Daily Community Chat Megathread

UneastAji · 2023-02-10T17:57:10+00:00

Hey there I hope guys will recognize who I am, but I wanted to say:

How come men are garbage????? I literally made up some shit in my heAd and I conclude men were the absolute poop I always thought they were.

I have no friends no life and my SMV is non existant. How come men don't love me for my personality??? They must be shallow hypocrites!

PitbllLvngMlFmnst · 2023-02-08T17:41:03+00:00

I have such a hard time understanding this tbh. My current bf cried twice in front of me while we were dating and it make me like him more. He got emotional over wanting to be a better father than his dad was and once when I was traveling and he cried while saying goodbye. Both were attractive to me and he’s gotten emotional plenty of times since we’ve been dating. Most notably when he told me he loved me for the first time and it just made my heart swell

Women who put down guys for being emotional suck

That being said, I’ve also gone out with a guy who got unreasonably upset over little things which was a turnoff so maybe I’m a hypocrite there

This pretty much fully encompasses men's experiences with women.

When women hear men say "yeah, women get turned off when I'm emotional", they all seem to imagine him crying because his mom died and her recoiling in disgust.

No, we all know that big life events are fine. Crying at things women deem ok to cry over is bonding and sexy.

It's when men cry at things women have declared "dumb things to cry over" that they get the ick.

Men are not allowed to cry or show emotion for things THEY want to cry and show emotion over. It has to be woman approved first, otherwise it gives the woman the ick.

If a guy sheds a tear because his WoW Hardcore character died at level 79, that's a perfectly valid reason to be emotional. But that's gonna give her the ick.

THHBHStT · 2023-02-08T20:51:51+00:00

Person A : “uses an analogy”

Person B: “ how DARE you compare “x” to an inanimate object. It’s so much more than that and you’re so wrong for using an analogy”

If you find yourself being person B then stop. See it too often in talks that relate to women and their choices such as marriage, sex, relationships etc. It’s a dishonest and childish response to someone

If you disagree with an analogy say that, but don’t get pissy that they simply used an analogy you don’t like

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-09T14:50:29+00:00

How did guys not think looks and sexual attraction to women are important when looks and sexual attraction are clearly important to guys? Throughout all the whining I hear from nice guys, I never see these guys say "I only care about inner beauty and looks are only skin deep to me, so it's sad that women don't feel the same".

Being a hypocrite and being a nice/good person doesn't mix together. Hypocrisy is more of an asshole thing to do because assholes think rules dont apply to them.

AizenSos-nick · 2023-02-08T13:13:32+00:00

When a woman has more male friends than female friends, that is a Giant red flag and clearly indicates she's a Frickin attention hoe

ChadChasingB · 2023-02-08T13:26:03+00:00

How do guys have the ability to eat so much food at one time? Their stomachs are a bottomless pit.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-08T13:32:36+00:00

Q4A: What are things a man should do to prevent a date of being too platonic? I know all women are different. Some don't don't wanna hold hands until date 3 and others think if the guy doesn't try to kiss them on the first date that he's not interested. I guess i'm either only meeting the latter kinds of women or i'm generally too platonic and reserved.

dysonRing · 2023-02-08T14:07:31+00:00

I am online courting a Giga Stacy but never done OLD, we dm a lot but I generally do IRL where I can read body language so I have no idea if it is platonic or sexual we both know how each other looks like by now. logistics are extremely complicated though.

How to escalate?

dysonRing · 2023-02-08T15:43:34+00:00

Fetishization is dehumanizing. Both from straight women and from gay boyz.

platinirisms · 2023-02-08T16:18:21+00:00

Boys, what does it mean when your GF says she dreamed that she found out you were a Trans Man and suddenly it “All made sense”?

Asking for a friend.

JiifuhTV · 2023-02-08T16:44:14+00:00

sexual harassment women got no game💀

biggestuzifanea · 2023-02-08T16:48:46+00:00

I've never been a red-pill person but this place seems like a good place to ask this.

I'm 5'3" and 20 (junior in college). How ought I go about dating at my height?
I realize height is extremely important to women and they consider short guys to be ugly; that's fine, it's their life, their prerogative. I've made my peace.

But there is always the advice for short men to go for "women who are not shallow" but how does one go about that? Where may I find said women?
I just wanna clarify that I do not care about looks (would be very hypocritical of me if I did lol) at all in women be it body, face, makeup, hair on head or that on body. Just being hygienic regarding bathing and brushing their teeth is enough.

I'd say I'm a good, kind person, I'm hygienic and well-groomed, go to gym 6-7 days in a week, eat well. I try to be funny as much as I can, am into soccer, critically viewing movies and shows, writing, read a lot, am taking Spanish class to learn the language. I'm friendly and willing to talk to all sorts of people.

Any advice?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-08T17:34:44+00:00

https://www.tmz.com/2023/02/07/madonna-responds-grammys-backlash-face-appearance-misogyny-ageism/

I never thought Madonna was hot though, like ever. People be like well you never saw her in her prime, well I look at pics and videos of her in the 80’s and 90’s and she was always just regular. Like I can go on the gram right now and find 20 chicks that are badder than she ever was

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-02-08T17:58:20+00:00

These TEDx-posts are making me feel bad. Anyone who hasn't had a miserable day?

saraimarsena · 2023-02-08T18:16:32+00:00

Q4M: would this make you angry and insecure?

Q4W: is her bf overreacting in this situation?

LaloTwins · 2023-02-08T19:03:42+00:00

u/aquachip ru white?

VampireChaser · 2023-02-08T19:39:54+00:00

God I just love tradcon women so much.

northernlights190 · 2023-02-08T21:13:52+00:00

Question 4 people who use multiple dating apps (free swipe apps, not like e harmony or fancy paid ones):

Do you notice much of a difference between the apps as far as results or the type of people on each one?

Also which dating app do you like best?

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-08T21:49:46+00:00

Do you think nicegirls really exist?

Like, we have the "Women only like jerks/assholes" trope. Does this also exist for women?

"Men only like dumb bimbos/bitches" or something?

I feel like in my life recently, for obvious reasons, i had only eyes for a woman that some might describe as a "bimbo/bitch/slut/whatever", not my words but two of my female colleagues'.

I realize that i probably have been overlooking other women that may not be as obvious.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-08T22:12:55+00:00

Today I saw a picture of myself and thought that maybe I’m not bad-looking after all. I don’t remember the last time I felt that

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-09T13:53:36+00:00

another area of interest to researchers has been use of “sexy” dress to communicate sexual desire or attract sexual attention from others. Regardless of how sexy dress was operationalized, women say they use dress to communicate their sexual desire to men and attract sexual attention from men

God forbid you acknowledge this is a thing because within 2 or 3 replies you'll have someone saying, "oh so you're saying she deserved to be raped??" Every. Time.

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RandomRedditGuy322 · 2023-02-08T13:20:37+00:00

hogwarts

divCal · 2023-02-08T15:46:39+00:00

Was there ever a time when men and women lived in complete harmony? Imo there was always a power struggle between the two genders.

thesultan50 · 2023-02-08T16:33:21+00:00

Hey guys I have a question. How can I end a situationship with a girl I really like and has done nothing wrong to me just because there is also someone else who just makes more sense as a long term partner? I really don’t want to hurt her, she’s a great person. I’ve been seeing both for about 2 months, I’m not in a monogamous relationship with either but Im Going to have to choose

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-02-08T19:19:54+00:00

I need some show recommendations. What shows are like The Last of Us? Not plot-wise but directorial/production-wise.

PitbllLvngMlFmnst · 2023-02-08T19:36:07+00:00

I'm on episode 3 of The Last Of Us and I'm in awe at how unlikable they made the little girl.

Not only is she an insufferable spoiled brat, but she has such a punchable face on top of it all.

I also don't get the Pedro Pascal sex appeal. His face looks like it's squished down. But he does do a good Texas accent.

Tramelo · 2023-02-08T19:59:57+00:00

Did anyone use to follow Player Supreme aka "The Real Men's Channel" on YouTube?

WestCombSplit · 2023-02-08T20:19:42+00:00

Most people lack understanding of what a traditional marriage looks like and it just shows what impact 40-50% divorce rate and breakdown of family values has on generations

DumpApe135 · 2023-02-08T20:39:57+00:00

Remember kids both sides are bought out https://www.capitoltrades.com/

caobozo · 2023-02-08T22:38:04+00:00

patriarchy is one helluva drug, got a certain subset of women believing they're innately inferior to men

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-02-08T13:22:17+00:00

CMV: Most men will and should go through a Nice Guy phase when they're young.

Most boys in school struggle to get girls, and that's mostly because they simply don't know how yet. Most will quickly discover that unlike finding friends, finding a partner is more than just being nice/having shared interests and it has a lot more nuance to it. From that point, they'll learn what kind of girls they are attracted to, what kind of girls are attracted to them and how best to approach/communicate with them and how to present themselves accordingly.

When I was a Ween I believed the typical "Nice Guys finish last" mantra, however as I grew up I also grew out of that and learned that attracting girls is about far more than just being a nice, friendly fella. You have to have a bit more about you.

The issue with Nice Guys™ is that they didn't learn those lessons from school/college. They have their blinders on and only see the "assholes" getting girls, when really most of those "assholes" were just guys who had the confidence to shoot their shot and knew broadly how to flirt with women. They refuse to change how they present themselves as they deem that to be "unfair", instead they expect women to see the "true" version of themselves no matter how inaccurate their assessment may be.

AquaChip · 2023-02-08T17:06:35+00:00

Me on any given day.

edgyny · 2023-02-09T13:38:07+00:00

Megyn Kelly getting so triggered about Leonardo DiCaprio pulling young hot things is pure hilarity.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-09T13:31:25+00:00

ppd women are literally arguing for women to be able to walk around outside with jizz on their face and for no one to say anything. Yall lost ya damn minds.

https://worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video-c.php?v=wshh09n55865D5QJjwW0

caobozo · 2023-02-09T13:20:55+00:00

men here need to stop thinking the average woman lives the life of an extroverted socialite gigastacy

biggestuzifanea · 2023-02-08T15:51:48+00:00

women commoditize sex

women: wtf why do men see us as objects

armpitpics · 2023-02-08T16:27:40+00:00

"You should have a baby!"

Do people who tell others the above realize that couples who want children, can have children and are ready to have children WILL have children? If a couple is childless it's because they've been actively avoiding having children or they can't have them, but some people seem to have a hard time understanding this.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-08T14:20:47+00:00

Women are so obsessed to following men wherever they go and occupying male spaces that women have even invaded grindr. Women ☕️

https://www.reddit.com/r/rant/comments/7w668s/why_the_hell_is_grindr_letting_women_on_now/

I disappear off the app for a few months and come back to find that there are now women all over the fucking place.

FUCKING WHY? Grindr is a motherfucking gay hookup app. I don't (and probably most other people don't) go on Grindr to meet nice lovely ciswomen with big tits. I Go on Grindr to get my boi pussy pounded. Tinder is a thing that exists you fucking assholes. Go there and stay there you fucking straight fags. Just to be fair to absolute cretins who thought this was Good idea and to the equally awful straight women who choose to use Grindr,I looked up the reason.

Literally nothing but platitudes about fucking diversity. FUCK YOU.

NO.

Most men on Grindr don't give a fuck what your pronouns are as long as your attractive. Hell,if anyone had a serious issue with to FtMs being on Grindr,I'd be kinda pissed about it.

The real issue here is allowing these fucking entitled women who'd been using the site for years now to have some legitimacy. Oh you don't like other hookup apps because men are being to sexually forward? You want to know why that's the fucking case? BECAUSE THE MEN ON THOSE FUCKING APPS ARE ACTUALLY INTERESTED IN WOMEN. Gay men are a Minority in society,so having spaces specifically for us is actually extremely useful. If we're going to go down this fake inclusivity road,then just allow straight men on to be super fucking inclusive you shit heads. When the fuck did these fag hag pieces of shit get the Goddamn idea that they're welcome on Grindr? It's not your space to find your YAAAAAS QUEEN gay best friend. I find the kind of women with this attitude abhorrent and patronizing. Honestly,if you're a woman om Grindr,Delete the app (or yourself) as soon as fucking possible. You are pushing out men I might actually be interested in and replacing them with your stupid fucking face.

This whole thing reminded me of this absolutely insufferable article from some insufferable feminist site I read a long ass time ago. The whole article was essentially this fucking retard complaining that the gay community had a misogyny problem because she was being given (and rightfully so) the cold shoulder by all the patrons at a gay bar. 👏SHITHEAD👏 The reason you're not getting a warm reception is because it's a bar for gay men. You are neither Gay,nor a man. At least if you were a straight man,you'd be nice eye candy,but you can't even meet us halfway. I wouldn't go to a fucking lesbian bar and expect great service because It's not my place. It's for lesbians.

I'm actually really beginning to understand SJW types who talk about safe spaces now and that makes me want to kill my self more than I normally want to kill my self.

Eat shit you fucking retards. If you feel unwelcome as a woman on Grindr then that's a good thing. You should be fucking banned, not encouraged because now that you're obnoxiously taking up space ,the straight men are going to come in and fucking ruin it. Hopefully it'll push gay people towards using better hookup apps in one instance where capitalism isn't a lie.

A ppd user's reasoning on why this is actually what gay men want:

There aren't that many women going on Grindr, it's just being exaggerated by gay men in order to greenlight in-denial gay dudes to get on the app under the guise that they're looking for women there.

That and to get straight guys on there and try and sleep with them which is a prevalent fantasy for a significant amount of gay men...

Lol ok.

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-02-08T18:23:17+00:00

Guys you need to stop asking women permission to be emotional and start asking yourself do I want to be emotional?

you have to do things because you think they are right, regardless what other people think. Any social revolution is like this.

Just cry (if you want to) and if someone doesn't like it, fuck them

or do you think the first gay person asked for societal approval? of course not. Now it's your turn to do what you want to do.

SlashCo80 · 2023-02-08T14:10:24+00:00

Since there was some talk about it earlier, I'd advise anyone thinking about visiting an escort to take a look at subs like SexWorkers, SexWorkersOnly or even OnlyFansAdvice. I did, and was honestly a little shocked at the level of disdain and bitterness many escorts express towards their clients, or men in general. They refer to their clients as johns or tricks, speak about them with open contempt, claim they feel no pleasure or satisfaction, and describe the perfect client as one who'd just pay and leave. I mean I knew the occupation has its ugly side, but damn. I personally wouldn't risk going to someone knowing that's how they likely feel. This includes OF creators too.

Peacesquad · 2023-02-08T14:34:57+00:00

I think women slut shame each other way more than men do. Every time I’ve met two girls that hate each other the first things they say are 1) ugh she’s a bitch or 2) maaaan she’s a hoe!!

JDWhiz96 · 2023-02-08T17:08:50+00:00

They're now trying to smear Joey Swoll.

So women are rightfully being called out on their narcissist, egotistical attention-whoring at gyms, and the fact that the tide is turning irritates the perpetual victims. Now all of a sudden Joey Swoll is an "incel" and "misogynist" for calling out toxic creeper behavior from women (and it's lost on these same females that he calls out men too).

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-08T17:21:41+00:00

There are mad couples who the only time they go out on a “date” all year is Valentine’s Day which is crazy to me lol. I try to go on at least one date night a month, preferably 2. My parents had 4 kids and even they were big on that concept.

I feel like a lot of people once they get together the romance aspect is lost. Plenty of women complain about this, There’s a feeling of once he “got” me he stopped trying.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-08T21:19:57+00:00

"It's awful seeing jerks get rewarded".

The fact 'nice guys' see women and sex as a 'reward' really proves that they are no better than the jerks they're jealous.

Women are people, not fuck-trophies for 'good behavior'.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-08T22:53:26+00:00

“pfft disgusting, you were never a "nice guy", you were actually a fake nice guy who only wanted sex and not be passed over/the last choice, a real nice guy would have kept on being an endless loser forever and kept on being nice forever regardless of how many times he got burned for it, now if you will excuse me I am going to drunkenly hookup with my abusive ex-bf for the third time this week"

In case anyone wanted an example of how nice guys would talk about women and men who are genuinely decent human beings.

Slipthe · 2023-02-08T14:57:55+00:00

So many comments on reddit are, "I love my child with all my heart, but..."

Infammo · 2023-02-08T16:18:40+00:00

Have you ever made a post or a thread and realized too late that it means you've condemned yourself to having the same banal arguments all day?

YaKnowEstacado · 2023-02-08T18:42:56+00:00

Q4All: What would you do if your son was at home, crying all alone on the bedroom floor cuz he's hungry, and the only way to feed him is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money?

CimZim · 2023-02-08T20:40:05+00:00

I find it interesting when people ask me why I've "settled" for being a friend with benefits, instead of demanding a marriage proposal after all this time.

It's a bit weird, isn't it? That people think if marriage was that important to me, or even something I half-heartedly wanted out of life, that I'd waste over a decade just...waiting around. Rather than either proposing to him myself OR leaving to find a man who actually wanted to get hitched.

BMO-Farting · 2023-02-08T21:10:42+00:00

This might be a little passive aggressive, but having a comment signature on ppd is cringe.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-08T13:56:55+00:00

It's funny how people can be like, " I will never understand how consensual sex acts are still considered "Scandalous".

This feels like boring 1500's gossip. I don't get why this is "funny" or why people care." when it comes to carrying water for the cop that fucked half the force while she should have been working but then also be coming after Leo for "dating" a 19 year old.

If a woman gets judged, bad. If a man gets judged, good.

UneastAji · 2023-02-08T21:59:13+00:00

People here who post links to strings of comments they have with others, expecting our approbation, know that I don't validate you one iota and I find you utterly cringe.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-09T00:32:00+00:00

Don't listen to these women. There are winners and losers to this. The winner is the one that got her. The loser is you who's writing a reddit comment about why that shouldn't be the case.

VirtualRow4074 · 2023-02-08T16:14:03+00:00

People who complain and even more specifically men who complain about condoms being inconvenient are so stupid you know what’s also inconvenient & way worse than just putting on a condom unplanned pregnancy and Stds. Especially with roe v wade being overturned there are some states where if you get an oops pregnancy you’re going to have to set up travel to several states away to get an abortion if that’s what you want. Also there are a good number of stds that can lay dormant for years before detected so even though someone might not have physical symptoms they can still have an std & not know unless they are getting regularly tested which lets be honest most people are not getting tested as regularly as they should. I’ll never understand it a few minutes of pleasure are not worth the potential risk of a lifetime of consequences that come with reckless unprotected sex with someone. Btw this doesn’t apply to people in committed relationships that’s separate go raw all you want with someone you’re committed to & trust I’m talking about sexual situations outside of committed relationships

why-b-less · 2023-02-08T17:29:23+00:00

The men here complaining about or shaming single mothers really don't care about the kids, or the broader societal implications, it's just one of the few times lonely, inexperienced men feel like they can dunk on someone or "punch down".

it almost always reads like "well look at you sex haver! if it isn't the consequences of your actions!! you should have made better moral choices!!"

p.s. where is the vitriol for dead beat and absentee fathers? or are they celebrated for successfully "pumping and dumping" a low quality woman?

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-08T19:22:58+00:00

Took a fall at work. Days later, the pain actually got WORSE. I'm out of commission for working out, sadly. Stinks. Just venting here so I don't use my husband as an emotional tampon haha herp a derp

DumpApe135 · 2023-02-08T19:27:05+00:00

Guy friendships are weird, I went from never speaking to a guy at my gym and just head-nodding to each other for a full year to workout partners for around an hour and a half hours 5 days per week in like a month from first talking to him.

PitbllLvngMlFmnst · 2023-02-08T20:26:18+00:00

Tell me you're a boomer without telling me you're a boomer

TigerRude4 · 2023-02-09T00:19:51+00:00

Arguing with clueless feminists is exhausting....

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-08T13:06:22+00:00

What’s astounding about ‘nice guys’ is that they don’t realize their mindset is just like the assholes they complain about.

Both sets of men:

Do not respect women.

Only value women based on their looks and/or vagina.

Sees quick easy sex (with young hot chicks) as the highest priority.

Talks shit about women when the women don’t give them what they want.

The massive sense of entitlement, especially to sex.

So why would I see a man as a good person when he has the exact same mindset of the assholes I want to avoid?

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-08T13:58:54+00:00

Watching Ed, Edd, & Eddy as a kid imbued me with Machiavellian traits.

AquaChip · 2023-02-08T14:50:15+00:00

I really don’t know why people at work will gossip about each other to anyone who will listen. I don’t trust people that much.

Complaining about how X doesn’t listen to the person who sits across from and has lunch with X is not…a good idea.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-02-08T16:01:48+00:00

I woke up realizing that I am probably a little past my "prime" of garnering and sexually attracting women. It's been a BATTLE of so many things, mental, spiritual, physical. I've questioned, refined, meditated, quit and have come back a few times. I'm close to being fully at peace, my sexual rotation is decent to pretty great given my station and phase in life...

and yet,

an attractive 19 year old can probably catch up to my number (110+) and experience and enjoyment in probably a month and half of her life, a PLAIN regular girl can probably hit 110+ in 2 months.

And they can do that with nowhere near the heartache, self improvement, questioning, grinding, or any other sort of "growth" element in their mental faculty, determination, willpower, physical development, or literally anything tangible.

and women have the nerve to say "double standards". LOL honey, we ain't even in the same fucking race.

johnnyGotHisTabla · 2023-02-08T19:11:46+00:00

I stopped posting here a long time ago, but am dropping in to bitch about Andrew Tate.

There's a reason "red" dudes kept saying "Who?"

And wouldn't you know it, there is a headline post on Tate.

The dude doesn't represent the vast majority of "red" dudes.

saraimarsena · 2023-02-08T19:37:24+00:00

do any of you guys have success with daily vitamins ? i’m so tired all the time. granted my job is to keep homicidal 2-4 year olds from killing each other/themselves which can be kinda difficult, but Ive been seeing stuff like ashwaganda (?) and other shit like that trending and I’m curious

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2023-02-08T20:46:36+00:00

Sex is everywhere in media and online

Sex and sex appeal is prominently in advertisements

"Virgin" is used as an insult

Viewed as more/less of a man depending on how many women want to have sex with you

"Why are men so obsessed with sex?"

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-02-08T20:53:35+00:00

"Women have it better because they all have lots of friends and emotional support!!"

Me, a woman: I may have a boyfriend but I have no friends or emotional support

SerpentCypher · 2023-02-08T23:46:17+00:00

For the people who genuinely believe patriarchy theory is 100% real and absolutely not a conspiracy theory. And that western society upholds male power and subjugates and oppresses women. Who believe that western society is set up by and for men at the expense of women. I'd like you to read this. I'm quoting a years old PPD post from a user called girlwriteswhat. I'm quoting her instead of writing myself because she said everything I would say but puts it more eloquently than I ever could.

"I don't think there is a universe that could exist where men, in general, hate women.

So maybe the first thing would be to stop accusing men of hating women? And to call out the women in positions of power who accuse men of hating women? And to call out the women like Quinn Norton who claim that men are raised to hate women, or Chloe Angyal of Feministing who claim that our entire society hates women?

Honestly, the Nazis hated the Jews. The Hutus hated the Tutsis. The KKK hated blacks. And yet this male dominated society, where men hold the majority of the positions of power, somehow HATES women despite not a single lynching of a woman for wronging a man, despite NOMAAS and the White Ribbon Campaign and HeForShe and a male feminist president, despite Boko Haram's sparing of girls while burning boys in their dormitories, despite the unbelievable (and unbelievably unspoken-of) gender gap in executions and criminal sentencing in Islamic countries, despite males being the primary receptacles of violence by both males and females from infancy to old age GLOBALLY, despite not a single genocide in history that DIDN'T begin with the systematic extermination of almost exclusively men and boys.

And you think men hate women. If men hate women, then how do men feel about men? On any given day, any given male is more likely to assault a male, undermine a male, ignore a male in need, murder a male, celebrate the suffering of a male wrongdoer, hit his male child, make a decision to mutilate his male child, arrest a male, convict a male, and sentence a male to incarceration or death, than he is a female.

And yet women--yes, women--have allowed a narrative to become entrenched in all our systems and institutions that males favor other males at the expense of females. That somehow, there is a "team men" that has been oppressing, subjugating and subordinating women since the dawn of human history. That men have waged a "war on women" since we descended from the trees and first tottered on two legs on the African Savannah.

Men have bled for their women, fought to protect their women, died for their women, and admonished each other for millennia to love their virtuous women as Christ loves the Church, to treat their honorable women as queens and as jewels, to present to them the heads of the men who displease them, and to duel to the death to defend their honor. The literary canon, written primarily by men, has always lauded a masculinity that protects women--the villains identified by their willingness to harm women, and the heroes identified by their willingness to avenge those harms.

And you think men hate women?

Men have never hated women. Men will never hate women.

And somehow, a minority of women have convinced all of society that men hate women.

No wonder men are afraid of us. If we [women] can convince society that it hates women, in the face of all the evidence to the contrary, then we have a power that is unfathomable to the average man. A power that is unfathomable to the most powerful man. We have the power to convince society that men hate us because they don't love us 10 or 100 or 1000 times as much as they love other men, and we have the power to convince society to enact legislation an policy based on that completely stupefying false belief, and these powerful men who supposedly hate us and are in charge of everything will do it. They'll lie and they'll cheat and they'll throw less privileged men under the bus just to prove to us that they're not misogynists."

WestCombSplit · 2023-02-08T23:49:55+00:00

Let me enlighten those of you that are unaware. A patriarchy isn't just a system that has more Men in positions of authority. A patriarchy is a system that is structured and designed to only allow Men to be in positions of authority. The very system is designed to be against Women. So if you believe that the government in the US or UK is a patriarchy then you must be suggesting that there are laws that are preventing women from holding positions of influence or "power"

a system of society or government in which the father or eldest male is head of the family and descent is reckoned through the male line.

Patriarchy is a system of relationships, beliefs, and values embedded in political, social, and economic systems that structure gender inequality between men and women

The meaning of patriarchy is a society in which men have authority over women in all aspects; from politics to morals to economics and even the actions of women

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-02-09T00:43:01+00:00

I hate it when some people are mad that some people complain about what some people said in a previous comment lol

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-09T00:56:11+00:00

Lillith's comments on nice guys got me thinking what a bizarre expectation it is for guys to have that somehow being nice leads to sex.

Like in an alternate universe where being nice has as much sex appeal as being rich or handsome - what do we even do to stand out. I imagine us racing to the door to hold it open for a woman who still hasn't left her car.

Sounds like a hellscape.

AizenSos-nick · 2023-02-08T13:58:49+00:00

Guys need to install this deep in their brain because it will help them whenever interacting with the female gender

The more beautiful a woman is, the more delusion she becomes

Attention and Beauty are literally twins to one another

Now just because she's delusional doesn't make her a bad person

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-02-08T14:29:09+00:00

Jesus. Is men on PPD suggesting hebephilia is okay a regular occurrence here?

Peacesquad · 2023-02-08T14:31:26+00:00

What’s going on

purplish_possum · 2023-02-08T14:51:06+00:00

Seems some guys really do improve with age.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/columnist/2023/02/08/state-union-biden-deflects-republican-heckling-sarah-huckabee-sanders/11202538002/

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-02-08T18:06:24+00:00

what would you do?

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2023-02-08T18:16:49+00:00

Give me your best ice breakers

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-02-08T19:08:54+00:00

DUDE! I hate long meetings!

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-08T20:23:56+00:00

The High School Drama really never ends does it?

lulll · 2023-02-08T20:43:02+00:00

is using turn signals alpha behavior or beta behavior

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-02-08T21:03:22+00:00

Redpill bros stay winning:

https://twitter.com/BornAKang/status/1623280411123019777?s=20&t=-vc-qF-jY9qmedhkuto0Lw

PitbllLvngMlFmnst · 2023-02-08T22:08:41+00:00

I finally got around to watching The Killing Joke last night and it was weird.

Like, who in the DCEU approved Batman and Batgirl fucking??

And what was with the nephew killing the crime boss uncle, and that just dead-ending? He gets caught and just... nothing?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-02-08T22:17:11+00:00

Today I saw myself in the mirror and thought damn I've gotten too fat, Jesus Christ gonna start fasting.

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-08T22:26:40+00:00

Nothing better than a good hair day

caobozo · 2023-02-08T23:08:09+00:00

men don't stick up for, uphold, or help random men over random women

from a response to my other comment, i am truly bewildered by this statement. not offended, but this to me sounds like 'the sky is green and the grass is blue'. what's other people's opinion?

WestCombSplit · 2023-02-09T00:25:26+00:00

Jennifer Connelly in her 20's was a 10

TigerRude4 · 2023-02-09T01:00:17+00:00

"If you have a n count preference and you're not asshole about it, women will think it's ok"

For that check my post on twox

Post is fucking gold.

"Why are moids so awful"

"You're misogynistic"

"You think women can have sex more easily than men? You're an incel who I bet thinks that vagina gets looser after sex"

Some of my favorites

dysonRing · 2023-02-09T13:07:20+00:00

Q4M: who do you trust in these purple debates?

PPD women: that want to actively want to sabotage you in some misguided gender war.

Bros: that simply explain to you the importance of masculinity. That tell you that attraction is just the minuscule tip of the iceberg? Almost an irrelevant part?

CountOk4075 · 2023-02-09T12:49:44+00:00

Q4All: Would you ever stay with someone if you found out they cheated? And are you a man or woman?

caobozo · 2023-02-09T12:44:44+00:00

since we've established that women who wear revealing clothing have only themselves to blame for being sexually harassed, who's to blame when modestly clothed women are sexually harassed?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-09T12:42:06+00:00

Guy: Women need to learn personal responsibility. Stop blaming all men for the actions of your boyfriend. Its YOUR FAULT all your boyfriends are assholes.

The same guy: Why does every woman I want date would rather date assholes than me?! This must be women’s fault! I’m not responsible for my situation!

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-02-09T12:15:47+00:00

Sometimes I believe that certain RedPillers beliefs are rooted in at least what they think is a legitimate biological argument, then they'll say something that just gives the game away that it's about jealousy and insecurity.

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-02-09T11:53:07+00:00

I wish guys had higher standards in the US and Canada. The majority of women are fat. Clearly someone is still dicking them and giving them attention. Men have become pathetic

blebbyroo · 2023-02-09T11:25:00+00:00

Whew my man served it up tonight 🥵💦

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-09T10:58:06+00:00

One attribute in me I’m fairly certain will look decent as I get older is my shoulders. I won’t look frail as quickly. It’s ironic because I spent my teens hating them.

platinirisms · 2023-02-09T10:55:41+00:00

The comments section here - https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/10x5lug/why_men_dont_cry/

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-02-09T09:58:32+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/oh140p/aita_for_wearing_tiktok_leggings/

BlAASt from the past

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-09T09:17:22+00:00

The best part about having women in different states on my roster is that all I have to do is the occasional phone call and give them some attention and in return I get nudes and a place to stay when I travel.

I'm not going to complain.

UneastAji · 2023-02-09T08:23:00+00:00

Every morning on my way to work, I cross path with that young cute girl. I look at her everytime and she doesn't. Today she made eye contact and half smiled at me, could be either an acknowledgement, or an embarrassed gesture.

I'm not sure if that's an IOI or if that's her having enough of me maintaining eye contact every time. We have a noticeable age gap that might creep her off. Like I'm 34 and she might be anywhere between 18 and 28.

I'm not single so I'm not going to approach her. But a little ego boost wouldn't hurt me.

What do you PPD think:

1) She's creeped out

2) She acknowledges my existence platonically

3) That's an IOI

HazyMemory7 · 2023-02-09T08:14:04+00:00

Women: men are useless today and we don't need them

Also women: women in afghanistan aren't allowed to go to college, why aren't the UN sending in men to deal with this???

purginggastonist · 2023-02-09T08:05:09+00:00

seeing dudes on here talking about "ppd women" is really weird, especially the ones who want to date or flirt with them, you realize these women are redditors right, most redditors are disgusting

anyways ppd women are for harassing with pictures of half naked bodybuilders not simping

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-02-09T06:22:07+00:00

When men make women understand how they can be replaced really changes the game about a lot of things on a liberation scale.

Before the downvote trolls come for me, yes men are replaceable too. Difference is society constantly informs us men how replaceable we are, therefore the thought of a woman being aware she can be replaced is like a foreign concept to them.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-02-09T06:07:38+00:00

Question for the ladies: How do you feel about "good morning" texts? Are they cute, or do they come off as the guy trying too hard?

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-02-09T05:44:53+00:00

Ladies if you were in a survival situation (natural catastrophe, war, alien invasion etc) let’s be honest. And I mean really honest. Would you rather be with men or women around you.

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-09T05:14:31+00:00

Sold

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-02-09T04:58:25+00:00

Got into an argument with this blue pill chick. Told her: Onlyfans is todays version of being a gangster but with a gender inversion.

I grew up in the hood. Lots of low income families and immigrants in the US.

One of the things that was glamorized and placed in rap was gangbangin. The gangster would sell drugs and lots of folks made tons of cash. More money then they would have doing normal jobs. They talked about how what they were doing was just a job. Why did people care since they were only selling to adults. Why was it the governments job what adults put in their bodies (ie did to their bodies). They posted their stuff online. Made it their whole personality.

Their parents would be ashamed of them and what they were doing. Many conservative families had their sons run off to the gangs. Being blamed for being to strict and that being the reason he joined the local crips.

Kids in schools would talk about how their older brother made tons of cash. Radio and early MySpace and MTV glorifying this lifestyle.

Those dude we’re constantly told they were immoral and how the cash cow wouldn’t exist forever. Each one said they’d only do it for a bit then get into real businesses with the money.

At then it all crashed. Folks I grew up with that got into that lifestyle eventually got themselves in trouble with the law or addicted to drugs or murked. All of them regretting it. Blaming “the system” for their failures.

Now the Same things are happening. But with pornography and onlyfans. Your already starting to get the sob stories from folks like the old porn stars.

Bubble eventually will burst.

But this chick doesn’t believe me. She thinks it’ll make her rich.

She sounds like the guys I grew up with. The arrogance and everything.

If she knew how the look on their face when they’re reminded of the past. She’d delete it all.

But it is what it is. Every generation goes through trials and tribulations.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-02-09T04:27:18+00:00

"do you have any pets?"

This is a great line for me to get to know someone.

There are three possibilities:

Yes: she then gets to talk about her pets and is really happy.
No: Then you can talk about what pet she wants.
No and doesn't want any: Then you know you will never talk to her again.

Overall 10/10 question for me.

Willow-girl · 2023-02-09T04:13:03+00:00

I WAS HAVING SUCH A GOOD DAY!

I had to put up real estate signs this morning, but it was a beautiful, sunny day and my work took me near the farm so I even got to visit with my cows for a little while. <3

Then I went to my school job ... where I discovered one of the little fucksticks had written "I love Adolf Hitler" on a bathroom wall.

Facepalm

5UP3RMANdatH0 · 2023-02-09T03:51:54+00:00

dude imagine having a femcel girlfriend. at first, you don't get along with her, but you try anyways for a bet. eventually you get strangely comfortable with her rants. everytime you cuddle she whispers how you are trash and worthless, and she would be better off without you. she gaslights you until you forget your own name. you are reduced to a mat for her to step on as she pleases. you dont even enjoy cbt or the degrading stuff she does, but you are intrigued either way. she calls you abusive and accuses you of everything under the sun. you insist that the reason you are even still with her is because you just pity her, but in reality, you know the months of grooming and propaganda has corrupted you, changed you as a person, to agree with her extreme views and just want to be treated like a pig. you like the feeling of being choked to near asphyxiation, being under her, licking the dirt off the stinky unwashed femcel toes and being crushed under her weight. you like how there's no peace, she beats you up when you're sleeping, when you're working, or are in a dangerous situation with not one thought about your safety or health. in from of your own friends and family she degrades you, until all of them cut contact with the both of you. in front of her friends she gets even worse than at home, since she has a reputation to hold up. you know you can't beg since that will just make her stronger, but the thought of that doesn't seem too bad for you at this point.

not that i have experience, of course. don't even get me started on schizophrenic girls.

purginggastonist · 2023-02-09T03:19:50+00:00

"NOOO you don't understand I am pro-choice not pro-abortion, I think it should be safe legal and rare"

https://mobile.twitter.com/SenMarkey/status/1623123614915493890

(don't think I forgot about that girl who threw a party on the anniversary of her abortion, or the abortion activist who got a tattoo of a baby with a knife through its chest, or miley cyrus gross abortion cake)

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-09T02:22:55+00:00

How do you think it feels to have a girl you like vent to you about how shitty her bf or ex is, only to see her go right back to him?

This really proves my point that ‘Nice Guys Finish Last’ is just guys being attracted to shitty women.

I don’t put up with women like that. When they do dysfunctional shit like that, I move on to find better friends that dont do stupid shit.

Just like I don’t care if a guy dates bimbos. I just conclude he’s a pathetic person and and find men that don’t waste time chasing after bimbos.

Why can’t nice guys do what I’m doing? I can guess: because they like dysfunctional women, just like the women they chase love assholes.

PitbllLvngMlFmnst · 2023-02-09T02:15:49+00:00

Feminist challenge: Level IMPOSSIBLE

Prove to me that the patriarchy exists without using the apex fallacy

biggestuzifanea · 2023-02-09T02:04:36+00:00

🥹 🫶

Why did they give women these tools of destruction

purginggastonist · 2023-02-09T01:31:03+00:00

we need more societal gender segregation, gyms workplaces, etc have all shown that all these attempts at extreme gender integration have made things worse

at least women are allowed to have some female only spaces, whether because men don't "invade" female spaces as often as women do or the fact that men-only places get sued for discrimination and villified in the media, women constantly want to forcibly regulate the ongoings in the metaphorical locker room in a way men don't

regardless the lack of male space is one of the major reasons that men are so atomized socially

SerpentCypher · 2023-02-09T01:07:05+00:00

"Women are being executed in the middle East. This shows society hates women."

Reply and actually show the figures of people being executed. Show that roughly 3% of all people being executed in the middle east are women and this percentage has remained consistent for a long time.

Tries to explain that a tiny percentage of executions in the middle east being women is hardly proof that there is a war on women.

Is downvoted, naturally.

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