Daily Community Chat Megathread

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-06T19:12:45+00:00

Anybody else’s parents ever get mad them when you didn’t understand math problems as a kid?

caption291 · 2023-11-06T06:13:14+00:00

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I%27m_entitled_to_my_opinion

I like that it's literally just called a fallacy at this point. Gives me hope for the future.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-06T05:25:12+00:00

Lara Croft is the best written heroine in media. She super flexible and springy, doesn’t fight with strength but rather with guns and bombs, a true murderous psychopath, and she’s rich as fuck. Lara Croft should be the highest standard when writing strong female characters.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-06T05:03:11+00:00

I know this chick who got sent $500 on Instagram by some random dude. He wasn't even trying to buy nudes or anything, he only did it to get her to reply. And she's not even super hot, she's like a 6.5/10. So yeah, this is the type of shit we're competing with when we try to hit up chicks online.

3PointTakedown · 2023-11-06T04:22:21+00:00

Also, leave this god forsaken subreddit

3PointTakedown · 2023-11-06T04:21:20+00:00

So

ya'll still here huh

The second woman to come over this weekend just left

She really liked getting her hair pulled

Couple thoughts

This idea that "incels getting laid won't fix their problems!!!1111!" is complete and utter bullshit. I feel the best I've ever felt in my life
Play the tinder algorithm. You know how attractive you are. I am not especially attractive, even though I'm in good shape now I'm still pretty uggo. That means you should ONLY swipe right on people who you have a chance with. I cannot stress how important this is, it puts you at the top of everyone's feed. If any random woman downloads Tinder on her phone in Seattle I'm going to be in the top like...5 in her stack. I have the highest ELO in Seattle and a near 100% match rate because I know "Oh yeah she'll match with me".
Have pictures doing interesting things. Seems obvious but I have a BJJ competition match I hired a photographer for and it went amazing. Also a really good "photographic" piture of me hitting the heavy bag. Once I get a picture of me cage fighting I'm going all the way baby
Guys are fucking awful at sex. Oh my god they're just terrible. But I'm good at it. READ EROTICA. ALL MY YEARS OF BEING AND IN CEL AND GETTING OFF BY READING A WRITING EROTIA WERE PERFECT TRAINING. Every single fucking woman I've been with since I've had this all figured out has lost their goddamn mind. You just ask them what they want, and then you do that thing. Most guys apparently just go "I see hole, I fuck now" and think their dick is the second coming of Christ. It's not. Your dick ain't that good, she'll cum if you do what she says.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-06T04:10:11+00:00

Lol at Don Jr. asking the court artist to make him “look sexy”!

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-06T04:10:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dankmemes/s/TqlWl6nvil porn is unethical

hannahg000 · 2023-11-06T04:03:21+00:00

/u/monster_lilly this video came up on my fyp and it made me think of you 💕

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-06T03:52:06+00:00

It's called the cold approach but you have to be hot for it to work

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-06T03:44:29+00:00

Average guy looks like a cuck. What the actual fuck.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-06T03:32:43+00:00

song of the day: strangers by ethel cain

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-06T03:27:24+00:00

I want to mog women.ᕙ⁠(͡⁠°⁠‿⁠ ͡⁠°⁠)⁠ᕗ

scwizard · 2023-11-06T03:21:38+00:00

The point I'm trying to make is that aborting your baby because you can't afford childcare is the most evil shit.

Every baby deserves a chance a life, no matter what circumstances the mother is coming from or is in. Even if it's an incest baby or their mom is on heroin or something.

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T03:07:41+00:00

So do you believe asking teachers how you can improve your grade is unprofessional

Like IVE never done that but my english teacher said that it was unprofessional and that we should stop asking him

Tbh like im fearful for my life bc my english grade is at like 81% and he STILL hasnt graded my essay from like 2 wks ago worth 100 points i can not afford 3 Cs on my report card god help meeeeee

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T03:02:19+00:00

Bruh its really looking like i need a wealtjhy husband I cant be a girlboss

scwizard · 2023-11-06T02:53:22+00:00

babies need x and y and z and children need yada yada etc

My aunt did all these things for her only child. Her daughter grew up big, 6 feet tall, strong and athletic, physically healthy and wicked smart. She went off to college to persue her dreams. Made tons of interesting friends. Then eventually decided she was a man or something, got into a fight with her parents about that sort of thing, and went no contact with them. Her mom is in the hospital now.

Tbh you can work hard trying to be the perfect parent. You can also be a decent parent most of the time, but occasionally drop your kid at your mom's house, smoke a huge bowl and go to a sex party. You can even do meth all the time totally fuck up your entire life and have your kids raised by the family at my church that has like 9 foster kids. And honestly, it doesn't always make as much of a difference as people like to imagine it makes.

Yungeen Ace's mom had 12 kids and pretty much wasn't there for him at all and he is a millionaire famous rapper.

dbz__f · 2023-11-06T02:41:03+00:00

CMV: asking your partner to not watch porn is acceptable and reasonable provided you have sex with them regularly. If you’re in a committed relationship you should choose sex over porn in pretty much every scenario, and if you’re in a committed relationship and you don’t want your partner watching porn then you should provide them a sexual outlet

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-06T02:25:17+00:00

The grooming thread is absolutely brain-dead

It's almost as if men and women are different!!

armpitpics · 2023-11-06T02:15:11+00:00

A friend and her husband had a daughter a few years ago. People are insisting that they have another child. These people don't know that they're in the process of divorcing because of his legal troubles and alcoholism.

A friend and her partner who have been living together for a while get a lot of pressure from their parents to have a child. She got pregnant, but had to terminate the pregnancy because after paying for childcare and other baby expenses they wouldn't be able to pay rent, and none of them can afford staying home. Her family doesn't know that, but they still pressure her.

Another friend is 38 and been with her partner for more than 5 years. People are constantly giving her lectures about her fertility. This friend has a congenital issue that makes it next to impossible for her to get pregnant and to carry a pregnancy to term.

I find children cute, but I don't remember ever having the desire to have one of my own. I get people telling me to have children or to think more seriously about having children before even asking me if I plan to have them.

Why do so many people like to give unsolicited advice about something so personal without considering the possible circumstances that might be preventing someone from having children?

scwizard · 2023-11-06T02:00:10+00:00

I was roofied and assaulted last night.

Last night I was out with some friends at a bar, and I was roofied. I don’t remember most of the night, I’m not sure how I got home, and I only have very few vague memories from the night after my first drink.

I went to the ER this morning and had a sexual assault kit performed on me. There was evidence of trauma on my body, and it was pretty clear that I had been assaulted. I do not have any recollection of it, or any idea who did it.

I’m unsure what to do at this point.

Not once does she mention her friends again in this post. It boggles my mind.

I don't know how roofie memory loss works, but if it was the first drink that was drugged, then the circumstances of how she got that drink are also pretty important. Did she buy it herself. Did her friends buy a round? Did some guy buy it? Does she not remember how she got that drink?

Clearly she hasn't talked to her friends about what happened. Understandable due to her shame. But how does she feel about them after this? Also how do we know her friends aren't the ones that roofied her and then set her up with a rapist, in order to knock her down a peg?

scwizard · 2023-11-06T01:44:00+00:00

More healthy relationship examples. My cousin was traveling for a family thing and she left her baby at home with her husband, because she trusts her husband to care for her baby in her absence.

scwizard · 2023-11-06T01:42:13+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17oi3p7/my_husband_started_building_a_deck_the_one/

This is another instance of, the wife needs to go away for two weeks without her husband. If he can't handle things about her, or if this is the first time she feels alive in ages, then they need marriage counseling about it.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-06T01:24:16+00:00

Anyone here into the RedScare Podcast? I don't know anything about it, but I might check it out. Sounds like it's target demographic center left, vaguely conservative hipsters of which I would say that describes me perfectly.

PBtoast707 · 2023-11-06T01:09:12+00:00

I’m exactly 39 weeks pregnant now, and it’s so crazy to think that within 48 hours I could be holding my new baby. I’m starting to freak out a little bit.

scwizard · 2023-11-06T01:06:56+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17opag7/help_i_messed_up_so_hard_found_a_condom_in_my_bfs

This guy is pretty abusive. He gets angry at the drop of a hat, blames the fact that "it's a worknight" instead of self reflecting on it.

He gets pretty pissed (it's a worknight I get it)

He has her constantly on edge, worried she'll "make a mistake."

Our relationship was already very fragile

He's probably cheating on her.

I pick up one of his bags and a condom falls out OR was below the bag. It's a brand I don't recognise.

And yet... She's in a state of abject panic at the prospect he could break up with her. Feels like she literally will die without him.

I've been throwing up between bouts of panic for the past 45 minutes. I just want him to come home. I want to apologise. He hung up pretty damn quickly. I fucked up.

If the relationship is so miserable and fragile why is she so terrified of him ending it?

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-06T00:58:55+00:00

Going to flirt with chicks at the bar tonight without any alcohol. Not even one drink. Most guys need to be drunk in order to talk to chicks. But if you can do it stone cold sober, you're far ahead of the curve.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-06T00:26:58+00:00

Does anyone think "semen retention" sounds oddly perverted?

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-11-06T00:17:50+00:00

If My Husband Goes Down On Me, Something Terrible Might Happen to Him

Another headline from that Slate piece below. Lol. Dude has a doctors note for why he can't eat pussy.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-06T00:05:37+00:00

What are some good apps to meet people on? (Not necessarily dating apps)

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-05T23:55:39+00:00

About the grooming post.

There are guys flexing how they are so clean they make a list of all the places they clean while showering like "I clean my face, my armpits, my asshole, my feet, my hair, my dick"

Good job guy for having basic hygiene!

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-05T23:49:04+00:00

Q4All: Did you workout this week?

ratboi34 · 2023-11-05T23:28:47+00:00

Wtf was this aot ending? I drank too much to fully grasp it. Homeboy spoilered everybody, pretended to be cool and died as a simp?

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-11-05T23:27:38+00:00

Why do so many people believe that a person's IRL friends can tell them why they're not having much success with dating? Sure, it's possible, but so are a lot of other things. There's no guarantee that they'll know. They might have the same blind spots that you have. They might accidentally give you straight up wrong advice. They might not want to hurt your feelings and so avoid telling you what it is even if they know it exactly (this is probably the most likely scenario). What if the thing that is holding you back is something you can't change? What good would it do to tell you the truth?

"Ask your friends why no one wants to date you" is not very helpful.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-05T23:24:16+00:00

Waiting to reply to someone’s text to make them “miss you” is colossally stupid. If you aren’t doing anything that requires you to put your phone down, reply as soon as possible.

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-11-05T23:12:35+00:00

How would you feel if the woman you were seeing lied to you about her job? Not like telling you she’s an accountant when she’s actually an adult video performer but telling you she’s an admin assistant when she’s really a lawyer?

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2023-11-05T22:51:37+00:00

How do Jewish "men" cope with the fact that their women are addicted to Big Arab Cock?

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-05T22:47:24+00:00

Ragefuel

https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/06/average-looking-men-hot-woman-advice.html

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-05T22:43:00+00:00

It's my 10th anniversary and he made butter chicken. He's a keeper..

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T22:33:28+00:00

Ppl with redpill flair always stand out to me bc youll be scrolling and then youll just see red

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T22:29:04+00:00

My biggest insecurity is the fact that i cant tumble

adamjamal2AD · 2023-11-05T22:08:07+00:00

Why are they like this?

https://twitter.com/incelsco/status/1721189469196320941?s=46

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-05T14:05:49+00:00

Chad's live in another universe

I was at a party with some friends and a friend didn't wanna pay $40 for an uber. He called a girl, not even his gf and she came to pick us up at 3am.

The difference between above average and Chad is insane.

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-05T15:47:53+00:00

does anyone have that study from university of chicago which women rated the average male face as a 2.5 lol and men rated women normally? whenever these discussions come up and as predicted the women here will play dumb and pretend that men are actually the ones with inflated standards. we need to start showing the data immediately

iliyb · 2023-11-05T19:35:10+00:00

men when they're ready to settle down with young virgin girl:

https://preview.redd.it/5z8dgjnd0lyb1.jpeg?width=311&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8888bb3d535fb2a02403ffe1a1082da994713b80

dbz__f · 2023-11-05T05:03:56+00:00

First

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-05T05:14:34+00:00

md8716 · 2023-11-05T05:44:18+00:00

You're the man now dog and all the memes that spawned from it was the absolute pinnacle of humor on the internet and I'll die on that fucking hill.

I was not a fan of all your base belong to us, though. That felt a little contrived.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-05T10:56:47+00:00

The average guy according to u/InjectAdrenochrome (I agree with this). Here is how I compare to Mr average, I offer:

Average salary (though for my age it's above average)
5'7
135 lbs (zero muscle)
Above average levels of nice
Average levels of generosity
Above average IQ (now sure how much, probably around 120)
Average hobbies and interests (video games / board games / reddit)
Above average sense of humor though I'm biased
Average education (college drop out, got an easy degree)
Extremely below average ability to fix appliances (I basically can't fix shit)
Average job (payroll accountant, absolutely not passionate about it)
Below average ambition (I don't care about my career at all, will only try a little bit because my job is going to get replaced by AI)
Average dedication to doing chores (half assed, I hate chores, though I'd be willing to hire a maid and can afford it)

Bonus: very below average in the bedroom

Fuck. I hate to say it, but looks like I'm even worse than Mr average hahaha. I really got a lucky finding a gf, didn't I?

nexkell · 2023-11-05T11:13:16+00:00

Stats and critical thinking is so hard, but hey men are bad!

Keeenw · 2023-11-05T13:31:05+00:00

Despite getting no matches and being invisible to women I get a lot of matches and messages from gay men (like 100+ likes in a couple of hours I did as a test) and I sometimes get approached by them when I am standing alone for a while in a club. I went to a gay club once because someone from my social circle was gay and I got approached like 3-4 times.

Maybe I give off the vibe that I am into men (I don’t believe so) but is this the closest experience non-chad men can have how it feels like just to be a regular girl going on tinder or outside ?

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-05T14:02:20+00:00

Now that I think about it, this "men only seem to be more horny/eager because they don't have enough friends and don't understand their own feelings" is kind of similar to the classic "women don't even enjoy sex, they just do it to extract resources and for validation".

Both is rooted in one gender's perspective, considers that one to be the "normal" one, and it pathologizes the other side based on like the most shallow or unhealthy stereotypical manifestations of it.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-05T14:23:09+00:00

Nothing hotter than a woman that is always cold and doesn't know her way around her own town.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-05T14:57:40+00:00

I hate when you try to look up fashion stuff for men and it's always stupid looking people like this. This is what I imagine the guys here aspire to be.

https://preview.redd.it/wqqtqhvsmjyb1.png?width=424&format=png&auto=webp&s=3f138d28822ec6b6e5a2a65500d5460c5587024f

Dusttyy · 2023-11-05T17:25:37+00:00

I have had these two male friends for a long time, both habitually single. One is an 8/10 looks-wise with some unique/desirable features. He's a tax attorney, does extremely well for himself, and even former military. Definitely introverted and quiet on the surface, but he can open up and be fun. The other is is a 6/10 at best. He works for a professional sports team (front office) but is severely underpaid and has six figures worth of student loan debt. He's very goofy and outgoing, almost to a fault at our age.

The latter absolutely cleans up with women, while the former can hardly get a date. I saw the dichotomy in real life last time while we were out... a woman literally wrinkling her nose in disgust when Dude #1 told her what he does, only for that same woman enthusiastically ask about Dude #2's job. She went on to ask about how often he travels with the team (he almost never does) and what his favorite city is. Dude #1 travels waaaayyy more with his corporate gig, not to mention being stationed in a half dozen places across the world while serving in the military.

Yeah, Dude #2's relationships ultimately fail when they realize he doesn't have the stability... but at least he gets a chance (not to mention he's embraced the short term fling lifestyle). I guess the ideal partner is someone probably in between these two guys, but it really throws out the whole "women just want money" belief.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-05T17:31:20+00:00

If you haven’t got your body, finances, and mental state in order, the last thing you should be worried about is women.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-05T18:01:36+00:00

Myron is the Top RP content creator for a reason.

Unlike most RP guys, he went to uni and graduated, worked a normal job and was successful at it.

Most RP content creators haven't been successful at any thing other than making YouTube videos. They aren't competent or believable.

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-11-05T19:02:58+00:00

Men stay snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. I commented “whoa soandso on this guys pic on hinge. And he immediately accused me of insulting him.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-05T19:15:22+00:00

How much do you agree on “date the potential”?

It’s just not something I believe in personally. We evaluate on the knowns and actions - they don’t need to be all the way at the end goal, but they should have a plan in place and be actively working toward the goal.

purplish_possum · 2023-11-05T19:20:27+00:00

Got permanently banned from another subreddit.

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T19:29:07+00:00

Guysss just tried kenyan food and it was superbussin i dare everyone to try a different countrys food right now

afk_row · 2023-11-05T19:41:55+00:00

Women when they are ready to settle down

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-05T19:58:21+00:00

Women love nothing more than to make fun of unattractive men especially balding ones or with a weak chin. They are mean-spirited.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-05T21:46:33+00:00

Women if there was a button that would let all sub-5 men (except your male relatives and friends) disappear from existence would you push it ?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-05T21:34:03+00:00

Florida mom sues school district after she said she was banned from volunteering due to OnlyFans page

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-05T06:46:51+00:00

I don’t want to meet men and go on dates, I want to watch TV with the same man every night. Domestic monotony sounds so pleasant.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-05T09:37:09+00:00

No matter how many times I hit “disinterested”, Instagram keeps trying to show me the most misandrist shit. They’re not even hiding it anymore.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-05T16:18:33+00:00

Men cant win in either scenarios -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17nvw1a/is_30yo_virgin_man_a_red_flag/

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17o7zr0/why_do_guys_always_seem_to_rush_into_having_sex/

Life on enhanced hard mode

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-05T18:41:29+00:00

It’s so strange seeing people talk about the male loneliness/sexlessness issue as if it’s a political subject that we as a country need to fix. I’m a woman. When no one wanted to fuck me or have a relationship, that was on ME. I didn’t have a good appearance or good socialization skills. It was all my fault. I take full responsibility because you can’t force someone to like someone else.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-11-05T21:29:47+00:00

Are good looking men more likely to be right wingers?

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-05T20:57:04+00:00

How do American women feel about guys who don’t watch or play sports? I can count on my fingers the amount of guys I’ve met who don’t enjoy watching or playing sports.

CradleCity · 2023-11-05T05:20:03+00:00

There's a line from an old Kate Bush song that goes: "The more I think about sex, the better it gets".

I have come to terms with the fact I'll never experience sex and romance for life at my age, and one of the things that helps is the opposite of that line:

The less I think about sex (and relationships, and (mis)communication between genders), the better it gets.

However, I get a bit of dissonance from wanting to 'be asexual' but still getting interested in a theoretical level about sex, relationships and so forth.

It's 5 AM here, this mini-rant probably doesn't make any sense, but I guess I want to know more, even though this 'knowledge' will never be useful and could risk making me a bit jaded or cynical.

Or just plain wary of even risking to feeling romantically/sexually attracted to a person (irl), as I've been for quite some time (last time I was genuinely attracted to a woman was 9/10 years ago).

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-05T05:28:03+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8kaBRfKi1c

I miss the 90’s music.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-05T05:59:25+00:00

at what point should i worry that i’m going to die alone?

WilliamWyattD · 2023-11-05T06:41:02+00:00

Been exploring why physical appearance is increasingly important in dating decisions.

I'm wondering if part of it is that absolute levels and not just relative ones matter a lot. Maybe things like so many men having no style (everyone going casual), or the obesity epidemic, don't just wash out if everyone is obese.

The research seems to show that especially for women, a potential mate's physical appearance has diminishing marginal returns when it gets past a certain point. But maybe the issue is that so many people are below that point in absolute terms. Today, two 5s who are equally attractive (or unattractive) may simply not be as drawn to one another as in another era when both were slim, worse more elegant clothing regularly, and so on.

Maffioze · 2023-11-05T08:00:12+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/cl4PDDzkxt

Another example of a ppd man making a claim with truth to it but choosing the absolute worst example to support it, resulting in people talking more about his example than his actual claim 🙄🙄

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-05T08:13:36+00:00

I was reading TwoXChromosomes. Many comments from women say they are fine without sex. However men are desperate for sex. Men want sex more than women, therefore men should have multiple wives

hannahg000 · 2023-11-05T09:10:27+00:00

my villain origin story is all the times the teachers called names for group projects and after my name somebody would say “who?”

Keeenw · 2023-11-05T10:12:19+00:00

What do you think about the theory of getting a dog to attract women ?

My incel friend who hasn’t spoken to any girl for years recently got a dog and has been opened by a couple of girls (both dog owners and non) while walking around because they found the dog so cute. It seems like the dog de-creeped/uncreeped my unattractive incel friend.

And would it be better to get a bigger dog as walking around with a tiny one might look a little feminine ?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-11-05T11:00:28+00:00

Sick of being just shy of what I could achieve if I knuckled down. Starting to excercise more seriously, and get into running. Still not going to a gym, calisthenic stuff.

Anyone got any recommendations?

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-05T11:39:23+00:00

I miss the aughts, when I had a simple plan and I was a kid and life was a nightmare. Now I'm an adult, and I'm wishing for the days it was a nightmare instead of a reality.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-11-05T12:05:54+00:00

TFW you take a week off the gym and upon returning you realize how far set back you are strength wise. Leg day was a bitch today.

scwizard · 2023-11-05T13:41:47+00:00

Would you boink hookers if that was legal? Like in Germany?

As for me, religious objections aside, I just feel like even if it was legal there would be shady shit that I dunno if I'd be comfortable with.

Besides condoms are lame.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-05T14:27:10+00:00

The Attack on Titan Finale came out. Can we shut this sub down for a day?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-05T15:26:24+00:00

DAY 5 GIVE IT UP FOR DAY 5 EVERYONE

https://preview.redd.it/d3sure2zrjyb1.png?width=1242&format=png&auto=webp&s=c0abdfb31cf3744e94146a72fa44baa8e89b164e

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-05T15:41:07+00:00

https://twitter.com/Trossardinho1/status/1720793972182810652

Here's an example of a person who can be considered Ugly. Not average, not below. Like actually ugly. With those hands he probably can pull though. Man has almost chimp like arms

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-05T15:54:03+00:00

women are more likely than men to contract STDS than men. Sexually transmitted infections and female reproductive health | Nature Microbiology

"Women are disproportionately affected by sexually transmitted infections (STIs) throughout life."

because the vagina is an exposed inner surface and the penis has only a small exposed inner surface.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-05T16:19:08+00:00

Notice how every one in the comments is attributing this to imaginary attachment styles and not her being a toxic & drama loving person.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17o48cx/why_do_i_become_attached_to_men_when_i_feel_they/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-05T16:19:34+00:00

Treat her like a queen, get treated like a subject -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17nn49p/just_dropped_off_the_girl_im_seeing_at_the/

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-11-05T17:15:53+00:00

A common pattern I see here is that someone will yell at a man who's having trouble dating, and they'll tell him something like "you should try treating women like people for a start." And then the man says, yes, I am doing that, but it doesn't work. Then the person yelling at him says something like "treating women as humans is the bare minimum, that doesn't make you an attractive person."

Can you see the bait-and-switch they did there? The people yelling at men who have trouble dating intentionally give out not-advice. Only saying the first step doesn't get you "all the way there," which is what we started out talking about.

You can swap out "treat women like human beings" with many other standard tropes.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-11-05T17:55:09+00:00

Men feel entitled to sex because their genes survive and propagate better when they feel entitled

afk_row · 2023-11-05T19:02:28+00:00

I wonder if it’s possible for me to learn Mongolian throat singing. I really like it.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-05T19:10:12+00:00

Cat and tigers share 95.6% of genes. Cats diverged 10.8 million years ago.

Humans and chimps share 98.8% of genes. Humans diverged 9.3 to 6.5 million years ago.

Would you say cats are so different from tigers that the behavior of tigers can't be at least partly interpolated to cats?

Would you say humans are so different from chimps that the behavior of chimps can't be at least partly interpolated to humans?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-05T19:54:27+00:00

My man body wants an 18yo, please accept that

DerayRevan · 2023-11-05T19:59:24+00:00

"What is the Your Ranking of What's Important in a Relationship"

For me personally

She gotta be hot, that's a bare minimum if am claiming her as my girlfriend

She has to like me as much as l like her, and sometimes even more

That's about it, all the other stuff can come after this two

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T20:04:52+00:00

Guys i want a famous soccer player bf but i live in am*rica wahh

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T20:15:30+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SbgEtr/

Nahh cuz i actually start doing the most random shit if i have a lot of homework i dont feel like doing

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T20:16:31+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8Sbpm2V/

Shesss on to something

TroidMemer · 2023-11-05T20:18:02+00:00

I feel like this sub is turning me into an incel and I don’t like it.

Gladboys · 2023-11-05T20:53:27+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorchenyong1/video/7295811836182662431?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7289745634940290603

aint shit to smile about

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Gladboys · 2023-11-05T05:17:40+00:00

How do you define masculinity? I see people bring up lack of masculinity as the main reason so many men struggle with women, but what traits do people actually consider masculine?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-05T06:00:38+00:00

I just clicked on a cute puppy video and the next recommended video was a video about dogs getting poisoned. Why does Youtube do this?

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-05T07:35:09+00:00

Where do I find an intelligent nerdy girl?

dbz__f · 2023-11-05T07:45:09+00:00

Womenses, if your husband/boyfriend told you he did a big poo in the morning and is feeling relieved would you feel disgusted or happy for him?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-05T12:08:59+00:00

It’s quite useless to look at averages if you don’t look at the pond you’re fishing in. Your location, age, socioeconomic status, etc. are important factors.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-11-05T12:46:48+00:00

Do not want to talk about the suicide or Bubba's alternative lifestyle choices.

https://www.lee.k12.al.us/cms/lib/AL02210054/Centricity/Domain/3087/wedding%20family.jpg

https://opelikaobserver.com/smiths-station-mayor-f-l-bubba-copeland-receives-individual-of-the-year-award/

Is Bubba Copeland and his wife an example of ugly fat dude being able to score a pretty cute woman? She's a solid alabama 6/10. Get pastorpilled?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-05T13:44:52+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/fa0rgt3w9jyb1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=58bd2b091aa4a39d8e787eade3d2ac627780a169

is this why men can't be platonic friends with women

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T13:44:55+00:00

Wowww day ruined honestly idk why women have to be so rude and non confrontational

I asked my mom if i could wear something of hers, no matter how much i described it to her she swore she didnt know what i was talking about. I left the room so i could get my phone to show her a picture of it. then i heard my grandma trying to describe it to her as well she even reminded her who gave it to her, and my mom basically told her that she knew what i was talking about she just didnt want to share with me which OK DAMN you could have just told me so and not wasted my time. I dont understand

Now i dont even want to go anymore

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-05T14:49:56+00:00

Why do you think men are so against sliding into the DMs? I always try to suggest it, but guys want to stick to Tinder which they know is designed to work against them. I have had a lot of women in my past. To the point I don't remember half of their names. Most of these were DMing on niche communities like MySpace when I was in high school and Tumblr when I was in my 20s. I did work the dating apps, but I would prefer OKCupid and Plenty of Fish because you didn't have to match before messaging. I'm out of that game now, but honestly, get on Twitter/X, TikTok, or Instagram and be creative. Search hashtags that are things near you or find someones account you know in person and do some hunting on their friends list. Back in my early days I would legit search random girl names on MySpace to see who came up. If I found a girl that was cute and went to a nearby school I'd add her. This is what I mean when I say men have to be predatory. Like you have to reverse engineer these systems and find ways to make things work in your favor. Think outside the box. And for the love of God, stop Stacy chasing. No, that e-thot with 364k followers is not going to follow you back or respond, but the "mid" girl likely will.

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T14:50:06+00:00

Nvm guyss she let me wear it

itzReborn · 2023-11-05T14:56:24+00:00

So I’m a big anime/manga fan and last week the anime club at my school had a cosplay event or whatever but fuck man do they seem…uncool for lack of better words. The event took place in an open space and they were just blasting anime music and some of the people around were getting annoyed etc.

I know I’m suppose to get out my comfort zone and meet people and meeting people with similar interest is a good start but idk if I’m judging some of these people too harshly or what but I can’t see myself actively hanging with.

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-05T15:21:00+00:00

Assuming AI sex robots become real

After cumming inside of it

Does it clean itself or do you have to clean the cum out?

antisplatter · 2023-11-05T15:52:07+00:00

Sportfucking is my favorite PPD word

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-05T16:23:55+00:00

I'm a Chad, AMA

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-05T17:06:30+00:00

Some things are better left unsaid. There's more ways to communicate than literally info dumping the contents of your mind with absolutely zero tact or theory of mind.

"Hey honey I had a dream I fucked your friend and you at the same time. Im do glad we are 100% honest with each other all the time no matter what"

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-05T17:29:44+00:00

Which one would you choose for a long term relationship:

A. Has no university degree but earns slightly above average.

B. Has a university degree but earns less than average.

They’re equal in other ways. A is not likely to get a degree over time and B is not likely to earn more over time.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-11-05T17:38:07+00:00

Do more attractive females get harassed or god forbid assaulted more?

Do females who wear skimpier clothes get harassed or god forbid assaulted more?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-05T17:39:50+00:00

Men feel entitled to sex because prostitution is illegal. Legalize prostitution and men will stop complaining.

Keeenw · 2023-11-05T17:53:50+00:00

This is what an ideal woman should look like. No cazy lip injection; IG fakeness; just pure beauty

https://preview.redd.it/svinshsaikyb1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2708608a7d19c15620f00b1baae19d1c718b30a5

Keeenw · 2023-11-05T17:56:38+00:00

After sex androids women are also starting to rage at AI renditions of beautiful women whereas they are the ones with unrealistic expectations of what a man should look like.

https://preview.redd.it/maibg5rpikyb1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=03322481b3bb8eb2f86361a9abe8f864f1f82c0d

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-11-05T18:30:11+00:00

I must confess. That my loneliness is killing me nooooowww. Jk. That's not my confession.

I'm not who I've said I am. I couldn't quit this train wreck of a place.

I fear, I'll be banned forever. Farewell. 👋🏻

old_new_age · 2023-11-05T19:19:04+00:00

I am back home after living in a crack house for a week and a half

-drugs are a fantastic method for getting women although highly unethical

-being a good person has nothing to do with getting laid, if you're a horrible person and want to get laid you just have to find a woman who's familiar with and addicted to your genre of horribleness

-weed sucks

-I didn't fuck anyone I mostly minded my business and played board games with my friend who is stuck living in the crack house until he gets a better job (I was visiting)

-crackheads aren't good at cleaning up after themselves

macone235 · 2023-11-05T19:27:56+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/shWwC24BEAo?feature=share

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-05T19:28:18+00:00

Incels created redpill/blackpill/looksmax ideology on niche forums around 10 years ago. Now you have chad influencers like Brett Maverick or Austin Dunham plagiarizing the content; making it mainstream and earning money from it. This always annoyed me as I browsed and posted on forums like lookism.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-05T19:28:32+00:00

Why do women think it's shameful for men to pay for sex? Do any men think it's shameful to pay for sex?

DerayRevan · 2023-11-05T19:49:28+00:00

This guy wilt slept with 20k women and your telling me he didn't get any STDs ?

Na, he must of been doing something we don't know 😳

He should of taught magic his technique, to prevent him from getting stds

scwizard · 2023-11-05T19:58:50+00:00

After my divorce from my first husband who was abusive, I entered a whirlwind second marriage that lasted just long enough for me to get pregnant. We were both seriously messed up at the time. He disappeared a couple weeks after the baby was born and I had no idea where he was until I found him through an internet search years later.

We are both in much better places now. My daughter adores her dad and is so glad she finally has him in her life. He lives far away so we went out to visit him a couple of summers ago. Then last year, she went to visit for a week during Christmas.

Something happened then that seriously worried me...

You're burying the lede here girl. What drugs were you and him doing? You need to be honest about your past like a big girl.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-05T20:04:59+00:00

If you have an average face you are going to be rated a 2.5/10 by women. They don't make any distinction between ugly; below average and average men.

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T20:07:19+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8Sbp4ws/

TWO HOT BRITISH PEOPLE RELEASING A SONG AHHH

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-05T20:07:41+00:00

We can quantify female privilege.

In the sugar dating market, men are willing to pay roughly $2k-3k per month for a sugar baby.
Women can experience both sides of it. She can become a sugar baby and get $2k-$3k/month and she can get the male sugar baby experience (what men have to pay $2k-3k a month for) for free in regular dating
Female privilege is $2k-3k a month
For equality, men deserve $2k-3k a month as universal basic social/romantic income

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-05T20:11:48+00:00

Imo there is an overlooked type of mindfuck/hurt for male SA victims, which is that women normally don't give sex to men as a "present". That's not how sexual interactions go in real life. But many men dream about lucking out, about being able to have sex with a sexy woman just because, which is unrealistic for most men. And so when something like that actually happens, eg. a woman takes advantage of a younger, inexperienced guy, it can be like "too good". Like getting a taste of heaven in a way that's just incompatible with real life, an anomaly. It's the same thing that women absolutely refuse and find ridiculous in the sexless-men discussions, when they go like "we aren't gonna just randomly fuck these horny guys cause they want it." Which is of course understandable... except stuff like that does happen, actually. It's rare, but sometimes even conventionally attractive women set their mind to having sex with a man, and they initiate forcefully, they take charge and get what they want. And then the discomfort for the man comes from how unreal it was. Like getting a drug that only exists in another universe, but a limited amount got over to this world and now you are addicted to it without ever being able to experience it again.

To me, it's not out of the question that some of the men who have this above experience end up convincing themselves that they were similarly hurt how women would be in their position, the more classic and straightforward "I got raped and it was horrible, I'm traumatized", because that's the only way society can look at discomfort and hurt in these situations. And their desire for the discomfort to be heard by others is just that strong.

Source: myself.

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T21:30:37+00:00

I want to learn a full twisting layout by august of next year

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-11-06T04:47:31+00:00

Good for you dude 👍

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-05T20:52:13+00:00

Never watch a horror movie for the first time with a date. If she sees you getting scared or surprised by jump scares she is going to lose attraction. Watch it right before the date so you know where the jump scares are.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-05T20:48:33+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/redditmoment/s/2RTPDtoMQe only Redditors would equate porn to food and sleep 😂

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-05T20:46:37+00:00

Redpillers choose a woman based on the approval of other men. They want to feel like winners or something.

Redpillers care about the opinions of other men too much. Bluepillers care about the opinions of women too much

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-11-05T20:45:01+00:00

I want someone that doesn’t make me feel cheap and used.

With all this talk about how men view relationships, it does feel like no matter how few people I have sex with, the man will still consider me “used goods” even if he’s the only one that was using them.

It seems like the ideal dating scenario for men is for women to be helplessly attached to them and for men to be able to trade or abandon women that no longer serve them like Pokémon cards or something. Only then would some men deem things “fair”.

I’ve attempted to look at dating from kens perspective. Try to imagine what it would be like to just be a utility and it kinda hit me that some men view women as a utility, but it’s a utility that they consider to be valuable.

Then, when I take steps to make myself useful beyond potential utility as a wife/mother/sex partner, those qualities are looked down on or ignored by men because now I’ve “wasted what they really wanted” which was my youth.

Something that was already fleeting and momentary.

So now, I’ve lost weight, keep myself looking good and I don’t mind a first meeting being to grab a quick cup of coffee. And the attention and interest from men is there. But now I wonder if every man is just looking at me and calculating how sexually beneficial I will be to him in the long run.

Just some random thoughts I had today.

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2023-11-05T20:37:48+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/17nygy6/my_f20_boyfriend_m21_just_broke_my_heart_with_one/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

I swear to god women play the dumbest fucking games.

Keeenw · 2023-11-05T12:52:38+00:00

I’ve heard women on female forums say the fact they find guys like Tom Holland or Ryan Gosling attractive as proof they don’t only care about looks or chad.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-05T18:23:50+00:00

Most guys are lying when they say nobody wants to date them. It’s just nobody they find attractive.

happy_discus · 2023-11-05T11:00:22+00:00

Yesterday I went out again. My best friend tried to play wingwoman again, failing miserably again. She's getting visibly frustrated introducing all these women to me and them just refusing to make conversations with me. I already told her: "Your efforts are futile, please stop, you're gonna get hurt." I really don't want her to get hurt because she is really trying but I just won't happen.

y2kjanelle · 2023-11-05T05:43:54+00:00

If the average man is so great and all of us women are “missing out” and are shallow bitches yada yada yada, I’m inclined to know exactly what we’re missing out on.

Another woman tried posting it and a bunch of men literally straight up harassed her in the comments posting insults every minute and not answering the question.

So average guys, what are women missing out on? How are y’all any different from Chad except for not having the opportunity to act like him??? Would you really actually treat women well? Love them as individuals and be amazing partners…or is this all just a facade to trick women into believing a fantasy. That if they just go lower in their standards, they’ll be treated like a princess?

Be honest. Most people don’t have any shame here anyways 😂

bottleblank · 2023-11-05T15:09:03+00:00

Are the mods here just deathly allergic to anything resembling open discussion? For a debate sub there sure seem to be an awful lot of discussions shut down for pedantic rubber-stamp reasons, at the expense of largely civil exploratory communication. Often topics which might provide greater opportunity for insight (in as much as this place ever does).

Sillysheila · 2023-11-05T20:36:52+00:00

Can everyone give me a succinct one line definition of what a Chad is?

I dunno I get confused because people seem to have different definitions of the term.

cactusbeam777 · 2023-11-05T20:34:19+00:00

Do people who claim no pill not realize that that IS blue pill? By definition blue pill is just the default mainstream no pill state. I would argue black pill is also just angry blue pill guys.

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-11-05T20:33:42+00:00

Men! What’s the bare minimum you require for someone in order to even entertain the idea of a long term-committed monogamous relationship with them?

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T20:26:58+00:00

Who wants to buy me a pink iphone 15 🥰

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-11-05T20:25:40+00:00

This post complaining about how therapy doesn't help with dating sounds like an incel, except she says she's a 30 year old woman: https://old.reddit.com/r/TalkTherapy/comments/17o06y8/so_sick_of_therapists_insisting_i_can_just_be/

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-05T20:21:28+00:00

Coffee should only be consumed black with creamer. Not like Starbucks where they decide to put 100gs of sugar in each cup.

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