a nation next to ze germans or something. Is it just a thing that zoomers do that every action/behavior can have the word culture affixed to it like an adjective? Is it how like everything can have a "vibe"?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-12T16:42:08+00:00

Guys insisting “Dont ask women what they want because thats not helpful” reminds me of:

Woke companies yelling at their customers for not accepting their woke shit.
In the 90s/00s women/girl who insist guys were pressuring them to become size 0 when it was actually the fashion model industry, not realizing plenty of men want voluptuous too.

I dont understand the logic of not understanding what your target audience wants from the source and thinking you and your echo chamber knows best.

potoricco · 2023-04-12T02:07:09+00:00

Guys I need your honest advice, I am opening my Instagram soon but the only thing holding me back is my classmates. I don’t want them seeing my posts or profile because that is so embarrassing but I already have 100+ followers, most of them are classmates so should I just take the L

If I make a new account I will be starting from scratch with little to no engagement

Help now

liefelijk · 2023-04-11T22:17:48+00:00

I’m feeling weirdly sad about Taylor Swift’s recent breakup. They were together for 6 years and most people assumed they were heading for marriage and children. Just a bummer for them, even if they’re out of touch celebrities.

Here’s one of her recent songs that is thought to be about the end of their relationship:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7QlX3yR2xs (song starts around 2:00, stupidly)

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-11T22:39:29+00:00

Boy, this subreddit has destroyed their own narrative of “We hide our feelings because women hurt us and thought less of us when we do”. Meanwhile, men here have 0 problems insulting guys for being feminine and vulnerable.

Men mocking men for being vulnerable? THAT’S GOOD! Women mocking men for being vulnerable? MEANIES!

Meanwhile, I STILL have more proof guys being awful to men about this topic more than women being awful to men.

https://youtu.be/wQnOiX8DwRU

https://youtu.be/BxCquPdUsUY

https://youtube.com/shorts/2YuHdJVtw60?feature=share

https://youtu.be/PVrjozFHCr4

https://youtu.be/VRjxM-hplcQ

https://youtu.be/bVMdbWgcriI

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-12T00:07:10+00:00

My partner is working late, so I'm on my own for dinner. He does the cooking, and I hate nights when I'm on my own for food.

My options are frozen pizza or ordering in....

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