Daily Community Chat Megathread

relish5k · 2023-09-05T21:10:55+00:00

Mandatory paternity testing at birth is a silly, infeasible, sledgehammer approach.

However it’s totally crazy that paternity fraud is not a crime. No restitution or criminal penalties. Just wild.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-05T18:54:49+00:00

It isn't worth it to reply because my response will only get buried, but my opinion is she should be absolutely truthful so he knows. She essentially wants permission to lie to save a relationship that benefits her but how is that right?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-05T18:48:57+00:00

I can't help but wonder if all those here squawking about women being the cause of single parents are being raised by single moms they resent.

The majority of the posters here are below average men with mommy issues.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-05T18:43:05+00:00

Is 5 too young to learn about global warming ? I was watching planet earth and my niece was interested. Asked lots of questions about why walruses were on a tiny island and falling off cliffs and I explained it’s because the ice was melting and that turned into explaining global warming and its effects. Now she is asking when we’re all going to die :/ but doesn’t sound too sad about it? She was like “oh man”

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WestCombSplit · 2023-09-04T18:00:28+00:00

Q4All the people obsessed with being first?

How does it feel like to be so inferior today

purplish_possum · 2023-09-04T18:17:26+00:00

One of my friends said I look like Ernest Hemingway.

https://i.guim.co.uk/img/media/8be4095b60f796d8b4094876e5e6bb642c22bcc1/0_66_4992_2996/master/4992.jpg?width=620&dpr=2&s=none

Guess that means I'm officially old.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-04T18:23:07+00:00

SOMETIMES I JUST FEEL LIKE I LIKE DAIRY TOO MUCH.

Adding00 · 2023-09-04T18:24:53+00:00

A nontraditional woman wants a traditional man to romance that will have no commitments, obligations, or responsibilities to. Ok, then what? Then she wants more of something else. A toy to pull out of the chest. Play with it. And put it back whenever she wants. Then demand no one else touch they toy, as it waits in the chest ( even if she's already playing with another toy or not ) . Any the problems the toy has, must stay with the toy, until she's ready to deal with it. The point is not to settle, even when she gets what she wants ( or if she loves him or not ) . There's always another life aspiration that must be explored.

Women romanticize that kind of reassurance, safety, and support ( it's the support that attracts them ) . But they also want to either throw it away on a whim to avoid dependency, or hurtle challenges at it based on expectations. Want the experience of being in love for the first time, all the time. It's a long distance open relationship, but close up. A best friend that acts as a reoccurring guest star. Expecting a safe space to always be available for her, with no downvotes or disagreements. Looking to be enabled, keep at arms length from the bad stuff, and stay a priority. Anyone whom endures the gauntlet, must be ' the one ' ( if she so chooses ) .

If there was a popular character to visualize what nontraditional women want in connecting with men, it would be the Elaine and Jerry dynamic from Seinfeld ( if you delete George and Kramer ) . Elaine lives alone, has her own career, no kids, dates whomever she wants, but still hangs out with Jerry ( and have sex once in a while ) and goes on misadventures together. Jerry is equally independent of Elaine. They have no responsibilities or obligations to each other. What if they were in a relationship during the entire series run.

Women like emotional conflict and activity, but only as long as it's comfortable. Gives a sense of fulfillment. The pursuit makes sense, but it's still a fantasy built at the mans expense, while he gets what she's only willing to give ( he's not supposed to ask for anything in return ) . He still has to go along with her lifestyle choices and support it. Women want to be chased, but also dictate the terms on how the chase progresses. Even then, there's no way of telling what will affect it will have on men or society ( written or unwritten rules or roles ) . Can't demand someone to be reserved, while you get to be unhinged. But that doesn't stop a woman from desiring it. No matter how much power you have, communication and compromise is still key. Women have to love men as unconditionally as they expect men to do for women.

potoricco · 2023-09-04T18:40:46+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ffzfsa65aamb1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c07779a1ffd14c4c41f96103a685bf5f8478ae40

Can we stop acting like this is ugly

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-04T18:46:02+00:00

Has there ever been a person who uses the “You dont know what it’s like to be my gender” bs and it wasnt to throw a pity party for themselves?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-04T18:54:00+00:00

Whichever gender you are, not having friends, staying indoors all the time watching anime will probably make you feel like crap.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-09-04T18:57:18+00:00

I'm in the gym for the first time in months. I'm so glad to see it's completely full! People of both genders, all ages and all body types decided to exercise on this Monday evening :)

potoricco · 2023-09-04T18:58:55+00:00

Horrible realization now that i drive to school

I always wanted to be like those girls who bring Dunkin donuts lattes and shit to school but I can’t do that because I also drive with my friend. And it’s rude to take someone somewhere and only buy things for yourself.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-04T18:59:57+00:00

My kneeeeeeeeeeeee hurts

I have a meniscus tear :( :( :( :( :( :(

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-04T19:06:24+00:00

Never Let a Woman See You Bleed.

She doesn't want to see you weak. She doesn't want to hear you bitch. Be a closed book about your weaknesses and vulnerabilities. Learn to shut the flying fuck up.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-04T19:06:32+00:00

Age-gap relationships are the most forced topic around, l don't why people have such great interest in people's dating decisions because to me it's never been of that much importance to give an opinion on

If a 19yo girl fresh out of HS wants to date some 27yo man who's about to get his promotion at work or vice-versa then that's their decision for everything bad or good that happens in that relationship

Personally l wouldn't date a woman under 24 because she hasn't that much cornerstone of maturity beforethat age, but l know a lot of guys will but again it's their decision so l could really care less when coming to this stuff

I just think this topics are unnecessary because there's always endless speculations around them

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-04T19:12:08+00:00

When some milk sellers started mixing water with milk, the government issued rules and tests to prevent that, which made honest milk sellers happy and the customers happy, only cheating milk sellers were annoyed by it.

When government issued the energy card for home appliances, that was great news for innovative honest companies and customers, not so much for cheap sneaky manufacturers.

When everyone knew the banks are corrupt, the government did…………nothing. Which was greater for the bank because all of them was full of shit (but that is a different story)

My point is why honest non-cheating women oppose forced paternity test at birth?!.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-04T19:28:17+00:00

A few days ago there was this girl who I matched with on Tinder who wasn't in Seattle and she called me late at night and she kept asking me questions and going "Wow you're so smart".

She let me rant about the Nazis and how to dismiss the socialist part of National socialism (as wikipedia does) as simply a way that they did "propaganda' instead of a deeply held belief of many Nazis (and German society at large at the time) does a deep disservice to our understanding for why the Nazis were truly able to achieve a "mass party" (Massenvolkspartei) status and why people voted for the Nazis. And then I ranted a lot about the Great Purge and why our common understanding of it (Muh paranoid Stalin wanting power) was also incorrect. And then I even got to rant about Robespierre and the Black Legend of him being a crazy evil person (created by his opponents, who were actually bloodthirsty morons, while he was still alive) and she just sat there and asked very intelligent questions.

Nobody I've met in real life I've talked to has been like that 😭

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-04T19:35:54+00:00

Steve Harwell from Smashmouth died 🥺

For those too young here you go. This was what made summer 1999 the shit as a teenager.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-04T19:47:57+00:00

Is it just me, or men in age gap relationships are usually highly valuable men which older women would want for themselves?

baiser_vole · 2023-09-04T19:51:52+00:00

My boyfriend's lil bro was asking what kind of physique I prefer in men. He seems to be very interested in making my boyfriend look good in my eyes. Oh it was so awkward and embarrassing. He did not want to let it go, and I yelled, "You are my boyfriend's brother!" at one point.

On a side note, I baked some brownies and made pickled eggs last night. My eating window starts in 10 minutes. Oh waiting has been a torture. I didn't even get to lick the batter.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-04T19:56:28+00:00

This is so selfish but I need to start writing again. My old mentor made a post about her health issues today. She hyped up her old students who have published their books recently, and I always thought I would end up there too. I’m not writing because of her but it’s probably a good external motivator for me right now.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-04T20:14:13+00:00

Women with comically long finges nails have one of either things: doo doo fingers or doo doo butthole

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-04T20:15:10+00:00

I'M GONNA LIFFFTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

Maffioze · 2023-09-04T20:25:11+00:00

Nothing makes people more hypocritical than the topics of paternity testing and financial abortion. It's quite saddening.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-04T20:34:03+00:00

Ladies! Have you been emotionally supportive to your male partner before and not held it against them or had it change how you view them?

potoricco · 2023-09-04T20:41:04+00:00

What is the best type of meat and why is it beef tripe😇😇😇

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-09-04T20:45:10+00:00

My kid figured out who I am on Reddit again. She needs to stop doing that. I would block her but I don’t know her user name. Last time I had to go into the witness protection program and change my identity.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-04T20:48:12+00:00

I need to stop ghosting chicks

BLKSKNHED · 2023-09-04T21:03:16+00:00

The jig is up , now mainstream media know the average man in a relationship is a domestic terrorist to their partners and kids.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/sep/04/mumsnet-motherhood-men-stories-abusers

potoricco · 2023-09-04T21:16:23+00:00

Still mad at myself

I spent $20 on cliniques black honey lipstick back when it was trending. I have never worn it since then because it looks and feels like sh!t and plus I don’t even wear lipstick why are we so easily influenced

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-09-04T21:19:15+00:00

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/she-divorced-me-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink_b_9055288/amp

I like this article. I do think the dude goes a bit too hard on himself. Definitely pure bluepill.

But it illustrates such an important thing about relationships. You need to respect things that are important to your partner even if you can’t empathize even if it isn’t important to you.

If my girl forgot my birthday I wouldn’t care at all. But birthdays are important to her, so I’m not apathetic about making hers special. And I don’t resent that imbalance because we’re just built different and have different priorities.

Dashing2025 · 2023-09-04T22:19:02+00:00

You're not a strong real man if a feminist doesn't call you insecure/fragile.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-04T22:19:46+00:00

"Men don't care about a woman's intelligence".

Biggest meme in history. Imagine being a woman that doesn't understand your humor or anything you talk about. Just because apex levels of intelligence aren't of interest to men, that doesnt mean that intelligence as a trait is still a desirable trait to have

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-04T22:24:40+00:00

I wonder how the fuck professional bodybuilders afford food.

I'm spending like 100 dollars a week on food and I am like on a perma cut (need to get down to 160). Like if I wanted to start gaining weight again I would need to like...I don't even know I'd have to eat double the amount of chicken that I'm eating now, it would be insane.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-04T22:31:10+00:00

This went unanswered, so I'm asking again....

In what scenarios do paternity testing make sense? When there's no exclusivity? I think most women would agree to a paternity test.

What is financial abortion?

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-09-04T22:43:35+00:00

If your “pill” or world view was considered the mainstream, would you still come here?

gigrabbit · 2023-09-04T22:51:26+00:00

Any woman redpill creator worth noting besides the just pearly chick?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-04T22:55:24+00:00

Do you have a penis?

If yes, then you are a real man.

This nullifies all of the "real men do this, real men do that" arguments.

huhwhatokok · 2023-09-04T22:59:25+00:00

I think most men need to think of relationships/marriages as business decisions. Women do it once they start to get older but imo men should do it immediately.

I watch a YouTuber who does financial audits of people/couples and 9/10 times it’s a woman bringing her bad debt and irresponsible spending habits to a normal guy and financially crippling them. Worst of all, they aren’t even good looking to justify bringing all these negative problems.

If she has over 100k+ student loan debt and she’s didn’t graduate from med school, have some type of degree involving programming, or had a stable career making good money, do not commit to her. She is not worthy of a long term relationship. This is the equivalent of a high body count because like a high body count, it shows she’s irresponsible and incapable of making good decisions.

Enjoyer18263 · 2023-09-04T23:06:38+00:00

Planning on making a super mega post to completely prove the blackpill and disprove any other pill , when Is the next purge ? I Want to drop this tsar bomb so bad

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-04T23:13:13+00:00

Today was carribean independence day in nyc. I was Objectifying alot of women today. Only fa a day tho

gabejohn · 2023-09-04T23:13:42+00:00

Existence is pain

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-04T23:27:13+00:00

I really love the movie Taxi Driver. I've watched it on shrooms, ketamine, MDMA, etc and it's always great. Idk what it is.

potoricco · 2023-09-04T23:38:58+00:00

Just tried pork chops for the very first time in my life

I mean it wasn’t awful but I would not eat this again

Still not sold on pork meat

potoricco · 2023-09-04T23:42:48+00:00

I feel like a kid again

I’m at my aunts house and I’m playing hide and seek with children

potoricco · 2023-09-04T23:45:00+00:00

I love food because like

My aunts mother (elderly woman) asked 2 girls what they were going to eat, and they said nothing, and she looked deeply offended

Food is an expression of love. A love language

potoricco · 2023-09-05T00:00:34+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/lkikey67vbmb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=117cd12a80bd6b5e05d5e6d638662200cba5d1d2

I love self aware men more than anything

meteorness123 · 2023-09-05T00:12:44+00:00

Most people who say Freud is obsolete never read Freud.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-05T00:27:55+00:00

Do you agree that settling goes together with taking what you can get when your options are limited?

lacuti3 · 2023-09-05T00:53:28+00:00

Q4M:

How common is it for guys to try to sleep with girls from (their) high school in their 20s?

potoricco · 2023-09-05T00:55:00+00:00

If you ever want to laugh your ass off. Listen to a group of 50+ year old men having a political discussion

I literally can’t stop laughing

meteorness123 · 2023-09-05T01:00:57+00:00

How much would it take/cost you to date this woman - and what do you associate it her with ?

https://whyevolutionistrue.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/binx.jpg

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-05T01:32:14+00:00

No one cares

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-05T01:41:57+00:00

Consider the following: I cannot do wrestling or MMA because of my meniscus tear but I can still box because it feels kind of better

later losers

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-05T02:15:15+00:00

Is calling someone an incel sexual harassment? It’s making unwanted remarks towards the person regarding their sex life.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-09-05T02:34:40+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/igK6gyfjk3

Which one of you mad lads is this

meteorness123 · 2023-09-05T03:35:44+00:00

Rate this woman :

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qDULdRMxwdQ/TCUcWSsm--I/AAAAAAAAAN8/341-Emq9KBI/s1600/pretty+normal+looking+girl.bmp

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-05T03:54:12+00:00

Does anyone else think about something that happened years ago and realize that you're still not over it?

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-05T04:02:00+00:00

We need to return to monke and fight each other for access to women because holy fuck not only am I the best wrestler in Washington I'm on my way to being the best boxer in Washington. Send Mike Tyson my way I'll knock that old man on his ass.

blebbyroo · 2023-09-05T04:14:03+00:00

Holy shit I have never read an aita post and thought how bad I hope the woman can take the guy to the cleaners but this post has Done it

https://reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/J5vWIGNTO7

I hope they live in a common law marriage place and if not I hope she finds some other legal way to take his money if he really does leave her.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-05T05:10:01+00:00

How common is entertainment dating for women? Going on dates with guys the women are almost certain will not meet the cut for a relationship or sex, but it gets the woman out of the house, free dinner, etc.
And can be hamster justified in that there is always that chance he will surprise on the upside?

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-05T05:35:31+00:00

If you could ask woman almost any question, what would it be?

(Please no questions of the "what color are your panties" genre)

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-05T05:52:22+00:00

It strikes me that appropriate levels of resource hypergamy basically balance out a woman's unavoidably higher costs of reproduction, even in a fully egalitarian marriage. As kids are increasingly out of the picture, hypergamy levels should drop accordingly. Hypergamy beyond these justified levels is basically a woman trying to monetize her greater sexual leverage due to higher male thirst.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2023-09-05T06:34:22+00:00

I’m leaving my disabled boyfriend who saved my life at the cost of his own.

TLDR: A guy saved his girlfriend's life and became paralyzed from waist down. He now lives in a wheelchair, gets PTDS, becomes addicted to video games and coke, and cannot enjoy sex/will not have sex with her anymore. He attempted therapy but it did not work. Now, the girlfriend is exhausted and is leaving him behind.

What do you all think?

DragoonXFury · 2023-09-05T06:39:19+00:00

90s feminist punk rock is so good!

Riot grrrrrrrrrrrrrrl ftw!

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-05T06:58:37+00:00

Q4A -Do you feel like you are worthy of romance and love? Do you think you deserve it?

Why?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-05T08:10:38+00:00

I usually detest people who think "ReMeMbEr RoOl OnE AnD TwO!!" is the height of wit, however my God does it apply in this situation...

https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/HAIblHm35a

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-05T08:28:43+00:00

Against my gut, I did it. I left an elevator note for the young US woman that lives a couple of floors down saying “Hi, I’d like to meet you, I’m upstairs at # or text me #”. Did I commit a social faux pas in modern times? Does this poor woman think my husband and I want a threesome with her, I really hope not…I just want social friendship.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-05T08:57:02+00:00

Saudi Arabia doesn't have the issue of widespread misandry you see in most western countries- really makes you think

blebbyroo · 2023-09-05T09:43:46+00:00

Lan from wheel of time is hot

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-05T09:46:16+00:00

With very few exceptions, fat people are lazy slobs- put down the twinkie for five minutes and hit the treadmill

FizzleMateriel · 2023-09-05T10:42:33+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16abu45/bf_impregnated_someone_before_we_were_exclusive/

This guy must be really out of her league looks-wise. Literally can’t think of any other reason why she’d still be with him.

When women say the bar is on the floor for men ultimately what they mean is it’s on the floor for guys like this. Who are probably trashy hot and not Billy Beta in looks.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-05T12:09:31+00:00

Got a compliment from a guy at the gym today. He said I looked good after I ran 2 miles on the treadmill looking like I dove in a swimming pool. Feels motivating when men say you look good after a workout because just like most other men, I'm invisible to women.

Some_Membership_5038 · 2023-09-05T12:26:41+00:00

I wish I had the confidence of a woman who’s been weightlifting for 6 months and has the worlds most mid physique.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-09-05T12:37:06+00:00

Q4M: Where will all the women who "had fun in their 20's" go in their 30's, 40's and 50's? Will they truly suffer and die?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-05T12:37:52+00:00

Can we have some positivity in this thread about your experiences with the opposite sex? I’ll start:

my male boss was incredibly emotionally supportive when my dog passed away and offered for me to take the day off (he’s a dog lover). I didn’t, because I appreciated the distraction of work, but it was such a kind thing to offer.
my brother and I regularly call/text each other for emotional support. He’s been having a tough time with his gf; I’ve been having a tough time relating to my MiL (but not nearly as bad as what you see on Reddit. She’s overall great). My bro is the best.
I recently mentioned to my boyfriend that it makes me really happy when he reaches out to casually touch me (grab my hand, stroke my cheek, etc). I’ve noticed he’s done this a lot more since I said that.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-09-05T12:48:11+00:00

i work in a company with 3 guys and one pretty girl. she was hired because the guys were simping for her. guess who works the least but still gets the same amount of pay? The girl.

Before that, i worked in a company with 7 guys and 1 pretty girl. she was also hired because the guys were simping for her. Guess who works the least but still gets the same amount of pay? The girl.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-05T13:00:05+00:00

the sex scene is episode 1x5 of bridgerton was in theory hot but it was too long and i felt like i was intruding on way too intimate of a moment 🫣

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-05T13:06:58+00:00

What’s the longest you have gone in terms of time of not posting on Reddit since you started posting on Reddit?

potoricco · 2023-09-05T13:07:24+00:00

I have literally perfect legs for ballet since I have hyperextended knees

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-05T13:16:21+00:00

Me when discussing American issues with fellow liberals and lefists:

Yeah we got some major problems we need to fix XYZ, there's problems with major cracks in our society and a lot of people aren't taken care of properly

Me when discussing American issues with Right wingers who are holding up places like Russia and SA as somehow equivalent to us:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmoeZHnOJKA

https://www.joeydevilla.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/firing-a-gun-on-a-scooter.jpg

StayEmbarrassed1747 · 2023-09-05T13:16:58+00:00

One of the most important redpill lessons for men is that women are simply NOT CAPABLE of having empathy for men like men are capable of having it for women.

It's like the difference eween sex drives. If men truly realized how little women care for men as a whole it would end women's special treatment overnight.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-05T13:42:07+00:00

CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….

The issue is that it's hard to pinpoint "the average", also one's average is most likely different to the average of the other person just due to different samples. I'm also not sure how we can calculate average overall. Most people aren't going to fall exactly in average grade in all their traits, there's a variety of traits and skills imv.

Also objective average is an overweight guy, probably in his 40s, in debt. Most younger women think (and are right) that they can score a better partner. Just as most younger men won't be eager to date an objectively average woman either.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-05T13:54:53+00:00

Proof that the average 2X user is brain dead. She is OK with asking for sex on the first date but draws the line on asking about kids on the first date. -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16a6f83/we_will_not_discuss_my_uterus_availability_on_a/

Slipthe · 2023-09-05T13:58:42+00:00

Do your friends know how much money is in your bank account?

I was looking at a transaction in my bank app and my friend saw my checking account and was like "THAT'S HOW MUCH YOU HAVE?"

And then she showed me she had $147 in her account.

This girl makes nearly the same amount as me, and she waits tables and works half the hours I do.

baresquad · 2023-09-05T14:14:06+00:00

Overwhelming consensus on this seems that it’s best to lie when asked about being the best at sex.

I agree. I don’t think people who ask questions that they don’t really want to know the answer to realize that they kill the relationship with their insecurities. Being pestered is draining, both men and women do it, and you wouldn’t know how draining it is unless you’ve experienced it.

Dashing2025 · 2023-09-05T15:32:06+00:00

Hey misogynists, if the Patriarchy isn't real, explain this: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/38607065-how-to-destroy-a-man-now-damn

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-05T18:29:05+00:00

There would not be a single "deadbeat father" if women did not choose to have children with them. It's a disgrace that society is burdened and has to pay for their poor choices.

Falling_fruit_234 · 2023-09-05T18:28:59+00:00

Do you sometimes feel most of problems in the world come from your parents not loving you enough?

my parents paid for my college, gave me $200k for a downpayment, and a car when I graduated college. because I was loved, I never really had issues dating or finding someone suitable to marry.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-05T18:18:50+00:00

I hate when your comfort food that you have been eating for every day starts to not taste like comfort anymore.

Workaholiconew · 2023-09-05T18:11:19+00:00

look if you gonna keep pressing f5 every 2 seconds to check what I said next... maybe just go to the discord?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-05T18:08:54+00:00

What type of cuisine should I try to get really good at? I'm hoping to impress people.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-05T17:59:41+00:00

So glad to live in a state with equal reproductive rights

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-05T17:44:25+00:00

When do you predict societal collapse in the west from falling birth rates/marriage rates? Barring no major government changes

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-05T17:42:09+00:00

The word “wall” denotes that there is a hard stop. When a car crashes into a wall the car stops immediately. Therefore, the term “the wall” makes zero sense.

Over the past couple of months on this sub there’s been evidence posted suggesting strongly that a woman’s choices don’t crash into a wall. And you can kind of see the red pillers scrambling for an explanation.

A few years ago a 30 year old woman had zero romantic attention, according to red pillers. Now, they say a 30 year woman gets attention but it’s all from like homeless males and abusers or whatever.

Sure she might have less choices than when she was 20 but she still has more choices than the average male. So why do males keep claiming it exists?

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-05T17:36:25+00:00

If you're not satisfied with the relationships in your life or lack thereof, be angry! Anger enables you to take control of your life.

Slipthe · 2023-09-05T17:26:34+00:00

Also it is amusing that the argument for financial abortion is that women get to have medical abortions. And the paper thin "Oh if I don't get a financial one, women shouldn't be allowed to have a medical one!"

As if men don't benefit from medical abortions just as much as women do.

It just reads as trying to have your cake and eat it too.

Slipthe · 2023-09-05T17:09:18+00:00

Do you think sex work should be legalized in the US? Why or why not?

I tried to find an argument against it, but all my points seemed tired and wrapped up in my own personal judgement regarding those who use it.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-05T17:03:02+00:00

People have the wrong narrative of what the wall for women actually is

The wall is based on the idea of women prioritizing marriage/children as they age

When a woman is 21-24, marriage/children are not in her top priorities but from 28-33 it starts moving up to becoming her most important things to focus on

It's not based on women loosing their attractiveness to men since we've all seen women past 35 still look amazing

It's based on the idea there's a biological clock for women to start having children or settling down because she cannot afford to just have fun when she was younger at 21-23

Luciansleep · 2023-09-05T16:52:57+00:00

Q4W: After a first date, is it normal for women to want to text often?

I’ve never been a big texter myself and ngl I’ve never met a woman who wasn’t into texting. If so they just weren’t that into me or someone else.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-05T16:48:54+00:00

I need a slightly-sleazy, yet attractive 40-year-old man to come up behind me while I’m sitting at my vanity and passionately make out with me before telling me I’m special and there’s no one else out there like me. That would solve my problems.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-05T16:34:07+00:00

Bro, you can't be fat or overweight. The rejections and feelings of disgust only get worse with age.

Get your undesirable ass in the gym, quit sugar and drugs and make fitness your entire personality. They will love and respect you after seeing the results

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-05T16:10:37+00:00

What celebrities have you seen/met that have that flawless presence vibe going on? What do you think adds to that vibe?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-05T16:09:43+00:00

This post had me wondering…

Men: are you expecting to propose without first having a conversation (or many conversations) with your partner about marriage, the proposal, and a timeline?

Women: are you expecting to be proposed to without having to ever say that you want a proposal?

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-09-05T16:05:45+00:00

I wonder what women think about men over the age of 30 who fight over Playstation vs Xbox superiority.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-05T16:01:34+00:00

People who have a skincare routine, how do you keep your space clean and organized? I am just doing a facial cleanser and moisturizer, but when I rinse my face I get water all over the sink and it feels gross. I have two bathrooms in my home and the one we use the most is smaller so I am considering doing my routine in the larger bathroom, but I get water everywhere and it annoys me.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-05T15:46:10+00:00

Anyone else wonder how their personality would be different if they were the opposite sex? I'm honestly curious. I assume I'd be much more impulsive and risk taking. Actually I wonder if I'd be dead already as a man, because I'd probably do something dumb and end up getting killed.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-05T15:42:32+00:00

This sub constantly confuses average men and below average men.

Average men aren't struggling to get dates. Average single men aren't in this sub. Average married men are in this sub because they tend to want to help below average men.

Below average men are struggling and make up the majority of male posters in this sub. Below average divorced bitter men are also in this sub.

Dashing2025 · 2023-09-05T15:32:44+00:00

Hey misogynists, if the Patriarchy isn't real, then explain this.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-05T15:23:21+00:00

I'm nearing my end here, but reading all of women's points and arguments, I can't help but think:

Q4W: Say a man wants to have a rich, positive and fulfilling sex/romantic life. How does it look like to you? How does it fit in your mind as "acceptable" behavior?

I'm talking from beginning to end: from the initial stages of meeting, to going "steady" (is it dating one woman at a time singularly or is a man free to pursue multiple women concurrently? ), to things getting "more serious", and beyond.

Pray tell, how does the journey look like from your POV, what does it look like to make it "acceptable" in your eyes for a man that is generally looking for a "long term monogamous" relationship, and yet still open to casual encounters like one night stands and short term fuck partners. Please explain it to me.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-05T15:21:10+00:00

Initiate more.

Take action. In the bedroom, in the relationship, in business and in real life.

This message is for masculine men.

dbz__f · 2023-09-05T15:21:06+00:00

My gf has a friend who's Muslim and wears a hijab and apparently today they were having a conversation about their sex life and apparently this girl has sex with her husband every day and have a very vibrant sex life.

I don't get the idea that women who come from more conservative or traditional backgrounds are gonna have lower libido.

afk_row · 2023-09-05T15:12:46+00:00

Female version of wolverine makes me feel things.

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-05T15:02:08+00:00

How many incels do you think would turn into fuckbois over night if they got the same amount of sexual interest from women that women get from men?

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-05T14:59:18+00:00

Womans partner impregnated someone else.

Most men cannot get dates. Other men get all the women taking turns with them...

These women are complaining about fuccbois while taunting average men for being thirsty and desperate.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16abu45/bf_impregnated_someone_before_we_were_exclusive/

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-05T14:53:02+00:00

Is it just me or does anyone else get the sense that males who constantly talk about single mother/dead beat dads seem jealous? Not jealous because a “bad guy is getting sex” and they aren’t but jealous they’re unable to be the “bad guy getting sex”.

potoricco · 2023-09-05T14:43:42+00:00

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Slay

Steakman1 · 2023-09-05T14:37:29+00:00

Alright guys who like the female delusion calculator, lets see how well you do with the guy version: https://realitycalc.com/

I got about 9% on mine.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-05T14:31:18+00:00

Your relationship should always be polarised. Be masculine and unleash the femininity in her.

This is the way

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-05T14:30:45+00:00

this is one of the most simple yet brutal pieces of advice a man can receive: "if your relationship with your girlfriend or wife is over because you let her meet a man more handsome than you, then your relationship was never secure in the first place and it is in no way a reflect your value as a man, or an indication of women as a whole."

Special-Possession44 · 2023-09-05T14:23:23+00:00

this is one of the most simple yet brutal pieces of advice a man can receive: "if you let your girlfriend or wife meet a man more handsome than you, your relationship with her is over."

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-05T14:18:07+00:00

I do not want Trump to be President again.
But removing him from ballots?
The willingness of the American left to 'cheat' for the 'greater good' using SCOTUS rulings or the legal system is shocking.
It's like they are determined to try to blow up the country.

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