I feel like as women, most of us want true love and romance. Sometimes we have a man that’s a romanticist. But that doesn’t necessarily mean they are faithful or not abusive.. Lots of guys hate romance. They see it as purposeless and feel like less of a man to even entertain the idea..

I feel like a lot of men are lustful and confuse that for love. When the chemistry wanes as it naturally does after a short period of time, the actual work of the relationship has to be done. Here is where a lot of relationships go south.

The mans looking for extra stimulation and gets bored with the relationship..The woman will probably tolerate his change in behavior for a while .. sometimes too long.. other times she might have learned a lesson and end the relationship..

So what’s the answer? Do we just keep ending relationships, starting new one, etc etc. when really it’s the same problem that will keep repeating itself.

Also, I feel like some people are on a higher level of consciousness than others where they actually value the person they are in a relationship with. Some just have a piss poor attitude about relationships in general.. never allow themselves to get attached and would prefer to use someone.