Daily Community Chat Megathread

blebbyroo · 2023-09-25T00:02:16+00:00

When people mention that women initiate divorces more why don’t they care about the reasons why they initiate? People don’t do things for no good reason especially when kids are involved. Why would men rather be in an unhappy sexless marriage than leave? If men weren’t so afraid of splitting assets and child support I bet they would leave too.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-25T00:00:54+00:00

Some people do marital arts and lift big weights so that they make others feel safe and protected from the outside world.

I do marital arts and lift big weights so that I can make others scared and fearful of the outside world.

potoricco · 2023-09-25T00:00:47+00:00

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Ok look I may be radical feminist adjacent but some people just look too much into things

antisplatter · 2023-09-24T23:56:49+00:00

Pay prostitutes to follow you around the bar --> Instant pre-selection boost on all your approaches. you'll be in pussy town in no time!

gigrabbit · 2023-09-24T23:41:42+00:00

Anyone here have parents that passed without being grandparents?

Did you feel regretful?

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-24T23:34:17+00:00

It's been such a good day, I got to go to a museum for the first time in years! I got to see some goobers

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Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-24T23:27:37+00:00

Ain’t no way this is real

TGEM · 2023-09-24T23:17:36+00:00

Women want protective men, BUT...

So I've been speeding through romance dramas to get an idea about what women are taught to look for in a man. And what I noticed-- very quickly-- was that while there's still the occasional scene where man protects the woman from physical violence, it's far more common to see the man protects the woman from SOCIAL violence. E.g., they have a bully coworker, the bully tries to flirt with the male lead in, and then the male lead conspicuously avoids the bully in favor of the female lead.

Which should be unsurprising-- the vast majority of times women have felt serious fear or anxiety have likely been in conjunction with social rather than physical conflict, particularly with other women.

If I'm correct about this, I'm still not sure how to translate this knowledge into improving my dating prospects. I don't think demonstrating/judging ability to be socially protective works well through the lens of a dating app, so I suspect the desire for a social protector gets sublimated into the more general desire for a mate with high social capital.

potoricco · 2023-09-24T22:57:25+00:00

People with light hair who dye it dark just look so goofy because when it starts growing out they deadass look bald

potoricco · 2023-09-24T22:39:02+00:00

Prostitution will never be “safe” or “regulated” because sex buyers (RAPISTS) fundamentally do not see sex workers as humans

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-24T22:12:05+00:00

With so many women being fat nowadays, is it a high standard for a man to want a woman with a healthy (19-21) BMI?

potoricco · 2023-09-24T22:11:56+00:00

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You’re not even tripping at this point you’re stumbling 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-24T21:58:05+00:00

I didn't eat anything all of yesterday and I'm eating ketchup and it's like a religious experience.

potoricco · 2023-09-24T21:52:31+00:00

LMAOOOOOO

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-24T21:27:52+00:00

American football is unironically far more entertaining than regular football, the only issues is the fucking commercials.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-24T21:20:26+00:00

reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16r2saq/cmv_its_not_misogynistic_or_controlling_for_men/

I agree with the headline. WBY ?

TemporalAntiAssening · 2023-09-24T21:19:50+00:00

DAE think legalized prostitution would help things? Onlyfans and tinder have driven the price/requirements for poon skyhigh. Simps need to stop paying to watch other dudes fuck girls and instead pay to do it themselves. The women still get paid and these dudes actually get something tangible. I think there'd be a lot less angry dudes if they were able to pay for a fuck once a month/few times a year.

If youre an unsuccessful dude from a Euro country where it's legal, have you gone to hookers before?

okaybear2point0 · 2023-09-24T21:15:16+00:00

I am dying someone send nudes

potoricco · 2023-09-24T20:57:48+00:00

I’m mad I was lied to AP seminar is just an English class and it’s probably too late now for me to drop out

relish5k · 2023-09-24T20:41:34+00:00

Love Island Season 3 in 2017 had 32 contestants, (16 male and 16 female) and lead to 2 marriages and 4 children. That’s not a bad hit rate.

potoricco · 2023-09-24T20:35:56+00:00

I got $450

150 from my mom

150 from my dad

50 from my grandma

50 from a family friend

100 from my aunt

FLEX

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-24T20:21:15+00:00

The fat and body acceptance movements would get a lot more traction if they just included traits that men are judged on e.g. hairline and height. It's obvious and they know this.

That they don't is telling. They are saying that they don't care about men and that it's not about the principles. It's about using supposed principles as a tool to get what they want. i.e. it's not about body acceptance. It's about stopping people from judging them on the specific physical traits they don't like being judged for, but it's fine to judge people on other physical traits.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-09-24T20:04:41+00:00

Men have finally figured out what the sexiest thing a woman can do for them and it's disgusting...

https://old.reddit.com/r/CrazyFuckingVideos/comments/16qze4o/footbinding_a_tradition_in_china_from_the_10th/

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-24T20:02:14+00:00

I swear, the way that some of the male posters here describe relationships sounds really boring and loveless and uninspiring.

Why be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to do nice things for you and complains that you wear shorts + tank tops in the summer?

Who wants to be in a relationship with someone who never shows emotions and complains about everything?

demedermidimi · 2023-09-24T19:49:35+00:00

so many people who proclaim their preferences sound like they want someone to pat them on the head and tell them "you're valid"

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-09-24T19:49:16+00:00

Most sane male PPD user

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potoricco · 2023-09-24T19:46:27+00:00

What ppd thinks the average woman’s standards are

old_new_age · 2023-09-24T19:43:45+00:00

anyone else throw hail marys (maries?) on dating apps? I'll match with a girl who's a writer, we'll have a good conversation about world-building in fiction or something, then she'll ghost for 3 days, so I send a "can I eat your ass?" it doesn't work but when there's nothing left to lose there's nothing left to lose

potoricco · 2023-09-24T19:14:29+00:00

Models finally show some personality on the runway

The world is literally healing like you don’t understand

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-24T19:06:02+00:00

If you get married, have a happy marriage, successfully raise kids into adulthood and independence and then get a divorce when you're old and have no kids in the house, imo that's a successful marriage

Edit: just for clarification, being together forever is also successful

illusoryfindings · 2023-09-24T19:02:58+00:00

Do the men and women here actually like the opposite sex? Everyone sounds so hurt and traumatized, so many threads can be reduced to "women bad, men bad, but women bad!!! men bad!!!!" And if it's not that, it's people proposing dramatic societal shifts where one or both genders just unanimously change their behaviour and desires in some unrealistic way.

Are any of you dysfunctional neurotics (I include myself in this btw) actually taking the time to self-reflect and make yourself accountable for your shortcomings? Even if life has dealt you an unfair hand, and it's harder for you than for others, how does complaining help you make any progress in this area that clearly causes you a lot of pain?

If we spent less time being antagonistic and more time acknowledging how frustrating, unfair, and irrational dating is, without blaming people for their unconscious biological and cultural desires, we'd be able to figure out how to adapt at the individual level, and make ourselves better for who we want to attract.

Surely that's better than being mad and resentful of half the population?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-24T18:59:05+00:00

Damn,this sub has been a hug culture shock for me

Like,how you guys in America manage?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-24T18:56:14+00:00

You can be depressed and still get things done

It's called being a masculine MAN

potoricco · 2023-09-24T18:44:07+00:00

British food😍🤤🇬🇧 Wow England is amazing

potoricco · 2023-09-24T18:40:10+00:00

American food😍😍😍 Love my country we have the best cuisine

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-24T18:34:42+00:00

Is a woman being kinky in bed actually a turn off for some men? Like they will still do whatever but they lose respect for her in the process. Is that common?

Peacesquad · 2023-09-24T18:31:47+00:00

Hypergamy. NAWALT. N count. Tinder. Depresionmaxxxxing. 80/20

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-09-24T18:31:21+00:00

Jennifer Pan burn in hell

lolmastr13 · 2023-09-24T18:20:35+00:00

Why are some people comfortable showing skin while others aren’t?

okaybear2point0 · 2023-09-24T18:14:23+00:00

mugshawtys on X: "DUI causing property damage https://t.co/r1gyTbC7Zq" / X (twitter.com)

need her

meteorness123 · 2023-09-24T18:09:09+00:00

Australian accent is ugly as fuck.Stop saying "mayte".

SianOiseau · 2023-09-24T18:06:31+00:00

I am...so tired, but I have 2 more lessons to go. Some days just don't feel right.

Swordfromthecement · 2023-09-24T18:06:10+00:00

Anyone here know someone in an arranged marriage? How is it?

Appropriate_Ask1282 · 2023-09-24T17:55:30+00:00

I just wrote one banger of a post, I can't wait for it to get approved. Here is the title so you know it'll be juicy.

We live in an age of equality but women's sexuality still hasn't caught up.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-24T17:41:48+00:00

Q4A: What are some standards you’ve personally encountered while dating that you would consider unrealistic and/or delusional?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-24T17:29:46+00:00

Q4W: How many times have you reported a respectful, socially calibrated approach from a man you weren’t attracted to?

Edit: It seems like most are saying they’ve never reported any respectful approaches. Interesting.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-24T17:29:04+00:00

i like men. i love men.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-24T17:28:39+00:00

My thread on approaching is going as well as you can probably expect.

Turns out most aren’t even trying at all (which is fine) but then to turn around and blame women is very weird.

princedune · 2023-09-24T15:35:59+00:00

they put baby foreskins in anti aging cream. Shits wack. Its too much man . tfw you were mutilated so some old lady can look a bit younger 🌚🎃🎃 let me off yhis wild ridee

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yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-09-24T13:03:46+00:00

First!

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-09-24T13:04:20+00:00

Second!

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-24T13:06:22+00:00

Third

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-24T13:08:37+00:00

Muh new hormone therapy is kicking in! 🙏

But why does the bio identical gel I have to dispense daily onto my inner arm or thigh look like a big glob of cum?

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-09-24T13:09:56+00:00

I want to be happy for injectadrenochrome, getting married is exciting, but at the same time it solidifies my view that women don't really have to self improve to attract partners and they'll still be sad about it

I won't go that far with her because I know she has improved in some major ways from reading her comments, but still the mouth feels of "I was arguing with my boyfriend and he proposed to me" just seems so off and unfair

pegthepatriarchy_ · 2023-09-24T13:20:38+00:00

Tinder gets too much hate on Reddit, it is a great App that has brought a lot of fun to a lot of people

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-24T13:20:41+00:00

sixth!

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-24T13:38:44+00:00

Tried that "just act like chad" strategy and it immediately worked online, Im gonna have to try this in real life haha.

Appropriate_Ask1282 · 2023-09-24T13:40:04+00:00

Is it transphobic if I look at trans women as undercover men? Not in the sense that they're just men pretending, but that's how I perceive/feel it. Like there are some things I'll never feel comfortable doing with a guy like being sweet to them, acting a bit feminine with them, and so on... and this gets carried to trans women as well. I find attractive as shit but never romantically that shit is beyond gay for me.

Willow-girl · 2023-09-24T13:41:57+00:00

My latest Goodwill find! Imgur

No, it isn't an $80 Cradle of Filth t-shirt, but equally glorious in its own odd way!

It will be the only one of its kind on eBay. What'll you give me for this relic?!

potoricco · 2023-09-24T13:42:33+00:00

Domestic abuse against women: Exists

Men: “Choose better partners!!! If only you chose better”

Women: choose better, break up with men that aren’t good for them

Men: Waah hypergamy wahh women too picky average man bad wahh women judgemental and spoiled

hannahg000 · 2023-09-24T13:44:06+00:00

i’m going to say something controversial

i want princess treatment 👑

potoricco · 2023-09-24T13:45:37+00:00

No it isn’t pretty privilege. It’s misogyny stop making soft words for a phenomenon that already exists.

https://preview.redd.it/tk0g9maqj7qb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c7a983c3135d2ece6545047d552baa75b476c356

TSquaredRecovers · 2023-09-24T13:50:13+00:00

Ohio State coming through with the TD with one second left. Any other Buckeye fans here?

potoricco · 2023-09-24T13:50:55+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/63jvcl1ok7qb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1f5651819672876ca5c65848119f0a09a5feb144

What could be the reason?

Kero_9 · 2023-09-24T14:12:13+00:00

So there is this claim that trans women are assaulting the two X holders in women’s toilets and women aren’t safe and we should protect women’s exclusive spaces , but women been going to mixed toilets along with men and never mentioned that it’s threat to them , in fact they invade men’s exclusive spaces to the point that they men don’t have any exclusive space cause they are oppressive for women

So can anyone explain to me how this works ? Or its just another karma ?

nexkell · 2023-09-24T14:13:11+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16qb4gs/upset_that_religious_men_would_not_shake_my_hand/

Men dont' want to shake hands over religious views oh the horror!

Willow-girl · 2023-09-24T14:20:28+00:00

Sunday morning lap nap! Hope he's not planning on going anywhere ... Imgur

baiser_vole · 2023-09-24T14:23:43+00:00

The reactions to my response to Q4W a millionaire hoe vs. loyal taxi driver question was just silly. What is the loyal taxi driver’s superficial value if he isn’t even good looking? Yes, people who are worthless in terms of superficial value will only be liked by their moms most of the time.

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-09-24T14:35:23+00:00

Just got my schedule and my fucking ex is coming back to work too, this is a great month for me, for sure glad God is looking out for his son.

Just had to say yes to the managers daughter, locked in and clocked in.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-24T14:41:05+00:00

The whole roman empire question got me thinking. I indeed think about it at least a couple of times a week. Why is that and is this a male thing ?

John_Oakman · 2023-09-24T14:46:50+00:00

Rejection of the moral/social legitimacy =/= admitting defeat in debates of moral/social legitimacy, as the latter still strives to work within the social/moral framework while the former operates outside of it entirely.

Sillysheila · 2023-09-24T14:49:55+00:00

Caught up with a friend today I haven’t seen in months. I made potato leek soup again (leeks have been great at the fruit n veg market this month) and a side salad.

We also had some ice cream with homemade chocolate olive oil “magic shell” (except without the chemicals) and a bit of salt. Something everyone should try. I’d heard good things about olive oil and chocolate together. I really like both these foods and wow. Sounds weird, but tastes good.

She got me a plant…my coworkers when I left my old job last week also got me a plant (I start my new role in two weeks!) My kitchen windowsill is full of them now. My husband thinks I’m going to get another plant from someone and then we won’t have any more room. He’s a bit worried, lol. But my windowsill looks really pretty.

https://preview.redd.it/5xt7hfqpu7qb1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a888079714a0e959e36ff935e5a4146d9dd4fab0

nexkell · 2023-09-24T14:52:03+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16quj6l/women_have_the_upper_hand_in_attracting_the/

Of course trolling and femcel posts are allowed.

potoricco · 2023-09-24T14:54:53+00:00

Benefits of having women older than you in your life

Free snail mucin 😁

https://preview.redd.it/pafso1pyv7qb1.jpeg?width=981&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8d866ae9261e5641682ae5cf056786c029c02392

She’s 23 so she’s older but not older in that way

business_explained · 2023-09-24T15:13:44+00:00

Holy shit I never knew Japan's population is 125 million. Always thought something atleast half of that.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-24T15:14:34+00:00

CMV

WW2 is more fascinating to men than the Roman empire, bro.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-24T15:14:59+00:00

Leave the feelings to the women and children.

Men act, bro.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-24T15:24:44+00:00

Can eating too little cause extreme emotional instability?

Billsandasonom · 2023-09-24T15:27:52+00:00

I know there are people here with kids already, some with even adult children, but anyway assuming you have a child that you care for and want the best for, is there anything you would teach/tell/advise them about the opposite sex that you yourself don't follow - or you follow certain rules you wouldn't want your children to follow? Some of us I'm sure have adopted unhealthy attitudes and procedure when dating or with gender dynamics and I wonder if there are any honest people here who would share.

NextAd1069 · 2023-09-24T15:55:21+00:00

I'd only date a younger woman if she was a virgin tbh. If i have to "accept her past" anyway then i'd rather date a woman my age.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-24T15:56:14+00:00

my tits looked great yesterday. they’re not that big but i wasnt wearing a bra and they just sat in my dress all perky and beautiful. i’m so lucky and grateful.

i do see how players can grow to hate women, the fact that men are treating me so good right now is really hurting my feelings.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-24T16:14:38+00:00

my dick looked great yesterday. it's not that big but i wasnt wearing an underwear and it just sat in my pants all perky and beautiful. i’m so lucky and grateful.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-24T16:15:39+00:00

A healthy relationship is one of mutual possessiveness, not where you are completely apathetic to what your partner is up to.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-24T16:28:42+00:00

I wish I understood what exactly is so high or unattainable with women's standards.

I also wish I understood why someone's standards are a problem if you're not even attracted to that person.

Mysteries of the universe.

lacuti3 · 2023-09-24T16:40:20+00:00

There’s two guys I follow on IG who are constantly deleting their social media because they’re depressed. Why does social media make people depressed? Their lives aren’t that bad from an outsiders perspective, I guess they think it is.

potoricco · 2023-09-24T17:02:40+00:00

Going to ulta again my favorite store

FlightOfThePigs · 2023-09-24T17:03:03+00:00

Why do extremely ugly and overweight women with no career like my profile when I am looking for a LTR? For reference I'm objectively tall, fit, attractive, and have a good career.

Genuinely curious. Are they delusional into thinking they are a 10 because they are fed so much attention? Or hoping to get lucky?

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-24T17:14:54+00:00

i like men. i love men.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-24T17:15:37+00:00

This is spicy 🔥

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/16q8q65/this_is_by_far_the_worst_dryest_convo_i_ever_had/k1ybnaf/

A guy posts typical dating app texts. It gets a lot of traction and she gets sent to the thread by someone else on the dating app because they recognized her profile pic.

These select quotes from her in other parts of the thread:

lol some guy on hinge sent me the post. i think it’s funny asf because why would he not include the fact that he’s UGLY in this post. like it’s not my fault u have no options and are relying on this conversation to go well 😢 i wouldn’t be rude if he wasn’t asking me about culdesacs tbh

that guy was just ugly so not much effort was needed.

he was ugly AF so he really had no room to talk 😭

i’m looking for friends as well so i sometimes match with people i don’t find attractive to see if we can be friends. but this guy was just trying to have a strange conversation…

People also told her she's fat lol and she denies being a fattie. She posted pics on her profile thinking it's a gotcha to people but only confirmed that she is indeed a fattie. She just deleted her account and you can't see it now. She also posted on gonewild in the past but deleted her pics. They're probably archived in some shady site that people could probably sleuth for them.

Windmill_flowers · 2023-09-24T17:19:28+00:00

Is it okay to make a post about makeup on PPD?

potoricco · 2023-09-24T18:57:12+00:00

Slowest speaking dominican

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-25T00:13:33+00:00

Q4W Part 2: Have you at least ever made a TikTok about a man who approached you in a respectful, socially calibrated way?

meteorness123 · 2023-09-25T00:14:48+00:00

Gonna text a girl soon who I stopped talking to months ago. If she's still down and didn't date around, she gets bonus points for that for sure.

business_explained · 2023-09-25T00:15:43+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/smalldickproblems/s/TILxDaS6xf

Nuclear armageddon colossal blackpill

Mod disclaimer: Before I get banned for incel content, it's not a blackpill, more a dickpill.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-25T00:20:30+00:00

Q4W Part 3: Have any of you ever laughed, giggled, or joked with your friends about a man that approached you in a respectful, socially calibrated way?

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-25T00:26:36+00:00

i’m not bored. i have things to do. i’m getting reddit dopamine hits like so bad. help.

demedermidimi · 2023-09-25T00:30:12+00:00

What about the 19-21cm per penis

a guy with a healthy (19-21 cm) penis

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-25T00:42:17+00:00

What is "princess treatment"?

It's often brought up here, and I'm unclear what it means exactly.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-25T00:46:43+00:00

Anybody who is physically healthy, doesn't deviate too extremely from the norm aesthetically and still bitches about their looks to a ridiculous amount is an ungrateful and spoiled piece of shit

NalkaNalka · 2023-09-25T00:53:11+00:00

These interactions are hilarious:

PPDwomen: false rape accusations are incredibly rare and not a thing bla bla bla

PPDman: disagree, stats only count convicted false accusers which are a small percentage of the total, bla bla bla

PPDWoman: You are a rapist and I hope the cops catch you and throw you in jail.

PPD woman claiming that false rape accusations are incredibly rare then the very next comment falsely accusing people of being rapists for disagreeing with them.

People on here trying to see if their self awareness can actually hit absolute zero.

DuetLearner · 2023-09-25T00:53:19+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/@makeupartistgorda66?_t=8fyCVAc3PjD&_r=1

If someone called this woman attractive, would you say they are being disingenuous?

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-09-25T00:54:31+00:00

Dating advice from women is usually useless at best and insidious at worst. You see it in the TikToks where these well-mannered (yet socially awkward and generally unattractive) dudes lament about how hard it is to get women to like them, and all the women will be commenting that he's perfect the way he is and he just needs to wait for the right one. Lol yeah okay Sarah, how about you date him then? Or introduce him to one of your friends? Didn't think so.

Even the shit they tell their struggling female friends is deluded. "You're beautiful just the way you are girl, just be yourself and your prince will arrive before you know it!" No Becky, your friend is 250 pounds and has a butterfly tramp stamp. You need to tell her to watch her diet if she wants to attract a high-quality man. But if I say this I'm labeled a fatphobic misogynist.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-25T00:57:00+00:00

I think I'd prefer having a daughter over a son

potoricco · 2023-09-25T01:16:40+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/pvm8dpjnyaqb1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5a3715c7a5f2d6d85169a514d8fb9557bbce9c9d

I’m rewatching frozen and

Kristoff omg. Need him like right now. Him and Anna are perfect

afk_row · 2023-09-25T01:24:12+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/lg54objc0bqb1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d300647e045d50304b415e6bc7b4afdad66d62eb

Men want one thing and it’s beautiful

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-25T01:35:27+00:00

I don't know how other men do online dating.

You can spend tens of minutes and a ton of effort carefully crafting a thoughtful message tailoring it to her profile and still have a low chance of her even responding. You're basically sending messages into a void and hoping you'll miraculously get one back.

You can't get excited or become much more than lukewarm interested in a girl, or else you'll be disappointed when she most likely will ghost you or won't even entertain a conversation with you. You have to be completely detached. If you somehow develop the ability to take the emotion out of it, great but what's the point of doing all this work then? If you're not very excited or interested in meeting her, what's the point?

You go on there to at least feel like you're dating or starting some sort of dating interaction, but unless you put in a ton of effort to convince women to even talk to you, you'll end up not even talking to a single woman in a dating context. Your choice is to put in a ton of effort to detachedly message hundreds of women and convince them to even talk to you or literally not be in a mutual interaction with a single woman.

Women don't know how good they have it. Women are able to be excited in a man and have a good chance of him at least chatting and flirting with her. They can enjoy the process and not have to be detached. She doesn't have to be interesting or put in effort in the conversation. She can be natural, herself and enjoy the interaction. She can put in zero effort at all and be in flirty interactions with men she is interested in and excited about.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-25T01:44:42+00:00

Every single one of the posts That i didn't like/found too fucking stupid,has been removed/locked

Holly shit,my manifest game is strong/s

John_Oakman · 2023-09-25T01:48:24+00:00

"Moral virtues don't care about your material results."

"Material results don't care about your moral virtues."

The major factions of this subreddit talking past each other, summarized.

NextAd1069 · 2023-09-25T02:21:42+00:00

I'd only date a younger woman if she was a virgin tbh. If i have to "accept her past" anyway then i'd rather date a woman my age.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-25T02:24:26+00:00

does anyone else think it’s disgusting to use a shower directly after someone else? like the room is all steamy and i can imagine their dead skin cells still stuck to the shower floor

DuetLearner · 2023-09-25T02:53:34+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPR7jmg39/

Let’s say you are a single man. This woman chats you up at the bar. She asks for your number.

Do you decide to move forward?

Peacesquad · 2023-09-25T02:58:51+00:00

Seggs

Peacesquad · 2023-09-25T02:59:02+00:00

What I miss

SianOiseau · 2023-09-25T02:59:47+00:00

Today I worked most of the day and husband did everything around the house. Our male roommate made dinner and his wife was working too. I think husband cooking often has motivated the roommate to pick up his slack, which is a good change.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-25T03:30:37+00:00

i don’t know anything about that gojo anime guy but the things i have seen women say about him on tiktok are absolutely feral.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-09-25T03:39:48+00:00

I once got so drunk I accidentally jerked off to my own ass.

Scrolling through the pics my girlfriend and I sent to each other in the shared images part of iMessage.

She sent a cute booty pic teasing me in sweatpants and I tried to mimic it and send my own version back as a joke not tryna be sexy about it

My drunk kind got confused.

Anyways, happy sabbath ppd

potoricco · 2023-09-25T03:54:43+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/yv1dvza2rbqb1.jpeg?width=2027&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4fc1a3028134471b33439d7b9472f74b743e9127

Look at this absolute fossil of a computer that I just found called Dell Inspiron

I remember using this as a little kid

I’m going to buy a charger and battery for it because I lowkey miss purble place, movie maker, and windows 7 in general. Wow Microsoft really fumbled the bag why

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-25T04:35:25+00:00

this is peak ppd im glad i came back this week even tho i need to disappear again https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/7HsC1mM7qh

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-25T04:38:38+00:00

POV: I’m looking at my tinder results

https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/XG8Sv2LkbZ

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-25T04:38:49+00:00

Many if not most things students learn in school past elementary will arguably be irrelevant in their day-to-day lives as adults. Honestly the only reason they're being taught them is that curriculums are based on the broad liberal arts educations the elite traditionally had. But that was for people who didn't have to work for a living it was just a social status thing.

potoricco · 2023-09-25T05:10:18+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/soccer/s/zexx2wLb8C

Bro it’s so embarrassing seeing hot people playing like shit

Jude you were supposed to be the alpha. Now I just got the ick

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-25T06:04:36+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/tooktoomuch/s/mWZ9j4NuJC

I found my looks match lol

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-25T06:50:53+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/ntyBHSnwS6

ButterflyFabrics · 2023-09-25T07:36:25+00:00

if you cant deadlift 300 for reps you don't deserve the privilege of complaining about dating and women. How are you gonna be a doomer on relationships and built like greg heffley smh my head

okaybear2point0 · 2023-09-25T07:37:11+00:00

the biggest counter to the blackpill is that this guy is 5'3 and pulling all the hoes on twitter

https://preview.redd.it/hmmj4x5vucqb1.jpeg?width=975&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7609a18f9a082851e74cb8fa71047b4e61763240

ButterflyFabrics · 2023-09-25T08:05:01+00:00

ngl saying personality doesnt matter would be a valid if the people saying it didn't have no personality

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-25T08:31:48+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvISRG9OK_a/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Lmfaooo

4SSh01e · 2023-09-25T08:39:11+00:00

I have been increasingly checking out of the dating and it is coming from the place of being actually comfortable with being alone, like the mentality surrounding it now is "my life is okay and peaceful and I would not trade it for anything less than spectacular". I no longer feel any interest in casual sex and have decided that the next person I will sleep with would be someone I would actually like to date. Looking at people making out with randoms on the dance floor just grosses me out. I am like why the fuck would I put my mouth on this rando?

Also, the act of signing up on dating apps, putting your pictures, writing witty or sincere bios just seems so needy and cringe irrespective of whether it is a hot person doing it or an ugly person. They both are clearly looking for a partner. And it’s like two people showing up to buffett, one has money (looks/charm) to get the access to buffett whereas the other one doesn’t (uglier, low SMV) so that person either looks from the sidelines or get bland food, leftovers. But the fact remains that both are hungry.

If you were truly not hungry you wouldn’t even be there, who goes to a Buffett with stomach full?

If you were truly not hungry you would be minding your own business but if someone offered you a pastry and it looked yummy then you might consider eating it.

At some level I realise that my current interpretation is wrong but honestly my personal feelings around it are that if you are looking for it then you need it. Plain and simple.

ButterflyFabrics · 2023-09-25T08:43:52+00:00

daily reminder to join ppd discord

https://preview.redd.it/4x1izrzr6dqb1.png?width=90&format=png&auto=webp&s=4e19f2daa5e0ac8e1a11b3d90fb7ff73201bb40d

supremethrone · 2023-09-25T08:46:20+00:00

You need to accept being alone and dying by yourself, it's really not that bad says the man/woman who has never been single for more than 2 months

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-25T08:57:42+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/ScHu1est0xQ?si=LpqA7NKTHRISZcBy

He has a point

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-09-25T09:19:36+00:00

> Same I slept with 3 guys during one day. One was a date I had the night before so we had sex the morning. After I had a date planned so after we en up at his appartment. But after that I had a dinner with my friend. When I came back an old tinder match text me and I know it will be just for sex so he came

ButterflyFabrics · 2023-09-25T09:48:37+00:00

bruh this sub is ass now all the normies took over

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-09-25T09:55:55+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/16rig1e/21_curious/

I'm in love

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-09-25T10:15:27+00:00

If giving a massage to someone for money is considered real work I don't really see why sex work isn't real work.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-25T11:08:44+00:00

Whenever invented paper applicators hates women and vaginas

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-09-25T11:12:48+00:00

Heard a woman at uni say tampon ads are sexualised

Are tampon companies aiming their ads at men and lesbians ?

potoricco · 2023-09-25T12:49:54+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/zqm03ucpeeqb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eb4426b10296b7bf308bb648b845ef0006c2d289

okaybear2point0 · 2023-09-25T12:51:36+00:00

My types:

- milfs (not fat ones)

- mentally ill chicks (not fat ones)

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-25T12:56:12+00:00

What two seemingly contradictory views do you hold?

1) Casual sex is not the be all and end all, it's not as fulfilling as a loving relationship and men viewing it as the sole defining factor of "success" are often driven by envy.

2) Barely any man will ever regret fucking too many women.

potoricco · 2023-09-25T13:17:02+00:00

Concerned about weight gain since ive basically been forcing myself to eat cake for the past 2 days because barely anyone else in my family eats cake and i banned my brother from having any cake since he disrespected me on my birthday for no reason

Im going to like take huge chunks of it and give it out to friends

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-25T13:31:26+00:00

Anyone have tips on how to reduce bloating and water weight?

business_explained · 2023-09-25T13:31:54+00:00

When I was young I disliked old bitter people. Now I don't understand how people can not be.

I guess for some people most things in life naturally comes to them. They naturally get a girlfriend when they're in puberty, they naturally get a good group of friends and expand their network. Then in uni they naturally get more friends, decent grades and get an ok job.

What do you even have to be bitter about when you have a good job, good romantic life and good social life? The fucking weather? Traffic maybe? Things that are so beyond your control that it's not worth thinking about?

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-09-25T13:39:02+00:00

Never thought I'd be drinking more during my masters than my undergrad

But here we are..

Willow-girl · 2023-09-25T13:54:46+00:00

Dayum! It's been a long time since I've gotten naked for a man other than my boyfriend ...

business_explained · 2023-09-25T20:38:05+00:00

Olivia Rodrigo is cute but needs a bigger ass

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