Daily Community Chat Megathread

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-06-20T05:02:06+00:00

Men look at failed marriages, like a failed business, while women look at it like a failed employment.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-06-20T04:51:54+00:00

Idk if its me but I hate the idea of cold approaches. Like giving a random stranger women the ability to judge wether or not ur good enough for her just pisses me off.

Maybe I'm a narcissist. Just makes me angry thinking about it

obviousthrowawayaccs · 2023-06-20T04:07:54+00:00

most people imply "if a woman feels something, shes usually right or has good reason to feel this way" thereby justifying and excusing her annoying behaviours.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4904084/Lesbian-couple-20-years-beat-boy-5.html

when women do bad things "oh shes a victim, what happened was evil abusive men traumatized her into doing this"

you cant win.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-20T03:03:08+00:00

Dua Lipa's new boyfriend is uglier than her, has less money than her and less cloud than her.

Hypergamy in shambles

Blocksplain · 2023-06-20T02:57:35+00:00

how to keep peepee hard with condom on? like I don't really feel all that much once I put rubber over all those nerve endings

meteorness123 · 2023-06-20T02:34:13+00:00

Rate prime Lindsay Lohan.

https://qph.cf2.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-ba80dff28dfed9709049296d579c2d34-lq

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-20T02:20:31+00:00

People who show their face on Reddit are either weird af or simply just don’t give af.

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-20T02:18:24+00:00

Gymbros:

Should I do 3 sets of 10 reps of a heavier weight or 3 sets of 15 reps of a slightly lighter weight?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-06-20T01:57:54+00:00

It’s always the people with bad breath who don’t STFU

SierraMistSoda · 2023-06-20T01:39:04+00:00

So many overweight men complaining about overweight women? Whats up with that.

social_mule · 2023-06-20T01:17:17+00:00

Whatever happened to that bitch atlas b shruggin?

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-06-20T01:13:31+00:00

So my 42 year old coworker is currently tindering after 3 years of nothing. I get the play by plays and it is nuts out there. First guy she hooked up with is 33, attractive, and he immediately wanted her off the apps and to see him exclusively and invited her to his cousins wedding. He also downplayed how much money he had initially but afterwards things kept coming out, more cars and properties.

Guys with foot fetishes are desperate to lock down a woman who will accommodate goddamn.

Ciabatta_Scoober · 2023-06-20T00:55:55+00:00

Women on here be like "I see matched couples all the time"

The couples they see...

Less-Dentist8273 · 2023-06-20T00:43:01+00:00

When women say they like a guy with a good personality, it’s akin to a basketball coach saying he likes a passing big.

He could be the best playmaker in the world, but if he can’t protect the rim, play in the post, run a PnR, or be an effective piece on defence, he is absolutely useless. He is never making the team.

Same with guys who have good personalities but are sexually frustrated. If you’re not attractive to her to begin with, your personality is entirely irrelevant. You don’t even meet the basic criteria.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-20T00:42:41+00:00

Question4SingleMen: what’s stopping you from getting a gf and enjoying the holy grail in life known as “the sex”?

For me rn it’s cause I’m overweight. I think I’d be handsuum without the weight hence why I only eat meat, vegetables, fruits and more meat atm.

Less-Dentist8273 · 2023-06-20T00:37:03+00:00

Dating advice for women:

If you want to LTR a Chad, baby trap him. He has no choice but to associate with you 😎

OneLobster320 · 2023-06-20T00:30:34+00:00

May I ask a question to women? Why do you guys find short men to be so fervently unattractive?

I read the whole "beauty is subjective" and I do agree to a large extent; different women like different things. I've seen preferences for fit men (lean or bulky), fat men, skinny men, large noses, skinny noses, blond hair, brown hair, gingers, blue-collar, white-collar, green or blue or brown or grey eyes, feminine-presenting or masculine-presenting, different clothing styles, beard or stuble, different hair styles, different races, different personalities. But the one thing that is common among all women regardless of where, when, and who, is height.

Short women, average height women, tall women, fat women, fit women, skinny women, average bodied women, women with big boobs, women with small boobs, women who meet traditional standards of beauty, women who are conventionally homely, women who put on make-up and shave body hair, alt-women, successful women, broke women, intelligent women, unintelligent women, all consider short men to be the definition of unattractive.

May I ask why? Do you subconsciously associate short men to be morally failing people? Like rapists and murderers? How is it so homogenous?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-20T00:20:59+00:00

Nothing annoys me more than fitness influencers who try to say "There's no such thing as bad food" and actively tell their followers they can eat whatever they want, you're actively hurting your follower base.

I know why they do it, because they're trying to protect their follower's feelings and let's be real, because they know their followers don't have the discipline to eat a fully clean diet.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-20T00:19:01+00:00

My bf said my body shape is like a skinnier version of Mewtwo🤔

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-20T00:18:58+00:00

if i talk about sex how fast do y’all think most men will give me money?

A. in 10 minutes

B. in an hour

C. in a day

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-20T00:17:25+00:00

I feel like I’m damaged good, but not because I’ve done anything, it’s what I haven’t done. If you have basically no experience as a guy, you’re effectively damaged goods and not loveable

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-06-20T00:14:38+00:00

What is the difference between optimism and cope?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-20T00:05:29+00:00

I've officially cut out all processed and bad food from my diet, over the last few months I've spent some time fine tuning my diet in order to prepare for a good cut, and I finally found one that suits me the best.

No more junk food/cheat meals, officially cut out alcohol, cut out all sugary foods, just nutritious whole foods. I'd be quite happy if I never touched any of those things again.

OneLobster320 · 2023-06-19T23:57:53+00:00

Can you only date asexual women as a short guy?

I'm 5'3", 21M.

There were people saying that no woman finds short men sexually attractive, so we have to go for women who are asexual as they would not care for sex, hence, would not care about physical attraction, and care about height.

Are asexual women are our only dating pool? Are there enough asexual girls for all of us or only rich ones will find anyone?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-06-19T23:48:04+00:00

When my post topics aren't allowed but what if humans laid eggs is

-_-

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-19T23:42:40+00:00

AWALT. AMALT. awalt. amalt. ok? ok.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-19T23:17:19+00:00

Like a moth to a flame burned by the fire…

huhwhatokok · 2023-06-19T23:06:57+00:00

Now my bitch addicted to channnnnnelllllllllll

Peacesquad · 2023-06-19T22:50:24+00:00

Make me food give me sex. That’s it. Don’t have opinions baby girl you’ll make Peacesquad Jr. go limp lol😂😂

Peacesquad · 2023-06-19T22:48:38+00:00

Ashamed to say I’ve never gotten a BJ. Wonder how it feels

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-19T22:33:35+00:00

I have a lot of internalised misandry I need to deal with.

VampireChaser · 2023-06-19T22:30:49+00:00

Things that make women less attractive to most men:

Being a feminist.
Lots of tattoos and piercings.
Short hair.
Constantly nagging.
Fat.
Lots of male friends.
Long and fake nails.
Lip fillers.
High n count.
Having OF and/or posting thirst traps.
Single mom.
Entitled(men should pay, men should... bla bla).
Rude to random people.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-06-19T22:22:26+00:00

When it comes to the perception that men have of dating highly educated career oriented women, this woman totally gets it.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-06-19T22:18:04+00:00

Goddamn.

The entirety of female "debate" on here is

NAWALT

I'm not like that

My friends aren't like that

The women I work with/go to school with/church with aren't like that

I know this one girl, my mom's sister's second cousin thrice removed's friend, who isn't like that

found the inc l

you're just a dumb poopyhead man who cannot debate because you look at anecdotal evidence for which there is no empirical evidence

unless you are here with 18 double blind random controlled peer reviewed studies published in JAMA, I will not believe you

you're just a bitter smalled dicked loser who can't get laid

who hurt you

You're just a misogynist who hates women

I hope you die in a fire

INC L INC L INC L!!!!!

Nate_Reborn · 2023-06-19T22:14:12+00:00

I'm taking my passport and going overseas because the women are more submissive/feminine over there. Hello? Ladies?? Don't you care? Isn't anyone gonna stop me?!

Maffioze · 2023-06-19T22:13:48+00:00

Long distance really fucking sucks.

Windmill_flowers · 2023-06-19T22:06:52+00:00

Purge Week was awesome.

SorryEm · 2023-06-19T21:55:44+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14deldg/why_do_low_quality_guys_just_not_lower_your/

You do realize if this race to the bottom for most men happened humanity would just end up being ugly and obese.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-19T21:33:11+00:00

I wonder if I’ve ever interacted with some who frequents PPD in real life, I doubt it

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-06-19T21:31:16+00:00

QFA: In one’s lifetime how often do you think someone can fall in love or can have genuine connection?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-06-19T21:30:50+00:00

No matter how shitty things are, how shitty things have been, and how much I missed out on, I forget sometimes that if circumstances were a little different I wouldn't be here right now.

Will I ever sleep with an attractive, young woman in my lifetime? Probably not. Will I meet anyone who will have enthusiastic sex with me on a regular basis? Probably not. But I came into this world with nothing and I'll leave with nothing, so as far as I'm concerned I'm playing with house money.

The house might always win, but ill lose on my own terms.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-06-19T21:28:30+00:00

I was thinking about a debate here previously about professions being a dealbreaker or red flag for an LTR, but it never became a standalone post, but it made me think about the professions/hobbies that I view as a major red flag or outright dealbreaker;

-Law enforcement, over 40% self-reported that they had committed DV that's not a red flag that's the U.S.S.R. on a damn parade.

-MMA Guys/Women, sorry but too many volatile personalities and unresolved anger/temper issues.

-Trust fund babies, golden spoon up their ass and tendency to be a killjoy or relies solely on money to enjoy life.

-Gang members, because I actually enjoy being alive and there's far less complicated ways endanger yourself.

-1%ers, to be fair I've met some that were great guys but that's another group that the loss you'd take if you gamble wrong on what guy you date is too high to attempt.

-Gymbros/Gymbunnies, the booty is not worth dealing with the body image issues and extreme vanity you'll find in this group at alarming rates.

I don't know maybe I'm being too exclusionary. Or maybe it's common sense who knows?

MysterySolverDog · 2023-06-19T21:23:55+00:00

It's ok all, we already had the disingenuous strawman posting about "you're not entitled to sex and it isn't a need" during purge, you can stop now, haha. Holding hands with your homies definitely fulfils the same needs as a romantic relationship we got the message lol.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-19T21:21:17+00:00

Christianity is the best monotheistic religion.

Peacesquad · 2023-06-19T21:15:39+00:00

Women are hypergamous and date up. Men aren’t and can date down. Men must bring more value to women than the other way around to be with a woman. Period

Peacesquad · 2023-06-19T21:15:02+00:00

I’m building my own superhero universe from scratch. Maybe the next 6-12 years I can pitch it to a streaming service and make tons of cash!!

VampireChaser · 2023-06-19T20:47:15+00:00

Some people here don't realize that a person can do well in dating but still come here to complain. Women here see a guy complaining and they automatically think he's struggling, which isn't the case.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-19T20:32:02+00:00

I’ve always thought it was odd how when I express that I am ONLY interested in men close to age as me, there’s a bunch of older guys trying to provide a list of advantages to dating older guys as a way to convince me to date them or other older men. They’re like salespeople who don’t know how to leave you alone after you already said you’re not interested 10 times. This has legit been happening to me since I was 18 and it’s actually so annoying.

Men say women don’t date men their age (which isn’t true) but then when I express i only date men my age and don’t find any appeal to older men, I deserve a seminar for why I need to date an older guy and not a guy my age? Just weird behavior.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-06-19T20:31:22+00:00

Is it any surprise young men are embracing Andrew Tate, considering the countless hysterical screeching misandrist feminists out to make men miserable?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-06-19T19:54:22+00:00

I'm watching this dude eat 10,000 cals worth of taco bell and Italian American food in under 35 minutes. I'm fascinated

thoughts?

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-19T19:52:15+00:00

Here’s my thoughts on splitting the bill on dates. I don’t mind doing it, but I will think more highly and be more interested in a guy who pays for the date. If I have to pay for the whole date myself, I will have a low perspective of him and wont see him again.

Same with approaching. I don’t mind approaching guys but the guy who sticks out in my mind is a guy who approaches me.

So no it won’t hinder how I view a guy (unless im the sole payer) but a guy who takes initiative and showcases masculinity is someone I’m going to think more fondly of.

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Date	June 19, 2023 4:00 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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