Daily Community Chat Megathread

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-03T10:02:06+00:00

When you're Canadian living near the US border and American men like you on dating apps

What are you doing?? You don't even have a passport lol

(Semi-joking bc I know some do, chances are bad though)

TigerRude4 · 2023-08-03T09:56:53+00:00

Q4All: Why do you think there aren't self improvement subreddits (or other spaces) for women?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-03T05:42:39+00:00

>My coach opposes gender transitioning

>Yet he is helping me take my hormones to transition from male to BIGGER MALE

>Curious 🤔

DerayRevan · 2023-08-03T05:15:21+00:00

"Women initiate 70-80% of divorces but why does Fresh and Fit and the red pill make this seem like a bad thing ? Are women suppose to stay in bad"

It goes up whenever the woman is educated because you'll see the common cause of divorces half of the time is when she later becomes the breadwinner of the household

So yes this is reality for how women are in marriages

But when you begin to apply a moralistic view on this saying is it a bad, that is because it goes your Ideology or Bluepill conditioning

eye_fuck · 2023-08-03T05:14:34+00:00

Or better yet:

What is the best and worst fashion styles for men and women in your opinion?

Reply with pics.

TigerRude4 · 2023-08-03T05:11:52+00:00

When are we getting Oppenheimer Weekly discussion topic?

eye_fuck · 2023-08-03T04:59:50+00:00

PPD taste check

Pick the best and worst styles for men and the best and worst for women out of the ones depicted on this picture:

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thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-03T04:54:29+00:00

Am I the only one who's never actually met someone claiming to be a "born again virgin"? I do know women who were promiscuous in the past and want to leave that behind them, but they don't say that they're virgins; they just don't talk about it.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-03T04:25:11+00:00

Women initiating divorce really brings out the drama kings. It is impressive the stories they make up about women and these poor, divorced men.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-08-03T04:13:23+00:00

I have to remind myself that some people are just legit pieces of shit and are not good people deep down. I honestly believe that at the end of the day I'd have a drink with most people here, but that is truly naivety on my part.

And this isn't due to any recent convos I had, or am having, just something I've been observing lately...

potoricco · 2023-08-03T04:03:37+00:00

I hate being a woman. My body is actively working against me at every waking moment.

SianOiseau · 2023-08-03T03:56:06+00:00

Work - grocery shopping - work - cook - sleep.

Today wasn't a fun day lol. There was a huge benefit to husband's sporadic work - he was doing pretty much all the chores and I didn't have to cook.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-03T03:55:17+00:00

Finding this sub was scary at first cuz I'm like "oh no, there are actually men who think like this walking around? I could know men like this?"

But then I realized they're probably not interacting with women at all so I breathed a sigh of relief

(not talking about you decent men in here, just the women-haters)

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-03T03:50:54+00:00

The fact that /r/superstonk is still active is the funniest fucking thing to me.

These people do not deserve to have money and the fact that hedge funds are gleefully taking their money brings me great joy. I especially love the "My wife left me because I lost our life savigns.......BUYING MORE! She'll be sorry when I'm driving a lambo!" posts. They're just fucking funny.

It makes me even happier because I actually made a lot of money during the pump right before the dump of gamestop. I fucking cleaned house. Nearly 50k. And all these morons were too stupid to sell at the top, instead clinging to conspiracies.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-03T03:41:55+00:00

One of the worst things as a man you can do is send nudes to a woman, no matter how long you've been seeing her, it doesn't matter, always operate under the mentality that she can and will use those photos against you in the future.

I don't care if you're just talking, dating for a year, married etc. It's not worth it. And if your partner is mad at you for not sending nudes they aren't a good partner to begin with.

scwizard · 2023-08-03T03:23:15+00:00

This morning the born again virgin thread had no replies now it has 210 replies lol

Crazy how one girl can invent some troll and legions of guys get their panties twisted.

armpitpics · 2023-08-03T03:20:28+00:00

In case nobody has mentioned this, I'll have to let you know that penis.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-03T02:52:21+00:00

I beat out my coworkers for a promotion just because I was the only one who talked in the group chat

I literally got a promotion for sending gifs

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-03T02:46:24+00:00

The men who refuse to be friends with women don't realise a whole new world of game that they're missing out on. Use you're female friends to your advantage and have them introduce you to other women, a lot of chicks end up just talking to random people at the club, she could very easily go and talk to a girl, bring her back to you guys and introduce you.

She can do that, she can introduce you to her friends, there's a whole world of options when you have female friends, other chicks will see you with women and already tick you off as a safe bet because women are comfortable around you.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-03T02:40:40+00:00

I think the attitude around sex has to change. Its not a prize to given out for good behavior, its not a bargaining chip to secure a relationship, its not something transactional. It involves literally involves apart of your body.

For the gut stop, treating pussy as if its not attached to a person, and if u do a,b, and c then it'll you'll get a prize . And ladies just becuase you make a dude wait for sex doesn't mean he's going to be in a relationship, stop using your body as a bargaining chip to get a relationship. Your human being, move like it.

potoricco · 2023-08-03T02:29:27+00:00

If passportbroism is REALLY because foreign women are more feminine, more submissive, more disioswodysnao, and not because foreign women are more desperate:

WHY do they almost never go to economically and socially stable countries?

Passportbroism is exploitation, just tell it like it is

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T02:25:34+00:00

Imagine being a father of a daugher and you hear some dork rant about how women should get pregnant in their early twenties instead of getting an education LOL.

potoricco · 2023-08-03T02:21:48+00:00

I have found my community! r/antisex

tvear · 2023-08-03T02:20:06+00:00

CMV: I was just thinking that when people say "average" they're usually not talking about some exact middle point of a statistical distribution, they usually just mean "neither of the two extremes".

So a tall man has an advantage, a short man has a disadvantage, but a guy who would neither be considered tall or short is just neutral. He's "average" even if his height is technically taller than the true statistical average in his area.

Having a beautiful face is nice, having an ugly face is unfortunate, but someone who would be considered neither particularly beautiful nor particularly ugly is just "average" even if they would technically be a 6 or 7 and seem to be better looking than the majority of people.

Being fit is good, being fat is bad, but if you have a body that wouldn't be considered fit or fat you're "average" even if the statistically average person in your area is overweight.

Being wealthy is great, being poor sucks, but if you just have a decent career and make enough to live a comfortable life, you're just an "average" regular person even if your salary is technically above the median for your area.

Willow-girl · 2023-08-03T02:15:32+00:00

Good news! After hanging up all of my laundry for more than a year, I finally have a clothes dryer again! I bought it sight-unseen in an online estate auction over the weekend, which was a bit nerve-wracking, but it turned out to be practically new and in almost perfect condition -- much nicer than the last one I'd tried to get, in a live auction at which I was outbid, but bought some awesome MCM lamps that I flipped for $125. Which, coincidentally, was what I paid for this dryer ... it's like the cycle of life, lol.

A shout-out to my man, who went to pick it up while I was working, and ended up having to drag it up the stairway to hell! Imgur

(Yes, he sent me a picture of it so I would feel properly remorseful, which I did.)

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T02:14:01+00:00

Is it possible that Di Caprio has no game ? Given that he never had to develop it because of his massive level of status, it may very well be that he never really learned the mechanics of man-to-woman interaction, possibly coming to bite him in the ass when it comes to keeping a woman.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-03T01:59:30+00:00

Q4All:

Has my existence managed to blackpill anyone 🤔

Follow up, what specifically more would I need to do in terms of "Muh self improvement" before people start to admit there's a pretty hard cap for autistic people that look like me (I've posted my picture here, feedback was "bro, it's bad news" lmao) that can't be overcome.

Did the fitness

Did the "Do it for yourself" bullshit with wrestling and MMA

Got the money

Got the fashion

What else do I need to do before you personally go

Fuck bro, you know you can always become a monk right?

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2023-08-03T01:43:20+00:00

As someone who’s gen Z, the generational changes in dating aren’t talked about enough on here.

If you’re not gen Z you have to understand the dating landscape is just different these days. Social media, dating apps, and social trends in general have completely changed the game.

It would be like trying to compare pre-industrial to post-industrial farming. Sure they’re both “farming” but the methods and problems they face are not the same.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-03T01:19:36+00:00

Any of y'all have any 3d print file things like this?:

https://m.yeggi.com/q/massospondylus/

I'm trying to get more scientifically accurate fossil prints

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-03T01:18:17+00:00

**Empathy warning: This post will induce women to develop empathy for men. Beware!**

https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/15fu6p7/what_to_do_when_multiple_guys_in_a_conversation/

This post gives a good perspective/narrative of what it's like to try to meet women as a man. The struggle of the average man is that you're never going to meet new women one on one because dating apps are crap, so you need to meet them in group situations. But the only group situations to meet women are sausage fests and hyper-competitive. Every man is desperately trying to talk to women.

It's not enough to be attractive to a woman. Even if she thinks you're attractive, she thinks other men are attractive too. You have to be more attractive and more dominant than all the (tens) of men who are interested in her in the social situation. You're always competing with other men to even get the chance to talk to her. If you don't want to compete? You'll literally not be able to flirt with a single woman there and end up alone.

"Socializing" with women as a man is doing these group interviews where you're constantly worrying about whether you're appearing more fun, entertaining, dominant and confident to women than other men. If you're not, you'll be socially excluded. You can't just relax and be yourself. Women mock men trying to be alpha, but they will exclusively show attention only to the alphas (and the men in the top 10-20% of looks). The whole men trying to be alpha thing is because women actually act like the concept prescribes by excluding the betas and only deeming the alpha (and good looking) men worthy of their attention. This is why many men don't enjoy socializing with women. Women make men do these Hunger Games to compete for attention. It's not enjoyable.

Women are making socializing with them unenjoyable for men.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T00:58:12+00:00

Rate this man, ladies

https://i.imgur.com/R40OuDY.jpg

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-03T00:53:25+00:00

A friend of my friend got paid $180 by a guy who wanted her to watch him beat his meat.

Another friend of mine got paid $300 for feet pics.

For everyone wondering why women 'have it so much easier', it may be time to look at the men for the answer.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-03T00:17:15+00:00

COL is insane right now. I spent 275 on groceries for 2.5 yesterday for about a weeks worth of food + some pantry items and I was shopping at Aldi (cheaper than bigger two supermarkets) for the main stuff.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-03T00:15:50+00:00

TIL there's a 1965 movie where a blind white woman and a black man fall in love and that sounds so wholesome 😍 I'm gonna watch it tonight

purplish_possum · 2023-08-03T00:04:42+00:00

I'm starting a series of posts about how everything you need to know about relationships can be learned from old rock & roll songs. I'll start with a classic Chuck Berry song -- Brown Eyed Handsome Man. Lays out the primacy of looks for guys is nothing new and how since the beginning of time women have been chasing Chad.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3AfD1cEZvKs

Arrested on charges of unemployment
He was sitting in the witness stand
The judge's wife called up the district attorney
She said, "free that brown eyed man
If you want your job, you better free that brown eyed man"

Flyin' across the desert in a TWA
I saw a woman walking 'cross the sand
She been walkin' thirty miles en route to Bombay
To meet a brown eyed handsome man
Her destination was a brown eyed handsome man

Way back in history, 3000 years
In fact, ever since the world began
There's been a whole lotta good women sheddin' tear
Over a brown eyed handsome man
It's a lot of trouble with a brown eyed handsome man

Beautiful daughter couldn't make up her mind
Between a doctor and a lawyer man
Her mother told her, "darling, go out and find
Yourself a brown eyed handsome man
Just like your daddy, he's a brown eyed handsome man"

Marlo Venus was a beautiful lass
She had the world in the palm of her hand
She lost both her arms in a wrestling match
To meet a brown eyed handsome man
She fought and won herself a brown eyed handsome man

Two, three the count, with nobody on
He hit a high fly into the stand
Rounded third, he was headed for home
It was a brown eyed handsome man
That won the game, it was a brown eyed handsome man

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-02T23:47:02+00:00

Today's fwp...

Plant or whey protein for my morning shakes. I'm leaning towards plant because it's lactose free.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-02T23:14:27+00:00

I cannot function as a human being on 7 hours of sleep. I don't know how yall do it. I'm not myself. My soul is only half-present. I'm an automaton.

relevant music

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-02T22:57:28+00:00

If you want to see more average couples, watch Family Feud, Let's Make a Deal, and The Price is Right.

Look at the live studio audiences on Seth Meyers, Jimmy Fallon, Stephen Colbert, Jimmy Kimmel, Trevor Noah, James Corden, Saturday Night Live.

Search YouTube for live concerts, wedding videos, live street cams.

Average couples are everywhere.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T22:39:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/15gm1h3/date_an_older_guy_ladies/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Believe me when I say this is a man. Men are doing PR campaigns to get women to date them. Trust nobody

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-02T22:26:26+00:00

Reminder that liberal equality does not extend to flyover Americans.

When Thomas Paine wrote the Rights of Man in 1791 a specific section was removed by the censors. It read

Yes everyone has these basic rights, unless they live in the flyover (except Chicago, I visited and they are very cool) states, this pamphlet does not apply to them.

edit:

https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/346/605/ad5.png

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-02T22:20:54+00:00

Whenever people on here talk about average men or women there seems to be a tacit implication that these people are not overweight. But whenever I think about an average man I think of a fat guy with a weak jaw and no facial definition whatsoever. But I don't think that's what people are talking about. It seems they think an average guy is like 5'10" and a healthy weight with at least decent looking face. Which I think is above average.

A 5/10 to me means "not attractive". Like, at all. Most guys who are not overweight are at minimum a 6 in my opinion. 5 is a bad score imo. 6 is ok. Should I instead imagine what to me is like a 6-6.5? Because then the complaints here would make more sense.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-02T22:14:05+00:00

Redpillers and feminists are very similar in their thinking and ideologies.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T22:13:47+00:00

Guys I tried making fettuccine alfredo and like the cheese part literally became hard

Still edible and yummy though. But definitely not earning a Michelin star. The good thing though is that nobody in my family eats pasta so when I serve it to them they will like it 🔥🔥

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-02T21:42:56+00:00

Thank God, you're all back. Did anybody else experience a Reddit outage?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-02T20:51:49+00:00

"If you met your ideal woman today, do you think she would she would like you"

I don't care if she likes me or not, l could really care less about that

But she has to respect me otherwise she ain't the ideal

petella-2-the-sac · 2023-08-02T20:09:29+00:00

Question for women. What percentage of you are woke? Does a man have to adheare to woke opinions in order to qualify for a relationship?

potoricco · 2023-08-02T19:50:59+00:00

One thing I hate about looking at online recipes is when they start putting random extra shit in it just because

Like just show me how to make it normally the classic way. And put the extra stuff as an add on or something

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KirthWGersen · 2023-08-02T10:02:03+00:00

First!!!!!!!!!!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-02T10:16:32+00:00

Imagine whining about “[women] have to be thin, but not too thin” while living in a country that is basically eating itself to an early grave. This will always bug me because its such a victim mentality and blaming other people for your own insecurities. I’m between overweight and obese, I have never felt the pressure to be “thin but not too thin”. Im not trying to losing weight because ‘evil society’ told me as a woman to. I’m losing weight because Im well aware how its affecting my PCOS.

This leads me to talk about how annoying shallow this part is: “And you can never say you want to be thin. You have to say you want to be healthy, but also you have to be thin.” So fuck your health, you just want to be thin because ‘society’ told to? Can I please get female representation that isnt some shallow attention whore pretending she’s oppressed? If it wasnt for the fact that being fat hinders my health, I would not care that being thin is the ideal. Is someone in America sending women to the gulags if they’re not at a normal weight?

AdOpen432 · 2023-08-02T10:31:51+00:00

Warren kole is a male 7

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-02T10:43:14+00:00

The most successful couple on Married at First Sight Australia is between a short man and a taller woman

They have been married for several years and have children

It can happen for you too

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-02T11:05:15+00:00

Treat women like normal people, get friend zoned

dbz__f · 2023-08-02T11:06:42+00:00

Gf is out of town tonight, she's visiting one of her friends. I facetimed her to say hi, apparently she's sleeping in the same bed as her friend. Her friend was like "when are you going to come visit??"

:/

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-08-02T11:17:27+00:00

Got back home after being away for two months. The cat has glued himself to me and cries if I go out of sight.

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-02T11:31:49+00:00

Irl how do you even say or advertise you’re looking for a casual relationship without being an asshole?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-02T12:15:04+00:00

I realize privileged women whining about how hard it is to be a woman is similar to guys who won’t shut the fuck up about not wanting to get married. Because both groups definitely want social validation instead of just doing whatever they feels most comfortable.

Guys won’t shut up about not wanting to get married sound like they really want to get married. Though it could also be “Not Like Other Guys” syndrome where they want to be praised for going against the norm, which is super teen girl of them.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-02T12:54:50+00:00

I found this quote and I love it:

“Thirsty guys see everything through thirsty guy lense. Meaning they cannot possibly comprehend another motive for a man doing something other than to get pussy. It’s a projection. The thirsty man is only motivated by the pursuit of pussy, so he believes that’s exactly how other men think. Which is why you can’t trust a thirsty guy, he’s always acting in the interests of his dick and no other reason.”

Which is why a lot of “nerdy guys” don’t do well with even other nerds because no one wants to deal with a neckbeard who thinks his sole purpose in life is to get his dick wet.

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2023-08-02T13:07:37+00:00

I always thought “gym bro” was a meme but the dudes who frequent the gym really are the most red pilled guys you’ll meet. I suppose it attracts that kind of person, they wouldn’t bother working out if they didn’t think women care a lot about looks.

It always takes me back a bit because to their faces these guys appear to women as the most kind and caring gentle giants. Then you talk to them when there’s no women around and they’re parroting every red pill talking point.

dbz__f · 2023-08-02T13:19:02+00:00

Too lazy to make a big post about it but talking to women irl is the biggest redpill/blackpill.

I was talking to a woman I know irl, we were having a long meaningful chat etc. about relationships and what not. She openly said she’d never date an (certain ethnic group) man and she was being really kinda racist about it like she finds them gross

She also got triggered when I said I’d never date a sex worker or woman who’s done porn, and when I discussed my dating history and how all the girls I date are usually (certain ethnic group) she was saying how I fetishise (certain ethnic group) women or whatever

Like me having a preference towards one side apparently is bad but her ruling out an entire ethnicity is fine

shmupsy · 2023-08-02T13:27:19+00:00

I remember using the apps. Pure laziness and cowardice on my part. Instead of going out and meeting people. I wanted to sit home, do whatever, and have women served up to me.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T13:42:09+00:00

Guys I am back :)

scwizard · 2023-08-02T13:44:27+00:00

My boyfriend triggered me in the worst possible way

Hmmm how bad could it be...

...

Yup that's the worst shit I've ever heard. That poor girl wow...

Mundane_Vacation4989 · 2023-08-02T13:48:09+00:00

One of my best female friends admitted she is not sexually attracted to her husband. Despite this considers him “the best guy she has dated, treats me right” and they have a baby together.

This is despite him making $200k+ per year. 5’10” handsome. But he lacks edge and is slightly effeminate in the sense of being too nice and accommodating towards people.

She will compare him to guys she hooked up with in Russia who scared her with their aggressiveness and domineering attitude but also clearly gave her the tingles.

I tried to offer her advice about how sexual attraction is not black and white, on and off and that she should try to recontextualize her sexuality and what triggers her desire, and recognize those qualities of simple physical attraction in her husband. But I’m afraid we are too wrapped up in our narcissistic desires to do the hard work.

Women would normally not open up this way to some guy friend, but she has a particularly loose filter. I wonder how many other guys are in this situation.

I’d rather be alone than feel my partner is not sexually attracted to me.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T13:49:26+00:00

Life update got rejected from a job interview and I like don't know what im doing wrong

I had told the interviewer that on Sundays I was only available after 2pm and then she disqualified me. I will never find a job at this point

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-02T13:49:56+00:00

Am I the only one who's not so crazy about McDonald's breakfast? I prefer their burgers and nuggets.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T13:51:57+00:00

Good things happen in my life when I'm banned. I think I should take this as a sign.

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-02T13:59:48+00:00

Q to the men angry that a non virgin withholds sex

How do you know that she had sex before on a first date?

you are on a second date talking about series and music and then you ask her "HAVE YOU HAD SEX ON A FIRST DATE BEFORE?"

in itself that's weird and unlikely to happen but let's say she doesn't see this as a red flag

"yes I did, but I realized rushing things isn't good, I'd rather get to know you first before having sex"

then you break up immediately? what do you do?

HazyMemory7 · 2023-08-02T14:05:19+00:00

Lizzo is apparently a huge POS, shocker.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T14:11:53+00:00

Is it bad that I low-key judge my family friend for being cheap and desperate for free stuff

During covid she would drive around our town/city going to random food banks, pantries, and school lunch giveaways for children, almost every single day. then would dump some of it at our house as if we asked for it, and whenever I went to her house, their would be boxes upon boxes of food that nobody was eating, food that could have gone to people who actually needed it

They often invite me to these free back to school, free food, free Christmas etc type of stuff very often and I just cringe whenever I see it. the funny part is that they're usually block party type events in neighborhoods that she doesn't even live in or near. I get invited maybe every week and I don't know its just such cheap behavior driving 20 minutes away into people's neighborhoods just to get free stuff 😭

And its not as if they have a rough financial situation because then I would understand, but it really just seems like hoarder behavior and I don't know if that makes me a snobby person for thinking that way

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-08-02T14:18:56+00:00

People have begun to mock the idea of an alpha male, but I get my best results when I focus on outperforming other accomplished men.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-02T14:22:05+00:00

Might make this a post but want to write it out first: People try to blame their personal issues on society. For females, it's their self-esteem. For males, it’s their dating problems.

I'm talking about the whiners who cry “ITS HARD BEING MY GENDER!” and it's usually not, but it's personal things they refuse to deal with.

(insert me criticizing how whiny the “It’s impossible to be a woman” speech was).

As for guys, it's hearing the whining of “Its hard because all guys have to pay for expensive dates! They have to play jester for women! Women just want hot guys and money!” but when people suggest for them to get off dating apps, socialize, have better vetting and/or find women based on shared interests, you get a mountain of excuses.

AspiringMogger · 2023-08-02T14:45:04+00:00

Q4all: would you date a wheel chair bound person?

weaverofjoy · 2023-08-02T14:51:01+00:00

I had an eager partner for hooking up and even though I found them attractive, I turned them down because I wanted my first time to be with someone I loved. In the end, I guess I am more of a romantic than I thought I was.

SianOiseau · 2023-08-02T14:55:35+00:00

Husband has started a new job and going to the gym at the same time. Finding time for intimacy has never been this tricky - when we're both home, so are our roommates.

TigerRude4 · 2023-08-02T15:11:18+00:00

Wow Reddit actually banned that chick who said 98% of men have pedophilic tendencies thanks to my report.

Congratulate me mens rights activists!

Peacesquad · 2023-08-02T15:19:44+00:00

Anything new? What did I miss?

Peacesquad · 2023-08-02T15:20:28+00:00

I need a chick who doesn’t ask questions and wants to bang PRONTO!

potoricco · 2023-08-02T15:23:04+00:00

This is so benign but it infuriates me so much

My grandmother is always the first person to rush people but is never on time herself

Its especially bad on Sundays because she'll wake everyone up early and while were getting ready she will literally check on us and be like "hurry up guys!!!!! we are going to be late!!! what do you mean you haven't showered!!" but then like. She will always be the last person ready and then hold everyone else up. we are always at least 20 minutes late to church for this reason. And she doesn't even realize it. but sometimes I just want to ask her to stop rushing people if she can't apply it to herself but I know it would hurt her feelings

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-02T15:23:55+00:00

God blessed me yet again with a statistical anomaly.

Matched with a natural redhead on Bumble. Her profile is great, bio funny and smart but... I feel a little let down. She is really flat chested, and her face is leaves ... a lot to be desired. It's so fascinating to imagine if she didn't have such a striking shade of red, like if I imagine her being blonde or brunette, she would be considered below average to legitimately ugly. But wow her hair color saves her. And that ass... somehow this irish girl MUST have a brazilian mother because, wow!

She seems keen on txt. I just started getting around to watching the show "Succession" , and she stopped me right there, she gets it all the time, lol. Ugly redheads, they are lucky aren't they?

potoricco · 2023-08-02T15:25:41+00:00

My mom got me this box of Arab perfume oils from Dubai they smell really nice. my mom is so nice

I actually want to go to Dubai next year because I've never been, but I would have to get a job, but as you know, I've really had no luck with that

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-02T15:33:43+00:00

Every time someone refers to themselves or others as alpha I can't help but laugh. Because it's clear they don't realize what it means in other contexts. In other contexts, alpha is bad, alpha is not ready for the public, alphas are bound particles.

Yet it's used here to describe your everyday average Chad or Joe or Timmy who is charming and has rizz.

mummydontknow · 2023-08-02T15:41:09+00:00

Sometimes I feel like I should let go of these "healthy relationship" notions and just let my instincts lead.

Clearly that worked for my ancestors. And people can tell when there is a cognitive dissonance which turns them off even more. People and especially women love authenticity so much that it overrides "toxicity".

potoricco · 2023-08-02T15:47:55+00:00

I want barbieland! Lets make a land where women RULE!

potoricco · 2023-08-02T15:52:50+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/yBSkKTx

Reminding you again Truerateme is a joke

Above average woman with slight, barely noticeable flaw - “Um akshually your zygomaxilarry interpupilarry distance is .1 centimeters too high, you’re a 3”

Below average man - Damn you a 6 bro

Goonerlouie · 2023-08-02T15:53:10+00:00

I would say politically I am generally progressive, centre-left maybe? Economically I divulge into communist style thinking occasionally and a ‘greenie’ when it comes to the environment and energy policies.

But for the life of me, when it comes to sex and dating, I am stuck as a conservative and can’t shake it off. Unfortunately, unlike climate change and economics, there isn’t really much of a science behind sex & dating right? How and where can I go to unlearn this?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-02T15:56:32+00:00

Okay here's the plan need everyon'es thoughts: I'm about 2 months away from a fairly well defined 6 pack. And I got the 6 figures. And I'm 5'6.

So 6 6 6

Now if I create a tinder profile with only thirst traps of me winning competitions in close fitting shit + doing fuckboy workouts at the muscle beach setup we have at Alki beach + a couple of pictures showing wealth

Can I get laid IF I manage to rizz her up over text but make an excuse of why I can't speak in person. I'm thinking of saying something like "Well I got throat punched my doctor told me not to talk for a month" or something (the reason I can't speak in person is because I'm functionally non verbal with any complex thoughts)

Think I could get away with it long enough to get laid?

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-02T16:04:53+00:00

Feminists: "WE NEED MORE WOMEN IN POLITICS!!!!!"

Monkey's paw curls. Granted!

Boebert and MTG win.

SorryEm · 2023-08-02T16:21:28+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15fv3lo/overwhelmed_with_messages_is_not_an_excuse_for/

An actual joke. The women here will never acknowledge that dating is simply easier for them.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-02T16:24:16+00:00

A good way to motivate fattie women who are just chubby but not obese yet is to say they look like Lizzo.

Inside, she'll be raging "I'm not that fat"

But if she says anything, you can just pretend that you think Lizzo is beautiful or that fat is beautiful.

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-02T16:25:26+00:00

what if we try to instigate a revolution against establishment?

potoricco · 2023-08-02T16:30:59+00:00

One of the most creative ways to call someone dumb that I’ve ever seen

“Your brain could be in your ass and you still wouldn’t have shit on your mind”

philseven12 · 2023-08-02T16:31:40+00:00

Can you start a conversation with the opposite sex easily in real life?

philseven12 · 2023-08-02T16:44:11+00:00

Women who chase tall and handsome dudes should learn game and conversational skills to gain commitment from him.

The women that fail in their journey should accept the loss and stop trying to flex on "regular" dudes because they don't got the sauce

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-08-02T16:44:24+00:00

Just be yourself is attrociously bad advice. Even a psychiatrist that has studied seduction believes this to be the case. In fact he seems to be suggesting that if seduction is the goal, the deception may be a handy tool.

old_new_age · 2023-08-02T17:01:22+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3lypVnJ0HM This video has probably been linked on this sub already, but after the recent OLD thread was flooded with comments either mocking men who don't get any matches, or men self-deprecating about their lack of matches, I'd like to spread the very real idea that getting no matches could mean you're actually...slightly above average. Or a 1/10 I guess, who knows.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-08-02T17:02:13+00:00

Q4M: If you were engaged and found out your fiancé wasn’t going to take your name - would you call off the wedding?

(No point in replying if you’re going to say “I’m never getting married anyway”)

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-02T17:03:31+00:00

Here's an idea:

Presidential fitness test, mandatory for every person in America, you have to do it once a year.

If you pass the test you get paid. A lot. We're talking like 5k. 10k? 15k? We're talking "If you're fit enough, just being fit could be a near full time job if you live in a shitty area". And we could even have a sliding scale, the more fit you are, the more you get paid.

Or we could do monthly testing with smaller amounts of money. If you hit the goal month to month we will give you healthy food + some cash + a voucher to a personal trainer or some shit so that you can keep it up.

Imagine how much money we'd be saving on healthcare costs. Billions of dollars.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-02T17:09:39+00:00

Which is the better podcast? Fresh and fit or whatever?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-02T17:12:29+00:00

"You can't be red pilled if you aren't a religious person"

Yes you can because RP is a praxeology-what is

Religion is a Ideology-what should be

This are very different beliefs/ideas

RP comes from a objective lens, that's why we call it RP "awareness" whenever someone understands this things

It cannot be bound by your religion,race,ethnicity

But religion certainly can

So you can be very much RP without being religious

scwizard · 2023-08-02T17:18:18+00:00

https://www.cnn.com/2023/08/02/americas/canada-justin-trudeau-separating-intl/index.html

Lol

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-02T17:23:19+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwDrHqNZ9lo

Infammo · 2023-08-02T17:28:47+00:00

Was curious if two of my fish were mating and realized I don't even know what their species mating looked like. After checking apparently they reproduce by the female giving the male a blowjob. TIL.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-02T17:53:41+00:00

Whats the ideal bodyfat percentage for women? I can't seem to figure out what is ideal. Seems to be more variance to account for boob and thigh size. But for men you just need to get to 12%.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T18:04:12+00:00

My mom asked me to escort my grandmother to her appointment and her insurance company was supposed to provide transportation

Transportation never came and, my mom sent me a number (the medical office) and told me to tell them she was running late. They told me they have no other open slots so we can either make arrangements to get there on time or reschedule, i let my grandmother choose because it’s her appointment not mine. So she rescheduled it

Now they are all mad at me because they supposedly waited 3 months to get this appointment. But like, I literally did nothing wrong. I wish they would stop treating me like i have authority over her medical life because I just don’t bruh.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-02T18:06:37+00:00

Could someone define a "masculine woman"? Please be as specific as possible.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T18:12:35+00:00

Is this what it’s like to be a low value man surrounded by chads

PPD men, I finally know how you feel, I stand in solidarity ✊

DerayRevan · 2023-08-02T18:17:44+00:00

"If withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is"

Every man has their own way of insuring that but mine is mutual desire

Now you guys know women, they take their time with everything including sex

But if am not getting that even romantically, like say you go for a kiss or touch her on the third date and she doesn't return the desire back, then for me l already know there's nothing left out of seeing her

potoricco · 2023-08-02T18:19:35+00:00

The most feminist, progressive guy you know still laughs at misogyny with his male friends

Male feminists are even less trustworthy than normal guys

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-02T18:39:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/comments/15g7lql/last_night_i_read_what_my_fiance_had_to_say_about/

Sheesh. If I found out I was about to marry an FDS'er this way I would call off the wedding on the spot and block her on everything. Her demanding that he pay for all the dates all the time should have been a red flag.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T18:59:02+00:00

I WANT TO HAVE SIMPS TOO 🙍‍♀️

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-02T19:01:50+00:00

Did you lift today? Just finished my daily 2 hours full body (it's not overtraining if you have a science experiment level of test) lifting with squats deadlifts bench OHP etc and I'm about to go do hill sprints while shitposting on PPD in between runs up the hill

Then I have the 40 pound hammer to swing tonight at 8 5 rounds 3 minutes, then got 5 rounds with the 120lb wrestling dummy 3 minutes, and then finally 3x30 sumo style squats with a 90 pound vest

WHAT THE FUCK HAVE YOU DONE TODAY

GET TO THE GYM

FUCKING LIFFFTTTT

baiser_vole · 2023-08-02T19:03:46+00:00

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/barbie-movie-breakup_l_64c3052ce4b044bf98f44379?utm_campaign=share_email&ncid=other_email_o63gt2jcad4

Okay, that's it. PPD and this article have really got me curious now. Ugh. I too will watch the movie. Noise marketing works.

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-08-02T19:03:47+00:00

If as a woman your only way of vetting a man is withholding sex then you probably have poor discernment skills.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-02T19:07:59+00:00

Justin Trudeau is divorcing. We need ppd's take on this.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-02T19:23:34+00:00

Q4All: If you've ever done workout classes what demeanor do you want your instructor to have? I've done crossfit and other group workouts in the past and the demeanor of the instructor was "wow everyone is doing so ! keep it up guys!" just super encouraging and just...It annoyed me good. I just felt annoyed by the relentless positivity.

On the other hand during wrestling our coach is fucking screaming at the top of his lungs (was a boot camp instructor for a while, he literally can't speak after the class) "WHILE THEY'RE OUT THERE YOU'RE IN HERE TRYING TO BECOME A CHAMPION" "NOTHING ELSE MATTERS BUT WINNING" "THAT WAS SHIT DO IT AGAIN". And he makes the rest of us scream to. "I AM A CHAMPION COACH" in between reps "I WILL BREAK MY OPPONENTS WILL COACH" shit like that. And if you don't scream loud enough he'll come up and make you start over again.

I felt so fucking bored and annoyed by the crossfit bullshit, but I've always loved the "drill instructor" demeanor of wrestling, it just makes me go so much harder.

Obviously most classes can't be like this, the people who go to our wrestling class aren't normal people they're top wrestlers in college or high school trying to win state or training for an MMA fight, shit like that. But I feel like there's a compromise that's not just this kid padded "ur doing so well bb" bullshit that a lot of group classes have.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-02T19:26:18+00:00

The fact that many women fall short of guys lying to them for sexual access

Proves they just wanna ruin dating for themselves and men who have their best interest

Also why those guys should continue doing it, because you know the saying

If it works then don't change/fix it

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-02T19:54:01+00:00

There was a girl I worked with a few years ago that I thought was stunningly beautiful. Like 11/10 pretty. I had some pretty severe oneitis with her, even though I never made a move because I didn't want to get fired.

She's no longer at the company, but one of my old time co-workers and I were talking about her and he says, "she wasn't even that attractive". I was like... "What??? She was gorgeous!!" He was befuddled how I could think that.

potoricco · 2023-08-02T19:56:13+00:00

Women or vaguely feminine object: Exist

Men: Sex 😍

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-02T20:02:27+00:00

If I'm really attracted to a man AND he's relationship material, I'm going to wait to have sex. This man is far more common.

If I'm really attracted to a man and he's just a good time bro, I might have sex with him. Or just enjoy the flirtation and go home alone. This man is far less common.

potoricco · 2023-08-03T02:58:15+00:00

This song from grimes perfectly explains the centuries old dynamic between men and women

“I am, like, begging for you baby Makes you wanna party” - Internalized misogyny, desire for approval from men no matter what

“Wanna break up” - feminism and feminist movements

“Baby, it's violence, violence Baby, it's violence” - self explanatory

But can't see what I see You can't see what I see “Cause you, ha, ha You feed off hurting me, hurting me, ha” - Misogyny, patriarchy, anti female systems that thrive on the suffering of women

Old_Speed_7861 · 2023-08-03T13:20:19+00:00

TwoX has said nothing about lizzo. Interesting

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-03T22:11:23+00:00

Have any of you read the posts on r/foreveralonewomen? It's heartbreaking. Society is far more cruel than it will ever admit to itself, and prefers to hear its own empty platitudes over having to confront just how harsh reality is for those who fall way below the threshold of what is considered "physically attractive".

Though I maintain that any women who consider themselves unattractive should at least work to get their weight down to the level of being "curvy" or "slim" before assuming that they will never be attractive to anyone. For most women, simply not being chubby will be enough for men to notice you.

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