Daily Community Chat Megathread

GarbageZestyclose698 · 2022-08-07T02:00:45+00:00

After actually socializing in real life the past couple of weeks, I've realized that real life is way more about physically mogging other guys than being more facially aesthetic. Facial looks theory is absolutely correct for online dating and social media, but for real life, being taller and more physically intimidating than other dudes makes you feel way more confident than just looking more pretty than them.

scwizard · 2022-08-07T01:47:34+00:00

Has anyone ever gone from being unattracted to 30+ year old girls to being into girls that age?

Like gotten your brain fixed basically.

Willow-girl · 2022-08-07T01:33:38+00:00

What song describes your relationship?

Tonight I'm thinking it's https://youtu.be/mhaju2pwrJg

scwizard · 2022-08-07T01:15:54+00:00

That 32 year old divorced girl I met at the end of the church thing, that I sperged out on a bit and asked her why she didn't have a baby in her marriage.

Should I try and hunt down her number to apologize to her? Or would that be weird?

Fat_Papaya · 2022-08-07T01:07:51+00:00

The threads recently have made for poor reading material haha

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-07T00:38:37+00:00

Minimum wage girls have the best pussy

meteorness123 · 2022-08-07T00:37:27+00:00

Can a woman love/respect a man who is not better her in any way or shape or at least on the same level ?

meteorness123 · 2022-08-07T00:22:56+00:00

So whats the topic of today ?

tinasnow-poty · 2022-08-07T00:21:47+00:00

Had a fwb whilst I was studying abroad. Moved back home so it obvs ended. He keeps calling me and asking for pictures but that doesn’t really do anything for me so I cba. I want to end it nicely. But at the same time I kinda wanna just ghost as payback for the time last year when he ghosted me for a couple months. Really childish I know. What should I say or not say

lulll · 2022-08-06T23:51:25+00:00

i just realized they call it jilling off because... jack and jill

EveryNizastar · 2022-08-06T23:42:57+00:00

Hey guys !!! You agree with what this user said

poppy_blu · 2022-08-06T23:37:47+00:00

Are you struggling because women are too picky?

Or are you struggling because you’re expecting way too much return for the effort you’re putting in?

Play_Muted · 2022-08-06T23:08:47+00:00

is this you?

u/just_a_jane_doe

Peacesquad · 2022-08-06T23:03:13+00:00

I know it sounds messed up but I can’t believe the amount of women who think they’re special. All those likes on Instagram. All those guys approaching you. They want to fuck you. very few of them care about your personality before sex. Imagine if guys thought they were special

SeaSquirrel · 2022-08-06T23:02:02+00:00

Dam the threads today are extra stupid huh

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-06T22:58:23+00:00

I think ima gain some weight. I have a long face and I feel like my low bf% exaggerates it more. Ima shoot for the lumberjack build.

scwizard · 2022-08-06T22:56:20+00:00

Wrong and stupid. You wait as long as YOU need to and your sexual history is your business. Share if you want. You didn’t fuck up, the dude is a child. You’ll be fine

The idea that a woman's sexual history is none of her lovers business is absurd to me. If you're lovers thinking of getting married one day, everything is each other's business.

scwizard · 2022-08-06T22:45:37+00:00

Honestly I can't imagine ever feeling affections for a woman my age.

TRPers maybe think this is biologically natural. Blue pillers would say it's something wrong with me that I need to fix via therapy.

But one thing is for sure. I'm not going to force myself to date someone I'm not at all attracted to.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-06T22:26:32+00:00

Q4M- would you date your spouse/wife/gf if she was a worm?

chilikettlechips · 2022-08-06T22:10:03+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/who4rt/women_claim_all_guys_even_below_average_men/

CMV the effort it takes to get a mid woman is about as much as it takes to get a Stacy.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-06T22:00:51+00:00

Why is me having an n count preference misogynistic? Women confuse hatred for women with disinterest.

2baloons · 2022-08-06T21:45:42+00:00

The men here are so pissed at the fact that the data says women have 7 partners over their lifetime on average.

You can feel the seething through the screen as the excuses start rolling in as to why the data is wrong and its akshually much higher.

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-08-06T21:42:19+00:00

Excessive freckles on girls are so fucking hot

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2022-08-06T21:35:25+00:00

Starting to realize I’m so much of an oddball in terms of interest and personality, that even if I become more social it’s going to be an uphill battle finding someon

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-08-06T21:32:34+00:00

GOLD MINE

We dated for 7 months and this guy was the sweetest boyfriend ever. And then he became friends with my ex who told him that I had hookups in the past, that I never made anyone "wait" for sex like I did with him. That's all it took for him to break up with me.

I made him "wait" because 1) he was so sweet and it'd break my heart if he was putting up an act just to have sex. 2) he was never pushy, now I realize he was just being respectful but at the time I thought he just didn't care that much that we weren't fucking. I told him this but now we're apparently "incompatible".

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/wh1zvy/its_crazy_how_someone_will_just_dump_you_for_a/

deste_eloise · 2022-08-06T21:32:31+00:00

There’s a guy who just moved in across my place and he’s just ridiculously attractive, but his wife just left him and now I’m curious what happened there..

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2022-08-06T01:12:27+00:00

There would be a whole lot less drama and resentment if we all only fucked people because we’re genuinely into them.

That means not fucking some random chick just to get your mojo back cuz your self esteem is low about how long the dry spell got.

Or dating the first nice dude that gives you the time of day to mend the wound of a breakup, or because your self worth hinges on being in a relationship, regardless of who it’s with.

Just be an adult. Pursue people you like because you like them. If you’ve got other issues sort em out on your own.

TheDarkDisciple · 2022-08-06T08:22:59+00:00

This sub is really filled with grade A morons. Women can smell misogyny but somehow end up in abusive relationships. They can also read minds apparently. Women the ultimate race 😂.

They are all moral virtuous beings with no flaw. The stupidity of you lot is astounding. If men as a group have bad behaviours, why do you think women will be any different. Not every thing is misogyny you dumb fucks!. Grow a fucking brain

poppy_blu · 2022-08-06T02:45:40+00:00

If I had a dollar for every time a man on this sub said “women will never admit….” I’d be rich.

So here goes.

I am a woman. I admit plenty of women suck. I admit plenty of women have bad character. I admit plenty of women can be hypocrites. I admit plenty of women lie. I admit plenty of women cheat. I admit women as gender are just as responsible for fucking up this planet as men as a gender are. I admit that no woman is even close to being perfect.

There. So now what are you going to do with that? Does that acknowledgement make you feel as good as you wanted it to? Does it change anything about your life?

DependentFennel3182 · 2022-08-06T11:51:56+00:00

An important lesson every man needs to learn in life is to never tell a girl your insecurities. Women will use them against you in times of need. I’ve seen so many men be embarassed or ridiculed on social media and in real life about insecurities they told their wife/girlfriend that were presumably not meant to be told to anyone else. If you need to talk about anything vulnerable never do it with a woman you have a relationship with.

scwizard · 2022-08-06T04:09:34+00:00

I'm getting divorced. My husband is filling out the paperwork right now. It was a fight that started over a stupid fucking bowling pass. I know I told him he could go bowl every day (it was only a half hour). I even said it nicely and one or two days was quite firm about it. But I didn't know what else to say when his father bought him a 3-games-per-day bowling pass for the rest of the summer, knowing we still had to unpack the house. I told him it was inconsiderate of his dad to have bought it before we were done unpacking. He told me it was disrespectful to his family and he was disgusted I would call his dad inconsiderate. I clarified it was only in this one instance. He told me if I didn't take it back he was just done. I should have lied and taken it back. Now I'm going to have nothing and I don't even know how I'm going to afford the rent on my own place. I'm a stahm. I have a huge gap in my employment. I don't know what I'm expecting posting here, but maybe you all could please send me some hope and tell me about how you picked yourself up after a major hurtle. We've been married nearly 8 years; together for 15.

What the shit?

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-06T09:08:27+00:00

It's ironic how guys will take relationship advice from people who've never been in healthy stable long term relationships. They're basically just promoting their lifestyle and trying to justify their own life choices that isn't logically applicable to the general population. RedPill loves to call things anomalies but then use kings and leaders throughout human history as justification for why Men are meant to have multiple wives. Smh

poppy_blu · 2022-08-06T01:55:11+00:00

By the way youngins, trump did not make up the term locker room talk. It has been around forever. I heard it as far back as the 80s.

John_Oakman · 2022-08-06T03:41:14+00:00

Nobody owes anyone anything, and then everyone wonders why they're all so lonely.

Snoo_16536 · 2022-08-06T10:30:12+00:00

The Fat guy decides to be blackpilled,

like dude, why not just lose the weight?

would you fuck yourself?

EulenWatcher · 2022-08-06T11:05:36+00:00

u/dysonRing,

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/kolkata/woman-takes-bullet-shielding-husband/articleshow/416223.cms

There are stories like this. Sure, they're rarer, but I think it has more to do with gender roles and difference in physical strength rather than with "women don't love men" kind of thing.

1Here4Bach · 2022-08-06T12:17:41+00:00

Whenever someone says males don’t have hive mind or males won’t do something bad even when given the chances, I think about cases of mass rape. Like the Rape of Nanjing where a large invading Japanese army raped 20,000 (estimates are actually up to 40,000+) girls and women. Or the Rape of Berlin where the Soviet soldiers raped every woman and girl they came across from 8 to 80.

Do you think all the males who participated in those mass rapes were rapists at home during non-war time? I don’t think so. I’m sure most of them were well mannered, employed, peaceful males back home on the surface. Which begs the question as to why they turned into rapist and pedophiles when they were given free reign to do so? It’s fascinating what males will do when they know they can get away with it.

zoloftabuser · 2022-08-06T17:38:47+00:00

You can yield more responses by listing yourself as a woman in your CV. In other news, no one is surprised.

https://academic.oup.com/esr/article/38/3/337/6412759

decoy88 · 2022-08-06T09:48:40+00:00

Which is more SIMP?

Bumlicking OnlyFans creators
Dickriding Andrew Tate

decoy88 · 2022-08-06T13:26:31+00:00

Manosphere bullshitter’s Kryptonite is: “Can you directly answer the question?”

zoloftabuser · 2022-08-06T16:48:59+00:00

Tate is spot on with this: women’s bodycount’s should be written on their foreheads.

Hilarious.

zoloftabuser · 2022-08-06T17:10:08+00:00

Every time I see a delusional take from the “women” here, I remind myself this is who I’m arguing with.

decoy88 · 2022-08-06T02:27:34+00:00

Every now and then I feel like when users say “women” they really mean “white umc liberals from my college”.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-06T03:56:57+00:00

Ended up staying at the girls' place last night, we're going out again tonight too, see if there's any metal or rock gigs going on.

I never expected her to be as awesome as she is. Have so much in common, but like I've said a thousand times on here the accent makes me melt.

decoy88 · 2022-08-06T04:55:33+00:00

Saying “I have sex” to to normal people and friends…

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-06T06:30:47+00:00

Remember how Riley Reid admitted to raping a kid, but everyone just acts like it’s ok because she’s hot

Fat_Papaya · 2022-08-06T09:24:47+00:00

People have absolutely no perception of what a good natty physique looks like. Men and women are damn near equally retarded here

PepperBusy1464 · 2022-08-06T10:16:27+00:00

If your girl is going out dressed like a hoe she’s probably a hoe. That whole we dress and look good for ourselves is bullshit there are plenty of respectable women that dont show their bodies off to strangers

lulll · 2022-08-06T12:45:53+00:00

for the love of god women pls stop

jackedsoon · 2022-08-06T16:44:39+00:00

reminder: a woman having unconventional opinions that goes against FSM is NOT a pickme

baresquad · 2022-08-06T17:53:29+00:00

Imagine a world where complimenting women, holding open doors for them, and treating them like a queen made them want you so bad that they’d damn near jump on you and it was even attractive behavior for casual sex…

I had to come back to this because I still can't believe this was said in a deleted post in defense of this point

this is about average men being looked over because women feel like being nice kind and a gentleman is either unattractive or the “baseline” when other men don’t even have to display those traits at all

Women aren't not fucking you for being average, they're not fucking you for being simps. Doing those things don't make you nice, they're just acts of kindness with a personal goal in mind whether that be receiving a "thank you" or in this case sex, casual sex to be specific

You guys want abundant pussy for being renaissance romance men because other men don't have to be that. That's literally no different than a woman who hates that she doesn't have a boyfriend even though she has a good job and doesn't party while girls that do or "hoes" do

Stop being simps.

dbz19_kai · 2022-08-06T01:12:50+00:00

Day 7 of Covid: Feeling better, no longer feeling nauseous or light headed. Still have a cough and a blocked nose. Have had a constant smell of smoke or burnt wood/meat for the past few days, it's not going away.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-08-06T01:43:07+00:00

COVID messed me up. Usually my stamina is top shelf. Hope all you guys stay safe and well.

poppy_blu · 2022-08-06T03:42:50+00:00

“Everything I do is for her.”

You do want you want to do and want her to respect and admire you for it and when she doesn’t you say she’s doesn’t appreciate what you do for her.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-06T09:05:28+00:00

Welp, so much for the supposedly amazing girl. Just messaged me saying she thinks last night was a mistake because she was drunk and depressed, doesn't want to waste my time and all that, doesn't see things going further etc.

Last night was fun but now it just feels like a massive waste of time. She said I'm welcome to join her tonight but I'm just gonna grab my wallet and then block her on everything afterwards.

I'm more disappointed that I got used and didn't even get a fuck out of it. I wouldn't feel so bad if that happened.

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-06T09:48:28+00:00

I just tried to listen to Fresh and Fit for the first time, and I had to turn that shit off. The women sounded dumb af and were making our gender look bad.

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-06T13:09:17+00:00

Went out yesterday, no pussy, mission failed.

Peacesquad · 2022-08-06T15:43:44+00:00

Misandry is everywhere but no one bats an eye. But when a man calls a woman fat all hell breaks loose 🤣

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-08-06T01:09:10+00:00

Had a dream about my exact type of girl giving me a lapdance last night (skinny blonde with small butt and flat chest) and right when she was about to let me fuck I told her in the dream I'm not allowed to cum.

First time I've ever stopped myself from a sleep nut while in a sex dream.

I have a date coming the real challenge will be stopping myself from nutting during real life sex.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-08-06T01:09:45+00:00

My man skete is out

https://people.com/tv/kim-kardashian-pete-davidson-split/

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-08-06T03:05:06+00:00

QW4 - How do you feel knowing I mog almost all of you lip wise?

Even if you tried to get state of art lip surgery, I would still annihilate all of you, one by one with my bare lips.

scwizard · 2022-08-06T03:09:01+00:00

I sometimes wonder who I’d be without birth control. Lol. It’s hard to know when you’ve been on it for 13 years.. the entirety of your adulthood! Once I missed a week of pills and I HAD A LIBIDO. It was eye opening.

Without birth control you'd be pregnant lol.

I have to be on birth control because otherwise I cant stop thinking about sex. And I smell (tmi)

Kinda sucks for women that the pill they take so they supposedly be happier and freer makes them chemically depressed.

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-06T03:47:26+00:00

What is the consensus on prostitution? To me if they look 21+ and healthy and off of some escort site it’s probably fine right? When I think of someone who’s being sex trafficed I imagine them looking beat up,visible drug addiction, unhealthy looking street walker types

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-06T04:50:15+00:00

Anybody else stay with a girl they weren’t really all that into just for their MASSIVE FUKIN BOOBS?? 🤤

NiceGuyNumber4 · 2022-08-06T04:53:02+00:00

That Las Vegas smoke shop robbery reminded me to keep my knife on me.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-08-06T07:04:50+00:00

I love this sub for the drama but this is it in a nutshell

ririsbaby · 2022-08-06T10:12:39+00:00

Going clubbing todayyyyy

Fat_Papaya · 2022-08-06T10:29:20+00:00

I see every now and then, guys on this sub admitting that they've slept with women who were in a relationship (she cheated) and they usually explain this as the fact that he is better off than the woman's spouse in terms of his physical appearance (ex. being muscular), or that the spouse is boring in some way (he has the average character traits women seek in an LTR, I assume) while the PPD poster is more exciting.

Seemingly, from what these posters are saying, the vast majority of women will cheat if given the opportunity by a 'superior' man, given this, what do women have to say about that? It's quite demoralizing to know that if I don't maintain a six pack, I'm probably going to get cucked haha.

Things like this really bother me, it makes me feel quite a bit jaded and I haven't even had a girlfriend to begin with, now all I can ever imagine is nearly abusive behaviour to be a norm from women, and less and less of me believes in any semblance of love and compassion from a woman

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-08-06T12:15:21+00:00

I don't wanna be on some psuedointellectual shit, and hell, maybe I am, but I believe that part of why your "average man" can't get any action is because he knows absolutely nothing about the female psyche.

The average men who do get action either act in ways that are coincidentally favorable or they have an in-depth understanding of the female psyche.

frostylungs · 2022-08-06T12:20:40+00:00

100’s of men saying things similar to “women are very difficult to get into a relationship with” this subs response? Maybe its you

pussy_destroyyer · 2022-08-06T12:38:10+00:00

Has anyone here also experienced that weird shit guys do where they act like they’re homies with your boyfriend even though they’re trying to get in your pants?

As mentioned in another post, me and my boyfriend go out to drink/club/concerts and other events where you get to know other people together fairly regularly. Obviously sometimes one of us will get approaches by the other gender sometimes, but there have been multiple times where a guy that tries to get in my pants will introduce himself, be super friendly with my boyfriend and talk about common interests or whatnot and then try to flirt with me?? Or they’re super friendly to my boyfriend, shoot their shot when we’re alone for a moment but also say something along the lines of “your boyfriend is a chill guy”.

It’s weird to me already to try to flirt with someone who is taken but I wanna know why guys do that? Is it to arouse less suspicion in the boyfriend or do they think it asserts dominance or some weird shit? Sorry that this is so long, obviously this isn’t a regular occurrence or anything but it has happened often enough to make me curious because it’s super bizarre.

JustaGuyinFinance · 2022-08-06T13:24:19+00:00

Tip: You should go to bed at least an hour after your dinner.

Play_Muted · 2022-08-06T13:33:55+00:00

I never understood how someone can feek "empowered" by walking half naked down the street, knowing that anyone can look at them, even those they do NOT wish to. The sheer idea of having an ugly/unattractive man look at me disgusted me.

Also, why the heck are fabrics these days SO see through? Even the more expensive clothing is somewhat transparent. The point of wearing that piece of clothing is to not see through.

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-06T13:59:43+00:00

Just started dating a girl with an age gap difference and vastly different n-count. It’s amazing. AMA

purplish_possum · 2022-08-06T15:06:28+00:00

I was at a big party at a Las Vegas hotel last night. There were more women than men (about 3 women for every 2 men). Regardless the less attractive guys got no play. Attractive guys flitted from one group of women to another being well received by all. Unattractive guys who tried to make moves got brushed off -- even by the unattractive women. Seems women value a few minutes of flirting with a hot guy making his rounds over the undivided attention of an unattractive guy.

John_Oakman · 2022-08-06T15:06:55+00:00

Sufficient long term or abstract self interest is indistinguishable from genuine altruism.

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-06T15:09:22+00:00

A lot of free speech advocates both reject and rely on the government in order for them to have their version of fReE sPeEcH

Free speech advocates: stay away government, I can say whatever I want.

Free speech advocates: quick government stop him from physically abusing after I verbally abused him.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2022-08-06T15:31:52+00:00

IN response to the rape of nanking comment.

I do agree that people can be exceptionally cruel and drop pretty much all their humanity in groups, but I think this is more human psychology than male psychology. in both the rapes of nanking and the soviets moving into Berlin, their armies were mostly if not entirely male, but if you want a similar example where women also participated, look no further than the Rwandan genocide. There weren't as many female killers but certainly were more than none, but plenty of Hutu women encouraged violence and rape against tutsis, and many of them participated through looting tutsi homes.

jackedsoon · 2022-08-06T15:45:45+00:00

CMV: Women put men into two boxes; guys who’ll need to court her, and guys who don’t

InfiniteEating · 2022-08-06T15:46:54+00:00

What's up with women having a crazy list of ideals for their boyfriends but always settling on most (cause most ppl can't meet them)?

Play_Muted · 2022-08-06T16:52:51+00:00

yeah ashley, we can tell.

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Slyfer_Seven · 2022-08-06T01:01:58+00:00

Y'all are slacking

2022-08-06T01:06:31+00:00

I’m first because I’m the main character

AquaChip · 2022-08-06T01:10:39+00:00

This is what y’all sound like.

edgyny · 2022-08-06T02:24:25+00:00

Q4incls: have you tried the catpill?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-06T02:29:20+00:00

Q4M - would you LTR (key word here, not casual) a woman who asked you for a dick pic prior to meeting you?

Liberated_Asexual · 2022-08-06T03:21:12+00:00

Why do women here get so upset if someone informs their opinion of women based on what they see on social media? The vast majority of women in my age group 20-32 are glued to social media.

purplish_possum · 2022-08-06T03:25:09+00:00

The perfect Friday night song courtesy of Joan Jett and company.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4RTipAZuMRI&list=RDGMEMJQXQAmqrnmK1SEjY_rKBGA&index=14

hardfine · 2022-08-06T04:02:01+00:00

Can people tell when someone is faking confidence? I'm not talking about the absurd exaggerated kind, just the quiet, self-assured type.

dbz19_kai · 2022-08-06T09:13:56+00:00

Holy hell I didn’t know you could post gifs on Reddit

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T13:44:41+00:00

Sigh. I’m feeling pretty sad right now. 2 relationships in the span of a year both ending poorly and I’m hurting and I feel worn out. So now, I’m in a singles session at our church.

And I want to live tweet it kind of with my thoughts.

I’m sitting at the back, as my hair is a tangled mess and I woke up late. I don’t feel up to being seen tbh.

The number of men to women is 3:1. And most of the men here are in relationships. So for men who want a girl, going to a church is a good way to find them. Fascinatingly for me, more men appear to be atheist/ spiritual than Christian.

Here is the godly advice for Christian men and women who want to date.

1)One interesting part of this, is the pastor says that not wanting children is a character defect. Very countercultural take.

2) Only date Christians So this is a bit of a problem for women, right. We can see the men here are 1:3 compared to women. I have almost never dated a guy(maybe 1 or 2) who identified as religious forget about Christians. My own brother is less religious than me. If a woman only dates Christians many of them will never be married.

3) no sex unless covenantly in marriage. That’s arrant insanity. No man is going to wait for sex to marry a woman. I’ve not had the (PIV/ anal sex) but I’ve had oral sex, heavy petting and it’s a tall order to ask men to wait for marriage. In the marketplace, you will lose out to women who will offer sex any time.

There’s another issue which is that as a woman, you want to have sex. I want to have sex with men. I want to sleep with a guy and know what it feels like. How long am I supposed to wait?

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T14:17:25+00:00

I pointed out everything I said to a guy here. He clearly didn’t like it. He moved away from me in a way that was amusing.

My point was that by following all the advice offered by the pastor, most women are opting into forever single hood.

Maybe I’ll slip back into the back here.

More questions I have. Most of the attractive girls are already in relationships, which mirrors the real world as well.

Another odd thing: All the guys are socializing with each other. Why would they do this? There are so many girls here ready for relationships who clearly are here to meet them.

I’m dying I wish you guys were here. I’m watching a video where they mention “from the get go, our dating would not involve having sex with each other”

Wtf?

If I had a boyfriend that I loved and trusted and knew wanted to marry me; I would fuck him at least three to four times a day. Why? Idk because I’m horny and I want to.

No sleepovers. No trips away. With families, we stayed in separate rooms.

Is everyone just nodding along to this madness?

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T14:51:12+00:00

Here is further advice:

1) Meet in the right place. Where is the right place? Not a bar, gym, or place of your happiest hobby.

But you can meet at your local church’s gatherings and activities. A non hook up app.

2) Date with intention. Get married or break up. Make your intentions as clear as possible each step of the way.

3) don’t pursue a person if no intention of pursuing marriage No date via text lol. We don’t owe each other an explanation for why we aren’t dating if you break up, non-exclusive dating. Phase I of dating: Non exclusive dating: no physical contact. No kisses 😔 Ask if you even like this person.

Phase 2: Exclusive dating: Men decide to be exclusive or not. Not women. Keep dating and exclusively vet for marriage. Dating is for as long as it takes to decide if you want to be married or not.

Phase 3: Engagement Ask blessing from parents. Pre marriage counseling.

Marriage

Date in group settings.join the same church.

Thank God, my antidepressants are starting to kick in. Yes they caused me to gain about 30lbs but depression was killing me. Yes I no longer want to look at myself in the mirror but hey at least there is a self to look at. Thank God for Prozac.

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T15:30:02+00:00

Bruh maybe I’m called to singleness lol

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T15:59:22+00:00

Q/A. “The guy I’m dating has remained a virgin but I have wandered from Christ in my twenties, He has not shown any signs of judging me, but how can I overcome this shame?”

I suggest wearing a scarlet letter, wash your husband’s feet every night and make several ceremonial ablutions at different times of the month and different phases of the moon.

zoloftabuser · 2022-08-06T16:03:40+00:00

Tate’s rise to stardom has been entertaining to say the least. Also, it’s funny how women will say they’ve never heard of him (despite being the most searched man on the internet) or they think he’s ugly/wouldn’t fuck him.

Sex is truly the only unit of measure they know.

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T16:05:18+00:00

Q/A from a guy: “ I am most attracted to girls who would hold my hand on the first date, hug me intimately and generally be interesting in authentic intimacy and desire for connection. What do I do?”

Answer: that’s a lie and you are interested in pornography. You want more physically than is appropriate for the relationship right now. You are longing for intimacy in a way that is unhealthy.

Bro, it’s ok. If you are around check out for the girl in the back in a purple dress, I’ll be happy to give you a hug and hold your hand lol.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-06T16:40:10+00:00

Ok I'm not even disappointed about the girl and I not going on a second date anymore, I'm disappointed about the fact that I left my wallet at her place, we agreed that she'd give it to me tonight again when we hung out (just as friends) and now that I've actually been waiting for her to message me like she said she would she's gone silent, maybe she did forget, maybe she fell asleep and didn't go out but for FUCK SAKE all I ask for is my fucking wallet back and I can't even get that?????

Retarded_Jizz · 2022-08-06T16:49:57+00:00

When will you-know-who will come back? This place needs drama. It is getting boring here.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-08-06T17:40:23+00:00

Q4all is day drinking a red flag in a partner?

Habil13 · 2022-08-06T21:32:10+00:00

Q4women: Rate this guy objectively

annabeelongx · 2022-08-06T21:29:23+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRU9Q9vm/?k=1

I like this little breakdown. What do you guys think?

flash13131313 · 2022-08-06T20:58:16+00:00

How much of a raise should I ask for if my company wants me to move close to their HQ in a low COL state? Currently in a high COL city but I grew up here and tbh would take less to stay here

growandappear · 2022-08-06T20:55:29+00:00

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2022/08/08/how-toxic-is-masculinity

For those interested in reading, a new yorker columnist takes on some thinkers in the contemporary gender sphere

Peacesquad · 2022-08-06T20:43:01+00:00

What’s the average body count for a woman from age 18-25?

MysterySolverDog · 2022-08-06T20:38:28+00:00

If men don't find every single female celebrity attractive, their standards are just simply too high. Just don't express any physical preferences whatsoever but also you can't be prepared to go for just anyone. Also don't use the same logic to analyse women's standards, or analyse their standards at all really.

Willow-girl · 2022-08-06T20:21:06+00:00

Drove an hour into Ohio to an estate auction this morning. Stood in the drizzle for two hours with a bunch of dudes who wear overalls unironically, only to be outbid on a 25-year-old Ford Ranger.

I haven't really been on a roll lately ...

EveryNizastar · 2022-08-06T20:18:29+00:00

1-You made a mistake in your game

2- she just didn’t like you

Which one is more common ?explain why

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-08-06T20:09:53+00:00

Guys, if I successfully main Lucian, do I get a shinny n word pass?

Peacesquad · 2022-08-06T20:08:29+00:00

The most basic looking girls with minimum wage jobs be curving decent successful dudes 😂😂😂😂

Fat_Papaya · 2022-08-06T19:45:31+00:00

I lost 4lbs this past week, had to go to the gym of my usual off days to get this much haha

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-08-06T19:33:49+00:00

How true is this?

Do men really care?

meteorness123 · 2022-08-06T19:29:15+00:00

"You don't get to know the true nature of women until you're at the bottom"

True or not

poppy_blu · 2022-08-06T19:25:42+00:00

Pros and cons of marriage mega thread?

I guess we’re not even trying to pretend this is not an incel sub anymore.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-08-06T19:24:34+00:00

Q4men what's the ideal woman's height/weight

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-06T19:23:31+00:00

Q4W - What % of women do you think would be ok with a cuck relationship?

Q4M - What % of men do you think would be ok with a cuck-queen relationship?

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-08-06T19:20:43+00:00

The audacity of FDS mods to ask for donations via Patreon when they won’t even maintain their subreddit

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-08-06T19:19:23+00:00

Update from yesterday; date with the 44 year old woman went really well. We went out for drinks at a bar she liked, bonded over our shared love of horror movies, and ended up going back to her place after (she's divorced, and her kid is older). Hoping to see her again before I head back to college.

I was surprised- the whole thing felt a lot easier than similar situations with girls my own age (early 20s).

meteorness123 · 2022-08-06T19:14:08+00:00

"You don't get to know the true nature of people until you're at the bottom"

Thots

RegTextoffender · 2022-08-06T19:04:13+00:00

Its a shame therapists as a group are useless, biased, and poorly educated. I say as a group, but as a group they are not the best and brightest.

I say this because man a lot of people here need it.

Snoo_16536 · 2022-08-06T18:54:46+00:00

My balls keep getting bigger, I might need to pay a blue pill woman to help lift these nutz.

BB game, here I come...

Habil13 · 2022-08-06T18:50:52+00:00

One thing I’ve never understood about the n-count debate is the men that care about who she fucked for her n-count to be high. I couldn’t give two shits if she fucked 50 short homeless men with small penises, or 50 6’8 basketball players with 8 inch cocks.

The problem is the 50, not who those 50 are.

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T18:50:33+00:00

Holy fuck Monster by Urasawa is so fucked up. It’s great and I love it

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-06T18:45:13+00:00

Once you realize men think with their dick and women think with there pussy every toxic relationship makes sense

Dick wants looks

Pussy wants excitement

Snoo_16536 · 2022-08-06T18:42:13+00:00

Imma always take the money over sex.

scwizard · 2022-08-06T18:38:19+00:00

Last day of the church thing I ran into a single 32 year old woman, no kids. Ran into her right before I had to go and chatted for a bit.

She was married for two years then divorced. And welp I just can't.

All biblical arguments against it aside I just can't.

pussy_destroyyer · 2022-08-06T18:38:11+00:00

I think overanalysing height and dick size is weird. I don’t know my boyfriends dick size or height and I never asked beca why the fuck would I ask. I feel like this is only common for online dating because in what world do I ask my boyfriend on a date “ hey what exactly is your height because I need to know to stay with you”

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-06T18:32:47+00:00

It’s weird being in a room full of women recall the guys if their past by their height, muscularity and dick size yet go online and see that only men objectify women and not vice versa

Incel_Dragonfly · 2022-08-06T18:20:56+00:00

It should be normalized for men who married non-virgin women to have a virgin lover.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-08-06T01:53:40+00:00

I know Andrew Tate has been a figure of discussion especially over the past few weeks, the guy is not perfect by any means but I would rather young men listen to him then the guys like Hassan, Ethan or whatever other male feminists that criticize him, when it comes to things like the public school system and most modern media, lot of that is used to basically weaken the masculinity of men, so while it's not always ideal I definitely am happier that guys like Andrew tate, fresh and fit and Rollo tomasi exist rather than not

errrright · 2022-08-06T02:37:12+00:00

Q4A - what’s the worst thing you’ve ever done to a friend?

JDWhiz96 · 2022-08-06T02:50:34+00:00

Having the hots for a coworker is a fate worse than death, yet I always fall victim to it. Ugh.

purplish_possum · 2022-08-06T02:58:30+00:00

The new crop of BBWs is impressive. My GF is one of the smallest women at the BBW party.

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-06T03:39:58+00:00

Andrew Tate is just the real life version of a pimp named slickback

redditiasausagefest · 2022-08-06T04:00:22+00:00

It's a bop: https://youtu.be/1koGtPWh7tk

Certified bop.

2022-08-06T05:34:57+00:00

The Bhagavad Gita is an awesome read. It always surprises me how similar the various world religions are.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2022-08-06T05:35:45+00:00

Q4M: Do you own an ironing board and iron?

Q4W: Would you judge a man for owning neither?

Asking for a friend…

scwizard · 2022-08-06T05:43:27+00:00

Some moms need to realize it's ok for them to plop their kids in front of the TV for a while and go to their bedroom to nap or play with their vibrator. Then go take them out to McDonald's for dinner.

Instead of constantly going at 100% trying to be a supermom and stressing their whole family out.

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-06T08:53:16+00:00

It's always ironic hearing feminists speak about Men and Women as if all Women agree with everything they're saying. Their perspective is that Men do a bunch of arguing with each other but Women are all so supportive and uplifting of each other. Imo most of the people calling a sex worker a whore are Women. But blaming Men comes with less consequences so they choose the path of least resistance

TheDarkDisciple · 2022-08-06T09:11:12+00:00

Touchy girls are so damn strange. This bitch touching my hair my arm, my drink (yup was sipping my drink), my legs all in front of her bf.

Interupting my convo to put in shitty sexual innuendoes, starts talking about BBCs, brings up anal, and starts talking about how i should be into pegging, like wtf is even that ? All this shit while we are in her bfs house like what the hell?

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-08-06T11:11:29+00:00

Moderators can I post gifs?

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-06T11:20:37+00:00

Q4W with low libidos. What can your long-term partner do to make you want to ride his dick NON-STOP?? I’m talking like 3x a day here.

some-retarded-douche · 2022-08-06T12:27:41+00:00

Learning about biomolecules is pretty wild. If any of the organic elements/some inorganic compounds had slightly different properties then life wouldn't be possible.

It makes me think that either god exists or life is much more common in the universe than we may think.

redditthrowaway1478 · 2022-08-06T12:37:38+00:00

Did anyone play Starwars: knights of the old republic 2?

Playing it at 14yo then playing it 15 years later...Holy shit I see everything differently now.

TigerRude4 · 2022-08-06T14:13:24+00:00

Q4W Would you hang out with your male friend one on one if you knew he had feelings for you, but he doesn't know you know and there's no chance he attempts acting on those feelings?

Retarded_Jizz · 2022-08-06T14:37:50+00:00

Who is the worst person to take advice from here?

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-06T15:12:20+00:00

A couple years ago I briefly dated a women who was about 15 years old than me, she was in her 40s.

She looked great for her age and we got along, but when I asked her if she wanted to be exclusive, she said:

she doesn’t believe in exclusivity before marriage
reason being because she wants her man to choose her even if he has other options
marriage must happen < 1 year from the initial first date
but after marriage, no seeing other people, strict monogamy

With her ruleset her fiancé could fuck a tinderella the day before their wedding and it’d still be good. Can anybody help me understand the logic here?

Ok-Ad-6744 · 2022-08-06T15:24:59+00:00

How the heck did I get here

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-08-06T15:30:25+00:00

What is ppd’s opinion on nightclubs rejecting people for their ethnicity?

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T15:37:53+00:00

Q/a time: How should men serve sacrificially in a relationship?

Bruh, none of the men can answer?

That is so fucking odd.

Peacesquad · 2022-08-06T15:44:59+00:00

Single moms don’t won’t love. They want help

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T15:57:22+00:00

How do we get in the way of the man of our dreams?

Show up to the threshing floor and uncover his feet a sans Ruth.

Be out there and be involved in places where you could meet someone

Snoo_16536 · 2022-08-06T15:57:43+00:00

don't take the black pill...

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T16:09:32+00:00

Q/A: “ I am towards the end of Phase I and I have held hands and kissed. Do we need to go backwards? (I.e stop holding hands and don’t kiss)

Pastor: yes.

Me: what the fuck.

lulll · 2022-08-06T16:17:00+00:00

so i just want to say i hate kim dickens. i hate her accent she ruins every role she plays and shes so fucking annoying

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T16:19:20+00:00

If you are really struggling sexually with the guy you are dating, you need to get married right away?

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T16:21:04+00:00

My personal conviction is that it is bad for the man to stay home full time and the wife to work outside the home.

Ask yourself could we live on his income?

Why the hell would I even get an education if I’m expected to sponge off the guy’s income?

Koipisces · 2022-08-06T16:25:42+00:00

I genuinely wonder, what the aim is of some people here. It’s like they want a relationship, but they keep complaining about dating and women, and how women are delusional and what not. It’s like they basically try to bring down women or see them as the enemy/evil or something which will just drive them even further away from ever getting a healthy relationship.. It feels contradicting to me. It might be hard, but you might want to start focusing on the positives. If only to be happy for yourself. I think it speaks for itself that nobody wants to date someone who is negative/feels superior/feels entitled etc. Yes this counts for both genders. Also, men irl never ask or care about n-count, I’ve never heard anyone talk about it outside of Reddit actually. I feel like a lot of misinformation is just being shared on these platforms that do not even reflect reality, just what some people would want to hear. Often questionable sources. That said I really hope for a healthy relationship for those who wish it and feel hurt by the dating scene these days.

trail22 · 2022-08-06T16:56:37+00:00

Q4w , what are your social hobbies that arent dominated by women?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-08-06T17:13:57+00:00

Q4men when did your dad leave?

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-08-06T17:47:21+00:00

Back home I go. Good luck to everyone on PPD. Time to get fat, eat crap, do my hair, sin sexually (by masturbating lol) eat hot chip and lie.

optimus69prime69 · 2022-08-06T15:11:38+00:00

In comments of askwomen or askreddit I've seen many times that women bring up not having pockets or practical pockets in their clothes. And always blame it of fashion industry instead of their priorities that has shaped the market.

Goes to show how average women are clueless about how their actions affect the world and how they evade responsibility. Feminism have infantilized women and they like it a lot.

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-06T15:15:01+00:00

I am convinced that women who successfully wait til marriage to have sex are either low libido, fearful of repercussions (like, worried about sin, hell, judgement, being “impure” or “dirty” etc., and that’s likely to follow them into their sex lives), or have an iron clad will. Men who successfully wait are also those things, and/or high inhibition. Tell me if I’m wrong.

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