Daily Community Chat Megathread

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-03-01T21:20:46+00:00

43 days on tinder 30 dates, 20 casual sex and 1 relationship. This is what we mean when we say easy mode. Maybe life will balance out one day when she’s 45 and her husband drops her for the secretary..or maybe not

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/t4egdk/starting_a_relationship_incredibly_happy_and_lucky/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

lulll · 2022-03-02T20:55:52+00:00

women give stalin a rating

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-03-01T20:01:04+00:00

No wonder marriage rates are plummeting lol

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/t48kls/oh_okay/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/t4g8n6/this_is_so_exhausting/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

afkawayrn · 2022-03-01T22:24:15+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/t4ileb/the_past_two_men_ive_been_with_have_told_me_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

So I personally think this is a taboo topic and I think it’s unfair that it is. Women make fun of guys dick literally on the regular. I’m very ashamed of my guy brethren who don’t shame a women’s lady parts correctly when they say something about his privates. We need to make it normal to shame women by saying wizard sleeves and arby roast beefs. Whale vaginas. Equal rights, equal lefts.

And before anyone wants to be like oh no that’s so wrong! How can you have a preference like that? Stfu lol. No one bats a eye if a girl says she wants big dicks only. She’s actually uplifted for it by her sisters.

If I want a small, none flappy, slit vagina, I can have that preference.

For the record I have actually stuck to this my whole life lol. I literally won’t stay talking to a girl if her vagina looks like a roast beef. I will pump and dump every time. Only LTR the girls with cute slits lol.

Now in with the downvoted by ugly vagina girls who hate that I have a preference lolololol

Yukbghhjj · 2022-03-01T23:01:53+00:00

Boutta cook and this girl is coming over to hang out so I wanna make something good. Problem is I’m low on shit and don’t wanna go out. I got chicken breast, a can of tomato sauce, some potatoes(and all the ingredients to make mashed potatoes), and typical seasonings. What make?

TooHornyToFap · 2022-03-01T23:04:06+00:00

I hate how short my new barber made the top of my hair compared to the sides 😡

BallisSTLife · 2022-03-02T00:27:40+00:00

Hey dickwads what are we mad about today?!

Anardus · 2022-03-02T03:48:44+00:00

Q4A: What are some of the best countries you’ve visited? I am trying to figure out where I should go first. Finally switching to a job that lets me be remote internationally😁

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-03-02T06:46:05+00:00

State of the union was actually a good speech and I don't like Biden at all

Inflation means he gone in 2024 still

logiauser · 2022-03-02T07:57:14+00:00

Made myself a midnight mug brownie 👌

dasa_man · 2022-03-02T10:15:13+00:00

Tip for men

This is going to sound weird but I think going the friend or platonic root actually works . Let me explain. I’ve spoken to quite a lot of women (especially those with some pronounced feature(s) like a big butt or boobs) and they all seemed to find it refreshing that I didn’t bring in or sneak sex into the topic. I’m not saying not to flirt or show intention but it seems a lot of guys objectify these women, want to make the conversation topic sexual very quickly or make it obvious that they are enamoured with her looks. It turns the women off and you come across like every single other guy. There is the risk of getting friendzoned (especially if you don’t show intent) but they really appreciate this.

Initiate physical contact and make sure the conversation isn’t purely on a friendship scale but don’t rush to finger her or sleep with her. You can even throw in an odd joke.

‘It’s raining and I’m getting wet. Let’s move’-her

‘I tend to have that effect on women’-me

‘lol it’s not you. I meant the rain. Stop being silly etc etc’- her

‘Changes topic and doesn’t dwell on this sexual shift’- me

I’ve found that this works and these women were way more open to my other advances.They perceive you as a man who is a sexual being but with lots of self control and without ulterior motives. I even admitted to another woman that I’m a man at the end of the day and men notice attractive physical features (she had a nice body) but i added that it’s up to us to control ourselves and then changed the topic without dwelling on her body or complimenting her or setting up a date to meet. I could sense though that she’d be interested in me romantically if I were to pursue and is already open to me.

The opposite also works (being sexually aggressive and forward) but after trying both I think this one works best for me.

Right now I have someone I’m with. We have not had sex yet but shes started putting herself in a position for us to get really physical intimate (invites me over when she’s alone). I have not pushed the envelope as far as sex even though I sense that that’s what she wants. I even let her start beating around the bush of the sex topic first. It adds to the mental foreplay and allows you to build other parts of the friendship or relationship before the physical gets in the way. Just make sure when you do sleep with her you make it worth her time and worth the wait.

Just some friendly advice from your neighbourhood incel.

2022-03-02T10:53:52+00:00

sub dead today

rivetcitymayor · 2022-03-02T14:55:26+00:00

I need some recommendations for neck pillows, I’m tired of the neck pain

Zavier221 · 2022-03-02T15:14:58+00:00

Q4A

If you dont get any IOIS from women is it just game over then

How would you even go about finding women ?

logiauser · 2022-03-02T15:30:13+00:00

PSA for men: Things are going to get real hectic/froggy. This is the WRONG time to get into LTRs and long financial commitments.

Stay liquid and mobile:

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/mar/01/china-rattled-by-calls-for-japan-to-host-us-nuclear-weapons

pooseehunter · 2022-03-02T20:34:40+00:00

Why do sports/activities where gender differences have the least amount of effect on performance USUALLY see the least amount of female to male viewers?

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-03-02T20:02:03+00:00

Why are all polyamorous women unattractive? I'm not just saying this because I don't like polyamory. I have genuinely never seen a non-monogamous woman on a dating app who I'd have sex with.

logiauser · 2022-03-02T19:56:09+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/t50cf3/realistic_relationships_that_you_see_day_to_day/

This post is just such a gaslight. Do any men actually want this kind of relationship? Seems like torture to me.

W: No sparks/raw desire no go.

Also W: Don't expect raw desire/lust in an LTR.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-01T21:42:08+00:00

Favorite food combo?

Mine is a nice burger and french fries with a pickle on the side.

NinjaOfTheSouth · 2022-03-01T21:47:31+00:00

Me and my girl got high last night, she told me about her roommate who had a different guy in their dorm every other night and she didn’t shower a lot. I was like damn that shit does actually happen😭

tempaccc2022 · 2022-03-01T23:10:10+00:00

went to a comedy show for the first time yesterday and one of the dudes had a piece on short dudes. It was really funny but the jist of the message was that really short dudes are lucky because they can make a scene (yell, threaten, etc.) and no one cares. If it was a big guy, people would be scared and call security.

Algae_Natural · 2022-03-01T23:38:08+00:00

Once again I'm considering meeting with an escort. My "dating life" ( or lack of thereof) is been a disaster lately. This week I've been feeling extra lonely and depressed. Will I regret paying for sex?

FrankTM26 · 2022-03-02T02:15:12+00:00

I've been getting 90 day fiancée videos on my YouTube feed and I found this gem by one of the people on the show.

https://youtu.be/89g9BReozXc

huhwhatokok · 2022-03-02T04:36:25+00:00

Stumbled on this manosphere YouTuber named Hamza who I assume is a British Pakistani. Pretty much talks the same yada yada as everyone else but this quote he had really resonated with me.

“Society and the world around you will do everything it can to cripple your manhood, but it will reward those who pass the test.”

Idk if it’s fake deep but I felt it for sure.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-01T20:16:09+00:00

Our friends hunting cabin that we go to has a shack outside where we skin the deer. One time at night my friend was going in to check on something and there was a full on black bear in there. 😂

I think I would’ve had a heart attack

Libah05 · 2022-03-01T21:37:02+00:00

Wtf is this post, and those comments

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/t4a4bv/i_dont_feel_bad_for_incels/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Bandit174 · 2022-03-01T22:55:22+00:00

Ladies if you met the guy you are dating from OLD , he is by default more physically attractive than you due to your pickiness when using OLD, I’ll make post about this maybe tomorrow

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-03-02T03:41:19+00:00

So AF/BB is going to be the theme of the week I see, we're off to a pretty funny start I must say

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-02T08:42:49+00:00

Wow I actually caught the checkout chick serving me check me out. Saw her staring at my arms. Nice to see my work is finally starting to pay off and people are noticing.

GridReXX · 2022-03-02T12:23:55+00:00

Women are an infiinite staircase to nowhere, men are a disembodied mouth devouring itself forever

CMV

GridReXX · 2022-03-02T13:06:07+00:00

When my mom says “touch is my love language,” she means stuff like this, not coitus.

Affectionate touch.

figuringMylife · 2022-03-02T14:20:07+00:00

i’m really starting to get upset that i never had sex with a chad. but i don’t feel motivated to try to. i feel like i’m missing out 😩

afkawayrn · 2022-03-01T20:15:16+00:00

I sent that narcissist test to a bunch of friends yesterday, lookin for a correlation in anything. I found one. The people who scored the highest were also the brokest ones. One was a guy who uses women for places to live and never holds a job. The girl is a sugar baby lol. Ironic

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-03-01T21:06:21+00:00

Sometimes we forget the entertainment industry is a job like anything else. Like often times I’ve noticed when people find out actors on their favorite tv show or movies arent best buds off screen they get salty or disappointed. I mean, I’m not friends with any of my coworkers and that’s ok. I’m cordial with them, I’ll talk shit for ten mins at the water cooler about my bucs but thats basically it

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-01T21:32:23+00:00

And we're back, on this week's episode of Topics that PPD Will Run Into The Ground, we have........ that's right: DUAL MATING STRATEGY!!!

I for on can't wait to see a continuous flow of posts related to it over the next week.

figuringMylife · 2022-03-01T22:58:53+00:00

short men have the potential to be cool, get casual sex, and get married out of HS/college. short men hit the wall at 22.

kaizenkin · 2022-03-01T23:35:50+00:00

Doubt I'll watch the State of the Union.

Inflation is so bad I might need to move in with a friend.

Let's go Brandon!

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-03-02T01:45:47+00:00

So…can’t lie I might be a narcissist or something lol

I smashed the gym bitch I mentioned in the last thread this past weekend. At my boxing gym I’m usually treated like a god pretty much everyone knows and loves me because I hold the record for most consecutive days and I’m real friendly and chill.

At the class tonight the bitch I smashed was there and I just naturally floated away from her and we did our workout (it was a good one) and I swear she purposefully chose to talk to everyone EXCEPT for me.

I was even holding the door for people to leave and as she was walking out she doubled back to hold a 20 minute convo with the front desk clerk and I’m like “This bitch is really trying me right now” like I legitimately took it personal.

So to tip the balance of power back in my favor as she walked out I started talking to another bitch that was walking in and she just hovered around her car and waited for me to finish as I decided to take my time (I purposefully parked next to her to see if she would linger and wait for me).

She waited for me to finish and as I walked to my car she just smiled and said “Hey stranger how you’ve been” and I was like “Hey I’m alright gotta go though” and just jetted.

Then she texted me “Drive safe” and I still haven’t replied.

Welcome to the mind of a narc I guess (though idk for sure yet who knows)

The-Antihero- · 2022-03-02T02:07:03+00:00

Started playing Elden Ring last night. I rolled prophet and I'm regretting it dearly. Seems like it will offer a fun play style once the class opens up, but man does this shit feel weak rn

Orange_Paisley · 2022-03-02T02:19:10+00:00

Do y’all really genuinely think males and females can’t be friends?

This dude just said

“They’re not really your friends they just want to fuck you”

FizzleMateriel · 2022-03-02T02:46:50+00:00

Q4M:

Would you rather be 6’0” with a 5/10 face or 5’6” with a 10/10 face?

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2022-03-02T05:49:03+00:00

Choose one...

Men aren't as shallow as women
She'll get what's coming to her when she splatters against The Wall

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-02T06:32:37+00:00

I love me some inequality cuisines 😂

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-03-02T12:34:54+00:00

My senior year of high school there was this new teacher she might have been like 24 and all the dudes fawned over her. Guys who cut class would be in the front row of hers. She was cute but dudes overrated her cause of her competition, yeah compared to 55 year old MS Watson she looks like Margot Robbie but overall she just cute lol. I remember seeing her like 3 years later at a lounge and she was kinda regular in that environment with other young women around.

It’s like how dudes hype up AOC. Yeah compared to nanci pelosi she’s “hot” overall she a regular Spanish chick. I feel the same way with tulsi gabbard too

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-03-02T13:41:26+00:00

Cardio and low weight high reps lifting makes me feel good and high, but yet heavy weight lifting just makes me wanna take a fat nap

Anyone else get this too? Anyone know why this is?

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-02T15:36:32+00:00

I would send nudes to everyone in PPD if they add astrological sign breakdown to the PPD survey

I’m literally dying to know

The-Antihero- · 2022-03-02T19:46:24+00:00

Bring back Lillith.

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Spacechicken1998 · 2022-03-01T20:14:37+00:00

I returned from my billiard game feeling absolutely wretched, two beers on a empty stomach are deffo not a Gd idea.

And our tournament only just started, if I don't have alcohol poisoning by the end of the week I'll be surprised

2022-03-01T20:57:17+00:00

I hear a lot about age gap relationships but not tooth gap relationships, now those are interesting.

logiauser · 2022-03-01T21:02:31+00:00

If looks are subjective, why are most couples looksmatched again ?

dysonRing · 2022-03-01T21:20:08+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbUlY9Nmu74

Greatest speech in TV history, so relevant when discussing free will.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-03-01T21:24:22+00:00

I’m mad 😡some dude thinks all my”Pity and Hold me” comments regarding how I look was serious and not a obvious joke like they are. I’ve always talked about how I do pretty fine with women irl.

hdksndiisn · 2022-03-01T21:54:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/t47fs4/looking_for_some_advice_with_my_profile_please/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Why isn’t this guy getting matches? He looks like the “bad boy” type women would be into

CFinCanada · 2022-03-01T23:24:27+00:00

Can't wait for the next Purge.

I am gonna bring it so hard.

Yt men, I am coming for you next.

🥰

quaker5 · 2022-03-01T23:28:57+00:00

anyone here ever had marriage counseling? what was it like?

logiauser · 2022-03-02T00:40:28+00:00

Coach Greg was talking about this Marvin Gaye interview with his thoughts on love and marriage. Very interesting:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tfIjkcCE_lU

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-03-02T01:00:08+00:00

Seeking short men to do leg transplants with me

figuringMylife · 2022-03-02T01:21:55+00:00

qtna when are we PURGING

OfCatandPagan · 2022-03-02T05:23:26+00:00

I wonder how many of the guys here are into the same stuff as Jack Murphy?

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-03-02T06:18:03+00:00

Cain velazquez is a hero

DaphneDK42 · 2022-03-02T10:18:47+00:00

Girls are miserable. Much more than boys. And increasingly so. Covid lockdowns were a disaster for girls (who wudda thunk?!) - perhaps because they're more social?

Why are girls getting increasingly depressed and miserable?

Thousands of girls as young as 11 in England hiding signs of ‘deep distress’

2022-03-02T11:31:45+00:00

Ironically, the parents that spoil their kids the most are also the least to proportionally communicate with the teacher. To me it seems surreal to be offended because the teacher did not wipe the preachooler’s bum with a specific type of wipes, instead of making sure your child does not swear

Narrow_Bridge5804 · 2022-03-02T12:21:07+00:00

Men confuse realisting long term average relationships as "settling" and beta buxing

Relationships on a long term level for the average, every day relationship are NOT these lust filled exciting perpetual romances where the woman is constantly horny for you and being submissive and only has eyes for you and wants to have sex with you every night and love you like youre the best guy in the world.

That's just not how it is for the vast majority of relationships.

I'd say most of the women I know personally enough to talk about their relationships about are with men who you could argue they "settled" for. Even though that word is annoying to me. As unless you are having a marriage and child with your celebrity crush, the ultimate fantasy, how arent you settling? The point is, at least eith the women I know, a time comes where you grow up and get into a long term relationship that's feasible, sustainable and practical. The same way you find a decent job when you realize you're not going to be a rock star or an actor, or the same way you finally buy a modest but homely house after realizing you're not going to be owning a mansion any time soon.

It's called maturing and getting real. A lot of you men on here seem stuck on the idea of being in unrralistic hollywood fantasy/pornstar style relationships that are just a constsnt honeymoon phase where she treats you like a king.

Wake up call. You have to BE a king to live and be worshipped like a king, otherwise, maybe it's time to grow up and accept the reality of the every day relationship.

From my personal experience and my female friends and family and LTR's I've had, boyfriends and husbands after a year or two aren't somebody you fantasize or lust over, they're more of a part of your family and day to day life, especially as you get older and life isn't a big fairytale waiting to happen anymore. They're a guy who is there, who has become part of your every day and like everything else in your day to day is susceptible to criticism and being annoyed at from time to time. Pets and family are the same, sometimes they are gross and sometimes they are annoying assholes and sometimes you couldn't love them more than in that moment. Relationships are like this, like a roomate or a friend who you have partnered up with who you have sex with sometimes, not three times a day like teenagers, let go of those days, those days are gone and it's not a bad thing it's just how relationships are as you get older.

My female friends have mostly "grown up" and are with men who are mostly good fathers and husbands who treat them relatively well. And only one of my friends had cheated on her s.o, but it was a one time mistake because they were in a bad place but he's trying harder now and they seem to be a bit better.

I think men need to rethink the unrealistic idea that relationships, especially adult ones, are lust filled romances where the wife is shagging him every day like some porno.

We grow up and contary to popular belief her women DO find a good man, "settle" down and live normal realistic lives with those men, flaws and all, which include moaning about them and not wanting to have sex with them sometimes....but also loving them and being grateful for what they bring as fathers and partners and friends

GridReXX · 2022-03-02T12:41:39+00:00

Anybody do lent here?

MisterFlipside · 2022-03-02T19:40:47+00:00

Hot take: male body dimorphism goes hand in hand with incldom and needs to be taken more seriously

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-03-02T19:29:40+00:00

Being myself unironically "got" me the girl

(got in quotes cuz there's a couple of things that need to be figured out)

effeteintellectual · 2022-03-02T19:19:03+00:00

If you don’t want to hit the wall consider using sunscreen on your face every day

gimpgirl555 · 2022-03-02T19:17:33+00:00

Chilling with Belorussian crackers, https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME8CBSJ I'll have to smuggle these in the future.

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-02T19:10:54+00:00

Q4W, since you read a lot of men in ppd write, you must have a decent idea about their personalities. At least what they project here. Based on that, what percentage of them do you think are undatable? Like all or most of the girls you know wouldn’t say yes to a second date bad.

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-02T19:06:52+00:00

Ok I’m gonna be straight here. Let me give you my worst take. I tried to argue for this with a friend like a few years back and he still thinks I’m a furry.

My take : I don’t think beastiality should be criminalised. Look we allow folk to eat animals. We have laws against cruelty. Those still apply! You can’t kill or fuck that animal in a way that is cruel.

Like honestly why is it wrong? Animals can’t consent? Like as if they can consent to being eaten!

Cause it’s cruel? Who said it hurts? Other animals rape it. Hell we rape it with mechanical instruments in factory farms.

I mean I would personally never fuck an animal. But logically speaking you need to agree. People banned it cause it disgusts them. It’s irrational I tell you.

Funny thing is, this whole argument started when I made a joke about how horny I was and that I could fuck a horse. I was playing on the “so hungry I could eat a horse” saying.

My friend took it literally and we had this debate…. to this day he sometimes calls me a horse fucker in private. 😂

mooncattreecat · 2022-03-02T19:04:13+00:00

Just watched the docu 'house of secrets: the burari deaths.' Completely bonkers. Also why do Indians go into such severe debt for weddings if it ends up burdening the families so heavily?

relish5k · 2022-03-02T18:51:25+00:00

Help, I think I'm addicted to bad internet takes.

TooHornyToFap · 2022-03-02T18:35:10+00:00

The idea of an era where small asses were more preferable than big ones boggles my mind

tired_hillbilly · 2022-03-01T21:54:47+00:00

I think the Bluepill worldview is the most appealing, but the Redpill worldview is most accurate. What color would you say I am? I don't feel like purple is the right answer because I feel pretty strongly about both opinions. Maybe I need a new color for this.

Habil13 · 2022-03-02T18:30:04+00:00

The males biggest issue when it comes to dating is his ego. It’s the most important thing to understand when it comes to dating and especially the discussions about n-count. One I conquer my ego I’ll be invincible.

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-02T18:22:33+00:00

I think for men, commitment is a mindset. Like they have to feel ready. Like I want this. Only then do girls have any chance.

It’s less about the girl and way more about the dude’s financials, self esteem, stage of life, etc.

Otherwise he loves her that much and is afraid of losing her so he puts a ring on it. It is for her not for him.

figuringMylife · 2022-03-02T18:17:43+00:00

which one of you socially inept aholes reported me to the suicide prevention LMAOOO i love it here

simeneta_two · 2022-03-02T18:03:58+00:00

I feel like a significant number of men on PPD must live in small towns because most of the things y’all complain about do not exist in major cities.

I have someone arguing with me right now that no one makes friends as adults and everyone hangs out with the same group of people since high school/college. This is only a thing of you still live in the same town you grew up in. I can’t imagine someone who moved to NYC, Los Angeles or hell even a mid size city like Austin or Denver not making friends in adulthood.

Same with men on here who are in their 20s but claim their dating pool is all fat women and single moms. Once again, not a thing in any mid size or larger city.

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-03-01T20:12:14+00:00

People who make fun of out of shape folks in the gym are evil

Don’t discourage people, asshats

lulll · 2022-03-01T22:36:17+00:00

the saga of coach red pill is probably the most amusing thing that came out of this whole ukraine situation

this guy used to have hundreds and hundreds of vids on his channel and they suddenly disappeared recently. most of them were 20+ long minute rants about all the typical things you'd find on other grifting red pill guru channels - game, women, feminism, blah blah blah. but this guy went a step further and actually left america and moved to the ukraine then started going hard on the whole 'collapsing west' narrative these guys love so much. and now he's in the middle of a war lol.... not only is in the middle of a war, but he's saying everything he can possibly say to make the russians seem like the good guys, despite living in the ukraine for the past like 5 or 6 years... conveniently living in a city (kharkiv) as close as he possibly can to russia without living in russia

whole thing is sus as fuck and i honestly think he was a russian stooge in the manosphere, or at the very least they have some dirt on him so he has to do this or he gets exposed. either that or he's out of fucking mind, the shit he's saying is unreal, like you have to be crazy to say the things he's saying in the middle of an invasion

CliffPR · 2022-03-01T23:08:42+00:00

I desperately want to believe that I'm not as ugly as OLD makes me feel. Like, I know I'm not top tier (dad bod, little bit of gray, etc) but fuck. I swipe right on almost 90% of women and get no matches, but like clockwork when I pass on the one 400-pounder with the face of Steve Bannon, its "Oops! You missed a potential match!" And all I can think is "Shit, is THAT really the best I can do?"

Remote-Forever3115 · 2022-03-02T17:58:08+00:00

A lot of ppl like to blame video games on men’s dating woes but it’s probably the only thing keeping them from going insane. Life is just rly boring for an avg guy

simply_fab · 2022-03-01T21:31:15+00:00

What is up with women barely wearing anything in the gym then being creeped out if people look/approach? I can’t bring this up because women hate the topic and never give a good answer and guys will only say it in private cause they don’t want to sound like an incel. However, at my gym it’s very normal for a girl to be working out in what I would consider to be really tight boxer briefs and a bra. How is that even comfortable? Like it’s riding up their ass crack and they are constantly pulling their shorts up over their stomachs. I don’t think I can think of a time I’ve seen a girl wearing like sweat pants or normal shorts, even short shorts would make more sense .

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2022-03-02T00:42:32+00:00

“The female mind is certainly a devious one, my lord."

Vetinari looked at his secretary in surprise. "Well, of course it is. It has to deal with the male one.”

― Terry Pratchett, Unseen Academicals

The-Antihero- · 2022-03-01T22:39:33+00:00

Damn, do men really have that much trouble reading the room in regards to when it’s appropriate to approach a girl

It seems incredibly intuitive to me but idk

rivetcitymayor · 2022-03-02T00:03:05+00:00

The friend zone is not a bad place to be in at all, but she needs to be your ACTUAL FRIEND though. Do not take that world lightly, most guys don’t have female friends, they have female acquaintances or women they just know

techr0nin · 2022-03-02T05:12:17+00:00

CMV Women project their sexuality onto men. Being less picky isn't the same as being shallow. I'm generalising here, there are without a doubt a good number of shallow men(If you get everything you want thrown at you at every turn it would be hard not to be shallow and vain) but in general most men are happy with a good woman who isn't an Instagram model.

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-03-02T14:13:05+00:00

Why are men so much more chill and easy going than women?

TooHornyToFap · 2022-03-01T21:56:30+00:00

Zelensky be a short king 🙏

dasa_man · 2022-03-01T21:58:11+00:00

Incel here who ended up with a conventionally attractive woman. Things are still going well. She accepts me for who I am and seems to genuinely enjoy spending time with me. I think I’ve found a good woman. She offered to pay for drinks/dinner last night but I still won’t let her. I don’t do 50/50 with someone this cool.

Euphoric_Ad_4972 · 2022-03-02T17:50:16+00:00

I don't mind paying for a date ,but I want insurance that I am not just another free dinner. I need to feel the spark before I take you out to dinner bitch.

Habil13 · 2022-03-02T17:44:20+00:00

I spent two days talking to a girl via OLD, just to find out she’s a minor.

I hate dating.

MisterFlipside · 2022-03-02T17:08:54+00:00

While I do bitch about women treating me like a leper in the day to day, there's one area where women were a lot kinder than men: hairstylists.

The women I went to were kind and talkative, and the men kinda gave me the used tissue treatment. Im not going to gay salons either, these are (most likely) straight guys.

lulll · 2022-03-02T16:59:31+00:00

women: i'm totally straight

also women: i'm totally not thinking about lezzing out with xena

throwaway213091345 · 2022-03-02T16:48:58+00:00

It is just as counterintuitive for FDSers to make men work harder than they've ever made men work before as it is for blackpillers/RPers to work less than they've ever worked before. Especially while both are older and with more baggage.

Attractive, confident dateable men who are older will know when sex should happen and won't want to jump through hoops. Attractive, kind, generous dateable women will know what courtship looks like.

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-02T16:47:03+00:00

In usa people date like 2 to 5 years before marriage right?

https://priceonomics.com/how-long-do-couples-date-before-getting-engaged/

That is why love is blind doesn’t make sense to me.

Like how do you propose to someone so quickly? It has to be fake…. Are these people seriously ok with going from stranger to marriage so quickly?

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-02T16:33:14+00:00

In 2018, the rate fell to 6.5 – the lowest level in the 118-year period covered by the new report and the lowest recorded since 1867, the first year for which federal government data on national marriage is available.

Also

Feminism scares men away from women. In my case, I was so traumatized by feminist messages as a young boy growing up that I had sexual and romantic feelings toward men instead of women.

This comment made me laugh so hard.

Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months, according to the 2021 General Social Survey.

Single-and-looking women are far more likely than single-and-looking men to say that trouble finding someone who was looking for the same kind of relationship or who meets their expectations are major reasons they’ve had difficulty. In turn, men are much more likely than women to say difficulty approaching people is a major reason.

tempaccc2022 · 2022-03-02T16:08:17+00:00

religious dad just gave me an unintentional rp talk. said to never commit and always play women because theyre stupid and dont like guys who show emotion. also said no point committing when youre young etc more things rp usually says like relationships dont last cuz when a guy falls in love too much shes gonna cheat or become unattractive to him.

i was gonna tell him i knew all this, but had doubts if he was just tryna bait me into telling him bout my sex life and was actually religious.

Slipthe · 2022-03-02T15:54:40+00:00

All the talk about nebulous stuff like 'spark' or 'chemistry' really has me wondering if it's a chicken or the egg situation.

Because a spark with someone goes hand in hand with infatuation. With the butterflies in your stomach and the mental devotion that borderlines obsession.

So does the spark give you the infatuation or does the feeling of infatuation make you think there's a spark?

rosesonthefloor · 2022-03-02T15:54:18+00:00

I don’t understand this whole idea about women giving their “sexual best” to early partners and not later partners. Like…. If she does something and doesn’t like it, and doesn’t want to do it again, what about that bothers people?

My bf did things with his ex that he didn’t enjoy and doesn’t want to do again. The takeaway isn’t that he’s done it before, the takeaway is that he doesn’t like it. Why would I want to pressure him into doing something he doesn’t enjoy? Where’s the fun in that?

Also I don’t understand this idea because being with past partners also means you find out what you do enjoy, which you can therefore share with your partner now, in a better (more confident/experienced) way….

Can someone help me understand? Or is it like a “FOMO” kinda deal?

bigmonsterbitch · 2022-03-02T07:54:30+00:00

Is it “racist” to not want to date someone based on there religion/culture, despite finding the person attractive and sexually appealing? Like I find this white man sexually attractive but I don’t like the red neck culture. Is that ignorant of me?

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-02T12:23:55+00:00

Does anyone else have a parent that believes in some stupid car myth? I can always tell when my mom last drove a car because when I start it the radio and AC are turned off. She thinks it’s harmful for the engine to not completely turn them off when you shut off the car 😂.

creekcrystall · 2022-03-02T01:43:34+00:00

In todays LMFAO NEWS, we have a short king that goes absolutely ballistic because waahhmen on dating apps said mean words to him:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CZP_8LXvE6c/?utm_medium=copy_link

In the video you can see him confronting one bystander , while he hurls threats at another one.

PROTECT SHORT KINGS!!!

Spacechicken1998 · 2022-03-02T06:43:59+00:00

Thoughts on dreading your partner too keep them attentive after a longer period of time?

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