When it comes to dating, Reddit is filled with men that are struggling and have bad, desperate or immoral but not illegal ideas on to try and better their situation others have given up and are just depressed.

I noticed that there is a big trend to avoid helping these men but instead bully them, attack them for their decisions but never to offer any better choices. Usually their "advice" if you can call it that is for the men to continue being miserable.

A few days ago my girlfriend alerted me to a post she was in on the datingoverthirty subreddit and after reading it I can really understand why the regulars of that sub are single. An autistic man from Argentina wrote a post expressing frustration at his dating circumstances. None of the responding comments consoled him, offered him actual advice other than the ubiquitous and vague "therapy" and majority just attacked and mocked him.

Then I see various articles by journalists asking why are single men are radicalizing. Be it in dating, politics, etc but the issue here is pretty self evident.

I made a post about a woman crying about how she hasn't found any attractive men despite rejecting nearly 200 men through a series of dating events. Many women came out and said that's not possible that women didn't call her out but instead supported her.

So I made a second post asking at what point would women step in and call their own friends out for problematic behavior. Aside from a handful, most said none and instead reaffirmed their position to support their friends no matter what.

If a man posts how he is frustrated with dating being non-existent or casual sex being non-existent. His unhappiness and frustrations are all dismissed. The narrative is twisted beyond recognition and the men declared to be "entitled".

A woman declaring how she doesn't find 99.99% of men attractive is applauded and seen as virtuous, encouraged to keep standards high, consoled and comforted. With the fault being placed on men.

I see this behavior reflected all throughout America not just online spaces. The vilification of men and the dismissal of their problems is just going to lead to an overall worse society if men decide to check out of the society and even perhaps leave entirely or bring foreign women in. The only thing I have seen women respond to the prospect of leaving the country to go elsewhere is to shame the men, calling them all sorts of awful labels. An odd choice since the women I have spoken to directly also refer to men no 6'3" "human garbage" (their words).

So the point being, American women are part of the problem. We see what happens to societies when the women are abused. China famously deleted huge masses of their females now leaving there more males than females in staggering proportions. Patriarchy and I mean actual patriarchy not the radfem bullshit in Korea and Japan is beginning to cause grave concerns due to the data showing the ever increasing fractures developed in their society.

Not sure why American women think that doing the same but to men will keep them immune from these consequences. We already see one of the most insane US administrations come to power not once but twice. People need to be better, solution is equality and treating people better.