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Slipthe · 2023-06-07T03:36:55+00:00

Just witnessed the worst case of a man monkey branching that I have ever seen.

This man was married 15 years, trying to have a baby for the last 2 years. Has had a mistress for a year. Wife gets pregnant and she has a still birth. While she is grieving the death of their child, 4 months later he impregnates the mistress, and then 2 months after that he leaves the wife and tries to blame it on her BPD, keeping her in the dark about the affair.

So the wife tries to better herself since he blamed her for the separation, and the husband comes back for two weeks to get her to impulsively sell their house and move to Arkansas within two weeks. Then he breaks up with her again via text, says he cheated on her for 10 years with 5 ONS, and ghosts her and throws away his phone.

Then a month later he texts her happy birthday and the ex wife finds out about the affair and drives 14 hours straight to try and win him back. And he ends up going back to Arkansas with her! And then the wife sees him texting the mistress "I love you" so the wife kicks him out, and he texts her the truth about the baby that is now due in 3 weeks.

lolmastr13 · 2023-06-07T02:25:13+00:00

Women complaining about their husbands not doing enough chores is an example of survivorship bias

My-wifes-bronzemedal · 2023-06-07T02:16:00+00:00

No, like dead ass bro. I swear women can still be deceased and get a husband/boyfriend.

I went to my sisters friend wake back in college and no joke she had like three simps fighting over her. They all brought priests I'm an attempt to marry her before she was buried.

Honestly crazy what some men will do for the snatch. It's gotten to 99/1 rule bro.

JumboJetz · 2023-06-07T01:46:47+00:00

My opinion, i could be wrong.

When men say nice things about their partner on reddit and this sub in particular (I.e she’s awesome, im very attracted to her, she’s a great wife/mother) they don’t proceed to put down other women.

When women talk about their boyfriends or husbands on Reddit and on this sub, they often put down other men (“there are no other men as good as him”, “men suck aside from my partner”, “I am not attracted to any man or feel sexual desire for any man except my partner”).

Maybe I’m just selectively reading though.

potoricco · 2023-06-07T01:31:35+00:00

This is why I hate millennials Just look at what they find funny

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-06-07T01:23:34+00:00

So the DOD basically confirmed aliens.

https://www.reddit.com/comments/142vztw?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=4

And y’all want to talk about Body Count?

How long before body count has to factor in alien thots?

MyLifeIsInZugzwang · 2023-06-07T01:08:30+00:00

Someone around my age (20 yo) died without ever crushing puss. Rip to the homie

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-06-07T00:53:50+00:00

Major oversight of modern women:

Those average or ugly/old guys that get hot women? They’re paying for it with some form of value, sometimes it’s success, money or status. Women value those things, it’s a form of currency and a trade off for him to get a hot partner.

Successful women aren’t more valuable in the dating market than average women. Men don’t think of education, status and money as a form of currency in dating. Being Uber successful doesn’t mean you are more valuable as a partner, as a person absolutely, it’s cool an admirable but it doesn’t make us want to wife you.

EulenWatcher · 2023-06-07T00:43:15+00:00

Okay, shopping day for husband was successful. Got some essentials and extra, splurged on clothes…but it was a need - his clothes is getting holes in it, as most of it is still from Russia and went through hell on the road.

potoricco · 2023-06-07T00:43:03+00:00

On another note, looking at this new generation, it is literally going to be so easy to raise chads. Literally feed your kids healthy tough foods, don't shove them in front of screens, let them play outside once in a while. Compared to their peers they will be demigods. I know so many cocomelon/iPad kids. It's sad really

potoricco · 2023-06-07T00:35:57+00:00

When you have a baby you are rarely supposed to leave it just lying down. another flaw of modern america

Many cultures have a practice of carrying babies in wraps. Humans are carry mammals therefore we should be carrying young babies everywhere we go instead of leaving them. We're not deer

I and my brothers were constantly carried in a wrap by my mother, grandmother or another female as babies. As a result, perfectly round heads

Prestigious698 · 2023-06-07T00:00:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleAntinatalism/comments/14228sw/trans_men/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

This subreddits tops FDS as most toxic

scwizard · 2023-06-06T23:48:26+00:00

So I have a few female friends and based on the fact that we do hang out sometimes I'd say they don't hate me or anything.

But holy heck they're inconsistent at replying to texts...

potoricco · 2023-06-06T23:32:42+00:00

Wow Astrud Gilberto has died. I've always liked her song "agua de beber" and "aruanda" . RIP

potoricco · 2023-06-06T23:27:20+00:00

Another rant sorry guys

Like I could tell my mom that my dad looks at women's pictures, but what would that do? its not going to make him stop and I also I can control him nor do I want to. It's just not going to accomplish anything. but at the same time I just wish he would stop doing it around me. as in, I wish he would not do this while in the same vicinity as me. I feel like this should be common knowledge. I could tell him myself but it would be out of character for me and also just make things incredibly awkward. Like here children really aren't supposed to confront their fathers and especially not daughters. I have always had an extremely *extremely* formal relationship with my father

like he will go on some girl's Facebook page and openly zoom in on their ass/body. it just feels really grubby and gross. I try not to look most of the time.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-06-06T23:24:22+00:00

I’m a mid-high tier normie guy and I’m trying to be the change I want to see in the world, but the sexual marketplace is forcing me to be a fuckboi.

I’m about a 6 and I try dating 6s but get ghosted regularly. However I get a lot of 4-5s throwing themselves. I am not interested in dating the 4/5s but I’m gonna have no choice but to pump and dump them cus the 6s all ghost me.

I’m against using money to get women, I think it’s transactional and still believe in pure love (simp!) but I can get more 6s by throwing $ around, which makes dating more transactional.

I’m 6’2” and like tall girls, but I am discovering that 6’2” is actually not tall enough to stand out with tall girls (I lied about my height, went to 6’3”, and saw way more profiles). Exasperated I eliminated my height filters and now I have tons of 5’0” to 5’2” heightqueens who message me first! Never happened with 5’10” girls. So once again I have to choose between perpetuating height hypergamy or getting fewer dates.

Current dating market brings out all the “bad” behavior from the participants just like capitalism makes everyone profit-driven.

scwizard · 2023-06-06T23:17:10+00:00

Resuming student loans is yet another way evil republicans are oppressing women.

Women hold an average of $31,276 in undergraduate student loan debt one year after graduation, while men hold roughly $2,000 less

scwizard · 2023-06-06T23:11:03+00:00

Student loan payments are gonna resume on Tuesday, August 29, 2023.

After all these years...

Big L for women since they have higher student loans.

EDIT:

Overall, 44% of the sample (with an average age of 26) had student loan debt. Women (47%) were more likely than men (40%) to have student debt.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-06T23:02:58+00:00

Oh yeah last thing before I go back to my irl responsibilities: the can females be creepy post has been one of my fav post and comment threads and I think this is one of the very few subs where that conversation can be had.

In a lot of other subs, females are treated as an endangered species and if you ever have a dispute or argument or hell a conversation that goes south then 9.9/10 times the male will get the punishment while the female gets off free. But in this sub I feel like it’s pretty even. Now granted I don’t have the time or patience to argue with the females on this sub so I can’t speak from experience but I have seen certain females comments get deleted by the mods which is more than most subs.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T23:02:25+00:00

"Wife doesn't wanna sex with me"

Who says she's the only woman with a vagina ?

scwizard · 2023-06-06T22:56:47+00:00

I wonder if men in other First World nations, such as Norway or Switzerland, who also have seen a sharp decline in church attendance and rise in gender equality, also have the same gender identity crisis? I am willing to bet that they don't.

Do men in Switzerland, Denmark and Norway also feel "lost" or are those inc*l free countries?

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-06T22:50:11+00:00

I don’t think I could ever date a female that was uglier than me. I feel like a lot of men in todays world date down because dating is so heavily skewed in favor towards females and it’s all they can get.

I thought going back to in person classes for college would have me meet a lot of cute female but so far I have been very disappointed.

scwizard · 2023-06-06T22:27:02+00:00

There's no way for men to be equal with women without taking women down a peg.

The idea that it can be done by lifting men up to female levels of sublime perfection is absurd.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T22:23:34+00:00

"Why aren't you friends with girls"

Because bitches mad loud

Aleast that's what my younger cousin tells me

But l can understand, being around the opposite sex is not always fun/enjoyable

Tried being friends but girls in HS are not it, but thinks got better when l went to uni(absolutely not)

SorryEm · 2023-06-06T22:08:19+00:00

I don't know why do people talk about the manosphere under the assumption that there hasn't been a movement trashing men and masculinity for the last 40 years.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-06T22:07:19+00:00

I think imma do monk mode for my whole life, peace losers

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-06-06T21:40:08+00:00

So how do unattractive couples work ? Are they actually sexually attracted to each other ? Anyone here want to answer from experience lol ?

1Here4Bach · 2023-06-06T21:25:04+00:00

Males who think a woman should just find him sexually attractive but no other man are as stupid as people who believe that someone can only truly fall in love with one person on a planet of 8 billion.

potoricco · 2023-06-06T21:20:28+00:00

“If this is what god lets into Heaven I don’t wanna go”

potoricco · 2023-06-06T21:14:21+00:00

I’ve been looking into the Apple vision headset and holy shit. It’s NOT just a Vr headset. Once it gets affordable to the masses it will literally be black mirror. Like, it’s fucking over. In 30 years developed nations will all be dystopias. Mark my words

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-06-06T20:59:11+00:00

Question for All: Not sure if this counts as witch-hunting but is the crazy person who thinks women all hate sex still here? I'd really love to see then make a legit post about this.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T20:58:46+00:00

Just because she cheats doesn't that the man cheating with her actually wants her

Like you really think he wants to take her and let her cheat on him too ?

Exactly what must he do with her ?

4SSh01e · 2023-06-06T20:53:35+00:00

Okay I don’t care is much about hormone therapy for underage people, whatever they want to do doesn’t impact me. However, I also think that men should be able to go on TRT under medical supervision if they want to because right now the bar for medical intervention for low T is too damn high. You basically need to have T levels of an 80 yo man before the doctor would prescribe TRT.

If there are medical professionals doing stuff like breast reduction, enhancement, nose job, liposuction and bunch of other procedures for the vanity of the customer then prescribing TRT to low T men shouldn’t be so hard especially considering how much difference T levels make in a man’s life.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T19:54:57+00:00

The problem is so guys give their attention to women who haven't earned it

Many of them even go on a fifth/sixth date with a girl who hasn't shown not one bit of sexual nor even romantic interest

Sexual l understand since most girls don't want to give it up that easy on the first early dates but if there's not even any romantic interest coming from her, then why are you still seeing her ?

If many guys just knew how much of a value their attention is, then the dating scenes would change drastically like never before

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-06T19:00:49+00:00

I have no power or leverage in a conversation with a woman. I am completely at their mercy in every interaction. It is now a woman’s world and men are just living in it. With the collapse of physical strength being relevant in modern contexts and the empowerment of women in education and the workforce, men have become increasingly useless in the modern world. Women are now the ones giving birth, still the primary caregivers, and all working equally with men.

The social, cultural, and sexual power this has given them can not be discounted. It defines the modern world. Women vote more. They are graduating from college more. Younger women are getting better starting jobs. Women are the earth’s newest apex predator. Fail to understand that and you could get fucked over.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-06-06T18:35:10+00:00

Q4All: How true is the statement "If your partner isn't lusting after you, you're being settled for"?

EverVigilant1 · 2023-06-06T18:28:16+00:00

QFW

Do you believe that all men demand romantic interest from women? Do you beleive that all men claim entitlement to romantic interest from women?

If so, why do you believe that? What evidence do you have that all men demand, believe they're entitled to, romantic interest from women?

Please note: "Want" romantic interest is NOT the same as "demand" or "entitled to". "Frustrated that can't get" romantic interest is NOT the same thing as "demand". I concede that there are many men who want this and can't get it; that there are many men who are vocally frustrated. That is NOT the question.

I want to know why you beleive men are DEMANDING and claim ENTITLEMENT. Please point to specific evidence.

saraimarsena · 2023-06-06T18:21:39+00:00

Q4W: have you ever felt sexual attraction to a non 666 chad? or are you a made up unicorn ?

if you haven’t, that’s cool. if you have, i’m curious to see if you actually exist 🤔

additional Q4non chad men in relationships: has your partner ever shown sexual attraction to you?

No-Regular1667 · 2023-06-06T18:07:30+00:00

CMV: The most accurate predictor for determining a guy’s dating success is whether or not he had a solid mixed-gender friend group in high school/college.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-06-06T17:20:32+00:00

Social media is so toxic I honestly can’t even imagine how bad it’ll be in the future.

Honestly we need to ban all social media

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-06T17:13:25+00:00

If a woman has a slim body and a face that is relatively attractive, then she will constantly have options with guys much, much better than me. I need to find girls that are butterfaces or a little chubby with decent facial features. I need to find people where better guys will be put off but at least has a bit of attraction to me. If I am just not physically attracted at all, it is a dealbreaker. It might be shallow but I can’t help it

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-06-06T17:12:25+00:00

Thinking someone is creepy just cause they look unattractive and no other reason is shitty and if you do that you should feel bad.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-06-06T16:53:46+00:00

There is 0 reason to not think that moms all around the world secretly get pissed off about their sons irreversibly turning from cute boys to psychological burdens after 13. Maybe that's why hands off parenting is common towards boys, to ease the pain...

Maffioze · 2023-06-06T16:42:03+00:00

Ngl I need to stop myself from being actively rude on this sub.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T16:32:00+00:00

"Difference between simping and pimping"

Simping is naturally easy to do and you lose a whole lot more , pimping ain't easy but you gain a lot more than simping

Buying your girl flowers ain't simping but giving your attention,time,energy to a woman who hasn't deserved it is definitely simping e.g going on a fourth/fifth date with a woman who hasn't shown any interest in you romantically or sexually

thetruthishere_ · 2023-06-06T16:20:19+00:00

Gross

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-06-06T16:19:07+00:00

Men should count their fucking blessings that women can still be attracted to them without them needing to be Chad, instead of endlessly bitching how much easier it is for Chad to get casual sex and demonizing women for having arousal mechanisms that are usually more complex than "me see hot man, me want hot man dick."

Most of y'all ain't Chad and you'll never be Chad. On what earth would it make sense for women to throw themselves at you like you are?

You need to be grateful for the women who find you attractive enough to fuck, whether that be outside or inside a relationship, and STFU that you couldn't get sorority girls doing backflips onto your dick when you were 19. Don't worry about what Chad is doing.

"But fiftypoundpuppy, Chad didn't need to put in effort! I have to pay for what Chad gets for free!"

This whining never makes sense to me. I don't have model good looks - why would I complain that no one wants to put me on the cover of Vogue? I don't look like a model and y'all don't look like Chad. All the bellyaching about getting "relationship sex" only is like me bitching about only getting put on the cover of the campus brochure. Or bitching that no one treated me like a VIP when I'm a nobody from the Midwest. You didn't get the rock star treatment, boo fucking hoo. Almost no one does.

Bunch of fucking Karens, the whole lot o'ya. "I wasn't treated like my dick was made of gold!" 🙄

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T16:18:13+00:00

"Difference between bad boy and bad bitch"

A bad bitch is all about looks, so when two guys see a really hot girl one of them says:

"That's a bad bitch"

A bad boy is all about character, how he acts that gains the attraction of many girls

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T16:12:34+00:00

"What annoys you the most"

You when the bill just comes in and it's much worse than what you expected, even though you already knew it's gonna be bad

Still have that feeling even today

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-06-06T04:40:03+00:00

Women of PPD, what's the pettiest reason you got the "ick" from a guy?

::Women respond::

PPD men: OMG WOMEN ARE SO AWFUL THERE'S NO WINNING WHY DO WE EVEN TRY

🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿

For future reference, these questions are a trap.

Creation_Soul · 2023-06-06T07:44:57+00:00

I really don't understand men who say they don't care about a woman's income, but then fear divorce rape. Isn't a woman having an income directly related to lower chance of a man being "divorce raped"?

dbz__f · 2023-06-06T11:23:23+00:00

Male-gendered persons: “Lmao women are so emotional and irrational, am I right boys?”

Also male-gendered persons: sulk the whole day cause their favourite sports team lost

mc0079 · 2023-06-06T13:17:40+00:00

Wanting to Treat random women in the future bad because you perceived a few women treating you bad in the past is Kindergarten level thinking.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-06-06T03:52:24+00:00

Watching pro sports draft coverage is funny because when you look at the comment sections guys are apparently shocked that athletes girlfriends are gorgeous lol.

It’s like they never went to HS/College

TrueHeroIke · 2023-06-06T06:27:56+00:00

I am not a red/blue pill.

Wanted to get some thoughts...

I found out my recent girlfriend(she asked me to be bf) slept with 20+ guys in 2 years. And sleeps with several different guys in a month.

I am 28. I feel so confused, she is my 4th. My last two breakups were due to moving.

I don't feel good. I am kinda disgusted. She was sleeping with others while I was taking her out on dates. She said its ok because we were not bf/gf officially yet.

I know I need to break up. She goes to therapy and seems to have issues.

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-06-06T12:09:23+00:00

Why do girls make it so awkward after they reject you when they see you around ? Like I’m the one who got rejected lol

That’s the main reason why I avoid dating within my social circles which is how most people date

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-06T03:05:22+00:00

Firsttt 😎

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-06-06T12:03:08+00:00

Alright PPD you convinced me, the ultimate test of how Chadly I am: I will just put "looking for a big titty waifu" on my Tinder bio and see if I still get matches.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-06-06T14:52:12+00:00

Some days I just wish the majority of men would behave in the way most women do with men they are not interested in. Total ignore. No talking.

Imagine that world for a day. And imagine this behavior not as a "punishment" or a lesson of comeuppance for women, but rather, just a quiet resignation, a realization that dawns on all men.

Men; Just be quiet. Leave all women alone. Go out to the park, or beach, a forest, or simply look out a window. And contemplate. Think upon all the failures, disappointments, frustrations you've had to deal with in all your life. All the moments of sadness. Feel that unadmitted and unspoken tiredness you feel to the core of your bones that is desperate to leech out and infect the whole of your being.

That poison that you keep contain, as best as you can, in the deep recesses of your body and mind. Acknowledge it. Give in to it. Embrace it. All your strength, vitality, righteousness, wavelength, logos, let it wash away. Let it go.

Just... give up.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-06T06:23:03+00:00

jacking off to porn or an instagram thirst trap pic is so boring, I don't even do it anymore. I just know I'd never get with these girls, so it just doesn't do it for me knowing it's essentially just a dream i'm having.

Now, when I'm talking to some girl and start talking dirty or she expresses some level interest in me (like agrees to a second date), I will get horny as shit. Like I will literally have to get out of bed and nut sometimes because I'm so horney thinking about the chick. True desire from a real human woman is such an aphrodisiac, because it is just so rare that when it comes, it hits HARD.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-06-06T12:24:18+00:00

Reminder that if you think F&F are Kings of debate because they "dunk" on drunk Insta-Thots, then you are a FUCKING IDIOT.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-06-06T14:22:31+00:00

This Girl on Twitter Asked what would be a great first date question to ask a guy

Some other woman responded and said

“You say you’re single but Is there anyone who would think that you’re in a relationship with them right now? And why?”

I laughed because those are real life situations. She thinks you guys are together, is she delusional or are you running game on her?

AnIndependenFuel · 2023-06-06T06:06:36+00:00

you just gonna say no, but i have some advices for physically unattractive(short or/and ugly) men to have more chances with girls

learn to cook, if you can cook a good meal for her, maybe she will give you a chance

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-06-06T08:42:00+00:00

The American sporting model is so God damn bizarre.

Like how is the second tier in the Basketball and American Football league systems run by universities? How are the student athletes not even paid [CORRECTED] in a sporting league that makes hundreds of millions of dollars? I'm not even going to get started on the franchise system (well maybe a lil started), it's just mad to me that one day, the sports club you've supported your whole life can just decide to leave for another city 😂

The draft system is cool though.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-06-06T14:19:12+00:00

The sex questions on r/askreddit makes me think the average user there is 12 years old.

Mark_Freed · 2023-06-06T14:37:58+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrzXwstAd-A/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

That man is dead

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DeliveryBoy1821 · 2023-06-06T03:46:21+00:00

Have any of you ever known any gymcels? Let's define it as a guy who is lean and looks like he can rep out a 225 bench press. Maybe 275 if he's really tall. Whenever I talk to gym guys the conversation often steers towards girls, or partying, or past relationships, or social stories. I don't always have evidence that they get laid, but I have never once met some jacked dude who came off as a virgin loser wierdo. my 2 roommates I knew who lifted I know for sure they were getting some.

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-06T05:39:53+00:00

Pineapples on pizza is a stupid fucking argument that basic people use to insinuate their basicness you're not special just because you have an opinion on it GROW UP

Anti_Thing · 2023-06-06T07:43:01+00:00

I have NVLD (similar to autism) & am an introvert. Needless to say, I naturally have an awkward personality & struggle immensely with women. Should I try to a) focus on fixing my personality, or b) accept that my personality probably can't be fixed & compensate by focusing on other things such as gym, career, or social circle?

4SSh01e · 2023-06-06T11:16:05+00:00

My $200 Huawei phone had ZERO bugs and my Pixel has so many despite being built by the OS creator.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-06-06T13:43:16+00:00

She said its ok because we were not bf/gf officially yet.

It might not be cheating, but it's ok if you are uncomfortable with it. Next time you start dating someone and progress to the second date, maybe ask if you could focus on each other for the time being and date exclusively. I know a lot of women (me included) are fine with that.

This is stupid. If a woman doesn't do this on her own without me needing to tell her to stop fucking other dudes, then sorry, she just isn't the one.

Peacesquad · 2023-06-06T14:20:04+00:00

What did I miss?

potoricco · 2023-06-06T14:48:09+00:00

I applied to this internship and I got rejected. the thing is that I didn't even want to be part of it but like... im still mad I was rejected. I imagine this is how relationships are. And Literally nobody job/internshop wise wants me. All these places want people with experience but aren't willing to actually let anyone gain experience. Whatever

TheSongsInYourHead · 2023-06-06T14:48:58+00:00

Women say men lie to get sex, which they definitely do, but more often I've seen where men don't even lie. If asked straight to their face if they see the relationship going anywhere long term, they'll usually say no.

Now they don't usually say no in the bluntest way, but they typically say something which the gender that's supposedly better at communicating should be able to identify as an obvious no. Yet women still hang around and seem shocked when the guy leaves them.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-06-06T15:23:19+00:00

Q4W who keep telling men to go to therapy. Have y’all been to therapy? Cause the men’s therapist usually are based. They’d be the type y’all say should go to therapy.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-06-06T03:42:36+00:00

Selling shit on marketplace is such a huge networking opportunity.

I used to hate it but lately I've been meeting a lot of interesting people.

Probably not dating related, but potentially maybe?

rhagaeas_executioner · 2023-06-06T05:55:12+00:00

Am I the only one who kinda admires kamikaze pilots and jihadists? I don't agree with the ideologies they fought for, but IMO that level of bravery and self-sacrifice required to perform suicidal attacks is extremely rare and praiseworthy. Whereas Uncle Sam on the other hand cried over losing just 100 men in Fallujah lol.

SDinAsia · 2023-06-06T09:54:13+00:00

What do women think of simps? Are they happy to take advantage of them when convenient? Or do they feel sorry for them? Would they ever marry one?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T10:00:02+00:00

"How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene"

Watch out for Tyrones

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T11:30:47+00:00

With the 2006s/05s finishing school this year and the 2004s/03s going to college/uni and entering the adult world

Times have very much changed since back then

Therefore if you started dating even before this people were alive, then am sorry(not) your dating views are out of reality and cannot be taken seriously

potoricco · 2023-06-06T11:42:32+00:00

What causes a persons skin to be red? I see this guy at my school who is literally red, bright tomato red/pink. He’s not tan,’probably would have really pale skin. But his skin is constantly just pink and red

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-06T11:58:49+00:00

Whenever people say that you can't learn to become a Chad because it's something you just have or you don't have are proving themselves to be nothing more than someone worth paying attention to.

Nobody ever was naturally a Chad, whether it was due to their environment, whether it was personal experience, that shit is learned. You have to put in effort, some put in less sure, but they still put in the effort.

Maffioze · 2023-06-06T12:46:29+00:00

Why are people on reddit such warmongers. Russia blew up an hydrological dam and their first response is to bomb the shit out of Russia instead of caring about the people who are actually drowning there.

the-lone-squid · 2023-06-06T13:12:07+00:00

If the new apple VR is legit, I’ll buy it..

Plug me into the matrix daddy!

happy_discus · 2023-06-06T14:09:51+00:00

Q4ALL not RP (i know its an oxymoron)

Every time men with no relationship experience/virgins get brought up many cite statistics how a very low percentage of men are without relationship experience/virgins in their late 20s.

My question now is what would your advice be towards those men.

This is a genuine question. I am not RP or BlckP nor a In*l. I am just curious.

Peacesquad · 2023-06-06T14:21:54+00:00

Women have amazing and easier lives today because of men, not women

potoricco · 2023-06-06T14:57:00+00:00

Men actually talk more than women

They just don't pay any attention to any thing women say, so when they actually do, its seems like they have been speaking more

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-06T15:34:52+00:00

It's wild to me how many women conflate preference with entitlement.

"My preference is a woman with a low n count"

"WHY DO YOU THINK YOU'RE ENTITLED TO KEEP WOMEN FROM ENJOYING THEMSELVES?"

One even went as far as to say I just want to control women.

I truly believe there is no good way for a man to say he has a preference without full on triggering lots of women.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-06T15:57:44+00:00

The recent Q4M about "how would you advise your daughter" makes no sense

I'm not a women, therefore can't speak/advise on the female experience

If my daughter wants dating advise, then she must go to her mother and have a girl talk or her older sister

I can only speak on the male experience since l'm a man

She's my daughter and will always have my full protection/provision but l'm unavailable when giving her advise on dating

Also disclaimer: watch out for Taylors

old_new_age · 2023-06-06T20:37:21+00:00

I'm late to this topic but I saw a lot of women justifying their aversion to awkward men because of "past experiences" and "patterns," i.e. awkward/shy men blowing up when rejected, awkward men unpleasantly feeling them up at the club etc., and there may be a subconscious bias against awkward/unconfident men for biological reasons or whatever evo-psych bullshit we're on this week

and that's fine, but, and excuse me for the autistic comparison, is that so much different from racism? I'm not comparing denying a job from black people to denying sex from awkward men (you need a job to live but not sex), just comparing that "uneasy feeling" women report having around awkward men, to that "uneasy feeling" that provokes a racist person to cross the street when they see a black guy. and for that racist person, who knows, maybe 3 black guys stole his lunch money in middle school and now he's discriminatory; he doesn't really affect the lives of the black people around him, he just shies away, similar to women and awkward men

I'm black by the way, and as you can probably guess, awkward. and yes, black people have had a much worse history of oppression in the world than "your average awkward gamer guy," I just think it's funny

old_new_age · 2023-06-06T21:12:36+00:00

Q4W: do you compare approaches to determine a guy's interest? in other words, if one guy is super flirty on the first date, even if he's a fuckboy or pump and dump RP etc etc., will this make a future guy who's a bit more slow to act seem like he's not interested in you?

this could be an obvious answer, but I realized after getting out of a relationship where I was love-bombed for the first few months, re-entering the dating scene has been disheartening, since although I know that fast-moving love-bombing is likely gonna have a toxic outcome, building rapport with people who don't do that now feels like a chore, and like nobody's really that interested. so, since women get approached more frequently than men do in the first place, I wanted to know their take on this

Anti_Thing · 2023-06-07T03:33:23+00:00

Men who have dated both North American & Eastern European women, how different were they?

In your experience, are Eastern European women really more feminine or is that just a stereotype?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-06T06:05:13+00:00

To all my fellow men out there who complain that too many women fuck around in their 20s and look to settle down with a beta provider in their 30s, tell me:

What the fuck is stopping you from leading these women on and ghosting them once you've gotten their pussy? Seriously. Just do what Chad did to them in their 20s.

"No baby I'm definitely ready to settle down."

After sex

"I've done some thinking babe, I don't think I'm quite ready to settle down yet."

Very simple stuff.

MaximumPain2 · 2023-06-06T06:44:29+00:00

Men's dating issues can be solved easily by following 4 steps:

No sex before marriage.
She has to has the same faith as you.
Lookswise, you need to find her attractive.
You need to provide. (Her providing is optional and not necessary.)

potoricco · 2023-06-06T13:34:27+00:00

To this day, no one has given me a valid reason as to why misandry is wrong. Women are literally the only oppressed demographic that isn’t allowed to dislike their oppressors. No one blames Jews for hating nazis. No one blames gay people for hating Christians. no one would blame an african slave for disliking a white slave owner.

To add insult to injury, we’re also expected to marry, associate with and give male supremacists kids even after centuries, eons of abuse. Misogyny is the oldest and most prevalent form of discrimination yet it’s also taken the least seriously? I am not a true misandrist but I’m just saying

EverVigilant1 · 2023-06-06T15:54:20+00:00

Women constantly accuse men here of being damaged by some event or series of events in their pasts.

The truth is that most women, including most of the women who post here, have the same issues. Women who post here constantly report bad experiences with men, which I am sure color their comments here.

--a sizable number of them are divorced, or have been through bad divorces.

--they have children with their ex husbands, and most aren't "co parenting" effectively. (Of course, to hear the women tell it, this is all their ex husbands' faults. It is 100% on the men.)

--they had bad sexual experiences - everything from unpleasurable sex to (alleged) violent rape.

--they had experiences where a man tried to drug them by spiking a drink or some other similar event.

--they were socially awkward or physically unattractive as children/teens, and have varying amounts of discomfort with men and themselves as a result.

--they receive "unwelcome" sexual attention, anything from politeness from unattractive men to crude, hamfisted sexual propositions.

--their political/social views have radicalized them and turned them angry and bitter.

--they had bad or nonexistent relationships with their fathers.

As a result of one or more of these, most of the women who post here have enormous anger and resentment toward men who they claim injured them; and/or men in general. And it comes through in their writings here. And it skews and distorts their views of men, and of mating, dating, sex, relationships, marriages, and families.

so, it would seem that the anger/bitterness/resentment isn't limited to the men who post here.

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