Daily Community Chat Megathread

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-23T04:24:44+00:00

I am going to my first Thai language class today. I am hopeful that I meet some nice people. It’s been really hard to form social friendships among the western men that I’ve been meeting. 🤞

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-23T03:29:38+00:00

Fat woman jumps in pool.

men

Go wild in the comments insulting her

why are women so mean 😞

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvcNihHNwcf/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

social_mules_alt · 2023-08-23T03:18:48+00:00

u/Glowupgirl111 sure has been awfully quiet for the past few days. I wonder if she's okay.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-23T02:53:12+00:00

Conventionally unattractive girl posts on Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwH_eBFMmlT/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Men in the comments section:

Juan: “don’t blame them [your dad for leaving you] you look like a they/ them”

213.712: they divorced because of you

Alex: I’m blaming the kid for the divorce

Faisal: can’t blame him

John: don’t blame him

Logan: don’t blame him

Wyatt: w dad

I can see why

You’re fat

You’re icky

Etc etc.

men: we are so good natured and kind why do women bully us so much 😞

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-08-23T02:51:56+00:00

Anyone playing Baldur's Gate 3? I'm wondering who has the lowest body count: Shadowheart, Karlach or Lae'zel. Gotta pick my partner properly.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-23T02:17:17+00:00

The teacher would walk past you on test day look at your paper and say aloud

“Remember to read the questions carefully guys”

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-23T01:48:52+00:00

If you actually do your part as a parent and actually raise them yourself instead of having Ipads and the public school system do it for you, they already have a massive advantage over other kids in life.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-23T01:32:25+00:00

q4m those who are suffering from no pussy would you consider hypothetical temporary castration to reduce your suffering why/why not/why wouldn't this work

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-08-23T01:27:24+00:00

I broke things off with this girl I was seeing for a couple months a couple weeks ago. I picked up the obvious signal that she was expecting me to provide for her on the basis that she was a woman I was interested in.

I'm sorry, but the days where a man would sacrifice everything for his family are over. Women are equal and can provide for themselves now. I'm not giving up my lifestyle so I can pay for yours.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-23T01:25:52+00:00

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Baby duck friends. What should I name them?

ScaredExamination470 · 2023-08-23T01:08:36+00:00

Can someone please explain the difference between "I desire something in a normal way," and "I am desperate"? it seems like way too many people want to characterize normal "I want nice things" as being "desperate."

princedune · 2023-08-23T01:04:30+00:00

Whats the best region in the US to be dating as a guy? I saw some people earlier saying NYC is better than the west coast, but its still really bad over here. Any better options?

baresquad · 2023-08-23T00:55:19+00:00

Funny thing about red pill is that it relies heavily on having good game but no matter how hard red pillers practice, they’ll never be better than those who naturally have good game. This is why modern dating will always be a game of catch up for them.

Any woman that’s miserable and insecure enough to fall for red pill shit is low value. Low value women are red pillers ceiling. Top tier women can easily tell apart the try hards from the naturals. They get pulled by men who naturally bring their best game, they aren’t accessible to men who aren’t naturally good at bringing their best.

potoricco · 2023-08-23T00:54:29+00:00

Is it trashy to wear leggings as pants?

potoricco · 2023-08-22T23:09:43+00:00

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Need😍🤤

potoricco · 2023-08-22T23:01:25+00:00

Someone blocked me 😀

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-22T22:53:35+00:00

I still don't understand how every normal woman I know manages to avoid being sexually assaulted and then when I tune into feminist groups, it's all shrieking and hysteria.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-08-22T22:47:11+00:00

Q4M: What's the percentage of image happening to you?

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potoricco · 2023-08-22T22:46:28+00:00

I have a friend right, and she has a sister, let’s pretend the sisters name is Mary in this case. And when she’s talking to me about her sister, she’ll be like “Sister Sarah told me x” “sister Sarah likes x” “I heard x from sister Sarah” it’s the WEIRDEST thing ever and they’re biological sisters

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-22T22:46:23+00:00

Glad to see that feminists have made enemies out of the general male populations with their repulsive, radioactive demeanors and personalities. No rational man with his own self-interest in mind supports this hate movement

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-08-22T22:31:18+00:00

How much weight (as you all apparently care about weight so much here) would your other half have to gain for it to be a breakup issue?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-22T22:29:30+00:00

Relationships with power imbalance are not inherently abusive.

Abusive people do want relationships in which they are in position of power, their partner is depending on them, so they have free hands to do whatever they want to. This should be a legit concern for everyone when picking a partner.

But, I do know a lot of relationships with power imbalance in which both people are perfectly happy. Some people do want that, not to abuse their partners.

weaverofjoy · 2023-08-22T22:23:48+00:00

"My financial goal is to get rich enough that I can have children, go back to grad school for a PhD, and have a cozy retirement"

Ladies, thoughts?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-22T22:18:58+00:00

I still don't understand how every average looking guy I know that wants to be in a relationship is in one and then when I tune in the manosphere, it's all doom and gloom

scwizard · 2023-08-22T22:17:49+00:00

Fact, if you don't make it in bama rush you will end up a disgraced stripper.

Dems da rules.

potoricco · 2023-08-22T22:05:12+00:00

I hate how inconsistent women’s clothing sizes are. I have jeans ranging from like size 4 to 7 and they all fit. So who is really telling the truth.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-22T22:00:59+00:00

Thinking long and hard about my priorities throughout my life made me realize why I never saw romance as a big priority.

Why would I want a boyfriend?

To fight loneliness? Got friends for that.

To talk about anything and everything with? Got friends for that.

For emotional support? Friends and family did that better than any past boyfriends ever could. Also, therapist.

For sex? Don't need a boyfriend for that and even hookups are a fucking hassle.

For kids? Mainly want one due to baby fever. Technically not needed in my life and I have enough younger cousins to keep me preoccupied.

And the only time I really cared about being single was:

Just after a breakup.
My hormones going out of control due to PCOS and other things.
Some friend drama fucking up my social circle.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-22T21:42:44+00:00

When people question why people encourage others to Leave relationships- it’s because often people are too close and have rose tinted glasses on. Abusers should be left though.

What do you think of this story? No Physical abuse - this is 100% emotional abuse and manipulation though. I hope she DOES leave him.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15ybyjt/am_i_for_refusing_to_weigh_myself_in_front_of_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-22T21:39:25+00:00

How attractive is having a boat?

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-22T21:29:04+00:00

Q4M: how longs ur dick?

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-22T21:22:27+00:00

throwrasweater is tripping

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-22T21:17:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Ff48fri1irbjb1.jpeg%3Fwidth%3D1080%26format%3Dpjpg%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3D5e0ac5a4452a4e8cbd51c7576b5e4040e486ac5f

Daily reminder that bullying some people is actually a good thing

potoricco · 2023-08-22T21:11:53+00:00

FreePurplePillDebate

potoricco · 2023-08-22T21:09:13+00:00

I had a big autism moment TODAY

My teammate gave me her number and I told her she could text me whenever she was ready… and then she told me I was the one who had to text her first. Obviously because I have her number and she doesn’t have mine

I am such a dumbass I swear

potoricco · 2023-08-22T21:07:30+00:00

Bird fucking shat on my windshield and I have to give my teammate a ride tomorrow I’m so done

shanshkrishur · 2023-08-22T21:01:15+00:00

Question for the ladies

What would you prefer: an average height (5’9) man with a model-looking face, or a 6’+ man with an ugly face, assuming all other things (wealth, personality, how they treat you, etc.) are the same?

BLKSKNHED · 2023-08-22T20:50:07+00:00

Hey, women: You should stop expressing how good it is to be single AFTER you've been pushed around physically and emotionally by your ex, The sob stories ,we get it , however it does feel like sour grapes as your quest for love tarnished and only then you've discovered the gift of friendship and vibrators 5 to 20 years later lmao.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-22T20:45:53+00:00

I have a sudden urge to buy clothes again. This happens every three years or so. I want to have a satin blouse made, maybe a pencil skirt. And a winter coat.

Tramelo · 2023-08-22T20:41:57+00:00

If I had to say what my biggest struggle is socially, I never know what the hell to talk about. I feel like I lack information about what most people talk about.

onion_rings_addict · 2023-08-22T20:18:51+00:00

Has anyone ever seen Johnny autism comment? Is he even real????

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-22T20:01:14+00:00

Q4M: If the majority of men no longer want to be legally married doesn't that just make the majority of women single cat ladies or single moms. Because its marriage that makes them not part of the statistic.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-22T19:58:02+00:00

So when is "the wall" anymore? I mainly hear 25 or 30, sometimes 35. But then I also hear 18-25 is the most attractive so what happens to people 26-29? They are not under 25 but also not yet 30?

mummydontknow · 2023-08-22T19:54:59+00:00

How would you take advantage of your youth before you get old?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-22T19:44:43+00:00

When is the next purge week?

Maffioze · 2023-08-22T19:40:37+00:00

I just wanna get drunk and play this song on repeat.

https://open.spotify.com/track/0SwxuVBPfjqR2kCnpDDnqp?si=295239c340154bcb

onion_rings_addict · 2023-08-22T19:00:25+00:00

so there's this post about Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?

Men here often like to explain this phenomena with Evolutionary psychology. Ape brain, young women and fertility etc.

Oh but I guess ape brain stops being ape brain once men get married

This is an example of the phenomena in psychology known as the endowment effect. Where people value things they "own/had possesion of" more than if they had never had it.

endowment effect riiiiight

Of course, this makes perfect sense, you can totally see this in nature, apes transforming their instincts after a wedding ceremony

I swear the horoscope makes more sense than all this BS lol

SianOiseau · 2023-08-22T18:56:48+00:00

Due to another discussion here I've scrolled RedPillWives and there's this analogy of belonging to your man as his car belongs to him, so he'd take care of you with the same devotion he takes care of his car...but don't people change cars pretty regularly?

Sure, it's an analogy and it isn't to be taken 100% literally, but it does seem a bit silly to me. Yes, I'm my husband's wife just as he is my husband, we belong to each other in this sense. But it's equal partnership, not a situation where one "owns" the other.

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-22T18:56:40+00:00

is domestic(US) geomaxxing under discussed? apparently west coast has more professional men than women and it's the other way around in the east coast. ppl in the bay area forums be like find a gf in nyc and convince her to move back with

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-22T05:01:56+00:00

Thirst

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-22T05:05:25+00:00

We pick our partners in regards to four aspects.

Wealth
Social standing
Beauty
Faith/Believe(/political orientation if you want so)

Though, these four points are spread out on a continous scale for each person individually. There are people who prioritize wealth, there are people who prioritize beauty, there are people who prioritize social standing and there are people who prioritize faith.

Even if someone fulfills the wealth aspect on someone who prioritizes wealth, that someone might still need to fullfill whatever the other person has put on the second place. And also third and fourth place.

Therefore, unlike whatever I said in the past, I reached the conclusion that every person has an individual scale on what they expect and request.

FineDevelopment00 · 2023-08-22T05:10:43+00:00

😎
🥉

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-22T05:19:36+00:00

The average morning in the life of a coupled redpill man:

Woman: "Good morning! How about some cuddling before I need to get up and get ready for work?"

Man: Some cuddling? I hugged her yesterday! I can't cuddle right now, because if I give her too much affection she'll start taking it for granted and then I'll lose frame.

"Nah, I need to get up and get ready. Got a long day ahead."

Woman: "Okay then. Well you can get in the shower first. You want me to make you some coffee?"

Man: Make me some coffee? When you allow a woman to take care of you they stop respecting you, and then they start looking to branch swing.

"No thanks, I'm feeling a bit of acid reflux."

Woman: Okay then!

::Man goes into the bathroom and notices they are out of toilet paper::

Man: This is a shit test! I knew it! She purposefully didn't buy toilet paper to see how I'd react to it. Well I'm no soylattebetacuck. I'll show her!

::Proceeds to take a shower and shit while showering to avoid confronting s/o about toilet paper. Much waffle stomping ensues::

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-22T05:41:03+00:00

Omm, Ommmmm, OHom, OMmmm - my neighbor has started his routine later than usual. I swear he’s got a 4 pitch level tuning fork 👉

scwizard · 2023-08-22T06:07:36+00:00

If you're on birth control and in a relationship, do you split the cost with your partner?

All my good boyfriends agreed. All the bad ones didn't. My husband offered immediately when we started dating, and I didn't have to ask.

Wtf? I'd be like bitch pay for your own drugs. This is why I'm single probably.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-22T06:10:02+00:00

There's no such thing as a girl that "used to be a hoe".

If she was a hoe in the past, she's can hoe now, she's just better at hiding it. Don't fall for any of the bullshit when she says "That's not who I am anymore! I've changed!!"

Yeah sure you have babes.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-22T06:12:51+00:00

Some of yall in my dms need to chill tf out

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-08-22T06:59:37+00:00

I slept like garbage and am not looking forward to dragging myself to therapy.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-22T07:37:29+00:00

It’s after midnight here, I work in the morning, and I was rudely awakened to play a game of “firearm or fireworks?” Thank you neighbors.

Sillysheila · 2023-08-22T07:58:05+00:00

Going to Oppenheimer for cheap Tuesday at my local theatre. Very hyped! What an after work treat.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-22T08:03:45+00:00

Should I take a job if it wants me to travel a lot? Are there downsides to travel other than being away from home

NICHIJOU2411 · 2023-08-22T08:16:54+00:00

In that “are men desperate for sex” post.Some men here try to explain their reasonings and some bluepillers immediately jump in and act like they are trying to active force women into doing thing that’s will hurt them physically or emotionally. That shit got me thinking “Man…what did the men do to make them bluepillers that mad?”

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-22T09:01:46+00:00

ppl be dropping bombs under this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsjiosy_uSk, crazy how someone could defend the wife by assuming the husband was the first offender

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-22T09:04:02+00:00

my need-for-female-company hormones are pumping so hard, TRP and this place is seriously damaging my view on women and marriage and blowing my brain up

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-22T09:11:32+00:00

have any politicians attempted to galvanize support using TRP? u'd think w/ the rise of damaged men from divorce and relationships, it would be as easy as scooping up ice cream

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-08-22T09:29:27+00:00

Why is it so easy to get junk food? Even at a job where someone brings in food, its always junk or high calorie food. We have a bunh of baked white chocolate macadamia nut cookies (like 200 total) on a oven pan for us to eat on a 12 hr night shift. Plus theres fried chicken and chicken covered in sauce with 2 liters of Sprite and Coke. Easily over 1500 calories in one serving. You never see anyone serving fruit or any fiber type food. And you wonder why the US has an obesity problem.

eye_fuck · 2023-08-22T09:45:14+00:00

If you could have 1 famous person as your 24/7 available booty call, who would you choose?

Maffioze · 2023-08-22T09:58:38+00:00

I feel extremely bad today, really don't want to exist.

potoricco · 2023-08-22T10:20:12+00:00

Awake now

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-22T10:34:54+00:00

There are over 3 billion women on this planet and you're hung up on that one woman that broke your heart? You have an entire world of puss and you're not taking advantage of it?

I don't understand weak men.

potoricco · 2023-08-22T10:58:08+00:00

It’s crazy the lengths people will go to defend pitbulls. Objectively the ugliest and worst behaved dog breed ever. I have never had a positive experience with pitbulls. And they’re all over my neighborhood

webernicke · 2023-08-22T11:28:01+00:00

Doctors of PPD, don't remember if I took my antidepressant today. Do I double up?

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-22T11:35:48+00:00

Alternate society: sex-based, femdom-esque matriarchy. Women and men are separated, no monogamy, no hanging out with the opposite gender. Women have more stuff, men live a simple, "spartan life", almost like second class citizens, and they do the majority of work in exchange for credit, which they can use to book sex-sessions with women. Women get their own credit for providing sex to men, which they can use on all kinds of other stuff so that they can live a colorful, non-spartan life. Women even chose their sex partners, they distribute the men who earned a session amongst themselves, but being with the same person multiple times is generally frowned upon. People's gendered ideals are cultivated and they are socialized to focus on seeing beauty in the opposite gender in general, and not in individuals. Men are socialized to pedestalize women, women are socialized to lean into that and appreciate men doing that. Also, all men are vasectomized upon reaching puberty (but some of their sperm is frozen for reproductive purposes). Women can also earn their version of credit by giving birth, but kids are raised communally (boys and girls get separated at around age 6 maybe, and they only get to see each other after that in special occasion, and boys are already socialized to respect and pedestalize women).

Upsides: no sexual harassment, no whining men, no incels, no mindgames, women would be 100% safe, men wouldn't compete with each other, people would be much better at having sex (because it would be a huge, respected part of this society).

Downsides: no monogamy, no opposite genders hanging out with each other, no deep romance, although same-sex relationships of those kinds would be considered fine.

Much more interesting than something cliché like the handmaids tale if you ask me.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-22T11:38:33+00:00

I have noticed it’s never the hot chick who claims “omg girls don’t like me hehe, I only have guy friends lolz, idk girls are just jealous of me” ya know the women who it can be legitimately argued that other women are actually jealous of. It’s always the girl who is average or slightly below. The same way the actual successful women have no problem getting dates but the chick with a mediocre degree making 68,000 a year talmbout men are intimidated by my “success”

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-22T11:42:21+00:00

I’ll never forget During the amber heard/Johnny depp verdict there was this woman who tweeted

“Damn if a rich white women can’t be believed on issues of domestic violence, what chance do poor women of color have?”

The response right under that was

“Couldn’t you make the argument that if Johnny lost, people could say damn if a rich white dude can’t be believed saying his partner abused him what chance do poor men of color have?”

I laughed my ass off

Tramelo · 2023-08-22T11:54:52+00:00

I don't know why but having a trendy haircut seems a cheat code to attract women

Front-Case8813 · 2023-08-22T12:11:50+00:00

I changed my google home voice to a man because I didn’t want a woman to be subservient to me. 😂

Peak feminism, that's fucking hilarious!

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-22T12:23:47+00:00

Apparently last night my husband went to cuddle me, but I, without waking up, told him not to touch me, and he was like, “What? You love physical touch,”

and I replied “Don’t. Touch. Me,”

So he said “fine, I’ll never touch you again,”

And I said “Good.”

I woke up and gave him a big kiss and he was like “wtf?”

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-22T12:37:22+00:00

The whole “men want low n women to assure paternity” makes no sense. She’s either already pregnant when you enter into a relationship with her, or she’s not. The only way that it’s not your baby is if she cheats, and both high n and low n women can (and do) cheat.

Also like, how soon are you nutting in women that she didn’t know she was pregnant and now there’s a question about the paternity of the child?

And monogamy is like a relatively new concept in the course of human existence; it likely didn’t exist in the times of our early ancestors. It’s more likely that people lived in tribes and slept with different people and all worked together to raise the children, and didn’t know how impregnation worked.

houstongradengineer · 2023-08-22T12:49:23+00:00

u/purplish_possum u/astronautloveshack

What do you guys think of Santa Cruz county? Familiar at all with the area?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-22T12:52:55+00:00

Swedish Fanta is so good 🤤

mummydontknow · 2023-08-22T12:56:51+00:00

It's pretty tone deaf for someone whose longest dry spell is a couple of weeks, to tell others that sex and intimacy aren't a need.

potoricco · 2023-08-22T13:06:45+00:00

Why am I ok with calling my mom mommy but not calling my dad daddy

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-22T13:08:48+00:00

I’ve had several men tell me that women don’t get approached. Is that truly the case?

Front-Case8813 · 2023-08-22T13:19:29+00:00

I think men will always have more internalized issues about everything sex, dating, and romance related simply because each gender's ideal and sexual expression will always be somewhat of a hard pill to swallow for the others and something that directly targets their insecurities. The reason women generally are somewhat well adjusted compared to men because deep down they realize they're more or less enough for most men whereas the opposite isn't exactly true.

That's why there is an incomparably big difference between a man who who watches his wife have sex with other men and the opposite. The woman even in this instance is somewhat dignified you could say, she has the room to indulge in that sexual fantasy in ways that aren't inherently problematic nor depressing compared to the man.

potoricco · 2023-08-22T13:27:06+00:00

Whenever I drive with my grandma she’s always praying I find it kind of offensive.

mummydontknow · 2023-08-22T13:28:45+00:00

Yesterday, someone that looked a bit crazy started talking to me and was being pushy, and I empathized with women saying whatever just to get the hell out of the situation.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-08-22T13:41:10+00:00

What’s the consensus on justpearlythings from men in this sub?

potoricco · 2023-08-22T13:45:58+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/r0ek0keg1ojb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=715320fc556c87e70b0b38e2a92b910036929907

Omg why are these people especially the men romanticizing their wives having millions of babies but then not actually wanting to be involved with their kids it makes no sense

“We love family/family values! As long as the man isn’t involved teehee!”

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-22T13:54:32+00:00

Feminists: Body shaming is in acceptable

Also Feminists: Andrew Tate has small d_ck energy

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-22T13:54:35+00:00

The absurdity of being a man and going online to see what you can do to solve certain problems you're facing and realizing everything is genetic. Saw a post on skincare addiction of someone with rough/textured skin that looks similar to mine and the responses are "pore size is genetic, there is nothing you can do"

What is the point of skincare? Why do all these products exist if they do nothing? Women love to say men don't put any effort into their appearance, but the reality is that everything that could make a man look better is up to genetics.

baiser_vole · 2023-08-22T14:05:46+00:00

Finished writing a three page handwritten letter for my boyfriend’s mom I am seeing tonight, and it is perfect. I didn’t want to use white-out so I had to throw out quite a few pages. Lol I have never done this before ever. It was stressful.

potoricco · 2023-08-22T14:06:04+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/3tz9nvba5ojb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=914a10a80eed6b0842860ae9dcbf53d5f1ea9f94

YOU can have a girlfriend

mummydontknow · 2023-08-22T14:10:38+00:00

I touched grass today and realized that I really am not attracted to the average woman. But it isn't hard to see women I'm attracted to in college campuses.

potoricco · 2023-08-22T14:18:57+00:00

If you ever wanted proof that male privilege exists, imagine if it was a woman in this scenario.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-22T14:26:25+00:00

I doubt any woman ever looked at my 6’5” in good shape uncle with an insanely charismatic and likable personality and thought “ewww” because he has a master’s degree in computer engineering. STEMlords struggle due to a mix of a male heavy environment and being repulsive to women due to factor which have nothing to do with their degree/occupation.

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-22T14:29:44+00:00

A lot of guys on here seem to overrate the amount of attention women get and how much random attention translates to dating success. But attention is pretty beneficial to mental health

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-22T14:34:05+00:00

I feel bad because my partner took a picture of me yesterday and showed me that my skin is looking better since I've started to try to treat my rosacea but I think out of embarrassment and shame of working on myself and not wanting to seem conceited I started picking apart all my other flaws and she was sad because she was sending me a photo from a place of positivity and I started tearing it apart.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-22T14:46:28+00:00

How can you look at this map and think “wow there are born too many babies”

Literally all of Europe, East Asia and North America is below 2 children per women (replacement rate is 2.1). The rest of the world besides a couple of backwards muslim countries and sub saharan Africa is at the very least below 3 if not also below 2.

odd_cloud · 2023-08-22T15:03:31+00:00

Why is it still expected that men approach women? It makes no sense. It’s like sellers of milk would go from house to house instead of a customer just taking the milk they like from the shelf.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-22T15:11:21+00:00

Feminists: We are attracted to ambitious (rich), tall, hot, muscular, fit, young guys

Also Feminists: Men who love young, submissive, fit and petite women have pedo tendencies. Men who are not attracted to fat women's bodies are secretly gay.

Clearly, men are not allowed to have standards

Tramelo · 2023-08-22T15:14:42+00:00

Most people hate pineapple pizza because it's become a meme. If you've never tried it you're missing out.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-22T15:35:01+00:00

Forgiving people is much harder than I thought.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-22T15:35:32+00:00

Saw someone leave an obnoxiously snarky comment on a post in /r/wholesome who has been arguing with people over it, calling them trolls and such, for 2 hours.

Checked their profile and they've been commenting on Reddit for over 24 hours straight...Christ I thought I was addicted.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-22T15:51:13+00:00

Do guys here say submissive when they really mean agreeable?

SorryEm · 2023-08-22T15:53:48+00:00

Alright, so I'm 21, and a few days ago I did get some mild attention from a woman. The woman in question is a fat 29 year old single mom. Remember my friends, the whole point of the entire blue pill ideology is to make you actually believe that makes sense.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-22T15:54:29+00:00

A lot of you guys who complain that "men aren't allowed to have preferences anymore! 😭" need to take a leaf out of the book of gold diggers.

They know they're mocked relentlessly. They know they're the ire of hatred online. They know that many men think of them poorly. Do they give a fuck? Not really, they just continue to do their thing.

You wanna date a woman who is a lot younger than you? Go ahead, try it. Live your life as you want to live it. Just don't continuously moan that "I'm not even allowed to have this preference anymore!" because you give the opinion of online accounts covering a hot topic so much weight.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-08-22T15:56:27+00:00

My buddy just told me a story about a dinner party he attended.

hostess was a successful 34yo media exec
my friend is a finance bro, 35M, dating a 28F artist. Said artist knows the hostess
hostess is single and starts lamenting her woes. Apparently she can’t find a good man. Too many fuccbois and manchildren
other women begin lamenting how hard dating is after 30
the women ask my friend and his gf their ages and when the age gap is revealed, they gasp and handwring
hostess and many of her friends are overweight

It reads like redpill fanfic but these overweight mid-30s women are seriously at a loss for why they’re struggling to meet a high value guy. Yes obviously their age will hold them back, but do big-city women in 2023 still think they can secure a high value man without being in shape? Hasn’t insta-thotting shattered that notion?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-22T16:06:19+00:00

I really don't like vulgar language. I'm listening to a podcast and every time the person says "pussy" and "fucking" I cringe. How do people talk like this without being embarrassed? Must be to cater to a lower IQ and uneducated demographic and yet here I am watching. I must admit though the reason I watch this stuff is because it is like a car wreck that you can't look away from.

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-22T16:26:49+00:00

If a guy has a shitty personality girls are going to feel even better about manipulating/using him.

Dummy was actually right for once. If you’re too soft or too hard a woman won’t think twice about playing you, in her mind it’s more justifiable to run game on a guy that’s too nice or too much of an asshole. The nice guy will be seen as an idiot who should’ve known better, an asshole won’t get sympathy for being scammed either and he’ll be told he deserved it.

keebydee · 2023-08-22T16:31:10+00:00

I don't even know why I made that recent post of mine. It only made me more depressed. I was gonna expect some harsh answers in there but I didn't think it was gonna be that brutal. Like I feel some of the stuff people said were out of line and that's saying a lot because comments from the internet typically don't bother me.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-22T16:36:47+00:00

Masculine men of reddit, what's your opinion on the toxic r/menslib sub?

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-22T16:42:36+00:00

As combative as some of the women here are ya sound like you actually like your men, so that’s all that really matters.

scwizard · 2023-08-22T16:46:26+00:00

People are like "you know women would be more successful with men if they lost a few pounds."

Ok maybe but there's a risk of turning into a pickme. Once you start doing stuff so that boys will like you better, rather than for your own happiness, you can fall down a really scary rabbithole.

And a lot of the women that are in their 30s and single are actually at the point in their life where they're climbing out of that rabbit hole. Maybe they had an eating disorder they're recovering from. Maybe they had an abusive ex boyfriend they ended up degrading themselves a lot to try and keep.

People want to think there's a just world but, the fact that some women end up with one of the good ones and others end up single, a lot of it is down to dumb luck.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-22T16:55:17+00:00

Q4W: do you want a world we’re everyone is perceived in the nodal sense or the communal sense.

Explanation below.

I realized when walking down the street there’s two modal forms to view strangers.

The nodal/number form. Each individual person being a complete blank slate you can’t really make to much assumptions about.

And the communal form. That person is someone daughter. Someone’s son. Someone aunt. Someone father. So on.

In the environment I grew up there was the latter form. Everyone was either sister brother uncle aunt or elder or if your older son/daughter. You referred to strangers in my parents language in the familial sense. And you always had the initial impression they were someone’s child.

afk_row · 2023-08-22T16:58:20+00:00

There is this interesting study about birth control pill effecting women’s preferred sexual partner.

In the test they get some sweaty shirts from guys and ask women to choose the one they like the most. Women who are not on birth control chose the shirts of the guys who had very different immune profile than them but women who are on birth control chose randomly.

The benefit of choosing a partner with different immune profile is your offspring will have better immune system.

When women stop using birth control they no longer choose randomly and it is possible for them to dislike their previous choice

Q4W have you ever lost interest in your SO after quitting birth control?

Don’t ask for source, I can’t find it 😞

Falling_fruit_234 · 2023-08-22T17:01:55+00:00

how many are actually able to get a "red pill" wife?

she should be 15 - 20 years younger than you, and got married before 25. after 30, she lets you have a half open relationship since she's over the wall. was a virgin before marriage. she works full time or is independently wealthy, but does all the cooking and cleaning and childcare. She never tells you no, and provides intellectually stimulating conservations. Her bmi is between 20 -25 and you have never seen her without makeup. she's always also available for sex, but never initiates.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-22T17:16:19+00:00

It should be considered child abuse to not have your boys do some kind of sport as a kid.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-22T17:16:38+00:00

Media doesn't teach men to be nice guys, parents train children to become nice guys.

When parent's provide children with conditional love, they teach children that they are unworthy of love and they have to earn/buy that love. Usually by being a "good boy".

They create "nice guys" which do end up being less romantically/sexually successful then normal men, and assholes.

The realization that nice guys finish last is particularly frustrating, because this is a deeply rooted behaviour, it's very difficult to change, much more difficult then just getting fit.

The only place the internet which doesn't treat nice guys with hostility, and is willing to help is TheRedPill.

Women will never be able to empathise with this, because men find "nice girls" attractive.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-22T17:19:19+00:00

Really excited for seafood and wine today 🍻 cheers

physious · 2023-08-22T17:40:59+00:00

What's everybody's friend ratio looking like in terms of gender? And at what stage(s) of your life? Any guesses why that is?

Mine was 50:50 M:F in high school, now 25:75 in college. Was always more comfortable talking to women but it evened out in HS since I was addicted to LoL/OSRS. Probably gonna skew more towards men once I graduate since I'm in comp sci and might get back into video games.

You can define "friend" in whatever way you want, but I guess I would define it as being able to message them and it wouldn't be weird.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-22T17:50:34+00:00

In our country, marrying a Thai woman is really popular strategy for seamen, and I totally get that.

These men earn a lot of money, but they usually spend 6 months at sea, then 6 months at home. Majority of decent women are not to crazy about that kind of relationship.

Gold-diggers on the other hand fucking love these guys... they often cheat, spend husbands money on partying and fuckers.

Thai women enable these guys to have a family with a faithful, decent woman, that will manage their budget.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-22T18:06:06+00:00

Men need to be shamed and made fun of MORE. It pushes them to do or be better. Survival of the fittest. No one cares about us men anyway

Peacesquad · 2023-08-22T18:07:23+00:00

If women’s standards have raised since feminism widespread and social media how are women still ending up in abusive relationships, as single mothers and as sex workers who are pumped and dumped and used by men that only see them as a pocket püssy?

And also: what did I miss

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-22T18:15:01+00:00

What I find funny about the foreign bride/passport bro issue is that while these men may nab themselves a 'submissive waifu', she's also bringing along her kid and extended family as well.

For all the crying about single moms, they sure do like to marry foreign single moms.

Like when you get right down to it, these women fucked up in their home country so of course their eager to hitch their baggage to some dopey westerner with too much money and not enough sense.

I have to wonder what kind of lie these dudes are telling themselves to think this foreign single mom is better than a home grown one.

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-22T18:24:55+00:00

Just like the percentage of sexless men, women ain't chomping at the bit to help them

Women, when are y’all gonna open a up Family Coochie and 99 cent Trim for these sexless men suffering out here?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-22T18:27:18+00:00

I’m feeling for a great cheeseburger and some fries

potoricco · 2023-08-22T18:32:03+00:00

Why do people keep coming and leaving here it’s making me sad 😢

potoricco · 2023-08-22T18:33:46+00:00

I’m going to tropical smoothie cafe before practice

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-22T18:40:35+00:00

Who is notsoErudite? I don't know much about this red pill stuff but I'm watching her "debate" one of the more prominent voices in the black pill community and I have to say she is saying all the things I believe are true. Basically guys should cast a wider net, but have higher standards rather than holding out for a unicorn and complaining along the way. If you cast a wider net you get to have some fun along the way so maybe you can stop whining about your low n count online. She says too many guys settle for the first woman that gives them attention and I agree with that. No clue who this person is though so I know nothing about them.

Also who the hell is Destiny? I see he has blue hair, but is he a clown?

potoricco · 2023-08-22T18:47:01+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15yc6e1/why_would_a_woman_marry_young_if_her_husband_will/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Exactly like that’s what u don’t get. If you actually listen to these people they’re basically saying “women don’t get married. “

Responsible-Bet-9791 · 2023-08-23T02:51:09+00:00

I had some of the worst health problems a human being could have for the last ten years - multiple consistent years of hospital visits + dedicated doctors.

Even though my parents are mid class immigrants I never had a problem making mid six to low 7 figs a year and I just turned 30. Even as an 18-20 year old I was chased up and down by jobs companies over and over again with very little effort on my part - Michelin Star dinners, free box seats, free NFL tickets, etc. This is while being as lazy as possible and only putting minimal work intro projects I found interesting.

Dates on the other hand are a nightmare to come by. Extremely hard to get even the tiniest bit of interest thankfully not virgin as I have had some sexual success.

I can play the rich 30s guy card pretty easily once I’m old enough - my friend runs a Lambo dealership - but without the $$$ and education idk how things would turn out.

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