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BigCollectionFor · 2023-07-13T04:16:37+00:00

Why is it considered shallow for a woman to agree on a date because that: the guy is rich and can give her a comfy life. But not considered shallow if she agrees on a date because that: the guy is tall and handsome.

You hear about the woman: "not really liking the guy for him," when she got to know the rich guy after a while. Why?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-13T04:03:59+00:00

CMV: A lot of things that are considered misogynistic or out of norm beliefs on PPD or online, is in fact most people in regular life would agree on.

PPD and online in general are mostly woke leftist and feminist.

Comments like “touch grass” should more apply to them. Because they are not in tuned with most fellow people.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-13T04:01:57+00:00

I fucking despise touching people. I'm starting to realize this. It's because I realize that they don't want me to touch them, which makes me not want to.

I think that's why I like BJJ and wrestling so much. There is no question about whether you want me to touch you or not.

The question of consent does not come up. You don't want me to touch you. I am going to touch you however the fuck I want. Stop me if you can.

If I put my hand on your face and move your head around to fuck with you, you want to slap my hand away and I'm going to laugh at your attempts to do so before the double leg.

If I get a strong underhook on there and I see panic in someone's face, I know that they don't want me touching them there. And I don't care, I'm going to throw the fuck out of you now.

When I grab an x guard in BJJ you see noobies literally try to run away (it doesn't work, you have both their legs and you can just be dragged behind them basically) and I can laugh and then pull at their heel a bit and then they tap.

It's great.

People don't want me touching them, I will do so anyway, because you can't stop me. If you can stop me, congratulations, you've just gotten better. A few claps for you.

But when it comes to shit like dancing or other types of physical contact I am TERRIFIED of touching someone how they don't want to be touched or accidentally doing something like that. It is so deeply, deeply uncomfortable for me, it's impossible to explain.

It's because I'm worried that they're reluctantly saying "yeah you can because that's required in the class". And I hate that idea, because I don't want to make them uncomfortable just because that's what the class 'requires'.

I despise it.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-13T03:55:04+00:00

Things I shouldn't have done tonight: Gone to a swing dancing class.

There were an odd number of people so I was without a partner for the vast majority which meant I couldn't really do much of anything

When we did start circling partners I realized I didn't want to touch anybody (did anyway) and felt sick doing so. I could tell people didn't want my hands on them at all and I felt fucking awful putting my hands on people. I managed to make it through the lesson and nobody complained or anything but I could tell.

Afterwards people got into groups and started talking to each other and I tried to listen in and say something but I had that same feeling of "these people don't want you here" when they looked at me.

I'm actually decent at reading body language because I have been around people so often watching them (at the bar). And you can tell when women are super annoyed by that weird dude who has hit on every other woman on the bar and is now trying with them. That's the look I get. And the men there didn't seem to notice I was there at all.

So I left.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-13T03:39:50+00:00

Makeup is a cheat code

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-13T02:38:43+00:00

It's so easy to be attractive as a woman. All you have to do is to have a healthy (19-21) BMI, put on minimal natural makeup and look minimally feminine.

You can be plain Jane and capture the hearts of men. You don't have to be some baddie. Men, even many high value men, fantasize about dating a down to earth regular looking girl. Many men don't like the high maintenance look and legitimately like plain looking women.

Women can be unexceptional and still be the girl of men's dreams.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-13T01:47:22+00:00

The mosquitoes of Laos have given me dengue fever 🤒 and yup it sucks!

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-13T01:37:12+00:00

I feel like gifts are weird if we not together and just dating. But I’ve heard people say well what if you got it like that?

For example Drake has been known to buy girls shit that he’s just sleeping with, flying them out, paying for hotels etc but the response is well him buying her a bag is like you giving her a piece of gum.

SadEtherealNoob69420 · 2023-07-13T01:34:31+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/14xtvs8/to_very_attractive_males_what_is_your_life_like/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-13T01:31:15+00:00

I'm faced with the age-old question that men ask themselves everyday: "To cum, or not to cum, that is the question."

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-13T01:15:36+00:00

Two viewpoints PPD women here share.

Women here constantly say that however you meet a women you should accept her for who she is, trying to change her is controlling.

Also women here, body count and women promiscuous past don’t matter.

It is quite contradictory no?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-13T01:04:43+00:00

I'm going to a swing dancing class to attempt to be social. I skipped muay thai and boxing today to do this.

potoricco · 2023-07-13T00:44:02+00:00

This is serious. am I straight if I find them attractive?

potoricco · 2023-07-13T00:33:14+00:00

Twerking isn’t sexy. Being naked isn’t sexy. Being sexy isn’t sexy. THIS is how to be sexy.

potoricco · 2023-07-13T00:17:05+00:00

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This picture INFURIATES me can you guess why

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-13T00:06:52+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n2gzT6qOcnc

Here's my favorite Pat the Bunny song. So probably my favorite song. I'll probably have a different favorite song (still by Pat the Bunny or Andrew Jackson Jihad) tomorrow.

This is what I used to listen to (I would wear headphones) when I was in college and I was going out to drink. After like my 6th or 7th mixed drink, and failing to talk to people which is why I showed up in the first place, I would pop my headphones out from under my jacket, pop this on and drink 2 or 3 more while listening to this on repeat. Sometimes throwing up. Sometimes not.

Drink way less these days.

JackieMoonJersey · 2023-07-13T00:06:36+00:00

I never understood all the talk about bodycount , let alone casual sex. Bodycount talk can’t even really be practical in real life since most people will see it as a major red flag, so no one actually talks about it with potential romantic partners. And even casual sex, most casual sex happening is between people who see each other as potential future partners, not even FWBS or fuckbuddies. People talk about casual sex as if it’s some extremely large secret society that you have to be in the “know” to be in, but the average man and women aren’t having much.

Also, for other FF fans, how do you feel about 16 now that it’s had time to breath? Almost everything I’ve seen from the fanbase has been “nice story, meh combat and world”, but maybe I’m checking in a bubble

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-12T23:49:44+00:00

What is your opinion on OMG by New Jeans

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-12T23:29:28+00:00

Waiting to have sex is the best way to filter out liars, cheaters, and low value men. Highly recommend it for single women. You don't even have to actually practice it. Just set the expectation and watch them remove themselves.

Imaginethat0111 · 2023-07-12T23:27:25+00:00

For the men and women who’d otherwise be considered interesting or even above average (overall fit, hobbies and goals outside of video games and TV, decent style, etc), but are loners/have little to no social life, how has your experience been in the dating world? Is your lack of a social life a conscious choice or just fits your personality? And do you consider ever changing to having more of a social life?

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LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-12T23:21:38+00:00

Another example of the “men are wonderful” bias here is the insistent that “Single moms be blamed for criminals” rhetoric. So violent male criminal does evil shit and this subreddit is filled with men ready to blame the guy’s mom instead of the guy himself. So men can’t be expected to take responsibility when they do something evil? It has to be a woman who caused him to be evil? Also, these “single moms cause criminals” people never want to mention how older gangsters will exploit children.

So single moms evil, but not felons gr00ming children into a life of crime and exploitation.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-07-12T23:12:04+00:00

Doesn't the whole concept "the wall" fantasy fall apart when you take into consideration the average age gap between couples is 1-3 years?

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-07-12T23:09:57+00:00

Hypothetical Q4W: Two different mothers have young infants around the same age. They go on a vacation with their husbands and babies to an isolated lake cabin, but both of the families forgot to pack formula.

One of the mothers has run out of milk, but the other woman hasn't. Assuming the women know each other decently well, it wouldn't be weird for one of them to breastfeed a child that wasn't hers, would it?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-12T23:06:42+00:00

I just point this out periodically because I find it funny, and I will continue to point it out until the day I die I assume.

When I first started posting here every comment that replied to me was "BRO LITERALLY ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS TALK TO WOMEN BRO. JUST SHOOT YOUR SHOT BRO". And other stuff about fashion, and losing weight (which I did) and other self improvement bullshit.

I said "Nah that's probably not going to work, I got the autism".

Now people are real fucking quiet.... except I've had 2 people say "Bro you shouldn't go out. Stay inside behind a screen, you'll have a better chance of meeting a girlfriend by staying in your room".

One of those people who said that to me was actually one of the people who insisted that all I needed to do was talk to enough women.

I find this extremely funny.

Although I thought it would cathartic convincing people of my viewpoint and making them realize that their advice was kinda trash. It has not been. It's just kind of depressing that none of the advice works.

GridReXX · 2023-07-12T22:48:16+00:00

Her thread sums up it better than I’ve articulated before. Especially the bolded.

Obligation sex can have a profoundly negative effect on your sex life.

When you think about the amount of evangelical women who were told “you may not always want it, but sometimes we do things we don’t want to do.”

But neurons that fire together, wire together.

So when you have sex that you don’t really want to be having, your brain is connecting the feelings of obligation and duty to sex.

And then if you try to have sex when you do want to have it, your brain is having to essentially rewire.

If you have more “duty-bound” sex than “desired” sex, the desired sex can become even more difficult to come by! It’s a perpetual cycle. It’s not “doomed” - but you will have to actively fix those neural pathways you have created for potentially YEARS.

On the flipside, the more sex you have that comes from a place of desire - it’s reinforcing that sex is something good and fun that you WANT to do again! Your brain is associating sex with something you ENJOY (why is this such a novel concept?!)

When you have sex when you actually desire it, cognitively, your brain viscerally processes it as a reward.
And consequently, while I understand this part seems to be more true for straight women than it is for straight men, when you have sex when you don’t desire it, cognitively, your brain viscerally processes it as a punishment.

I’m sure we’ve all learned about classical conditioning, so this makes sense.

Anti_Thing · 2023-07-12T22:36:25+00:00

Is it possible for an autistic man to have a relationship with am attractive, neurotypical woman? If so, how likely or common is it?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-12T22:10:11+00:00

The body count “double standard” literally only exists because women do not select against high-n men to the same extent men do towards high-n women. Like no one would feel much sympathy towards high-n men if women just said “no, I don’t want a manhoe” and even shunned them socially.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-12T22:01:48+00:00

Only here where people have absurd gender views from the rest of the world

"Oh no the man shouldn't pay, it should be 50/50"

"Women should be approaching men instead"

"Men and women aren't different at all"

While the rest of the world:

Yes the man should pay on the first date

Yes men should approach instead of women

Yes men and women are different biologically,psychologically etc

Especially if you go anywhere outside the states, this shit is completely normal where the man pays and everyone knows men and women are different

Western societies for some reason seems to have everything in reverse on gender roles

ioniqc · 2023-07-12T21:59:12+00:00

Real questions:

What porn do you masturbate the most to?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-12T21:49:00+00:00

We love history, these topics are just boring and male. that's why shows like bridgerton are popular

Never change women, never change.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-12T21:47:33+00:00

It’s so funny seeing “Men take accountability, unlike women” in a subreddit of men who insist men shouldn't have to pay child support on their biological children.

It’s also funny watching people deny having a bias towards men by pointing to other people that have nothing to do with the topic at hand like “But but but Hollywood is biased towards women!” as if that excuses being biased towards another gender. Now, I do realize a lot of people are mentally 6 and still believe Hollywood is real life.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-12T21:15:19+00:00

Q4Women: Why do you all not like history?

And I know people are going to fly in here to say "I do like history" but

I've been to a lecture by Kotkin promoting his Stalin series. All old white men.

I've been to lectures from Peter Longreich when he did an America tour. Again, all old white men.

I've been to Timothy Snyder (who is even a pop historian! not a real historian! how hard is it to read pop history???) and again, all old white men.

And it's not just modern history either. I went to a lecture given by 3 different professors at the University of Washington about the history of contract law starting in the bronze age, again all white dudes.

I've even been to lectures on women specific history and topics. A UW lecture on first wave feminism was again all old white dudes except for like 2 women whose boyfriend brought them. A lecture back when I was at OSU that was hosted by the literal Feminist society bringing in a woman author to talk about discrimination against women in healthcare from a historical perspective, all white dudes.

And look at literally any online forum that is history related. Not military history related or 19th-20th century history specifically (which makes sense it's mostly guys who care), literally any history forum about any topic from feminism, to philosophy, to law will be populated exclusively by men.

I do not fucking understand it.

Someone explain this to me, what is so boring about history for women?

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-12T21:05:26+00:00

The "why don't you blame the man" thing will always be so silly to me when talking about single motherhood. In a perfect world we could make everyone be loyal, kind and mature, but life doesn't work that way and you can't control everyone else's actions.

It's like someone who hangs out with gang members drug dealers saying "why don't you blame the drug dealers and gang members?" instead of taking responsibility for who they allow into their life.

Despite being more emotionally intelligent than men, women do not prioritize morality, which is so many of them end up with pricks

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-12T20:51:53+00:00

Oh dang, I looked at my health insurance and mental health services has been covered this whole time, I just knew jack shit about health insurance lingo

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-12T20:49:19+00:00

Im interested in women's opinions on this

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14xws6d/height_is_the_most_influencing_factor_to_a_mans/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-12T20:20:00+00:00

Most of the times when women try to present themselves as sexy to men, they have this "alien pretending to be human while fake-smiling" vibe. The majority of erotic content made by women on the internet is a bit cringe like that. It's rare for them to seem like they have a genuine interest in making themselves desirable to men.

I bet that this is the exact same for women too, that the majority of men trying to make themselves appear attractive is the same cringe forced vibe. It's just that men are stupid enough to still pursue women while women are more sensitive to the fake-smiling aliens. But I think I get it.

People are horrible at connecting with the opposite gender's desires. Maybe we should deliberately practice that more, as a species?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-12T20:10:39+00:00

What exactly is unattractive about "modern women"?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-12T20:03:46+00:00

I'm next door at the gym throwing the dummy. There is a homeless dude (probably not actually homeless, ther'es a low income housing on the upper floors, the gym is just the bottom floor) right outside the gym staring through the windows at me.

potoricco · 2023-07-12T19:28:42+00:00

This is now the second time this has happened

I came to the gym and saw a guy from my school. I always look like shit when I go to the gym. I couldn’t bring myself to enter so I’m now just sitting in the car.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-12T19:10:06+00:00

"When pursuing a woman, you should be serious about it"

Maybe 40-60 years ago

This generation of women, l wouldn't take it seriously

potoricco · 2023-07-12T19:04:33+00:00

Natural antidepressants

Drink boatloads of water + get at least 15 min of sunlight a day + sleep 8+ hour

All things I can’t do when I’m in school but at least I’m on break now

If you actually have depression though see a professional

Slipthe · 2023-07-12T18:47:25+00:00

Do you kiss your baby on the lips?

I've never thought about it until now, but there are definitely good reasons not to do it.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-12T18:44:36+00:00

I finally picked up the phone and called two old friends today. We just chatted, it has been ages since I did that with someone. Does this count as ”touching the grass”?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-12T18:39:14+00:00

Take: if your net worth is anything under 500k (at 30, it should be way more if you're old) and you've ever said anything at all about gold diggers you should be dragged into the public square and shamed with your bank account flashing in big numbers above your head (have someone follow behind you holding the screen) while you have to wear a sign that says "Get away from me gold diggers, you can't steal my infinite riches"

QuenchlessGato · 2023-07-12T18:17:09+00:00

"Normal" woman =/= "Average" woman

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-12T18:16:03+00:00

Autistic women are really creepy , i had the chance to see an autistic woman in a bank dealing with the service agent , judging her from the clothing style i would say she’s fine and she looks good I’ll give her solid 5 , but the way she talks and how she talks is really strange and bizarre everyone at the bank was staring at her confused ….Like why she’s acting like that

she didn’t use makeup but her skin was very oily so is her hair she probably don’t care about herself much and she’s dealing with anxiety and depression

The thing is i feel like she’s so easy to be exploited and manipulated even if you don’t have much of social skills , i’m sure she never dated before and she’s lacking intimacy and love and that would make her easy target

Training_Monitor_614 · 2023-07-12T18:13:00+00:00

As far as I can tell, blue pill dating advice for men is: your interest in finding a romantic relationship is why you have a bad personality. You can't start dating until you've decided you are not interesting in dating. Sure, once you can date you'll choose to not date - now that dating isn't something you want to do - but that's besides the point.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-13T14:32:23+00:00

I think we need something like feminism but for men I know that it seems like a cliche but I think there will be great value in it.

One of the things that I like about feminism is how it studies everything there is about women from an analytical and in-depth angle as it sheds light on some deeply rooted unfairness and injustices, some of the subtle ways women are disadvantaged, some of the unrecognized struggles of women, gives women voices, highlights their issues, and so on...

Why we need something like that for men is to that we can reach an equilibrium in terms of public knowledge, general understanding, empathy... as I feel like most of western societies function from his fragmentary map that has thoroughly studied women's struggles without paying much attention to their counterparts which makes it seem like women's issues are never-ending whereas men are thriving although the absence of female specific issues in their lives isn't a sign of some grand privilege just like the absence of male specific issues in women's lives isn't a privilege either.

All in all society as a whole needs to function and approach all of the issues from a total and sound understanding of how things actually are.

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WestCombSplit · 2023-07-12T14:00:29+00:00

Hehehehe

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-12T14:08:49+00:00

ITS A GREAT DAY TO BE FEMALE!

Also I weighed myself this morning and realized I’ve gained 3 lbs in like a week of working out, but also I look thinner, so I think that’s a good thing. Maybe I’m just retaining water.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-12T14:10:03+00:00

It's fun being a shit here. Never change, fellas

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-07-12T14:11:51+00:00

Why do you think shyness is so repulsive (or thought to be so repulsive) in males? If a guy came to a lady rubbing his hands, avoiding eye contact, blushing and/or stumbling over his words, why is that seen as pathetic?

eye_fuck · 2023-07-12T14:16:48+00:00

The more I live and get to know more people, the more I realize how little virtually all people have control of their life's, themselves and their time

quantummufasa · 2023-07-12T14:24:44+00:00

Any guys here with trouble dating who aren't a techbro? (I'm a techbro myself)

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-12T14:25:59+00:00

Me in a cafe running smouldering introvert game

https://preview.redd.it/yydx4pbgnjbb1.jpeg?width=1300&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=14bff27b500367cb84da02ec4d4216be2456183a

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-12T14:37:30+00:00

Most relationships fail because they aren't based on actual love. Agre or disagre?

philseven12 · 2023-07-12T14:41:03+00:00

I was told in dm that I attract the wrong type of people. Okay fair enough, how do I not attract the wrong type of person? I don't cold approach, but the wrong type of people gravitate towards me

potoricco · 2023-07-12T14:48:39+00:00

Men do not protect women, men are not the protectors of women

In reality, men protect women (their “property”) from other men having access to them. Not for women’s sake are you dumb?

e_club · 2023-07-12T14:59:18+00:00

Im a 28 yr old guy, dating a woman 5 years older than me. I've had a total of 5 partners, including her - and she has had multiple long term relationships (1+ years) and hookups (she told me body count 30+). This is my first relationship.

Every moment I am alone, I think about breaking up with her because of my insecurities from her past and I am just lying in texts to feign affection. I like the affection and girlfriend experience but feel like i'm just being used.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-12T15:01:37+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-12T15:02:26+00:00

If you can’t pair bond, I’m pulling a James Bond 😂😂😂😂

DerayRevan · 2023-07-12T15:04:18+00:00

"Do as the wife says"

If l do that then she's later gonna resent me for having authority

Females don't like having authority over people especially their man

So no thank you

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-12T15:04:55+00:00

I have 2 chronic illnesses, I thought I could seek support through reddit (lol) but the chronic illness sub is just full of fat people complaining about being tired and doctors telling them to lose weight.

like....👀...

maybe you wouldn't be so tired and your doctor could focus on your other symptoms if you just lost some weight?

Yeah yeah spoon theory, energy is precious, I get it but also, just don't eat so fucking much?

baiser_vole · 2023-07-12T15:17:06+00:00

When I read stuff on PPD, a lot of men here seem to operate under the impression that there's no sane women out there.

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-07-12T15:26:57+00:00

Is there a possibility that a girl would want to improve together or is that just a fantasy these days?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-12T15:35:56+00:00

"Would you rather be forever alone or sugar coat(lie about some aspects) of yourself in order to get into a relationship"

I mean l lie almost everyday so wouldn't make a difference

Game is game

potoricco · 2023-07-12T15:44:26+00:00

The 4S of heterosexual relationships from Fran drescher? I think

A potential partner should be:

-straight

-sexy

-sane

-single

Never compromise

potoricco · 2023-07-12T15:46:56+00:00

“I like all music except country” how does it feel to be an NPC

Me, I’m gonna keep jamming outfits

Peacesquad · 2023-07-12T15:55:01+00:00

If sex from ransoms she can’t refuse, I’m pulling a Tom Cruise 😭😭😭

Peacesquad · 2023-07-12T15:55:59+00:00

If she has a horrible sexual history behavior, I’m pulling an Arnold Schwarzenegger

Peacesquad · 2023-07-12T16:07:10+00:00

If she can’t slap my dick, I’m pulling a Will Smith

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-12T16:13:37+00:00

I approached 2 women today and immediately expressed my interest in one. Only to realize that her friend was much much more attractive.

Should I still sleep with her? I’m not as interested in her and she’s quite boring looking if I’m to be honest. It’s just that I’m having a bit of dry spell atm.

potoricco · 2023-07-12T16:28:05+00:00

Ugly men Don’t want ugly women contrary to popular belief

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-12T16:43:41+00:00

Sitting over here getting misty eyed over a dumb ass Fall Out Boy cover of a dumb ass Billy Joel song. I'm such an old lady.

https://youtu.be/ijYSkpDoiFE

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-12T16:47:17+00:00

People will do the most impressive mental gymnastics in order to avoid doing what they need to do to change their situation

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-12T16:54:14+00:00

I approached 2 women today and immediately expressed my interest in one. Only to realize that her friend was much much more attractive.

Should I still sleep with her? I’m not as interested in her and she’s quite boring looking if I’m to be honest. It’s just that I’m having a bit of dry spell atm.

Okay guys. Going off my last comment (pasted above) I’m thinking of calling her and telling her that I’ve realized I’m more into her friend. We did all talk for a bit. What do you guys think of this strategy? I’m willing to lose her. I will first innocently find out if her friend is single.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-12T17:01:11+00:00

We should talk about n count

Peacesquad · 2023-07-12T17:02:01+00:00

women don’t build they move in. They wait at the finish line and try to demand monogamy from men with more value and status than them. Which is pure comedy lmao

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-12T17:02:13+00:00

Hey ladies, please don’t have sex with any other men unless it’s me. Otherwise I’ll become a betabuxx. Thanks 😘

antisplatter · 2023-07-12T17:16:17+00:00

back again. This place is the hotel California.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-12T17:36:29+00:00

Let me see if I can dissect this

Being told to improve triggers my self hatred, which causes a flare up of anger and now I'm just trying to stop the anger and self loathing. Afterwards I'm right back to square one.

Actually that wasn't terribly complicated at all

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-12T17:40:07+00:00

SO many statements made here are completely contrary to my reality and experiences, and every time I bring that up, people always go “well you’re an exception to the rule.”

Surely I can’t be exceptional in that many ways ?

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-12T17:42:30+00:00

Guys I did it! I just flat out asked for her friend’s number. See comment history. I’m prepared to lose both of them

CliffPR · 2023-07-12T17:48:41+00:00

My only problem with the idea of "self improvement" is that the people who use it as their go-to answer for anyone who is unhappy with their situation end up sounding exactly the same as TV preachers who solicit "prayer money".

eye_fuck · 2023-07-12T17:50:53+00:00

Fragile men are so cringe

Same with stupid

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-07-12T17:57:54+00:00

This talk about country music had me thinking. Was listening to this one lady opening for Asleep at the Wheel and she had a song with the line: "If Tommy Duncan's voice was booze I'd stay drunk all the time."

It was decent enough but for goodness sake the line should've had wine. "If Tommy Duncan's voice was wine I'd stay drunk all the time" sounds much better. Such a missed opportunity

She was decent enough but hearing that had me thinking she wasn't opening for Ray Benson because of the quality of her song-writing. That damned song gets an annoying amount of play on his radio show too

Peacesquad · 2023-07-12T18:02:29+00:00

I love women

Peacesquad · 2023-07-12T18:02:43+00:00

Every woman is a gold digger if you think about it

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-12T18:07:58+00:00

I'm a gold digger.

Every day I turn on my computer and just sit in my house and then, magically, a company that's simping for me super hard just gives me money.

I'm serious. It's like fucking magic. Twice a month my little simp b*tch comes by and says "uuuuu have been so good to me pls take this money" and I go "okay" and then slam the door in their face until the 15th when they come back. I don't even have to do shit, just pretend I care about them for like 10 minutes a day

Sometimes (every like 6 months or so) they'll come and say "You did such a good job I want to give you EXTRA money" and I'll say "Okay" and then shut the door in their face and ignore them until the next time they decide to give me money

Wild shit

DerayRevan · 2023-07-12T19:08:14+00:00

"How would dating be like if sexual violence stopped"

Women still selective and men still horny

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-12T23:49:16+00:00

RSE is the best pokemon game, since it’s the only one that doesn’t promote single motherhood.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-07-13T04:34:10+00:00

How can a man convey that he is looking for something serious while being content with holding out for the right person

Cethlinnstooth · 2023-07-13T05:10:40+00:00

https://dlisted.com/2022/08/18/for-the-sake-of-his-mental-health-jonah-hill-is-stepping-away-from-publicly-promoting-his-projects/

Well that old link adds a bit of texture to this whole thing. He used to post surf pics himself.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-07-13T05:16:12+00:00

We will never be able to get rid of gender roles and that is a good thing.

Men and women have responsibilities on their own.

Men and women have different bodies to begin with, nobody can deny that. Men and women have different areas in which they excel.

Women being more emotional and men being more rational doesn't translate to that men are more intelligent. In fact, on a fundamental bases women are the first teachers of their child.

md8716 · 2023-07-13T05:44:43+00:00

One of the most important lessons I've learned as an adult is that not everyone wants to fix their problems. Or rather, they're not willing to do the work. Because that often requires looking inward and taking accountability for what has happened so far. So, they would rather seek validation, distractions, and comfort.

With one notable exception, I just ignore people like this in my life. They drain your time, energy, and money. However, if you show a spark, a sign of life, a flash of motivation, or a hint of effort, then I'll do anything in my power to uplift you.

I realized early on that people in positions of power and influence are absolutely starved of interactions like that and will often jump at the chance of building up someone who actually gives a shit. Literally half of success is just showing the fuck up.

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-07-13T06:06:15+00:00

gosh darn I frickin love life.

MissLute · 2023-07-13T06:53:17+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/14y052n/how_come_some_men_leave_their_spouse_when_they/

text-redacted · 2023-07-13T07:00:46+00:00

"I'll support you in getting to wherever you want to get to, but I'll love you wherever you are."

My heart 🥺 Been feeling down on myself lately and was expressing it to my bf. I was talking about how I want to improve myself and he said that^ 😭 so sweet!

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-07-13T07:12:57+00:00

Possibly flaming hot take but I don't think rape is one of the worst crimes.

If say, you had to choose between having sex with someone they don't want to, or having their arm broken, I think the vast majority would bite the bullet and choose the sex(rape). To me, that seems like a relatively straightforward test to gauge the relative severity of various crimes.

But when it comes to criminal justice, most people seem to think rape as being second only to murder in terms of severity. It's definitely viewed as being lot worse than physical assault causing serious injury, and it carries more severe penalties.

To me, that attitude doesn't make sense in light of these

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-13T07:15:47+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4D9HaCIA-Uc

Blind guy kicked out of gym for "staring" at girl in the gym

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-07-13T07:40:25+00:00

God damn, starting to see the results from working out and losing weight is so rewarding

DerayRevan · 2023-07-13T08:39:24+00:00

Guys should plan the date close to their area to invite the girl and also extend it for a longer period of time to build attraction, if she's not feeling any sexual or romantic vibes even when you try to kiss her and she rejects it, then it should be a good indicator to stop giving her attention by not seeing her again

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-07-13T08:55:25+00:00

One of the worst phrases that's come up over the past few years is "your feelings are (always) valid"

...sorry but many people's feelings are not valid. If you get upset over something utterly ridiculous, your feelings are not valid. If you want to unfairly control your partner's behaviour because of your own insecurities, your feelings are not valid. If you are so angry at your partner that you have the urge to hurt them either mentally or physically, your feelings are not valid.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-13T09:22:25+00:00

I think the person who initiated the first date should have their food paid for as thanks for taking the risk.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-07-13T10:50:27+00:00

All together men and women have it equally hard.

While it may seem as a luxury to us men that women usually can pick from a pool of men we have to consider that you still need to pick the right one, because this pool is a mixture of all sorts of men. There are several strategies to do seek out the suitable one, but the issue is that there is no strategy which works all the time everywhere. Meaning, certain methods might end up scaring away the actual good one. Still, for us men, it feels like a luxury to have such a pool to pick from.

However, the real work begins after picking the man. Because, we men, especially on PPD, always seem to forget that women have quite heavy tasks to lift inside a relationship. Whereas us men basically still do the same thing we did before entering the relationship and after entering the relationship.

All in all, I'd say the struggles of men and women who seek a serious loving relationship. A relationship for a life and beyond have it all together equally difficult.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-07-13T10:59:01+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/14y6sgr/if_margot_robbie_is_mid_than_weve_collectively/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1

This trend of "obviously hot celebrity is not actually hot" has gone too far

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-13T13:22:57+00:00

Is it really true that men sleep with women they don’t find attractive just for the sake of it? I can’t really get my head around sleeping with someone you find attractive because that’s sort of the whole point, isn’t it? Like what do you get out of it otherwise? Makes me glad I never engaged in casual sex/ONS.

Training_Monitor_614 · 2023-07-13T13:27:43+00:00

women living life on cheat mode: https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/14yg6wq/my_husband_asked_me_to_open_our_marriage_so_i/

potoricco · 2023-07-13T13:40:15+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/c0pu8yt7kqbb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e2856225c8e0fa4197d9d9488d2ec9690ccd5023

What Ive been saying

Maffioze · 2023-07-13T13:48:15+00:00

Have you noticed that they talk about the "male ego" but so many women, at least on reddit, seem to assume all men are man-children who need to work on themselves while all women are finished products who have already done the work and achieved the pinnacle of maturity, emotional intelligence, and responsibility?

One of the best comments I have seen on this sub.

Infammo · 2023-07-13T13:53:30+00:00

Women: "Men make themselves needy and dependent by having their girlfriend as the only meaningful relationship in their lives. The fact that we have so many friendships is why we don't need to put so much on our boyfriends."

Me getting 30 texts a minute from every single girl I date:

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-13T14:40:35+00:00

What do you believe happens when you die?

I think it's just a forever sleep, like how you go to bed at 10, wake up at 6 and never feel time passing, only you never wake up. It's a hard concept to grasp though, like thinking about what the number zero actually is.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-13T14:42:54+00:00

This was deleted from ask men so I’ll try here lol

QFM: Are there any gifts you’d really like to receive from a gf?

My bf is taking an exam next week he’s been stressed over for months and I want to get him a lil gift as a congrats but stumped on what to get him.

He’s 23, a gym rat but already has everything he needs for the gym and every supplement under the sun.

He’s also a big tech nerd so I’d like to get him something related to that. He makes more than I do so usually I treat him by cooking him his favourite food, I’ve bought him a cool lamp for his place before. I also don’t want to get him anything big as we’re moving in together soon and I don’t want to get him something that will be a hassle to move.

I’ve asked him about a movie I think he’d like to see so I’ll get him tickets for that if he confirms he wants to see it (I’d like it to be a bit of a surprise)

So men, if there’s a gift you’d love to receive from your gf, let me know!

potoricco · 2023-07-13T14:45:46+00:00

Is it a good idea for me to get a job at this stage? Once I start school I won’t be available until 5pm, but I’m taking 4 Ap classes so I need all the free time I can get.

Like yeah I could get a seasonal job though but I only have like a month and a couple weeks left. I really need money

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-13T14:52:58+00:00

Imagine if there were a substantial amount of men proudly proclaiming that they want a GF with bigger boobs than themselves. And then they would justify it with "it's not hard, most women do have bigger boobs than men".

Women are already losing their minds over shit like anime girls having too big tits. But in reality, most men really don't care that much about boob size. I'm sure that a completely flat woman can still get a plethora of matches on a dating app.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-13T14:56:20+00:00

I'm not proud to say I had a dream about PPD

Peacesquad · 2023-07-13T15:01:10+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-13T15:01:15+00:00

Tits or ass?

scwizard · 2023-07-13T13:04:15+00:00

Lol women don't repay their student loans.

https://static01.nyt.com/images/2023/07/12/multimedia/2023-07-06-student-loans-index/2023-07-06-student-loans-index-square640-v3.png

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