Daily Community Chat Megathread

DerayRevan · 2023-10-12T22:40:15+00:00

I don't get this tradcon guys always saying this nonsense of "yea don't focus on women and ignore them"

They do all this yet when a woman gives them attention they start loosing it and don't know what to do

Realistically men are always gonna focus on women because we want sex and Testosterones is a fuckin nightmare at amplifying that, but tradcons always do their best to ignore that reality

But l always ask them why can't you do both ?

Work volume getting sex and focus on yourself and passions, l don't know why tradcons don't seem to think there's another side of the equation and this why l say that tradcons are grifters at dating advice because they always sell men some religious prescription

meteorness123 · 2023-10-12T22:31:36+00:00

CMV:

White women care more about competence and "class" in men than looks.

No, this does not mean you can be a 4'3 east asian guy with lot of money and be very popular with them. Naming extreme statistical outliers does not disprove the general rule.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-12T22:17:28+00:00

I'm still trying to understand what is so high about women's standards in dating.

Is being employed, having a bed frame, and having friends that big of an ask?

potoricco · 2023-10-12T21:55:40+00:00

https://x.com/cherrypickedpit/status/1712105273920221420?s=46&t=b2XPgsD5a-aGl20uLiFUqA

Peak example of man does something Omg based that’s so smart you’re so cool woman does something OMG what about your husband/future kids/ my dick EWWW what is wrong with you

keebydee · 2023-10-12T21:51:34+00:00

Cheesy chicken and rice with Harvest Cheddar Sun Chips just make all my problems wash away 🤤🤤

Too bad I finish it in less than 5 minutes so I go right back to feeling like shit 😑

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-12T21:45:17+00:00

Why are all of these old guys (I sometimes let old guys waste their roses and super likes on me because I think it’s funny) liking me on hinge still wanting kids? Aren’t you too old for that, buddy?

supremethrone · 2023-10-12T21:26:33+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelExit/comments/175xh0c/socialising_only_makes_me_feel_worse/

Lol this is literally me. Stopped hanging out with my coworkers because all they would ever talk about was sex and relationships and travelling. Fuck off

potoricco · 2023-10-12T21:19:59+00:00

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TikTok is a WILD place 💀

He actually ate it ewwww EWWWWWBEIWBSHEI

SianOiseau · 2023-10-12T21:09:10+00:00

So I felt like shit yesterday because of the cold. Again. Second in just more than a month and both times were brought by husband and his buddy going to the gym. I thought sport was supposed to improve one's immunity.

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-10-12T21:07:03+00:00

I hate this comparison that women are in a swamp with no drinkable water. It's more like they are in a store but they are all out of sparkling water with only Dasani in sight. I just wish they would stfu and stop complaining.

You don't need to drink Dasani, but your "struggle" isn't a struggle.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-12T21:02:01+00:00

Just read a post about a woman who asked how she could find a nice FWB that would be good in bed and make her have a great time without putting her physical health at risk (she also mentionned how her ex bf was a god in bed haha)

I saw this comment (translated the best way I could) and I 100% agree with it:

It's not going to be that easy, because you need guys: - who can control their ejaculation - who care about your pleasure - who don't take you for an easy girl, so avoid the college crowd - who don't leave you in garbage bags all over town

I'd advise you to try gleeden. Sure the men are married or a couple, but it's probably the way to go: - usually they're frustrated at home, so they are very motivated to have a FWB - they're experienced - they may have a family, which will keep you from ending up in pieces. - they won't come from college, but from the companies across the street from your college so it'll be discreet

Thoughts? If I was a woman and wanted a FWB, I'd definitely do that. Makes total sense for me at least.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-12T20:58:22+00:00

All the guys who bitch about getting no matches are gonna be bored out of their minds when getting matches becomes the norm

potoricco · 2023-10-12T20:55:26+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8r3xaBJ/

Meaty men get humbled

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-12T20:43:05+00:00

I think a lot more guys, especially redpill/blackpill guys need a project. Personally Im working on a short film, but it could be anything. It seems like some guys only goal is chasing women.

I found doing this sort of stuff helps reduce fomo.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-12T20:39:12+00:00

For men not wanting to get married, I certainly get a lot of wedding invites. Already preparing for the onslaught of holiday Engagements too.

I'm constantly looking offline for the discussions I had here. I seem to never be able to replicate them.

potoricco · 2023-10-12T20:23:18+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8r3YaAu/

She’s so cute I love british people

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-12T20:18:34+00:00

Some bitch blocked me because I said women ask out men. 😂

potoricco · 2023-10-12T19:50:15+00:00

I look 100x better and am more comfortable in low rise jeans idk what these millennials are talking about

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-12T19:41:01+00:00

What the heck is a "hoe phase"?

Seems like some men here have a really interesting definition.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-12T19:26:28+00:00

I was smoking in front of a gas station a bit ago. A mother and her young teenage daughter, like 14-15, were walking from their car to the store.

We’re near campus and a car full of college guys drove by and one of them yelled out the window “I’m going to rape you!”

It was pretty fucked up. The ladies were shocked, tried to lighten the mood and said “they were probably talking to me”

I think about that sometimes and wonder what it was like in the car after. If all the other bros were like “what’s your fucking problem dude” or if they were all laughing about it.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-12T19:24:40+00:00

QFM:

Do you think women respect men who aren't into slutty or trashy women?

demedermidimi · 2023-10-12T19:19:10+00:00

guys it's purple pill debate not purple pill advice

DerayRevan · 2023-10-12T19:06:03+00:00

"CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days"

I thought it was money and looks equally important, because if you had money you automatically had women available

In my experience women always just came like flies if you had a certain high-status income, that's why everytime l went to the clubs, only rich guys would have a bunch women surrounding them at their table

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-12T19:00:03+00:00

Today I asked the 'some times good' ladies of PPD' why they dislike men who follow insta baddies, OF girls and thirst trap girls.

None gave me a compelling answer. My guess though, is insecurity.

The average woman doesn't have an hour glass shape, can't afford a good bbl or can't even fit in nice clothes. They are afraid that they won't measure up to the beauty standards of these insta baddies.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-12T18:57:58+00:00

I am planning on not having health insurance. Other people think it is dumb, but if I do get into a lot of medical debt, I can just kill myself and the problem will go away.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-12T18:44:44+00:00

Every side chick got dudes tryna wife them up but it’s like nah I rather be this guys number 2.

potoricco · 2023-10-12T18:39:11+00:00

Honestly the BEST way to make friends as a girl or woman is literally just to smile a lot

potoricco · 2023-10-12T18:36:09+00:00

He looked at meeeee

meteorness123 · 2023-10-12T18:21:45+00:00

There is a girl from high school (this is like over ten years ago) who messaged me. Out of nowhere. I dont know how she got my number either. I do not really intend on responding. Thoughts ?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-12T18:12:18+00:00

Women dislike men who follow 100s of insta baddies and OF girls, why?

Is it a competition or insecurity thing?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-12T18:11:19+00:00

👁️🫦👁️

DerayRevan · 2023-10-12T18:00:03+00:00

Team usa for the 2024 Olympics are obviously favorites of the competition, they got the best shooter(steph curry), best passer(Lebron James), best scoring guard(Kevin durant)

But what makes me nervous is how they always fumble it, trust me l've seen this happen multiple times were they've a elite squad but don't take competition seriously and become the laughing stock of the sport

This happened on multiple occasions such as 1988,2000,2004

They fumble it and then start taking basketball seriously and win

Because after loosing in 04, they won and destroyed the competition in 08 as the redeem team

So l hope they don't repeat the same cycle

scwizard · 2023-10-12T17:59:58+00:00

Apparently "you're the right person for me, it's just the wrong time in my life" is pretty common bullshit for womanizers to say when they're already seeing another girl on the side.

I just don't get how someone can tell multiple woman that she's their soul mate and they wanna marry them "some day" with a clean councious.

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-13T04:53:59+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXDD1dO5O3E

Interesting perspective from the women.

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hannahg000 · 2023-10-12T06:00:49+00:00

first

keebydee · 2023-10-12T06:01:51+00:00

Second 👁👁

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-12T06:02:35+00:00

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-12T06:05:30+00:00

Get looks or die trying

Ok_Finger_6818 · 2023-10-12T06:09:52+00:00

Try wearing some cologne.

baiser_vole · 2023-10-12T06:12:34+00:00

So I get a lot of hate for talking about voluntary celibacy in men. It seems that quite a few men here value voluntary celibacy in women, but they don’t think it should be the same in men.

Voluntary celibacy is usually highly religious and/or cultural, and is a social contract. It is most often about one’s dedication to certain beliefs. Both men and women who hold these values exist. I did not force my boyfriend to stay celibate for the ten years we have been apart. There’s no “her poor boyfriend” here. Having restraint and being non promiscuous is not gender specific.

Some people here say virgin women are wife material that they would lock down soon. It is no different for men in highly cultural/religious context. There is a reason why we are able to get married so fast without having to worry about each other’s values. And if men want women from certain cultural/religious background, they should know they will be held to certain social contracts as well.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-12T06:33:57+00:00

Anyone buys clothes on Amazon? Whats the deal with people posting pictures thinking theres some modeling agencies out scouting for them, or posting pics with their kids wearing the clothing you're looking at (mainly high school kids)?

Sillysheila · 2023-10-12T06:38:37+00:00

TIL that when women have too much sex, they lose all feeling below their waist

PlasticFlamingo976 · 2023-10-12T06:38:46+00:00

I think of women as these tiny little abstract o***bjects things i just bend however which way i want. Small. Get scared very quickly . Seriously though i love women and want more .

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-12T07:28:58+00:00

Note to self: never ever buy shoes that aren't waterproof

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-12T08:01:56+00:00

Sometimes I feel really guilty and embarrassed to have sexual thoughts or desires. Since I’m a little overweight, I feel like I’m not attractive enough to have those desires. It’s the same reason I don’t wear makeup or wear skirts or dresses. It would be like putting lipstick on a pig. I feel like I’m still a child. Sometimes I wish I had no sex drive.

keebydee · 2023-10-12T09:07:16+00:00

The people here who said that I have too much issues, have nothing to offer and that I must be insufferable irl because I'm autistic are so right. I can't stop looking at those comments everyday because I know that's how everyone else around me feels and it reflects my reality. At least I know where I stand.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-10-12T09:48:35+00:00

If women don’t think about the Roman Empire and hero scenarios all day, what do they think about?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-12T09:52:34+00:00

Going to have pizza for lunch and then I have a 5 days weekend ahead of me, life is good ngl

business_explained · 2023-10-12T10:26:09+00:00

I think the reason women love The Office so much is because they absolutely love seeing Alpha Jim bully Beta Dwight while also cucking low intelligent Roy. The entire show is essentially about a superior genetic male being socially dominant and displaying himself on the social hierarchy, even beyond the functional hierarchy of the company. Michael can't do shit and nobody listens to him, which makes him being shorter than every man in the office all the more ironic.

This may be the most based take I have ever made. This is not incel content since I'm not making any claim about having sex. It's classic social hierarchies that can be traced back to bonobos.

Stupid4Knowledge · 2023-10-12T11:11:48+00:00

Girls how does it not freak you out how wet it can down there?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-12T11:44:54+00:00

Guys how does it not freak you out how big it can get down there?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-12T11:57:50+00:00

The Jada/Will thing was always funny to me because he is so out of her league both physically and status wise in Hollywood. And this is coming from someone who thought she was cute in set it off. He has always been massively dating down with her but she wears the pants in that relationship. Either Jada has the greatest box of all time or she has mastered the art of “Girl game” to the point where she really needs to write a book

“How to pull a guy who is better than you in every aspect of life”

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-12T12:00:09+00:00

People get into these minor accidents and block up traffic refusing to move their cars talking bout “ I can’t move the car bro I gotta secure the crime scene and evidence bro” only for 5-0 to show up 2 hours later just to tell them “yeah you guys just need to exchange information” 😂

GridReXX · 2023-10-12T12:53:58+00:00

Do you guys think the differences between males and females are due to socialization, due to biology, or due to both?

I think it’s more biology than the “it’s all how they were socialized” people want to admit.

It’s not black or white. Biology influences socialization which influences how the things manifest, which in turn might influence genetics for the next generation. Cycle repeats.

Slipthe · 2023-10-12T12:56:25+00:00

Would you go no-contact with your parents because you disagree politically?

potoricco · 2023-10-12T13:12:31+00:00

Sticking out your gyatt for the rizzlerrr

business_explained · 2023-10-12T13:15:38+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/M3MNw69VZEA?feature=shared

It gets better

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-12T13:23:41+00:00

2 dates scheduled for this weekend. Let see what pans out
Got a new host for our social group. He set up his first event. Solid.
Hosting a crew to support one of our guys as a music show tomorrow
Finally outlining my business idea with a friend. It’s coming to life.
Continuing to read my mindset book
Invested in a professionally- built meal plan

One day at a time.

business_explained · 2023-10-12T13:29:16+00:00

Last schizopost of the day: if you want to experience the social advantage women have over men in realtime:

Go on any discord server
Use a woman name with some weaboo profile pic
Ask for some very basic advice that people would normally call you stupid for

Now do the same but with a normal profile pic and name.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2023-10-12T13:31:40+00:00

Does the user Smurfsurferson still exist on this sub? I remember them from a few years back when I was active

CradleCity · 2023-10-12T13:35:35+00:00

Yesterday at a supermarket, I was in the line when I saw a little boy crying. I thought it was the standard type of motive (not getting something), but he said "she hit me!"

Presumably it was a case of a big girl hitting him at school. I was more pissed off at the mother's reaction, which was... dismissive of his feelings, to say the least. I could see a father reacting in such a way, but the kid's mother?!

Can't help but think things would be very different if the genders were flipped. And then some women complain men aren't emotionally open. No shit, just look at how some boys get 'treated' by some mothers, that stays with you. Thankfully, it wasn't my personal experience.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-12T14:13:01+00:00

The weird thing about younger generations is they come up with words for things that have always existed. Like "fanum tax" being popularized by a Twitch streamer who will take other people's food. My Gen X brother would do this to me and literally call it a food tax. My mom would do this and say she had to "test my food and make sure it isn't poisoned." I've probably done it to people like when driving home with fast food or something you steal a couple fries from the other persons meal.

huhwhatokok · 2023-10-12T14:20:51+00:00

If he doesn’t get convicted I’m probably going to vote for Donald trump.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-10-12T14:29:51+00:00

It blew my mind watching this morning's news about an Israeli 13 year old that survived an attack on her town. Many things struck me about the interview.

Willow-girl · 2023-10-12T14:33:46+00:00

Your facepalm of the day, regarding a local school district (credit Wiki):

The school colors are black and gold, and the original school mascot were Bullets, depicted by two large bullets with mean faces and fists clenched. They were replaced in the mid-1990s with a new mascot the Bull in response to parental complaints that the Bullets mascot could incite violence in students.

Enflamed-Pancake · 2023-10-12T14:33:54+00:00

I asked a woman out the other day. She declined, directly but respectfully.

Thankfully at my age you tend to get over yourself and your own ego and her declining didn’t bother me much, or at least only as much a bee sting. Sharp initially but subsides quickly.

I respected and appreciated the direct response. No bullshit or attempts to soften the truth. I understand women might do that out of fear of what the blunt truth might provoke in some suitors, but I definitely prefer the unfiltered response.

keebydee · 2023-10-12T14:46:27+00:00

I would probably desire relationships less if my pet was still alive. It feels much more lonely at home without him especially since I'm a NEET too. I'm thinking about getting a plush clone of him. The service is expensive as hell since the likeness is super spot on but it's absolutely worth it. I just hope seeing him reduced to an object doesn't make me cry. But I just need have him here in some way. With this plush I can have something to sleep next to. Which is something I actually wanted to as a kid with him.

Years later and I still miss him severely. Not too long ago, I was getting nightmares about him. Life is just so unfair. Life made me undesirable with these stupid disorders and takes him away too. I hope this plush will be a good enough cope for not being able to get into a relationship. He was the person I felt the closest to. Didn't need to worry about social skills, social anxiety or anything.

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-10-12T14:58:33+00:00

In your opinion what does the term chase women imply?

potoricco · 2023-10-12T14:58:47+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/vhdniin6dstb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=484b395273ab2150eeac79696d06bd3c4eb0c733

Straight women live in hell

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-12T15:01:09+00:00

I stepped on the scale and holy cow - I'm back to my college weight. Except with a lot more muscle now. I'm almost lost for words.

All the diet and workouts are slowly paying off, day by day.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-12T15:01:13+00:00

I stepped on the scale and holy cow - I'm back to my college weight. Except with a lot more muscle now. I'm almost lost for words.

All the diet and workouts are slowly paying off, day by day.

potoricco · 2023-10-12T15:25:44+00:00

Why do people think Ross lynch is attractive? He was when I was like 8

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-12T15:29:58+00:00

Is it common for IT people to have nothing to talk about but their careers?

GridReXX · 2023-10-12T16:05:39+00:00

A while back I did an OP where I asked everyone to post their Big 5 results. Here’s that OP.

My hypothesis was that if you’re scoring very low on Extroversion, Openness, and Agreeableness, as well as scoring higher on Neuroticism… you’re going to struggle in socially connecting with others and in interpersonal relationships in general, UNLESS you build strategies to work around your personality proclivities.

We all have to do this, mask/cope that it is. I’m an ENTP with a lot more P than J. I have work harder than others to be on time or focus on monotonous activity and not retreat to a big picture abstract (procrastination).

I think some people look at these tests and decide “well that’s just the way I am and I’m never gonna change” and really the way we use these tests in developmental psychology, in early childhood development, in education, and professionally is to identify “areas of development” (our weaknesses) so that we know how to mitigate and better interact with others. And so they know how to do mitigate and better interact with us. It’s a mutual social contract of consideration.

Here’s the definitions of the Big 5 areas:

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-12T16:34:18+00:00

Thinkers always lose to doers.

Most often all that pondering is an excuse for inaction, a disguise for cowardice.

Meditate through action.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-12T16:39:22+00:00

The best thing about getting in shape is seeing men respect you and women list fully looking at you.

Virtan · 2023-10-12T16:41:34+00:00

What if I just have an everything problem? Like everything about you and everything about your life is so fucked that if you fix one thing, the other problems are still there.

Like for me, I’m literally bottom of the barrel levels of ugly, I’m autistic, I have no friends irl, I’m literally invisible to women, I don’t fit in with anybody because of my autism, and I’m a virgin so I’m the butt of every joke.

I feel like I’m unfixable due to having way too many problems.

old_new_age · 2023-10-12T16:42:54+00:00

I infiltrated one of those "are we dating the same guy" groups using a profile I created for trolling when I was a teenager. It's not quite as bad as I thought, but the "bitter ex spouting potential nonsense (no evidence and/or no actual claims of abuse)" was still present. Most of the posts were women posting guys' profiles and asking if there was any tea on him; I checked to see if anyone had posted me, and nobody had, so that's nice. They should probably improve their vetting process for new users

antisplatter · 2023-10-12T16:46:07+00:00

Does size matter?

scwizard · 2023-10-12T16:52:49+00:00

Never thought I would be in this scenario. I have a 5 year old at home. I’ve always wanted more kids.

I managed to get pregnant from a hook up. Because of course I did. Still used birth control, didn’t work.

I don’t know if I can mentally handle getting an abortion. I couldn’t with my first, I had him at 18 and I saw no other way.

All the cons are stacked against this one, so I know it’s the best decision, I just am struggling with being okay with it.

If you can't mentally handle getting an abortion and you can't mentally handle having a baby then why are you hooking up? From reading twox hookups don't even seem that enjoyable for women. So you're risking a lot for basically zero payoff.

CasseroleTruck · 2023-10-12T17:01:28+00:00

This has probably been said a million times already, but the reason why so many boys and young men gravitate toward shitheads like Andrew Tate and RP garbage like Fresh and Fit is b/c they actually bother to establish a type of bond via the big brother /role model type; even if it's fake and grifting, a lot of the stuff they peddle is infused with many truths that help them gain social status and dating success. It's like the kid with no caring role models at home who gets attached to the garbage troublemaker older kid down the street b/c at least the guy involves him and makes him feel valuable and cool.

Just goes to show how much the bluepill mainstream leaves boys and men high and dry like they are worthless, insignificant, or useful idiots at best. What's that one saying, if you refuse to feed them love with spoons they'll learn to lick it off of knives.

Slipthe · 2023-10-12T17:04:34+00:00

Do you ever finish peoples sentences? Or find the word they are looking for in conversation?

I do that constantly. It's like a microdose of validation that I am smart enough to know what someone is trying to think of faster than they can.

But my partner thinks its rude to do that, so I'm curious what you guys tend to do.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-12T17:21:00+00:00

Ok l know guys want singals from a woman before they approach

But in many cases it works well if you start giving the singals AND initiate the interaction, l did always this to test and see if she would reciprocate the energy back, and this worked quite well because it's easy to see if a woman has high-interest or not

purpledaggers · 2023-10-12T17:38:01+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/175s98l/what_ai_thinks_women_from_each_country_looks_like/

Hahaha the Canada + USA one is exactly what I pictured in my head. The Wales + British were amazing. Turkey was 100% accurate.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-12T17:38:53+00:00

I don’t understand how people can insult their partners, during a fight or otherwise. Apparently it’s quite common. I just don’t get it. You’re usually the person who can hurt them in the worst possible way, why would you want to break that trust? How is it possible to be so angry that you forget the person in front of you. More than that, you purposely go through your head to find the right insult.

scwizard · 2023-10-12T17:42:40+00:00

I was really anxious in December. Lots of needing reassurance. Checking if we were okay.

He sat me down and had a long talk, he said that he would always tell me when something was wrong. He loved me, I was his person, he was going to marry me and we’d always work through things.

So I fucking trusted him. I did so good for January. I checked in with him once because he looked sick and he said he was tired and feeling sick and thanked me.

Fucking a week before our anniversary he said he loved me still but it was the wrong Time.

what the fuck does that mean. The day before you loved me so so much and couldn’t wait to go to sleep with me next week on our anniversary trip.

Then fast forward...

Then somehow a friend online is in a server with him. And says oh I know that name! And proceeds to say how he’s dating someone else. They’re already engaged.

They’ve been dating since 2 weeks after we broke up.

Already engaged 7 months later.

What the actual fuck

What did she do wrong? If anything?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-12T17:47:47+00:00

Do you ever wonder if there’s something you have incredible natural talent for, but you’ve never been in a position to try it?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-12T17:56:49+00:00

The biggest thing I’ve realized about the whole “reading signals” bit: It doesn’t matter whether you’re neurodivergent or neurotypical, guys have to accept that we’re going to get it wrong sometimes.

Some girls aggressively flirt with everything that moves, even when they aren’t actually interested. Some girls may be dying for you to talk to them, but their version of flirting is standing vaguely near you and hoping you’ll approach. So look for patterns, approach anyone you think might be interested, and if it turns out they aren’t, politely excuse yourself- a few moments of awkwardness isn’t a crime.

potoricco · 2023-10-12T19:18:12+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/euc10sefnttb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a7f81892ce0985943dbd460c2bc552411d15463f

Would i be the villain if I said pregnancy can be a form of abuse sometimes

potoricco · 2023-10-12T19:55:17+00:00

Not proud of myself but I just downloaded aliexpress

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-12T22:46:10+00:00

What guys need to understand is that even if she gave you signals or cues of attraction, sometime was mixed singals on the other hand it could be she lost interest. Women do go throw a process of disqualifying guys at the front end due to more information, most guys don't do that at the beginning they tend to do that when it comes to LTR and relationship,.

potoricco · 2023-10-12T22:48:41+00:00

Be honest I feel sentimental right now would it be weird if I asked my brother to take pictures of various rooms at my old middle school? He goes to the same middle school I did, I feel like I never got closure from middle school because my physical time there was cut short I had no graduation, no yearbooks, etc. I’m forgetting what the rooms and hallways look like and I’m sad ☹️The school will be demolished next year because they have a new building

SianOiseau · 2023-10-12T22:51:25+00:00

Aaand husband has fallen asleep, so I guess dinner is on me which sucks. We're both having a fever and I have to give one more lesson.

PointInitialD · 2023-10-12T22:56:53+00:00

How to find a virgin girl?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-12T23:15:03+00:00

"Women dislike men who follow 100s of insta baddies and OF girls, why? " Is it a competition or insecurity thing"

It's competition when she's hot

It's insecurity when she's ugly

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-12T23:37:35+00:00

no more fake fantasies. Q4M, would you rather have

A. 21yo ex-promiscuous girl with an n-count of 8-12 who were mostly FWB or one night stands. she has good libido and is good! at! sex!!! initiates a lot. always DTF.

B. 21yo virgin girl. 21 and virgin for a obvious reason; low libido. never was compelled or interested. she is obviously bad at sex. does not initiate, maybe even repelled a bit.

C. 21yo nonvirgin girl. has been in 2 long term relationships. maybe had 1 one night stand. has some libido. initiates sometimes. not always dtf. (n-count 3-5)

tried to make realistic answers. I'm guessing C for most and B the least.

keebydee · 2023-10-13T00:05:44+00:00

Guys, do not go to Incelexit. They do not care about helping you. Don't fall for it

meteorness123 · 2023-10-13T00:09:37+00:00

I used to think arranged marriages are primitive. Not anymore. There even seems to be some research out there suggesting that they work just as well if not better than other marriages.

le_paso · 2023-10-13T00:14:02+00:00

I'm dating a 1 N count (me) woman, AMA

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-13T00:19:02+00:00

Anyone else have a repressed memory of hanging out with their high school boyfriend at a church event and all of a sudden he has a screaming episode and threatens to murder one of his friends and has to get physically dragged out of the function and then you have to leave? He really knew how to keep me on my toes.

potoricco · 2023-10-13T00:44:15+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/m0sjumpm9vtb1.jpeg?width=479&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=032f90bc1978a96d8f47f8140149e217e7b8214d

Also this random cat came back earlier

keebydee · 2023-10-13T00:44:56+00:00

Idk what to do. I told my friend straight up that I was depressed so the desire to socialize has been low lately and then the next day, he invited me to his birthday party. I really don't want to go but at the same time I don't want to seem like a bad friend. I am just sick of toughing it out and masking in social interactions and I have zero excitement at the thought of going.

potoricco · 2023-10-13T00:50:45+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/8fatk1qx9vtb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4de229a136b55e977800616758940e8c25d62925

Also I know I’m getting old because I’m actually getting REALLY REALLY sick and tired of tiktokers selecting the most RANDOM person ever to hyperfixate on for like a month and then completely forget about. I can immediately tell when someone is genuinely popular vs when they’re just a fad, even i buy into it though. Just from this year we had the fat dancing guy, the horny menswear guy, npc girl, now this person, and more that I can’t remember

MysterySolverDog · 2023-10-13T01:00:27+00:00

Question: People are now as socially charitable towards woman as they are towards men.

Examples: If you would cross the street to avoid a drunk man, you now also do that to avoid a drunk woman. Statements like "men are trash" get met with the same energy that "women are trash" does. People are now equally as cold socially to women as they are to men. On the flip side, men are less willing to catcall women as they now have the same potentially threatening aura a man does.

What happens?

Rule: Women get the same social privileges as a male of average height, strength, and looks in their country. They don't get to be 6'4 gigachads, but they're not chihuahua sized men either.

potoricco · 2023-10-13T01:09:29+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8rwrh3g/

I want a guy that can do this

CasseroleTruck · 2023-10-13T01:13:13+00:00

The 'body doesn't matter if you don't have a good face' argument is one of the worst and most inaccurate I've come across. We can take the classic example of just a normal everyday average face (and not necessarily in like a perfect conventional way either). Put that face on a tanned 6'3" jacked body and he is basically Gigachad. Put that face on a skinny-fat or fat 5'9" body and he's invisible. Lifting matters, body matters. Obviously your face makes a difference but it's a separate variable. A tall jacked 9/10 will obviously do better than a tall jacked 5/10. That doesn't change the fact that the 5/10 will still pull women like crazy.

The same is applied to women. The same face on a tall athletic tan curves in all the right spots leggy frame vs the same face on just a regular body is like night and day.

sosayeth · 2023-10-13T01:21:46+00:00

Russell Wilson going from a future Hall of Fame quarterback to becoming straight garbage is the perfect example of what happens when a man gets into a relationship with a chick who let a known deadbeat impregnate her.

This is why childless men should turn their nose up at baby mamas.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-13T01:36:37+00:00

Has anyone seen any online dating profiles talking about being pro-palestine, pro-israel yet? I bet 2023 will be the 2020 "Are you with Trump?" shit all over again.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-13T01:43:51+00:00

I would rather be tall, bald and jacked than the a guy of medium height with good hair.

Q4Men : What would you pick ?

SianOiseau · 2023-10-13T01:49:15+00:00

There are more and more stories about Russian soldiers coming home from the war and committing violence there. There are murders, rapes, physical attacks etc.

It isn't surprising considering they got a bunch of jailed men with the promise to free them after the war and among these men there were all sorts of criminals including the ones convicted for molesting and other violent crimes. These men were not only freed, they were sent to the way, taught (somewhat) to hold the gun and returned home with the false feeling of being heroes and protectors.

So far one raped 10 y.o. girl (he forced 2 girls to follow him and raped the youngest), another raped his 13 y.o. stepdaughter, another raped and almost killed a woman, one killed his wife in front of his children etc. So far only in news there have been 55 cases of different crimes committed by "Russian heroes", I'd guess far more don't get into the news articles at all.

And it's going to get worse.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-13T02:03:55+00:00

Q4M: What are your thoughts and feelings to the popular TwoXChromosome phrase "the quality of women has gone up while the quaility of men hasn't risen up to meet the new standards the modern women has?".

Personally I crack up at this statement. This and the "women are like children" rhetoric of some RP content always gives me a good laugh. However I do disagree ofc, I think both of the qulaity of men and women have gone down. Everyone was visited by the adhd, autism, and social anxiety faries over covid lockdown and tbh I think this made most people around my age (Gen Z) reta*ded.

keebydee · 2023-10-13T02:53:10+00:00

I decided that I'm going to my friend's birthday party. I just can't decline. Depression or not. I don't like taking people's interest in me for granted. There's people out there that would love to have the same opportunity and I don't want to waste it especially since I've been in that position before.

God, I just wish I was wired to crave this sort of stuff instead of having to mentally prepare myself to be entertaining, fun, not awkward, engaging. I really hope this party only lasts for a couple of hours or so and not be an all day thing.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-10-13T02:54:44+00:00

My self esteem deteriorates by the day. How much of a pathetic piece of garbage do you have to be to be unwanted by every single woman you meet by age 26? If I had any positive qualities, someone would have given me a chance by now. 26 years and never more than a first date. The world’s been trying to tell me to kill myself for years, and I’m too stupid and cowardly to listen.

baiser_vole · 2023-10-13T03:24:18+00:00

I was wondering if that f.boi will change for the right woman was written by a man, but nope. Thank you, mom. I love you.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-13T03:39:49+00:00

My housekeeper is here. She doesn’t speak a word of English and I speak only a few basic words of Thai…I’m really grateful for Google translate app. It’s a giant luxury to me, I’ve never had a housekeeper. She does such a good job with her once a week cleaning of our apartment, the girl even removes stray hairs from my brush. I want to give her a raise because she only charges the equivalent of US $2 for about an hour or two of work. Rewards, tips, etc are kind of fraught here. European expats think we are typical American suckers for being generous. I just want to be generous.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-13T03:39:49+00:00

Did y’all do your set of bed frame squats to failure today sweetie?

hannahg000 · 2023-10-13T03:50:11+00:00

if a man has blond hair and i find him attractive, then he is likely top 5% of men. because in general, i think men with blond hair look weird

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-13T03:52:28+00:00

Is it just my observation the hotter a woman is and secure she is of her physical looks, the less she cares about a guy looks. Not saying she wants to date a guy who is ugly. But she is willing to trade that for other above average qualities in a man.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-13T04:00:40+00:00

I don't feel bad or empathize with men who are lonely because they never social, lack group hobbies, have zero friends they see in person regularly, refuse therapy or other forms of self development, and just sulk around online hoping that a magic woman will solve all their problems.

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-13T04:06:49+00:00

Women have it hard in dating too, and there is unfair double standards. But around here, you get accused of revenge fantasy. lol

Luciansleep · 2023-10-13T04:25:20+00:00

CMV: There really isn’t anything wrong with ghosting

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-13T04:27:13+00:00

Finished reading Napeleon: A life, he was kinda beta toward his wife Josephine. Who clearly did not love him, and succumbed to her manipulation and mind games.

edgyny · 2023-10-13T04:28:51+00:00

I have just had the realization that the most shrill batshit insane mothers I know are all mothers of sons. Like the Moms for Liberty types I know are all mothers of boys (only). The more I think about it there really is something weird about these moms.

Also, is there anymore cucked than being a male wearing a "Mom's 4 Liberty" print T-shirt?

This message brought to you by yet another encounter with a batshit insane Mom for Liberty on ND.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-13T04:31:57+00:00

Imagine spending money on Reddit

Willow-girl · 2023-10-13T05:01:45+00:00

Today is my man's birthday and next week it will be my turn.

Goddamn, are we getting old!

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-13T05:01:54+00:00

gonna be a wild time when mankind starts colonizing the stars and guys who grew up in low g environments start height mogging short (<7') earth men

kmkpasi3_ · 2023-10-13T12:51:36+00:00

The pipeline from carefree, naive sexually active young girl to entitled, delusional single baby mom is truly a sad one that women continue to fall into

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-13T13:51:32+00:00

The women here really are old. I thought we were talking like 40, 45 maybe. Hell, I even thought I was old for being in my early 30s. But nah, we have some geriatrics here. What would possess you to come here in your 60s? Damn.

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