Daily Community Chat Megathread

Virtan · 2023-08-25T04:00:36+00:00

What should i do if women consider me conventionally ugly? I’m almost 30 and never been on a date in my life and i have no idea what to do besides admit defeat and self delete.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-25T03:56:13+00:00

Y’all are addicted to porn. I’m addicted to videos like this:

https://youtu.be/JvkyzwgTw7I?si=_nxNTw3Y7Ftfp9qJ

Jk. But it makes me feel like I’m watching my dad build me the treehouse he always promised but never built.

This is healing.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-25T03:36:24+00:00

Listening to Jeff Buckley while drunk. Holy shit its so good wtf

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-25T03:20:52+00:00

Why does no one else in my life acknowledge how good the final fight in revenge of the sith was

Business-Ad-5344 · 2023-08-25T03:10:16+00:00

Booth babes. Rate, facially:

https://www.reddit.com/r/boothbabes/comments/1r4n6k/dlink_babes/

also, if you rate below 8, how many seconds does it take for you to conclude that they are not "elite" faces?

Comfortable-Box-19 · 2023-08-25T03:08:52+00:00

How did this broke and below average looking drug dealer mange to impregnate 5 attractive women.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-25T02:45:14+00:00

What exactly are modern men bringing to the table?

Serious question. OLD stats and a 5'2 chimp on their shoulder? Maybe a light appetizer of bitter af.

How are they biologically capable of bringing something different than I can bring myself?

PaleontologistOk1049 · 2023-08-25T02:44:27+00:00

are these two looksmatched?

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-25T01:45:38+00:00

RIP Bray Wyatt😭😭😭 he was my favorite wrestler

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-25T01:26:10+00:00

Q4All: How do you objectively determine if you're facially below average, average, above average or elite?

What's the barometer to determine this? How often you've been hit on? How nice other people are to you? Something else?

potoricco · 2023-08-25T01:10:40+00:00

When British people rap😍

When British people rap🤮

baresquad · 2023-08-25T01:09:51+00:00

Porn addiction seems to be getting worse. It’s sad to witness the affects of it.

potoricco · 2023-08-25T01:04:12+00:00

Thousands of women dying globally during childbirth, poor maternal/postpartum health care, minimal research into female specific health conditions

Doctors: Let’s Invent womb implants!

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-25T00:57:33+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/160j0z0/donald_trumps_mugshot/

Did someone punch him? Look at his left eye.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-25T00:55:29+00:00

Male standards are always low and if sex is involved, they go even lower

These same men when they keep hanging with trashy women: THIS IS WOMEN’S FAULT!

ioniqc · 2023-08-25T00:50:50+00:00

So my problem is that I for some reason can‘t get attracted to non abusive and degrading men.

Before I proceed please don‘t judge me, I know this is a neurological/ psychological issue and judging is very hurtful.

Anyway: I used to date a guy who wanted us to be mutuals, he wanted us both to have the same power, but having sex with him felt disgusting. I didn‘t like the thought of being with someone who is under or on the same height as me in a relationship. My current boyfriend is quite abusive and manipulative but for some reason it makes me happy. I don‘t know exactly why but I‘m not able to date someone who isn‘t smarter and more aggressive than I am because it turns me extremely off. Don‘t get me wrong my boyfriend gives me a lot of love, but he has Narcissism and that makes it very hard to talk to him. Since I have Borderline it makes it even more difficult.

Is this gonna be a problem in the future? Why does this make me happy?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-25T00:48:51+00:00

Q4All: Did you work out this week?

potoricco · 2023-08-25T00:34:11+00:00

Crying in front of people has to be one of the most embarrassing things ever. I’m only comfortable crying in front of my parents.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-25T00:24:34+00:00

Packing up for the big move.

Looking forward to reinvesting the savings into other goals.

From below average to average. From average to above average. From above average to elite.

I'm going all the way.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-25T00:13:43+00:00

Men’s revenge fantasies are so funny and sad

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-25T00:11:21+00:00

Omg we be arguing with dumbos on here. This sub is killing our braincells

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-24T23:59:22+00:00

I realize “Why do women detest unattractive guys” is projection from guys who truly hate women they don't want to fuck. It’s why the manosphere can't respectfully say “Im just not interested in these girls”, they are compelled to talk massive shit about women that don't give them boners as if women are doing something wrong not appealing to him. Most likely these men suffer from. narcissism and Main Character Syndrome.

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-24T23:48:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1604ca1/my_friend_22_wonders_why_no_women_want_to_date/

Thoughts?

Edit:

Theres no way im using my main to ask this he is on reddit lol

🤦‍♂️oof

SorryEm · 2023-08-24T23:36:59+00:00

Imagine going back in time and giving a caveman a soda

SorryEm · 2023-08-24T23:35:44+00:00

The "no incl" content is the worst rule here.

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-24T23:10:45+00:00

Question For Women:

1 - If you see a man who is extremely well-dressed (not necessarily fancy clothes, but an outfit that is really well-selected in terms of color, fit, complimenting his physique, feeling like it conveys personality, etc), but the man in question is only 5'8" and also not handsome, would you feel off-put by it?

Like, would you think to yourself, "Of course he has to dress well, look at his ugly face and short body. Nobody is fooled, dude - you're still hideous." Would the contrast between his great fashion sense and his not-great face/height make you respect him even less than if he were dressed averagely?

I ask this because I know that when some unattractive women wear glamorous makeup or stylish clothes, people get offended by it and think they need to "stay in their lane", meaning that they are ugly and presenting themselves the way a conventionally-attractive person would is contradicting other people's expectations of them, and therefore doing something even worse than if they just styled themselves mediocrely.

So does this effect apply to unattractive men as well?

Question For All:

1 - Is being a "romantic" a bad thing? Does it mean that a person loves the idea of romance more than the reality of it? Do romantics need to abandon their romanticism as soon as possible, and start approaching romance from a practical standpoint? As in, recognizing they want a partner to go through life with, recognizing the importance of various metrics for relationship quality like physical attractiveness, personality, values, finances, work schedules, and so on, and recognizing that there are many people out there with whom they'd be compatible. As opposed to the romantic, who thinks there is one "soulmate" (i.e "The One") out there for them whom they need to find, and be extremely picky until they find?

Because I've previously been a romantic, but now I'm trying to abandon that approach. I think it hasn't been helpful to me.

2 - By what age should a man be settled? After what age does it become extremely hard for men to find quality partners in the dating market? By "quality", I mean partners who have no children, preferably little to no relationship experience, and people whose past negative experiences in life have not yet jaded them in a way that will result in them being less joyful around or towards their partner.

Also just clarifying that I don't think single moms are bad people or deserve hate, but I'm not looking for someone with children hence why my definition of "quality" excludes them. I'm trying to think of a better adjective to use, since I don't want single mothers to read my comment and feel bad about themselves.

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2023-08-24T23:09:06+00:00

Why do women detest short men ? Do they see it as some sort of disability ? Or is it just something hardwired that we need to accept?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-24T23:05:30+00:00

"Do men’s standards get lower as they age"

Male standards are always low and if sex is involved, they go even lower

Only women standards go up because they date up

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-08-24T22:39:11+00:00

Got downvoted in this sub for mentioning that overconsumption of porn depletes men's dopamine reserves, resulting in their personalities being less attractive to women. Seems like people really don't want to let go of gooning, it's like trying to take a crack pipe away from a crackhead. "They hated Jesus because he told them the truth."

DerayRevan · 2023-08-24T22:35:53+00:00

"Also remember that women don’t like men in general only what they can provide: value, attention, money, status, security, resources. Women aren’t idealistic they can’t be. They’re hardwired to extract resources from men. It’s the the same reason they can’t empathize with men. The biological missions are counterproductive"

Yup but also they cannot emphasize because they haven't lived the male experience

You can't emphasize with someone unless you've gone through the same experience

So women can sympathize not emphasize

Maffioze · 2023-08-24T22:25:58+00:00

The older I get the more I dislike people making completely theoretical arguments while completely ignoring how they actually translate in real life.

They basically cook up a solution a problem that only works in a perfect world so in reality it does not work, but then they don't even wanna talk about that but stick to their theoretical non-solution.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-08-24T22:18:59+00:00

Finally have a gynaecologist referral for suspected Vaginismus. Any ladies here suffered with it before?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-24T22:18:24+00:00

A lot of people will say women are outcompeting men in the educational field but whenever l look at who's doing the most impressive and necessary jobs in society, it's always men

Mechanical,technical,practical jobs are mostly dominated by men

And when you look at the careers both sexes pursue, women always go for the easy and lazy careers such fashion,nursing,household services(maids) etc

Only field they dominate is the psychology but even then it's questionable because many women end being therapists instead of professionals like a neurologist and even a evolutionary psychologist is a better position dominated by men

So in the end women may be dominating the education field but men are always doing a better service to society by pursuing this careers

Peacesquad · 2023-08-24T22:11:03+00:00

Men don’t need women they WANT them. Women don’t want men they NEED them

Also my butthole is itchy. Need new ointment.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-24T22:04:31+00:00

Q4W: scale 1-10 how interesting to date/be in a relationship with would you rate yourself and using that same scale, how interesting does a man have to be to date/be with you? I will sus out bullshit answers and challenge your viewpoints too, none of that political correct garbage

Peacesquad · 2023-08-24T22:02:44+00:00

Also remember that women don’t like men in general only what they can provide: value, attention, money, status, security, resources. Women aren’t idealistic they can’t be. They’re hardwired to extract resources from men. It’s the the same reason they can’t empathize with men. The biological missions are counterproductive

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-24T21:59:26+00:00

Anyone know how those body builder guys make themselves dehydrated? Do they just not drink water?

potoricco · 2023-08-24T21:53:14+00:00

For like the past week I’ve only eaten like once per day

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-24T21:50:54+00:00

Porn is so evil. We don't want this sickness in this country a second longer. The effect it's had on this generation is worse than crack or heroin.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-24T21:47:45+00:00

Reminder that this guys fucks Beyonce (and cheated on her as well) :

https://consequence.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/jay-z-swiming.png

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-24T21:41:05+00:00

This guy nailed it. He says it very understandably.

https://youtu.be/tBQBdL0wWAQ?si=42Zk0AuPLgKBPyTq

SianOiseau · 2023-08-24T21:39:43+00:00

Apparently an idea that a woman should stay at home and be illiterate isn't a satire for this dude. Wtf.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-24T21:37:38+00:00

"A lot of Men just want to be able to do the things they criticize women for (have multiple partners, easily have casual sex, monkey branch etc)"

But all that criticism is actually TRUE

Multiple partners because she makes herself available for many men

Casual sex because she's a woman and guys are horny

Monkey branching is just a result of a woman being hypergamous

"They don't really value relationships or women outside of sex"

Oh pls stop with that, why is it that sex work is mostly dominated by women ?

That every time a woman needs attention online, she sexually advertises herself ?

Not even online just attention from men in general

Seriously turn down sex from a woman, and many of them will think your gay or something is wrong with you

So don't come with that bs when women themselves are pushing that narrative and have been doing so for a very long time

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-24T21:24:52+00:00

What is it with the ignorance of weight and women's bodies? Is it pop culture references or spaces like this?

Seems like many of the young men here believe that anything over 100 lbs is fat.

My boobs alone are 5 lbs. Plus, I weigh upwards of 5 lbs more the week before my period. Muscle weighs more so I gained another 10 lbs this year from strength training.

They really have no concept of weight despite all their gym max efforts.

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-24T21:21:49+00:00

When you feel the need to outwardly blame others for your struggles people tend to stop listening. I can empathize with lonely men. I can not empathize with lonely men who lash out.

I think this was very underrated

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-24T21:16:28+00:00

Okay, last comment for today, I swear.

There’s a pool party in my neighborhood. I wanna go and make mom friends. I should wear a more modest swimsuit than a sexier one, right? Cuz I want to come off as fun and approachable, but not intimidating or threatening.

shanshkrishur · 2023-08-24T21:15:24+00:00

Q4W:

Who would you prefer: An average height man with a good-looking face or a tall man with an average-looking face?

Last time I asked about this, I compared a tall but ugly man to an average but model looking man. This time I’d rather make it tall but average looking man vs. average height but good-looking man so it’s more of an even face-off, pun intended.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-24T21:00:54+00:00

Y’all ever see those pics of men with like, way too many visible abs

Edit: https://imgur.com/a/Zik7Cit

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-24T20:24:01+00:00

There is no point for men to empathize with 90 percent of modern women, considering their blatant ignorance and refusal to ever see the male perspective. The only women you should show empathy to are family members and SOs, and even then only on a cautiously reciprocal basis

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ashpr0ulx · 2023-08-24T07:00:49+00:00

first?!

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-24T07:06:29+00:00

Do any of y'all like Steven universe? I'm rewatching the show and have no one to talk to about it

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-24T07:14:03+00:00

I was worrying too much unnecessarily, especially in regards to getting into a relationship and finances.

I believe I am not the only one. A lot of us worry too much and end up reaching quite dramatic conclusions.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-24T07:22:57+00:00

Truth serum engaged. Ask and I’ll tell you the truth.

dbz__f · 2023-08-24T07:40:07+00:00

A few weeks ago I finished inside my gf three days after her ovulation and this whole time I’ve been worried she was pregnant. Today she has her period and now I’m worried I might be infertile 😢

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-24T07:47:13+00:00

i am 22 and i have a visible amount of white hair on my head...

keebydee · 2023-08-24T07:53:08+00:00

Is being 5'6 really that bad of height? Never knew it was considered short until recently.

Maractop · 2023-08-24T08:24:13+00:00

My birthday is coming up relatively soon but I cant see myself reaching it ngl

According-Dinner-406 · 2023-08-24T08:28:48+00:00

Why do unattractive women think they're entitled to providers? Most unattractive women I know bit the bullet and found a tall underachiever or at least an average height one and the woman pulls more than half the weight but she doesn't have to be alone.

Just get with a bum and hurry up cuz guys with shit going on don't even notice you fr.

Unattractive women have to work harder just like their unattractive male counterparts. No one is coming to save you, not even an incel.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-08-24T08:34:22+00:00

Its kinda sad when you cant say you have an ex because you were never in a relationship. When I went on dates, girls would ask me when was my last relationship and when I tell them it was never, they would be shocked and ask something like "Are you gay?" I'm like If I were gay I wouldn't be out here with you. 🤦🏽‍♂️

And thats another thing too, why is it that if you are at a certain age and have little no experience with women (not by choice) they just assume you're gay? Never like, Oh he's too ugly or something?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-24T08:35:39+00:00

It's always funny to see women say to men "If you're broke just say that" when they either refuse to spoil them with gifts or refuse to pay for the first date/take them out.

Did it ever occur to you that he might just not want to spend the money on you? What makes you think that you're entitled to the rewards of his hard work? What makes you different to the 3 billion other women in the world? (Spoiler alert: you're not any different to them)

anonymous375555 · 2023-08-24T08:36:54+00:00

How can I get some body validation as a dude?

Novel-Tip-7570 · 2023-08-24T08:59:49+00:00

I find it interesting how psychology as a field is one of the most uncertain sciences, yet it's so romanticized on reddit and everyone tries to be some kind of armchair psychologist.

Keep in mind that psychology suffers from a significant replication crisis and things like homosexuality and trasgenderism where considered mental disorders until not so long ago. But now suddenly we pretend that we have figured everything out to the point that if you express anything non-PC it means you have some mental condition.

For example, if a woman says she desires dominant men, she's told she has "daddy issues". If a man says he doesn't want his wife to hang out with men who are not relatives, he's told he has "Control issues". Everything is pathologized nowadays. I don't even blame psychologists themselves since the people I see promoting this narrative are usually not psychologists , but random people into pop psychology.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-24T09:18:00+00:00

I read here once that if you only get validated by one gender, you’re not actually good looking. A bit depressing.

dbz__f · 2023-08-24T09:23:01+00:00

If you get sexually aroused by seeing your partner in a school uniform, does that make you a paedophile?

philseven12 · 2023-08-24T09:33:15+00:00

so called “average” and below average women are JUST as slimey if not MORE slimey than “beautiful” ones when involved with average men. in fact, they have even more of a reason to sabotage the relationship cuz a lot of them have bad bitch ambitions that will never play out

PaleontologistOk1049 · 2023-08-24T10:17:25+00:00

Thoughts on swimmer physique?

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-24T10:29:28+00:00

Porn (and masturbation) is indeed dangerous and harmful. It lessens your libido and desentisizes you for your wife.

I am single and virgin at the moment but imagine I am suddenly marrying tomorrow. Of course she'll be attractive to me. Imagine we are there wanting to have some fun in the bad and I just cannot get erected because I got too desensitized thanks to my porn consumption and heavy masturbation.

This is just an example.

There are stories shared by men and women who confirm that their partner who watches (a lot of) porn even starts to neglect. Literally preferring porn over their partner. There are also men and women who report that when they managed to stop consuming their libido for their partner turned back.

Therefore, it seems to be wise to be ready at all times and just stop consuming porn (and masturbation).

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-24T10:36:55+00:00

I can’t “fall in love” with someone unless I’m actively Dating you. I watch these tv shows and movies where the person claims to be “in love” with a co worker or friend that they never actually went out with and that’s kinda weird. I can lust over you, maybe crush but in love?

If I’m a woman and a dude I never even went out with tells me I’m in love with you I’d look at him weird

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-24T10:38:06+00:00

https://nypost.com/2023/08/23/cali-man-who-dated-single-moms-to-target-kids-caught-after-two-years/

I have heard stories of pedos praying on single moms for years

potoricco · 2023-08-24T10:42:10+00:00

Awake at 6:40 Am

Sillysheila · 2023-08-24T11:18:11+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/r37kqi9zk1kb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1766496883896551e201aa550fab443bd4cecd71

Ahhh chocolate stop being so creepy!!!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-24T12:03:53+00:00

At this point, it’s really hard to care about people’s dating problems when a large portion of it is just shallow ugly people wishing they were hot shallow people and refusing to be tolerable to be around.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-24T12:42:31+00:00

I almost want to talk to my gym crush in the hopes that he has an unattractive, high pitched voice or some other ick, so I can focus on my work out better. But there’s always the chance it’s super deep and then I’ve fucken spoken to him and that’s the wrong road to go down.

potoricco · 2023-08-24T12:54:00+00:00

It’s kind of embarrassing that men have nipples

potoricco · 2023-08-24T12:56:15+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/rm3fgsdl22kb1.png?width=1594&format=png&auto=webp&s=434667129b3ab1fd4f5ce85e07ab813213b61085

The sleeve of my uniform is sparkly😊

potoricco · 2023-08-24T12:57:39+00:00

I hate how nowadays if I visit one random community Reddit starts recommending it to me constantly.

physious · 2023-08-24T12:59:07+00:00

Going back to uni tomorrow and super excited. I'm lucky enough that I ended up in the same dorm building as my friends and my girlfriend. I think I'm done partying hard but it's still great to see everybody every day.

Life is good friends :)

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-24T13:23:55+00:00

If I could change one thing about women, it would be pre-selection.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-24T13:29:55+00:00

Back to watching Playing With Fire's channel. Wanted to see how tall the main guy is because I think he is about 5'10 but might lie and say he is 5'11. Anyways, I found a subreddit discussing the channel and saying it is trash because the women they have on are unnattractive.

To me personally, I think the women they have on are attractive enough and while they might not be my type, if I was a guy struggling to date, I would be happy to attract that level of woman.

So I think it is abundantly clear most red pill just caters to male power fantasy and has no interest in actually helping men. Guys who get into the red pill want to ascend to a league which they are unlikely to actually accomplish rather than be attractive to the women around them.

potoricco · 2023-08-24T13:46:08+00:00

Still don’t understand why British people lose their accent when they sing

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-24T13:46:13+00:00

https://youtu.be/U-hzwJ8eGSs?si=iV355ZJBwmiQS-dk

Out of all the languages that exist, Bro decided to speak facts!

potoricco · 2023-08-24T13:55:16+00:00

I’m tired of acting like Toby Maguire wasn’t handsome

potoricco · 2023-08-24T14:15:43+00:00

This pissed me off WHY won’t my parents let me have a cat why why why

I won’t be able to have a cat for the next 10 years ⁉️⁉️🤬🤬

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-24T14:15:48+00:00

My new favourite small sub --> r/RPChristians

I like how it dispels the easily debunked myth that all RP men are misogynists and women haters.

Twinseo09 · 2023-08-24T14:41:48+00:00

Women and minority are hiReD in STEM duE to DiversIty Hire. LOAD OF BULLSHITTTTTT. Stop the fucking lying and believing shit you want to believe because it fits your perception of how life is.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-24T14:44:04+00:00

We live in an extrapolated gynocentric society. A woman’s mental health, comfort, needs and wants, emotions, desires and happiness is put waaaaaay above a man’s.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-24T14:44:08+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-08-24T14:49:26+00:00

Men aren’t entitled to seggs. Women aren’t entitled to conversations endless dates resources and attention

potoricco · 2023-08-24T15:16:04+00:00

Why does our society hate mothers and kids? Like I get thinking baby crying is annoying but. They likely have no other way of transporting the baby and also the baby is highly uncomfortable, they have no other way to express this except to cry. Mothers and children should be allowed to exist in public

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-24T15:17:56+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qfb44C9Ytto&t=15s

Q4A: Was this situation the fault of the victims of the person who pushed them off the cliff?

Twinseo09 · 2023-08-24T15:38:08+00:00

People love to talk about bias for women. We need to have a conversation about the bias towards extroverted people.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-24T15:45:14+00:00

Oh boy, a woman sounding like a lot of guys with her same problem while showing red flags in her video: https://youtu.be/o5WrmYTdcqs?si=rAgEpq0jMvhhDXXq

The video: Regular girl upset she can't find regular guy while she shows some hints of mental instability.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-08-24T15:47:46+00:00

It's amazing how race can change the optics of an assertion.

"Women are spoiled and self-centered" is incel speak.

"White women are spoiled and self-centered" and you might as well be one of those Lizzo-looking bloggers of color.

"Men have it hard in education" is an MRA take.

"Black men have it hard in education" you sound like a Democrat.

Why can't Americans discuss anything without qualifying race first?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-24T16:34:56+00:00

Listening to Destiny for the first time, way different than I thought he would be. It is making me realize a lot of the red pill and black pill stuff is so shallow and short sighted. I knew this, but never thought about it. The reason being is that I think looks are incredibly important for initial attraction, but a lot of these red pill and black pill people don't take other economic and social factors into consideration. They are just as vapid as the women they complain about. It is like how watching two dating shows about autism and down syndrome people, as well as shows about people with dwarfism, they seem to hyperfocus on perceived normalcy and use low intelligence language like "I want a partner that is hot" which sounds weird because of course someone wants a partner that is attractive to them, it is odd to focus on "hotness" and I think the focus on that solely is a sign of low emotional intelligence.

afk_row · 2023-08-24T16:45:03+00:00

I injured my spine at my wage slave job. It’s L5-S1 disc bulge. I was pretty much forced to move some heavy objects in kitchen even though it’s not my job to do so and I think it definitely required more than one person to do.

Whatever man, it is what it is.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-24T16:46:37+00:00

I'm blackpilled in that I think looks are incredibly important for initial attraction, but I'm also blue pilled in that I don't think women are terrible and a lot of times get mistreated in relationships/society but I'm also kind of red pilled in that I think as a man to compete sexually you have to exploit any advantage you can find which includes being a little bit predatory in your approach.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-24T16:47:36+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8FgQqPs/

Seeing stuff like this I can understand where blackpill dudes are coming from. He did all of the generic ppd dating advice; go outside, touch grass, socialize, be himself. The worst they can say is no right? Nope, he got recorded and blasted on a video titled "how to intimidate pervy strangers 101" for having the audacity to sit down and talk to them during their picnic lol.

Now someone tell me if I'm wrong, but he didn't do anything perverted or creepy. He was respectful, shot his shot, and left in less than 60 seconds once he realized he was being iced out. But women in the comments are calling him creepy and weird. I bet if he was either a man they found attractive or any woman they would not have done this. Real life example of the flirting vs harassment meme lol.

dyngladfel · 2023-08-24T16:52:35+00:00

So many men on here happy to use the term landwhale whilst simultaneously clapping their little cheeks over women having their own standards. The hypocrisy is fucking outstanding.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-24T16:54:17+00:00

Self improvers, how hard is dating if you dont drink alcohol at all?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-24T17:02:05+00:00

Whiny Guys: Dating is HARD! All women suck and act the same.

Also Whiny Guys: I refuse to socialize with people without the promise of sex.

supremethrone · 2023-08-24T17:33:47+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1601ugs/fell_victim_to_another_attractive_guy_who_just/

Life is so easy mode for guys who attractive. But keep your head up, bro. Women told me they care a lot about personality, so just keep working on it, bro.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-24T17:40:03+00:00

I went to an artisan fair to get some inspiration, spend husband’s money on fun things, and maybe to manifest a new house. It was fun, I bought some handmade glass art and started following some carpenters to do a bit more research.

NalkaNalka · 2023-08-24T17:41:29+00:00

There are more posts here from woman whining or circlejerking about the term landwhale than there are people using it.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-24T18:02:25+00:00

Guy I know settled down with a girl he's not really that attracted to. He accepted what he can get and kept it moving as did she. Very little to none complaining, no whining about chad this, chad that. Stoic legend !

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-24T18:03:48+00:00

Does anyone have experience with those salt-and-pepper hair dye kits? I’m thinking Hubby’s hair is gonna go completely white instead of silver, and I wanna convince him to dye it. (He’s opposed to it rn because he thinks it’s look unnatural)

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-24T18:10:55+00:00

The dude in this post is going to get friend zoned -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15zmkkc/a_new_guy_i_am_seeing_said_to_me_do_you_mind_if/

Mark my words

SorryEm · 2023-08-24T18:20:57+00:00

Dating isn't biased towards women, its biased towards attractive people who just so happen to be women most of the time

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-24T18:23:15+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/nc8tXB26P1U

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-24T18:27:25+00:00

Also, not to spam the community chat, but I think my hairdressers gave me a shaggy hair cut and now I look like a freespirited zoomer whore

PBtoast707 · 2023-08-24T18:42:09+00:00

Do men’s standards get lower as they age? Between the ages of 18-21 I was overweight and no guys my age paid attention to me. I worked some minimum wage jobs and men between the ages of 35-45 were somewhat consistently complimenting my appearance and flirting. It made me feel really good, I never once was creeped out. I probably would have gone out with one of those guys, but my dad wouldn’t have liked that.

dyngladfel · 2023-08-24T18:46:19+00:00

If fat women start going on shooting sprees, threatening to kill ourselves and electing out of working will we get the asspats that men do, or will we need to work twice as hard 🤔

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-24T19:02:03+00:00

vulvas are so goddamn ugly straight men have gotta be coping. like why would anyone wanna even look at that. I'd also be mad at women if that was what I had to fuck tbh

SorryEm · 2023-08-24T19:07:48+00:00

I've been feeling a lot happier without a wife.

I sure hope no new woman comes in and ruins that....

meteorness123 · 2023-08-24T19:20:14+00:00

I wished had normal parents tbh. Im so jealous of normal families

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-08-24T19:25:59+00:00

What are the other Chad name variation ? (These are the one i encountered so far : Chad, Tyrone, pookie ray, Vlad, chadpreet, chadriguez, chang )

4SSh01e · 2023-08-24T19:28:00+00:00

https://www.facebook.com/reel/985288532594878

This is quite literally the definition of insecurity because you can switch genders and see for yourself how off it would sound. Yet insecurity in women is far more acceptable than men.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-24T19:46:23+00:00

here is how I look like

Cross-eyed from birth, but at least I'm not short. Or fat.

JupiterJazzX · 2023-08-24T19:46:25+00:00

What courting a "nice girl" taught me about attraction. Nice People (girls and guys) always finish last.

I'm Muslim and courting a sister.

This entire situation has really taught me a lot about attraction and relationships. On paper, the girl is nice. She's a nice girl in the same way nice guys are nice guys. But she doesn't know if she wants kids. She's not self assured. She's not entirely confident. On paper, yeah. She's a good girl. But she's not a challenge. She doesn't inspire me to become a better man and if that's true how could I ever hope to truly appreciate her and be a good husband for someone that was so easy to woo, from the first minute? Even if we did get married and had kids, could I trust her to be the mother of my children if so much of her didn't seem to have some grit and gnashed teeth with some blood on her lip?

Also, because she was so easy to catch it almost feels like she's easy in other areas. Like any guy could just swoop down and get her. I'm pretty sure many promiscuous women are actually nice, agreeable girls.

On the other hand, the Muslim woman that does challenge me and I've also started talking to for romance, we challenge each other and it becomes some dance that consistently builds sexual tension. We are both kind but we are both self confident as we tease each other. Neither of us need each other but there's something in the air that says we want each other. It feels balanced and harmonious.

I'm fascinated about all of this, like, psychologically. God made humans to be complicated creatures. After experiencing this first hand I now know why women don't go for nice guys. I mean, I knew in an abstract way but actually experiencing it is something else entirely.

Long-Manufacturer654 · 2023-08-24T19:56:15+00:00

Im going to keep this short. Yes I'm aware the manager and co-workers know about this. The whole room request wasn't an accident. To anyone who's keeping up with this, I'm not instigating anything. I'm not taunting them. They are simply harrassing me then gaslighting. Beware of fake accounts as well. Those at work or elsewhere who are trying to help need to recognize I can't distinguish most of it. These people are increasingly becoming more dangerous. Report them if you can.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-08-24T20:05:39+00:00

In media: A teen boy with potential is basically someone with sporting or academic prowess.

A teen girl with potential well... explaining that would basically break reddit TOS lmao.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-24T20:12:13+00:00

Bruh imagine the guy that has to fuck justpearlythings

DerayRevan · 2023-08-24T21:17:03+00:00

"Most guys who believe in redpill have a lot of issues or have not hit some major life milestones like being financially stable, having a great career, education, their own place"

How exactly ? Because l've all those things completed and l am core redpill as they come, l seriously up to this day never understood stereotyping rp people

"They grow so angry and redirect this anger towards women instead of using it to better themselves"

I was never angry at how women dated even though l've been rejected many time but simultaneously had dated many women and going on a 5-year relationship now

"Dating should be the very last of your worries"

Then how you are you gonna get the success if it's not in one of your top priorities as a guy ?

" Especially when you suffer from issues like social anxieties or addictions such as porn, video games, substance abuse"

I've done all those and still had a fantastic dating experience, because l know moderation is key so you don't get addicted, seriously it ain't that hard having balance in all this things

"These individuals do not love themselves enough"

I love myself so much that l quite all this things expect the video games

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-25T04:10:09+00:00

Reminder that you're not entitled to basic respect and decency.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-25T04:11:51+00:00

I'm gonna listen to my depressing Playlist and drink all night

huhwhatokok · 2023-08-25T04:14:51+00:00

It’s kinda crazy to me how no one cares that the BLM organization was a scam?

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