Daily Community Chat Megathread

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-10T22:48:39+00:00

When you read about all these fakecells getting approached or matched by “3s” and “4s”

NeonCityNights · 2023-11-10T22:42:37+00:00

hoop earings are a red flag. The bigger the hoop, the bigger the cray

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-10T22:22:20+00:00

Q4A: Who's a female celebrity or public figure (actresses, politicians, musicians, athletes, content creators, etc) you would consider "average looking"?

I've asked this before, but this time I'm trying to see if there's a difference between what men consider average vs. what women consider average (plus there are new folks around now).

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-11-10T22:19:24+00:00

Makeupmaxxing gives women an unfair advantage.

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monster_lily · 2023-11-10T22:18:44+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8AGR1e8/

See ive always wanted this brand its called flowerknows but i know the actual product prob is not that good but i REALLYY like the packaging

monster_lily · 2023-11-10T22:15:26+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8AsvAhU/

Me if i was a princess

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-10T22:11:39+00:00

Just be male gazemaxxed bro

Peacesquad · 2023-11-10T22:07:25+00:00

Potoricco says I desperately need a job but for the 89,279th time I’m self employed and like to fuck around on reddit

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-10T21:53:52+00:00

A guy told me the way I talk reminds him of Barack Obama and now I’m scared of reminding potential boyfriends of a politician or a man old enough to be his dad.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-10T21:49:06+00:00

Sometimes I think I would be a bad partner if I got a relationship. I don't like the idea of having to attend to family events regarding my GF's family as I really really wouldn't care at all about meeting another family. The thought of having to pretend like I'm interested in her family sounds kinda tiring.

I already kinda don't like going to my own family's events. The concept of family is just weird to me. It feels like fake socialization. If we weren't related, you wouldn't give a fuck about me. Idk, if most people think like this. I feel like I'm just I'm not cut off for relationships here and there.

lacuti3 · 2023-11-10T21:48:21+00:00

Q4A:

Do most guys go their whole lives lying to themselves that average girls are really attractive because they don’t feel comfortable with the hot ones?

Gladboys · 2023-11-10T21:23:35+00:00

my counselor and like 80% of my friends have encouraged me to see an escort but honestly i'm afraid i might have some mental shattering afterwards anyone have experience in this realm is it common for some large breakdowns after buying an escort

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-10T21:01:20+00:00

They need to BAN candy grams from schools when it comes to Valentine's Day. It just makes a lot of kids feel super left out and rejected because no one would send them anything. School is built for ultra normie neurotypical morons. Beyond unfair.

And of course I always that hope, that stupid little hope that someone send me something every year.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-10T20:59:39+00:00

Plans for the weekend?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-10T20:56:29+00:00

why do Women's only STEM conferences exist? who's discriminating women from STEM in 2023? Is it a problem when a male dominated field is male dominated (CS, eng) but not when a female dominated field is female dominated (nursing, teaching)?

I'd assert that the gender imbalance in teachers is the most important gender imbalance to correct given that the vast majority of teachers are female and there's a lack of male teachers to serve as role models to boys. Moreover, female teachers tend to be worse at managing boys' behavior and favor female students in terms of grading.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-10T20:54:55+00:00

I wish a girl asked me to a school dance. Oh well. That kinda environment is not for me anyways. I hate unstructured social events. What the hell do I do the whole time? 😞

Also the obvious mega loud music is annoying.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-10T20:51:22+00:00

The bible teaches redpilled life lessons in the coolest way possible. In the beginning it's the story of beta male Adam. He couldn't hold his masculine frame and Eve didn't respect him, so she just followed her female nature of having no accountability and bit from the apple, which would be an allegory for the hoe phase in our modern era. Then Adam seeks for excuses and blames female nature instead of becoming more masculine and working on getting his harem together and breeding the whole world.

The story of Samson and Delilah is interesting as well. Samson was powerful af and his strength was rooted in his long hair. Delilah wanted to know badly where his strength came from and kept asking him. Homeboy got soft and started being vulnerable with her and opened up about his hair, instead of being masculine and doing things on his own. Of course female nature kicked in again, she lost respect for his emotional ass, cut his hair and messed up his life.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-10T20:41:36+00:00

If you had Down syndrome would you rather live with your family or go live in one of those homes for disabled adults?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-10T20:41:01+00:00

I care about women and want to give them their daily dose of female privilege.

I see a lot of women on my daily commute on the bus/subway. I want to check them out and give them their free daily validation and attention i.e. female privilege, help make them feel desired and wanted.

But unfortunately 70-80% of women of dating age (18-39) are fatties. I want to help them experience their female privilege but it would not be genuine if I was to pretend to be attracted to women who aren't healthy, who aren't at a healthy (19-21) BMI.

This is why I write so much about fatties. I care about them and everyday it's depressing to see 70-80% of women being undatable because they are unhealthy.

I can only dream of a world where the majority of women are healthy, so men wouldn't feel so much dating pressure and scarcity in the world and wouldn't feel like they have to the compete so much just for a woman who is healthy.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-10T19:54:49+00:00

Did it even begin?

saulbasedman · 2023-11-10T19:49:18+00:00

New memo to myself in valorant: Never let 2 bottomfraggers defend 1 site

happy_discus · 2023-11-10T19:34:48+00:00

Met my psychiatrist today because I am applying for disability benefits in my country. While he assessing me, he asked me if I ever had a girlfriend. Before I was even able to answer it he just looked at me, nodded, and told me he will be ticking No as the answer.

Apparently I look like a virgin.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-10T19:25:13+00:00

Q4All: Would you rather a have son who is a mega incel (I’m talking active member of forums, makes Reddit post complaining about women, standard hate for women stuff we are all familiar with at this point) who is a objective 6/10 but has a bad personality and doesn’t socialize. He blames everything that wrong in his life on others. Watches ndrew *ate and Fresh and ** and nods in agreement despite never having felt the embrace of a maiden.

OR

A daughter who is objectively ugly as fuck. I’m talking one of those people who you look at and you say to your inner monologue “god damn she is ugly af”. No man has ever taken an interest in her and no one will. She spends most of her day on ForeverAloneWomen. She stays in her room all day because after an encounter with a man he texted her thinking it was his friend with the line “I just fucked a monster.”

Both are in college and both major in health sciences (going into healthcare field after graduating).

dysonRing · 2023-11-10T19:24:15+00:00

To counter the PPD women argument that Margot Robbie is mid this is the same thing happening to her costar

https://www.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/17q6srq/sexiest_man_is_being_announced_in_just_a_few/

I understand why Ryan Gosling is not attractive, your inability to identify why he is not is pathetic (his basset hound eyes), you liking his personality is completely irrelevant and a traditional female lie.

Margot Robbie too is missing fake tits and ass, she is also getting older in those that value face more than I do. That said like 99% of heterosexual males (myself included)would bang her if she asked super nicely.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-10T19:20:12+00:00

Apparently autistic people are 4x more likely to suffer from gastrointestinal issues. That probably explains my severe constipation as a kid. I always wondered why I had that problem. My constipation was so bad once that I had to go to the hospital. Occurring to mother, MiraLAX back then was only obtained through a prescription. Little fun fact.

Also, at least I know I'm 100% not gay because I DID NOT enjoy having those enemas shoved up my ass as a kid. 😒

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-10T19:15:47+00:00

One of the funniest things I’ve ever seen on this sub was that post made earlier this week by a women who said “Women have moved on from men” or some shit along those lines and basically just made post #999999 about how men suck and women are wonderful.

…. Only for the comments under the post to tell that on her profile she was posting on FA (Forever Alone) subs. This moment really reminded me that misery loves company.

And then there was the DT where a TwoXDrone got lost and commented “men who are single deserve it” just for me to click on her profile and see TwoX and Not How girls work on her active subs.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-10T19:04:34+00:00

I have the secret to luxuriously thick hair if anyone wants it.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-10T18:59:29+00:00

Anything is possible! Don't ever give up! Keep grinding, keep hustling, shoot for your dreams!

— Meeks

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-10T18:26:30+00:00

Bro, cooked all feminists here -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17rorxi/if_youve_ever_called_a_man_an_incel_you_cant/

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-10T18:23:24+00:00

Can you get treatment for low test if you're overweight, or would they expect you to lose weight first and see if your test levels normalize?

I have such low motivation to do anything. I'm not depressed, just existentially lazy. Like I could get up to 16 hours of overtime a month, but I don't do it despite wanting/needing the money.

I also can't stick to a routine or be consistent with healthy habits I would like to do.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-10T18:20:58+00:00

"Lol it don't matter how you approach it as a dude if you mention to a woman about going to the gym you're gonna get your head bit off"

Yup any form of verbal communication towards a woman is useless, because they'll always turn into the language of emotionalism

Which again l always say, if she's going to be your main woman, then she needs to know the standards, if your going to be my main woman, then maintaining physical attractiveness is the bare minimum

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-10T18:14:27+00:00

The Marvels’ review: The worst MCU movie yet -->

https://nypost.com/2023/11/08/entertainment/the-marvels-review-the-worst-mcu-movie-yet/amp/

I'm fortunate enough to have witnessed the rise and fall of the superhero movie genre

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-10T18:03:00+00:00

This article on favorite songs and attachment styles is still very interesting. I’m not too serious about it, but I think about it from time to time. It could explain why some love songs don’t feel romantic at all to me, while some of my friends go crazy when they hear them, telling me how they have never heard anything more romantic.

Original article with limited access

scwizard · 2023-11-10T18:02:52+00:00

Lol those pictures of girls tied up and put into carry on luggage, are like the perfect example of fetishized sex trafficking being silly and unrealistic.

purplish_possum · 2023-11-10T18:02:25+00:00

Great news! America's population will soon be decreasing.

https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2023/population-projections.html#:~:text=NOV.%209%2C%202023%20%E2%80%94%20The,to%20366%20million%20in%202100.

About time. This place is infested with hominids.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-10T17:57:16+00:00

My childhood just feels like a one big giant lie sometimes. It confused me when a girl I liked in the 4th grade that I saw again in high school was acting cold towards me. She never made eye contact, waved hi or anything like that with me. I was convinced that she just forgot who I was. I approached her and found out that she did in fact remember who I was but just never acknowledged my existence. I then asked for her number and texted her but she never responded back.

I was beyond perplexed because she was so nice to me in the 4th grade. I think she was just being nice back then because I was noticeably autistic and most people don't want to treat the disabled like shit. Idk, I now feel like in my childhood and early teens that everyone just tolerated my existence, only just pitied me and had no interest of being actual friends. People would act super friendly towards me but would never want to do anything with me outside of the classroom. No birthday parties, dates, sleepovers or hangouts. Nothing.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-10T17:46:36+00:00

Imagine being so crappy looking that women move away from their seat when you have to sit next to them cause there's no other available seat in sight lol.

relish5k · 2023-11-10T17:39:27+00:00

A friend of mine has been offered a nannying position for $150k, M-F, 8-6. 3 boys.

She and her boyfriend have been working in “private homes” for ~5 years. Think people who have a place on the upper east side and in the Hamptons. Usually employ a full time staff of 4-12.

There is actually quite a bit of money to be made doing domestic labor for the crazy wealthy.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-10T17:34:13+00:00

Happy Friday to everyone with a credit score of 750+

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-10T17:21:49+00:00

People are so much more open here. I feel a bit stunned in this regard. I cannot chat away with strangers about my life as op rly as some.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-10T17:18:17+00:00

Boogie dating a 20 year old is such goals omg

Does she really like him or is she using him??? 😭

ratboi34 · 2023-11-10T17:13:25+00:00

I really should learn how to properly play guitar while I'm still able to have long hair. Looking at my familys genetics I got like 3 more years until Norwood comes for me. What kind of sentimental/melancholic/loverboyesque songs should I learn tho? My voice seems to be a little to deep for most songs I like.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-10T17:10:26+00:00

So it's been 2 days since I pulled a double shift and I am still extremely sluggish and feeling fatigued. After this next week I should have saved $2500. Should I quit my second job or does that make me weak? If I work through Christmas I should be able to save around $6000. This is a really hard choice.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-10T17:00:05+00:00

This documentary is a cautionary tale. I think this is inspiring to not fuck your life up.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-10T16:56:00+00:00

I bet that room of boogie and his big guy friends playing cards smells so bad.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-10T16:54:12+00:00

Watching this documentary about Boogie. Dude needs to sell everything he owns, sell his house, move into a cheaper house, document it all, lose weight, and make self improvement content and apologize profusely for being shitty.

Then get his income back up and budget his escort funds but keep it a secret.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-10T16:45:33+00:00

I recently found out that mother watches Wojak videos. One day I randomly sent a video in our group chat and she said that she watches these kinds of videos. I was so surprised that I thought she was lying but she telling the truth. She's seen Doomer to Bloomer. Yesterday we watched Chad Tries Tinder. Where he matches with a chick whose bio says no casual hookups but when matched with Chad, she broke her rule and asked him to head over immediately a couple words in. Lol.

So weird that mother watches Wojak/Blackpill/Doomer videos and that I can watch them with her. 🤣

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-10T16:45:12+00:00

Why do people keep saying children are necessary to society? Why do people keep warning of population collapse? I thought overpopulation was a problem.

This is just another way to coerce women into having sex and being housewives.

This is the same as men who say there is a sexless men crisis. Telling women to have sex with ugly men or there will be more mass shooters.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-10T15:33:46+00:00

Acquire aesthetics or perish in the attempt

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-10T23:59:16+00:00

My problem with twox is that it appears in /r/all and popular.

I don't have much of a problem with it being a misandrist circlejerk sub, but it should be quarantined and deranked from /r/all and popular like the male equivalent subs. There are no equivalent male subs that aren't quarantined, so it's sexism against men and favoritism for women.

NeonCityNights · 2023-11-10T15:48:02+00:00

whenever I Chadfish on dating apps, I always receive a deluge of hyper aggressive and forward messages from plain women, and I lol. They don't waste time sending sexual innuendo, often in the first message. I don't message them of course, but the messages are very entertaining and insightful.

Gladboys · 2023-11-10T12:19:53+00:00

Daily reminder none of the effort matters if you don’t believe in yourself

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-10T15:41:32+00:00

btw that suicidal guy from 2 days ago was in my DMs telling me "people like you" is the reason he has "no other choice." it was rlly interesting but he refused to explain what his thought process on that was at all

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-11T04:12:59+00:00

It kinda sucks that there isn’t really a solution to depression if you’re a truecel. The only thing you can do is just try not to think about how you’re gonna die alone. Some weeks I can do an okay job of ignoring (like this week went alright for me), but you can’t run from your feelings forever.

baiser_vole · 2023-11-11T06:07:50+00:00

I read How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game and let my mind run wild.

I was thinking, it could be fun to take my body out for a test drive and flirt but not have sex, because I'm anti-premarital sex. But then I thought, this is a once in a lifetime chance to experience sex with a penis. So it became, can I change my sex after I get married to my boyfriend so I'd be able to have sex with him? Then it hit me. If my boyfriend turns into a woman, he would look exactly like his mom... Yeah. Gross. No.

CatastrophicMango · 2023-11-10T11:14:50+00:00

Having browsed this sub for about 20 minutes it seems like there's not much debate going on but a lot more people taking turns in abjectly refusing to agree on the definitions of terms. Not that anyone will listen, but consider sticking to your own beliefs instead of posting hallucinations of the other side's.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-10T15:57:45+00:00

Q4All: Why do you think a lot of men are single?

Out of all my male friends (25ish) only three of them have girlfriends. We are all 21-25 and in terms of looks I am the fattest and ugliest but hearing these dudes talk about their struggles makes me want to stop MJ dietmaxx and take the MacDonalds Pill.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-10T23:36:58+00:00

I just really wish I was born normal so I wouldn't have ended up in the situation that I'm in now. Spent more time with therapists and psychiatrists than I did having healthy connections with women my whole life because of this stupid autism.

Sillysheila · 2023-11-11T10:05:23+00:00

I had a fantastic nature hike this afternoon. In total I spotted:

5 kangaroos, with 1 joey

5 or so little swallow birds

One (Aussie) possum

One skink lizard

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-11T11:30:01+00:00

When I was in high school and college, all I wanted was a boyfriend. Someone to hold me and tell me I was pretty, someone to go to the movies with and have lunch in the cafeteria with, someone to practice having a relationship with. I think it would have been really, really important to my development as a person, looking back, if I had had that experience.

But as much as I wanted it, I didn't find it. The boys I liked didn't like me back, and the couple of guys who ever asked me out were either totally not interesting to me or didn't want a second date after I refused sex on the first one.

I look back at that girl that I was and it breaks my heart. She was so sweet, and cute, and fun. She was smart and capable. And no one wanted her. It fundamentally changed who she grew up to be.

So, yes, I do think there is very much an epidemic of young women wanting to find love and companionship and not being able to find it.

What being rejected by chad feels like 😢

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-10T12:22:05+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/s/L8A5qaF2Wb

A vast conspiracy or what?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-10T15:51:54+00:00

Ladies wait at the finish line and fuck the winners. Men who run the race will fuck other chicks. You can’t tell him shit.

Patrickstarho · 2023-11-11T05:43:15+00:00

I’m in my man whore era 💅

Everything a woman says on here is false. Ppl on here say you need a social life, I don’t have one. In reality all you need is one good picture and the self control to not make things sexual.

Often times I’ve noticed the women talks about sex first.

and I’ve mentioned to them that I don’t really do much, don’t go out, don’t drink, don’t have irl friends, I used to idolize Andrew tate, I love joe rogan like he’s a second father and guess what?

They don’t care. I’m about to double my body count before the year ends. All suffering is in your imagination.

The women here are out of touch with reality.

I’m him

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T11:51:39+00:00

If you're a woman that's neurotypical, average looking and not fat but supposedly can't get a boyfriend then it's you're fault. No excuses. 100% sure you're rejecting guys too but making it seem like no one has ever liked you.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-10T14:53:19+00:00

Be kind in the face of adversity. All of this gender war stuff is just hurt people taking their frustration out on other hurt people. Women who had a shitty relationship with their dads or dated one too many fuckboys. Men who feel scorned or existentially rejected by women. They're both just hurt people trying to deal with their pain and projecting their frustration onto an entire gender.

Windmill_flowers · 2023-11-10T15:10:12+00:00

Ever notice how people struggle to answer a straightforward question online?

Q: You have an apple and a banana. Which do you choose?

"Neither! I don't know if they're infected with alien eggs that could hatch and explode through my chest!"

"Pfft obviously you want us to choose the banana. What a dumb question"

"Which one has a higher body count?"

purplish_possum · 2023-11-10T15:58:39+00:00

Every time I hear people lament how criminals are rolling in pussy I have to laugh. Yesterday I visited several inmates at the local jail. One was dumb ass 18-year-old kid who's most likely still a virgin and won't be getting out until he's middle age. The other probably does OK with women but got conned into playing white knight for a trailer park skank.

The kid who from his juvenile record I deduce spent the last several years smoking weed, playing video games, and skipping school decided to try his hand at being a real gangster. He sucks at being a gangster. He was sentenced to 15 years in a neighboring county and is looking at another 6 years in my county.

The other guy just got paroled after doing five years for car jacking. He needed a place to stay and he's quite good looking so it's not surprising that a local woman told him he could stay with her in her trailer. But she had ulterior motives too. She was having trouble with an ex who she didn't want around anymore. When the ex came around parolee -- who really should have known better -- "protected" the his damsel in distress from her "abusive" ex. The ex ended up in the hospital and the parolee is back in custody facing another 10 years in prison.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-10T16:03:16+00:00

Figured out what happened to my leg. Apparently I had a cramp in the middle of the night that woke me up. I can't remember this happening at all

scwizard · 2023-11-11T00:42:34+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17s6crp/omegle_was_forced_to_shut_down_by_a_lawsuit_from/

Oh boi

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-11T00:55:50+00:00

I think you should give nice guys a chance.

afk_row · 2023-11-11T01:49:57+00:00

https://i.redd.it/qr00a1qljmzb1.gif

My cat is always hunting me 😳

Willow-girl · 2023-11-11T01:54:07+00:00

I didn't bother telling the contractor I work for that I was gonna need to take some time off for surgery because business has been so slow anyway. Of course that GUARANTEED that I would get slammed with work! Which meant my boyfriend had to do it all, lol.

When we came I home, I didn't even say anything; just went into the kitchen and started baking a pie. LOL

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-11T02:12:27+00:00

It's not all about sex. Sometimes ya boi just wants to flirt with women and get some validation and attention from women. That's not even possible.

I'll be at the bars/clubs. Beg 10 women to talk to me for even a couple minutes, 5-7 will ignore me/show disinterest/be pulled away by her friends/keep talking to her friends and slow fade away and 2-4 needs to "go to the bathroom" (where there's some magical portal where she disappears forever at) or "find her friends". Forget sex, I'm lucky to even get a single woman to talk to me for a few minutes.

Meanwhile, a woman will get approached by and get attention and validation from 10 men with no effort at all. She can get attention from and flirt with men above her level.

We supposedly live in the land of liberalism, feminism, equality and equal opportunity. This is not fair or equal at all. We still have so much progress needed to get to equality.

Men are not given anywhere near the same opportunity as women. Men are being marginalized. This is the frontier of inequality that liberals and feminists need to focus on.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T03:08:42+00:00

I can feel a depressive episode coming along. I was doing so good today. 😞

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-11T03:31:02+00:00

That men sleeping down thread is wild

Men could not even comprehend the opposite

If a fat guy walked up to a hot athletic girl and said "please just spit on me" she'd say ew no go away

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-11T04:01:21+00:00

Ughhh I will do ANYTHING to lose weight except eat healthy and workout

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-11T06:49:09+00:00

https://i.redd.it/ve2ztje61ozb1.gif

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-11T09:33:41+00:00

https://i.redd.it/658a6r9guozb1.gif

Being banned for a week and being unable to respond on the engagement ring thread

saulbasedman · 2023-11-10T11:48:29+00:00

https://youtu.be/o0WWaA3oFa4?feature=shared

Anthem of this subreddit. Such a good song as well.

Holiday_Artichoke_86 · 2023-11-10T12:00:42+00:00

How can i meet girls and make friends if everyone at my social context, only think and like going to bars and clubs while i hate to do so?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-10T12:29:27+00:00

LOL! -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17rt5ev/feels_like_i_will_never_find_the_love_i_want_are/

What does the guy get in return?

itzReborn · 2023-11-10T14:07:55+00:00

My childhood really set me back and it’s driving me crazy. Lots of verbal abuse(even to this day if I’m being honest) which led to social anxiety/me having a quiet personality(don’t like talking) which women usually don’t like in guys. That plus being an introvert already led to lack of self esteem/confidence(pretty sure women hate this in guys as well). Which led to avoidance of social situations and social isolation for me.

And it sucks cause I feel like I have a decent enough hand to be a good catch(I like to think I’m good looking, 6ft, smart, good listener, getting my style up). But none will know unless I actually put myself out there. But just putting myself out there isn’t enough if I don’t fix those other problems first…

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-11-10T14:08:00+00:00

Why can women orgasm with everything except human penises?

Ready_Kiwi2845 · 2023-11-10T14:48:29+00:00

women are attracted to their looksmatch they've just been spoiled to the point their looksmatch is no longer exciting. if there was a system like in the past where it was their looksmatch or nothing they would all take it in a heartbeat CMV.

grillopie · 2023-11-10T15:08:55+00:00

Why is everyone so obsessed with looks matching? Of all the things than can be matched, looks probably isnt even in like the top 3 in terms of relevance or importance?

At some point, without getting too granular, its really easy to find your “looksmatch” walking around. Its really much harder to match some other things.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-11-10T15:09:35+00:00

Women hate all men. They only like the genes of maybe 5% of men. They don't like chads too

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-11-10T15:25:35+00:00

Would you change your sexuality if a pill existed for it?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-10T16:00:22+00:00

I can really cry for any reason, it’s quite funny sometimes. Today I started to think about my old computers and how much fun I used to have with them. I wonder where they are now, do they still think about our times together…

WilliamWyattD · 2023-11-10T16:14:28+00:00

I have never liked the fact that many men's first suggestions about how to ensure high heterosexual pairing rates involve somehow creating a need for a man in a woman's individual life, rather than trying to make the genders voluntarily want each other more.

I still feel this way, but after some recent reading, I realize it is more complicated than that. There is a bridge between the above two concepts. When women need a man, it can increase both her respect for him and even her desire for him. This is by no means sufficient to make any woman desire any husband, but the idea that need for a man and true desire and love for a man are totally separate is not as true as had thought.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-10T16:31:20+00:00

On the way to work this morning, I remembered something that happened long ago that made me think of the saying "If she's attracted to you, you can do no wrong and if she isn't attracted to you, you can do no right".

I had a childhood friend (Mara) from kindergarten reconnect with me when we were in high school. We were roughly in the same school system, but didn't cross paths until like 11th grade. When we reconnected, it was nothing but friendly vibes and intentions. Because of that, I felt very comfortable sharing with her girl interests and observations, and she did the same with the guys that caught her eye.

I remember a year in she had befriended a girl that I thought was just so damn sexy. I asked my friend if she thought she'd be interested, and she said she'd ask and see if there was a way to set something up. What a wingwoman I thought! Fucking solid, and of course I'd be on the lookout for something that she liked, because of course I'd reciprocate the effort.

Mara told me it wasn't going to happen, and I of course was bummed out. Mara brings up that some people were gossiping that we were a thing. We had been hanging out a lot. When she said that, we both laughed. People didn't know that we were purely friends, and Mara had been seeing/hooking up with some mid 20 year old guy for months, she had kept it secret. I knew of course, and never made anything close to a move.

We were hanging out at a park but it got late, it was well into dark and cold, and people had left with just us two remaining. It was all friendly on my end, but I was beginning to feel really restless and horny, and annoyed that it didn't work out with her friend. It's not that Mara wasn't attractive, she was in her own way, I just had legit never considered her a sexual option, and I thought she felt the same. Well ... we were talking and cuddling a bit because it was cold, and she felt my hardon through my jeans. She looked and me and smiled and laughed, asking like "really? me??". And I was like, "oh no, I'm just always horny all the time, sexally frustrated. I wouldn't try anything with you, we're friends and I know you're seeing that guy". She laughed and said he was an asshole anyway, and she said take a look at this, what do you think, and she lifted her sweater and shirt, showing me her bare tits. Yes they were big and awesome. I was like damn, yeah you're lucky, they're pretty hot but she always wore things to hide them, deemphasize them. Only someone looking really hard would notice she was packing. She stopped smiling and being all friendly and just looked at me and said "just take it out already".

I laughed thinking she wasn't serious, but she unbuttoned my jeans, and ... you can imagine the rest. It felt good, but I was very confused about the whole thing. It lasted a few months, then we just completely fell out of touch after having been hanging out like three times a week for almost 2 years.

Years after that, a friend of a friend saw me at the end of college and told me that Mara was pretty crazy about me. I was completely surprised and told them that we were just friends, i never made a move, it was just normal. He swears that she was. She just completely stopped talking to me.

All this story to say, how did I even attract her? I made no moves, talked about school, work, family, random bullshit that wasn't close to suggestive or sexual. I DID NOTHING. In fact, I expressed sexual interest in her friend. So how did this happen?

I think the above quote needs to be updated. It should be "If she's ~attracted~ aroused by you, you can do no wrong. If she isn't ~attracted~ aroused by you, you can do no right".

Vocabulary clearly gets in the way of conversation between sex love and relationships between men and women. The question lingers: "What arouses women to a particular man?"

What we know is that if a girl is aroused by you, you can say or do nearly everything "wrong" and it won't dissuade her. What gives?

dbz__f · 2023-11-10T23:27:04+00:00

Spiderinos in your house, kill kill kill, or live and let live?

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-10T23:33:45+00:00

100% TRP is the most successful Men’s liberation movement.

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T01:52:55+00:00

My thing though is WHY are phone cases sooo fucking expensive its literally square shaped plastic

I bought a phone case that comes with a screen protector from shit cost $20 but its even WORSE at the mall bc when i first got my current phone my mom took me to one of those booths that sell phone cases and it was $40 DOLLARS for literally just a clear case

afk_row · 2023-11-11T02:51:48+00:00

Its over for zherkacel. He got dropped by a much little guy, it was embarrassing watching him fight. This is why weight and size doesn’t matter that much in street fights.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-11T02:54:34+00:00

Meanwhile my monk neighbor just told me that he (& I assume his pet snake) will be moving out in a couple weeks. He ran out of money and is going back to his home country. I feel bad for him, think it will be grim & wish a local Wat would just adopt him.

So a new neighbor next door & I just know it’s going to be yet another single bro 😎 Prime season is December-mid Feb so the place won’t be vacant for very long.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-11T03:35:17+00:00

Just have confidence and personality

dbz__f · 2023-11-11T03:54:22+00:00

Meanwhile on reddit: https://old.reddit.com/r/amiwrong/comments/17ro577/20m_when_i_was_13_i_let_my_dog_screw_me_i_was_the/

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-11T04:07:10+00:00

Just one of those nights where I'm processing old regrets. I dwell on them far less than I used to. Sometimes I wonder where I'd be if life took even a 1% different turn when I was 13.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-11T04:08:01+00:00

Fuck Tim Hortons. I literally got diarrhea and threw up after eating food from there.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-11T05:03:44+00:00

Just be like the rock and johnny sins bro

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-11T06:58:34+00:00

Snippets of conversations among two anonymous passport bros eating lunch together in the Old City today…discussing their options:

“She’s cute but ran through by Indian dudes” “Nice girl, pretty but I don’t know how long her visa is for” “She’s hot but crazy as fuck, plus took off with a guy dressed as an Egyptian pharaoh at the last jungle rave”

I love being a fly on the (post) wall. These guys were (?) Israeli and Danish I think from their accents, decent looking, mid 20’s and not looking for hook ups so much as short term non-Thai gf’s.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-11T12:00:12+00:00

Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is insecure. It is not society’s problem that he keeps fucking whores and can’t trust his own judgment when he night have impregnates one.

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throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-10T11:00:48+00:00

First

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-10T12:45:05+00:00

Remember boys, her past matters -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/17s0ruj/my_51m_wife_44f_is_going_to_cheat_on_me_later/

Ready_Kiwi2845 · 2023-11-10T14:25:44+00:00

how can women be so against porn but not be against whores. like it doesnt make sense to only be upset at men for viewing porn and not being mad at women for creating millions and millions of videos worth of porn. as a society we see drug dealers as worse than drug users so why is porn different? its like everyone wants to blame men no matter what.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-10T14:41:53+00:00

What's so immoral about a guy seeking and getting dating cheat codes to have more success with women?

Wouldn't women want men who understand their needs better?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-10T14:46:59+00:00

You know when you have a shirt, and you spray some body spray or cologne and after a couple wears it still smells nice? I really like that. Probably one of my favorite "small things in life" kind of moments.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-10T14:58:18+00:00

does anyone here think they can hold up under torture? i shouldn’t be given any classified information because i’m spilling the beans if someone is waterboarding me or electrocuting me or whatever

Ready_Kiwi2845 · 2023-11-10T15:02:10+00:00

its crazy to me we got to the point where most people on this site think israel is at best equal to an actual terorrist organization. people will say society doesnt just hate white men and that people dont have a victim complex. but like i swear its like the left think minorities are literally justified in doing whatever they want to a majority person even if it involves rape and murder. its like people really think these inner city kids underprivileged minority kids should just be allowed to do whatever they want and if anyone complains they r a bigot. its crazy to see honestly. i cant wait for trump be back in office. biden has genuinely been the worst president ever

DerayRevan · 2023-11-10T15:18:07+00:00

"What are the essential tenets of the red and blue pills in the modern day"

Redpill: always about inner sexual dynamics and nothing else , a-political,religious,ethical

Bluepill: social constructionism/conditioning

Ready_Kiwi2845 · 2023-11-10T15:29:56+00:00

ill never have kids cuz id rather die than have a thot daughter. like id have go to prison cuz i would do illegal things before id let her be a hoe.

Ready_Kiwi2845 · 2023-11-10T15:34:23+00:00

assuming all the men here are by default unattractive but not the women here is a subtle but very damning and proves this groups genuinely does hold men in contempt. sorry but if u post here all day too, ur a femcel. get over it

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-10T15:37:32+00:00

I'm going to be honest, I think I would rather have a thot daughter than a gay son. At least a thot daughter will be able to continue my bloodline in some capacity, and if she doesn't stick with the guy the child can take our family last name.

monster_lily · 2023-11-10T15:45:35+00:00

Do you think i can learn a backflip in ~5 days

Willow-girl · 2023-11-10T15:46:30+00:00

The occupational therapist gave me some hand exercises that I'm supposed to be doing but I decided to substitute them with wrapping my mitts around a paintbrush, lol.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-10T15:50:47+00:00

A slut daughter, a mother with an onlyfans or a hooker for a sister? Explain your choice. You have to choose one lol

DerayRevan · 2023-11-10T16:40:10+00:00

"Q4All: Why do you think a lot of men are single?"

They don't work enough volume sourcing girls, basically how many women are you talking to on and offline per week, if it's less than two then that's the problem

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-10T23:28:49+00:00

I don't believe for a second that this post is real

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17sdhrl/why_do_men_sleep_down_so_much/

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-10T23:48:11+00:00

Formerly unpopular opinion that is no longer: Vixen kicks ass and always will.

old_new_age · 2023-11-11T00:02:47+00:00

anyone else know a guy who gets women because his life is a trainwreck? my friend's friend was abandoned by his parents, has 4 felonies, is 5'7 and not that facially attractive, but he's always in a relationship because there's always a new woman that wants to fix him

scwizard · 2023-11-11T01:06:14+00:00

I think at this point, we all need to just say out loud: internet anonymity = CSA. We have to safeguard kids from predators.

It sounds draconian but, South Korea has shown that this is a possible thing to implement. To sign up for a message board, or online video game or online chat room etc in South Korea you need to provide your government id.

It would sure cut down on spam if ids were required for all social media accounts...

Willow-girl · 2023-11-11T01:20:26+00:00

Here's one for PPD to ponder: Do you think this autistic fellow has trouble finding a date?

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T01:49:07+00:00

Guys im getting so so pale now that its fall

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T01:50:07+00:00

Raking leaves is fake bc i have literally NO memories of me or anyone ever raking leaves but i could be tripping tho bc one time i saw a trash bag full of leaves but i dont remember where

leosandlattes · 2023-11-11T02:05:46+00:00

Good evening to everyone who:

Have names that start with the letter T
Had to retake a class in college
Like Coke better than Pepsi, or
Worked in food service as their very first job.

princedune · 2023-11-11T02:06:20+00:00

at what age did you start feeling old? I know I'm not that old but I am starting to find myself thinking things like "holy crap, soandso was X years ago" all the time now

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T02:47:14+00:00

WHEN BAE CAME ON THE SCREEN I COULDNT STOP GIGGLING

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eiPX0qqT_Nk

Its not funny if central cee doesnt appear next to me in the next 24 hours im calling the police

No but this song and video is so me though. Ive never heard of a musician who just gets me and who i am

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T02:57:11+00:00

I want my eyebrows to be like hers though theyre SO CUTE i love her so muchh

https://preview.redd.it/6vjwfbjqvmzb1.png?width=1581&format=png&auto=webp&s=0f6079a28789f2ff89a93f88295529f503bf48f1

dbz__f · 2023-11-11T03:29:30+00:00

Thoughts on watching Kdramas with dubs?

baiser_vole · 2023-11-11T03:33:48+00:00

Oh no. I just found out Rascal Flatts disbanded.

old_new_age · 2023-11-11T04:24:07+00:00

funny throwback to when my ex texted me this after hitting me in the face with a door

https://preview.redd.it/cdwcwfhabnzb1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c97ce443870b5a2237d7c66c58bf3c67babcdbee

NoTea4448 · 2023-11-11T04:25:52+00:00

Q4A: Are any of you people real?

Like, how do I know I'm not just talking to a bunch bots right now? AI has gotten so advanced, it's fully possible all of you are just a bunch of bots programmed to argue with each other to see how (human) idiots like me would react and how we'd join in.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-11T04:54:26+00:00

Are there any drainers here?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-11T05:20:13+00:00

A man with a legit reason to question paternity instead of being an insecure little shit: https://youtube.com/shorts/kf6YPsXN9bU?si=Mexak_1IpVaUJ-VA

Gladboys · 2023-11-11T05:31:02+00:00

another 12 hour shift finished im grateful to have a "job" with its own hours and shit but god damn is it hard to pull away

dbz__f · 2023-11-11T05:32:34+00:00

Is 165cm tall for a girl?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-11T08:21:43+00:00

Q4All: What are your 2 most non-negotiable icky no’s in choosing a partner?

hannahg000 · 2023-11-11T10:35:20+00:00

is it worthwhile to discuss autism with a healthcare provider if i don’t think i’d even qualify for a diagnosis anymore?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-10T16:08:00+00:00

Shooting Palestinian protestors for throwing stones at security forces in Israel sounds insane, until you realise the same would happen to any protestor in Africa, Asia and parts of Europe.

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