Daily Community Chat Megathread

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-06T20:25:30+00:00

Every single straight woman here who are currently using OLD apps should try their luck in lesbian dating and give PPD their field report.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-06T20:20:26+00:00

Thunderball (1965) is the best James Bond movie, CMV

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-06T20:12:07+00:00

Don't date these women:

Feminists.
Cheaters.
Habitual liars.
With male friends.
With a high body count.
With abnormal hair color.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-06T20:10:32+00:00

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After making a bumble less than 2 hours ago. How am I supposed to make a meaningful connection

Twinseo09 · 2023-11-06T19:58:36+00:00

Glad men are admitting men LIE all the time to women when dating. Now I don’t have to worry about anyone claiming women should have just known he was an asshole.

scwizard · 2023-11-06T19:27:32+00:00

Flight from Miami to L.A. chatted up the gal next to me and 15 minutes in she says “follow me to the bathroom. It was a wide body plane with 2 longer bathrooms at the back. Good times but found out after that she was flying in to see her fiancé.

Some girls need to like chill...

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-06T19:15:58+00:00

If I were single I wouldn't be interested in trying OLD. I definitely care about physical attraction, but what catches my eye is the way man moves and carries himself. You can be hot without those factors, but I wouldn't be interested, and you can't get that from a bio.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-06T19:13:16+00:00

I'm shocked there isn't much of a turntable on women for preferring tall men with men preferring taller women, not because they're attracted to taller women, but because they don't want to have their sons be cursed with a short height.

scwizard · 2023-11-06T19:12:43+00:00

Some girl randomly send me a Snapchat after adding me. Didn’t know who she was so I asked why she added me, she said it was from quick add. Asked her where she was from she said the same city as me. Next thing you know she’s sending me nudes. I’m like nah this is some kinda scam so I just was like “yeah you should quit playing before I send you a Uber” the next message was her address. She lived about 6 miles from me. Sent her a Uber (down the block from my house I’m not crazy) waited to see her get out alone and then walked back to my house, had sex a few times before she left. Still craziest thing that’s ever happened to me but no doubt I probably won’t do that again

Just wanted to add that we actually did become friends and occasionally hangout but I guess she had just gotten of a relationship when she added me and I just happen to the lucky guy that was cute enough for her to say “fuck standards”

Idk if the story is real or fake I'm just annoyed that he never revealed how she got his snap.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-06T19:10:21+00:00

Being angry at the women you wanna have sex with must be a special kind of hell.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-06T19:08:09+00:00

Talking in therapy is way more harder than I anticipated and it was only about 30 minutes or so. Idk what it is but talking about my feelings and problems are anxiety inducing. It had me stimming kinda hard as I was rubbing my hands together everywhere the entire time. Luckily it was online so I didn't have the camera down there so the therapist didn't see me. I can't imagine how difficult it's going to be when I actually start having real sessions.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-06T19:07:38+00:00

CMV: A lot of conclusions from the world of evolutionary psych suffer from neurosexism....

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-06T18:59:58+00:00

Most of the happiest older couples didn’t settle. They have those “I couldn’t keep my eyes off of her” or “I had a thing for him and was so happy when he asked me to dance” type of stories. I used to love hearing them when I was a kid.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-06T18:52:53+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8qm4o-ecizU

Brutal watch. Take solace in the fact that even your worst cold approach probably won't be this bad.

mummydontknow · 2023-11-06T18:47:20+00:00

I can't believe I chose video games over this life:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/pnTbKjQEQM

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-06T18:46:01+00:00

Okay. Cakes are in the oven. Kitchen is destroyed. But they smell fucking delicious

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-06T18:42:45+00:00

Because in the real world, on average, men and women want the same amount of sex.

Women don't differ from men in desire for sex. Some want it more, some less, some enjoy one night stands, some don't. It varies person to person, libido to libido.

Agree or disagree?

scwizard · 2023-11-06T18:40:52+00:00

Who been hit by layoffs? We just did a 10%.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-06T18:26:21+00:00

"Just wear glasses bro you'll look intelligent and sophisticated to women"

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No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-06T18:23:31+00:00

Man that voicecel comment really made me think about how much there is wrong with me. The only things that are good about me are my hair and that I am fit, everything else is pretty below average.

Even then my hairline has receded over the past 2 years despite my efforts to stop it and will continue to do so probably seeing how the hair of the men in my family are. And my body is barely ok cause I am bordeline underweight and have issues in gaining weight despite eating more than some of my fatter friends, but atleast my body fat percentage is pretty decent and that's when I am trying to become fat lol.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-06T18:18:12+00:00

Remember to clean your ass good. Your GF wouldn’t appreciate you leaving streaks on her bedsheets

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-06T18:16:44+00:00

I wish a woman would approach and ask ME out for once. I hate that's apparently something that's too much to ask for. I hate always being the one to make moves. Being desired one time is literally all I ask.

CringeButCorrect · 2023-11-06T18:16:25+00:00

Ladies, when a man gets sexually harrassed/assaulted by a woman, or even a man, the WORST thing you can say is "now you know how women feel"

Bright-Personality70 · 2023-11-06T18:03:02+00:00

It's crazy how low people rate celebrities on reddit. I've just been old zendaya wouldn't turn heads if she walked down the street and victoria beckham is a 4-5/10 (multiple people think that).

If a woman is head hunted to be in a girl band, is cast as spidermans gf and marries one of the worlds most eligible men - chances are they are very pretty.

Reddit is pretty bad at rating men as well though I cant remember who specifically.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-06T17:48:47+00:00

Even if the chick who turned you down before you got rich/famous said yes to you there’s like a 99% chance you would’ve left her and upgraded to someone else anyway if we are keeping it all the way real. And that’s assuming the dude originally ever wanted to seriously date her instead of just smashing

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-06T17:38:30+00:00

I think one of the easiest ways a woman can fuck up her life is by dating an insecure man.

Men are so (mentally, emotionally, physically) destructive when they're scared, I feel sorry for anyone caught up in the maelstrom of their bullshit.

Dusttyy · 2023-11-06T17:30:46+00:00

All men on PPD--after typing out a post, comment, reply, whatever... before hitting Send, get down and do 10 pushups. I bet the quality of this sub goes up quite a bit.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-06T17:18:24+00:00

My falcons lost to a QB who just landed in the city a few days ago and didn’t take any reps in practice. Fuck this team man

Peacesquad · 2023-11-06T17:17:55+00:00

I can’t take attention whores seriously. Like bruh how many thirst traps can the average woman post online? Whats the end goal? Jesus lmao

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-06T17:17:25+00:00

How important is voice to women? People have made it clear to me that mine is high pitched and young sounding so I don't know if that hurts me in any way.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-06T17:09:51+00:00

Are there men who believe in zodiac signs?

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-06T17:09:19+00:00

i dare a single blue piller here to make a tinder for an average guy and get consistent dates with average women. like u all keep saying this market is fair, ok so prove it.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-06T17:08:58+00:00

6'3 is OK

6'2 is basic entry-level

Women the meme gender

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SianOiseau · 2023-11-06T17:05:30+00:00

I've read that cashew milk is the kind of non-dairy milk, but I don't really like the taste. Oat milk is better. Although, yeah, cashew milk has a milder taste.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-06T17:01:23+00:00

Life on easy mode -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17owv9s/dating_out_of_my_league/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-06T16:57:13+00:00

All male feminists are neutered betas. Proof -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17mrlqw/women_do_you_want_to_be_approached_by_attractive/

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-06T16:52:36+00:00

Is anyone actually gonna play MWIII? I stopped playing COD around December.

sine120 · 2023-11-06T16:47:01+00:00

I haven't really worked out since high school. I barely did anything this weekend and my arms feel like jelly. I used to do 100 push-ups a day in sets of 20-30, now I can barely do 10 at a time. Ugh.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-06T16:41:25+00:00

Oh no GrassToucher blocked me again mid debate lol

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-06T16:38:03+00:00

Got a little therapy session in two hours. It's just to determine if I need to get on medication and to get into therapy since I told her about my depression and speculated autism. Of course, my anxiety is shooting up per usual. I'm really not used to talking about my problems, at least not irl. But I'm glad something is finally happening. I've been depressed for nearly a year being a NEET because I found it so hard to come forward about the depression and autism.

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-06T16:31:11+00:00

men are addicted to sex, women are addicted to being delusional about their true place in society which is next to billy and not chad. discuss. "ANAKIN LET THE HATE FLOW THROUGH YOU!!!" no but like chill lol

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-06T16:30:03+00:00

Question for men who have a serious long term partner: Do you try to take interest in the hobbies your partner has but that you don’t necessarily like?

ratboi34 · 2023-11-06T16:24:21+00:00

What are your favourite things to cook for date night dinners?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-06T16:09:23+00:00

I feel like a stranger nowadays. I don't like any of the current fashion trends, music, or topics of conversation. Last night I checked out the Red Scare Podcast thinking it would be up my alley, but I find myself asking why I was listening to this, I'm not interested in any of the social commentary. There was a period in the mid 2010s where the music on the radio was decent enough, but now everything has this laid back california swag vibe. There are about 7 songs they play on repeat and I don't really like any of them. And I find it odd seeing people wearing parachute pants and dressing like their parents took them school clothes shopping and said "It's alright honey, you'll grow into it."

I know the pendulum will eventually swing back and we're just in a cultural lull right now, but jeez, everything sucks and nothing is fun.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-11-06T16:02:06+00:00

I was talking to a highschool teacher who said she thought it was disgusting how the football/wrestling/basketball coaches privately talk about their players as "tools of war" rather than people.

The thing is, being talked about in that way delights me. In highschool I always enjoyed being Coach Blodgett's spear

I'm kind of fine being dehumanized and objectified as long as someone recognizes my worth and thinks im useful. I wonder if this is a common difference between men and women

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-06T15:53:49+00:00

As someone who never struggled in the job market and likely never will, I never had any issue having empathy for people struggling to find jobs or people having shit jobs that are ruining their physical and mental health.

I never felt like those people ended up in such a bad situation because of a "skill issue" or that they could easily improve their life by working harder and studying more.

Interestingly though, in this sub, I've seen quite a few people who have never struggled in the dating market (and likely never will), but who somehow feel qualified to say that incels are unsuccessful because they just don't do X or Y or because they haven't put enough effort.

I wonder what cause this? Ego problem? What do you think?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-06T15:53:04+00:00

6 days. I don't feel too guilty about it tbh. The only reason I was doing this was to practice self control because I struggle with over eating. I was never really a coomer or anything, I just do it at night to help me sleep. I might restart. Tbh, I will restart. I think mentally refraining for several days did have the benefit of making me feel more in control of myself.

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saulbasedman · 2023-11-06T15:48:38+00:00

How do people actually work 40 hours a week? When I graduate there's no way I'm working anything more than 32 hours. I guess it's okay for normies who's have no interests beyond chugging beers and watching "the sports".

And no I'm not talking about people who can barely afford to live. Lots of people who are not that.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-06T15:47:03+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CyEh2TixsX9/?igshid=MTQwOGRkcG9jMWQxdQ==

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T15:42:12+00:00

I honestly love apes today we blew bubbles in class as a lab bc we were learning about r and k selection

Keeenw · 2023-11-06T15:41:41+00:00

This girl actually has a funny profile. Gigachad only though.

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Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-06T15:41:13+00:00

even if you sleep around with 100 women if you marry a "h*e" ur still a cuck. the only way to not be a cuck is to not marry a "h*e" but thats blackpill content so *ahem*

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-06T13:33:42+00:00

You can give incels a list of things they need to do to get sex and/or relationships, and they’ll maybe check off one or two things and come back saying they did EVERYTHING and NONE OF IT WORKS, and wonder why everyone else is so tired of hearing them whine about it

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-06T15:19:33+00:00

People here who claim that they tried to help incels are so full of shit. Fuck off, you don't give a shit about them, stop acting like you wanna help. I've seen you morons here say (especially the ones that have partners currently) that you come here because it's entertaining to see others at bad positions. If you really hate seeing men here whine then stop flocking to spaces where you'll see it. Again, if it really bothers you like you claim it does.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-06T08:00:54+00:00

Would you rather be stranded on a remote island for 2 weeks with 5 people of the same or opposite sex? (Vote separated by gender) : WouldYouRather (reddit.com)

Read the comments. "haha men bad" Soyboy pickme men are socially conditioned to hate their own gender for social approval.

Meanwhile reality:

Tongan castaways - Wikipedia

and because certain women in here love using reality shows as a basis for reality, here's one:

Survival: Men vs Women - YouTube

ratboi34 · 2023-11-06T15:12:57+00:00

Saw a video on tiktok recently of a woman during her wedding ceremony with her shorter husband. She probably thought the feedback will be very positive, but the chicks in her comments roasted her for marrying a shorter guy and her husband for being a manlet so bad, that she was crying in her next video and telling people to be nice lmao.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-07T02:09:39+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17p7krd/i_22f_was_approached_by_a_man_around_the_same_age/

Jesus Christ, Redditor women are the absolute worst. Dude tried to make friendly conversation with her and she just completely shit down this man's throat. I hope I never meet a female like this in the wild.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-06T07:17:56+00:00

Imagine when you die you spawn in a movie theater with all your ancestors and the only entertainment you have is to watch live streams through the eyes of your descendants and you just see one guy jerking off, failing to get any bitches, and the movie ends.

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-06T12:28:08+00:00

saying "not all women" when 99% of women do something its just dumb. ok sure not technically "ALL"

throwaway164_3 · 2023-11-06T23:46:35+00:00

Mods are extremely power drunk in this subreddit

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-06T12:27:45+00:00

What level of delusion is it to think traditional women marry random expats.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-07T01:42:24+00:00

I'm not sure bluepillers realize just how dishonest their ideology is. "JUST BE NICE!!" "TREAT HER LIKE A HUMAN" Yeah nobody has ever tried that before.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-07T02:12:59+00:00

Secretly, I want to be dominated by a cute feminist in bed 🤫

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T02:42:15+00:00

Good night

scwizard · 2023-11-06T07:17:41+00:00

I never sold my body. I rented it. I should have had a better application process and been way more strict about the terms, but the act of renting itself wasn't the real problem. I've sort of gotten past 'forgiving myself' for that act. It was the choices and context around it that I regret, and that I've changed and resolved -- like you have.

I wonder how common it is for girls to have done sex work when they were younger and try and pretend like it never happened.

scwizard · 2023-11-06T07:24:40+00:00

I think what is hard is one of the reasons he cheated and broke up with me was because he 'was going to be famous' and would boast about making millions from this band and they are definitely heading that way. Stopping him from being able to enter America could really stop that in his tracks. 200 million streams atm and about to be booked for Coachella

The worst part about women dating band chads who talk all the time about how they're going to make it big, is that on the off chance they do actually make it big the girlfriend gets left behind.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-06T11:00:05+00:00

Far too many people here (on both sides) pretend to be rational and data driven when they're just not.

Having a notes app page of go to study links is not being data driven if they only reflect your desired conclusion, ignoring all the ones that don't. You haven't found the "ultimate" truth if you cling onto the golden ones that support your beliefs, regardless of how old the studies are, then proceed to ignore all the countless studies that have been conducted since that don't support your beliefs.

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-06T12:18:15+00:00

the problem with the dating market is that it allows women to easily have a "hoe" phase where as its almost impossible for men to have a "hoe" phase especially without lying and manipulation.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-06T20:35:46+00:00

Men here keep saying that society will collapse if women don't have sex with ugly men.

For arguments sake, lets assume that's true. Who is at fault for the collapse of society? Women or men?

Some men will blame women. I blame men for turning into terrorists.

To be honest though, I don't think sexless men are going to destroy society. They have no power, that's partly why they're sexless, and they aren't friends with each other so they won't be able to work as group

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-06T20:38:18+00:00

Sexless men want to believe they can take the world hostage and threaten to destroy it if women don't have sex with them

ilovesoundtracks1 · 2023-11-06T21:22:02+00:00

Actual evil in the world: Most governments, banks, pedophiles, sex traffickers, child traffickers, rapists, murderers, warlords etc.
Who Women/BPers on reddit think are evil: virgin men.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-06T21:42:24+00:00

It is done 😌

https://imgur.com/a/Nyjq6h4

WestCombSplit · 2023-11-06T22:59:22+00:00

Let's be honest, if Leonardo DiCaprio was a heterosexual female he'd/she'd be a feminist icon. Unmarried, childless and fucking and chucking a bunch of 25 year old models. There'd be a whole army screaming "YASSS QWEEEN"

Even if you dislike DiCaprio and think his dating tendencies are immoral, you gotta be objective enough to recognise that it's the truth

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-06T23:03:40+00:00

"Toxic masculinity" will never die, because ultimately women will always choose a toxic asshole over a boring nice guy.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-06T08:03:49+00:00

All this talk of "I'm a changed person now because I don't do X thing I used to". Well you're already tainted forever and most people can't change on a deep level. Oh, you changed your behavior or habits. But the part of you that got you into doing those habits stays the same.

You cannot change who you are in any fundamental or significant way. Whatever "bad" thing you did that you don't do anymore, you still have the propensity to do something else that's equally bad or worse. And because you did x bad act before, you've already proven you're capable of doing bad things.

My opinion is very unpopular but in life I tried to be forgiving only to be burned again every single time. It doesn't matter how much someone protsrates themselves, self flagelates, or tries to make amends.

The only meaningful change you make is to get worse. But that's only revealing you were always capable of doing bad stuff, you just didn't get the opportunity.

Also, I cannot state this enough: your intentions don't matter.

I apply this logic to myself as well. I do not believe in forgiveness or being forgiven. Most people (including me) are condemned to repeating the same mistakes forever. That's my hot take.

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-06T12:36:26+00:00

within the context of marriage all premarital sex is casual. People especially women always say "i dont have casual sex" unless ur waiting til marriage you've had casual sex.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-06T14:38:50+00:00

Just put yourself out there and ask out your looksmatch. She’ll appreciate your confidence!

https://youtu.be/BAomN00kHpI?si=fmYaiz9YhVf0rYOt

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-06T15:17:34+00:00

Like why is it the people who talk the biggest shit about involuntarily introverted men are always

Women who have no idea what it's like to be a man.
Older middle or upper-class men who were already dating pre-dating apps and are already married.

You will never see a young male blue pill advocate here.

Keeenw · 2023-11-06T15:20:53+00:00

Went walking in the city. Could not make eyecontact with one girl because they all looked away when passing me.

“Just wait for a girl to give you ioi’s bro”

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-06T15:27:21+00:00

You know who was affected the most from the invention of onlyfans?

Old rich men

You used to be able to have an 18 year old gf as an 70 year old man for like 10k a month. Now that she can make that on onlyfans, the poor old men have been priced out of the market.

antisplatter · 2023-11-06T21:48:25+00:00

online dating works for 100% of women and 20% of men. Therefore, online dating works for most people.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-07T00:38:48+00:00

Why is the assumption that everyone who is partnered up had to do no work whatsoever to secure the relationship?

leosandlattes · 2023-11-07T06:40:57+00:00

Everyone - men and women - please use this comment to tell us something about your beautiful relationships! Please share your loveliest dates, memories, or things you love about your partner :)

I make handcrafted cards for my man (birthdays, holidays, sometimes just because), and I recently found out he keeps them in a box on a shelf in his home office 🥺 It’s labeled with a heart too. I dunno why, I just thought he either tossed them or shoved them in a closet somewhere.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-07T06:42:08+00:00

Don’t be insecure bro

happy_discus · 2023-11-06T08:24:59+00:00

If a girl told you she won't date a boney Slenderman, what would your takeaway from this conversation.

Secondly would it be rude to stop interacting with her, even if nothing else noteworthy happened.

(I am not romantically interested in her. It still felt like a rude comment.)

nexkell · 2023-11-06T10:41:37+00:00

Looks like another TERF sub in the making.

Keeenw · 2023-11-06T11:38:29+00:00

Women get inflated egos because of their success on dating apps but they don’t realize even the most subhuman woman gets plenty of matches. Men’s swiping strategy is to swipe right on everything.

If women would do more research; compare their results to that of other women they would realize these matches bear no relation to their own desirability/looks league.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-06T13:27:42+00:00

PPD Men: Women dont think personal responsibility applies to them.

Also PPD Men: I want free paternity tests because I think my habit of fucking whores should be the government’s problem.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-06T13:41:52+00:00

School lunch sucked and I lived in the suburbs, so I could only imagine what garbage they were feeding the kids in the ghetto

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-11-06T20:35:07+00:00

Subreddits like r/MenAndFemales show women really have nothing better to do than complain

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-11-06T20:35:26+00:00

It’s tough to keep a lid on my PPD fightin’ words while I’m on my alt account.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-06T21:25:58+00:00

What happened to that freak gimpgirl?

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-06T22:08:04+00:00

Q4W: what dick size is big according to you and what is small?

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-06T23:14:49+00:00

Why do women at the gym almost dress like they are going to the beach ? Are the tiny shorts and sportsbra really that more functional ?

SianOiseau · 2023-11-06T23:56:25+00:00

I’ve seen a few discussions here dismissing women for leaving relationships because they’re unhappy

Often men in these relationships are fairly content and they view women breaking up/divorcing as her destroying perfectly fine relationship...of course, her view doesn't matter here.
A lot of men believe women should be more interested in keeping relationship/marriage afloat.
A lot of men still believe that them bringing the check qualifies for putting all the efforts needed in relationships.
Some people believe marriage isn't about happiness, but it's a contract/dedication. So your unhappiness isn't a good reason to break things up.
A pattern of breaking up due to unhappiness can show some underlying issues a person has that they should address. It can be trauma, insecure attachment style or just not being cut out for LTRs. It sucks to be on the other side of it.
Relationships do require work and dedication. There most likely will be some moments when you're unhappy with your partner or with yourself and we just have to deal with it. It becomes a problem when the ratio gets skewed towards "mostly unhappy".

Willow-girl · 2023-11-07T01:13:18+00:00

Got my hands cut today! I had thought it was gonna be last Friday but that was just a getting-to-know-you appointment with the surgeon. Nice guy -- he let me look at the hole in one of my palms and watch the tendon move when I made a fist! That was cool.

We were joking around in the OR ... I made him promise I wouldn't wake up in a bathtub full of ice with a missing kidney. And just before he cut into me, I asked, "Um ... you have done this before, right?"

He had the stereo on pretty loud and was humming along to "Mary Jane's Last Dance" ... I said, "If my name was Mary Jane, I'd be getting pretty nervous right now ..."

My hands hurt like heck when the numbness wore off, but some Excedrin and icepacks have rendered the pain tolerable ... though I can see why the doc discouraged me from getting them both done at once, They don't really flex, so how I will wipe my ass in upcoming days remains a great mystery ...

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-07T01:47:59+00:00

It's so weird how many girls my age exist but getting on regular speaking terms with them is basically impossible.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-07T02:15:42+00:00

Ever since this recent crap with Israel and WWIII looming on the horizon, my trajectory in life as changed. All I'm saying is I got plans to go back to Iran >:)

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-07T02:17:57+00:00

people are passionate about the flairs

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17pdn33/an_appeal/

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T03:02:09+00:00

Guys i think i have a stye bc my eye has been hurting and now theres like a tiny bump idk what i did

macone235 · 2023-11-07T03:53:37+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/17pbhrv/most_people_dont_know_how_beautiful_they_are/

Blue pill rhetoric makes me want to throw up sometimes.

FineDevelopment00 · 2023-11-06T07:01:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/17oisdi/reddit_what_is_the_stupidest_thing_youve_heard/

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-06T07:34:12+00:00

Online dating sucks even for good looking chads. You pretty much have to be rich and tall in addition to looks to get a good amount of matches.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-06T09:25:42+00:00

What does it mean if the ugly girls reject you but the cute girls like you?

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-06T10:57:45+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/s/ikJ8oHxBxC

We got the chad without chad face.

Sillysheila · 2023-11-06T11:20:23+00:00

QFall trying to get a sense of how many people with autism there are here: do you have or suspect you have autism and how long ago were you diagnosed (if applicable)?

I was diagnosed when I was like three.

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-06T12:14:33+00:00

women r much quicker to have casual sex with who they dont like than who they do like and expect there to be no problem

Workaholiconew · 2023-11-06T12:21:55+00:00

You cannot change others, only yourself.

Some people forget that.

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-06T12:26:37+00:00

Curious, is there a term for when you act friendly towards a woman you're not attracted to, taking an interest in her hobbies/activities because they seem cool, and she thinks you're trying to get with her? Like reverse friendzone?

Keeenw · 2023-11-06T12:55:37+00:00

Everytime I go to the metropolitan city centre I see women randomly getting approached during the day; especially in coffeeshops or pubs. Is it like a social rule that it’s OK to approach women in coffeeshops ?

hannahg000 · 2023-11-06T13:03:06+00:00

no offense but threesomes are gross. my boyfriend/husband is mine and doesn’t get to touch other women. i don’t even want him to look at other women but that’s a little hard to control

Remote-Narwhal-2471 · 2023-11-06T14:27:49+00:00

What country is the best to find a wife to make women on ppd shout "You can't, it's exploitation of poor uneducated women "?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-06T14:45:43+00:00

Be kind, be funny, be attentive, dress nice and have nice clothes habibi

Bandit174 · 2023-11-06T15:00:55+00:00

Ugh there's a new hire joining our team today and we're having an ice breaker type get to know eachother meeting. Please kill me 😫

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-06T15:38:08+00:00

the women here and the women in the west in general are moral deficient CMV

Basic-Seesaw-3533 · 2023-11-06T15:38:23+00:00

morally deficient people should not have a say in politics CMV

kkohl98 · 2023-11-06T20:38:44+00:00

Has anyone else heard of 'At our Wits Ends' or Edward Dutton? I just finished reading a couple of his books. They are pretty depressing if what is stated in the book is true.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-06T20:48:50+00:00

Just a reminder that Shortcels and Fat Activists are just as terrible as the people they complain about. They’re just not hot enough to make shallow people put up with their foul personality.

Shortcels and Fat activists always whine about living in a shallow looks-obsessed society, but when you look past their looks, they’re part of the problem: Shallow, entitled, selfish, clearly cares about looks when it comes to the opposite gender.

Fat activists are mad that men would rather simp for skinny bitches than fat bitches. Shortcels are mad that Stacies fuck tall assholes over short assholes.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-06T21:10:05+00:00

Why do some people think that telling incels to go trans is a good idea? What the fuck are they thinking lol. I don't understand it

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-06T21:16:52+00:00

I really hope I can get some results from when I go to therapy. People say therapy is worthless and doesn't really work so I'm a bit scared. I've been struggling so much, I just wanna get better. I have to flap my hands and rock my body when I'm trying to sleep because I just get so overwhelmed with my trauma and thoughts. I hate doing this nearly every day.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-06T21:28:09+00:00

TMI moment:

If the virgin looking guy I like happens to be a virgin it's fine

my worst fear is that he has a micropenis, I'm not saying average, average is fine, micropenis is not. Whenever I like someone I'm always scared about that.

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T21:46:41+00:00

I take back what i said its actually a huge 1000000000% ick and red flag if a guy watches sports

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-06T22:07:40+00:00

People who have virgin friends or friends who have zero dating experience in general, do they judge their friends for having this status? Like, seeing them in a different light after finding out or trying to figure out why they're in that position? Idk, I feel like I give off the energy that I never had anyone into me and that's it's obvious. There's no way my friends don't have an opinion about it.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-06T22:33:39+00:00

Why do men sleep so much

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-06T22:36:42+00:00

God, that new rule about the flair is so stupid.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-06T22:41:39+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7rgXgANHrhk

Honestly the reason why content creators like these blow up so fast is because they tap into the lived experiences of too many people who went through the same. And I say that as someone who's experiences are able to differ quite a lot but have the theory of mind to understand how it could be like that. So stuff like this is never confusing at all.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-06T22:50:44+00:00

Q4W: How well did you do in school? Does being a teacher make a man less attractive?

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-06T22:57:09+00:00

Add AdviceToTeens to the list of subreddits to avoid. Seeing teenagers talk about their relationships is triggering. And it's like half of the posts there that are centered around relationships. That nonsense that most teenagers don't date is such bullshit.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-06T23:03:53+00:00

How do I pick up women from Valorant games?

How tf do people even e-date on Discord or twitter. I found all my online friends on games that had specific servers that we gathered in, not a random game.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-06T23:12:13+00:00

Are there people in this sub that you would actually date?

saulbasedman · 2023-11-07T00:18:12+00:00

My mum once said I look like young Leonardo diCaprio. I think I'm chad guys

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T00:21:24+00:00

I honestly love miles morales SO much to the point where it literally hurts that he isnt real, Like atsv is on netflix now but i cant even watch it yet bc miles isnt real it breaks my heart

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-07T00:52:32+00:00

You started this war, plunged Skyrim into chaos, and now the Empire is going to put you down, and restore the peace.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-07T00:54:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/17pa2hx/how_is_that_obesity/

I wouldn't call the woman in the picture "obese" but that belly is definitely NOT attractive. Visible bellies are never attractive, period. I swear Reddit is full of delusional chicks and their simp orbiters.

Dizzirron · 2023-11-07T01:05:08+00:00

This sub is a decade old, and archives are showing me that the debates here are way more emotion based and less thought out nowadays.

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-07T01:08:40+00:00

trying to get back into writing and drawing because i've been putting too much energy into this shit. procrastination is killing me though. at least i have a three day weekend coming up

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-07T01:38:31+00:00

the ppd award for the most unhinged post of the day goes to

The demonization and disrespect of men may be an even bigger issue than dating apps and social media

not only op but the people engaging in the comments

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-07T03:46:19+00:00

Meanwhile a new bro has moved into the vacant apartment on my floor. He’s only here for a couple of months but he seems very nice…He’s young & Irish, probably too young to really be friends with but we invited him down for a drink once he’s settled in. Chad’s former penthouse remains vacant but my landlord said he showed it to an older American couple yesterday. What?!? An actual older couple (like us)?!? They didn’t rent the place but he got their contact info for me since I’ve been practically begging him to find some woman tenants.
My burgeoning social life possibilities are making me so happy!

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-07T04:47:47+00:00

Homer Won’t Strangle Bart Anymore On The Simpsons - IGN The Fix: Entertainment

"See Marge, strangling the boy has payed off. Just kidding, I don't do that anymore, times have changed"

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-07T04:56:52+00:00

Made a bumble today and went on my first bumble date and honestly liked him a lot so I’m gonna delete and consider bumble a 100% success rate

saraimarsena · 2023-11-07T06:12:45+00:00

being on vacation with my boyfriend feels like an extended best date ever. our first vacation together has been incredible 🥹

i really hope we’re able to make this happen every year or so from on into the future, even when we have kids.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-07T06:36:46+00:00

Imagine having someone find you attractive or atleast wanna date you, couldn't be me lol

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DerayRevan · 2023-11-06T07:39:07+00:00

"Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women"

True but it gives you a massive advantage you can rely on especially at social gatherings where you don't have a social circle

Keeenw · 2023-11-06T09:39:57+00:00

Men of the West find yourself a traditional woman abroad. Modern western women are a pain in the ass for relationships.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-06T09:50:08+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/comments/17lgllw/i_will_be_turning_42_in_a_month_never_had_a/

Do you believe his story? Seems fake to me or there is something he isn't telling

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T11:32:49+00:00

Its finallt bright outside at 6am

MyWifePomni · 2023-11-06T12:20:43+00:00

The ideal N-count is zero and you can't convince me otherwise.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-11-06T12:50:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/cringe/comments/17orbfd/the_worst_job_interview_ever/

Reminder this guy was married for like 5 years.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-06T14:18:11+00:00

DAY 6 GIVE IT UP FOR DAY 6 EVERYONE

https://preview.redd.it/09dehbdmkqyb1.png?width=623&format=png&auto=webp&s=2c66af0e8ed25c323589cd7f5d2021f3ddd93e4d

DerayRevan · 2023-11-06T14:27:47+00:00

"no offense but threesomes are gross"

Yup, which is why my threesomes were always me and two women. It's always the best thing when it's you and two pretty faces. Man l love this hoes 😫

scwizard · 2023-11-06T14:39:25+00:00

toxic ppl be like:

"Yea the bombs been planted... i mean u could go defuse it or something.... i dont really mind... its up to you.... and im not gonna tell you Bombsite A or B cuz you should have remembered if you even cared"

DerayRevan · 2023-11-06T14:54:33+00:00

"The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill"

I've no problem paying since l don't even do dinner dates but just drinks, that's by my go-to since l started dating

And if she has a problem with that, that's how l filter them out

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-11-06T15:12:23+00:00

What's this subs theme song? My vote is people are strange.

raaphs · 2023-11-06T15:28:27+00:00

How do i get a flair here?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-06T15:32:15+00:00

Do you think it's 100% possible to avoid that your son will become incel? Or say differently, how responsible are parents of incels?

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T15:42:22+00:00

Idk what a derivative is

afk_row · 2023-11-06T20:33:32+00:00

Q4All what’s emotionally cheating?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-06T21:03:34+00:00

Unpopular opinion: Bro, having multiple partners is a scam for both men and women.

grillopie · 2023-11-06T21:17:49+00:00

How are you anticipating the feelings of romance and “spark” will change, if at all, over time?

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T21:19:43+00:00

I hate my dad bossing me around Im not getting married. Ever

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T21:20:10+00:00

Im the type of person where the more u tell me to do something the more I dont want to do it

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-06T21:32:43+00:00

Men here seem to be upset by women's selectivity. I'm not upset. Women being selective actually means that there are more women available, you just need to be hot

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T21:49:06+00:00

Green flags

Loves animals/kids

Sweet

Doesnt watch p

Not hyper sexual

Likes YOU and not what you can do for them

Smiles a lot

Friendly

princedune · 2023-11-06T21:55:07+00:00

Q4W: Big dick guy who doesn't know how to use it, or small dick guy who is good at sex

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-06T22:20:27+00:00

Beta or Chad: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Évariste_Galois

Pros: Political revolutionary, invented a field of math, fought in a duel Cons: Dies at 20, rejected from university, his friendzone girl friend wouldnt even call her dad the physician if he was bleeding out at the park from a musket wound.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-06T22:25:10+00:00

I want a petite cute feminine girl as a girlfriend

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-06T22:33:10+00:00

thoughts on mgtow cause I am so mgtow. mgtow ftw

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-06T22:39:17+00:00

Was at the grocery store and walking up to the check out and there was a guy that definitely looked like a Chad. Looked like Zyzz actually if anyone remembers him. I thought for sure this guy was going to mog me (he did, no competition) but when I got up close we were the same height. I am an honest 5'9 (5'9.3 to be exact) and there were a couple things that went through my mind.

One is that I regret terribly how out of control I let my body get and even when I lose this weight I will still have loose skin so I will never get to know what my true potential could have been and all the potential I had was wasted by sloth and gluttony.

The second is that his proportions made him look 6', he had a shorter torso and longer legs where as I am cursed with having a long torso and short legs. He had to be around 5'9 but because of his build and genetics, he had that sleek and lean look.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-06T23:03:29+00:00

https://www.vladtv.com/article/300885/larsa-pippen-reacts-to-cardi-b-calling-cap-on-details-of-her-marriage-with

4 times a night every night is outrageous though.

monster_lily · 2023-11-06T23:04:25+00:00

How do i BEG my teacher to bump my grade up it ends in 9? See the thing is that hes already he added 5 points to my test because i did a connect the dots puzzle for extra credit Lmaoo and did other stuff to increase my grade but it still hasnt gone up a letter, i just dont like taking advantage of ppl but this is literally life or death

Peacesquad · 2023-11-06T23:32:02+00:00

Who would date me?

ratboi34 · 2023-11-06T23:33:08+00:00

I just found some evidence that proofs my observations on womens age and scent.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-06T23:33:10+00:00

The "be stoic", "be outcome independent", "stop caring" advice that people give men doesn't make sense to me.

The whole point is to succeed at something you care about. If you become stoic and stop caring about dating women, then even if you are successful it won't be enjoyable because you ceased to care about it. You want to care about it because that makes the goal and experience worthwhile.

Life is rigged as a man because of this. Women can desire men and have that desire fulfilled. She has the pleasure of the getting what she desires. If a man desires women badly, he won't get women. But if he stops desiring women badly and is able to get women, he doesn't get the pleasure of it anymore because he became stoic and stopped desiring them badly.

The blue pill/normie/mainstream advice to stop caring or become stoic is dumb. You have to care because the whole point is to succeed at something you care about.

Keeenw · 2023-11-06T23:46:55+00:00

If you had to pick one gender as the most shallow one without thinking : males or females ?

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-07T00:21:48+00:00

I just shaved off all my pp hair (was bored). Not having hair down there revealed just how dark it was compared to everywhere else.

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T00:22:21+00:00

I am a failureee

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-07T00:51:34+00:00

Finally went to see Killers of the Flower Moon last night. Watching Leonardo DiCaprio grimace for 3 hours straight actually made my face hurt. Also how did intuitive & smart Molly end up with him??? He was dumb as a rock, easily manipulated to do terrible things & completely untrustworthy.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-07T00:52:01+00:00

I hate most desirables. With their stupid egos they cast out on people like me because they could get into relationships. Thinking that they're better than me.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-07T01:30:05+00:00

I miss dakru. I can't remember the brief conversation we had like years ago but he was a really smart guy.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-11-07T02:13:53+00:00

I really dislike gender-based affirmative action because:

Poverty isn't carried through chromosomes like it is through ethnicity.

At least with race there's a generational poverty aspect to address.

\2. It's inconsistently applied.

No one bemoans the lack of male sociologists, but everyone hates the fact that men excel at software engineering.

It's funny too because women outpace men so hard in college admissions. Lol but they somehow choose to study useless shit at far greater rates?

Fucking paradox of the century here. I think the Supreme Court overturned the wrong AA.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-07T02:51:59+00:00

I'm losing weight so fast. I AM FINALLY IN CONTROL

afk_row · 2023-11-07T03:01:31+00:00

Imagine thinking you’re safe at iran 😂

scwizard · 2023-11-07T04:01:46+00:00

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/dec/08/sexual-choking-is-now-so-common-that-many-young-people-dont-think-it-even-requires-consent-thats-a-problem

What the fuck?

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-07T05:11:28+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/of3fr4o20vyb1.jpeg?width=749&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17cbb7b322335b6c05b7aa1a461b7b51be6c8c3b

God damn I’ve had bumble for less than 8 hours. Madness

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-06T13:41:39+00:00

It really is hilarious that people will go to extra effort to downvote your comments on this sub

Like yeah it's just another 2 clicks but it's still funny

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