Daily Community Chat Megathread

monster_lily · 2023-10-20T02:17:40+00:00

Watches anime = Instant dealbreaker

Gladboys · 2023-10-20T02:15:24+00:00

caught myself making eye contact with men on my walk but looking at the sky when passing by women, worrying trend 🤔

GridReXX · 2023-10-20T02:10:43+00:00

For all the guys who think it’s just older women that find age-gap relationships as red flags.

Here’s an 11 year old girl finding it unsettling. It’s just what it is.

The reason most women find it “creepy” is because we remember being young and it being… off.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-20T01:44:02+00:00

Pro tip: If a man complains about wearing condoms, walk the fuck away. He's trash.

Konoha_Shinobee · 2023-10-20T01:14:54+00:00

Why get married? Shouldn't you just trust your partner not to leave you?

bison5595 · 2023-10-20T01:11:44+00:00

I started a post in another forum, but I’ll ask it here for women. Why do you think most men are physically ugly?

monster_lily · 2023-10-20T01:09:35+00:00

Just watched the crucible

Zamn 😍 John proctor and reverend hale were super hot

I hate Abigail

keebydee · 2023-10-20T00:39:48+00:00

I gotta watch Taxi Driver now 👁👁

I saw a clip and I'm hooked

ChasingThatBag666 · 2023-10-20T00:30:51+00:00

I don't understand the obsession with short noses. Long noses are more aesthetically pleasing and beautiful. Just look at 18th century and prior art, you will see that long noses are superior to short noses.

old_new_age · 2023-10-20T00:20:12+00:00

my cope for not getting laid is that sex with a condom on feels like sticking my dick in a toilet paper roll, and I wouldn't want to have unprotected sex with strangers anyway, so masturbating is just superior. idk if there are any actually good condom brands. this would not be a problem but the doctors stole my foreskin without my consent

ChasingThatBag666 · 2023-10-19T23:51:54+00:00

I can't stop thinking about how Taxi Driver is the ultimate movie.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-19T23:50:25+00:00

You know you picked a attractive woman when she still has a pretty face without makeup

I kept this rule when dating many attractive women

meteorness123 · 2023-10-19T23:33:16+00:00

I've had friends who have travelled to another continent for a woman. Crazy. I respect the hustle. I've passed on safe lays because an hour drive was too much for me

webernicke · 2023-10-19T23:32:44+00:00

Honestly, just ask for the damn paternity test. Don't even lie about it to keep the peace.

If she decides to implode the relationship because she gets so offended that you also want the privelige that she enjoys of knowing that your kids are actually yours (gasp! quelle horreur!!) then that's her perogative. Move on with your life. If she wasn't lying, see the kid when you can and if anybody asks, (especially the kid) feel some satisfaction in the truth that you aren't a deadbeat dad, but your ex is an immature drama queen.

End of.

princedune · 2023-10-19T23:21:08+00:00

i got a match boys but she has no bio, whats a good opener help me out

keebydee · 2023-10-19T23:14:03+00:00

I hate going to the grocery store and there be a lot of people/crowded. Why can't people learn to stay home when I'm out?! 😾

ChasingThatBag666 · 2023-10-19T22:59:58+00:00

I just sat through a zoom meeting discussing human trafficking. Even the women who have tried to save human trafficking victims expressed frustration at their clients for continuously going back to their abusers. WHAT DOES IT MEAN?? WHAT DOES IT MEAN??????

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-19T22:48:09+00:00

https://dbarkowsky.github.io/AITA-Analysis/

Very interesting analysis done with the main data point being around age-gap relationships.

It's notable that there are significantly more female posters here, which is almost opposite of the global Reddit gender distribution from 2022 (Statista).

monster_lily · 2023-10-19T22:36:50+00:00

What is the dumbest thing you were ever insecure about

I have a thumb sized birthmark on my leg and when i was like 9 i would legit never wear shorts or skirts because i thought i would get bullied but turns out no one actually cares

monster_lily · 2023-10-19T22:31:26+00:00

Woman privilege

Paying 50c for $1 candy bar at a concession stand

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-19T22:31:09+00:00

Apparently it is disrespectful for a man to offer a woman a cheesecake factory date and she is fighting for women’s empowerment because there is absolutely no way women should be subjugated to a night out at cheesecake factory

DerayRevan · 2023-10-19T22:24:55+00:00

Favorite all-time characters across fiction and Tv series/movies

Walter White(breaking bad)
Obito(Naruto)
Joe Goldberg(You)
Ragnar Lothbrok(Vikings)
Patrick bateman(America psycho)

meteorness123 · 2023-10-19T22:13:13+00:00

When some chick tells me that I'm misogynistic, I shrug my shoulders and say "Woman, you better get to massagin'disdick."

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-19T22:09:16+00:00

Men and women both suck. I hope the world ends

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-19T21:49:51+00:00

More info on Fedora:

Extremely judgmental of other people, especially women, but as soon as someone make assumptions of him, he cries “You dont know me!”
Keeps whining about girls only wanting Chad, but he only wants the hottest girls in an area.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-19T21:45:51+00:00

Nobody comes to the father except through me.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-19T21:40:43+00:00

The 6 feet thing is a meme based on lower spatial reasoning. It's just tall, not tall, taller than everyone else. It's kind of stupid but I have literally talked to a girl who was 5'1 and she said her boyfriend was "5'6 maybe 5'10?". She literally could not tell. The reason you see the massive jump between 5'11 and 6 on apps is for the same reason. 6 just means "oh tall". You would swear you set your height as 5'9 and some girls will think you are the same height as danny devito when they see it meanwhile you tower over them and could dunk them one handed boom shakalaka like it was NBA Street. Saw a 4x boost removing my height on Hinge and Im 5'6 lol

baiser_vole · 2023-10-19T21:31:07+00:00

I got to know what my boyfriend’s trainer says to motivate my boyfriend for the last push. Apparently it is, “Do it for [insert my name here]!” I laughed so much when I found out.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-19T21:10:51+00:00

Britney Spears was smart for getting an abortion when Justin told her he wasn’t tryna be a dad right now

Maffioze · 2023-10-19T20:59:20+00:00

There are so many bomb threats here since the conflict in Israel started. It's quite frightening.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-19T20:58:48+00:00

Q4All: If you think Paternity tests should be mandatory and made a legal requirement by the government, should they then be able to keep your DNA on file?

butagoodpersonality · 2023-10-19T20:57:08+00:00

Is it racist if I go as a luchalibre for Halloween?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-19T20:50:12+00:00

Q4A Part 1: Who is the most physically attractive guy you personally know? What is he like?

Q4A Part 2: Who is the most physically attractive woman you personally know? What is she like?

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-10-19T20:46:47+00:00

PPD enthusiasts, I need a broader perspective. Was having a solid debate about the wage gap. I posited that the wage gap doesn’t exist, simply because wages are reflective of demand. Driven by need. What I think to be a very basic concept of trade, commerce etc..

Is this false?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-19T20:45:44+00:00

Im a dinosaur when it comes to video games (gta san andreas) as I just gave up on them early on. What are your top 5 video games ?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-19T20:45:18+00:00

More info on my character Fedora, ‘The Nicest Guy in school’:

Cant admit his faults even when its obvious. Always tries to rationalize them but most people can see right through him.
Gloats about being in a “normal family” even though both parents neglect him and he’s an iPad kid that got coddled all his life.
Demands rewards for putting in minimal effort.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-19T20:35:19+00:00

If you purchase something online, you want to make sure its a real item and not counterfeit for your piece of mind, right? Thats how we men feel about the possibility of a child not being ours.

Yes, I just compared online purchases to child birth. Cry about it.

sine120 · 2023-10-19T20:34:50+00:00

Are veterinarians better at vetting?? 🤔🤔🤔

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-19T20:28:08+00:00

Personality matters but not nearly as much as women on here try to trick men into believing when so many women typically form to whatever the guy they are fucking is like anyway

They pick up his interests, hobbies, slang, mannerisms etc if she is REALLY into him. I have seen this happen a lot

If a guy is fucking a girl VERY WELL, trust me, that personality shit goes out the window. They don’t care (not all women, before yall come for my head)

keebydee · 2023-10-19T20:27:26+00:00

Sometimes I hate how different I am from my younger brother. People have always thought he was the older one and he actually gets offers from women nowadays because he's not the autistic one. A painful memory my mind is making me relive is when random kids would come up to us and ask him what was wrong with me since I couldn't talk to them. Extremely embarrassing and felt so dehumanizing.

Gladboys · 2023-10-19T20:23:19+00:00

is it dumb of me to exercise full body every time i workout? i know for conventional weightlifters they split their days into groups but my situation prevents me from getting that intensity

my university gym is shit and overcrowded and the closest commercial gym is $300/month so i've been making do with some home dumbbells. in my situation should i still split my workouts into groups? or with my lowered intensity is it fine to continue as is.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-19T20:23:15+00:00

People who are a net tax loss should not be able to vote until they are a net tax profit again. Easy and cheap way to incentivise people to work and boost budgets.

And before anyone tells me, I know that would also mean I wouldn't be able to vote.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-19T20:12:03+00:00

Fuckk why when I was young couldn't my parents have told me that singers and musicians can make great money and be seen very well in status. Would've spent my entire youth up to my current age just singing and trying to make it. Even if I didn't succeed I always could've done some degree, probably at the age I am now. I loved singing as a kid. Oh well.

Growing up I thought they were seen as losers for some reason. Unironically thought that accountants and programmers were cool for making money. Christ I was such a fool.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-19T20:00:53+00:00

Looks
Personality
Money

You have to allocate 15 points total into those 3 attributes (max ten point on an attribute). How do you allocate your points?

SianOiseau · 2023-10-19T20:00:38+00:00

To add to the paternity test discussion.

I'd support mandatory paternity tests if they went with a universal DNA database. It would make easier to find criminals, find real fathers (and relatives in case of need) and would be a huge help to researches working with DNA.

Realistically most likely we won't see it implemented. It isn't something the state greatly benefits from and if some men have doubts, they can seek the test on their own.

I get both sides - from one hand, yes, men don't have this certainty that a child is theirs. It comes with a perk of not getting your body destroyed, but hey, grass is always greener. From the other, it is the indication that you don't trust your partner and you think that the chance she's cheated on you and decided to fuck everything up in this inhuman way is big enough to ask for the test.

If I was a man I'd spin it as "I trust you, but I have this anxiety and I don't think I can overcome it". It is also something that you should discuss before marriage and kids. Getting it out of your pants when she's pregnant or has given birth is a shitty move.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-19T19:58:40+00:00

Read old texts between me and a girl. Oh my god I was so cringe in highschool, I want to go back in time and punch myself in the head.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-19T19:58:40+00:00

Been friend zoned? Here's what to do:

You communicate your position of not being comfortable with the friendship. She calls you a opportunist, creep, spreads rumours about and gaslights you

OR

You ghost them softly by keeping a distance from them, gradually. You use the time alone to gain a lot of muscle, make loads of money and date even better looking women.

Having done both, I suggest you go for option 2.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-19T19:57:26+00:00

you're just a closed minded feminist cunt

With this comment, I got my first PPD BINGO of the day.

Rewarded myself with sushi for lunch. 🍣 Seemed fitting for the "cunt" insult. 🤣🤣

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-19T19:56:32+00:00

Reminder, attachment styles are not real and are not an excuse for dumb behaviour

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-19T19:49:48+00:00

I thought it was a lie that guys dont know the difference between niceness and spinelessness. I’m sorry to say it’s true.

Do people not understand you can be a nice person, and not let everyone take a advantage of you? This is why VETTING is very important, including for men, so you’re not wasting time being nice to ingrates.

I keep assuming that people understand common sense shit and its very hard to stop. I still can’t believe guys are boldly admitting that they got their dating advice from fictional stories and see absolutely nothing wrong with that.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-19T19:41:43+00:00

As a straight man you don't want her options because her options are other dudes unless you want to suck dick too. You want another guys options. You're in competition with other dudes, not women.

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-19T19:35:05+00:00

"Lol, just because I flirt with people I have zero interest in doesn't mean I'm leading them on."

Do people just have no self awareness anymore or are we being trolled?

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Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-19T13:02:53+00:00

First

keebydee · 2023-10-19T13:03:50+00:00

More Lillth crazy lady nice guy posting. How fun. 😒

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-19T13:03:54+00:00

Having to cut off your Bootycall before you become “official” with someone else has always been awkward lol. I’ve had it happen to me, where I’m sleeping with a girl while she’s dating another guy but he wants to wife her up, so now I have to get cut off. In one situation she came back to me after a month because the dude was horrible in the sack.

A lot of women will tell you, it sucks when you meet a guy who checks all your boxes. He’s good looking, has a nice career, has good morals, no kids, etc… but he just can’t lay pipe.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-19T13:05:01+00:00

The daily PPD changeover is always just when I feel chatty + am being downvoted for the most neutral takes on earth like…”I bake bread for my friends”. Lol - why are you so angry?

saraimarsena · 2023-10-19T13:10:41+00:00

a guy just approached me and i didn’t even call the cops on him 😱

he seemed kinda nervous, and it struck me how cold approaching takes a lot of guts. i’ve cold approached people for work before but if i were a man i’d probably be entirely too nervous approach a woman i found attractive. he was really respectful so i didn’t mind the interaction, just wasn’t interested

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-10-19T13:17:25+00:00

afk_row · 2023-10-19T13:23:49+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/d1ktjz1mu5vb1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9b5ac7e991c01873e567c61a2b2e320b92772a13

You cant make this shit up 🤣

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-10-19T13:32:54+00:00

So, from this "Woman films man persistently hitting on her while she is trying to work" video: https://np.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/179yi7u/woman_films_man_persistently_hitting_on_her_while/

a top comment is

Don't open with "are you in high school" lol

but I think "Are you in high school?" is a great question. It gives her an easy out, much better than the "I have a boyfriend" lie.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-19T13:50:18+00:00

this subreddit has given me a lot of devious ideas about how to treat men, but i’m not a bad person so i will not act on them

ratboi34 · 2023-10-19T14:00:14+00:00

That's a real man.

https://youtube.com/shorts/GhiF21a__xs?feature=shared

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-19T14:01:41+00:00

Jordan Vandersloot confessing to killing Natalie Hollaway reminds me when people made a big deal about that case and claimed it was an example of missing white woman syndrome. The thing is you have to be white but you also have to be pretty and young. Those are the key elements, if you look like Lena Dunham no one is gonna care, if you’re 58 years old no one is gonna care

ChadRLite · 2023-10-19T14:16:09+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/17b7xv1/why_do_people_do_this/

Genuinely shitty thing that people, men and women, do to each other on apps that should be changed. Societally this is just a shit dirtbag move and we should treat it that way.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-19T14:17:31+00:00

Omg Taylor Hill cut her hair and looks like a 19 year old French pretty boy, that's so hot.

https://youtu.be/imPYV0zU3eI?feature=shared

Since I have discovered discovered the blackpill and that we rate women higher as men on looks, whenever I think a woman is attractive, I put her photo into a gender swap filter to see how she looks as a guy. If I should ever date again that will be my strategy. If she doesn't look like a handsome dude I can't bang her anymore.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-19T14:32:33+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/s/Cq3MaCLA9y

Female version of betabuxx and their's no sign of "He choose you" type of comment

Holiday_Artichoke_86 · 2023-10-19T14:32:40+00:00

How do I start a conversation with this girl at uni?

I'm in the first year of uni, and I guess I could say that I have social anxiety, but I'm trying to get better. I already made friends at uni, so I take that as a win. So there is this girl at uni and she is kinda cute, definitely my type, she seems to be shy and doesn't talk much. I have thought about talking to her, but I just don't know what to say after greetings. Any advice or help?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-10-19T14:45:14+00:00

Reading over many of the paternity posts has me shaking my head. It reminds me of one time I befriended a woman working at a retail store. I told her I wanted to get to know her more without realizing she was married, with 2 kids. She gave me her contact anyway... fast forward a couple of months and we're fucking all over the US as she traveled a lot for work. They paid for her flights and hotel. We very quickly moved from being safe and protected to ... not.

She had no interest in leaving her husband, and it was all fun and lust until one time I was about to orgasm and she said to cumm inside her. I laughed and said what would happen if and she cut me off with "we'd make a beautiful child, boy or girl, and don't worry, I'd pass it off as his. He'll never suspect." As hot as that was in the moment, looking back, that was batshit crazy! Crazier still, from her husband's POV, she was the perfect, angelic, loyal wife. Married young, bore his kids, he treated her well. After almost two decades of being married she was just "bored".

Women do NOT have the same sense of integrity and honor a man has. They just don't.

monster_lily · 2023-10-19T14:49:00+00:00

The last math section on the psat just kicked my ASS i guessed on like 4 questions, plus when did they put geometry on it bruh

Also i am the first cohort to take it digital i think. My sat will be digital as well. Haha lamers

ChadRLite · 2023-10-19T14:52:17+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F0ihiituaj1vb1.jpg

Found the PPDman.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-19T14:53:54+00:00

When you question alot of guys enough, you’ll notice that they have a hard-on for ratchet girls just like the girls they criticize have a thing for bad boys. Like I said, it’s very easy to avoid terrible trashy women…….if you ACTUALLY want to avoid them.

What an interesting coincidence that the terrible women that so many guys here know are also the same type of women that are extremely popular with men!

purplish_possum · 2023-10-19T15:03:21+00:00

Gotta love the paternity test thread.

Women: "Guys need to stop complaining about bad women and *just vet better**."*

Also women: "NOT LIKE THAT!"

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-19T15:07:11+00:00

-> When I was a teenager, I was obsessed with playing the sims on my computer.One day, I created a family but had the wife cheat on her husband and get pregnant by another sim. It made me so horny I had to stop playing the game just to masterbate.

Lol women

monster_lily · 2023-10-19T15:15:54+00:00

Why asking for a paternity test is Worse than suspecting cheating

As a man what is stopping you, if you have a reasonable suspicionn of paternity fraud, what is stopping you from taking a cotton swab and buying ancestrydna or something? But when you confront for one, the purpose isnt to find out if youre the father, the purpose is to humiliate them and bully them into doing it for you. That is why paternity fraud and cheating arent comparable

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-19T15:30:13+00:00

This obsession with paternity tests in this sub is so fucking gross.

And so damn immature. JFC. This sub really is just high schoolers and college kids with no actual experiences, just unhinged revenge fantasies towards women.

keebydee · 2023-10-19T15:34:30+00:00

I'm getting sick of this paternity test talk. It's not interesting and people here have been getting annoying x10 because of it. Everything was fine before Lillth came back. 😒😒

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-19T15:37:29+00:00

That’s paternity test talk just proves that guys here just want the absolute worst women and then wanna blame other women because they don’t know how to vet.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-19T15:45:46+00:00

Paternity terror is the order of the day I see. Well, if you are so uncertain the child is yours, that is partially on you. The only domains I see that being a serious issue are the kind of people on Maury and Jerry Springer. I think most people in a healthy committed relationship have the expectation of the child belonging to them.

I see nothing wrong with asking for a paternity test though in the situations where it would be reasonable or if you have a reasonable suspicion that the child isn't yours. For example if she was a hook up or if she is asking for child support, or if you know she has been unfaithful.

Men consistently make problems where there aren't any, or make incongruent and incompatible comparisons. Like damn, if you feel a paternity test is warranted, then do it. If you feel a woman is using you for a free meal under the guise of being a date, then don't go on that date.

It took me a long time to realize this because I know as men we are often desperate, but we can have our own standards when it comes to women. It can be out of self preservation too, it doesn't have to be spiteful or adversarial.

ChasingThatBag666 · 2023-10-19T15:48:40+00:00

I am just looking over some sports photos I took of the varsity girls' soccer team. I guess the only way to get a good shot is to take as many pictures as possible and then pick out the good ones. I don't feel skilled at all lol

ratboi34 · 2023-10-19T15:54:43+00:00

If women had a bulletproof way of testing men's fidelity, I'm sure almost all of them would do it, even if they trusted their partners. I don't think women get mad at the paternity test thing, because of a lack of trust, but because they want unconditional love and wanting a paternity test would maybe imply that you only love her if it's your child. There was a twitter poll recently that asked men and women: "If you lost weight and your partner started being nicer to you, this would be.." The possible answers were "a good thing", "a bad thing". The vast majority of men thought of it as a good thing and most women as a bad thing. I think men have more of an understanding, that they have to do shit to be liked by women. Women want to be liked no matter what. That's why a woman will ask you, if you would still love her if she was a worm.

sine120 · 2023-10-19T15:55:03+00:00

The sales guys at work are demoing our product for a customer site and they got some sweet videos of an A-10 coming in for a landing. I'm extremely jealous.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-10-19T15:55:29+00:00

Let’s keep this going.

CMV: the paternity testing push is for hypothetical wives or partners these men don’t even have yet. Usually once there’s a face and a name associated with the scheming whamen, humanization enters the chat and that distrust diminishes. Most people who are seeking paternity testing have some reason to believe the kid might not be theirs to begin with.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-19T15:59:29+00:00

There's no point in arguing with virgins here anymore. Waste of time, space, and energy.

They tell on themselves so often it's easy enough to avoid them.

Though they love trying to talk to me. But I'll ignore them since they are used to it anyway.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-19T16:00:52+00:00

I dunno why but for some reason I have noticed far far more readheads at my university lately 🤔

Great job ladies,keep it up

saulbasedman · 2023-10-19T16:02:30+00:00

The Saulbasedman theorem: don't just blindly look at a woman's face on tinder, she may have considerable assets underneath.

Made this mistake myself. Darn.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-19T16:03:13+00:00

Q4A: When you met your partner, did you immediately know that they were right for you, or did it take time for you to warm up to them?

I’ve heard a lot of people who said that they knew they were talking to “the one” within one conversation, and others who knew their partner for years before falling in love.

demedermidimi · 2023-10-19T16:05:32+00:00

It's a nothingburger if you're a sane woman who understands what is at stake.

maybe if you gaslight yourself that women who wouldn't be fine with being accused of cheating and paternity fraud are the insane ones, it becomes real lol

inb4 "it's not an accusation"- it's an accusation you just think it's a justified one. now let's get back to discussing n count or chad or whatever

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-19T16:06:48+00:00

I really think women who are overreacting about the topic of paternity tests and insulting guys who wanna do it are low on emotional stability and empathy.

I mean if my partner wanted to check my phone to see if I was cheating, I'd give it just like that cause I know it's her anxious that's the issue and I got nothing to hide. Though if it was over and over again, it'd get a bit annoying

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-19T16:11:24+00:00

Did you hit your bed frame squats today?

itzReborn · 2023-10-19T16:11:58+00:00

Do you guys approach other men as you do women? For example you see a guy sitting alone and you just casually start a convo with him? I never done this because I have no need to so maybe that’s why I feel it’s awkward if I wanna do it with a woman

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-19T16:14:07+00:00

Most men would rather be with a baddie, they however lack the SMV to attract them

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-19T16:14:52+00:00

Heartbreak should lead to the gym

Not drugs, alcohol, crying or sad music, that's beta behaviour.

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-19T16:16:34+00:00

1 rule for men. Do not take advice from women on what it means to be a man. Do not acquiesce to women defining what manhood is, either positive or negative.

So many debates on POD involve women defining what the male experience is, and what parts of it should/shouldn't matter to men.

Do not let them dictate to you what your experience is.

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-10-19T16:18:34+00:00

A home DNA paternity test (for personal knowledge and peace of mind only) costs $130 to $200. At that price point you might as well get it.

sine120 · 2023-10-19T16:25:54+00:00

https://www.myheritage.com/dna/dna-test-kit

If you really want a test and don't want to frame it as an accusation of cheating, just get the family genealogy kits, and get it for the whole family. You might discover some cool information, it doesn't cost a whole lot, and it's framed as something interesting rather than "I need to protect myself from paternity fraud".

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-19T16:28:34+00:00

One big take away from this subreddit is that place alot of asshole guys will never admit that theyre assholes. They just assume the guy they’re jealous of is the asshole (Chad), but when non-Chad are being inconsiderate to others, then the rationalization begins. Never believing he’s ever in the wrong.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-19T16:29:33+00:00

Are there actually any guys here that fulfill the 6 6 6 standards? Let's add another 6 for 6/10 face. Are you a 6 6 6 6 man?

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-10-19T16:36:57+00:00

The only think that any man should take away from this sub. No woman cares about you or your virtue as an individual outside of your family. You have to make a life that you want to live on your own. Unapologetically, if you find away to be attractive to women , good. But making a monster effort to do so just to get rejected for years is useless. Live for yourself. And treat them as you would treat a man .

LoFiPanda14 · 2023-10-19T16:38:13+00:00

What’s for lunch today you peasants?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-19T16:40:09+00:00

"I'm convinced that getting a girlfriend/getting laid in many ways is pure luck and happenstance. Nothing more"

Only inexperienced men think that it is

DerayRevan · 2023-10-19T16:40:15+00:00

"I'm convinced that getting a girlfriend/getting laid in many ways is pure luck and happenstance. Nothing more"

Only inexperienced men think that it is

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-19T16:51:58+00:00

It's not "Here son mommy is teaching you how to get a sloppy top 3000", it's more like if you act like this you will attract a partner. They aren't literally thinking about the sex part because the assumption isn't that you will be celibate with your partner. An older brother doesn literally need to say "Here's how you get laid bro" either, it's "Heres how you get a girlfriend (subtext being you will probably 'get laid'). What's with the density here like we are trying to smack Lead against Uranium.

CringeButCorrect · 2023-10-19T16:52:18+00:00

Feminists love saying "Trust, but verify" but when a man gets a paternity tests, that goes out the window.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-19T16:52:39+00:00

Feminists are sexually disgusted by the type of man they want to mold you into, a fat feminine lap dog

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-19T16:56:31+00:00

Spider-Man 2 comes out at midnight. We also have season 2 of Invincible and Shoresy right around the corner

Nothing else matters for atleast the next month

ratboi34 · 2023-10-19T17:06:30+00:00

Question for the women, on a topic I might make a thread on - Be honest please:

What is your ideal dick size? (pick a specific size pls) What is the bare minimum? Do you have a different size preference for long term and short term relationships? Have you ever rejected a man because of his size?

richard_golbes · 2023-10-19T17:10:00+00:00

All these dudes worried about paternity need to have children with a woman of a difference race in order to make the potential deception more complicated.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-19T17:16:55+00:00

It's pretty interesting that the hivemind of women sent out the program software to all women to say that disliking cats is a red flag. Personally I strongly dislike cats, to the point I would even say I h*** them.

Dog seem like the superior pet to me. A dog is more then a pet. It is friend. Historically, dogs have proven to be men's best friend time and time again whether it was helping the men hunt for food or to protect the family home from burglars. They are also very clean animals, with some breeds not wanting to shit in the house because they understand this is where they live and they don't want filth.

Yet cat's, quite literally, shit in the house on kitty litter. Which to me is honestly fucking disgusting. They are also lazy and don't care about their owners.

ChadRLite · 2023-10-19T17:17:24+00:00

Nah, you know what is a more fun experiment? When summer comes around, add something to your profile that vaguely suggests you have a boat or have access to a boat. I did it this last year and my likes coming in literally quadrupled.

Genius move and I'm eagerly awaiting the next boatpill update.

Still waiting on grannypill poster to make with the receipts of their experiment.

keebydee · 2023-10-19T17:18:51+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/specialed/comments/179y7ap/4th_grader_mad_about_being_pulled_out/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

I fucking hated pulled out of class to go see my psychiatrist. So embarrassing and I just had to endure it for nearly my entire school life. I feel so delusional for ever thinking that maybe girls liked me while I'm going to see a shrink in the middle of damn class. 😞

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-10-19T17:20:43+00:00

Anxiety over paternal certainty just isn't a thing in my world... and I feel like its coded for a certain socioeconomic class that would freappear on Maury Povich in my childhood. 👀

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-19T17:26:11+00:00

Everybody is addicted to something

Some people are addicted to porn, drugs, alcohol

Some are addicted to making money, getting in shape, and improving their life

saulbasedman · 2023-10-19T17:42:01+00:00

The rounder a women's face, the bigger her assets. The sharpier, the flatter.

Agree or disagree?

MalandiBastos · 2023-10-19T17:42:30+00:00

SEA update:

Been in manila for 2 weeks now. Have had sex with 3 women so far and been on dates with about 7. Actually lower than I expected compared to my last trip, which I had fucked like 10 girls by this point, but in part its because I changed my gameplan. My last trip I would just spam for sex.

This time I started by only taking the slow approach and taking more attractive women on dates, but the amount of time, attention and effort they want me to frontload in order to get sex is too exhausting so I am now returning to the spam for sex method. Which netted me 2 of the 3 current lays back to back in the last 2 days.

Although things have gotten a bit more competitive as there are more western tourists coming here now, I also got more attractive since my last visit so it seems to be about net neutral in terms of difficulty for me.

A lot of people think that these women only want every western guy here for material reasons, but if you could see things thru my eyes you would disagree.

How things went for me today:

I messaged a girl on a dating app this morning, and within about 1 hour from first message she was already on her way over. We went directly to my livingroom couch and I put on netflix while we spent about half an hour doing small talk. Then I put a pillow on her legs and rested my head on it. She started rubbing my beard, and telling me how handsome I was. After a little while longer I just said "is it cool if we go to my room now?" She said yes. So we just walked into my bedroom, I lifted up the blanket on the bed and motioned for her to lay down which she did. About 2 minutes of cuddling and light fondling later I just told her to take off her clothes and she did.

She told me I was the first foriegn guy she had been with. When I would close my eyes for a long period of time to rest them I would open them and it was because I could feel her just staring at me, and she would tell me something like im handsome and she cant stop looking at me.

The stories of the other 2 girls are too similar to tell, but the common theme is them just being way more forward and into things than my experience with women in the west.

I met a girl yesterday and the day before, I wouldve had 2 more dates earlier this week but I canceled because I was sick, the first girl I met is spending the weekend with me, but before she comes over im going on a date with a different girl. After the weekend girl leaves on sunday morning a new girl is scheduled to come over for sex that afternoon.

NotMattDamien · 2023-10-19T17:42:46+00:00

Once you get passport pilled, there’s almost no going back

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-19T17:43:03+00:00

Damn you lamestream media, why am I still seeing a now debunked story that was developed by a terrorist group, still reported as fact on major news channels?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-19T17:46:50+00:00

I changed my flair to #1 fan of women, but I want to assure everyone I'm being ironic.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-19T17:54:22+00:00

If a man asks you, why are you wearing your favourite and sexy underwear to work, he is basically asking if you are wearing it for someone at work or someone you will meet after work, will you then file for divorce because he asked why are you wearing that underwear?

I can't believe someone seriously wrote this. Like what in the actual fuck.

Are husbands just watching their wives get dressed and noticing the underwear they put on? And the concept that a woman can't wear "sexy underwear" to work because she's going to cheat? JFC.

Y'all should just stay single if you're so worried that every woman is going to cheat on you.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-19T17:54:27+00:00

I wish women wouldn't lose their scent. It's so sad.

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-19T18:12:33+00:00

The paternity test is not for the benefit of the father only but also to the child who deserve to know their real father. And also to society as a whole by preventing incest between siblings and exposing little whores.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-19T18:24:39+00:00

Why do chicks friendzone you and then continue initiating contact with you. Doesn't make sense to me and I'm curious what the objective or aim is

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-19T18:30:47+00:00

This subreddit will definitely answer why 30% of young men are single.

Imagine asking why women treat their friends like friends.

princedune · 2023-10-19T18:31:34+00:00

This whole paternity test debate isn't going to end. You aren't going to convince women that its a good thing, they don't understand the privilege of being 100% certain their child is theirs.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-19T18:33:23+00:00

My first day at my job l'll never forget, overslept and my friend had to wake me up and came in at the last hour

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-19T18:36:47+00:00

Wooohoo, today Super Mario Wonder is officially released for the Switch. And there are videos already on YouTube that are 2 days old that has the entire playthrough. Huge spoiler that I didn't expect.

grillopie · 2023-10-19T18:38:41+00:00

what happened to u/injectadrenochrome after the breakdown? u ok?!

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-19T18:42:32+00:00

Want to escape the friendzone, increase your SMV.

If you are still getting friend zoned by mids, you are probably fat, broke and a low ranking beta male who doesn't ooze f-boy vibes.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-19T18:47:21+00:00

Writing for my antagonist, Fedora:

Is upset that nice guys like him never get a date but assholes do.
Gets a date….immediately dumps her because she didn’t fuck him by date 4 and then proceeded to make racist assumptions about her.
Not that smart, so he looks at things from a basic surface level analysis.
Thinks he’s an intellectual, but really prefers when someone tells him what to think.
Thinks all the guys that get laid more than he does are assholes.
Thinks all the guys in healthy relationships are simps and beta males.
Insist that he’s the nicest guy at school despite always being called out for his inconsiderate behavior.
Thinks he’s being bullied because he’s constantly called out for his inconsiderate behavior.
Always says “A child not embraced by the village will burn it to feel its warmth” when he doesnt get his way.
Finally starts his villain arc and the main response from onlookers was “Took you long enough to be honest!”
People have tried to be his friend, but he usually just wants to get his dick wet from the female friends and he wants the male friends to kiss his ass all the time.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-19T19:10:32+00:00

I got tired of cooking with shitty equipment. Few weeks ago I decided to buy Vitamix, Microplane, better knives and that rod for sharpening them (I have been studying better cutting techniques), stainless steel pans without toxic coatings, etc. I made two wooden cutting boards and bought some industrial grade plastic ones. I hate spending money but these purchases bring me joy.

What should I get next?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-19T19:11:46+00:00

Aside from health and money reasons, personality is the most decisive factor determining whether someone is in a relationship or not.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-19T19:25:22+00:00

Do you guys think at 27 I am too old to get the broccoli haircut and chase after 21yo egirls?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-19T19:28:40+00:00

Just once, I'd like to see a real-life example.

Not these silly little platitudes of what women want or don't want.

Give me real-life examples. Oh wait, you can't. Because RP shit is all made up myths and toxic talking points. No actual reality.

monster_lily · 2023-10-19T22:34:18+00:00

As a man why do you wear size small

sine120 · 2023-10-20T02:49:39+00:00

It's honestly a great cyclical business model for content creators to rile up their young audience, cause them to distrust and not form relationships with women, and then when they get mad about their lack of relationship success, come back and consume more content.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-20T02:57:01+00:00

I fucking hate being an adult virgin with braces. They told me it would be two years of braces and it’s going to be three soon. I just want them to take them off, I don’t care that my teeth aren’t perfect.

keebydee · 2023-10-20T03:37:24+00:00

Is trying to get into a relationship even worth it if you're not Chad? 😞

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-20T03:56:42+00:00

CMV: Men need to stop pushing this narrative that we’re getting locked up for talking to women, it’s pathetic

scwizard · 2023-10-20T03:58:09+00:00

Her: "what's your sign?"

Me: "cancer"

Her: "byeeeeeee"

Damn i missed out on true love because I was born in the wrong month lol

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-20T04:05:49+00:00

Q4M when a woman hugs you in a friendly way, can you feel her boobs? Do you think "heh boobs" ?

Is there a way of hugging without pressing the boobs against a guy?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-20T04:06:48+00:00

Who is going to watch the Golden Bachelor?
These are people in my age range and I haven’t watched an episode yet but the clips I’ve seen make me think I’d rather stick a knitting needle in my eyeball than compete with a bunch of single older women to live with this completely nice widower man in his lake house in Indiana hosting bbq’s.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-20T04:14:03+00:00

Is it gay to call your girl friends the "girlies"

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-20T04:16:10+00:00

If you’re gonna do a paternity test, don’t ask her to do it just get it done without her knowledge! You don’t blow up the relationship with a real one, and if it’s not yours you can covertly screw her in the divorce before she screws you. How are y’all so stupid?

keebydee · 2023-10-20T04:20:38+00:00

Thank god for my happy music. It really helps the repetitive thoughts that I get every night before bed. 😞

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-20T04:30:08+00:00

I am not saying it is all of your problems, i do see so many men here who are stuck in the past and hold so many regrets of what they didn't experience compared to others. This is not uncommon generally too many people have regrets and unmeet expectation.

The bad news is that the more you are prisoner to your past, more time flies by. You don't need to keep comparing yourself to others, you maybe on chapter 1 while others maybe on chapter 10.

Remember the moment you meet anyone new or in public, they have no information on you. Our brains work on evidence based. Anything you give away about yourself is based on your body language and appearance.

Willow-girl · 2023-10-20T05:13:26+00:00

Today I celebrated my birthday by taking one of our cats in for gender reassignment surgery.

Sillysheila · 2023-10-20T05:40:19+00:00

One thing I don’t get about this subreddit sometimes is the amount of people being afraid of being in an AF/BB relationship but then also say women should date people they aren’t attracted to.

It just seems directly contradictory to me…I dunno if I believe in AF/BB but if you don’t want to be in an AF/BB why do you want women who aren’t attracted to you to date you?

keebydee · 2023-10-20T07:25:19+00:00

I'm just too undesirable 😞

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-20T08:18:53+00:00

One thing that I realize about me that is pretty fucked up is that I absolutely can't believe that a woman could be genuinely sexually attracted to me.

I'm not ugly, but I'm not good looking either. I'm 5'7, 135 lbs, very weak physically, extremely submissive sexual energy, face is average 5/10.

I know the advice is going to be: go lift bro, but it's not really the point. The point is that in my current state I have a hard time believing that even 0.01% of women could be sexually attracted to me and that's just wild to think about.

But yes, I'll probably "go lift bro" eventually.

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-20T08:34:27+00:00

Most say confidence is important in dating but they don't say why. At a subconscious level it communicates social proof or pre selection. Humans are uncomfortable in new situations, if you come off confidence you are showing that you have been rewarded before by others.

Women do not have superpower or senses, but they tend to relay on subconscious communication much more and are more intend to such things. It maybe due to being physically weaker sex or due to pregnancy. Obviously for millions we did not have contraceptive or prevent pregnancy like we have now. Her picking the wrong mate could result the death of her and her baby.

Research shows 3/4 of communication is nonverbal and subconscious, and that is a conservative estimate.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-20T08:39:33+00:00

It’s almost scary how much my cycle affects my libido and feelings of attraction. I don’t have period pain or serious mood swings, but my desires have their own life.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-20T09:24:50+00:00

incel trait: women look away from you when passing you by on the street

dbz__f · 2023-10-20T09:53:22+00:00

Just browsed front page of AITA

Without even reading any of the threads, I can tell all the posters are BPD giga-Karens who escalate every simple argument, burn bridges, play the victim, look for sympathy and validation, and are general cunts.

This is exactly why men (and women) need to be picky about who to marry. Imagine spending your life with one of these monsters who turns every family event into a fiasco and constantly fueds with your relatives over nothing.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-10-20T10:33:51+00:00

God damn, 1 and a half weeks of no gym whilst on holiday has made me feel weak. Now I understand why people just don't ever take breaks, it's shitty feeling like you've gone backwards.

Ah well, what's the point in a holiday if you don't get hedonistic af?

saulbasedman · 2023-10-20T10:49:31+00:00

Explain why I should not buy a 2 year government bond with a coupon rate of 5%, a price of 99.71% of its face value and a yield of 5.16%

princedune · 2023-10-20T11:08:30+00:00

bro i cant believe theres still people who think men have higher standards than women 🤯

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-20T11:15:38+00:00

Reminder, assholes don't always realize they're assholes. Some are narcissista that will always think they're the good guys, then play victim when their shitty actions have consequences.

monster_lily · 2023-10-20T12:05:28+00:00

Good Morning

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-10-20T12:06:04+00:00

I can't take any arguments about mandatory paternity testing seriously because it's dead obvious to me that they haven't thought of the costs and logistics of such a policy.

File it under the "wouldn't be nice if-" category.

saraimarsena · 2023-10-20T12:07:20+00:00

Q4A: what’s your stance on checking phones in a relationship? do you check your partner’s phone?

monster_lily · 2023-10-20T12:09:46+00:00

Idk why some people here go on subreddits they know they will hate and then get mad because they hate it. I am guilty of this

GridReXX · 2023-10-20T12:19:59+00:00

I know guys here think it’s only dudes who put in effort tryna make conversation on dating apps, but this skit is super accurate to how it feels from the female POV 😂😂

The guys are dry but then they want to go on a date but nothing about the convo made her feel excited or inspired to do that.

Even outside of dating apps, this is how text convos go with a lot of guys women met IRL. It’s like no conversation just for the sake of it or for enjoying one another. Only about tryna get to a goal.

This is why when she finds a guy who has easy back and forth she feels in love so fast 🤣

monster_lily · 2023-10-20T12:55:41+00:00

By the way I don't have school today

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-20T12:58:07+00:00

Tyrese’s estranged/ex wife comes forward to talk about why she left the marriage. Admits that she had people in her ear telling her to leave and that influence and peer pressure led to it. Outside influence breaks up so many homes

monster_lily · 2023-10-20T13:12:08+00:00

Just signed up for swagbucks i am THAT jobless

monster_lily · 2023-10-20T13:12:51+00:00

Anyone else used to play imvu? I had no business being on that game

DerayRevan · 2023-10-20T13:14:16+00:00

About this post wether men are attracted to fat or not

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/nK2gl0szfs

Listen l've met many guys who who've no problem with a fat woman usually she's just chubby but that's a cute term for it

And also many guys who aren't into that, so a it's matter of some like it and some don't

Me personally, am not into either side of the extreme, l don't want a fat woman but also don't want a skinny bitch as if she doesn't eat at all or has some anorexia

Men generally just a woman who isn't fat/obese but also she must have some meat so she can have curves,ass,boobs

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1 rule for men. Do not take advice from women on what it means to be a man. Do not acquiesce to women defining what manhood is, either positive or negative.