Gross! 🤮

oscine23 · 2021-03-27T23:11:43+00:00

The moderators deleted her post. Probably because of all of the women telling her to leave.

millennialpink2000 · 2021-03-27T23:16:54+00:00

Her body is only a vessel for his pleasure. No doubt he'll be throwing this in her face when he gets caught cheating because she 'made him'

Immediate divorce

Mcccy · 2021-03-27T23:13:18+00:00

This post is a mess from start to finish.

How dare he even say that as a joke. Does forever discomfort and chronic pain during sex sounds oh so funny to him??

Her family is also a freaking mess. Unless he paraphrased the whole thing so he'd sound like the good guy, she really needs to gtfo of there or reconsider if she wants these 'family members' in her life anymore.

2ndMrsDeWinter · 2021-03-27T23:20:06+00:00

I’m so fucking livid right now. This fucking asshole will say something like this IN FRONT OF PPL to a woman on meds and pain and probably a fuck ton of adrenaline, and think he’s IN THE RIGHT, and then, after clearly losing his wife and child for a period of time, still think he’s in the right?! This is the type of fucker who will progress to abuse, cheat on you with the nanny, leave you with no money and three kids in your late 40s. Fucking run girl. RUN.

The one saving grace is clearly the doctor recognized he was a POS

oscine23 · 2021-03-27T23:08:15+00:00

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thinktwiceorelse · 2021-03-27T23:36:31+00:00

That's it. They don't think we are people. We're like a pair of jeans, stitch here and there, no big deal.

missmelissa187 · 2021-03-28T02:55:43+00:00

The doctor should have put the extra stitches on her husbands mouth

outward_hand · 2021-03-28T00:26:15+00:00

I'm so scared right now everyone. If that were happen to me I would lose it... this is so fcking scary. I won't wish this on anyone. This is humiliating to its core I hope she divorces his sick ass for this.

throwaway32132134 · 2021-03-27T23:59:25+00:00

This just reads to me like he views her as a human fleshlight.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-28T01:05:58+00:00

Oh cmon just mutilate your genitals for me. It’s not a big deal. Cmon.

CowgirlMolly · 2021-03-28T00:33:00+00:00

I’d get a divorce.

SeaNegotiation8 · 2021-03-28T00:35:06+00:00

He has a small penis. It’s as simple as that.

Please, ladies, do me this one small favor: if a man makes a comment about “loose” vaginas, call him out immediately for having a tiny penis.

If a man truly had Big Dick Energy, it would never even occur to him to joke about the size of your vagina.

There are no loose vaginas, only tiny penises.

Baekseoulhui · 2021-03-28T02:20:39+00:00

Uhhhhh the "husband stich" makes sex VERY painful for most women after. It doesnt make you tighter it just makes the opening smaller and less able to stretch.... Ive heard stories of women tearing back open during sex because of this. This woman needs to leave that man NOW. Hes angry at her for not basically sewing herself shut to accomodate his teeny weeny??? Fuck off with that mess

brylm92 · 2021-03-28T03:03:11+00:00

Why are there so many stories about men being HORRIFIC during childbirth?? It must be the worst thing on earth to as a woman - already in AGONY after 9 months of inconvenience, and then any joy of the moment is tarnished by the very scrote who wanted you to sacrifice your body for his spawn. What disgusting behaviour

sassyheather · 2021-03-28T01:13:19+00:00

Even if she didn’t get this stitch, I bet he’s demanding she “gives up the ass” because he thinks his desensitized dick is entitled to something tight to painfully penetrate.

Virgomermaid94 · 2021-03-27T23:13:36+00:00

As someone who’s had plastic surgery to fix the “husband stitch” just so I could have pleasurable sex again, after being a single teen mom ...

Fuck you . Fuck you hard in the ass with an iceyhot covered shovel. 😡😡😡

nymira-1 · 2021-03-28T01:06:10+00:00

A nightmare!! I’m logging off this is just too much depravity. Hell

flowerpower102938 · 2021-03-28T02:18:36+00:00

Maybe he wanted the extra stitch because his pp shrunk from watching too much porn.

Zirniaisuspirgais · 2021-03-27T23:19:40+00:00

Genital mutilation is always no big deal when women are on the receiving end.

Then the doctors go off on evil women for wanting planned c-sections when, in fact, planned non emergency c section has the best outcome for women and babies.

I don't want to risk permanent urine and fecal incontinence, clit torn in half, and then ridicule for being "too loose" and research shows c section only births have minimal risk for all of that.

Nice_Pass2393 · 2021-03-28T02:31:16+00:00

Anyone that has this done should try to sue for malpractice. Is this something that is even taught in med school?

wordy_fries · 2021-03-28T03:22:08+00:00

I'm NAUSEOUS. What the actual fuck????

He is an absolute PIG. Animal. Doesn't even understand female anatomy. Stitching extra will make it more painful for her. And the fact that he had the audacity to even say that, and he laughed. I can't anymore. Get me away from men please. 😖😖😖😖😖

2021-03-28T02:38:47+00:00

So the whole family sucks. Apple and tree are both rotten.

randowordgenerator · 2021-03-28T00:09:16+00:00

Why do women date these men, let alone fucking marry, let alone let them impregnate them. Please make it make sense.

PinkBlair99 · 2021-03-27T23:23:13+00:00

I’d have kicked him out of the delivery room and never seen him again. But then I’m 41, single, and childfree.

nawinter77 · 2021-03-28T03:57:23+00:00

The doctor & my ex-husband did this to me. Now I have to make sure I'm thoroughly wet before penetration or it's painful.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-03-28T05:40:50+00:00

Every time this topic comes up the notes are full of women who have had this happen to them. And yet there are multiple articles written by people claiming this never happened and it's not a real thing. Same old gas lighting as ever.

theriseofthequeen · 2021-03-28T04:53:13+00:00

This makes me so angry. But this is my worst fear. I’m so scared I’m going to marry or have kids (permanent situations) with a guy who shows different/true/ugly sides of themselves when it’s permanent and too late. Like after/during pregnancy he turns cruel or lazy or misogynistic and now I’m stuck with the true him forever because of the child. So scary :(

CorruptSoulGem · 2021-03-28T03:10:50+00:00

If the doctors had a dollar for every time a dim witted husband or boyfriend asked them to put an extra stitch they could probably afford a whole ass Lamborghini. 😩

Papaverinum · 2021-03-27T23:26:10+00:00

They're all monsters. "Not all men" my a**

VgraceD · 2021-03-28T02:32:30+00:00

Eww. What a dick and how dare they!? I’m appalled for OP. This is all around inappropriate and only speaks to his small member.

sveji- · 2021-03-28T02:42:56+00:00

I almost cried just by reading this, the poor woman.. I'd be out the door with the child so fast.

Daciana_Days · 2021-03-28T04:49:36+00:00

Divorce sounds good here....

What a piece of trash he is 😡

berrylikeova · 2021-03-28T02:29:57+00:00

Okay. There is so much wrong in this.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-03-28T05:33:19+00:00

Not only is he an asshole but he's a fucking moron. And he clearly comes from a family of morons.

blackandwhiteeevee · 2021-03-28T04:03:52+00:00

Frankly, reading that made me absolutely shiver with anger. I swear to god if I ever hear someone say that to one of my family members or friends, I’ll have to use all my willpower to not castrate them on the spot.

ashcantcatchabreak · 2021-03-28T04:41:37+00:00

Pathetic. This man doesn’t deserve to be a father

AntinatalistChick · 2021-03-28T07:39:26+00:00

That's exactly why I'm never having kids with anyone, even with a seemingly HVM

IllusionOfColours · 2021-03-28T08:48:22+00:00

I was thinking about this the other day! From another post though not this one (which shows it happens often🤢🤢)It’s actually disgusting men make these sort of jokes after a woman has just gone through IMMENSE pain and he’s going “stitch her up nice and tight” f*ck off. Hope she leaves because I would run.

MrsJohnMarston__ · 2021-03-28T10:24:17+00:00

Maybe if he’d been an attentive husband, he would have given her a perineal massage which helps reduce the chances of an episiotomy.

I’ve honestly never heard of this, though I’m British. I’ve had a baby and I had an episiotomy (I was stitched up by the midwife). It did take a while before I wanted to have sex again. I saw a gynob (a woman) who said the scars were healing fine, though sex might still be uncomfortable.

I realise now that I have a pretty HV man because he never pestered me for sex and was happy to wait for me to be ready again. Since having sex more regularly again, he’s not actually noticed any difference in me being less “tight”, which is obviously not a thing anyway.

bmoneyy13 · 2021-03-28T04:16:42+00:00

I don’t even know what to say-

Mella_20 · 2021-03-28T08:09:17+00:00

I'm glad she was able to fight him and tell him to leave. I probably would have just burst into tears from frustration.

Davina33 · 2021-03-28T10:29:07+00:00

How is this any better than female genital mutilation? He is a useless, abusive scrote.

Spiritual_Cockroach · 2021-03-28T10:48:40+00:00

Just adding that to my pile of reasons I am terrified of birth that no one in society wants to openly talk about as a risk to women from having children 🙃

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-03-28T11:24:14+00:00

Divorce. Immediately. Please.

sugaredberry · 2021-03-28T11:23:13+00:00

Omg that “stitch” can cause serious health issues in women! What the Fuck! I think nowadays you can sue a doctor for doing that to you!

2021-03-28T11:23:39+00:00

I would have left him. POS only sees her as an incubating hole. Disgusting, not even worthy of being called human.

nomadzebra · 2021-03-28T11:32:25+00:00

Should tell him she got a few extra stitches and now it's completely sewn shut so she will never have sex with him again

-badmadAM · 2021-03-28T10:53:40+00:00

Good she had a female doctor who was standing up for her.

the-worst- · 2021-03-28T15:07:14+00:00

I'm so glad both of mine were c sections so i never had to hear this bs.

But my husband acted like his paternal leave was a vacation he earned... And not like it was time off to get to know his newborn and help his wife recover. Litterally yelled at me that I was ruining his vacation any time I asked for help.

BananaSlugGhost · 2021-03-29T00:16:02+00:00

Imagine announcing to everyone you have a 🍤 🍆 and you don’t understand how vaginas work.

MissMisnomer · 2021-03-29T19:18:53+00:00

I'm no doctor, but I was curious and researched this stitch a bit. It's called the "husband stitch" and it isn't anything to be taken lightly. It can cause issues such as chronic pain, pain during sex, and bleeding. If you've ever heard of what a malfunctioning bladder sling can do, it's very similar.

Some times, the stitch is added without the woman's consent (this was more common in the 20s, 50s, and 60s), even.

Poor woman, the fact that his sexual pleasure over ruled her health and bodily integrity is a very, very bad sign. She needs to take her beautiful baby and run from that man and his family as fast as she can.

lisasimpsonfan · 2021-03-28T15:32:42+00:00

If my husband said something like that after I birthed our daughter it would have been the last time he saw my vagina.

2021-03-28T15:56:56+00:00

All together now: STOP PROCREATING WITH ZERO VALUE MEN

snowwy28 · 2021-03-28T16:52:34+00:00

This cant be fucking true?... tell me this decaying low life of a scrote asked his wife to put in a "husband stitch".

Its akin to female genital mutilation

Wtf

smaller_ang · 2021-03-28T17:45:21+00:00

If I ever fuck up badly enough to have a kid with a man that does this, I will ask the doctor if they could do some extra stitches over his mouth

healar · 2021-03-28T18:20:27+00:00

Throw the whole man out. Seen this before in my job. I just ask them if they’re not very well endowed, shuts them up.

Winter-Firefly · 2021-03-28T20:19:52+00:00

'The husband stitch' as it's infamously known as, has been known to cause long term complications and extreme pain for the women whom doctor's and husbands inflict it on. There are many cases of women not even being asked or informed about it before a doctor does it to them, sometimes they even ask the husband but not the woman herself, and she may never know until she's suffering for it.

It's torturously cruel and an enormous violation of autonomy and informed consent.

HlGHFIVE · 2021-03-28T21:33:16+00:00

Misogyny is so deeply rooted into humanity.

In just the last year, I've seen a handful of these posts where women are put down, insulted, and harassed while pregnant or having a baby. And not by random strangers, but their own husbands or boyfriends.

Whether it's a joke or not, the fact that you would joke about this during a priceless, sentimental, irreplaceable moment is just despicable. I hope this woman found her self worth and left.

AnniaT · 2021-03-29T02:09:16+00:00

The end part clarifying it wasn't a joke makes me horrified and his family telling her she should have gotten the extra stitch for him? Wtf?

woodbine1031 · 2021-03-28T11:41:35+00:00

I don’t think I’ve ever been more angry after reading this. I didn’t even know the husband stitch was a thing.

I’m gonna be a complete bitch to my male friend today for no reason because of this.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-03-28T16:55:43+00:00

She needs to divorce that clown. Let his asshole relatives schedule their visitation during his custody times. I would tell them to go fuck themselves right to their face and never see them again.

XxShykatxX · 2021-03-29T08:43:02+00:00

If it talks like sht, looks like sht, acts like sht then more in likely, it's sht.

Waste-Win · 2021-03-29T15:36:24+00:00

This is messed up, I hope she leaves him sooner rather than later.

Title	Gross! 🤮
Author	oscine23
Upvotes	1090
Comments	184
Date	March 27, 2021 11:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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