Daily Community Chat Megathread

jobbo321 · 2023-05-02T17:40:38+00:00

Q4M: What are some of your hard earned life lessons?

Mine are: (only applicable to average or below average men) 1. If you want anything in life, you must take active steps to get it. Most things don't come natural to most men after the age of 18-21. Some people get lucky, but most have to work their ass off to get it and maintain it. Whether it's getting rich, being healthy, finding a girlfriend/friends, career goals, etc.

Embrace failure and rejection.
If your situation sucks within the first month and you do nothing to change it, it'll most likely suck permanently. Refer to #1.
Most "original" things are copied from something else.

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-02T17:38:48+00:00

where's the fresh daily megathread?

scwizard · 2023-05-02T17:26:29+00:00

Anyway, I've been at a stable and healthy weight for half a year and I wanted to symbolically celebrate it to acknowledge that I can reach my goals and be fine with my body. I wanted to do that by booking a photoshoot with a friend of ours who has our trust and is a semi-pro at that sort of thing. My boyfriend has been complaining about it NON STOP and an ugly, controlling side of him just suddenly showed up. He refuses to understand that I want to do this for myself and how it can be a celebration of me. He has voiced his disapproval very obviously and also negs me when I bring it up. Honestly it made me want to do the photoshoot even more. I didnt know this guy had that kind of nasty attitude in him and I am reconsidering our relationship because it shows a total lack of understanding of how I'm feeling.

Edit : Yes, it is a nude photoshoot

Imagine burying the lede THIS hard.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-02T16:51:54+00:00

Hotter take: I think modern women take men for granted

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-05-02T16:51:34+00:00

Hot take: sexism benefits women more than men

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-02T16:44:20+00:00

I was reading this post and no. 8 reminded me of the film A.I. Artificial Intelligence. David the machine child has this feature that permanently software locks his perpetual affection to the individual that spells out the love code. Now, never looking at other women is probably impossible, but I am pretty sure there are a reasonable amount of men out there that also have this "soft-lock" feature ingrained in the brain.

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-02T16:42:53+00:00

I consider myself an above average man and the apps have been hell for me. It’s like this

-thin

-in college

-has similar values

Pick two. That’s every girl.

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-02T16:39:28+00:00

The "free speech" brigade are something else. These social media companies got massive because they stop people (at least try to) from saying radically offensive shit. The platforms that don't censor anything either didn't survive or don't have anywhere near the same level of engagement

What does that say? Most people want some things to be censored

That's like trying to have your own Christmas party, inviting people, nobody showing up and then trying to tell someone else what they should do with theirs

rantsincognito · 2023-05-02T16:38:11+00:00

On todays episode of hoewear at the gym, today I witnessed the next evolution of leggings. This girl next to me is wearing these shear type white leggings that are kind of opaque but when she sweats, which she is doing from her butt, you can see right through and see buttcheecks and everythang.

And before all the harpies get on me about “huur duur you should be looking down at your shoes at the gym and shouldnt see what anyone else is wearing”. First of all, Im not criticizing it. Second, I didnt even notice her until a FEMALE friend pointed it out.

Im telling yall, see through leggings are coming. Your daughters will be wearing them to grammas funeral. Million dollar idea right there.

satisfiedmind- · 2023-05-02T16:33:58+00:00

NSFW Reddit is truly hilarious. I’ve just seen a post titled “lick my Irish pussy”. Do we thinks it’s flavoured like Guinness or Bailey’s?

Willow-girl · 2023-05-02T16:27:46+00:00

Sometimes finishing a good book is like losing a friend. I don't want it to stop! Can it please keep going?

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-02T16:09:54+00:00

https://prismreports.org/2022/03/22/in-multiple-states-rapists-can-sue-their-victims-for-parental-custody/

ngl that shit kinda sick

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-02T15:56:58+00:00

CMV: Some men and women need to be shamed but we’re too soft to do it. Shame simps, grifters and betas and puritian men that ruin things for other men. Shame cheating hoes, nagging wives and bitches that don’t appreciate they men. PPD men always talking about how tough and alpha they are sit the fuck down y’all just beta males LARPing as alpha males and doing doodoo cheeks at it.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-05-02T15:47:13+00:00

Yesterday both of the women I was messaging on the apps with ghosted me after I got busy at work and left them on read for a few hours.

"But dating is just as hard as it is for women as it is for men!" Miss me with that bullshit.

Dating for men is a full time job.

Dating for women is having an endless line of jesters ready at your disposal to entertain you.

whoistherango67 · 2023-05-02T15:35:54+00:00

I’m feeling like I’m battling myself about whether or not I want to get into another romantic relationship w/ a woman as a man

Covid made me very individualistic and I was turning into that prior because I lived so far from the high school I attended and was alone often especially during summers. I was single for a while and got irritated at the idea of being with another person, especially when brought up by others (you got a gf? Who you talking to? Any girl plans?) etc. It doesn’t even stem from a lack of interest in women but telling myself “I don’t need this” and trying to rebel against what’s expected of me. It’s also a bit of fear of rejection and being judged sprinkled in there

I’ve come to the realization that I do want that. I do want a wife and a beautiful family…but subconsciously I’m stopping myself. I’ll see a pretty girl that I like and really want to go say something, but the only negative part of me thinking “what if she rejects you?” “what if she thinks you’re socially awkward?”pulls me back and I’m left alone. It’s like I want to open myself up to someone but don’t want to take the risks associated…it’s a frustrating position to be in

Patient-Exit-3606 · 2023-05-02T15:22:42+00:00

Why do wet men have to look sexy, but feel so unsexy when you touch them? I feel like that’s an argument against intelligent design

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-02T15:15:41+00:00

Man why some of the annoying females here be so based?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-02T15:13:30+00:00

Seeing a guy whine about nagging without giving context is a red flag. I also think it proves that no fault divorces benefit men too, because if you’re not willing to explain why your wife shouldn’t nag at you, that tells me there’s some irreconcilable differences going on.

Would guys really to be stuck in a situation where neither side seems eye to eye on things, so youre stuck with a ‘nagger’?

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-02T14:59:30+00:00

Tradcon girls are dog water in bed and speaking from personal experience they ain’t worth it, can’t suck dick without teeth, think swallowing cum is a sin, they’ll get angry if you suggest anal, can’t do oral on them because the bit has a 1000 acres of pubic hair and thinks oral is a sin, likely wants kids and will cry and have a meltdown if you don’t want any brats, won’t let fuck anyone else because they think marriage is scared or some shit, can’t dress up sexy at all, boring to talk to, religion and family values is all they talk about, very few of them are actually attractive enough to keep you hard, tendency to get fat, no sense of adventure.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-05-02T14:57:24+00:00

Q4M: If your daughter decided to become a pornstar would you still love her?

scwizard · 2023-05-02T14:54:07+00:00

If mr beast makes a YouTube video on how being a transgirl is cute and hecking valid then I'm sure YouTube will shove it down our throats even if it means overriding the algorithm to do so.

But you can't force people to watch and enjoy a video and there's gonna be a lot of viewers who are gonna be like this is weird this is dumb this is too political.

Slipthe · 2023-05-02T14:44:45+00:00

Google Tasks or Reminders?

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-02T14:42:54+00:00

All the naysayers who told me I’d never have a harem, I got 2 ladies and a possible curious third. Don’t hate the player, hate yourself for not being successful and hate ya lack of drip.

baresquad · 2023-05-02T14:28:05+00:00

What’s up with conservatives push to ban porn?

Not supposed to have sex. Can’t get an abortion. Can’t watch porn. Why are these people so dead set on us living this way?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-02T14:19:57+00:00

The reason most people will never take the Manosphere seriously: Its guys thinking they speak objective truths, but it’s based on very subjective measurements.

For example: Saying hypergamy is worse now than ever because of feminism, but studies shows that women are less hypergamous than previous generations of women:

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/05/29/chapter-3-married-mothers-who-out-earn-their-husbands/

Afterall, Hypergamy is “the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background”.

Now, if anyone is saying “That’s not the definition we’re using”, then we’re getting into the subjective territory because now they have created their own definition Hypergamy.

Even defining Hypergamy as “Women want the best” doesnt work because what people consider the best is highly subjective. Also, who is to say men dont want the best? What people wouldnt want the best?

Talking to adults who make up their own rules is exhausting. Please, actually have some ideas rooted in reality and facts, not on exaggerations and opinions.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-02T14:15:56+00:00

Back in states this month at the company HQ. It’s So cliqy it’s not even funny. It’s like I’m back at high school.

Next job I get has to be remote.

Side note. There’s like 3 chicks that are cute at the whole site. Can’t believe how on average folks in Asia were good looking but here they’re not.

What’s in the food? A 5 in Seoul is like a 10 here.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-02T13:33:52+00:00

Q4W: to what extent do you keep your partners shortcomings to yourself? This is mostly concerning sex, but anything in your relationship can apply

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-02T13:33:08+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/0UH3m8FCET0?feature=share

Why are men like this??? Where are the men commenting on this dude’s tiktok posts to prove how they aren’t monsters?

Edit: instead of downvoting, EXPLAIN and prove that men aren’t like this. Prove that men are good.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-02T13:21:11+00:00

Q4A: Is social media like instagram a net positive or net negative for society? Why do you believe so?

No-Regular1667 · 2023-05-02T13:15:15+00:00

Thoughts on this article about the "epidemic of loneliness"?

https://www.cnn.com/2023/05/02/health/murthy-loneliness-isolation/index.html

scwizard · 2023-05-02T12:53:28+00:00

Regardless of whether you support sex work or not, I could never respect a man who "bought" a woman.

Having sex AT rather than with someone. Knowing that person does not WANT to sleep with you but does need the money. Seeing womens bodies as objects to be bought and used. Those are all big nopes for me. I would not continue to be friends with that man.

Could you still be friends with a guy who's paid for sex?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-02T12:28:08+00:00

This is a constant problem I have with manosphere guys and also PPD: Wanting to state objective truths but using very subjective measurements.

For example: This obsession with hating fat girls. I barely paid it any mind because I thought it was stupid.

However, now I am thinking....how are guys defining fat? Because the manosphere makes everything subjective, I doubt they're using the right term.

Are we talking a few pounds over weight? Obese? Morbid obesity? Are we using the BMI? Are you just going by looks? Are you aware people distribute fat differently?

And a reminder that complaining about girls being fat means nothing if you’re talking to an American because the average person in that country is fat. Only 1 in 4 adults in the USA are the recommended weight for their size.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-02T12:27:05+00:00

Question for Gen Z or anyone who knows Gen Z people personally:

Is the state of social interaction really as bad as the scare stories you see? Do they genuinely not hang out in person (or at least do so rarely) and prefer online interaction with friends?

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-05-02T12:26:18+00:00

https://www.hhs.gov/surgeongeneral/priorities/connection/index.html?utm_source=osg_redirect&utm_medium=osg_redirect&utm_campaign=osg_sg_gov_connection#advisory

Interesting to see that loneliness has such adverse health effects. Some of the stats are pretty crazy too...

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-05-02T12:26:09+00:00

https://www.hhs.gov/surgeongeneral/priorities/connection/index.html?utm_source=osg_redirect&utm_medium=osg_redirect&utm_campaign=osg_sg_gov_connection#advisory

Interesting to see that loneliness has such adverse health effects. Some of the stats are pretty crazy too...

thetruthishere_ · 2023-05-02T12:14:22+00:00

That facebook group 'are we dating the same guy' has several married men. They have been spotted by escorts because they see them too.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-02T12:09:21+00:00

Fun tip: If you've had a heavy drinking weekend and didn't shit much during it, don't have Chinese food at the end of it unless you want to spend your day shitting your guts out.

jobbo321 · 2023-05-02T11:33:48+00:00

I wish I discovered music creation instead of videogames when I was younger so that I could've devoted my life to creating songs. Wouldn't even have cared if whether or not I became succesful.

For my dad it even played out pretty well romantically, he met my mum because he was in a band and her friends would sometimes watch them play songs.

For any parents here: please never let your kids play videogames. Quickest way to remove any potential passions they have because everything will be boring compared to gaming. Videogames will have zero positive impacts on their lives, unless they belong to a lucky small group that become a streamer/youtuber and make millions for a few years.

dbz__f · 2023-05-02T10:53:04+00:00

Most women want a guy that makes more than her

But

I feel like not only is my gf okay with the fact that she makes more than me but she prefers it. In the past she always insisted on paying for dates and travel and food, and it was a fight to get her to agree to split or let me pay. I wondered what was up. I feel like she feels it makes her the powerful one in the relationship and the one who gets to call the shots. Like she enjoys being in charge and power trippy.

It’s like “yeah I’ll have sex with him whenever he wants, I’ll let him have that, but in everything else, I win.”

dbz__f · 2023-05-02T10:09:30+00:00

Just did a massive turd

dbz__f · 2023-05-02T10:08:58+00:00

My gf talked shit in private to me about her brother in law, saying he was shorter than her sister and made less than her.

I’m 5’9” (not short but on lower end of average and certainly not tall). I make less than my gf. How the fuck am I supposed to interpret what she says? Does she think of me the same way?

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-02T10:06:32+00:00

An idiom is a phrase that, when taken as a whole, has a meaning you wouldn’t be able to deduce from the meanings of the individual words.

The phrase “kill two birds with one stone” is an example of an idiom. Fluent and native English speakers understand that this doesn’t refer to harming birds or using stones, but that someone is completing two tasks at once.

Q4All: is the phrase "She's average looking" an idiom?

Yes being not fat makes you statistically above average. But that's not how it's used. When people use that phrase they're actually trying to describe the person as being neutral on the general attractiveness scale

Most people understand this but some want to twist the definition to win an argument

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-02T09:44:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/135bef7/why_do_men_here_care_so_much_about_whether_women/

Instead of expecting women to solve male issues

Perfect example of the disconnect on PPD and how they misinterpret due to emotionalization.

RP: Helping men understand women nature.

PPD: Expecting women to solve male issues.

The RP is not about changes or what is fair or whatever. It is about seeing things for what they are and navigating.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-02T05:48:14+00:00

ngl this shit funny

https://www.vice.com/en/article/y3py9j/ai-companion-replika-erotic-roleplay-updates

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-01T19:57:08+00:00

Bad boy + not attractive and not charming= no pussy

Bad boy + attractive and charming= pussy

Good boy + not attractive and not charming=no pussy

Good boy + attractive and charming=pussy

Does the class get it?

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-05-01T23:21:19+00:00

Y’all need to stop capping so hard. Elon Musk ain’t gonna marry the bitch that works at Walmart because she’s skinny and cute, grown ass men talking about this Disney fantasy shit fuck wrong with you 😂

baresquad · 2023-05-01T18:39:58+00:00

One of my best friend has been dating someone who’s been making him “wait” and recently he told me that they finally had sex.

It really drove home how stupid of an idea it is that your value to a person can only be measured by arbitrary circumstances. Based on them not having sex immediately, people would have my friend believe that the person he’s dating isn’t attracted to him or as attracted to him as to men in her past because he didn’t receive the same “equal treatment.”

But in reality what we have are just two people who prioritized their connection while subconsciously deprioritizing sex, letting the natural flow of things happen as they occur.

tired_hillbilly · 2023-05-02T04:15:34+00:00

Gotta love the posts that are like "Sex isn't a need bro, you won't die without it."

Ok, fair, I won't die. But if I tie you to a bed, blindfold you, stuff earplugs in your ears, and feed you intravenously you won't die either. Does that mean you don't need to see, hear, eat, and move?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-02T00:01:10+00:00

Does hating fat chicks pass as a personality nowadays? Get it together fellas.

saraimarsena · 2023-05-02T00:22:04+00:00

why do people care about gaining acceptance of their preferences

i think people deserve pushback for being assholes if they degrade people who don’t fit their preferences or are in general disrespectful about it.

but if i talk about my preferences respectfully and in the appropriate settings, i see little reason to care if people disagree w it. my preferences are not my entire personality that i shout from the rooftops when nobody even asked. but shaming isn’t going to change what i’m attracted to.

LaloTwins · 2023-05-01T18:04:13+00:00

Every time someone starts the Equal Rights, Equal Lefts argument some Blue/Pink Piller inevitably compares women to children

"If a child hit an adult you wouldn't approve the man punching the toddler hard"

women are children confirmed

relevant video

Outside_Ad8196 · 2023-05-01T20:25:51+00:00

As a man, I’ve had enough about being berated for my weight preference. Apparently I should “get to know girl’s personalities and I’ll find them beautiful”… well if the girl is above average weight I am not attracted and she doesn’t fit my lifestyle.

All my exes have been skinny, it’s my preference and I have a right to have that preference. Also sick of hearing how “this is society’s beauty standards talking”. No it’s healthy living standard and a good lifestyle match for an active, gym-going guy.

Women don’t get as much shit when they say they want 6’+ or [insert body type here]. But as a man, god forbid you want an average weight gf.

Also men who prefer curvy or overweight women don’t get shit for it.

SlashCo80 · 2023-05-01T20:30:37+00:00

The problem with social media is that a lot of the redpill, incel, MGTOW, manosphere stuff greatly overlaps alt-right, misogynist, white/male supremacist rhetoric. I'm not saying reading/watching that stuff can radicalize angry young men and contribute to mass shooters, but I'm not not saying it either...

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-02T01:54:06+00:00

Perks of Dating Adult Male Virgins: The Series

Part 10: If/then

He has friends who have been together since childhood. It's not uncommon in the close-knit Christian community where he grew up. In many ways his values, like my own, have grown and changed with new experiences and encounters. But that dream of "one and only" stays with him.

We strive to balance such things with a healthy sense of reality. Decisive times are on the horizon. Where will I end up after grad school? He could follow me. But his family is his world. Uprooting him for my sake doesn't feel right.

But if we made it work. His relationship with me would be his first and last. I pointed that out to him while we strolled aimlessly on a sleepy Sunday. His thumb gently traced over mine as we walked. I tend to say silly things when he does that. I catch sight of his face, smiling and thoughtful. He softly tells me he knows. And his eyes tell me it's what he hopes for.

Disclaimer: I can only account for the experiences of myself and others in my social circle. I am in no way claiming that all dating experiences with adult male virgins are like this or that men who aren't virgins do not do any of this. Any concerns, counterarguments, or complaints can be directed to the air around you because I'm probably not interested.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-02T02:03:50+00:00

Judging a fattie for being fat is different from other physical beauty standards because it's so easy to not be fat and it's unhealthy to be fat. It is similar to judging someone for dressing like a slob, looking homeless or being dirty.

Being fat is a choice, so you're judging them based on their decision making ability and their ability to take care of themselves.

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-05-02T02:14:36+00:00

Just a reminder that women can break PPD rules without any sort of repercussion while a mod can change the flair of a post and you get a retroactive ban.

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-02T03:04:18+00:00

Fuck I relapsed. but I gotta say, society is full of shit. It punishes men who want to settle down early

edit: lol i meant down not spawn

reddam_man · 2023-05-02T05:21:06+00:00

my man doesn’t have to do anything if a guy slaps my butt or sexually harasses me. I can defend myself. He just needs to be kind and supportive.
it doesn’t matter if I earn more than him. As long as he can provide for himself.
he doesn’t need to be more superior than me. It’s okay if I’m the smart, more knowledgeable and overall more competent one.
it’s okay if he expresses his emotions and regularly cries in front of me. It makes him more attractive to me.
women don’t use you for a free meal, attention or as a way to settle down when they can’t get their first choice Chad.

Look. I’m not saying there haven’t been relationships where this happened and the relationship still thrived. In fact I’ve seen such relationships although in a lot of this cases the woman ended up cheating on her bf or leaving him. I’m just saying these behaviours are more likely to put you at a disadvantage with the opposite sex. Is it a PPD women thing to deny that these things happen a lot even if you and your friend group are the exception. Some of these behaviors are shitty but are biologically inbuilt into us. Most people I’ve spoken to admit this (both men and women).

It seems to be the US where people deny biology, science and glaringly obvious truths like this. AWALT and AMALT is not true but it’s damn close.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-01T17:49:58+00:00

Being bored is NOT an excuse for a child to misbehave.

If you think it is, you’re an enabler who doesn’t believe in personal responsibility,

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-01T20:11:04+00:00

We were talking about divorce statistics in the earlier thread.

The majority of custody is handled outside of court were the mother and father agree on equal custody without state intervention. If a mother goes court to settle custody and gets sole custody it’s because the father didn’t show up.

This is not how it goes and I was waiting on this comment to surface. What happens is you don't know the ins and outs behind the scenes for the data to come out that way.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SDTHFjLaB-c

TL;DR

the cases that go to court are the strongest cases right you're thinking that the cases that go to court are equally strong as the cases that don't. and that's where you're missing the [big picture]. cases that actually get to the trial those are the cases that the men have the best chances of winning. so you're looking at the cream of the crop and assuming that the cream of the crop is reflective of the base of the pyramid. it's reflected of all the other cases now you wouldn't know that right because you're just looking at the numbers the numbers don't tell you which are the strongest cases and which are the weakest cases

The best parts of the video

and this is something that's very counter-intuitive. most divorce attorneys will tell men not to fight for their children. why? because most men if they fight for their children, they will not get their children. there's one type of case that you can never get resolved for 15 grand, it is the most expensive type of case that a regular person is going to have and that type of case is a custody battle. and when you talk about custody battles those things can get easily 35 grand, 50, 75 or 115,000.

So I have a client that says, "I make sixty thousand dollars a year but I want to fight for my two kids." and you're gonna tell me the facts of your case and you got a little something you got some arguments but it's going to be a real battle because the judges are biased against men and so we're gonna have to put up a ton of evidence what are we gonna have to put up well we got to do Discovery, that's going to cost you five ten, fifteen thousand we got to take our deposition but then we also need to get the kids some counseling and we need to get some experts on the case we need to get the psychiatrist we need to get the kids evaluated we need all their reports we need for these these experts to show up to court and so you can make sixty thousand dollars a year and I can run up your bill to $80,000 which you cannot afford so I have to tell you, I have to say "listen you you got a little something but if I had to say whether you're going to win or lose I don't think it's 50 percent."

there are attorneys who will tell you, "listen pay me the 80 000 just put it all on all your credit cards and I'm really gonna try and we're probably gonna win" and what happens when you lose they're going to look at you and say "well we tried we gave it the college try" then they're going to take their 80 grand the 80 grand you paid them and they're going to fix their house and put their kids through a couple of semesters of college.

good attorneys tell you listen do not fight for custody if you cannot afford to do it and a custody case is one of the most expensive cases that a man will ever have. and men have tried and you know you never hear about the men who spend 75 000 and then they lose. because what happens when they lose the 75 000 now I've got their seventy five thousand dollars and now guess what they have to turn around and pay child support. you got to turn around and pay with what money right? because I've already cleaned out their life savings.

So Good attorneys we say "listen instead of doing this whole 75 000 thing what I can do is try to fight to get the most visitation that I can get" most fathers are like "okay because I can't afford to enter into an unfair trial, lose, and then turn around and pay child support money with money that I just don't have.

the cases that go to court are the strongest cases right you're thinking that the cases that go to court are equally strong as the cases that don't. and that's where you're missing the [big picture]. cases that actually get to the trial those are the cases that the men have the best chances of winning. so you're looking at the cream of the crop and assuming that the cream of the crop is reflective of the base of the pyramid. it's reflected of all the other cases now you wouldn't know that right because you're just looking at the numbers the numbers don't tell you which are the strongest cases and which are the weakest cases

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-O3M__c_Z0k

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-05-01T21:20:13+00:00

Watching this guy White Bowser talk about the time he groped an underage girl, it's unironically making me mad, he jokes about her bust size, insists admitting it makes him brave and smiles as he tells the story all while he acts as if his apology should mean anything.

This dude pisses me off, but kinda haunts me I feel like if I went down a bad path, maybe started using incel echochambers I'd end up like this guy. Men like this should exhiled from society.

scwizard · 2023-05-01T23:15:09+00:00

These "dog moms" aren't picking up their baby's shit.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-01T20:55:09+00:00

So what's the distinction between 'Everyone deserves love' and 'No one's entitled to love'? I'd just like to hear your thoughts.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-01T21:32:52+00:00

I’ve noticed a lot of bros in the comments talking about phat women. Even tho I like a**** women primarily I still think chubby women can be cute irl tho fat is def too much if they look like Diabeto from Family Guy.

I could be biased cause I myself am a large male at 6’1 275 (down from 350 in 2022 so that’s my cope) but I would go as far to say if i ever get another gf I would hope she has a lil belly to her. But that’s a big if considering I still like a**** women.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-01T22:26:53+00:00

I'm baffled that any woman can be poor. With dating apps so skewed, poor (not fat) women can easily date upper middle class men with ease. And yes, the men would be interested in a relationship with you if you're poor as long as you don't act ghetto/trashy. You don't need to act high class. Men will be interested in the lack of bad behavior, e.g. if you're just shy and quiet, men will like you

Why are poor women not just marrying upper middle class men?

They don't even need to compromise on anything either. (not fat) women have so much choice, they can easily get an upper middle class man with all the non-money traits they wanted.

dysonRing · 2023-05-02T00:11:25+00:00

The most ridiculous thing about this subreddit is the complete inability to understand the difference between correlation and causation.

Men marry the women in their class because that is what they are exposed to. That is whom they associate.

Male CEOs don't like female CEOs. They also have the money to pay for a matchmaker who do they pick ALWAYS? Hot, young and poor (teachers and secretaries).

Sure OLD created this hyperfixation with looks but women are abandoning OLD as well. This could have also broken the class paradigm into a purely looks one.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-05-02T01:20:04+00:00

My favorite question to ask women: what's ur type?

Willow-girl · 2023-05-02T04:38:21+00:00

Got some good news today! As of June 19, I will have worked enough hours this year to qualify for five days of paid vacation! (Which I have to use before July 1, lol.) Luckily we work 4-10s in the summer so I'll be able strettttch that 5 days into 11 days off in a row!

I haven't had a paid vacation in more than 20 years, so I am rather excited, to say the least. Gonna try to get all our winter firewood cut and split if the weather isn't unbearably hot!

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-01T18:27:50+00:00

The "fatties" threshold is so wild.

If a woman isn't a size 0, she's "fat".

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-01T19:30:08+00:00

So many arguments could be solved quicker if people argued about the definition of the words they're using first

"The average Woman is fat"

Well, that's not what people are saying when they call someone aesthetically average. They're scaling the person on how physically attractive the person is and using "average" as a way to express that they're middle of the park. They're not somebody who stands out because they're attractive or because they're unattractive

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-01T19:33:51+00:00

You know what, maybe my opinion is changing about waiting for sex

I think under the right circumstances I could wait

But the caveat is if I ever had to wait that long for sex again in the relationship, and there aren't extenuating circumstances, I'm dipping real quick

purplish_possum · 2023-05-01T19:57:14+00:00

Women I've had sex with on the 1st date have been generally much better at sex than women who made me wait till the 2nd date.

GasolineSmellah · 2023-05-01T20:29:53+00:00

Hoeflation is REAL. Nobody can deny it.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-01T20:33:34+00:00

I don’t deserve the touch of a woman.

Kind_Zucchinis · 2023-05-01T23:25:08+00:00

The perfect woman this the perfect woman that mf just transition already

scwizard · 2023-05-02T04:15:59+00:00

Just watched a Stacey Dooley documentary (I’m from the uk) and it just rubbed me the wrong way. Now I wanna start by saying that I have no issue with women choosing to be housewives and doing what makes them happy. Feminism is about giving women choice, not dictating how women should live. But these tradwives are online bashing the feminist movement and this particular tradwife was saying how feminism is cancer and that the reason why so many marriages are not working out is because the women are too independent why do they have to spout this online on their social media platforms that they know a lot of children and young girls watch? Is it just me or are we actually going BACKWARDS in terms of women liberation?

Being a tradwife is not a thing outside of the devoutly religious.

Girls who post tradwife content on tiktok are just purely trolling. There's no way this is some actual gen z trend I refuse to believe it.

It's like rainbow parties. Not actually a thing people are doing just something people are outraged about.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-01T17:23:39+00:00

"Treat her like an employee"

If she does something you don't like/tolerate then replace her

Just like a boss would to his/her employee

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-01T17:42:14+00:00

I tend to side with the pro-men takes on this sub, but I do not understand this support of disobedient boys in the classroom. Schools are for obedience and learning. They are not oppressive.

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-05-01T18:10:29+00:00

Use hinge instead of tinder when trying to make any point about OLD and watch your point fall apart

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-05-01T22:53:15+00:00

Seeing tall men put a height minimum on their profiles is the worst discrimination I've faced since "flesh-colored" band-aids. Good luck with your tall, successful kids 😠😠

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-05-01T23:32:07+00:00

https://imgur.io/cUZo8Os

Acceptable chubby

https://imgur.io/sbbzAuR

400 pounds past acceptable chubby

Endasweknowit122 · 2023-05-02T00:04:09+00:00

Women hate and fear men who know their own value

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-02T00:22:35+00:00

Got out of my ban at last.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-02T00:47:15+00:00

There's too many autists in high school who are getting onto self improvement for the first time and proceeding to go and give shit to their friends or call them Jeffrey's because they don't meditate every day and don't do an hour of journalling etc.

Way to miss the whole point of self improvement Jesus.

Ainsleygz · 2023-05-02T00:54:39+00:00

Alright, I’m gonna settle this. If you have neck, finger, or ankle fat, you’re fat

Luciansleep · 2023-05-02T01:12:02+00:00

Q4 People and long term happy relationships:

Do you think you have to act aloof in the initial stages or do you think it’s better to show how you really feel?

Slipthe · 2023-05-02T01:54:58+00:00

Pfft imagine having opinions and not being able to defend them.

samtheaccountant · 2023-05-02T02:07:21+00:00

Dating as a man is effectively putting money on fire.

Slipthe · 2023-05-02T02:16:08+00:00

Why do men get foot fetishes but women get hand fetishes

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2023-05-02T02:29:32+00:00

Finally get to meet an actual IRL passport bro who is my friend’s boyfriend.

It turns out he was not what I’ve expected. He was nice, soft-spoken, and a bit shy. He’s also on a shorter and leaner archetype. He’s from New England and came to Thailand to work as an English teacher.

But the biggest surprise was that he chose my friend as his girlfriend. For a Thai woman, she is not submissive nor traditional. She does look and can act feminine, but she is a surgeon and spends a lot of time at work. She also votes for the progressive party (but then Thai progressivism is much less woke than US).

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-02T02:33:56+00:00

This post really explained the Friendzone concept

2023-05-02T05:44:51+00:00

https://www.vice.com/en/article/93kbkv/pornhub-blocks-utah-age-verification?utm_source=reddit.com

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TigerRude4 · 2023-05-01T17:01:31+00:00

FIRST, NOW BOW TO ME

TooHornyToFap · 2023-05-01T17:11:55+00:00

If you don't reply to this comment then you're gay

Slipthe · 2023-05-01T17:15:09+00:00

At what point do you know what you are gonna have for dinner?

scwizard · 2023-05-01T17:38:23+00:00

https://static01.nyt.com/images/2023/05/07/magazine/07mag-sinema/07mag-sinema-mobileMasterAt3x-v4.jpg

Blond wearing a red titty dress and shaking hands with a private equity executive. Yup she's a conservative. No wonder she left the democratic party.

scwizard · 2023-05-01T17:46:26+00:00

Why are republican women like this?

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9246917/Marjorie-Taylor-Green-openly-cheated-husband-men-gym.html

Peacesquad · 2023-05-01T21:03:02+00:00

Use my pronouns

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-05-01T22:33:57+00:00

There is a belly threshold for chubby and fat women. If it can double as a Kardashians ass and it ain’t in the back you ain’t hot you are fat as shit and need to put down the down fork and get on a treadmill. Pudge is fine but if that shit pokes up high when you lay down you fat. We’ll give y’all seem leeway we like variety but only weird men are into hogs.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-01T23:29:51+00:00

It's the first of the month. Time to pay bills. 💰

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-01T23:48:16+00:00

I wish I found it comical when people post on here going, “THIS NEVER HAPPENS!” And said thing is literally my reality 😐 it’s just bizarre.

scwizard · 2023-05-01T23:52:34+00:00

Jim Cramer really is CNBC's Stephen A Smith.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-02T01:05:01+00:00

If you never mollywhopped of have been mollywhopped by your SO can you really say it was true love?

scwizard · 2023-05-02T04:32:07+00:00

Look the reason tradwives aren't a thing among well adjusted normal people is because shit is expensive but there's free childcare during the weekdays for kids ages 5-18.

To actually bring back single income households we'd need to blow up the public school system.

Fetishized tiktok trends don't real.

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-02T05:27:15+00:00

did anyone got cold hands all the time? everyone's hands are feel-ably warmer than mine and my parents say I have zombie hands

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-05-01T18:07:05+00:00

It’s so sad that Reddit entertains the idea that the average woman is a big girl .

And women are not as relationship oriented as Reddit claims neither , at least not the above “ average “ ones

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-01T18:17:50+00:00

I need to walk to the library (1 mile each way) to pick up 3 books on hold. But it's cold.....

If I go to the library, I won't have the energy to go grocery shopping with my partner tonight.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-01T19:05:25+00:00

PPD women: Little boys MUST be harshly punished when they misbehave!

Also PPD Women: oooOooOoOoOooOo bad boys are soooo hot, I love it when they break the rules!

Which is it ladies, you can't have both

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-01T17:48:23+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/134djse/q4m_i_think_your_rating_scale_miscalibrated_when/

Men are so generous and diverse in their tastes. All the women are below average. The 2nd looks like a trannie and is a little chubby. The first and third are not just chubby but full fledged fatties that would make purplish proud. Fatties are undeserving and unhealthy. That the thread has a lot of men gassing these women up is embarrassing.

It goes to show how easy it is to be a woman. There are truly no failos or dealbreakers as a woman.

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-01T19:19:40+00:00

Ok I've done enough defending of feminist positions today.

I am so tired of seeing trend on TikTok of women posting about "princess treatment" and guys having a "provider mindset". I hope all their bfs leave them when they hit the wall and they end up as cashiers and sales workers selling off the designer clothes their old bf bought them.

Preme2 · 2023-05-01T21:34:19+00:00

Most of the guys here lack the confidence and drip to hold a woman so that’s why they get cheated on so much and why hot women play them

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