Daily Community Chat Megathread

Peacesquad · 2023-05-12T21:10:46+00:00

I’ve noticed men here get banned for anything but women can openly hate men here Lmao

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-12T21:04:29+00:00

Q4M

If a “Chad” seriously commits to a woman, what does that say about her? Whether it be about her character, appearance, behavior, etc.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-12T21:02:02+00:00

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Peacesquad · 2023-05-12T21:01:12+00:00

I love women

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-12T20:57:11+00:00

All the tech and power the US has and still lost to the Taliban, goddamn...

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-12T20:56:25+00:00

Q4A, Do you think that not wanting to date a man who sucks at bed and won't get better at it is misandrist?

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-12T20:53:34+00:00

I made a person and she is precious and perfect.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-12T20:47:22+00:00

There is a certain irony in a nsfw reddit poster getting on a soapbox to complain about receiving nsfw images sent to them without the poster asking for them. It's not like the nsfw poster asked the subreddit ahead of time.

yes yes implied consent etc. y'know what I'm saying.

Preme2 · 2023-05-12T20:39:22+00:00

Why is redpill trending on Twitter?

MiasmicSector · 2023-05-12T20:37:58+00:00

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potoricco · 2023-05-12T20:29:32+00:00

Any Russian/Slavic people here? Can someone tell me what Russians think of the tv show called The Great

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-12T20:29:29+00:00

I never really realized how much my parents’ relationship affected my views on dating and how I act in relationships, until about a month ago. We really are products of our environments.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-12T20:18:38+00:00

Do fattie women not know that they could be pretty if they were thin? I just don't get why fatties choose to exist in their fattie form.

If not being fat made men handsome or tall (i.e. the male equivalent of not being fat), I would be doing it no brainer because it's such a high payoff for such little work. Even if men needed to be muscular to get the same benefits as being not fat as a woman, many men would be training for years to become absolutely yoked because of the payoff. Instead, men have almost no control over their looks since muscles don't help much and it's mostly about height, face and hairline.

Why are fatties squandering their privilege? You have the power to be a pretty thin woman. Men dream of having the power to be the male equivalent. But fatties keep choosing to be a blob that takes up a lot of space. There could be at least two pretty thin woman that are standing where the fattie is everywhere she goes, but instead there's just an unsightly blob there.

This is why the fat is beautiful talk is so detrimental. Fatties don't know how pretty and healthy they could be if they were thin. They don't have the drive. By telling fattie women that fat is ugly (i.e. they are ugly) but they have the power to become pretty, they will be motivated to become pretty and improve their health.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-12T20:07:22+00:00

The fact that we have to go through the trouble of creating a new life form and having them be completely dependent on you just so you have somebody that will actually care about you when you're older says a lot about our species

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-05-12T19:30:15+00:00

I'm not a believer in the redpill wall but there is a fertility wall, and im wondering if women feel pressure to have kids before time is up and how that effects their choices. Do priorities change? Do women care less about the attractiveness of their partner, and put more emphasis on the triats that would make a man a good parent. Do women settle in some aspects

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-05-12T19:16:43+00:00

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Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-05-12T19:14:21+00:00

If 80/20 has become 95/5, then 15% of the male pop has become incels? Anyone has experience with this?

I’m a normie but has had gfs and ONS, and dating has gotten harder imo, more flaking, more ghosting, etc. Maybe I’m in the 15%?

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-12T19:11:23+00:00

Are there things that can be done to lower libido if you're profoundly disabled? ]

I want to go on TRT to improve my recovery time for wrestling and lifting.

But I don't want my libido increased because I'm already frustrated with my libido being where it is, and it's not exactly like I can have sex while being non verbally autistic.

Any ideas?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-12T19:10:41+00:00

Q4W: do you understand how selfish and solipsistic your mating strategy is?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-12T19:08:31+00:00

They gave my falcons 0 primetime games 😭😭😭😭

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-12T19:06:55+00:00

/u/Peacesquad this is how irate women get if you interfere with their creation and posting of thirst traps.

https://www.reddit.com/r/therewasanattempt/comments/13flwx3/to_work_out_in_peace_at_the_gym/?ref=share&ref_source=link

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-12T19:04:43+00:00

People leaning on strangers cars to take pictures is so disrespectful. https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/13fmeub/having_fun_with_the_corvettes_remote_starter/?ref=share&ref_source=link

Peacesquad · 2023-05-12T19:01:49+00:00

Why do women in relationships post thirst traps online that thousands of men can see and reply to?

Luciansleep · 2023-05-12T19:00:36+00:00

Q4w: Were you looking for something serious at 19-23?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-12T18:58:04+00:00

Where’s my update

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-12T18:53:13+00:00

The current state of the dating market

https://www.reddit.com/r/CineShots/comments/139198a/mal%C3%A8na\_2000/

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-05-12T18:44:37+00:00

Damn, the new AEW show is going to debut on 6/17 at the United Center with CM Punk returning, and as much as the smark within me wants to attend, kiddo's birthday is the next day and we've already planned a big To Do at the amusement park.

I curse my mortal flesh and finite energy.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-12T18:42:12+00:00

The one thing that sucks getting older as a dude is seeing someone super attractive and then finding out they're 12 years younger than you

Other guys are into the age gap thing but I'm a bit put off by it. Ironically i can easily go 12 years older if the right one came along.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-12T18:17:26+00:00

So I just randomly found a subreddit through another person's profile called MonSonIncest and it has over 400k members in it. Mfs on this website need Jesus

TooHornyToFap · 2023-05-12T18:08:50+00:00

I love mansplaining

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-12T18:05:14+00:00

I gave redfall a chance and it's actually a fun game imo

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-12T18:01:35+00:00

Career women: Brags about being a strong independent career woman and complains about how women have to sacrifice their careers for their families

Also career women: Marries a man making 2x her income, mooches off his income and sacrifices her career to become a mother

You too can marry someone making much less money than you if you really "wanted it all" and wanted your career prioritized.

Men don't have the same choice. Men don't have the option to marry someone who makes more than them or live off the income of someone else. If you're a woman who has your career deprioritized, it's because you chose to have your career deprioritized.

good_at_math_2 · 2023-05-12T17:58:26+00:00

Making money for women is like having sex for men.

On balance, women need money more than men as it provides safety and independence which men don’t need as much of. Men need sex dating and relationships more than women to stave off anxiety depression lack of companionship - try being friends with most men - and social status - women have social status by default men only get if they can get a girl. And sex for men is not all about the sex, a woman having sex with you is spending time with you and if she is having sex with someone else than she will not spend time with you.

However, society doesn’t care as women are ‘supposed’ to use their looks and dating skills to get a man with money and men are ‘supposed’ to use their toughness to make the money and then both genders exchange to balance things out. Note that this doesn’t just mean sex women are supposed to maintain social circles throw social events plan social outings be active in the local community vet new members of the community you get the picture.

As a 28 year old man, I’m going to piss a lot of women off by saying that straight men don’t have to look for work. It is very very hard for a straight man’s LinkedIn to be empty. His LinkedIn looks like your Tinder. Many many jobs offers with glamorous salaries perks benefits etc along with impressive high status titles. And yes girls it’s all well and good if the sugar daddy is paying the bills but once you turn 25 and there is a younger version available that free money stops.

Have you noticed as well the men with the highest n counts aren’t always athlete actor but often are guys who have communication EQ networking and many other soft skills, generally associated with women. Most women know what I mean there is one such guy in your social circle who you cannot for the life of figure out how he can have all these skills but still be a straight man.

Most straight men will give up some of their financial/economic power for dating power to make it 50/50 and most straight women will give up some of their dating power to have more financial power and make everything 50/50.

And to women who think dating power is just about ‘dating’ the real power comes in the form of networking and social connections. Yes I can buy a private jet but I could also just have a friend with a jet who lets me use it to visit my family. Yes I can buy a Gucci suit but I can also have a friend at Gucci who gives me a free suit because we’re good pals. Neither approach is better than the other and that’s why having a 50/50 power split is good for both genders.

Otherwise society will stay like this forever.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-12T17:02:50+00:00

Why young women need fathers. https://youtube.com/shorts/7086OKJ0p7A

potoricco · 2023-05-12T16:45:58+00:00

Guys, who watched queen charlotte and why is George so hot

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-12T16:38:50+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reels/CrwNxDAuwzN/

lol, another example of why excess money does not help all that much (for men)

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-12T16:34:06+00:00

Just want to remind all of you that you're doing a good job.

You're not perfect, and never will be.

As long as you try to improve, that's all you can control.

Have a great day.

AdExotic8375 · 2023-05-12T16:32:02+00:00

I'll share with you some observations that I think are true and tell me why you think they exist.

- Young black men are in general more red-pilled than young white men.

- Young black men are in general more traditionally masculine than young white men.

By young men I mean 16 to around 24.

I realize that my anecdotal experiences might be limited so share what do you think.

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-05-12T16:31:55+00:00

I'm so tired of the "women get to express all their emotions" bullshit. It's like no one remembers how relentlessly women are called overly emotional??? It's constant in the mainstream that women are scolded for expressing their feelings, called crazy, or laughed at with a "gee someone's on the rag" yet here on ppd somehow women live this blessed life where all their emotions are respected and coddled??? Such fake weird bullshit

gat15 · 2023-05-12T16:24:58+00:00

Some people say guys on this sub have crazy standards. Tiny sample proof they actually don't:

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13f8pgn/daily_community_chat_megathread/jjtu0vr?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-05-12T16:21:10+00:00

I am on the side of defending red pill. But the redpill turned me into a leftist. And I find it incredible how much I find myself arguing with folks who claim to have read the redpill, only to be nasty misogynists and confused why women don’t look at them even after redpill. 😭😭

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-05-12T16:13:51+00:00

Going to a friend/old roommate's house warming party tonight. This guy would have been an incel as he is fat, rather ugly, and has a bitchass personality, but he barely squeaked by and got himself an equally fat, ugly, bitchass wife.

I think he "succeeded" because of a few things:

he sold quantities of weed in college, back when it was illegal, thus he was social enough to make friends
he tagged along with my husband and his frat house shenanigans'
he works in the music industry
despite his bitchass personality, he is forceful/stubborn enough to get things done (career wise, socially, etc).

I remember we used to roast him about being ignored by girls or only able to hook up with his looks match, god we were assholes.

Anyway his wife is terrible, just a shapeless lump of abrasive Polish American peasantry, missing teeth and all, but they love each other. I guess? Or at least, I think they realize this is the best its gonna get for them.

I wouldn't be so harsh on these people, however I've lived with the guy, twice! and yeah, he's a lazy, sniveling, asshole. His wife is friendly and pleasant with me, however I've seen her verbally abuse him way too many times.

I hope my husband doesn't get too drunk and call her a cunt to her face. Its already happened once and that took 3 years to repair, lol.

False_Cod_4747 · 2023-05-12T16:05:57+00:00

A chick I know sets her daily birth control reminder alarm at like 8 pm. Is it just me or does this come across as highly attention whoreish behavior? As though she wants people to see she's on it. Our friend group will be out for dinner or something and she'll have it go off and take her pill in front of everyone.

Is there any rational reason to set it at such a public time compared to say 11 am?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-12T16:02:00+00:00

Why do some of y'all feel the need to "humble" women?

purplish_possum · 2023-05-12T15:37:24+00:00

My oldest daughter brought home another baby. Now we have to reinstall all the babyproof her house (again).

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-12T15:35:20+00:00

She doesn't benefit from female privilege she says.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10c4775/ive_never_had_the_female_experience/

Meanwhile she has a loving boyfriend despite being fat, having no friends and having terrible social anxiety.

https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/ygxhmz/my_partner_is_the_only_person_whos_ever_cared/

dbz__f · 2023-05-12T15:34:25+00:00

CMV: just like men suffer from “death grip” so do women. Some guys wank so much that they find it harder to orgasm during sex. I theorise that a lot of women that can’t orgasm from sex or find it difficult is because they are too used to and wired to cumming from their hands and toys that an actual penis isn’t enough stimulation so they blame it on make incompetence.

scwizard · 2023-05-12T15:20:47+00:00

The person had taken a photo of me from my instagram and put it though an AI generator… and it looked sickeningly realistic. It didn’t look altered at all. Even the fingers were fine. It was so uncanny-valley. I am shaking, and I don’t know what to do.

Is this really what life as a woman has come to?

Innocent women being targeted like this. So sad. Nothing you can do to avoid becoming a victim.

FYI, Instagram produces most of my income, since I run a travel blog.

Also how the heck do you have most of your income from insta with only 60k followers???

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-12T15:20:04+00:00

The subreddit definitely encourages more extreme views. If it's a platitude everyone agrees with, nobody will engage with it. Spicier takes get a lot more activity.

Just food for thought

potoricco · 2023-05-12T15:13:21+00:00

Back from time out 😈

Ohmaygahh · 2023-05-12T15:12:54+00:00

Q4M: Which OLD "tells" have been a signal that the girl you swipe right on is a better than average chance of a great sexual/romantic encounter ?

I'll share a few of mine, if she:

Is slightly "uglier" than I would hope. If she happens to be from Polish, Irish, Mexican descent. If she admits she likes to drink beer non-socially. If she lists she's an entrepreneur/she lists that she "founded" her own company. These women are sexual, forward, more decisive in my experience.

What are some tells you have noticed for a good time?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-12T15:12:49+00:00

Woke up to some beautifully insecure DMs.

They tell on themselves so easily that the insecurities are just dripping of every word.

Such a giggle fest while reading them.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-12T06:20:13+00:00

32 year old single mom of 4 kids with 3 dads somehow manages to get married.

My 40 year old cousin has a baby and gets married. At 40.

A 65 year old Nurse married a 70 year old doctor.

Why aren’t these women forever alone and tossed aside like the men here say they would be?

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-12T13:47:31+00:00

Its hilarious how in the "men value a pretty face" thread the posters are saying that men, at the same time, need to lower their standards but also their standards are TOO low. And no one seems to be able to spot the obvious contradiction and are seem to be in agreement.

Men's standards too high:

You chase after dimes and thots with big booty's rather than deal with women that aren't as good looking but have better personalities. Then you complain when you got bit by a snake that looooooves all the attention because you didn't vet her.

Men's standards too low:

Men's standards are way too low. I really don't like the desperation

Because a man who will take anything is the last type of man a woman wants.

Exactly. We don’t want someone who just wants ANY woman, we want one that wants us specifically!

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-12T11:44:31+00:00

I hate to say it but r/trueunpopularopinion makes me appreciate PPD slightly more.

As much as I vehemently disagree with many of the opinions stated on here, at least I can understand the logic that led to that conclusion. And people can generally cite some kind of evidence.

That sub feels like the Walmart of internet discourse.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-05-12T14:47:04+00:00

Men will really hold a baby for 15 minutes while the mother showers as fast as she can, and then come online to say that childcare is easy and SAHMs sit on the couch and watch TV all day.

Edit: here they all come

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-13T02:29:40+00:00

Officially finished my junior year of university with straight As in both semesters🥳

Each semester this year, I took 21 credits (8 classes) while working two jobs to support myself. I obtained a board position in my sorority and got an internship that I really wanted which I’ll be starting in the fall. This time next year, I’ll be graduating with a BS in chemistry and public health (double major), and heading to graduate school to get my Masters in Nursing. I’ll be the first person in my family to graduate high school, attend college, and graduate college.

Little me would be so proud.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-12T10:43:02+00:00

It's always so funny to me when people are like "X celebrity isn't even hot! They're like a 4-5/10 at best, you're all deluded"

You can say you're not attracted to them or don't understand the hype, but to go so far to imply that the true "objective" rating just so happens to align with your personal rating is utterly ridiculous.

For the vast majority of famous singers, models, actors etc, they are in their position because people find them hot. They simply would not be glorified in the way that they are if there wasn't anything to their looks.

buffin-big-bowls · 2023-05-12T03:29:48+00:00

I have a date this weekend, I’m so excited. This poor girl ain’t ready 😈

Edit: that sounds kinda creepy but I’ll leave it

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-12T04:23:27+00:00

I’ve already given up on dating at 23. Theres nothing wrong with me, im a big guy ™️ im fairly attractive and have gotten compliments by women but I don’t see the point of having a gf in 2023. I’m just chilling doing my hobbies making money and waiting for the AI Anime women gf experience to be released.

Sex is also overrated af. Yeah it feels good but it’s also nasty af. Women’s vagina look bizarre and smell weird. Sometimes I wonder if I could make myself gay but I don’t think I could ever suck dick or take it up my bum. The most I could is circle jerk but even then I feel like I would coom and then immediately regret it.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-12T03:00:56+00:00

Second poster has to sleep with a fattie.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-12T03:13:04+00:00

Anyone who disagrees with anything I say doesn't get sex. Man or woman.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-12T12:22:14+00:00

Back in the gym after a long hiatus, my God is the drop in fitness palpable.

My friend made a great point about keeping consistency. He said even if you just don't have that drive to work out that day, still go to the gym and have a quick jog, hell even just have a coffee. Don't let your mind drop that habit.

eye_fuck · 2023-05-12T21:20:59+00:00

Succesfully presented project at work, even though I barely did anything during tonight all-nighter and was sick as hell, was able somehow finish it during the day working on it up until the moment of presentation. Now going to sleep as a tired stinky disgusting sexy mess because don't have the strength to go to shower

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-12T21:33:24+00:00

Unsolicited Dick pic https://i.imgur.com/ZlPFDcB.jpg

throwawayofc1112 · 2023-05-12T21:33:51+00:00

This subreddit always seems like a broken record. Like every day I look at my feed it’s basically the same ideas reworded. Occasionally there’s something helpful but it seems like every comment section is the same exact arguments over and over again.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-12T22:05:49+00:00

For the men here

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/am1xL8s02wM

saraimarsena · 2023-05-12T22:53:26+00:00

today was Moms Day 🫶 at the preschool, so all the moms were invited for an adorable music class w their kids 🥺

watching wholesome, loving parent/child interactions honestly always makes me very sad and emotional. BUT i’m also seriously feeling the baby fever. i really really can’t wait to have one of my own soon, and to create the close family bond that i never had.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-05-13T02:52:12+00:00

My boy works in another state, he's a pretty boy fyi. He doesnt have a apartment, he just stays at girls houses, for absolutely free. Crazy

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-05-12T04:06:53+00:00

Men honestly need one piece of advice more than anything.

Dating comes down to luck. Are you saying the right thing, are you in the right place at the right time, is the girl going to be receptive to you at that given moment (is she experiencing "good vibes"), the number of men you are competing against i.e are you the best option, etc.

Yes it sounds obvious, but it's SHOCKING that neither the red or blue pill have acknowledged this. Considering all of the above, men need to go in expecting women to be fickle and unreliable. You should expect them to ghost you. And it's nothing personal against you, women must be treated like children and are unable to handle the mild inconvenience of letting a man down.

Ultimately it boils down to you haven't done anything wrong.

And honestly it's a pretty blue pill truth, since it's something completely out of your control, the caveat being admitting that would be announcing women may not act nice as they claim sometimes.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-05-12T06:26:26+00:00

Imma say it loud and proud, no shame. I like a gal with hairy armpits.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-12T14:17:22+00:00

Where did the marital arts obsession of the Red Pill come from?

I've trained for years (high school, club wrestling in college) and fought in the cage and at no point have I ever thought to myself "UGH I feel so manly and so many women want me and I feel more confident" or whatever bullshit RPers say you should experience doing marital arts.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-12T14:28:21+00:00

"It's not what you know: it's who you know."

I agree with this statement for the most part. Connections will get you further than brute forcing your way into something by yourself.

Thoughts?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-12T21:23:31+00:00

I just killed a big ass spider in my living room. Like the size of those big fake spiders you buy for Halloween. Let that be a message to any of his buddies around that they try to crawl across my floor they're getting fucked up.

Tell me women don't need men for shit like this.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-13T00:12:10+00:00

Why do women keep pretending like it's not a privilege to date as a woman? To be able to get easy dates, attention, validation, sex, etc?

First, a lot of women do enjoy casual sex. Any women who pretends to not have had girl talk with women who gush and overshare about their sex lives is lying. There is direct benefit to being able to get sex.

Second, going on dates and having sex puts you a lot closer to a relationship than not doing either for obvious reasons, so it's easier to have a relationship.

But let's pretend that the first and the second benefits don't exist or aren't valued. There are still a lot of benefits to being able to easily get dates and male attention/validation outside of these 2.

In the real world, women gush over getting hit on by some hot guy even if they logically know he most likely only wants to sleep with her. They refer to getting hit on as just innocently "talking to guys". It's an easy form of validation and socialization for them. They refer to getting hit on in dating apps as "meeting new people".

They use dating and dating apps as part of their social life - they get men to do the work of finding and paying for cool places to go to in their city like parks, bars, restaurants, shows, etc. Many women use it as a significant part of their social lives, especially when they move to a new place or are traveling.

When they're feeling lonely? They "use it as a confidence boost" and "for fun" i.e. they use dating and dating apps for someone to talk to and to feel wanted. They can even easily make long term friends from the male attention. Many women complain about not having any female friends but a lot of male friends (who wouldn't be friends with her if she was a man). These women would have no friends if they were men. If they're going through issues in their life? They use it as free therapy even from men like this guy who only want sex.

What if they have bad social anxiety or mental issues? They can easily use easy dating to find a man who is willing to be patient enough to deal with her. Cue the women who have no friends and severe social anxiety and still have a boyfriend.

Normie women see dating as some fun or casual socialization that gets them validation and attention and their social needs met.

Any woman who denies that it is a huge advantage to date as a woman (i.e. to easily be able to get dates, sex and male attention) is trying to gaslight. It is so clear and evident.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-13T00:37:50+00:00

It'll be a good night tonight, cruising to the beat of the drums all night tonight 😎😎😎

meteorness123 · 2023-05-13T01:50:44+00:00

Am I right in thinking that marriage and divorce is only a big risk for men if there is a high discrepancy in earning pontential/income between the man and the woman ?

old_new_age · 2023-05-13T02:13:50+00:00

how does one guarantee the emotional safety of a woman who admits to constantly looking for reasons to distrust everyone?

meteorness123 · 2023-05-13T03:16:10+00:00

I'm thinking about abstinating from porn and fapping for a month. But especially the first one. Second one is still kind of okay.

Everytime I've gone on such diets, I came out better in the end. It's essentially dopamine withdrawal.

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VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-12T12:10:47+00:00

Q4 American Women:

Do you believe you're above average looking? AKA better than a 5/10

Follow-up Q: Do you even exercise or count calories?

megapuffz · 2023-05-12T13:23:10+00:00

I have a 3rd date today and I'm pretty excited.

shmupsy · 2023-05-12T13:35:33+00:00

Men's energy got priority before the 20th century. This unwieldy privilege has now shifted to women. Men's energy expands, and women's contracts. Both are unsustainable for too long. Total male energy (without enough tech) burns out the planet. Total female energy reduces population and undoes the anomaly that is civilization.

If we want to take up our destiny as humans and sustainably expand into the galaxy, we must bring the sexes in balance. The mens role is the explorers; the fighters; the gatherers; the builders. Woman's role is the base of the wheel, the foundation, the home, and of course the sacred givers of life. These are the 2 elements that allow the wheel to turn and roll forward.

Purple pill debate is the conversation between the sexes in furtherance of this goal. But we are lost and hurt; pointing fingers at each other for the sexual breakdown. The truth is we are still transitioning to full female control which will look more like tribal life in deference to earth's ecosystem.

The first step to achieve balance is to trust each other again. The biggest accusation is that men abused their leadership position. They controlled their women harshly. We beat them and made them feel like babymakers. There may be some exaggeration, but on the whole, we should just accept it. The goddess is telling us we need a new way to move forward. Women still complain that men are not virtuous. I can't disagree. Look at the state of us. We are addicted to base pleasures; weak physically and morally. We have a lot of work to do on ourselves before we can confidently walk up to the women and say: let me take the wheel again, I'm ready.

dbz__f · 2023-05-12T13:43:23+00:00

Serious question for male gendered persons

As of right NOW: which would you prefer?

Fucking and partying with a bunch of different instagram model looking women but never committing or loving or being loved by them or having a relationship?

Or having a loving quiet relationship with one woman and you love and support each other and live a quiet peaceful life without all the partying and you will never have sex with anyone again in your life except her.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-12T14:16:02+00:00

"As a man status and Money beats looks easily"

The one with the most status, gets all the women

Simple

Rappers,Athletes,celebrities all have harems of women

DerayRevan · 2023-05-12T14:28:57+00:00

"Too many men price a pretty face over the content of a woman's character"

That's the whole reason why a man would date you

Pretty face and good body

But your character is the reason he'll take you serious

DerayRevan · 2023-05-12T16:12:09+00:00

On to marriage

Why do people here claim women have far more to loose in divorces

I checked the statistics and it says men are likely to commit suicide because of the many things they loose in the process

So why spread false lies ?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-12T19:11:23+00:00

"Women are not honest about what they are attracted to"

Then this should tell you not getting any advice from them

Simple

DerayRevan · 2023-05-12T20:37:08+00:00

"Yeah, Women get casual sex easier. So what"

So just admit it

Ain't nothing wrong with speaking the Truth

Preme2 · 2023-05-12T22:27:55+00:00

Tinder is eliminating social media handles from public bios

Personally I found women putting their Instagram their handle in their bio useful when it comes to DMing them. Were some women on their to increase their followers? sure, but I think it’s useful because you don’t have to match to message her. Instead you can DM her on IG and see if they respond.

Tinder probably took note of this and realized people were paying less to find out who swiped on them with tinder gold for the low price of $100.

Perpetual_Peace_ · 2023-05-12T22:55:27+00:00

My last message is to remember I’m a real person. These experiments you’ve done with my life are actually psychopathic. Instead of the schizophrenic bit, just move on.

Ok_Negotiation_5038 · 2023-05-13T00:09:27+00:00

I think the main problem we have in America is marriage and the expectation to get married

Many men think divorce is a shit deal for them, many women love to pull out stats that say it’s worse for them. Couple that with the divorce rate being what it is, feel like there’s no reason to get married except for the threat of not having a nuclear family

Wouldn’t care if my girlfriend slept around a lot tbh. Probably wouldn’t make it official to the government and share my assets with her though

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-05-13T00:43:46+00:00

All of you who've been banned are based mad lads and lasses 😎👌

All who haven't are debased and not mad lads or mad lasses. Get your head in the game! Frfr

Scarce12 · 2023-05-13T01:41:18+00:00

Who is Matty Healy and why is it that everyone is so attracted to him.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-13T02:24:22+00:00

Random thought : Why are women so bad at catching things ? I remember girls not being able to catch balls thrown at them in dodgeball. Balls that were really easy to catch. Or when I threw some keys to my dad, he always caught them perfectly while mom of course didn't.

Bandit174 · 2023-05-13T02:58:36+00:00

apparently I'm perma banned from r/dating for being a member of this sub

wtf

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-05-13T03:03:48+00:00

I feel like 20s women just want their egos stroked and I'm disgusted

potoricco · 2023-05-13T03:13:57+00:00

Anyone here wanna buy me clip studio paint

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-13T04:14:11+00:00

Imgur will be removing all of their nsfw content and content uploaded by users without accounts sometime Sunday night/Monday Morning. Many forums and image boards are going to lose a LOT of content.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-13T06:04:45+00:00

I don't know what's happened in Janelle Monáe's personal life recently but I'm here for it.

happy_discus · 2023-05-12T08:05:18+00:00

A interesting chicken and egg discussion popped up in one of the other threads, I wish would have been continued.

What came first, men lowering their standards to hell because no women desire them or women not desiring them because they have so low standards?

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-12T11:44:26+00:00

Man on PPD: "I don't want to commit to a promiscuous woman"

Woman on PPD: "Why are you insulting promiscuous women? Why are you hurting them? You're literally murdering her. You're genociding all promisucous women, you're literally Hitler"

Ohmaygahh · 2023-05-12T14:32:38+00:00

In this week's WTF on OLD:

Matched with a smoking hot body older woman. I was able to get hard for her almost immediately. She then proceeds to kill it for me when her profile and initial txts were "vetting" for a guy who is not opposed to a long term monogamous serious, exclusive relationship.

But as we txt throughout the day she shares that;

Sex is not important to her, she is driven working 2 jobs and owns her own place. Some flirty txts. Some suggestive txts. Then she admits that she previously cheated on a guy that didn't deserve it. That she occasionally allows a random trucker guy she met to crash her place let's him smash her. She picked up an STI. She then spreads the STI to another long term fuck buddy.

And this B guy is her constant fuck buddy in between when she is "seriously" dating a rotating spot of men. Oh and in her most recent serious relationship she cheated all the time. Oh! And years past, she was loyal to one bf, he happened to be a heroin addict.

LOL. I feel so fucking bad for a guy that takes this trainwreck seriously. If she wasn't such a basketcase, physically she is banging, but fuck, this one is just too many bridges too far, even for me. This is what I get for being on OKstupid. But, I also found her on bumble this morning.

Fuck guys. On first appearance, had she not opened up, I would not have expected that from her on first glance. We are all being fucking fooled, there are no good women. Some days it really does feel that they are ALL fucking lying, STI infected, nasty, cumdumpsters.

A man just has to close his eyes, pray to whatever god he believes in to please pick the least dirty shirt out of the hamper. The situation is so fucked.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-12T21:42:19+00:00

Anyone have fun Friday night plans?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-12T22:30:01+00:00

Is adulthood what you thought it would be?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-13T00:18:21+00:00

Q4 college folks: do your parents follow you on social media?

Do you discuss your sex life with your parents?

Do you post pictures of yourself blackout drunk on your social media?

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-13T01:02:30+00:00

My top big brain Reddit comment of the day (in response to someone questioning the veracity of the news source they cited)

Those are news stories that I didn't write, It's comical that you think that's a 'LIE'

Edit: Don't worry, not PPD. We haven't fallen this low yet.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-13T01:05:20+00:00

Daily Summary:

Today was mostly good. I got sidetracked by my phone for a bit, but not all day.

Laundry, gym, dishes, front lawn mown and half hour of weeding, bathed myself and Toddler. Dashed during the lunch rush and made more than expected. Before bed I need to get some work done on my computer, and do some vacuuming.

PPD related thoughts:

-I want to start going to church because my values align a lot with those of Christians, and it seems like a great way to tap into a wholesome community and make mom friends. However, I have a hard time with the actual Jesus stuff— it’s just never made sense to me, no matter how much I wanted it to. I always feel like an imposter when I attend and try to fit in.

-I started listening to this really great podcast called “Young and Wifed Up.” Would recommend. Also open to other recommendations.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-13T03:44:54+00:00

Daily reminder, single 30s post wall women don't deserve commit

dbz__f · 2023-05-12T13:35:06+00:00

We need to normalise and destigmatise men being lazy and living off benefits and not contributing to society. We’ve reached a level of technology where it’s feasible but we still stigmatise men for doing this when women who are single mothers get away with living off benefits and women get away with living off alimony.

Preme2 · 2023-05-12T13:44:27+00:00

Becky and I work at the same place, different departments. She’s off on another vacation while I’m sitting in the office at 10am. This time she’s in Italy. Who is paying for her life? I would very much like them to pay for mine too. It must be nice.

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