Daily Community Chat Megathread

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-12T19:09:43+00:00

So women don’t like violent men or is she just shook by the shooting?

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/15p96wn/my_girlfriend_left_me_because_i_shot_a_burglar/

DerayRevan · 2023-08-12T18:56:06+00:00

Now say my name PPD

scwizard · 2023-08-12T18:38:30+00:00

Lmao this is a thing

https://static01.nyt.com/images/2023/08/09/multimedia/00Romance-Bookstore-top-ltgp/00Romance-Bookstore-top-ltgp-mobileMasterAt3x.jpg?quality=75&auto=webp&disable=upscale&width=1800

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-12T18:30:42+00:00

Husband just got a promotion at work! Well, technically he won’t be promoted till September, but they informed him of his upcoming new role.

baiser_vole · 2023-08-12T18:16:52+00:00

HIIT is the least boring form of exercise.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-12T18:09:53+00:00

PPD Men: What do you want? What would make your life so incredibly awesome?

Please be as specific as possible. Tell me what your ideal Saturday looks like.

NJFlowerchild · 2023-08-12T17:56:07+00:00

Are there cultures outside of east Asia where dead bedrooms are the norm to expect after having kids?

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-12T17:52:09+00:00

CMV: If men don’t need friends, male or female, then why complain about being alone or lonely?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-12T17:48:04+00:00

Ok l'm really getting tired of people saying you need friends specifically female in order to get a girlfriend

And that is clearly and obviously a lie

And that's why l don't give advice because people assume what worked for them will automatically work for you

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-12T17:37:19+00:00

Women’s perspective on sex is very selfish because not only are they the gatekeepers of it but for them it is simply pleasure. For men, sex very much is an essential component to our survival.

Shit like this is precisely why I don’t tolerate this “Sex is a need” rhetoric. Because people will be bold to say shit like that.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T17:24:08+00:00

Guys here: "boohoo, I can't sex"
Me: "hey u/Ainsleygz, lick my fucking gooch sweat"
u/Ainsleygz: "It's fucking delicious"
Me: 🤷‍♂️

scwizard · 2023-08-12T17:18:43+00:00

I love my church but there's really a dearth of 20 something girls at church.

Church seems to be more a thing for children and married people. There's a few single guys and then that's it.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-12T17:07:40+00:00

Some men on PPD could solve so many of their struggles if they were actually friends to each other.

Instead, it's a game of bravado/admiration and competition.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T17:06:48+00:00

genuine desire is not locked in a secret garden. Gatekeeping is highly transactional.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-12T17:04:01+00:00

"The shy good guy in practice is actually just a bore and that's why women aren't attracted to them"

There's difference between shy and nice guy

I was a shy guy since l was nerd and didn't hang out with women a lot growing up but l still put in effort making myself attractive

A nice guy is different, because he thinks his niceness is already enough therefore won't put effort in becoming attractive

Since women can get niceness from their friends or social support group already it's not a valuable trait of attractiveness and that's why they end in the friend-zone

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-12T16:59:31+00:00

This entire subreddit is just women being gravely offended at unattractive men's existence.

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-12T16:09:09+00:00

There’s this man here that gets very defensive and borderline whiny who thinks every question you ask him is making things personal. That can’t be a healthy mindset to have.

TonalDrump · 2023-08-12T16:06:21+00:00

As a guy, being here has exposed me to the very, very harsh realities of modern dating, survivor of the fittest, and how eugenics play a role in dating and mating success.

baiser_vole · 2023-08-12T15:58:04+00:00

My boyfriend went to a wedding yesterday, and I told him he was the best looking guy at the wedding, but I am not sure if I’m being objective. He was extremely happy to hear that, and told me he is happy to hear that even without the objectivity.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-12T15:53:18+00:00

A lot of sexually unsuccessful guys are likeable, they have friends, they can build rapport. They simply suck at creating sexual tension.

These guys can easily become successful by becoming fit and flirty.

Guys which can't even find some friends, and want some RL wifey similar to girls from anime... these guys are in for one helluva ride.

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SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-08-11T19:00:23+00:00

First

sine120 · 2023-08-11T19:03:32+00:00

Ladies, I got 4 year anniversary coming up, wondering your opinions on some good things to do. We're usually homebody types but don't mind a splurge every once in a while.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-11T19:05:01+00:00

You would be surprised at how many dudes haven’t gone to the doctor since they aged out of their pediatrician and mommy stopped setting up appointments

There are also people who have never gotten an std test. Which is weird cause I go to the doctor once a year for a physical and along with the blood work he always asks me if I want to test for STDs and I’m like sure

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-11T19:07:59+00:00

Groups within genders are more similar to each other then to their genders.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-11T19:10:34+00:00

I have to say i don't think it is fair to say PPD women are lying about their preferences, you have to realize the women here are much more extreme in their belief in egalitarian belief than the majority of women.

I also think PPD women tend to project what the majority women is like.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-11T19:13:39+00:00

I am now realizing when guys accuse me of hating men, it's not that they're just pissy that I'm criticize, I don't think they truly can read. I now have guys claiming I talked about all men or most guys or guys in general, and I am truly trying to figure out where the FUCK I wrote any of that. There is clearly a processing problem when it comes to words.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-08-11T19:29:24+00:00

What's it like to turn a girl into a giggling mess?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-11T19:31:15+00:00

Women, would you rather be

A) averagely to slightly bewow averagely smart and beautiful or

B)above averagely (not genius level) smart and averagely looking ?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-11T19:57:00+00:00

I don't even feel bad for gay men anymore, because sure they do face discrimination but, gay dating scene is the best dating scene.

Women can fuck all they wan't, but they can't handle the stigma of being called a slut. So most of them don't.

Men revere in it

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-11T20:13:21+00:00

Something I've always wondered is if I am genuinely above average in intelligence or if I just have a savant-level understanding of certain topics.

I graduated top of my class so that implies that I'm good at most subjects I engage with, but my social skills are obviously not that of someone who is a genius.

No-Regular1667 · 2023-08-11T20:14:37+00:00

Decided to go touch some grass today…or sand rather. Drove down to south Jersey for the weekend.

https://imgur.com/a/ivlMTy3

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-11T20:22:19+00:00

Can’t sleep, telemarketers from the US like to call me at 3am my time. I just picked up and whisper yelled (didn’t want to wake my husband) at them to STOP calling me. Isn’t telemarketing completely dead yet?

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-11T20:26:44+00:00

"Incel" is the new Godwin's Law.

If you have to resort to calling the person you're talking to "an incel", it means you have nothing else to defend your position and you've automatically lost.

GoalPsychological719 · 2023-08-11T20:38:44+00:00

how do i start wearing make up without looking like a poser and a try hard, im too old to be barefaced

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-11T20:38:50+00:00

Please never think I will take you seriously if you’re going to compare a guy not getting his dick wet to someone that comes from a broken dysfunctional home.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-11T20:45:46+00:00

I’m starting to think that r/ThailandTourism is the snarkiest of subs. It’s filled with angry expats. They live here & feel put out that they have to give advice to tourists (just don’t then). Or even worse are the people who came here once or twice years ago and are “experts” on everything. They write paragraphs of info that’s outdated. Some of it is funny though. I think trolls post ?’s there just to rile them up. Plus the legitimate weirdos who just don’t have a single clue like the guy who stiffed a hoe, got in trouble with the police & was trying to navigate the situation in real time by asking ?’s on Reddit.

sine120 · 2023-08-11T20:53:35+00:00

So after riding my bike to work for a year I have swole legs and a flaccid torso/ arms. Any recommendations for upper body workouts that don't involve spending 1%+ of my take home income at a gym?

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-08-11T20:59:13+00:00

What’s y’all’s favorite airline? I’m flew with Spirit for the first time a few days ago and now I’m flying back. The seats are so uncomfortable

redguard_crime_stats · 2023-08-11T21:11:12+00:00

Two good reasons why guys shouldn't take dating advice from women:

Women likely aren't going to admit that certain things are attractive if it makes them look bad(height, indifference, emotional restraint, etc.). Hell, they might not even realize that they find certain things are attractive.
Women will never give you advice on how to make you appear more desirable/high value than you actually are, they're viscerally disgusted by that. But this is one of the best ways a guy can level up.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-11T21:13:19+00:00

Men desire status or respect more than happiness. Or in other words, the former is mens' version of happiness.

Agree or disagree ?

baresquad · 2023-08-11T21:17:11+00:00

People who relationships mean the world to believe that everybody else is just as desperate for one as them lmao. Prospective relationships are abundant. It’s casual sex that’s hard. I know FDS used to say something like that but I think the reverse is true.

For men with decent dating lives, there’s rarely, if ever any prolonged period where those type of needs aren’t met. Aside from just sex needs too, because when you’re single, you’re consistently accumulating connections and not every single one is gonna end in fucking or on bad terms.

And so what you end up with is a plethora of women that you know ranging from casually, to old flings, genuine friends, one time dates, randoms from clubs and bars, the list goes on and on. There’s just nothing to be panicked over when you’ve likely could’ve already met the person that you’re meant to end up with, barring your genuine friends (hopefully).

Casual sex is the hard part because dating apps are dating apps and not every connection goes as easy as a one night stand.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-11T21:35:12+00:00

Imagine being 200 lbs and demanding the women you want to date to weigh less than 200 lbs.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-11T21:49:41+00:00

"How would you define the top 15%-20% of women"

No such thing to my awareness

Difficult_Data1807 · 2023-08-11T22:04:48+00:00

I’m 29, male. Never been on in a relationship or on a date. I’ve been diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome since I was 2 years old. Recognizing social cues has always been a struggle for me. I’m also 5’8, black, and been considered ugly by women all my life.

Am I destined to die alone?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-11T22:08:48+00:00

Do I give off a daddy vibe ?????????

I swear to god I've matched with a bunch of women on Tinder since I put up new pictures with new clothes that my friend helped me take but like 90% of them are super into dd/lg and like me controlling their orgasm.

One of them sent me a goddamn link to their lovense to use it's not like I'm opposed to this dynamic entirely I'm just baffled because I'm fucking 5'6

Is it just because I'm hairy???

Tramelo · 2023-08-11T22:18:47+00:00

Is there an actual way to lower your standards, meaning to become more attracted to people who are conventionally less attractive?

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T22:20:45+00:00

Here you go boys https://www.reddit.com/r/FaceRatings/comments/15obtdx/26f_never_been_bought_drinks_and_im_nearly/?ref=share&ref_source=link

Falling_fruit_234 · 2023-08-11T22:23:13+00:00

What do 'red' pill men actually bring to the table?

They expect you be a Virgin..do all the cooking, cleaning, emotional labor, etc.

You should also be self supporting (aka have a job) because a) pretty much no red pill man actually makes enough to fully support a family unless you live in the middle of no where or really cut back on luxuries b) isn't that a tenant nor something?

Also add in always dressing up and looking your best.

Like what do you get? A guy whose slept with a lot of women with low self esteem?

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-11T22:24:34+00:00

So, the thread today about women feeling entitled to men's company and attention is interesting to me.

Lots of women saying "It makes me feel bad that men are interested in friendship and then dip out when they find out I have a boyfriend/husband/SO/ am gay/whatever other way I express I am not sexually interested in them."

Women, what do you want these men to do?

Why are you pissed off? Do you want them to express their sexual interest immediately? When they find out for whatever reason you're sexually uninterested and they don't want to be friends, how do you want them to express that?

Is there ANYTHING that men can do that won't have you pissed off/offended/hurt/miffed/ruffled?

Has it occurred to you that maybe, just maybe, these men are taking the path of least resistance?

Has it occurred to you that these men are keeping their disappointment and hurt to themselves?

Has it occurred to you to be hurt and to keep it to yourself?

Has it occurred to you that you're not entitled to anything from these men?

You're not entitled to friendship. You're not entitled to their attention. And you sure as fuck are not entitled to burden these men with your hurt feelings.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-11T22:26:07+00:00

I've found that women really like descriptions of sex stuff like really in depth smut.

Message one is usually complimenting something they wear and then saying "You want to wear it when we cuddle?" message 2 is usually a brief response to what they said and then asking them what else they like when they cuddle and then they say "I don't know surprise me" or something along those lines

Then it's like a small paragraph (like 3 or 4 sentences) of "Well maybe I'd xyz" and then they drop the digits, they want me to write more and I just write a bunch of smut for them until they're uh....""""done""".

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-11T22:26:22+00:00

I will never understand people’s insistence of pretending that sex and a romantic relationship are the same thing. Are we really pretending there has never been a history of people fucking people they don’t give two shits about?

Touching someone’s genitals doesn’t mean they give a shit about you, doesn’t mean you know a damn thing about them, and it damn sure doesnt mean you’re “bonding”. It can be a bonding activity if you and your partner(s) CHOOSE to see it that way.

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2023-08-11T22:27:13+00:00

What's the best way to stop Jehovah's witnesses from knocking on your door every goddamn Sunday morning?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-11T22:36:07+00:00

IS THIS WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE CHAD ??????? ????? LITERALLY ALL IT TOOK WAS LIKE 6 MONTHS OF 8 HOURS A DAY AT THE GYM?

THAT'S ALL IT FUCKING TOOK

??????????????

I WASTED SO MUCH TIME

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Artissoamazing · 2023-08-11T22:39:00+00:00

Uni I attend is 70% women. There’s an app called fizz which is pretty much college Reddit. Someone posted that statistics show that women are less happy in marriage and have higher divorce. Currently at -231 and the ladies in the reposts aren’t too happy about it 😭

Total-Respond-5379 · 2023-08-11T22:43:38+00:00

I just got my first job offer for post grade. This is prof good things happen to bad people.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-11T22:46:06+00:00

"Expect for Gym, I don't see how TRP is helping men get laid, at least honestly"

Money+looks+Status+Volume+Frame

We've been on this since the 2000s or least 2010s

On all this components

potoricco · 2023-08-11T22:47:44+00:00

My self esteem is all over the place because I simultaneously, think I am the most beautiful and smart girl on earth, but also I deserve nothing and have no talent, but also I am unique and always stand out(in a good way), but also I am unique and always stand out (in a bad way)

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-11T22:52:35+00:00

Everyone knows about pretty privilege, nobody talks about accompanying-a-small-baby privilege. People treat you soooo nicely when you have a baby with you, it’s a nice reminder that people generally like to help others. The other day I was taking my nephew to nursery and something dropped out the pram but I didn’t notice. A man stopped his car hopped out picked it up and gave it back to me. So kind.

Take the baby pill. It really works for guys too. The ugliest man in the world could be pushing a pram and I would think “oh there’s just something about him🥰”

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T22:56:23+00:00

it's all gonna come crashing down for u/Remote_Indication668 when he nuts in the first 15seconds

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-11T23:01:00+00:00

Thought experiment to do with your female "friends", gents. Do this with your female "friends".

Hey, "friend". Loan me $500 to cover rent, K?

Hey, "Friend". Let's get drinks tonight. I'm a little low on cash so spot me, K?

Hey, "friend". I'm feeling really down and I just need someone to talk to. Got a half hour or so for me to unload?

Hey, "friend". Let me borrow your truck to haul some shit.

Hey, "Friend". I'm moving this weekend. Help me out? There's free pizza in it for you!

Hey, "friend". Introduce me to your hot friends over there.

Hey, "friend". Broke up with my GF. I need a place to crash for a couple weeks. Can I use the spare room at your place?

Yeah. Just see how fast all your female "friends" fucking disappear on you....

Cool_Ranch_2511 · 2023-08-11T23:09:51+00:00

Something tells me women's comments in this sub creates a lot of new redpilled men.

John_Oakman · 2023-08-11T23:33:41+00:00

Will moral virtues stop the hordes of barbarians at the gates?

Yes.

potoricco · 2023-08-11T23:42:32+00:00

Bored, I am telling you who you would be if PPD was a school (Not witch hunting)

Comment I will add you🦄

Mrsdegree- Administrator

Derayraven- Guy that has had like 12 different girlfriends

Peacesquad- Guy thats always late

Lilith of Babylon- Debate coach/teacher

Luciansleep · 2023-08-11T23:50:08+00:00

So I’m curious, In a SAHM situation if the man does a good percentage of the chores and works a lot wouldn’t that mean most of the burden of kids is on him?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-11T23:50:56+00:00

Rate the rock's sex appeal, ladies

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/8/8e/Dwayne_Johnson_at_the_2009_Tribeca_Film_Festival_2.jpg/576px-Dwayne_Johnson_at_the_2009_Tribeca_Film_Festival_2.jpg

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-11T23:55:22+00:00

You know what's interesting. When looking at male vs female preferences in terms of age and height, the female preference is always more favored in actual relationship statistics. For instance, men prefer women 7 cm shorter than them, women prefer men 25 cm taller than them. The actual average height difference of couples is roughly 19 cm, much closer to women's preferences.

I was talking about how skinny/fit guys are often dating overweight/thick women and I said I always thought those guys preferred that type of woman as like a "type" but I'm probably projecting my female logic onto men, because I figure couples are always very attracted to each other and are each others preference. However I'm starting to doubt that. It seems like lots of men have to compromise their preferences than women do. A lot of guys on here and my boyfriend have told me that guys dating overweight women don't actually prefer that bodytype, they are just taking what they can get and some are even banking on their gf being less attractive than them so they have more leverage.

Does this mean many guys are in relationships with women they find sub optimal? A lot of guys talk about women settling, but it seems like men settle a lot more than women do. How many guys are just tolerating the woman they are dating?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-11T23:56:15+00:00

I'm thinking about putting a 2000er doorag and get on some gangsta shit

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-12T00:15:11+00:00

I don’t get it, if trp is such a big problem in the western world, why hasn’t anyone come out and try to organize an uprising to challenge the government? Everyone’s complaining about 95/5, so the numbers are far in the average guys favor.

sine120 · 2023-08-12T00:18:46+00:00

If you're lacking in creativity writing messages on dating apps and want to pretend you're funnier than you are, try AI (your results using Trump as a prompt may vary):

Write a short message asking out a beautiful girl in the style of Donald Trump

ChatGPT:

"Listen folks, let me tell you, there's this incredible, absolutely beautiful girl I've been hearing about. People are talking, they're saying she's like a tremendous, tremendous star, the best, really. I mean, folks, you wouldn't believe it. So I thought, maybe we could do something together, you know? Maybe grab a coffee or something, because I've got to say, you're just tremendous. A fantastic opportunity, believe me! So what do you say? Let's make this happen and make dating great again!"

potoricco · 2023-08-12T00:22:10+00:00

I’m watching Hamilton again guys pray for me

dbz__f · 2023-08-12T00:34:39+00:00

who here has played baldur's gate 3?

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-12T00:40:52+00:00

ok suppose I have a plan to harness the power of men struggling in modern dating to start a political uplift, would you guys be interested in the details?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-12T00:54:59+00:00

Why do women think they know better than men what they are attracted to? I mean think about it what would be the evolutionary purpose of it? You are not trying to fuck yourself.

Same with what men are attracted to, women know better. Can you imagine asking a guy how you should wear your makeup and what would be attractive to wear? It is silly.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T00:55:31+00:00

Ok. I've solved it everyone. Here's the cycle:
1) Women wait longer to have a child
2) Geriatric pregnancy leads to more autistic children
3) Women have harder time finding a mate due to the increase in autistic men
4) Return to Step 1

In 4 or 5 generations the entire West will only be half the population and 100% autistic.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-12T01:17:48+00:00

And the most overrated dessert is…..

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-12T01:23:04+00:00

Planning travel for spring now that I’m fit for it:

Husband wants to do a 30 day cruise from Melbourne to Tokyo with stops in Cairns, Burnie, Sydney, Papua New Guinea, Guam, a bunch in northern Japan, Busan, South Korea.
After that he’s flying directly to Brazil to meet up with one of his best buddies and I’m heading to Europe for a couple weeks on my own. Reunite in Estonia and maybe do a fjords cruise together.

I’m saying yes to all of it. I’ve never been to any of these places even though I’ve traveled a lot. We aren’t really cruise people but it’s a good way to see a lot of places and not have to move your stuff around constantly. He’s more like “20 destinations in 20 days!”, I’m more “let’s take a week to really explore 1 place throughly”.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T01:46:03+00:00

Okay, well if you can't be bothered to summarize something I definitely can't be arsed to read the whole thing

I'm gonna throw u/fiftypoundpuppy a bone I guess.

I literally can't even begin to wrap my mind around the thought process one has to have to believe that they know billions of people better than they know themselves.

I've been inside my body my entire life. I have experienced attraction in my body. I have experienced sex in my body. I have the ability to personally observe how my body responds to certain things.

You, a complete stranger, not only have none of the experience I have had being a person who has occupied my body my entire life, but you have literally no qualifications to be able to tell me that you know what I like better than I know myself. Again, you are a complete stranger. And I've been me for 37 years.

You're literally denying sentience.

This is a prime example of female solipsism. Solipsism: philosophical idea that only one’s own mind is sure to exist. As an epistemological position, solipsism holds that knowledge of anything outside one’s own mind is unsure.

Despite attraction triggers being studied across all continents and subcultures, and arriving at the conclusion that women are predominantly attracted to the same things, you can only view it from your own experience. To have this intrinsic view challenge presents a threat to your identity. It would require you to admit to yourself your shortcomings in the ability to get what you innately desire as the perfect mate to commit. It would also signal, that if you have achieved commitment from a lesser mate, that you aren't as attracted to them as you would have been to someone else. As a defense mechanism to your personal identity, you outwardly project that the things you have are what you are most attracted to, and everything is going perfectly for you.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-12T01:47:14+00:00

Idk what people expect to be done about the rise of male loneliness. It seems like it’s just been used to blame feminists for everything.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-12T01:54:34+00:00

Paul Heyman: great simp, or greatest simp?

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-12T02:01:30+00:00

Women complain about being valued just for their looks or youth. But they along with children have inherent value and are loved unconditionally. Men are loved only for what they can provide, and when they are useful. Maybe the difference is society seems to hold reverence and respect for useful men, even if ultimately they are just tools as women are pretty objects. The men on here want the inherent value women possess and women want the respect from actions and accomplishments men possess.

BusinessPossession36 · 2023-08-12T02:02:10+00:00

This is why:

oh, oh, how many women have you asked out in the last year? None? Well, there you go, you're not even trying. Just keep at it, it's a numbers game.

is stupid: https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/15obvih/asked_out_a_woman_and_she_looked_horrified_while/

Yes, I could ask more women out, but since I already know they're going to reject me, all I'd really be doing is making them feel uncomfortable, and risk ostracizing myself.

BusinessPossession36 · 2023-08-12T02:17:18+00:00

Single women: please show me the specific words I need to write/say to you for you to want to go on a date with me. "You should write something authentic and original" doesn't cut it. All I need is one example of what I could say that would make you feel the feeling of wanting to go on a date with me.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-12T02:20:24+00:00

What’s very infuriating: Seeing guys rebelling against “acting like women” but then also whine they’re not treated like women.

This is as stupid as the fat acceptance movement crying theyre not admired like the supermodels, but if supermodels do try to give advice to get admited, the pro-fat bitches just say ‘fuck off’.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-12T02:26:05+00:00

Now, it’s really funny to think about when guy say “female companionship without sex isnt worth it” but who’s the less lonely gender? Apparently, women enjoy sexless companionship with each other than men do with each other.

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-12T02:30:16+00:00

Third theater for speech impediment people

We are 6 now!

interestingly speech impediments is more common between men like 1 in 4

but we are 4 women and 2 men

So I suggested we all go for beers but now I'm anxious that there will be awkward silences since everyone is so shy

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-12T02:31:04+00:00

Q4All: Who is a man you admire/respect? Who is a woman you admire/respect?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-12T02:37:00+00:00

Men here really think all they have to do is step outside, and all women in their vicinity are going to throw themselves at their unwashed feet.

And then these same men complain about women's standards being and anyone not 100 lbs soaking wet is fat.

Makes sense why people are single when they understand their unhinged expectations.

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-08-12T02:47:38+00:00

Hi, I'm LostGirl, and I'm a judgmental bitch.

I'm scrolling back through my post history, especially here, and I'm seeing a person who hates other women for exercising their sexual options. Like they're some kind of threat to me.

DAE realize they're scum out of the blue? Because I just did.

GoalPsychological719 · 2023-08-12T02:55:58+00:00

is it possible to be a narcissist and have low self esteem or is that contradictory? Also idc what anyone says this place has good vibes 🌝

redguard_crime_stats · 2023-08-12T03:01:46+00:00

people sometimes bring up the DENNIS system from IASIP or other hot/cold games as a comparison to TRP, but I don't think that's accurate at all. The "game" TRP advocates for, or at least a few years back when I browsed it, is mostly just "cold". saying sappy shit like "i love you" or "i want to spend my life with you" or something was always considered a big no no.

at this point i just think TRP is mostly just rightoids crying about about how they'll never get their perfect tradwaifu and picket fence lifestyle but whatever.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-12T03:10:49+00:00

"male loneliness problem"

The issue with the left and collectivism is thinking others owe you to fix your problem. You are lonely, sick, broke, etc that is your problem not anyone else. No one is going to save you, embrace individualism and capitalism. You are on your own, and you owe no one anything.

GoalPsychological719 · 2023-08-12T03:12:57+00:00

Ok guys help me find a boyfriend😡😡what are my first steps

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-12T03:20:54+00:00

I am on here outside of my usual time and I see a lot of you are still posting. Do you ever, like, take a break?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-12T03:26:17+00:00

I have been using a skin cleanser for a week now. It says you can apply with or without water. It mentions it is a low lather formula in the directions for how to apply without water. I got a facial cleansing brush and exfoliator and am using it now with water, but it doesn't lather at all unless I brush really hard. Is this normal for facial cleansers? I guess I'm just used to soap where the bubbles make you think it is working better or something.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-12T03:51:27+00:00

Q4m: what’s worse

Never being in a relationship and being bitter and lonely (so doesn’t apply to guys who actively choose to be single and are getting laid)
Being in a relationship with no Sex but you have companionship

Why?

SianOiseau · 2023-08-12T03:56:53+00:00

Today I've seen one breast with nipples and all because the top was sheer and one ass because shorts were basically panties. I can't count just mini dresses and all. The amount of nudity here compared to our old place of living is an interesting change and I have to learn not to stare. Feel ashamed of myself lol.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-12T04:16:52+00:00

I just saw Oppenheimer. I realized all want is a woman who will bear my children and hate my enemies so much she will never forgive their public transgressions against me. If we have sex a few times a year, or decade, that is even better.

SorryEm · 2023-08-12T04:53:49+00:00

How do dead bedrooms even happen to men? All you have to do is merely pick the woman up and carry her to bed, I simply don't know how you can be sleeping in the same bed with this woman and be around her every day and literally have an agreement where you are husband and wife then this shit happens.

My standing theory is, the man became fat and has too low testosterone to do this sort of stuff.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T05:06:16+00:00

u/sianoiseau
https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2013/02/Conroy-Beam-sexual-dimorphic-2015.pdf
https://www.intechopen.com/online-first/83742

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-12T05:33:36+00:00

I've seen two separate people on two separate occasions here recently here try to say that height has nothing to do with the way you look.

I'm still trying to wrap my head around the thought process that would cause someone to express this as a legitimate viewpoint they hold.

My only conclusion is that it's wishful thinking held so deeply that they are actually delusional and start to believe their own bullshit.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-12T06:56:11+00:00

Venturing forth to touch grass at an air conditioned mall on a hot day.

I’m in the process of adapting to a new environment & it’s not a bad thing. Sometimes radical change is what you need in life. It took 2 long years to make my radical change a reality. It wasn’t impulsive, it was planned. Sometimes the people around you won’t see the changes you’re making or even hear you when you’re telling them you’re actively making them.

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-12T08:49:45+00:00

I am so horny dude, next time I am in the subway waiting for the train and I see a nice women staring at the tracks by herself I am just gonna ask her out for a good time; I’ve been shy my whole life and at this point I don’t give a fuck anymore.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T09:20:08+00:00

So y'all rated current me. Here is college me. Was my success based on my looks?
https://ibb.co/6tDgzPH
https://ibb.co/Jt4hMxs
https://ibb.co/3RFv6Fz
https://ibb.co/X4tbjNV
https://ibb.co/9TY33rR

blebbyroo · 2023-08-12T10:02:29+00:00

Guys it’s 8pm. Do I make mashed potatoes or garlic bread?

I make the best mashed potatoes but the garlic bread is the grocery store kind so really easy.

Both are carb overload and im home alone tonight and drinking wine and watching football 😂

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T10:49:17+00:00

Ideal female body ---> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ylyShIQ5LR4

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-12T11:06:13+00:00

I think that PPD women do make a very good point when they say "that's what you get for chasing Stacy".

Stacy is a covert narcissist. She will use naive men for their "resources" but mostly for ego boost. Afterwards she will paint herself as a victim, and actual victim as an abuser, usually a "nice guy".

When men say that personality doesn't matter, only looks do... that's why you end up with these kind of women.

Maffioze · 2023-08-12T11:08:50+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/KidsAreFuckingStupid/comments/15ovrg3/why_just_why/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

This made me lol, but why does a sub like this exist in the first place? Seems a bit concerning to spend your time hating on kiddo's.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T11:11:14+00:00

Adding one more pic of my wife and I from a few years ago before I decided to get jacked. People were hating on my glasses and that they couldn't see my face. Realize that I'm only doing this because tbh I think I'm average, and I think some of y'all are too hard yourselves and need some hope. https://ibb.co/dGkkgsd

platinirisms · 2023-08-12T11:17:48+00:00

turns out the more money a man makes, the taller he seems to women

I’ve had this idea that I’ve always wanted to see being tested out but hasn’t yet.

You get women (or even men) to meet a variety of men, some short confident attractive successful millionaires in suits, some tall facially unattractive shy bums, or the opposite, and everything inbetween.

Then after the meet-up, you separate them, and later ask them how tall they think they were.

My theory is that the more attractive and successful a man is, the taller people will remember him to be.

Maffioze · 2023-08-12T11:57:48+00:00

https://open.spotify.com/track/1jCk2UYGvtpxtkyhTRbKgF?si=e4a68e0e831d4ba4

This song makes me wanna have sex with my gf for some reason.

potoricco · 2023-08-12T13:02:20+00:00

I am sharing my bathroom with 3 people god help me, I hate humid areas, I hate wet bathrooms

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-12T19:00:51+00:00

For all the fighting we do here, I'm glad we can all agree on one thing:

Men are just better than women.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T15:32:48+00:00

This is why we can't have nice things. One second you're trying to get to know someone. Next thing, she's talking about the inside flaps. That's sexual assault MA'AM.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T15:19:52+00:00

u/injectadrenochrome likes me. Gotta confirm it though

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-08-12T15:07:56+00:00

Lot of screaming back and forth here I will post a light hearted post. Back in college one of the first classes I took was a Social Pysch 101 class. We spent 2 weeks on attraction/relationships. One of the best classes I ever took in my life. I was okay at dating but after that it was like a cheat code.

After that two weeks almost everyone in the class was hitting the gym and dressing better. It was kind of funny. The studies on physical attractiveness were stunning.

My biggest takeaway from the class was that women probably underestimate how much they care about physical attractiveness it is somewhat subconscious and men particularly red pill men underestimate likability.

BigCollectionFor · 2023-08-12T15:07:50+00:00

Do men who go for younger women do it because that they cannot get a woman their own age? I am under the impression that it is much harder to date younger women. And that you need to be exceptionally attractive or rich?

Can someone explain this please?

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T14:59:53+00:00

Wow. Had to post it twice in 24hrs. Look how many posts are about men being emotional and what happens https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/11ymp7r/what_are_some_toxic_feminine_traits_you_have/

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-12T14:48:34+00:00

Yet again seeing men telling men not to be vulnerable and not talking about their feelings because “it’s not what women want”. At 5:25 https://youtu.be/dk_4NaXO2us

This shit is why I call out conservatives and redpill on this topic because I see them do more to dissuade men from opening up than I do women.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T14:41:30+00:00

you know what u/armpitpics , I was no better. I definitely had my man slut moments. Like I said before, I just participate here to better guide my kids in the current zeitgeist as they come of age.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-12T14:39:00+00:00

guess I'll put my condoms away....

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-08-12T14:38:08+00:00

Q4M: How does it make you feel that a large majority of female PPD users and women in general have sex regularly and don’t struggle with finding dates or boyfriends while many of the men on this sub (and by default you reading this comment) as well as ones irl struggle with dating women and usually come home at night to their right hand waiting for them?

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-08-12T14:21:16+00:00

Q4W: Is it true that women don’t think it’s cheating if the guy she’s cheating with uses a condom? If so that’s wild af and makes me question even trying to get a gf at this point.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-12T14:03:15+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Libra. The only zodiac sign that is not represented by a living, breathing animal but rather a concept. This is apropos. The scales, balance. Funnily enough many Libras fall far short of it in their lives. They often have tumultuous, messy love lives. I try to give these women some credit, they do loudly proclaim to want and chase true love. In practice, they easily and knowingly get involved with unavailable and attached men. They lament the loss of their first true love, obsessing about their exes decades after. They cyber stalk.

An acutely sensitive man will pick up that while it seems like she speaks as if she has deep and complex feelings, there’s a vague mist of uncertainty, as if she’s just making it up as she goes.

They are not particularly special or unique. In bed, she can be a rockstar, but more often than not is a bit of a dead-fish. Frustrating because so many can be so femininely beautiful, but they never learned how to wield their powers with grace. It’s a bit clunky.

Recommended approach: If you have the patience for it, indirect social game can work. These gals admit they know within 10 seconds if they’re open to the idea of fucking you. There’s not a lot a man can do, image, appearances and first impressions are her major filter. She likes pretty, handsome, shiny things. She’s just so damn lazy and wishy washy.

After some mind blowing sex, they can be somewhat loyal. Not because they are so deeply in love with you, but because the dating/mating game is hard and she likes to check out of the casino as early as possible.

FYI: Boys, be mindful about wrapping it up. Her agenda and goals supersede any agreements or understandings you think you may have with her. It’s a waste of time talking hypotheticals with her, her feelings change whenever the fuck she wants. Her motto is “Rules for thee, but not for me”.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-12T13:48:29+00:00

Blackpillers need Allah or Jesus.

Tramelo · 2023-08-12T13:47:31+00:00

What could be the female equivalent of a man who opens up emotionally to a woman (e.g. crying)?

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-12T13:45:39+00:00

someone made a good point that male-female friendships generally revolve around the woman. dont blame guys for not having woman friends

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-12T13:42:36+00:00

Something I've thought and occasionally brought up only to be ridiculed is the question about how these women who are attracted to superficial characteristics like height respond if their son doesn't meet their dating criteria. In typical antiintellectual fashion the bluepilled person will say this is weird because mothers don't want to sleep with their sons. Of course they don't, but they still can acknowledge their sons will venture off to try to start families of their own, and they can recognize if someone is attractive or not based on their own criteria.

Anyways, I read on Wikipedia that there is something called the "sexy son hypothesis" which basically means that women's mating strategies are in place to produce "sexy sons" as to give them the best shot at reproducing themselves. Funny how a lot of things I've thought and been ridiculed for online turn out to be real academic discussions.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-08-12T13:29:37+00:00

One of my objectively prettiest friends is currently dating a soon to be 23 male virgin. AMA

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-12T13:22:02+00:00

interesting thread.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/15n9o68/can_men_be_loved_just_for_who_they_are/?sort=new

seems most men believe they are only "loved" for their utility

scwizard · 2023-08-12T12:56:54+00:00

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Needle_spiking

Wikipedia is skeptical that needle spiking is real.

legaliserikkekritise · 2023-08-12T12:56:24+00:00

what do u think about the greater male variability hypothesis? It feels sexist that we care more about bringing the top 10% women closer to the top 10% men, rather than helping the bottom 10% men.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-12T12:25:47+00:00

Redpillers and Conservatives: Us men believe in personal responsibility unlike (ultra woke) women!

Also redpillers and conservatives: Men being lonely? FEMINISM’S FAULT. Men not wanting a therapist? Women’s fault. Men only seeing companionship as valuable when their dicks get wet? Society’s fault!

Redpillers and conservatives yet again: Stop insisting we act like women! We are men and they are women! We are completely different!…… How dare society treat us differently from women?!

I thought part of personal responsibility was understanding the consequences of your actions.

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