Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c

Ok, I get it that many RP men don’t want to seriously date a promiscuous woman. 

But many of the same men also don’t like it if they are not getting sex in the first few dates. 

Like, how is the math, mathing? 

A woman, who doesn’t have sex outside marriage or a committed relationship is extremely unlikely to go home with you on the first few dates. 

The vast majority of them will not even do anything for many months. 

A woman who genuinely has a low n count.. (5 and below), how do you think she kept her n count so low? By making prospective boyfriends wait for months and not do anything until they agree to be in a committed relationship. 

That’s how you avoid casual sex, fwb, being plated, and situationships. 

I guarantee, that no RP men, or men who are used to US-style dating will want to deal with such a woman. 

In my culture, premarital sex is discouraged. There are women like me, who won’t even have sex before marriage.

And while women who are okay with having premarital sex in LTR definitely exist (some of my friends are like that), even if they don’t get sexual for months, and want to make sure the guy commits to her and they are officially dating before getting naughty. 

Women who are very conservative and circumspect about sex, are not likely to have sex soon. 

One of my friends is engaged to a white guy she met in her PhD program. She told me she made him wait 10 months before getting intimate. My friend has only been with two guys before, both LTR. 

PPBs want to go to Asian and certain African countries to get a more ‘traditional-minded woman’, but in many cases, will actually not want to be in a situation where they have to marry, or wait for several months and commit before she agree to get sexual. 

Now, I know, some PPBs will say they got casual sex in Pattaya, Seoul, Mumbai, Shanghai, Tokyo etc. 

Of course, women who are into hookups exist in these countries. Also, hookers exist. 

But if they have agreed to go home with you, or invite you to their home after the first few dates, without you committing or anything, it means they are okay with a situationship/casual arrangement. Common sense. 

Really traditional-minded women in those countries will withhold sex until marriage or at least commitment. Many PPBs will get really frustrated with them, coz to them, the concept of waiting until the commitment to be sexual will be very alien.