Daily Community Chat Megathread

handemande1 · 2022-05-12T22:45:37+00:00

The majority of men on this sub have disgusting views of women and should never be in relationships with them. Why would any woman get with a man that believes the only thing she offers is sex and fertility? Don’t any men on this sub want a true life partner? Don’t you want to like the women you’re with?

It’s shameful.

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-12T14:50:29+00:00

I read relationship advice posts, most of them describe clearly an abusive relationship then they ask if they are at fault now I can't believe they are actually unaware here

Do they just want validation from us that the partner is a pos and they should leave?

Maybe they told rhe story in a biased way and IRL situation is not so black and white ( then why did they not give a more objective description... Don't they want honest advice)

Maybe when you are emotional and gaslit, you genuinely aren't sure who the bad person is? Are they seriously asking this?

rubisco-red · 2022-05-12T14:48:14+00:00

which description best matches your opinion on the subject?

A. People who have standards that are too high are none of my business because it only affects them. If they can find someone to meet that standard, good for them. If they can't, that's their problem. I hold no negative opinion of them.

B. People who have standards that are too high are contributing to a systematic problem that affects all of us. It creates an unbalanced dating market that leads to loneliness epidemics and bad households that hurt future generations. I hold negative opinion of them.

Also, add if you struggle or have struggled with dating.

User18881404 · 2022-05-12T14:39:53+00:00

Shut shaming is so outdated.

I love thots.

River_Archer_32 · 2022-05-11T15:14:36+00:00

So many of my male friends literally pay for every date in addition to cooking for dinner dates while their dates do nothing. kind of sad.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-05-11T15:28:36+00:00

I need everyone to look up why Jesse Williams is trending and then tell me how the average man competes with that

River_Archer_32 · 2022-05-11T17:10:52+00:00

wonder if this is real

https://preview.redd.it/wb84gpjdbav81.png?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=1f1b4568d2ab0f9ca53dc9711e38a7296bd655dc

Infammo · 2022-05-11T17:48:58+00:00

The Red/Black Pill stigma against high n count women is mainly fueled by men's resentment of being comparatively less sexually desirable and having way less opportunities for sexual exploration that women do. Average men will always mourn the sexual experiences they weren't attractive enough to have, and feel invariably diminished in a relationship with a woman's who's had her fun and is ready to settle. The talk about things like losing her ability to pair bond, while not entirely untrue, is mostly them trying to validate their emotional bias with a logical explanation.

That being said women are 100% full of crap about not enjoying and taking advantage of the ease with which they can get casual sex.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-05-11T19:11:32+00:00

Yuuuuup 🤣🤣🤣🤣

https://www.reddit.com/r/AreTheStraightsOK/comments/umsi4k/or_maybe_find_a_person_who_doesnt_judge_your_past/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

figuringMylife · 2022-05-12T14:34:47+00:00

ngl, i be believing a lot of u men until y’all say something that’s total cap. look at this LARPer that tried to tell me he doesn’t get mistaken for his (59) gf(23) father

i know he’s lying. 😭😂 because ppl with smaller age gaps have this problem

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-11T16:57:36+00:00

The “beckies” thread was weird to me because I was brought up understanding that this term “Becky” just meant white women. I didn’t know it had anything to do with a specific look or type of white woman.

I was born in 1988 so maybe it’s changed but that’s what I remember.

scwizard · 2022-05-11T17:21:54+00:00

Down 20,000 in the stock market ugg.

All I can really do right now is hold on for dear life and hope I don't get a margin close out.

DonQOnIce · 2022-05-11T17:39:50+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/nottheonion/comments/und9u7/how_are_you_gonna_wake_up_and_want_some_orange/

Time to debate. Personally, I think “breakfast foods” are a joke. Whatever you eat in the morning is breakfast food.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-11T18:01:23+00:00

We're never getting a purge again 😭😭😭

Bandit174 · 2022-05-11T18:13:34+00:00

'Sperm Donor' Families: 45 Children And Counting

Listen to what women do, not what they say.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-11T19:34:17+00:00

I seriously fucked up by not bringing water on this jog 😂.

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-05-11T20:56:55+00:00

So hot today I had to put up the kiddie pool for the dogs 🖤

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-11T22:07:56+00:00

About the N count thing. So Lil Durk who’s objectively a high value man, millionaire rapper, tall, popular etc said HERE that his girlfriend low body count is one of the things that attracted him to her .

Just a thought, I guess it’s not only PPD guys who care

lulll · 2022-05-11T22:40:34+00:00

just a fyi, if youre going to grill never use these hunks of shit to clean the grill, the metal bristles break off and may end up on the grill itself and then onto your food, then you get the thing stuck in your throat and have to go to the hospital. they make different shit now, dont use these

dbz19 · 2022-05-11T22:52:47+00:00

I hope everyone is doing well

DonQOnIce · 2022-05-11T22:57:04+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FJjo8s3fKUM

Just give Eurovision to Norway. Knocking it out of the park.

E-2-butene · 2022-05-11T23:08:28+00:00

Since it seems like we are on the n-count preferences topic again, I figure I’ll point out something that often gets overlooked. Namely, a man’s preference for promiscuous women is likely heavily influenced by his preference for short vs long term mating.

Long term mating is obvious. If a man is going to invest heavily on a child, he wants to be sure it’s his. Promiscuous women not only have more possible men whose children it could be, but the link between promiscuity and infidelity is quite strong.

Short term mating is perhaps a bit counterintuitive, but makes sense. Men seeking STRs with women are expected to want promiscuous women as they are hoping that “history will repeat itself,” as David Buss puts it.

Something to keep in mind when you’re thinking about men on your life that do/do not like promiscuous women.

E-2-butene · 2022-05-12T14:27:06+00:00

This paper generally investigates so called “sexually exploitative” strategies in men, which broadly encompasses seduction, deception, pressuring, and sexual assault.

One of the interesting things in the paper is that they actually found that intelligence in women was unattractive for short term relationships (likely because it makes exploitation more difficult), but highly attractive for long term relationships.

Q4M: does this mirror your experience? Or do you find smart/dumb girls pretty equally attractive regardless?

HumanNumber348 · 2022-05-11T15:49:56+00:00

Interesting article I found: https://www.thedailybeast.com/why-men-are-settling-for-mrs-good-enough?ref=scroll

Is it actually the men who are settling for Becky? 🤔

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-11T16:31:30+00:00

What's the ratio of frozen eggs to babies in general?

The boys at r/whereareallthegoodmen were laughing their asses off at some woman who froze like 30 @ 29 and they all failed. Got me thinking what is the success rate.

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-11T18:13:12+00:00

How many of you here think you were gifted kids? prodigies?

really smart? able to think original thoughts, matured faster than your peers?

Can you relate to this article? https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/dabrowskis-theory-and-existential-depression-in-gifted-children-and-adults/

ThisBoringLife · 2022-05-11T18:46:30+00:00

I enjoy my job, but sometimes it drives me nuts.

QuenchlessGato · 2022-05-11T19:13:21+00:00

In an ideal world you would have to pass various background checks to get married and have children. In real world the humanity would go extinct.

scwizard · 2022-05-11T19:17:25+00:00

I've had plenty of girls send me nudes back when I used to fish for nudes.

But it's so much harder to get girls to send pics of them in a sexy short skirt. Every girl has a naked body not every girl has a cute miniskirt sadly.

E-2-butene · 2022-05-11T21:06:00+00:00

in my personal life, I've noticed a surprisingly strong correlation between meat eating and masculinity / vegetarian or vegan diet and femininity.

This doesn't make sense biologically unless the veg people aren't getting enough protein/nutrients and end up small and weak. But it might make sense socially as a form of self-fulfilling prophecy.

concern for animals and the environment = high empathy = likely to appeal to feminine personalities

The part that makes less sense is when people swear they genuinely feel better on that diet or enjoy its flavor more, as that would imply a biological aspect.

Are certain people genetically predisposed to be best suited on certain diets? Does that correlate to personality type at all?

Have y'all noticed the same correlation and do you think it makes sense?

ashpr0ulx · 2022-05-11T21:51:32+00:00

my job is so stressful sometimes that my most common after work routine is to lay down in the shower and drink white claws

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-11T23:03:48+00:00

Would those who’ve seen me think I’m from NY? Others in my family say I look like I’m from the south or Midwest.

River_Archer_32 · 2022-05-11T23:34:12+00:00

Spain is going to offer menstrual leave

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-12T14:10:40+00:00

How does me squatting more than your man make you feel? 😎

Slipthe · 2022-05-12T13:38:02+00:00

Do you wear a seatbelt?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-12T13:35:04+00:00

Foreal foreal , I actually don’t care about N-count like that. What do I hate though is people trying to tell men what they should or shouldn’t care about meanwhile women will ghost you if you do as little as burp the wrong way

figuringMylife · 2022-05-12T13:34:19+00:00

i just now understood why regular schmegular dudes need TRP. i never really thought about how hard it must be to be a NPC. ngl.

uhmm… why should anyone date regular dudes? like if you don’t stand out, what makes people want to date you? what’s dateable about most of you who aren’t successful?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-12T13:24:32+00:00

Should men care about slut shaming?

No

rubisco-red · 2022-05-12T12:44:20+00:00

Q4 PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS. If you're single, pls don't answer.

If artificial wombs existed, would you prefer them over being impregnated or impregnating your partner?

hornyjailer1 · 2022-05-12T12:21:08+00:00

Women be like: I wear makeup for myself not men ewww.

Also Women: Women are forced to wear makeup due to patriachy....

🤣😂

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-11T15:55:20+00:00

My old group of friends ripped me for going to senior prom alone but when the girl one of then went with posted pictures on social media of it she completely crossed out/ blurred out his face as if she was embarrassed to go with him. Which makes me wonder why she even agreed to go with him.

Also I’d rather go alone than have someone do that to me 😂.

figuringMylife · 2022-05-11T21:38:53+00:00

HOW IS IT HIGH N COUNT DAY?! LIKE HOW?

we had a thread, we were doing so good, and suddenly y’all just circled back?!

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-11T14:23:49+00:00

Springing people from the poverty trap. Research suggests poverty is not principally the product of people’s capabilities or attitudes. Rather, the very poor are usually mired in a poverty trap, in which an initial lack of resources prevents them from improving their circumstances

I think that's a good analogy to men who are unsuccessful with dating; "unsuccessful with dating" is analogous to poverty.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-05-11T16:49:53+00:00

Are you a simp or a cuck if you're just playing your hand to the best you can?

If you're a 3/10 looking guy and you marry a 6/10 single mum who's a great cook and lovely to be around, are you really simping at that point?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-11T18:17:52+00:00

Why do girls lie about working out so much? You’re not fooling anybody with that body lol

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-11T19:30:09+00:00

I know a guy who is a legitimate chad-lite (6'3, blonde, and at least a 7 or 8) and still a virgin because:

1: No game

2: Toxic conservative Christian

3: Misogynist culture

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-11T20:48:13+00:00

Me: Gets back from 6 Mile jog.

Brother: can you help me change oil and tires on my car?

Me: Hesitantly agrees cause I don’t want to be a dick.

God it’s so hot outside too it feels like 😂

E-2-butene · 2022-05-11T15:08:02+00:00

Rofl, TIL men never get called a “bitch” as an insult, and it’s gaslighting to imply as much.

I’m glad we have people “lacking in stupidity” to clear this fact up for me.

Edit: Noooo! It’s been deleted! There goes my attempt at public shaming.

scwizard · 2022-05-11T17:09:28+00:00

Why aren’t the men in my life getting angry with me?

My human rights are being stripped away and even in the leftist spaces that I occupy, I haven’t heard much in support from them. I don’t see their outrage. Nothing. My partner’s reaction is “yeah that sucks” if the roles were reversed I’d be ready to go to war for them.

For more context: I escaped an evangelical cult where women had absolutely no rights, were denied education and groomed into marriage and childbirth at a very young age. I know what what these people envision for the future and it TERRIFIES me. I think most people would feel a bit more passionate if they came from the same background.

Guys will never come from the same background. Growing up being told you need to be a subby tradwife is totally different from your sister cleaning your room growing up and being told she needs to be a subby tradwife when she's older.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-05-11T22:28:01+00:00

One of my favorite lines is when a woman has an onlyfans or not even that maybe she just posted a bunch of thirst traps on her Instagram and when guys don't want to date her because of it, the attempted shaming language they go to is "he's insecure" 🤣🤣🤣, bitch just say you like the attention and find you a guy that's cool with it

scwizard · 2022-05-11T23:06:25+00:00

Heading to the park to get some fresh air and to ogle all end hot girls again. Who do you think will win most provocative outfit? On Monday it was:

black dress were it's just strings on the sides of it so that you can see easily she has no underwear

scwizard · 2022-05-11T23:49:08+00:00

Grrr stop upvoting me being a perv. I should be punished.

Habil13 · 2022-05-11T14:24:49+00:00

I’ve been questioning whether I’m body dysmorphic for the last couple of days, so I had to buy myself a pizza slice💯

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-05-11T17:12:34+00:00

If you're worried about your safety when going home with someone new you're dating, and the question is your place or his (assuming "you" is a woman) the safer option (if you're going to do it at all) is to choose his place. Why? Because if you're going to get murdered, it will be more likely that evidence will connect him to the murder. If the body is at his place he needs to dispose of the body. If he murders you at your place he just has to leave; there's much less connecting him to the crime.

So, if we compare two scenarios:

On the first date, go to his place to have sex
On the fifth date, go to the woman's place to have sex

The first scenario is safer than the second.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-11T19:49:17+00:00

I dont understand the point of "slaying" or racking up your body count. Especially if you're set on starting a family.

empresa_josefina · 2022-05-11T20:46:11+00:00

I don’t care about low-N and I don’t know a single guy that cares about low-N. When I was 23, me and my friends argued about what N count was too high and the lowest number was 5, and that was for early 20s women. I have Chad friends who are dating girls with respectable double-digit body counts because the woman is hot and into them.

Please stop using the N-count obsession of a sub-sample of reddit dudes to derail every discussion on this sub.

Confused8884 · 2022-05-11T21:54:43+00:00

Went to the bar last week. Sure unlike OLD non-Chad people can afford to compete but let's get serious, it is not a soltuion. There were like 12 Chads for every 10 Women there; now to be fair some were couples but it was not uncommon to see Chads compete for a Becky. There were also a couple of Tyrones and a few mostly regular looking guys. But almost every guy was a Chad. So naturally they got most of the flirting options and regular people - heck even the Tyrones - could not get anywhere.

E-2-butene · 2022-05-11T23:54:37+00:00

You guys ever have the same struggle I do? I want to say “females” instead of “women” to troll all of the females in ppd. But I’m afraid if I do it too much it will work it’s way into my normal vocabulary.

yeoldname · 2022-05-12T12:15:43+00:00

How do I contact mod mail? They reported me for commenting to someone that their comment was harassment (they were saying some mean things that were inciting hate), the comment got deleted that I was responding to, and someone reported ME for harassment. Which i think is total bullshit.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-12T12:05:42+00:00

I hate bitches who always say “Hashtag Dont Judge Me” and similar sayings like “I dont care what you say!”

Being judged clearly bothers them because they always have to say how much they dont care. When you don’t care, you dont acknowledge it.
When you’re being judged that much to the point you’re bringing it up. Chances are you’re doing something wrong or youre actively attention whoring and hate youre not getting the right kind of attention.

PineappleGlazedHam · 2022-05-12T11:33:21+00:00

I’m in a training class all week, so my hours are like normal people’s working hours (M-F, 8a-4p) and it’s awful. I was going to go to the gym before dinner last night, but got called out from 5-8pm.

Waking up early sucks.

Feeling like I have just enough time to eat dinner, sit down, and then shower/go to bed sucks. I’ve had to skip the gym the last 3 days so I can actually see my kids.

I feel like I need so much more sleep on this schedule.

I don’t know how people do it.

Willow-girl · 2022-05-12T11:10:25+00:00

Our baby is 3 months old today!

Then: Imgur

Now: Imgur

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-12T10:16:54+00:00

Why exactly is it always assumed that a guy who was friends with a woman and then had to distance himself after rejection is some pos who only did that to get in her pants?

What if he was friends at first and then developed feelings and then decided to ask her out?

I also don’t think there is anything wrong with needing to distance yourself from someone who rejected you. Maybe I’m wrong idk.

InternationalWar4813 · 2022-05-12T09:51:44+00:00

As an ugly woman I should be allowed to get euthanasia, since all of my worth as a woman comes from my looks.

empresa_josefina · 2022-05-12T08:44:39+00:00

I’m a fairly classic betabuxx, average looking with no girlfriend in my 20s. I am shameless about playing numbers and I’m tall so I grinded out dozens of ONS by approaching thousands of women over a decade, so I’m not incel or desperate.

Now that I’m early 30s and the big buxx are rolling in, all the early-mid-30s former Stacies are coming out of the woodwork looking to wife up and have a kid. Thing is, I want to pace myself with cohabitation because I’ve never done it. Couple of years at least, then couple more before even discussing marriage. Too slow for a mid-30s woman “settling down.”

I recognize that I’m stereotyping above, and I have no problem dating 30-somethings outside of the timeline issue. How do I tactfully communicate that I cannot guarantee an accelerated timeline? Do I broach that in date 1 or wait till a relationship is possible? My friend’s advice is to just date a 25-yo (he turns 34) but there’s plenty of 30-somethings I’m interested in.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-05-12T08:09:23+00:00

Can someone check on HooskerDoos I worry for him

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-12T06:16:34+00:00

No matter what I say... I really like you guys in ppd :D ❤️❤️

https://youtu.be/_8zV4rtROzw?t=34

rosesonthefloor · 2022-05-12T06:00:01+00:00

Man I fell down a rabbit hole of “couple pranks” TikToks on YouTube and damn the resentment is PALPABLE in some of them.

TheFinalDefender · 2022-05-12T05:53:08+00:00

Here's a good reason to get married: you get to wear a nice suit you wouldn't have otherwise worn for a day and your spouse gets to wear a nice dress she wouldn't have otherwise worn for a day.

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TheJim66 · 2022-05-11T14:01:27+00:00

Bitch

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-11T14:03:35+00:00

Q4W- Would you dump/ghost a guy you were seeing if the sex was bad the first time?

golden_bear25 · 2022-05-11T14:22:56+00:00

Isn’t it funny that even once you get a gf you start worrying about other things like:

her ex who was bigger and better in bed in than you (retroactive jealousy)
risk of dead bedroom
her cheating on you
her losing interest for one or more reasons

etc

golden_bear25 · 2022-05-11T14:25:08+00:00

Men with gfs or wives. How do you think it would have gone if you met your potential/current gf round the same time as Chad did. Do you think you would have won out against a taller and more handsome man assuming everything else about him was average (like personality).

meteorness123 · 2022-05-11T14:55:10+00:00

You're not alpha unless you listen to Bruno Mars.

Habil13 · 2022-05-11T14:55:26+00:00

CMV; “game” is a compensation for a lack of looks. If you were attractive enough you wouldn’t need game or a personality for that matter to have a fulfilling sex life.

Also mods, if this is blackpill content I’ll delete this urgently.

decoy88 · 2022-05-11T15:39:09+00:00

Can you call yourself “red pilled” if you don’t get pussy?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-11T16:00:29+00:00

Here’s this super thick lady squatting again in case anyone missed it last night 🥵

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdpXpcqM/?k=1

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-11T16:15:54+00:00

Thoughts?. I’ve always thought body count doesn’t matter as much as it is claimed on here, except for cases of extreme difference, which this case seems to be

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-05-11T16:34:26+00:00

Day 28 of music sharing. OOMPH! - Labyrinth. Kinda dig the esy shadows/liner, mke the eyes more noticeable.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-11T16:59:11+00:00

I love when movies show people having gunfights indoors and then having normal conversations after 😂😂. Like I know it’s a movie, but the one time I shot a gun without ear pro on my friend might as well have been speaking to a dead person for like 10 minutes.

scwizard · 2022-05-11T17:23:49+00:00

The combination of the supreme court ruling and the spring weather just has me annoyingly low key horny a lot I hate it.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-11T17:35:01+00:00

A Bop

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-11T17:36:45+00:00

All the girls going crazy over this guy right now

Other picture

Rate him

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-11T17:37:16+00:00

u/mods next purge when?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-05-11T18:11:12+00:00

Anybody else here watch Daquan Wiltshire?

This dude is so incredibly funny; he has me rolling with laughter every video

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-11T18:38:45+00:00

Weird behavior tbh.

scwizard · 2022-05-11T19:33:20+00:00

If you marry a girl that's had a bunch of sex before marriage, that means you're find with your kids growing up learning that premarital sex is pretty cool right?

scwizard · 2022-05-11T19:36:16+00:00

If premarital sex is cool, then why do you think it's not cool for girls to have a lot of premarital sex?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-11T19:45:20+00:00

Both my sisters don’t give a crap about basketball but because they are tall, in middle and high school people kept asking them about it. Like coaches chasing them down in the hallways and other girls on the team trying to recruit them. My little sister was 5 ft 9 in the 8th grade, which is the average height for an adult male. She said the basketball coach came up to her and was like “yo we just need you to dunk and block shots” lol. The thing is they are both girly girls, so you couldn’t even be like they look like they like sports or some shit

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-11T20:03:41+00:00

Don’t do it

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-11T22:55:16+00:00

Is it weird if I think it’s hot when the girls ass crack/inner cheeks is a darker color than the rest of her?

Zavier221 · 2022-05-11T23:53:59+00:00

Q4A

How did you meet your current partner ?

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-11T15:12:51+00:00

Does this resonate with anyone else?

Sex is a lot like playing tennis. Just because I'm best friends with someone doesn't mean I want to play tennis with them. At the same time, I don't need to be BFFs with someone to play tennis with them. I do need some base level friendliness with my tennis pals, absolutely, and playing tennis with a close friend - all else equal - is more enjoyable than playing tennis with an acquaintance. However, I can still enjoy playing tennis with my "tennis friends." Maybe I have friends who I don't see much outside of playing tennis, and that's ok. I can enjoy playing tennis with my "tennis-only friends," and just because I don't do everything with these people doesn't mean these "casual" tennis games are "meaningless."

If I have a spouse, it would be great if I could play tennis with them; in general, it's nice to have things in common with your spouse, you know, having things you can do with them, spend time with them. If I live in a world where, practically, if I marry then I can only play tennis with my spouse (an assuming that playing tennis is important to me), I'm going to want to be very certain that I'll enjoy playing tennis with someone before marrying them. Not that other things aren't also important when considering marrying someone, but if they're not going to be a fun tennis partner, then they aren't a viable candidate for marriage.

edit: why so controversial?

DonQOnIce · 2022-05-11T19:07:05+00:00

Lesbians that complain about straight Men trying to hook up with them, has to be one of the dumbest popular topics.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-05-11T23:03:54+00:00

I think women complain about child birth for clout. You got women shoving horse dildos extreme up there and your telling me a baby hurts?

turonx · 2022-05-12T05:04:20+00:00

Not one woman came to help https://www.reddit.com/r/HumansBeingBros/comments/unm98r/florida_woman_had_a_medical_episode_while_driving/

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-12T04:12:21+00:00

What’s with women wanting equal pay but also menstrual leave?

I can support any of those things independently but both?

Orange_Paisley · 2022-05-12T03:46:47+00:00

My father wrecked his 4th car in as many years and whhhyyyyy won’t they just take his license away already?!

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-05-12T03:43:32+00:00

Why do people talk about "free speech" as if it actually exists? No where has true free speech, not on the internet or in real life. Reddit is heavily censored with huge numbers of rules for what you can and can't say. You can't say a bunch of things in real life without being stopped or punished for it. Free speech is a fantasy concept that doesn't exist in reality. Who agrees?

tired_hillbilly · 2022-05-12T03:40:27+00:00

Just finished Godless. It was somewhere between meh and good. Final battle was really stupid. Everyone spent way too much time in tense stand-offs when they could've started shooting way earlier, before the other side was really ready.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-05-12T03:29:57+00:00

Ok so I think I got a pretty good pump today

Just earlier I had to force myself to stop looking in the mirror and go to bed after my shower.

This is just the best my body has ever looked, and even if it's not impressive, it means a lot to me to marvel at my progress, admire what I've turned into, and realize what I can become if I continue on this journey

Sorry (not) for the positive rant, I'm just feelin' particularly hot today and felt the need to gush about my journey again

IveGotIssues9918 · 2022-05-12T03:24:09+00:00

I'm probably going to regret this, but what do you guys think of this question?

Personally I think that taking advantage of a person's generosity like this by buying the most expensive things possible is really rude (it seems almost deliberate- top shelf vodka cannot taste that much better than just regular ass vodka), but in order to avoid having this happen to you:

If you're paying for the meal, it's fine and probably smart to set some sort of budget in advance if you can't trust the other person to not be a greedy dick (because you don't know them well enough- don't offer to pay for the meals of people whom you know to be greedy dicks). Obviously do this within reason, i.e. don't ask a girl out to a steakhouse and then go "oh btw my budget for the whole meal is $5". Like, your budget for an entree should be around the median price of items on the menu. Never choose anyone's meal for them, and no, "but I'm paying!" does not give you the right to decide what another person will eat when even most parents don't do this with their literal minor children.
To that end, don't invite someone to a restaurant that is out of their financial wheelhouse if you aren't comfortable with paying for their meal. If you ask a 20 year old college student out to the Four Seasons, and then are surprised Pikachu when they expect you to pay, it's stupid games and stupid prizes.
If your date is going over budget, just remind them. Most adults understand that money doesn't grow on trees, and if your date doesn't understand that or doesn't care because it's your money and not theirs, you don't want to date them anyway because they're a greedy dick.
If you're really concerned, setting it up so that everyone pays for what they order from the jump (because 50/50 can still be unfair if one person ordered way more than the other) avoids this issue.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2022-05-12T03:09:09+00:00

Last year I asked my friend who just got married how many kids he planned to have. He said he didn’t have a plan but his wife wanted 4-5 which he was ok with.

Last month, his wife gave birth to their first baby. I congratulated him and asked if they were going to have 3 more. He said that his wife has indefinitely suspended the plan to have more kids. Looks like the reality of child birth and pregnancy has set in.

PineappleGlazedHam · 2022-05-12T02:30:37+00:00

Alright which one of y’all is this?

FenaPugi · 2022-05-12T02:25:18+00:00

Realised there's an abortion thread so I may as well post what I'e posted here in the daily thread just now in the other thread.

Men are inadvertently gated out of life outcomes these days.

A man inadvertently doesn't have inherent sociological value, he can advertently build on his socioeconomic value but at the end of the day, his inadvertent sociological value will never be recognised if doesn't do 'the bare minimum,' 'doesn't man up' or 'doesn't nut up or shut up'; all of which correlate to his built-up/ man-made socioeconomic value.

This advertently defined yet implicitly expected socioeconomic value is what a man must push through. If a man doesn't do this, he isn't considered a man to most and the women who do stay with him are seen to be staying out of pity, and not out of love/ something she sees in him.

Ofc conversely women have an advertently defined yet implicitly expected birthgiver role. If she doesn't do this then she isn't considered part of the tribe anymore, every woman in the tribe will frown upon her with all manners of diatribe.

Denying a womens right to abort is to deny her sociological autonomy. By having an advertently defined yet implicitly expected sociological autonomous system then I don't see how we can expect women to not revolt? It's inhumane to not let women abort.

Where do we draw the line? When fascists act out? When rapists get off easy? When men are taken off their job (which inadvertently correlates to his socioeconomic life support)? When men are denied opportunities for roles because 'he has a certain immutable character trait'?

Trick questions: these are all merely a product of our implicitly pragmatic democracy which is constantly being built on with a capitalistic incentive. It's not self sustaining. We will die off if we don't figure out a compromise that allows for a liberal yet current victim prioritisation in the justice system. Bandwagoners are inevitable so we should only go by previous cases for the time being.

Unfortunately for women, this is another case of their rights being stripped from them. If it's any consolation, you'll like become the next aunties who rear the next generation of men to go to war! /s

rubisco-red · 2022-05-12T02:22:32+00:00

dude: "women have zero empathy because they don't care about men's issues"

me: "men don't care about men's issues either. Men in fact cause almost all male deaths and violence against men."

dude: "but the women aren't empathetic"

...some mad scapegoating on this sub

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-11T15:40:36+00:00

One dating advice I never understood and I’m still trying to figure out where it came from is :“ Wear a suit “

Bitch you want me to step out the house looking like the transporter in this heat lol ?

Next thing, they gon advise men to carry around briefcases

River_Archer_32 · 2022-05-11T14:32:30+00:00

since this was the last comment in the last daily thread but imo A woman saying she wants a generous man is a red flag. Never heard anybody but selfish gold diggers use that word. See youtuber Anna Bey. Its that bitch's favorite word.

IveGotIssues9918 · 2022-05-11T15:03:03+00:00

This is a point that I've had in my head for months, but another argument on a different thread reminded me of it:

Maybe about 2 months ago, there was a comment thread discussing the "female privilege" of being able to "use her sexuality" to get ahead in the workplace. The exact quote was "if a female knows how to use her assets literally no one is more privileged in life".

The general point that I wanted to make is that power by proxy isn't power, but let's take this scenario of a woman trading sexual favors for career perks. Even assuming that she has no moral compass at all and is willing to do this:

she has to be young and attractive
she has to find a boss/interviewer who is male, straight, attracted to her, and sleazy/reckless/stupid enough to trade a job for sexual favors (remember that, if the boss also has to answer to superiors or to HR, this is a fireable offense in pretty much every industry and is in some cases also against the actual law)
she has to trust that this sleazy man will hold up his end of the bargain (if she offers to suck his dick in exchange for the job, and he lets her suck his dick but doesn't give her the job, she has zero recourse unless she lies about what actually transpired- no one is prosecuting a "rape" case that consists of "he promised that I would get the job if I had sex with him but I didn't get the job", and only the wokest of wokes would consider such a situation rape if she was the instigator)
let's say she DOES get the job- we're assuming that she's not actually qualified for the job, because if she were she wouldn't have to suck dick for it (if a woman sucks her boss's dick for reasons other than to keep her job, and would have obtained and/or sustained employment otherwise, it's not a quid pro quo). Being in a job that you are not at all qualified for sounds like a nightmare. Even if she continues to trade sexual favors in order to keep her job, what is she going to be doing on a daily basis when she's supposed to actually be working? She can't be under the boss's desk 8 hours a day; she and he have to at least keep up the pretense that she is a legitimate employee, so she has to do actual work at some point. If she fucks up continuously because she's not qualified, her coworkers will notice and will begin to suspect things. In any decently sized workplace, there's more than one person in the managerial chain, so the boss's boss could be a woman or a man with sense who realizes that she isn't qualified. She can't be trading sexual favors to all of them.
if he ever becomes dissatisfied with her "performance" because she can't or won't do what he wants when he wants it, any "power" she had is immediately lost. Even if she never displeases him ever, what's going to happen when she gains 10 pounds or turns 30? What's going to happen if a younger and/or more attractive woman comes along who's willing to do the same thing? Because she will age, this is obviously not a sustainable long-term strategy, and if she hasn't developed the skills to actually be good at her job by the time she hits 35 or 40 or whatever, she's SOL (it's one thing for a company to hire a slightly underqualified 23 year old who can learn, but they're not hiring an underqualified 40 year old).

My main point: Power by proxy, which is what "female privilege" is in situations like this, is not actual power because it's contigent on giving the person in power what they want and can be taken away at any time. It's like how the favorite house slave had "power by proxy" over the other slaves, but if they ever did anything to displease their master, that was it for them.

Disclaimer: I don't think that a woman who actually does this, assuming that she was the instigator and it wasn't a "suck my dick or you're fired and you'll never work in this industry again" situation once she was actually in the job, is a victim- stupid games, stupid prizes, blah blah blah. I'm just not under the impression that she's the one with actual power in this situation.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-11T20:23:10+00:00

I predicted Hoosker-Doos post!!!

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-12T02:17:45+00:00

If you’re a guy and you always have to be the one to initiate sex in your relationship, you’re probably lame in the sack

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-05-12T02:16:15+00:00

Women don't fuck men they like or love, they fuck men they respect. The worst thing you can be to a woman is boring or she's apathetic towards you, even if she hates you, you're in a better position than a guy she finds boring.

You think this isn't true? Talk to the men who married women that "love" them but won't have sex with them, they don't respect their husbands because their husbands are fucking pathetic, they're boring.

She doesn't have to love you or like you to fuck you, she just has to respect you. Yes this is common sense, but so many people still don't believe it.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-12T02:12:49+00:00

Socializing and number's game is hugely underrated and overlooked. Yeah, you need some basic game (which is developed while socializing anyways) but all this talk about "holding frame" "techniques" is bs. Women take and are comfortable with guys who are in their proximity. Most of them are not gonna wait for years and years on end to find the perfect guy who knows how to hold frame or has these magical character traits that are only to be found in movies.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-12T01:50:34+00:00

Celtics suck major ass

SouthernGrass3 · 2022-05-12T01:37:09+00:00

Anyone else wondering how pickles is holding up?

annabeelongx · 2022-05-12T01:23:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/unb9xe/i_41m_havent_had_sex_with_my_wife_39f_for_3_years/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Jesus Christ

throwaway213091345 · 2022-05-12T01:18:06+00:00

Q4ALL: What is the worst romance movie you've seen?

For me, it will have to always be "Something Borrowed."

scwizard · 2022-05-12T01:11:04+00:00

One of the guys jumping off the bridge where it says "no jumping from bridge" is wearing an ankle monitor.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-12T01:07:12+00:00

“Sure, tell her! Women love virgins.

There is simply no way that saying that can end with you not having sex with her.”

I swear I’ve seen like three comments like this in a thread asking if OP should disclose their virginity and I can’t tell if they are sarcastic or not. This one was from a woman but I can’t take it seriously 😂

badgersonice · 2022-05-12T00:59:50+00:00

Literal quote from a discussion with a guy here insisting men are superior in every possible way:

You aren't better than men at pregnancy,

So can we just take a moment to laugh at the way some guys here will twist themselves into the most bizarre knots, rather than admit women are good for something? Hahaha

scwizard · 2022-05-12T00:58:51+00:00

Ok I'm not that creepy but someone who is is using a drone to peep on girls out here.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-12T00:49:40+00:00

I use to think an asexual person was someone with little or no sexual attraction. This subreddit taught me an asexual person is someone that doesn't let sex cloud their judgement.

For example: "What? You DONT let guys creampie you after you improperly take birth control? You must be asexual." "What?! You think guys should find more things to like about a girl other than her pussy?! You must be asexual!"

decoy88 · 2022-05-12T00:41:01+00:00

I feel like black dudes can get away with being short more than white dudes lmao

I won’t elaborate I just feel like if fuck a short black dude before a short white dude lmao

scwizard · 2022-05-12T00:30:30+00:00

Haven't seen anyone dressed inappropriately today.

Shorts that have your ass hanging out, and bkini bottoms that floss your thicc ass don't count. They're sexy but not at all socially strange.

figuringMylife · 2022-05-12T00:19:35+00:00

ngl, the strangest thing i just noticed is the hottest and most successful men on ppd (that i’ve seen/know) not only don’t care about body count, but also aren’t afraid of being doxxed.

maybe blue pill men are more naturally hot so they never had to worry about the bad side of women and whatever?

edit: i’m a becky, so don’t be coming for me for my becky opinions pl0x

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